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| 2 | Divorce Laws are Mostly Unfair to Women, Actually.There's the other chick that knows 200 rapists, 50 of them confessed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | What's something that you respect or agree with about the other side's argument/position?We had this thread already? There's nothing to agree on blue pill, as blue pill is nothing but antagonism to all which is red pill understanding and all red pill understanding is right as far as I can tell and in the aspects that I cared about. Feminism nailed some shit right years ago. Maybe even lots of shit. But it hadn't scored in a while. One such thing I agreed is that women should be encouraged to take chances as men are and not to praise risk aversion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 06:26 PM |
| 6 | Divorce Laws are Mostly Unfair to Women, Actually.Is your point: "Women have desires of motherhood and need men to fulfill them, but have no guarantees that these desires will be properly fulfilled by the men they happen to pick. The divorce laws are unfair to women because they don't take enough of men to manage to give them this guarantee and even if they did there'd still be some chance that the men wouldn't be able to provide such guarantees, which means the world is unfair to women itself." ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,Thank for the bait, but I'm really not up to make the same argument twice. If you feel like it, it's been developed with PennnyLame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Divorce Laws are Mostly Unfair to Women, Actually.Those poor, poor women. When artificial wombs are a thing we might find a way to end their misery all together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Reddit hates /r/TRP because it's filled with nerds. Not because of misogyny .Not quite. Reddit doesn't hate nerds, otherwise the many other nerdy subs would get hatred. Reddit hates nerds that don't willingly mark themselves out of the gene pool or want to do things they don't believe nerds should do. Which is basically how things are all around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 04:41 PM |
| 1 | What opinions (if any) you had have changed due to this sub?I feel guilty for laughing at this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,Dichotomy: a division or contrast between two things that are or are represented as being opposed or entirely different. I honestly didn't know two non opposing and yet different things made up dichotomies. I'll try to keep that in mind and try not to call every set of two things dichotomous whenever I'm speaking english. I think there is a 3rd option: Hasn't your third option fitted as a special case of the other two? Complacency lies on the first bit, one can be happy on the second alone, desp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 04:30 PM |
| 0 | What opinions (if any) you had have changed due to this sub?For serious, it's VERY HARD not do hate people people-ing around if you don't expect something out of them. When it comes to women womaning we usually smell pussy to help us going through, here the smell isn't strong. When it comes to debates and discussions, deriving your drive from expectations about people is THOROUGHLY disappointing. I suppose if you add this disappointment with the lack of perspective of sex it's hard to avoid a little bit of hatred. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?I suppose she's a rather uninteresting character to be in a movie, unless it's a comic relief about all those cats. But yep, you'll see people going their way and not whining all around, it's just the whining that bugs us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Women demand marriage but realistically how many women can make a marriage workOn which aspects? The numbers around women: I know some happy couples and only one RP hard mode guy. The guess with 5% came from women I dated, the others from some many couples. 5% might be overly optimistic, my relationship has been exclusive for eight months and I'm counting her. I'm yet to know how she'll react to attraction fading, but I guess dread will have that covered for a while even if I don't bother doing it. Neither sex bother about the other sex's expectations? Well, AWALT and AMAL… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?But many wgtow types seem to operate just fine by not playing. This is a remarkably interesting point. I guess these wgtow you refer as well adjusted are overly represented in media as strong and independent, and most importantly, they don't wear that label. Their mgtow counterparts also don't wear the label and also don't whine. The counterparts to the mgtow are the "where are all the good men" women, people complaining the game is rigged and they never had a chance to win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,How am I creating a dichotomy if I said both things are into play? Two factors, one plays a bigger role, one a minor. If the first one plays a bigger role we'll call it "scarcity", if the second one plays a bigger role we'll probably call it oneitus but whatever, I'm even conceding it's cute. Why don't you, instead of accusing me of being mean or purposefully speaking ill of "love", point to some factor that is not precisely described by one of those two? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,I like this girl and she likes me And then we fuck. We are happy whoops we’ve been together a while Two things in play: "whoops I got complacent and now less willing to open new women" "she's good enough for me to rather spend time with her than others / forfeit others so she won't leave" Both things are always in play. One plays a bigger role, we all cheer for the second one. I love her now And we'll keep like this. I'm just not being romantic. However you believe this goes, it also goes like t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 12:54 PM |
| 3 | What opinions (if any) you had have changed due to this sub?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8ih23a/q4all_what_would_you_do_if_you_were_already_in_a/dyrof6j/ It might be disappointing, it's short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?I agree to most of it, but this bit. there are only so many times the heart can be broken. I’ve seen a few women go one and done. Women and men can fix that crap. Any woman or any man WILL let time fix it if a loving and persistent person offers patience, effort and investment. Although this person is one of remarkable stupidity, many men and some women will act like this. And I've seen more than one woman that was PROUDLY "bitter, wounded, scarred, cynical and skeptical" change it in a week bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 12:30 PM |
| 6 | What opinions (if any) you had have changed due to this sub?I was skeptical of working long term relationships, I assumed women in them sucked as much as my ex and guys were very frustrated as much as I was. RP's praxeology for women provides an explanation for it and it seemed fitting. /u/philomexa made a comment that stressed out how aversion to change might play favorably to long term relationships and might play a sizeable role in causing women to willingly suppress their hypergamy. It also caused me to assess how big this role could be in men suppre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Women demand marriage but realistically how many women can make a marriage workI have a somewhat developed idea that under 5% of women have the mental mindset to be happy and make their partners happy in a relationship that isn't led under a "RP hard mode" mindset, although they'd also be happy in one led like that. A bit over half of women (going to say 65%) will only be happy in a relationship led like that, and maybe as much as a third (going with 30%) won't be happy is long lasting relationships, they need to fulfill their hypergamous drive once in a while to manage to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?All people. She's just smarter when it comes to "immediate". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?Cool, that's a 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?Romantic love and commitment are usually available in limited quantities for both sexes. Why in limited quantities? Rather in limited rates, no? Same for pussy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,Define "care about". It's either the first or the second, there's no third. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,Take a look (way up) there. You're the second on the original description, dismissing it all for a great girl. There aren't other descriptions though, those are the two ones that account for our polygamy and it's so natural you won't even question them and say there's a third. Women have a hard time grasping that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,I'm not describing love, I'm describing people, and I'm not even dismissing love. I'm dismissing disney. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,AMALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 11:47 AM |
| 0 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,Nah. You know, describing one or another sexual strategy with unflattering wording is bound to sound bad. We do it with female's strategy but there's no reason not to do it with male's as well. I suppose you'll disagree with men being polygamous, because if we are the isn't a lot of ways to escape those two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?Unfortunately most women have a different mindset. Basically it seems most women believe that in a committed relationship, bonding, heart, is a given, so they end up trading the body for commitment to get the bonding. It works but when it fails, it fails terribly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?By the time this conversation was set to motion I already knew of some very desirable traits she had. Two played a major role, she wouldn't ever play dumb and aware of how hard relationships are she sought to be artificially uncomplicated instead of striving to be dramatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?She stated that she was risking getting hurt by insisting on dating me when she realized I was possibly dating other women. She didn't state her interest in a relationship, "just" sought a way to give me responsibility about some consequences. This conversation developed into our relationship. And her friends believe I "owned it up" (lack of a better translation) at that point because I feared that she would date other men. I assume she had something with at least one other person while we were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?I expected 1, 2 or 3. You said "relationships develop" and I'm trying to figure out how you believe people behave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:38 PM |
| 0 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,He has something to sell and offerings are getting higher and higher. Someone makes a high bid, but unlike an auctioning room, there's no limited amount of bidders and the eventual high bidder has no tool to threat him with the withdraw of the bid. If the high bidder withdraws, he just goes on to see how often high bids come along. Unless he's much older or way less attractive than you he had no reason to believe you're the best sex he could ever (still) get. In this case, either he accepted a l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?It's funny. My current LTR passively initiated it and takes as a point of pride and honor to state that I initiated it. Shit puts me as a bit of a scumbag and causes some of her friends to dislike and have some rather ill conclusions about me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,To quote /u/storffish men place higher value on casual sex than women. a guy who gets ass is giving up more by committing than a girl according to his own value system. But nerding it out. If you're such a better sex than his previous experiences, he should have been on the market a bit more unless he had some good reasons to believe you're an exceptional lay. I can't think of such reasons and I assume there aren't any, if you have to limit it to sex. In this case if he committed to you because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?(posted the other answer there and quoted you) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?My personal and my friends' experiences are SO far from that it comes with some surprise. The few times I asked different women about it I heard "you never say you don't want anything serious, that's the standard, you say you WANT something serious." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?Yep, but also the most vulnerable one and the one most prone to shelter themselves, making the whole thing more messy. To me it seems this is why there's a mess there to begin with, otherwise 3 would be perfect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?No! lol Precisely because sometimes they are to develop and sometimes aren't that there's the gray area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?Not offended by their intent, but by their need to state it despite the obviousness of your own intents. Something like "does he actually think I want a relationship with him and is condescending enough to warn me I might get hurt"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,So he's on the first line of AMALT, although I agree that's how most happy relationships are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?The perpetrators will be subject to ostracization, as the cheaters are. It's an extremely effective threat and tool. The "wise" thing to do is 3 but most folks act and expect 1 despite reckoning that. That's getting off the original trail and I'm risking miss the point with you while I talk to other folks about the question though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?That's not quite the bad spot to be there. Consider that all the people you had something with without you having further interests yourself randomly told you "I don't want anything else but this". Wouldn't it bother you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?So what happens is men act on 3 there? How do you think women act? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?3 is probably the best option for "should" and the underlying understanding for most people although most people expect to be treated as 1 or 2. The issue with 3 is that it basically burdens the most exposed part, the one with more expectations, to all the risk. Humans are risk averse, what you have is people shielding themselves and preventing bonding as much as they can or rushing with the question to later develop a bond or not, sometimes hurting their partner because of it. /u/whitetrashcarl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?I couldn't quite distill what's your standing. It seems you believe all relationships, however casual, are meant to develop into something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?I'm not quite sure. For some reasons I'm not exactly sure about some women seem to love having a man to call their own and a label of girlfriend, even when and despite having regular attention from many other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?Not quite. Shoulds and shouldn'ts make up right and wrong. Thieves will thief around, but if thieving around wasn't wrong, then we should all do it when it's advantageous to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Leading her on, stringing him along. How should the gray area be handled?(...) and you like them romantically, you should just ask them out or if they are interested. and If you fuck someone and you don't like them romantically, you should make this clear. The first one kind of dismisses the second and I understand that the second one prevents further damage for the other person. BUT it's not damage free. The overt stating of this disinterest has a knack to be hurtful to people in all circumstances while only on a few of them would get hurt by doing otherwise. So, un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,I wouldn't talk about yours. I'll talk about his. Then again that's me being RP talking to a BP. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,Not "men". Red pillers in general. It's no ironclad rule though. You still get a sensible amount of these women managing to be decent partners, mainly because all most men want is a wet hole to fuck without too much effort and not too much nagging. It's just a bad bet to make and generally worst, for us, than just nsa fucking the ones in their youth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,He did. :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,I'd say this is a variation of the first line, not second. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 10:33 PM |
| 6 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,You’re telling me he would have rather gotten rid of me and not be with me now. AMALT. One of two things happened: He was in scarcity and you were his way out of the hassle of dating and laying as many women as he'd like to; You offered something good enough for him to give up on meeting new women, accept the loss on the sexual fulfillment and commit to you. The first is far more common or most often plays a bigger role than the second and even if it is the second, at some point it has a knack t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Q4W : Why do you say that men who end up getting married to you after you've hd your "fun" are the lucky ones when men explicitly say they would hate it if it happens to the,It's not difficult to understand. As they grow older women start to believe having children is the reason to exist, and whatever leads to children becomes more desirable and strikes as more interesting. At this point it seems a bit alien that someone WANTS something different, that doesn't lead to a fitting environment for babies. It's either immature, if they associate it with their youthful behavior, or completely non sense if they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Q4Women: Why do women feel so entitled that they feel the need to shame men into approaching them?Yep. Women always wanted to have it both ways. Women want a man that "just gets it", he's experienced from all other relationships he had and all the other women made him appreciative of all her uniqueness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | LTR moving in with male friend roommate, how do you react?Lol. A LOT, and I mean, again, a LOT of guys are thoroughly paternal to some female friends. I don't think I used to see a lot of these while I was younger, most guys crushed on their friends every now and then, but I'd see it sometimes. Now I see a relevant number of functional men acting paternal and protective rather than having the hots. In such cases I'd only mind if the guy was attractive enough for her to want to game him. Otherwise I doubt these folks might make a case for a guy getting … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Is AWALT like Murphy's law?The numbers in percentage of women are slightly exaggerated, more than 0.1% of women have some sort of mental syndrome that makes them act otherwise, but you DEFINITELY don't want to meddle with them. ALL, 100%, of neurotypical women are like that. The numbers that describe the circumstances in which the potential to fuck you will manifest are also exaggerated, but it's hard to say how much. Given that you are not passive, most times most women will have a sensible resistance against screwing yo… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 04:47 PM |
| 2 | LTR moving in with male friend roommate, how do you react?Highly sensitive to the context, I'd need more details. The answer reaches from "hard next" to "you're worrying for no reason". | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | To what extent are women responsible for keeping traditional forms of masculinity alive?It's upsetting that the only unfeasible thing there is free energy. Maybe its been done but his wife nagged him about giving it freely, divorce raped him and now chad is using the prototype as a grill somewhere while good ol'scientist is working his arse off in IT to pay for the steaks they eat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 04:33 PM |
| 0 | When women settle the marriage failsmmmm. If all working solutions to marriage that haven't been portrayed by Disney are failures, then those are indeed all failures. Disney didn't stay all the time with the characters though. At some point Jasmine saw a young and free boy while Alladin had been on a bad mood due to having to handle some taxation policy he had no idea how to solve. The boy greeted Jasmine and she thought for a brief moment, "only if...", and she had to push the thought away, but thinking on other things made her t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 04:23 PM |
| 4 | To what extent are women responsible for keeping traditional forms of masculinity alive?Do they sound like exaggerations? It's basically the logic behind claiming women aren't responsible for however men behave in courtship. What women do, women do for themselves and its consequences, however obvious and natural, are not to be blamed on them, and if it hurts women, the society is to change as a whole to protect the women. What men do is done to women and whenever it hurts women, men's goals and welfare is to be ignored and they're to be judged for the women they hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 04:15 PM |
| 3 | To what extent are women responsible for keeping traditional forms of masculinity alive?Having been born with a cock I do not get to determine what it means or not, I just have to take the broadest concept possible. Which also causes me to use this standing, which I admit has its appeal. It's easier to embrace that I'll always be sexist than to tackle the likely impossible task of passing through all feminist's checklists for men. Anyway, you'll just get called unfeminist too. And yeah, up to the second wave it made some sense, but it's only the third one that makes some noise now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | When women settle the marriage failsany women who doesn't get a high smv & rmv man is settling. and the marriage will fail when they settle . I see two issues worth pointing out here that falsify the claim. 1 - What is "failed marriage"? Option 1 might not make a failed marriage. Men will develop a paternal instinct upon their children, seek to protect and provide (for the children, not necessarily the wife) them in almost all situations. Women might simply suck it up their partner's philandering. You probably have it happening of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | When women settle the marriage failsI guess maybe make the edit there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 02:13 PM |
| 2 | When women settle the marriage failsWhat is the view we should be challenging? The post doesn't quite endorse the title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 02:06 PM |
| 9 | To what extent are women responsible for keeping traditional forms of masculinity alive?Well, you don't get the underlying workings of things. Suppose a man creates a machine that provides free and clean energy and gives this technology freely to the world. The women in Oil industry will lose their jobs and this man will always be a sexist for ignoring what would happen to those women. His success will always be regarded as having been on the expense of sacrificing those women and ignoring their needs and wills. Now suppose a woman develops a habit of throwing bricks over her shoul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 02:02 PM |
| 9 | To what extent are women responsible for keeping traditional forms of masculinity alive?To what extent are women responsible for keeping traditional forms of masculinity alive? To all extents? It couldn't be otherwise, could it? If women weren't as liberated as they are (gooooooo feminism) they'd have to settle lower as they'd need to both rely on men and marry early. To some extent I always blamed the wording "toxic masculinity" on women that wanted to live their sexuality to the fullest but were stuck with the Disney idea of men's sexuality and couldn't do anything but to shame i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 01:56 PM |
| 6 | To what extent are women responsible for keeping traditional forms of masculinity alive?You don't get to tell women what they should or should not find desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What common stereotypes mentioned on PPD and elsewhere do not fit you or your personal experiences?I guess you might have former sluts making great wives, but I wouldn't bet on it happening naturally. Rather some remarkably self aware women that happened to slut around and then decided to commit will manage to do it properly. Truth is monogamy isn't a great idea and it usually takes folks that don't know any better to make it work, but folks that know better might make it work. The upsetting thing is that men will forfeit their polygamy as soon as monogamy starts and might learn that the part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: What common stereotypes mentioned on PPD and elsewhere do not fit you or your personal experiences?I see a lot of both actually. Lots of ugly dudes with cute chicks and vice versa, but if I account only for married folks, pretty wife and ugly husband is a LOT more common. On the other hand ALL women I know that ever hooked up casually dated or banged one of two guys FAR above their league and hardly any men did the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What common stereotypes mentioned on PPD and elsewhere do not fit you or your personal experiences?1 - I see a lot less praise to institutions, laws and common sense: My surroundings are completely skeptical of any organized institutions and we assume they're looking to exploit us, so we're uncooperative towards them. I see a LOT of folks here praising one or another. Same goes by laws. It doesn't cross people's minds here that something might be moral and illegal and vice versa and a LOT of folks here seem to fail to see the problem in answering "would you?" or "is it moral?" with "it's lega… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 11:41 AM |
| 1 | I realize I just need to let it go, but I just don't understand the hypocrisy...I didn't even downvote you. Personification isn't a thing in English? What a shame, it's remarkably serviceable. Poppy, someday you'll realize there's much more fun beyond purposefully missing points and pretending you can't understand figures of speech than in doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/18 01:03 AM |
| 1 | A thought experiment about aliensIt seems you're being remarkably superficial on your account for the differences between the groups, but leave them be. I'm having a hard time picturing which parties see which parties as you intended us to see the aliens. It seems you're trying to get us to empathize with how striving women feel about striving men's complaints? Maybe design defense for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | A thought experiment about alienswould the arrival of these aliens make men less bitter that human women "can get casual sex any time they want"? Try it at an incel sub? but about those men who are out in the world aggressively looking for hookups and one-night stands? Hardly, you made them purposefully unattractive. Honestly this seems a radfem answer to incel's complaints. In the real world you'll get aliens in the workforce and nothing really changes because the original points were made by an awfully small number of people.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 08:47 PM |
| 3 | [Q4M] what are the ways “YOU” can tell a woman is riding the cc heavilyMost times she'll be bitchy but it's not a rule, plenty of them are courteous towards regular men and solicit towards attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 08:40 PM |
| 7 | [Q4M] what are the ways “YOU” can tell a woman is riding the cc heavilySome stuff I use to determine her intention to ride it is: How differently she treats attractive and unattractive men; Her sexual persona the first one she presents when you meet her; She'll try to display the traits PUA say valuable men have ALL the time. It'll tell she's taking heavy D accounting for how little is her resistance to escalation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 08:17 PM |
| 15 | I realize I just need to let it go, but I just don't understand the hypocrisy...Yes I'm not a big fan, so just for the rhetoric: Attention whores. Folks on MGTOW don't seek validation to themselves as people as instagram models seek, but rather support and justification to their ideas. It's hardly one of the same. At all… we are going our own way. "Here's why I am taking the left road, it is because the right one sucks" is remarkably different than "The right one is easy and I totally own it". Those folks are basically spreading the word that they're ignoring half of their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How does one lower one's standards?seems like a really arbitrary line to me, particularly when given that male/female social styles are inherently geared to their dispositions Which line isn't awkwardly arbitrary? Women here fight for their live to state that "I have a boyfriend" means exactly the same as "no" and will take lives for their right to say it instead of no. i can’t count on my hands the number of women who cried after being “rejected” this way I pictured something entirely different. When I ignore the hints I'll eith… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | How does one lower one's standards?I know it's not. I just wonder if you can still say you rejected her if she didn't overtly stated her intentions. I mean, the very goal of laying hints instead of acting overtly is precisely NOT being exposed to the risk of overt rejection (and/)or to avoid feeling rejected if the man doesn't reciprocate. By saying you rejected them you are sort of ignoring the that. I wonder if folks would find it outrageous or agree with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 07:00 PM |
| 6 | I realize I just need to let it go, but I just don't understand the hypocrisy...You want us to challenge "MGTOW movement is hypocrite"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How does one lower one's standards?this sounds like a personal problem. I'm sure it is, hence why I wondered whether I was projecting. For some reason OP's post ringed the bell on me. i’ve rejected tons of women without having directly been “asked out” by them. I'd have loved to see how the valiant defenders of the obvious would have reacted upon that one. But even personally I kind of stand by you only really take the chance when you abandon plausible deniability and state your intents, in which case I can't say I rejected a lot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 05:57 PM |
| 3 | How does one lower one's standards?I hope it didn't make you sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 05:53 PM |
| 4 | How does one lower one's standards?Uncomfortable truths, when unexpected, have a knack to trigger in me the same humor ironies trigger. In that case there was also a subversion of a "good" thing, "love", that added to its fun. Edit: I'm smiling again. This gives some new dimensions to "never explain your jokes", doesn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 05:34 PM |
| 0 | How does one lower one's standards?Either you were a bit far fetched there, I'm projecting, or both. I wonder how many people besides myself felt like crap at some point for not having had as many partners as they felt they were meant to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 05:29 PM |
| 4 | How does one lower one's standards?It is easy, just fall in love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 05:26 PM |
| 4 | How does one lower one's standards?That's a very loud laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 05:12 PM |
| 5 | How does one lower one's standards?AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | How does one lower one's standards?Get used to the idea that you can NOT PUT EFFORT in the date and still try to close. When you set a date with and go out with an attractive woman, you'll play safe and take some time to display as much high value as you can before escalating. When she's not that attractive, just use some line to make it fitting to take her to a room. In no time you'll be calibrated, with the bonus of being more sensitive to indicators that she is particularly horny. Edit: Think of Tinder. You CAN invite a woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 05:05 PM |
| 4 | How do you meet new women?99% initiating the interaction with them, the other 1% by having someone else doing it for you (friends) or them doing it. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Hi again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?I'll make an edit to this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Motherhood penalty?Probably. Usually when folks talk about the gender gap they ignore the fact that companies have goals when they hire people which are not to give these people money. Mothers want to spend more time with their children and will fight for their right to take hours off to take the children to doctors. Fathers will want to make more bucks and extra hours. When you're dealing with workforce intensive areas which are not gender biased you'll get some bias against mothers and pro fathers. In fields in … | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Netflix film crews 'banned from looking at each other for longer than five seconds' in #metoo crackdownThe problem is that, biologically speaking, a lot of shit is completely justified and society is impossible. Your gang violence and xenophobia are justified as well, men should be wary of healthy looking men, and groups of men should be avoided at all costs. It's not easy to solve such drives, we need a very artificial and unnatural social contract. What worried me in the #metoo movement isn't that it is an attention seeking behavior that might be as damaging as crying wolf every night. It is th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Netflix film crews 'banned from looking at each other for longer than five seconds' in #metoo crackdownFuck, you actually missed it? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Netflix film crews 'banned from looking at each other for longer than five seconds' in #metoo crackdownwhat "issue?" The very dreadful and serious issue of sexualization of the workplace. Because people aren't sexual and the workplace is only sexual because men are predating women, of course. Jokes aside I always had the impression we, feminism too, fought long and hard to break the taboo that lied in people being sexual, only to fight to have it back now. I'm less optimistic than you. I really believe movements such as metoo actually encourage women to believe men are the reason they're afraid (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Netflix film crews 'banned from looking at each other for longer than five seconds' in #metoo crackdownThose are quite serious propositions to solve the "issue" though. Either that or we can use less drastic measures such as behavioral therapy to make people non sexual, or chemical intervention if that fails and they consent to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Netflix film crews 'banned from looking at each other for longer than five seconds' in #metoo crackdownThat's because you're bigoted and an oppressive male and believes female's very nature is inherently sexual for your delight. I mean, is there ANYTHING more NATURAL than nudity and you're daring to suggest it's SEXUAL? Man, check your privilege. She was SITTING in a sexual manner? COME ON. That's OBVIOUSLY how YOU perceive it. There are only TWO possibilities: They were very tired and didn't notice the chair; You're a sexual predator and, on purpose, left no chair for female usage in your desk, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Netflix film crews 'banned from looking at each other for longer than five seconds' in #metoo crackdownTo what extent do women contribute to the sexualization of the workplace? To no extent at all. With the passive role women can't cause sexualization. To what extent do men? To ALL extents. Men are primarily sexual creatures, everything we do is about sex, except sex itself, which is about power and domination. What are some other ways to de-sexualize the workplace? I guess the usage of clothing that prevents sexualization would be ideal. You should look at more enlightened cultures to see if we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Unbiased/neutral men of r/asktrp, what are some books you recommend to increase your knowledge on politics?Man, when you want to acquire a broad knowledge about a field - any field - to later go deeper in some subjects on it, take a look at the keyword "epistemology" and "epistemological studies". You'll usually be made aware about which aspects you want to pay attention to when you take a look at the others and usually end up finding an abstract to different schools under the subject focused on these topics, you learn but don't lose much nuance. You'll want to take a look in "theory of state", "phil… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 01:09 PM |
| 2 | What is your love language?Mine: Quality time, touch. Her: Acts of service and touch, I'm yet to figure which one is primary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | When to tell you’re not looking for a relationship?OP, this is actually the "plates and gets laid the most" way to handle it, but when the chick is particularly clingy I'd actually chose a strategy that gets me laid less or causes the plate to break in order to avoid having to handle her over investment. Basically, don't bring it up and on the moment she brings it up, let her know about your disinterest. Not "let's see where it goes", but "see, I'm not quite in the vibe for being bonded lately". And let her drop. Some chicks avoid bringing up th… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 12:07 PM |
| 6 | I keep getting told I don't talk much. How do I overcome this?If it's a chick I suppose you can escalate. But anyway. 1 - It's cool. 2 - It makes people uncomfortable. Talk about uncompromising things if you must, but if you're too closed people won't really bond to you. 3 - Everyone says they admire it but the point above ends up being much more important. 4 - Yep. "How to make friends and influence people" is a classic man, you'd probably put it to some good use. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 12:01 PM |
| 8 | Q4ALL: Are attractive people better or worse in bed? What does logic suggest? What does your experience say?My experience ends up being remarkably inconclusive man. People that WANT to be good in bed end up becoming but I guess few people want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/18 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.Odds suck. If we're 80% likely to win all games we lose over half the cups. And I doubt we're that likely to beat you, although I'd bet on over 50%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 11:51 PM |
| 0 | Female reactions to the inherent vulnerabilities of femininity and the predatory nature of male sexualityI honestly believe that most women and perhaps most people these days use inter gender and sexual relationships as an escape goat to ALL the countless anxieties humans evolved to have. We fear the dark because a preying beast might lurk in it, we fear putting the hand in an empty hole because whatever lies there might bite us, and we'll keep fearing them both for a while no matter how much we are aware of both their emptiness. Rationally we weren't supposed to fear the dark or starvation anymore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.If I recall you fucked them pretty hard even if it costed you a ship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.Basically "for all I can account for it must have sucked a lot". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.I wish you all the luck until we happen to meet, and at that point may your luck be depleted. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?How upsetting, it seems it wasn't you. It was /u/philomexa, here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8ih23a/q4all_what_would_you_do_if_you_were_already_in_a/dyrof6j/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.My second theory about list making women are that they are more motivated by impressing their friends and family than actually being in love. Makes some sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do you feel about your impending sexual decline as you age?It's not an asinine topic, I hear about that from women every now and then although never with a name to it. My ex trembled over the perspective, some others call it baby fever. Although he approached it on "declining looks", shit's somewhat real. I would like to ask my pilled brothers if they too worry about losing the ability to maintain sexual prowess as they age. Not really. Things have mostly increased on average, it seems it'll be a long way before age stalls it. And when it does I have no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?Ops. /u/Lyanina* She remarked that aversion to change also plays a sensible and sizeable role in keeping us in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.Not a bad one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What % of a woman's RMV is looks/beauty for you? Also, what are the other factors and what % would you give these other factors?Real market value. I stressed the Real since looks are usually accounted for the Sexual market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.Create a metric. This sort of shit doesn't have to be comprehensive, you'll adapt to whatever metric you design. I count "days that were worst because I am committed", "days that were better because I am committed" and "opportunities I lost because I am committed". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.What tells apart the guys you settled with from the others? Were you any kinder or put more effort towards them than the other guys? An unfortunate observation I made is that flashing boyfriend value makes it harder to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.Brazil actually voted against you and used this point as an excuse, basically a whole continent will be granted a spot, but it was retaliation for keeping a guy in prison. Please let him rot. I honestly don't have a lot of faith in Canada, I don't think they'll manage to give a shit about it. US might though and they have enough bucks and love for sports to make a crushing team, plus eight years. Who knows. Germany took 12. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | [Q4Men] How big of a factor does breast size play in your sexual attraction to a woman?That said, the bots there are more prone to reach depth than folks here. If subjects here are lead blocks, we'll manage to get them to float. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.How's it going to be? All the three hosts get a place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Is it my duty as a man (or redpilled man) to leave girls better than I found themYou will be a frustrated fellow. VERY frustrated fellow. But I know the feeling and the drill. If I believed it was possible I'd agree. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:46 PM |
| 10 | Has everyone been raped on the 2X sub?Man, it's funny how we get overly sensitive when we read or are otherwise exposed to a lot of stories about something. When I first found RP I became wary about women, before that I was just wary about my ex. It took me a while to get over it and give awalt its due proportion. I wonder how those chicks are. For a while I thought every woman was consciously trying to exploit my politeness and naivety, I wonder how it feels to believe every man out there will rape you if they see you alone at nigh… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.When they scored the second we all knew what was coming. I jumped like crazy when we scored the 1, people gave me weird looks. It didn't suck that much. I watched us play in a cup and it was a game that taught a fucking valuable lesson. Shame it was with my ex. Thinking about it now, I took my ex to see a world cup game, Brazil got smashed and we didn't even smash ourselves later to get over it. I should have broken up the next day. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.I was there. Only match I watched. It didn't cost me a fortune to buy it but I refused brl4k and told the guy to stop raising the offer, on the pair of tickets, at the time it was a bit over usd1k. To the day they still mock about finding some missing goal during cleanings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.What's the beef on them? I actually cheer like Brazil>South America minus Argentina>Other poor countries outside EU>Argentina>Rich countries but Europe And if an European is to win let it not be Italy (not playing this time) and let it not be France if they happen to take us out yet again. Edit: And yeah, its some SERIOUS party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.I don't know how adaptive they are, and I don't think they've been tested for that. But they've been crazy efficient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.For us it's because we mostly hear that relationships are hard work and lose measure of how things were after some time. To prevent making the same mistake again I actually use an objective measurement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.Tite, coach for Brazil, gave six of those names some days ago. I added England and made the note about Spain. Among those I have no idea. Personally I'd bet on Brazil, Germany or France this time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.I'd lose my citizenship if I didn't mention us. We've been playing well and strong this time around though. Classifying was easy, but we haven't faced a full and strong European contender in a while. I don't think Austria serves as a measure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.Given the praxeology we use for women you nearly nailed the worst case scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.Come on, there are seven A contenders: Brazil Germany France Belgium Argentina Spain (but I'd rule them out, they changed coaches yesterday) Maybe England too, but they're young. You might make some money, but I wouldn't bet unless I could bet on them all and still make some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.No, but Russia is totally owning the Saudis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.The men in the construction sites give you the best accounts of awalt you can imagine man, even when their wives are loving and committed people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.it's early and I can't read yet. lol Not quite, give some time to let your retinas warm up, maybe read the wall and then maybe consider stretching the fingers to type some back. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.Damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Both sidesIn this case and as you described, which is not, in any means, the official definition of "radfem", the only special treatment radfems claim is the abolishment of gender roles in the treatment with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.Laydee people are nagging harpies that sometimes express relationship needs. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 02:33 PM |
| 2 | [Q4Men] How big of a factor does breast size play in your sexual attraction to a woman?We actually became officially boyfriend and girlfriend, she was my first girlfriend by the way. But it was a long time ago. At the time I played it ALL wrong. It's a short and upsetting story in which I'm an idiot but only I know I am, and she's a loving and invested chick that paid too high of a price for having cheated and keeping it a secret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: What % of a woman's RMV is looks/beauty for you? Also, what are the other factors and what % would you give these other factors?Basically I'll inevitably have to explain my work to some consultants clients hire to assess it for them. It's how things are. I usually can expect these consultants to have an understanding about my work that exceeds what is required to graduate in college and even to actually do the work themselves, but if they happen to be beautiful women, I can expect, in advance, that they will lack understanding of basic concepts and I'll need to find, case by case, a way to convince them. This beef is rec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 02:24 PM |
| 3 | How to seduce a Smart/Shy girl that wants to have fun? (likes to read books type girl)You don't know a lot of "geek" girls, do you? AWALT. Run your game. It seems like you escalate more with touches than talking? Do that, I trust you can tell whether she's being receptive or not, and it'll probably work. The picnic date will be just fine, but honestly it seems to slow paced for a chick you met at a bar at night form here. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Numbers game vs Social circle gameThis is a no brainer man. On most scenarios if you're a guy that'll score IN your social circle you'll ALSO score outside it, a lot faster and with less drama. You'll only have ADVANTAGE in social circles if you're to have your beta traits stressed out and complimented when you lack looks to buy yourself enough time to present them. And you don't quite want to game like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: What % of a woman's RMV is looks/beauty for you? Also, what are the other factors and what % would you give these other factors?Real MV: Possibly negative. I'm skeptical of pretty women in my field because people make it fucking easy for them and they're overly representative among the high paid under performing folks. It kind of contaminated my view of them. I'd say as much as 60% in average though. Pretty girls get folks to go out of their ways to help them. LTR/MMV: To me it's a matter of beating a certain threshold, marginal gains past it are slim compared to other requirements. (On my own scale) I gladly banged some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?I'm asking it because of the article about those "pros" that don't exist. A representative of a "model" agency talked about the women and men that work as prostitutes, mentioning that most of them take one or a few regular customers, don't make insane bucks and leave in some years. There are also a LOT of "moral codes", "I'll pay the rent", "I'll make X a month", and "I'll buy a car". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 11:16 AM |
| 1 | How many times have you asked someone out? How many times have you've been asked out?I'm not sure. On that case, unless you laid them some night you met randomly, I guess you'd have to account for calling her on a date or her calling you. OP could clarify that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 01:15 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How does a man quickly tell if a woman is attracted to him?Some women can, some women can even ADD to you, but you should remain skeptical of women's advice. It requires some crazy self awareness to even have good advice to give (it gender bends, it took me years to figure out "looking like she'll fuck you" makes women very attractive to me), plus some honesty to act lay it as it might be unflattering to them or discouraging to the guy. I have some female friends I've known for decades, one gives me and another more attractive bro good advice but not to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How many times have you asked someone out? How many times have you've been asked out?And I've slept with thirty women. All others must have been picked up and banged on the same night? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | How many times have you asked someone out? How many times have you've been asked out?The first one. When I started my last LTR I erased all my app contacts. The "matches" were gone with the apps, I mean the numbers I added to my list. They were a bit over 200 and I'm sure I eventually asked at least three quarters of them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Both sidesHow do you define "man free"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Study documents surprisingly high rate of female-perpetrated rape.Which one of the authors is a feminist and how relevant in feminism? I'm serious, I just might have to pay attention to feminism again. I despise it, actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | How many times have you asked someone out? How many times have you've been asked out?No idea / under ten. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP: How do men use science to get laid?Read a PUA guide (hypothesis) Use it on some women. (test it) See how it goes. (get results) See what can be changed (analyze the data) Develop your own strategy or pick another guide (reform the hypothesis) Use it on some women. (test it) See how it goes. (get results) See what can be changed (analyze the data) again, and again. Tinder is your lab, you can make some three tests a day at least, in a month you'll be getting laid consistently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Study documents surprisingly high rate of female-perpetrated rape.Feminists: The evil that men do. You guys: The evil that men suffer. Their behavior seems fitting. It's like expecting men in RP to be sensitive about how men's nature might be harmful to good and kind women. It can, it probably is but damn, why would it EVER be addressed there? Anyway, it's an interesting study. What would you like to discuss about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?Shit. This chick never told me. There were just the sure tells. Lived in a poor neighborhood but owed a good car (having a car is a biggie here) while studying on a private college (before financing was made easy to get), was knowledgeable about and frequented clubs she couldn't possibly afford, very proactive in bed, was remarkably skilled at dirty talk. She studied telecom engineering. And commented about her "friend" that looks "just like you", accepted money for sex once and now has fifteen … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?Any chances you speak portuguese? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 12:02 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] How does a man quickly tell if a woman is attracted to him?Are you testing women to their awareness by comparing their answers to some long list of IOIs perfectly described into their respective contexts you might find in the internet? Edit: Since you might actually be looking for advice, take a look in "pick up artist". They studied attraction and how it works, courtship, and understood the principles so well they actually engineered solutions for a lot of different men, goals, circumstances, as well as left guidelines to how to engineer your own strat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 07:58 PM |
| 4 | [Q4Men] How big of a factor does breast size play in your sexual attraction to a woman?Quite small, a chick I particularly enjoyed and considered for LTR was actually flat chested, she used bras to push her nothings together and make a semblance of breasts. She was cute as fuck though. I have no biggies towards looks I guess. The hotter the better, yeah, but past the acceptance threshold the marginal gains are small compared to other criteria, for whatever goals they might be, LTRs or ONSs, although "other criteria" varies with the goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Can most men achieve "enthusiastic consent"? If so, can they achieve it consistently?Can most men achieve "enthusiastic consent"? If so, can they achieve it consistently? To me it seems that in real world first meetings it's actually hard to get sex in a circumstance in which it doesn't happen. You simply won't manage to get her to a room without her being very enthusiastic to the idea of sex. LTRs are another deal. When she's not horny there are some sure ways to turn her on. I had figured out by RP that if they stop working or if she starts to avoid the situations that allow i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?mmmm. There's a specific kind of pro here that actually takes around one or two guys a month or so for some time. College students seeking some spending money and young models. An "agency" once wrote about the "side job". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?How long did you date her? A while ago I dated a chick that probably did some escorting, she had some sure tells to it. I'm pretty sure she tried to get me to take some women. We fucked four times and she did seem to enjoy herself a LOT while on it. So much I kind of imprinted it on my memory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | If a girl your dating for a few weeks catches herself in a lie and busts herself, do you call her out on it orIt's your rule there really. The only big thing is don't confront her for lies because of the lies themselves, there's no point on it and it's actually showing some weakness. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] Enthusiastic consent: Do you always look for this when fucking?mmm. The "ão" could have ruled that out. Brazil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Have you ever changed your mind about, or regained attraction in a man?Hardly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] Enthusiastic consent: Do you always look for this when fucking?lold Man, our feminists import EVERY SHIT americans create. At least around here we'll shamelessly tell the purple haired ladies we'll give them an audience once we figure out how to stop children in "sertão" from starving to death and other stuff. We imported neopentecostalism too though and it spreads like the plague. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?Now it made sense. I have a different view. What defines "intimacy" is usually sex. Women that slut around MIGHT have other standards and definitions for intimacy in which case you might work out with them IF you share these definitions. Women that are selling it on the other hand will probably develop the belief that intimacy is transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 05:45 PM |
| 2 | If a girl your dating for a few weeks catches herself in a lie and busts herself, do you call her out on it orPersonally, I'm the defense lawyer, prosecutor and judge of white lies. EVERY SINGLE TIME. Here's some shit I always consider. Is she is intelligent and capable of fabricating a more credible lie or not? If she's not, she's not. If she is, her assumption that I'm dumb enough to buy it or expectation to get a pussy pass might be a biggie. What is the context? Is she tense about your relationship? If she is she'll try to prance herself or avoid conflicts, and it's not necessarily bad. If on the ot… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?This sounded so alien to me I'll double check it. You prefer women that picked an easier way to make money by selling sex than women that did it because they wanted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | [Q4RP] Enthusiastic consent: Do you always look for this when fucking?Your foreplay will be questioned man. Did she beg you to put your hand down her pants? Or did you just presume she was consenting because she didn't stop you or told you not to? How can she know you're consenting to oral sex when she takes your dick out and sucks it? Man, I really ask myself what sort of moron these rulings about enthusiastic consent are meant to stop from raping people or which women they're intended to protect. Ill intended folks will just ignore it the same way they already i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] Enthusiastic consent: Do you always look for this when fucking?I don't look for it but it'll be there. There'll always be a fuck me or some shit like that at some point. Some crazed american feminist would still accuse me for the escalation though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?I kind of assumed you're American. It's over romanticizing to assume all escorts did it out of necessity. What you get is the expensive ones doing it for spending / easy money and the lower class ones doing it because it earns them better than their alternative jobs. The ones that never had a choice (being honest, they did have choices but no one couldn't expect them to notice it) are a sheer minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Have you ever changed your mind about, or regained attraction in a man?Where are you from? I can't bring myself to believe over 10% of people would know anything besides the name and even a smaller number would make the association when you asked them the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 04:20 PM |
| 2 | How good are you at recognizing fake orgasms?Provided that I don't think a woman ever faked with me, probably terrible. Having this discussion with someone else they pointed out it's not impossible since I had women not acting like they came and most women I dated were on the peak of their riding frenzies, so really anxiety free. But it's still unlikely. She only has herself to blame though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Men of PPD, would you become a male prostitute if the demand were sufficient?That's how rich looking people are recruited here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?I wonder why is that, and if that's general or specific about sex. Do you think better of drug dealers than of users? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Does r/TRP suck now?In his defense I was a dick to him, but then again in my own, it's because he said something in either sheer stupidity, ill faith or completely ignoring the depths of his affirmation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Both sidesYou get none of the sides my friend. You get incels and maybe radfems. Think about any right of yours, anything you deem ubiquitous and granted, something that was never scarce. I'll guess "equity before the law", but you can change it. Now imagine you don't have it. You hear about it, people tell you it is your birthright, but you know you don't have it and you hear all kinds of justifications to it, "you have it, but you need to pay lawyers, they are people with jobs". You miss it, you needed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Men of PPD, would you become a male prostitute if the demand were sufficient?What if they allowed you to pick your clients by picture and paid you the weeks you weren't chosen by any women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Men of PPD, would you become a male prostitute if the demand were sufficient?Around here if you walk around some people and has a certain profile, you will be approached by someone making such an offering. It's not illegal, it's no biggie. I avoided the conversation when someone sought to bring it up to me. I regretted it at a point and seriously considered seeking out the person, but the taboo remained strong and I didn't think too much about actually doing it, just wished I had done it before. These days it's one of the two "opportunities" I thank my anxiety ridden sel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/18 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?part of the reason i tend to side-step moral debates here is that people are far more intractable in impersonal settings This is remarkably upsetting to hear, but it's something I've been noticing myself. it’s next to if not impossible to have someone truly change their opinion on something like single mothers through a PPD comment chain Honestly, I assume it's impossible to have someone with an opposing flair to read and acknowledge what you wrote before writing an answer, and unlikely to have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?You know man, what bothers me is that some people would see no joke there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?You're being transphobic too! The HUMAN BEING doesn't need to transition to man and then to a human to FEEL like a human being that transitioned to a man than to a woman! And even less than that, there's no need to label these human beings like "transwoman", transtranswoman or woman to legitimize how they feel! All you need is a little empathy you bigot! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?I guess we're on different pages here. I'm going with "The book's portrait of human reactions is precise and the sister's is pretty much AWALT". You stated, "Those descriptions say more about the author than about human nature or anything else". Is this right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?It's cool. I'm enjoying the randomness here, the fact that you didn't intend to make the reference and nailed it is fucking awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?Why not? Who are you to define how a woman can or can not feel about her own identity? You heteronormative scum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?Some blue folks just nailed the subject at hand down there. I'd never expect them to but they did, so it's TOTALLY COOL do discuss morality now. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?How remarkably blue of you, to attribute it on the author being issued himself rather than on him nailing how women are. lol The year was 1915, women weren't even going full women to manage to survive after the war (as of yet) so I'll always wonder HOW he nailed it. But he nailed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?COME ON! You literally stepped into it with "How and why people subscribe to certain moralities is subjective to me, or circumstantial at best." People here totally avoid discussing morality! Why? It's on any top 10 list of things to debate and most, if now all, practical discussions about right and wrong, public policies and whatever more end up drinking from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?Woa, you nailed this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?Despite being Kafka's it's totally not Kafkaesque. But anyways, you realize he might not actually have intended to make the reference? What are the odds... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?Well, he became a cockroach, he's helpless. He WOULD be screwed. His sister uses the situation to give herself some power in the family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?What defines "morality", right and wrong, is a discussion that can't be had without some big deal of nerdery. It has been going on for too long and has gone too far, to enter the subject requires pedanticism, at least to figure out where the parties discussing are standing. The best explanations we have are in the line that that there is a source for right and wrong, ubiquitous, that seem to guide us all, but we have a hard time pinpointing it. It's not subjective since most situations that make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?I checked it and you call this movement Magic realism. We call it fantastic. Anyway, the narratives under this literary movement involve an ordinary settling and characters that behave in ordinary ways as ordinary people in face of a magical and unexplained event, such as people turning into rhinoceroses, becoming blind, or something else. In "the metamorphosis" the main character turns into a cockroach, the rest of the novel is his very regular family interacting in a very predictable way with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?That's not me and even given the context it was worth to make the differentiation if it was only about marriage. Anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:03 PM |
| 7 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?If my gf turned into a 5 foot long cockroach overnight, I would be well within my ethical grounds to end the relationship. This TOTALLY murders the point of fantastic realism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?Did I? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?So that one is only for marriage? Edit: I mean, some things are deal breakers and yet they'll remain unstated since they're so unlikely they strike as irrelevant. Such as doubling your weight. Although I see the good intention on stating the deal breakers beforehand it seems so unlikely that a person might make a comprehensive list of them and this list would be always so socially unacceptable I doubt it's feasible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?Anything that is a dealbreaker, imo, needs to be stated before you commit. Did you actually abide by this one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?Got it. LTR, new: It ends on one episode of disdain towards my welfare or hypocrisy. If it is about her and it is addressable, reasons will be provided since I don't bother a lot about how she'll judge them. LTR, old: It ends if, for a given time, I realize I'm less fulfilled (not only sexually) than I'd be if I was single. Patience might last for two months. Marriage: If there are no children, additional costs, also sunk costs, weight against terminating it and make it desirable to address some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 07:44 PM |
| 6 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?Yep. We're pretty settled on "there's no need to provide reasons to leave a partner", with maybe three people disagreeing. If there's no need to provide a reason, any reason is fair, just as long as it's not made public. This is a thought exercise and not a pedantic debate about "morality." So I don't quite see how this can be developed outside a somewhat pedantic discussion. It seems that when it comes to marriage, people hold the institution in high account and no reason is good enough to end … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?Oh, for some reason I read "usual" there. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?Don't make it easy for him. lol I'm actually trying to figure out whether we're coherent in our dislike, if we dislike people that sell sex the same way we dislike people that buy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?Oh dude. The chick that got me into RP had a count of 5. All it takes to fuck up a guy real hard is to know how to shame him properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?So, whether her sex was sold or not makes no difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 06:51 PM |
| -1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?Do you have any ideas about why you think like that? The pro seems somewhat less risky than a woman that learned her way into manipulating men with sex to get benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?It takes a special kind of fucked in the head to do sex work for a profession. Not exactly a special kind. It's actually a pretty common kind of fucked up. Someone hot and very funny talks to you and inflates your ego, tell you they want to take your pictures and offer to "high class clients", tell you you'll get to see a picture before accepting anyone, and guarantee a tempting weekly pay if no one takes interest in you on a given week. If you're naive and fail to see the traps you sign right i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?Given enough time, yep, but the folks that don't take it as a career option don't rack up incredibly high counts. Prostitution is legal here so we see some accounts. "Bruna Surfistinha" is known for having worked a lot, she comments about how 30 guys a week is a high number and guesstimates 3k clients. "Lola Benvenutti" had the same guesstimate but in under SIX years. These are nation wide famous ones. An agency published an account that invited models usually leave before completing 100 clients… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Does r/TRP suck now?See ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Does r/TRP suck now?I'm not exactly asking your stance on abortion, that's the same as mine, funny thing. I'm rather asking about your attitude towards the justification you provided for it, and that's important given that I'm considering a discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 05:54 PM |
| -1 | Does r/TRP suck now?You're the guy that said abortions aren't murder because fetuses aren't people right? I'm not sure about why you commented it. To prevent a fruitless discussion, because you endorse on first sight or endorse it to all consequences of the affirmation. Which one was it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?This is the best "no" I can imagine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?mmmm. I got curious about something. Most people look down on men that hired sex, it made me wonder how people think about women that sold it. I've asked everyone because I suppose it gender bends, and mentioned counts to get people to think about sex itself and digress less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?I'd delete this one and make yet another post with the clarification, but I'd lose my golden goat award. I'll make an edit to the body to make the clarification instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Does r/TRP suck now?Has r/TRP changed since you first found it? Probably not. RP points are well settled now, I don't need much evidence to support them anymore. I've made my own observations to correct for the alarmism the community and the narratives are bound to cause and the bits that are about US above anything else. As far as unplugging and analyzing goes, I've done my fair share and askTRP is the place for most of that. I do feel I owe the community some research and information if I happen to spot something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offer a different prospect as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?Yep. Is this unclear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offers different perspectives as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?I'll erase this because it seems a wrong word in the title will prevent the question from being answered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offers different perspectives as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?I'll erase this because it seems a wrong word in the title will prevent the question from being answered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Does a person that worked as an escort and stopped offers different perspectives as an exclusive partner than one that did not and had the same number of sexual partners?Better? Worse? Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: what is your opinion of men who hire prostitutes?Male. Prostitution is legal here, I don't give a lot of shits whether a man hires them or not. I'd look down on a regular user that let me know about it, but I think lower of regular weed users or weed activists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Would You Go Raw With A Plate Who's Going To Be On Birth Control?So just be wary of some hints that she's seeking exclusivity, if pregnancy is what bothers you. Personally, STI scares are hell for me. Candida among others. I have a hard time dealing properly with them and seeking a doctor right away. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Where did this underlying idea that women make better choices then men come from?While I'd be skeptical of her pulling something watch-worthy, if she tried I'd probably be the rightful heir of a glass of beer. Jokes aside, no, but I've seen plenty women make a lot of other bad decisions involving boose, just not that classical red neck one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Men Cheating = Patriarchy?I suppose it's because the person is fed up with having his/her own morality being held in high account and having high demands over it while he/she believes his/her own gender keeps being fucked over and over again because they aren't, as a collective, allowed to have any high expectations on the other gender. It cuts for both sides really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Have you ever changed your mind about, or regained attraction in a man?You'd really say "Friedrich Nietzsche is his favorite philosopher" is an AMALT trait? I mean, he has a favorite philosopher. How'd that be AMALT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 01:37 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of men/women gaining weight after marriage.Upsetting, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you build a personalityOk, I'll try to be serious. 1 - Pick a "base style": Which style you think fits the most of you? Sporty? Fancy and refined? Party animal? Geek? Indie? Personification of left? Of right? 2 - Give yourself authenticity: Add personal stuff you like to it, even if it's out of character, but make sure it is attractive. A body builder indie is good, a fat fat acceptance activist among body builders is bad. Geek shit works well. 3 - Get literate in the style's requirements. Get literate in the everyday… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 01:21 PM |
| 0 | Skrwany bitch here how do i get buff1 - Start lifting, ideally six times a week but maybe once a month you can be cool with four, lift until you reach concentric failure at LEAST on every exercise. FAILURE, not "TIRED"; 1.1 - Start taking non steroid testosterone boosters, eat a lot of protein, take BCAAs before lifting and whey protein plus some carbs after it. Don't bother getting a bit fat, just don't overdo it; Try for six months to a year. If it failed. FAILED, not "you didn't get huge": 2 - Get some blood work done, see what… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 12:59 PM |
| 4 | Would You Go Raw With A Plate Who's Going To Be On Birth Control?AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Where did this underlying idea that women make better choices then men come from?There are some sources man. Both men and women are averse to risk but women somehow are more averse to it, for whatever reasons, and value this trait a lot more than men. This has some lots of consequences, many pointing out to "better at making choices" because their choices align with biases people have. Another thing isn't exactly a cause to the "women make better choices" but explains the "she should have known better" is the difference in mating selection for men and women. Attractive trait… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women solo is the best way to go?like 5% of the people understand it's a total irrational fear. It might make no sense to our current society but we didn't have time to catch up. It's still visceral anxiety and it's not trivial to overcome it. Knowing it's no biggie doesn't actually help most people. How many of you had results with gaming women solo in your own city? I had some good results solo but I never went clubbing alone for that end, I'm not sure if this fits what you're asking. Going clubbing with a mixed group is a su… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 12:30 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of men/women gaining weight after marriage.For serious? I found it pretty useless at the time, and these days I find it pretty lame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?In Brazil most schools use a 60% mark, some use 70%. There's debate about it with merits to both sides, using 50% and harder tests and 70% and easier tests but making students used to the idea they can't make mistakes. Colleges use a different grading, the best ones use A to E but in the end they'll just use % scores with 60% pass mark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?Some time ago I tried to figure out how we use that scale and noticed something like five calibration points. Very ugly women, encompassing most of (wo)mankind and rating a very low number, "3", followed by "under average", including women uglier than the ones in the guy's environment, making up to some number considered "average", "6", then hottest ones the guy sees every day making up to 8, very hot ones he doesn't see every day making up to 9, and TV people / very beautiful and overly produce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 12:05 PM |
| 5 | Would You Go Raw With A Plate Who's Going To Be On Birth Control?Been there, done that. Frankly speaking? We're not dumb and women aren't stupid. Getting pregnant is not her first choice to lock you, although it is a choice she might contemplate. She'll bring some exclusivity talk before. My main concern were STIs. No, she doesn't make regular exams, she assesses the risk and if it's good enough for her (something she'll easily hamster), she'll deem good enough for you. I'd be wary of women on baby fever age though. Late twenties to mid thirties. It might be … | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Why hobbies helps?It helps because it lets you fathom something to do in life when you realize that fucking more women doens't make you more fulfilled, and it prevents you from abiding by that very stupid idea that fucking the same one over and over again will solve it. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do women date assholes and then complain about male assholishness being a systemic issue?Pretty much the same reason why we date women and complain AWALT. It is because it IS a systemic issue. Assholes are just regular guys going full all men are like that. Some women ditch them, others suck it up until they're ditched (because these fellows ARE going polygamous) and then whine. Some of us also date women who come up with a lot of AWALT shit and then whine. God, I've done it for years. What reasons lead one gender or another to stay in those shitty relationships are wildly different… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Men Cheating = Patriarchy?I know. It's upsetting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/18 12:59 AM |
| 1 | 18 of the top 50 /r/TheBluePill posts this month has been from one userFetuses aren’t people and abortion isn’t murder. Congrats for solving this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mind%E2%80%93body_problem In one line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 11:16 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of men/women gaining weight after marriage.Man, some years ago I had the most memorable debates of my life in the late Orkut. I don't know if that was ever a thing in US, but one of the guys there was American. I absolutely don't judge you for that. Although it seems the 2000s are calling to let me know I need to seek that elsewhere. Besides that our academy imports EVERY SHIT American feminism puts in a paper, I guess fat acceptance was among some of those flags, and it found mild acceptance. It seems mostly dead now though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Men Cheating = Patriarchy?I know she is. At some point she might still get something right though. It's not her hatred that's an issue (to me at least), just the crazy, and the crazy is harmless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of men/women gaining weight after marriage.Why is that being smuggish? Shit's called "sensitivity". I was wrong. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r9mLz68pKK0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?mmm. Nope. I just wondered if, maybe if I tried that for priming, I'd get something else but "autistic" from bloppers. I wondered three things. Two I let people know, a third one I gave up on seeing so I might as well talk about it now. If RPillers would propose answers, as the possibility of answers, even if ineffable, is a requirement for "awalt" to possibly be true; If there would be some common ground among women's answers; If some women would say "when I show openness". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 10:57 PM |
| 5 | What do you think of men/women gaining weight after marriage.How not to talk to fat people and beginners on the gym, shit like that. It was obviously aimed at women. There was stuff like "Saying the person lost weight isn't encouraging if it's coming from a very thin and fit person, it makes the person conscious about her body". In Portuguese words flex on gender, so whenever there would be a letter that pointed to gender they used an "x". Thank god it was frowned upon. Edit: It was not called "sensibility pamphlet". I labeled it because of the "sensibili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?I actually nerded this out pretty hard some years ago. Most men use the scale like this. Unfuckable: It encompasses most women. Guys are upper middle class, most women fit here, older or poorer. Low number, often 3 Fuckable: Stretch from the ugliest women they see in their classes and every day life to the ones they consider slightly under their league. Average, often 6 The women they believe is on their league to the ones they believe are great picks for them. High, often 8 The hot women they b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | [Q4BP] How would the world be if the red pill knowledge were in the mainstream?Having been that boy, you actually hear all that, but you never know who's telling you the right thing. It's conflicting and it makes a hellish mess in your head. One person tells you "why don't you ask her out". The answer is ubiquitous, "because I freeze whenever I'm around her and I think of doing it and then I hate myself afterwards". And once you manage to elaborate the answer someone tells you "well, she's not the right one then". Whatever RP old fashioned advice that would have done wonde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Persinal advice thread: textingHow did you meet? All in all seems like he's interested. Tell him you suck at texting and prevent checking your phone as it's one of your procrastination outlets (good one) so he gets cool about you taking longer than him to reply, but waiting hours isn't a big deal, waiting DAYS is. For us it's HELLISH to set dates with a week in advance or so. We have the understanding that we need to keep the girl's interest, the "spark" alive, otherwise she'll flake, so we end up grasping on straws to develo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 08:15 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of men/women gaining weight after marriage.What he said is that women that are uglier than 40% of all other women there are hot outside there. And it makes sense, the damn scale varies with environment whether you want it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 08:03 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of men/women gaining weight after marriage.Lucky you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?This scale is hellish. Most guys around me shift the "average" to 60%, maybe because it's passing marks in nearly every school, but they they take the average of their surroundings. My 6 before college is now EASILY my 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 07:44 PM |
| 10 | What do you think of men/women gaining weight after marriage.Where are you from? Women and the "impossibility" of losing weight seem to be everywhere. I'm Brazilian and I had a sensibility pamphlet given in my gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 07:40 PM |
| 18 | What do you think of men/women gaining weight after marriage.Why does reddit always coddle women so hard? It's not reddit, and it's not just women. We coddle everyone really hard unless doing it comes at the expense of someone we want to coddle harder, and on some other circumstances in which we dislike a person, class or gender. Any descriptions of personal pain is seen with sympathy for starters. We abhor seeing people or things in pain or distress, we dislike it so much the most precise description of how much we value life is by its capacity to expres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Man, in a context in which every questioning of consensus, common sense or status quo is prone to be seen and disregarded as autistic, doing such questionings is pretty much impossible. And debating human relationships, inter gender relationships, is ALWAYS making such questionings. These questionings spun both RP and feminism. If the answer to every questioning is "autistic, those who question this must be autistic", there won't ever be a debate. And if there's no debate, well, this whole thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Men Cheating = Patriarchy?Nah. I doubt many people here will ever manage to spot something truthful if it also remarkably misandric. RPillers don't shy away from pointing out preposterous shit women do, and we're right, it's nice that radfems do the same shit. The issue isn't their ill intent, but rather their dishonesty, lack of reason and sight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Oh fuck. Is that the issue there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Man, you have stated that you believe I made the questions expecting some fail proof scenarios that would receive the approval of the most nazi radfem out there. I don't have absolutely any idea about how on earth you came to this conclusion, and I won't even ask how. To prevent this sort of shit from happening I asked two questions and the original post was a single phrase. There's not even 30 words there and they're as direct and simple as they could be. It was still enough material to let peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you commit to a woman who is perfect in every way but except for her physical appearance?My wishful reasoning started writing "yes": Developing a bond is good enough to make up for the loss of freedom to fuck strangers, the additional loss from "gorgeous" to "not gorgeous" is no biggie, and you even sought to make her perfect and still a 6 or 7. Then my skeptical self kicked in and reminded me relationships are inevitably hard and such a "perfect" woman comes with small letters. What brings the conclusion. Would you commit to a woman that you weren't physically attracted to, even if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Is that so hard to understand? Now it became. Are there two extremes, or there aren't? I don't intend to present some exceptional circumstance to challenge anything. For instance, I won't tell the guy who said "it's never ok to approach a dying woman" "but not even if you're her celebrity crush and will tell her you love her too so she dies in great joy and peace?". Here, and for you, I'm just asking if there are or are not extremes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Really? I mean, one guy, intending to call me an autistic idiot, did provide an example of when it is never ok, which is half of what I asked. Another guy gave one of always. It's not even hard to do. Why are you folks so uneasy in face of certainty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Really? I mean, one guy, intending to call me an autistic idiot, did provide an example of when it is never ok, which is half of what I asked. Another guy gave one of always. It's not even hard to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Of course it is. If they are honest, what women say when they realize what they do is as RP as RP gets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Also "robotsplain" I'm stealing that its too appropriate for so many threads You'll get stuff written in some computer language or pseudo language if you do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 05:32 PM |
| 0 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?You don't. If there are two extremes, then there are always and never. As complicated, inextricable, and maybe ineffable as they might be. This is not the same as saying that there are not two extremes. And there's a lot under feminism that argues the absence of such extremes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?There's no pillsphere. The pillsphere, RP, is about questioning settled understandings in inter gender relationships, mainly the bits that turn out badly to men. Having these discussions requires some defamiliarization, and that's a thought consuming process. I don't think there are fertile grounds for these discussions to flourish outside US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?I know you didn't. You said asking for "always" is absolutist nonsense. Yet: Some women hate to be bothered Never... some women love to flirt Ok, this does't make it ok every time, but it's hard to assume you intended anything else but a dichotomy there, so... It's not absolutist nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?mmmm. I didn't quite flair this one under advice. Anyway: There's something called problematization, feminism abuses the technique. It consists of challenging settled understandings, common sense, to assess why we think like that, and maybe spot some naturalized oppressive behavior. Those questions are commonly used in the technique when employed by feminism. I'm wondering, maybe if I try priming people with those questions beforehand I'll get a couple answers without being called autistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?There are some remarkably obvious answers for that one. I was wondering two things. First was if women would roam around them. Second is whether someone would say "when they/I give hints". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 04:51 PM |
| -1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Most likely she'd remove them asap as soon as he smiled to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?It's ok. We just need to let ourselves drop the fuck you before they waste our time. Bonus if you manage to be rude enough so the word spreads and the whole company refrains from calling you again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Not exactly. Although that is bound to become a big issue soon enough. Those questions have some remarkably obvious answers, I was curious as to whether people would roam around them or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Obsessive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?You somehow said "always" is absolutist nonsense and then proceeded to give a couple examples, for ever and never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?what is the psychology behind wondering whether behaviors are "ok" Curiosity. Above everything I was wondering if I'd see some common ground, but I was also wondering if there would be an answer like "ONLY when they give you hints" or some "ONLY when I" version for that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Are feminists against casual approaches?What I'm telling you here is that: There is no such thing as an "moderate feminist". It's NOT a self explanatory term, as "libfem" or "radfem" would be. It's a term you coined to describe yourself as "someone that doesn't believe ALL feminism is nonsense"; Being someone that believes SOME of feminism makes sense, "feminism", doesn't make you a feminist. You're a man, and you do NOT GET to define what feminism is, let alone define it in order to fit the label. Radfems don't even allow you to call… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?You folks have such a paralyzing fear of criticism or analysis of whatever is familiar to you that the usage of "autistic" as an umbrella against it must be more relieving than accepting tautological reasoning. Next time I want to address something like that I'll try to prime it with "Whom does it harm?", "Who is saying it?" and "Whom does it benefit?" to maybe manage to avoid triggering the sensibilities to questioning that permeate some folks. Who knows... I might have more luck. Although I gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Are feminists against casual approaches?Dude, I’m not a feminist because I give a shit about people being annoyed. I suppose you got the memo agreeing with feminism on some circumstances doesn't make a feminist out of you, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?mmm. Given the capitals there I was totally going to assume you meant "the only time it is not ok is when she looks busy, otherwise it is always ok". So what you're saying is when she's busy you know it is not ok, when she's at a bar or social environment (and doesn't look busy) it is always ok, otherwise it's a thing of chance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 02:06 PM |
| 23 | 18 of the top 50 /r/TheBluePill posts this month has been from one userThe blue pill exists to point our TRP is full of shit, it was bound to be like that, wasn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Any pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Are feminists against casual approaches?Not really. I'm just saying it because you're a self proclaimed "moderate feminist" while preaching a behavior that makes some women annoyed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Q4women: When is it ALWAYS ok for a man to approach? When is it NEVER ok?Don't RP this out. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Why the way things are in Sexual AttractionBro, if it is called "sexual attraction", is must happen because we associate whatever traits we're observing with sex. Call it however you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Men Cheating = Patriarchy?Naturally! Everything good women do is because women are like that, everything bad A WOMAN does is an outlying point. Everything good A MAN does is an outlying point and should be seen with skepticism, everything bad men do is because men are trash. Didn't you get the memo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: What is the general consensus about lesbians?Someday I was discussing about why there were lesbians and some older endorsed contributor pointed something: Sex is great and pleasurable and should also be with the same gender, you need pressure for it NOT to happen, not the other way around. With one couple as exception, all lesbian couples I know have at least one very masculine person in it, either in looks and attitude or just attitude, which is why the more feminine one is attracted. It makes some additional sense here with so many young… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Are feminists against casual approaches?Because of this: If you approach politely, in a situation where she isn’t alone with only you (meaning she doesn’t have to worry about you raping her or something), you make your intentions clear, you smile, and you are 100% prepared to graciously accept no as an answer without being butthurt or insulting her, approaching is fine. Here you basically describe under which circumstances and in wihch fashions it is ok to approach, but truth is it's not really upon you to make this ruling. You don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Calling all hamsters on deck!: Post on relationships sub supports claim that society is gynocentric.Funny thing, I got this ONE MILLION TIMES. "My partner is showing openness to strangers in front of me" No healthy person feels threatened about this. You shouldn't be a drain to your partner, your issues with the relationship are your crosses to bear, they exist because you brought your insecurities to it, and you should have a mature conversation about it with her so she decides whether she loves you enough to compromise her own feelings and shelter your weakened psyche for a while or should e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 12:06 PM |
| 1 | What’s the 20/80 rule for women?Good morning, Poppy. Did you have a good weekend? I had a pretty good one, and I'm having a bit of a hard time getting your point here. Are you suggesting that some of the worse looking 20% women also fuck Brad Pitt? Or are you talking about the worst looking 20% of Brad Pitt's partners? The differentiation is crucial there. Anyways I take that you caught yourself arguing that the absence of women selling their stories to tabloids is "absence of evidence", and that absence of evidence is evidenc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Are feminists against casual approaches?but as a human being who goes for what he wants, I do try. I suppose you deem yourself to be the judge of what should be fine for women and what should not, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/18 11:43 AM |
| 7 | How to bring up sex on a first datemmmm. I'll leave the "HOW" to you, there's too much under that. Look up "sexualizing the interaction/conversation" under PUA. The are too many different approaches and many routines to each approach. I'll just say you should ALWAYS bring up leaving to have sex (under the euphemism "more private place" of the funny "we're too dressed for the mood") when you're making out hot. Mainly in the car. That's how you lay in the first date. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Are feminists against casual approaches?OP's linked article demonstrate it's not ok, doesn't it? You don't know how a woman will feel towards your approach, she doesn't owe you any politeness nor you have any right to disturb her. You have no real measure of how she feels and when you talk you her there'll always be the chance that you'll make her feel bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to reform a LTR?It is, but it's hardly worth it unless you have children or some big thing at risk. As a rule of thumb, keeping a relationship fulfilling is WAY harder than having uncommitted sex with the same quality of women, AND polygamy is a lot more sexually fulfilling than monogamy. To make the LTR worth it, for starters, it must bring enough to the table to compensate you for your loss in the sexual side. This is already hard in itself, and under these circumstances the chick must keep her "womanly ways"… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Which percentage of people aches and suffers due to absence of romantic and/or sexual interaction? And due to the consequences of an extended period under that condition, even if it is over now?Nope. How many are suffering now? and how many suffered for so long it brought lasting damage for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 04:47 PM |
| 6 | [Discussion] Chad is a stupid term that men use to blame women.No. "Chad" is a term used by men to point out, to other men, that women have sexual desire and get horny too. Basically, to imply "Well, she isn't very sexual for you, but she needs to use pads to prevent wetting her pants around some Chad". Butt hurt people will always be butt hurt. Incels will always whine. The most effective way you have to disarm a whole class is to convince them they have a right, that they are entitled to something. On the split second you get them to believe it, they cros… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: At what age did you lose your virginity? If you're RP, was this before or after RP?23, before RP, after some PUA education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 12:57 PM |
| 2 | What’s the 20/80 rule for women?But who are the 20% of women in this rule and what are they doing? They're having non committal relationships with the top 5% of men or so. Sometimes they reach a top 1%, sometimes a 5%, so they believe they have too many options and too many doors for them to settle yet, unless it's an obvious 1%ter man seeking her commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Are feminists against casual approaches?Feminists are against male existence, just why they wouldn't be against casual approaches? Dropping the hatred towards feminism for a bit, lots of people want to change and reform the world so the world doesn't annoy them in the slightest. I'll ignore the ones that want to reform the world and the society so that the world and society grants them what they believe is their right. Their naivety upsets me. They ignore the fact that the jobs they hold and cherish came into existence into and becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Lesbian couples two and a half times more likely to get divorced than male same-sex couplesmmmm. I suppose that has its effect too. But they DO move in fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: What circumstances could prompt you to offer an ultimatum on a relationship? What circumstances lead you to give up on a relationship? And how do you act when you give up?What the fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: What circumstances could prompt you to offer an ultimatum on a relationship? What circumstances lead you to give up on a relationship? And how do you act when you give up?Oh, was his original comment about that too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/18 12:17 PM |
| 0 | Should I become a PUA?It's not just spam approaching, there's some other things. PUA has fitting strategies for most goals these days, I wouldn't be surprised it there was a Christian PUA too. What is it that you want? Pick up much hotter women? Beat 100 lays? Find a wife? Is it related to picking up and/or keeping women? Go into PUA. Or you want not to be bored? PUA will not solve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | What kind of educational programs can improve relationship/sex outcomes for men?Interesting that you approach this focusing on reproductive success, but it seems a flawed metric. Men will feel better fucking, it would serve us well to release us from the guilt of wanting it. As a standard encouraging people and releasing them from social guilt when they act in accordance to their drives produces great results. Men compete, encourage us to act on it instead of promising "someone will love you the way you are". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: What circumstances could prompt you to offer an ultimatum on a relationship? What circumstances lead you to give up on a relationship? And how do you act when you give up?Who'd get into a land war because of a break up? You're being senseless here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: What circumstances could prompt you to offer an ultimatum on a relationship? What circumstances lead you to give up on a relationship? And how do you act when you give up?They actually work, mainly when people know they're being shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: What circumstances could prompt you to offer an ultimatum on a relationship? What circumstances lead you to give up on a relationship? And how do you act when you give up?First time something about fulfillment appeared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: What circumstances could prompt you to offer an ultimatum on a relationship? What circumstances lead you to give up on a relationship? And how do you act when you give up?He didn't want supplies to reach her anymore. He got really mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: What circumstances could prompt you to offer an ultimatum on a relationship? What circumstances lead you to give up on a relationship? And how do you act when you give up?Why did I laugh here? Damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.When the first thing that strong men take from a woman is sex, what bargaining chip is she left with? My personal opinion on this is that relationships mustn't be arranged as a stable contract for sex between two people anymore, because sex has been made a cheap thing by excessive availability in the market. I'm trying something else, "not having to handle women's crap and having an intelligent person as a companion". It's been better than fucking around, for the time being, but I remain skeptic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: What circumstances could prompt you to offer an ultimatum on a relationship? What circumstances lead you to give up on a relationship? And how do you act when you give up?Isn't there some graduation to acceptable losses there, or any loss would prompt you to pull the trigger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | [Q4BP] How do men vet women for possible divorce rape?You CAN vet for some known issues, you can conservatively dismiss candidates with a given profile, but you will not be able to vet against ill intended women. And minds change, and people change too. IF she decides to destroy your life, she will, unless you destroy hers. This bit gender bends too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: What circumstances could prompt you to offer an ultimatum on a relationship? What circumstances lead you to give up on a relationship? And how do you act when you give up?I don’t even know how to answer your first question. Probably with "none", then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.We are making bad choices as a society. Actually, we're not. We're a bit misguided, that's all. We believed people's welfare was related to a set of things, education, jobs, acceptance, and we, as a society, sought to give it to them. A bit more recently we noticed people's happiness isn't related to that but to how much time they spend NOT being annoyed. We're trying to adapt and give this to people now, but it's harder since we can't simply ask them. But it works. We're making a lot of good ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.There's one RP understanding in play here. IF the next branch seems SECURE, she'll start the rationalization process to make the swing with no guilt. She'll start to be sensible to her current partner's shortcomings, real or fabricated, be more demanding and put less effort at the same time. And she'll do EVERYTHING her morals allow to assess the next branch's safety. From saying "hi" to sucking his dick. The "good" women will turn him down if he displays interest but "politeness" and "social gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.But once a woman selects, monogamy becomes most optimal. mmm. There's little controversy here. Women's optimal solution would be having access to everyone's resources to raise their offspring and to fuck who they please, which is why on our tribal days so few men reproduced. There's no pressure for women to ever "select". We "artificially" caused "selection" to be required in order for women to have access to security and resources provided by ONE man. I reckon that the drive men experience to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.Why do you keep writing Zues? Where are you from? I'd hardly pick a discussion to say greek gods weren't pederasts. My own personal reading there is that he's being romantic and assuming Zeus had affection towards his wits because there are a lot of accounts of disciples developing those somewhat strange affections for their teachers. Zeus fucked everything though, saying he was being noble strikes as a lost cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.In this understanding the emotional attachments are burdens that prevent women from achieving their goals, then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 05:14 PM |
| 2 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.Good bait, poppy. Consider it bitten and go along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?Well, I'll look into solving the grammar bit. Still, if people disagree too much or have too much of a settled understanding about a subject, they will also think your arguments are garbage. Which is why I'm somewhat incredulous about any changes, no matter the wordings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.You made this discussion complicated since you approached the subject from a remarkably different angle and context than the one that caused me to ask him that. So, one thing a time here. First, if you take as premises that women are hypergamous and that their pursuit of the highest value man is socially acceptable, the only consequences are the ones that are women's to bear, and therefore they CAN do it. Branch swinging, as dreadful as it is, is a lot closer to "optimal" when it comes to the fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.Well, yeah, they are, but one of the most reasonable things I heard from feminists lately is that men must not add footnotes when they say they're feminists, which prevents me from ever saying I agree to feminism. I used to say this with a heavy heart, now I say it with some relief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.mmmm. Thank god wiki pointed out the bit that caused the polemic: Xenophon portrays Socrates as denying that Ganymede was the catamite of Zeus, and instead asserting that the god loved him for his psychē, "mind" or "soul," giving the etymology of his name as ganu-, "taking pleasure," and mēd-, "mind." Xenophon's Socrates points out that Zeus did not grant any of his lovers immortality, but that he did grant immortality to Ganymede. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.That rationalization strikes me a bit too much "enjoy the decline" to be called blue man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?I'm not appraching it from RP vs BP. I said "People decide what they will understand of what is written beforehand, no good writing will change their minds about it, and they will not address what is asked or written only what they decided the thread is about. Some people decided I am autistic because of the question I posed and nothing would make them argue anything else but that. I told someone else yesterday, communicating under (...)" I guess the difference is that I didn't address the possi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 04:26 PM |
| 2 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.Because you are literally giving up nearly all actual power over your relationship. Up to this day I have a hard time remembering I'm talking to Americans most often. I don't know how anyone who is RP can work through the sidebar and come to any other conclusion than divorce. MRP is known for having "stay married and never give up" as a premise, isn't it? The premise is as not RP as it gets but it's a premise, I'd hardly say they're purple if their understanding of women is red. Which is also wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?We said different things, didn't we? But I suppose it can always use some work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.Oh, that second sentence is too long isn't it? Does it interest you? If it does I'll break that down, this time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 02:19 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.It stand to reason, if you consider yourself Red, there should be zero reason you'd stay married. There's as much reason to stay married as there are reasons to enter LTRs, no? And there are reasons to enter LTRs. Even some reasons to work on them, although I don't believe a relationship can ever be worth the "RP hard mode" bit unless there are children. Or maybe I'm purple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.It's a myth I know because of the Jupter's moon, and an interesting one, I heard some criticism of it from some gay activist. Zeus' wife became jealous of his affection towards him and because of that he symbolizes something about homosexuality, but the name means something as "mind attracted" and if I guess Socrates or some other big guy pointed it out, which caused me to hear the guy was homophobic despite living in Greece. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?It wasn't meant to be hard to say just "no", yet we keep giving excuses. It's natural for us. I got bugged because lots of women say "women do not need an excuse to dismiss a man" yet we always give excuses to say "no". I achieved no conclusion though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?My writing won't ever be simple enough to prevent people that decide that I'm autistic because of the question I made to assume that and write against it, completely disregarding anything and everything I say. Or people that decide that they dislike what I say because of my flair. I talked to someone else yesterday, achieving any communication under such circumstances requires exceptional skill, and I don't have it, a flaw I used to compensate with a very special mood and too much patience, both… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.mmmm. I suppose I could agree to some of those, but I'd end up having to define progressivism, because people simply don't take cannon definitions for it, or feminism, because it's too broad now. And none of them are my own concepts to define. Under that line I tend to agree that governments are necessary for some reasons other than maximizing welfare but given that they're needed they might as well do that, too. Feminism taught me remarkably RP things about women, it's a shame it didn't teach m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.Also lets include the "denial of all things redpill." In this sense I would agree to none of it. At points I do take the freedom to define something in RP besides the common knowledge people have about it in order to state that I agree with it, but I only catch myself doing it because people that antagonize RP define those things in the worst and most stupid ways possible in order to disagree with it. I hardly believe that fits in "agree with blue pill", but if it fits for you, there's one. As a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else ever meet someone who makes you wish you hadn’t discovered this place?Cool question man. What is true already is, it already happens. Owning it up doesn't make it worse, ignoring it doesn't make it any better. Those women will behave the same way they would act if you were not red pilled, they'll react to how you treat them. There's no biggie in that, it shouldn't scare you to know how they work. Don't be stuck in fear. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 01:04 PM |
| 3 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.such as that all women are always looking to branch swing even when they’re already with a high value man. PROVIDED that women are hypergamous AND that society poses no antagonism to breaking up and dating again, WHY would women act any different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 12:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.Anyone married is not or could never be red while married. Why not? Do you mean you can not believe the consequences of hypergamy and praxeology RP uses for women while married, or just can't get yourself to use the solutions RP proposes for various reasons, among them their fallibility and undertone of emotional detachment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.Why "Ganymede", /u/ProfessorGanymede? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 12:48 PM |
| 1 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.I used to attribute this standing, of "anti-definition", to radfems only, not to pillsphere "blue pill". But I suppose your definition serves a lot more purposes than my own when it comes to communicating what is blue pill, even if blue pill itself serves no purpose at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 12:43 PM |
| 5 | I'm crossposting this to the various "Pill" Subreddits to see how entrenched people are in their beliefs and to see if there is common ground that can be bridged.You'll need to list some blue pill ideas, I catch myself utterly unable to define "blue pill" as anything besides the denial of RP, and as such, I agree to none of it. Just not to be annoying, I tend to believe with a nitpicked excerpt of something that usually goes under "feminism": When they say little girls should be raised differently if they are to have better shots at achieving prestigious jobs, yeah, I tend to agree. I hardly believe the different perspectives and drives the genders have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Feminist here...1) AWALT What does this even mean? I see this tossed around for every example of a women behaving negativity. What character traits does every woman have? Also, wouldn't there be an AMALT set of behaviour patterns for men? What would those be? It means we all observe the same behaviors from enough women to make a fair generalization that ALL women have a drive to act in such ways instead of SOME women randomly acting like that for various reasons. These behaviors are also described by some sourc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 10:28 AM |
| 1 | How long should it take to get proficient at sex?I wanna clarify, are you saying they hamster away sub par sex simply because they have fucked you? (which makes sense for hamstering) MOST women. Yep. What constitutes as sucking? I guess my "eeeehh this was bad" comes when either me or her find our way out after the first round. The first time I wanted seconds and found her dressed after washing it clean was a shock. I told her, "dressed already" and her reply was "I need to wake up early tomorrow". But I guess I also define as "suck" when she … | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 10:17 AM |
| 2 | How long should it take to get proficient at sex?What else can I watch/read/do? The sex god method is fucking awesome. It organizes what you have to strive for and learn in a simple way and points to some tools you might use. The rest is about clarifications over some subject but it's not done under the light of the DEVI method, so it might take a bit too long to be made into something useful. Get a couple cool plates and practice it, mainly diversity between the priorities. It'll probably serve you better. What can I expect? You can expect mo… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?In her defense, and in yours, and in mine too, it's not that my writing is garbage. It's just that I'm stupid. And I mean it without any intents of self commiseration. I should have given up, a while ago, of trying to generate any discussion when its motivation doesn't align with my flair, or when it triggers some stereotype. There are a few reasons for this, some are flattering to me, the ones that imply in me having high expectations, some are not, those that imply in me being naive, but in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?Does it annoy you if and when people challenge or propose solving your reasons? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?You'd be surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?Cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?You can give a reason without DEERing, indeed. Kudos for all those who do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?No excuses? Congrats I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?I'm saying everyone gives excuses but some folks here are puzzled whenever someone raises the idea that women are (or must) give reasons to dismiss men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?I expected or hoped to see the women that are puzzled by that saying "I say no all the time, is there an issue?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?For serious? Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?Let me ask you exactly the same thing. Don't you find it awkward that so many women express confusion when someone suggests women are giving excuses to dismiss men, end relationships or anything alike, and yet we ALL do it ALL the time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?The title and the end are the only questions there. I'm thoroughly convinced about the reasons that lead people into providing justifications. They're there, in the first paragraph I guess, and I believe women have a special one to provide a justification to deny men's advances. It just amazes me that on the spark thread and on so many others so many women say "why do women need to provide a reason to dismiss a man" and yet everyone does just that all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?I'm just safeguarding the other person's feelings as much as possible in the process. Don't you find it awkward how often people here say "but why the hell women need a reason to dismiss a guy?" only to have a hard time doing anything besides that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?We all do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?Nope, I'm just asking how often. I know why the excuse is added. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?Please, elucidate something to me. "How often" means "why"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?Woe is women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?Not giving them what they need for no reason whatsoever is communicating to them that their needs are not important to you. Hence, why people cushion the blow by sharing a (sometimes made up) reason Well, truth is they're not. "I'm sorry" would work better, as the other guy said. Sharing a reason is communicating something else, it's saying you would comply under other circumstances. What? Joke with an old meme. It seems it failed. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?Well, that's "No" too. Works just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Question about slightly different instance of girl's night out - I'm invitedMan, that would have been smart. But I lost that train a while ago. Maybe months ago she said "I'll have a girl's night out, (music I hate) next Friday, you have a free night". I mocked her about how she wasn't inviting me and she was always invited to mine, to which she said "of course not, it's a girl's night out". Smelled like failed shit test. Later she said she wouldn't go because her friends wouldn't accompany her, and I said "you went to the most annoying marriage ever and lost a free day… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How often do you say "No."?That's not far from what I said, people want to save their image while saying "no". The image doesn't need saving though, everyone knows "no" isn't immoral, unless it's your refusal to prevent a balloon a child has been kicking to keep off the ground to hit the ground when it's near you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 07:32 PM |
| 0 | There will always be a bottom 80%?If ALL men picked the high hanging fruits of attraction (fit, neat, good game), the value would be defined by whichever men picked more of the LOW hanging fruit (trendy style, dress well, etc). The low hanging fruit is as easy to pick as it is to lose. You'd have so much rotation among the "top 20%" you'd end up with no definite bottom. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 07:00 PM |
| 6 | Can someone explain #MeToo?Some celebrity women made heartfelt descriptions about how some celebrity men abused them. Their heartfelt descriptions defined new forms of "unacceptable behaviors" from men. Lots of women said "hey this happened to me too". Some other women tried and made some heartfelt descriptions of how they were treated in what they thought was "unacceptable ways" by men. The trend caught. Society learned that a heartfelt description of something that made a woman feel bad is a powerful tool to condemn a m… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Is it sexist or inaccurate to believe that men and women have different "energies"?Everything is socialization to them It's not just that. God forbid men dare to define what is "feminine" or what relates to "women", "men" or "gender". Only them (radfems) can define it because only them are victims of the oppression. Each men is allowed to define what interests him IF and only if he's willing to take ALL the judgment with no discussion. Whatever they say is true, men have no choice but to accept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it sexist or inaccurate to believe that men and women have different "energies"?It's most likely sexist. I'm red so I can't use the label but some blue is free to endorse the labeling here. It is sexist because you are labeling women, and it is always sexist to label women. Basically you did split some activities, professions, behaviors and drives as "feminine", and it is now of women's understanding that men can not define what is "feminine" without incurring in some sort of sexism. That's what triggered her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Question about slightly different instance of girl's night out - I'm invitedI don't intend to. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | You can't have a high RMV without having a high SMV, CMV.mmmmm. I guess not for men: Real market value = Capacity to enjoy life (money), power to achieve goals (status), capacity and will to achieve goals. SMV (for men) = Good looks, status, openness to support the woman and offspring (not just money, willingness to spend it). Status is a FULL intersection, money belongs to both but it's not as heavy in SMV. You can't quite achieve high RMV without both of them, and having them both in high amounts makes a pretty high SMV even if you're LOW on looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe in 'the spark' or is that an excuse women made up to drop unattractive men?Maybe it is that, but the way I see it, it is because I like discussing because I often learn, I like giving classes less because the best I get from it is organizing my thoughts, but you folks made me grow to dislike entertaining conversations with people that miss points, either purposefully or by blindness. It requires a very special mood and some exceptional skill to sow barren grounds. As I lack the exceptional skill I need large amounts of the mood to bother trying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Question about slightly different instance of girl's night out - I'm invitedTrust me on this one. If you ever feel the need to check her phone, something is VERY off. Good chances it's with her, smaller but still sensible chances it is with you, and the most important, it is unlikely that it will be solved and if it is solvable it is EXTREMELY unlikely to be worth the hassle. Mainly given how far "checking her phone" can stretch to men willing to do some googling on how to disregard people's privacy. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe in 'the spark' or is that an excuse women made up to drop unattractive men?The problem isn't that I don't want to say what I mean. The problem there is that I meant what I said: People, women mainly, LOVE to state that some things are beyond their reach to justify actions or behaviors that might hurt others, justifications to themselves above anything else. And today I don't plan to elucidate the difference between that and "women break up and men don't break up". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Question about slightly different instance of girl's night out - I'm invitedI'm pretty aware of that. It's just the change on her behavior that made me wonder if maybe she wanted or expected me to go. I hope not though, I have no intention to. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Question about slightly different instance of girl's night out - I'm invitedNo meaning in her unexpected invitation, then? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe in 'the spark' or is that an excuse women made up to drop unattractive men?Oh, how I feared that was your point. I have little to no will of clearing the nuance there though. I will, if it happens to go by unnoticed by more people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Question about slightly different instance of girl's night out - I'm invitedI get it. I was just wondering if there was some meaning to her inviting me. I suppose not. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Question about slightly different instance of girl's night out - I'm invitedI guess. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Question about slightly different instance of girl's night out - I'm invitedIt's done and settled actually. I'd never let a week long heads up go missing. lol | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Question about slightly different instance of girl's night out - I'm invitedIs she going with single slutty friends to a club To a place people go to make out, booze fueled, but she does not drink. “sleeping over” at a friends place? No, this one is a total deal breaker. What are you worried about? I'm not VERY worried, maybe RP made me a bit paranoid. I'm just wondering if this can be read differently. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe in 'the spark' or is that an excuse women made up to drop unattractive men?We do, I do it a lot, actually I never had it done to me. What's the point here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe in 'the spark' or is that an excuse women made up to drop unattractive men?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Should I worry?Nothing to be done man. Chick's into you but now fucking you means not fucking your bro, it has a cost now, and she also knows, now, that she is pursued among you, so she can invest less, hence why she cooled off. It might upset you but it's as worrisome as rain making things wet. It's only natural. You need to engineer your environment better if you want to prevent it from happening, it serves nothing addressing it to her. When it comes to your bro, he's breaking my code. I don't game bro's chi… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe in 'the spark' or is that an excuse women made up to drop unattractive men?Que tal “No creo en brujas, pero que las hay, las hay"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 02:11 PM |
| 13 | Do you believe in 'the spark' or is that an excuse women made up to drop unattractive men?I believe women when they say there is "no spark". I don't believe in "the spark" though. People, women mainly, LOVE to state that some things are beyond their reach to justify actions or behaviors that might hurt others, justifications to themselves above anything else. For instance, the relationship isn't as exciting anymore and now will require work and maintenance, the honeymoon stage is over. The man wants the relationship, the woman doesn't want to work on it, so she decides to leave. She … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 02:09 PM |
| 8 | What is your thought process when the girl you asked out tells you about a current fuckbuddy on the first date?This girl is overtly stating that she is a sexual being, it must be because she does not know how to do it covertly or doesn't trust herself to do it well enough, therefore she is not seasoned. Seduction has been made easier because I can reinforce her will to appear sexual by escalating, but I ought to expect some anxieties. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 12:50 PM |
| 1 | What do you make of me? (35F)That's something I find awkward to hear. I'll upgrade the theory. Are you dancing between roles in a Karpman drama triangle? Prosecutor, victim and rescuer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | What do you make of me? (35F)Now I'm curious. Did I nail something right there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/18 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe in the saying: "Nice guys finish last" when it comes to dating?No. Nice guys usually don't finish at all, only with their hands, and if that ever changes they find themselves so rusty and without practice they'll spend some time finishing alone. I've been accused of being too slow on escalating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/18 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Calling all big beefy hairy bear-mode type guys who haven't seen their abs in a decade. Has being this way hindered (in your view) your chances with attracting women?I'm not hairy. I actually just got ripped AFTER deciding to open like a mother fucker and trying to fuck every pussied human I could for a while. Having my bf% on the 15-20% range didn't seem to hinder me, I even have spare tires that aren't visible with shirts when I'm somewhat above the 17% mark. Bottom line is you'd rather be dirty bulked while with your clothes on, ripped with them off. Big and ripped is the best of both worlds, naturally. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Can you get rid of your oneitis without fucking girls?As folks have said, keep yourself busy. Reading helps it a lot. But there's something else there. It seems you're WAITING for "gym results" BEFORE you start gaming chicks. There's no need to WAIT, and believing you need to add value in any form BEFORE you can approach chicks has a knack to screw men. Those hoes are fucked to sleep by dudes that don't look half as good as you and aren't worth half as much. No need to double your worth before going for them. Just do it. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 12:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women are more RP than menI'll challenge your view. RP for men has two important bits. First one is ridding us from shame about our drives and nature, it's letting us realize that the major difference between us and the "naturals", "Chads", and other legendary sexually fulfilled beings is that they own what they want and aren't ashamed of it, while men aren't. The second one is letting us know women are not Disney princess. They're human beings, flawed and selfish in the pursuit of their goals, and those aren't always th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/18 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP men: when do you decide a woman is NAWALT?If a woman never acts 'like that, how can you say they are 'like that'? Every man has the potential to act like a rapist, but only the men who act it out are rapists. I love this example, because it's kind of fucked up. Every man has the potential as far as every woman has. There are two concurrent branches of the autonomous nervous system men need to have miswired to be aroused by violence. Every man has the potential to cheat on you, every man will find it increasingly harder to stay with you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP men: when do you decide a woman is NAWALT?Attractive guy gets interested in her. She sees me on my worst, she only sees him on his best. For some time he insists in getting close, he's calm and polite enough not to cause her to dump him, but he doesn't hide his interest. What will come is that she'll become more demanding and disappointed with me because she has a flashing door opened in front of her, until at some point it becomes her rational choice to leave. I believe "all women are like that" because upon asking I saw EVERY guy obse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP men: when do you decide a woman is NAWALT?Maybe he's not saying it, but yep, you are all like that. Given some combinations of events, some of which might lie beyond a man's reach, ALL women will do monstrous shit to them. Enough of these events are within one's reach, enough to make LTRs possible (maybe I'm just too optimistic though), but it's not fail safe, no woman is fail safe for a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Is it morally wrong or disrespectful for a woman to ghost you?Are her actions towards you disrespectful or morally wrong? Nope, it's up to me to reach her out and ask for status if I feel I need it, and it's also upon me to interpret my inability to reach her. Is she obligated to tell you she's ending things because of the time spent with you? It would be nice if she did, but if no overt commitment was arranged, none exists. I really want to know what men think of this scenario Ghosting can come from two sources. A big "fuck it, I don't want to lose a seco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP men: when do you decide a woman is NAWALT?Folks that say "this woman is different" are just being naive. There are good women, as there are good men. But we are what we are, it doesn't change because we refrain from acting on it. The friend: Bro, she's not fucking you because she doesn't think you're that attractive anymore. Work on it, and if it doesn't work, allow some other women to get close to you. Your wife doesn't strike me as stupid, because I don't think you'd marry a woman just for "other reasons". She'll have a hard time tell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Oh. People post about women that acted in shitty ways there. The idea isn't to post there to berate women, you rarely see a name posted there. Their idea is to vent, there's a flair for them. The service of these posts is to let other men know women CAN do that sort of stuff. But folks are just venting, mostly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I think you are going off thread. Which one? We approached like 10 this far. lol But Im glad you see some logic in TRP. Nerding this out a bit, "having a logic of its own" is hardly possible. Logic is logic, it interacts with the real world through premises. RP has some definite premises from which it derives its models. It's models describe reality well and through these models we make good predictions and solve practical issues. That's all to it, that's as far as you can expect logic to go. An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | What do you make of me? (35F)Well, good luck there. Know when to quit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 07:36 PM |
| 3 | What do you make of me? (35F)Well, since you asked for honesty (I hope). You're hardly a rare case, you're the female equivalent of the guy here that went for a less attractive and poor woman, and you were attracted by pretty much the same things that drew him. For some reason you feel your other relationships either hurt you or stalled you, so now the important thing there is either safety or freedom. In the first case, safety, you get some of the bits you look for in your new husband but you make sure your bond with him i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 06:38 PM |
| 7 | Q4RP Men in an ltr who have some type of emotional attachment/investment in their woman. How can you still have an emotional connection with your woman even after acknowledging the unflattering truths about women in general?First thing that helps me a lot is recalling that the unflattering truths are not about women only. They're about me, too. I was made aware that I am polygamous and I could observe how the unflattering bits work on me. Yet, I know I can make my choice. Basically I know she gets wet for some dude, as my cock greets some hot gals. I trust her to stop there and I gave up on "fidelity in thoughts". Second, I made myself aware about how things go down the drain. I know why things stop working and I e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Maintaining plausible deniability: Always necessary for subsequent meet ups?Exactly the idea there. I learned that you CAN make slutty chicks feel cheap if you try to keep plausible deniability after fucking. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | How does my story fit into TRPShe MIGHT not know herself, as of yet. She WILL get to know herself, and then she'll friendzone guys like you, and you too. Both you and her are too young, although you are remarkably elaborate. You both have a hardwired nature for sex, there are attraction switches for you both, and the ones you're pressing, even if they're the only ones that will work now, aren't the best ones to press. Go further than all other guys, have your fun there. It's cool that you hear her "sad" stories but DO make o… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Maintaining plausible deniability: Always necessary for subsequent meet ups?How was sex? The less nervous she was, the more overt you SHOULD be about it. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Maintaining plausible deniability: Always necessary for subsequent meet ups?It goes both ways there. Once the LMR is overcome some chicks feel it's time to get down to business and guys that strive to maintain plausible deniability becomes just give some beta tell. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Anyone successfully plate someone from their BP days after swallowing the Pill?It'll be harder for you to nail those women, but each guy has his own threshold to determine whether he overcame his beta shit or not. This seems to be yours right there, so, do it. Get your practice done with some new chicks. It's funny how these thresholds go. To each with his own. Mine was club chicks. I saw chicks I knew from before (not friends though) as clutches, chicks I didn't have much anxiety upon approaching. I plated and spun for five months a woman I jerked for sometimes while I wa… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?RP doesn't endorse berating women by their mistakes, nor for being women. Plainly speaking, there was an standard arrangement for relationships between men and women to work. It was oppressive to both sides, it didn't allow either side to be free. It's arguable to which side it was worst, but it's been discussed at length and it seems it's rather obvious that men had it worst on average and they gave upon more freedoms and potential of fulfillment and took more obligations, while it possibly suc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Placeholder girlfriend/boyfriendDude that has a placeholder girlfriend will end up married to her because he won't ever make the upgrade. Somehow I think it's something more girly, but she'll be a poor partner, so a guy stepping up for that isn't that much of a great pick either, is him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Not really. I just noticed that, every couple exchanges, we changed subjects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?It's not hatred to share an opinion you state isn't a fact or truth. (...) Feminism isn't seen positively or held as bitter truths. I suppose you're either saying that "men don't really hate women, I just think that" or saying you indeed hate men? Radfem states "truth" are the opinions you shared. The original class exploitation is men over women, and every woman knows 200 rapists. One subreddit versus the 1000s...doesn't really compare. I have no intention of clearing up what is TRP for you, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Lesbian couples two and a half times more likely to get divorced than male same-sex couplesI made some considerations about it. First thing was some sense of empowerment, "I can do anything", that might come with uncloseting and living up one's sexuality, it's bound to give them some serious courage. Someone pointed here about the drama too. I don't know how "missing out" plays in that scenario though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Lesbian couples two and a half times more likely to get divorced than male same-sex couplesIt does makes sense and fits the observations, doesn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I just realized our conversation lacks a thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Meh separating society seems more useful. mmmmm. There's a discussion about "right" and "wrong", often labeled "source of morality", that has been going on for millenniums. Some remarkable advances were made and beautiful conclusions were reached. A society such as yours can only be like that if there are enemies or perceived enemies in within (something populists, such as your current president, love to say). And it doesn't survive. So just end it already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I likely can't do it as women aren't as prone to hate like men. No, women are just prone to spread wonderful loving words about how all men are rapists (in their opinion) and how it would be better for society if they were split apart. It's not hatred, at all... You're just striving to define "hate" in a fashion that kind of doesn't involve your behavior, but you are, too, proposing action towards it. Compare the hateful female subreddits (rapingwomen, beatingwomen) to the hateful male subreddit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Castration doesn't end rape. Oh, I don't intend to end rape. I intend to end the society. I'm not remarkably unlucky You happen to know at least 200 men that talked about their experiences, 50 of them said they violently and forcefully had sex with a woman, 150 of them said they either had sex with an unconscious woman, blackmailed women for sex, or thought it was cool to have forceful violent sex with women provided that they're their girlfriends. You're unlucky. You need to stop editing stuff … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?You're lucky. You're in Brazil. This might as well be the first time this was EVER said. Folks are killing each other because they're fueling their cars instead of entering the strike. #prayforbrazil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?In my opinion society would be better off In my opinion your society, one in which a random person knows 200 rapists, would be better off if all people were castrated and it ceased to exist in a generation's span. Just have it drilled into them how much men truly hate women and at some point women will detach. Uhh, don't do it. You're most likely remarkably unlucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I don't know 200 men that talked to me about sex. You know a lot of people, and a lot of the worst ones I guess. I'm pretty sure all men whose last names I know would consider all those fucked up things although for semantic reasons some would remove the blackmail from "rape". In Brazil drunks are fully responsible so folks would only define rape if she was indeed unconscious, but provided that she was, as you stated, I'm also sure that would be no divergence. Maybe I'm the lucky one though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Look at something I said on the OP. We're GOOD with patterns, we suck with random events. If 5% or 10% of people have a given behavior, damn, probably they ALL have the potential for it and those simply had this behavior triggered. I wondered if people were being triggered by RP terror tales but their personal experiences didn't prove it. It's not the case, it happens. If you know 50 rapists, well... You have a fair ground to say all men are rapists. As pathetic as the claim might be, you couldn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 07:22 PM |
| 4 | Q4RP: Are your sisters, mothers, aunts and grandmothers AWALTs?Yep. LOTS OF THEM Play dumb to avoid having to justify shit EVERY FUCKING DAY. Crying when challenged is common as fuck, although sometimes I think it is legit and not forced. PURE AWALT. Some are doing worse crap too. One rather close to me is looking into securing a rich beta and she shames and uses ALL the weaponry she has to keep him locked. Poor dude. And she's only hard on him because she got convinced she can't swing any higher anymore. Another one rode the CC hard, found a guy and was ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?So the only way I can know that many rapists is if I hate men. Alrighty. No, dumbass. If you know that many rapists you WILL hate men. Period. Some unlucky dudes around there said most women they met acted in terrible ways, so, maybe you're unlucky the other way. It can happen. Guess you never read studies on how men view rape. I'll let you guess once more then. There wouldn't be a war. Women don't hate men and the very few that do could never hate men like men hate women. Nope. When all women k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I give up. If you know 50 rapists you should really hate men. When the war comes I expect you to be the fiercest of my enemies. If we win I'll have them making a statue of you as the only justified one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?You see, I asked this question to fellow red pillers because I wondered if something was happening: "Maybe we, as individuals, never observed enough women acting terribly to be able to generalize it, but instead, we say too many women acting awfully in TRP, the WORST STORIES ABOUT women among 268k men, and were made hyper sensitive to it." So I asked. HOW MANY DO YOU KNOW? It seriously seems that you're falling for this trap though. Do you actually know a guy that told a story like the one you d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I guess I should answer the other one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Lesbian couples two and a half times more likely to get divorced than male same-sex couplesUuuuh. You see I didn't mean "severe anxieties" right? It does. And I can this back up. This article has a funny name and a light hearted tune. https://www.healthcentral.com/article/sexual-intimacy-anxiety | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I don't have an issue with them, either. What I observed and know women will do if some boxes are checked can easily be phrased in terrible ways, too. It causes me no wonder that someone did it. I have no issue with TRP, at all. Not even with the overt misogyny sometimes pops there. There's a place and a purpose for it, and I think those men are ALL intelligent enough to either not to take the shit that belongs to TRP-"support group" to activism or to prevent the ones that want to do it from act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Lesbian couples two and a half times more likely to get divorced than male same-sex couplesComeon. Easy joke! lol Good taste: You like women when you should like men. Least rational: You like women when you should like men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Lesbian couples two and a half times more likely to get divorced than male same-sex couplesGood luck there. Among people lesbians are certainly the least rational and with best taste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What do you think about the claim that human sexuality is hyper-flexible, so that when a "liberal" and a "conservative" try to support their sexual views with scientific evidence they are often BOTH wrong?Oh. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What do you think about the claim that human sexuality is hyper-flexible, so that when a "liberal" and a "conservative" try to support their sexual views with scientific evidence they are often BOTH wrong?It's misused everywhere actually, not only with observational sciences. It's weird as fuck for me hearing about some label that puts psychology and biology side by side. Around here it'd be natural science and "health". Even weirder because biology permits the traditional "scientific method" while psychology doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Lesbian couples two and a half times more likely to get divorced than male same-sex couplesHonestly I believe it happens a lot more because they're less demanding of stability to commit and wed than anything else. Not that they're not. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:56 PM |
| 7 | Lesbian couples two and a half times more likely to get divorced than male same-sex couplesI wonder why is that. Have you ever been with men? If so, do sex with women spur in you the same anxieties sex with men did? I have this hypothesis. Same gender sex causes a lot less anxiety in people and this absence changes the dynamics of couples in various fashions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:55 PM |
| 6 | Lesbian couples two and a half times more likely to get divorced than male same-sex couplesAround here lesbians move in and out in a blink. God knows why. So maybe it's a serious trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What do you think about the claim that human sexuality is hyper-flexible, so that when a "liberal" and a "conservative" try to support their sexual views with scientific evidence they are often BOTH wrong?It's misused everywhere actually, not only with observational sciences. It's weird as fuck for me hearing about some label that puts psychology and biology side by side. Around here it'd be natural science and "health". Even weirder because biology permits the traditional "scientific method" while psychology doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What do you think about the claim that human sexuality is hyper-flexible, so that when a "liberal" and a "conservative" try to support their sexual views with scientific evidence they are often BOTH wrong?But formal logic doesn't CAUSE the naturalist fallacy. Leave it out, it's the purest thing in the universe. Often too pure to interact properly with reality but still, no issues there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What do you think about the claim that human sexuality is hyper-flexible, so that when a "liberal" and a "conservative" try to support their sexual views with scientific evidence they are often BOTH wrong?I think I'd have to read the book to see if it support's the reviewer's conclusion about it. Other than that, it seems rather unlikely that our sexuality is so beautiful, diverse and unique. WHY would it be? How would it be beneficial for us to be so very complicated when it comes to reproducing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What do you think about the claim that human sexuality is hyper-flexible, so that when a "liberal" and a "conservative" try to support their sexual views with scientific evidence they are often BOTH wrong?Hey don't go around speaking ill of formal logic. The issue there has nothing to do with formal logic. Formal for the win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:08 PM |
| 16 | Lesbian couples two and a half times more likely to get divorced than male same-sex couplesNot long ago I was commenting to such a couple about how quickly they moved in together and moved out too. It seems that's a trend here that adds to that effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | 1 CMV: Between a patriarchal and a feminist culture, a feminist culture is much better for a red pilled manI guess Scandinavia makes your counter examples? I don't see why you also believe having the state meddling in your pocket is advantageous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Evolutionary Psychology: Female ‘Choosiness’ in a post-conflict and post-scarcity world.Oh, where do you live? Is the absence of calories to sustain an issue there? Will it make pressure? Edit: No jokes. Rich people are taller and more muscular than poor people here. The advantage is speed of reproductive turnover and when you simplify you get this speed We're probably selecting for early puberty people, intensely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Calm down there blue. I know 5% that behave as TRPs claim all/most women do. This is a remarkably low number, so maybe you can disagree with RP. Tell me something, do these 5% of women have another trait or traits that suggest they'll act like that? Are there ALWAYS reasonable (not far fetched) explanations? Like, "she lied about domestic violence in court to get alimony but he let it slip to some people he intended to hide his assets so she needed to solve it quickly and the judge would take to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:51 PM |
| 2 | (Q4all) How many people believe that men do not have any responsibility for fathering children because women have the "final word" on abortion?mmm. Basically, he proposed an unfeasible solution. I pointed out it had a exploitable flaw that made it undesirable, and proposed another unfeasible solution to purge this flaw. There's nothing of true value there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Evolutionary Psychology: Female ‘Choosiness’ in a post-conflict and post-scarcity world.it is better to simplify as this leads to faster, more breeding, and more kids it is better to simplify IF this leads to faster, more breeding, and more kids IF it leads to advantage, then you can expect the traits to be lost. It's not the case for women being picky though. There's nothing working against muscular, taller, more social men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy not so uncommon when you are in love?Not actively. I ended a relationship I had long given up on, but I wasn't averse to them, although I'm averse to the RP hard mode understanding (Chick has to make it easier, she can't be her natural self, or I doubt any chick will be worth the hassle). The idea of serial monogamy was so rooted in me I didn't fashion the possibility of anything else. I felt awkward as shit the first time I, having an "undefined relationship" running for a while, slept with another woman. Probably because of a tri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:10 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?Good for them, I thoroughly believe if they don't, they're probably decent women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I have no idea what feminism has to do with what I said. Really? How upsetting. Let me break this down then. Why is it that feminism spawned into existence? No need to nerd it out, because women weren't given much of a choice? Because we sucked at them and didn't let them vote? Whatever. ANY REASON will translate to and fit perfectly "because the role given by us to women wasn't good". To my surprise, you made a WILD affirmation: The only “role” that society has given men and women is to live yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | (Q4all) How many people believe that men do not have any responsibility for fathering children because women have the "final word" on abortion?Man, something like that couldn't be accomplished 100 years ago, let alone 100 years in the future. Also, we won't mange to accomplish opt-out fatherhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | (Q4all) How many people believe that men do not have any responsibility for fathering children because women have the "final word" on abortion?Man, if that's ALL the issue you see there, I'm not sure if I'm scared or seduced by your surroundings. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy not so uncommon when you are in love?Man, that's the issue with those terpers. We talk about eating ONE CUPCAKE and they assume everyone that ate one spent years eating them, which is not true, and even if it was, what's the biggie if they ate pounds of chocolate and are thin now? Not all cupcakes are eaten in binge eating man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy not so uncommon when you are in love?Oh man, why so much stoicism? You'll never know, that steak might end up being served with potatoes to someone else. It's its nature, steak and fries, since the dawn of times. All steaks are like that. All steaks will rather go with carbs. Your diet won't work if you indulge yourself in cupcakes all along but hey, as long as it's consensual, sometimes it won't do harm, will it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | (Q4all) How many people believe that men do not have any responsibility for fathering children because women have the "final word" on abortion?No edits on that one man... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy not so uncommon when you are in love?Wait. Does it count as cheating if the person gets fat while on Atkins? And the people that went keto while single? How about them? Will them be plagued by fear of missing out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | (Q4all) How many people believe that men do not have any responsibility for fathering children because women have the "final word" on abortion?It means, his solution is flawed because ill intended men might abuse it. I proposed an alternative in which ill intended people face severe restraints. It's equally unfeasible, but more functional in theory. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?I suppose you won't spend a lot of time single unless it is by choice or you don't go out much. The second and fourth are incredibly rare. I know (literally) phds that play dumb. I know a phd in fucking quantum physics that plays dumb to get away with preposterous shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:48 PM |
| 0 | (Q4all) How many people believe that men do not have any responsibility for fathering children because women have the "final word" on abortion?It's flawed. Men would have the capacity to threaten women with such decision. Compulsory sterilization of people benefited by abortions would help it better, would't it? Woman is pregnant, man and woman sign a paper declaring their intent to interrupt the pregnancy. Only man opts for it, no CS, he spends two "INTERRUPT". Only woman opts, abortion, she spends two. Both opt for it, abortion, one each. Give every person two "INTERRUPT" and compulsory sterilization if the person ever gets on negati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Tell me how I'm wrong when I say that pickup artists are manchilds that changed their energy from catching 'em all (Pokemon) to catching them all (N-count)?You are wrong! Not all of them were into pokemon. Well, that, and also that one of those two things are basically one of OTHER two things humans are hard wired to do. I hardly believe Pokemons might trigger a sense of fulfillment nearly as intense as living up your genetic hard wiring. But hey, some people REALLY love Pokemon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:29 PM |
| 2 | (Q4all) How many people believe that men do not have any responsibility for fathering children because women have the "final word" on abortion?But its also a weird violation of evolutionary biology and might very well reflect a genetic lack of capacity for empathy.. Really? I'd totally file that under "avoiding responsibility". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:26 PM |
| 1 | N-count question.I have yet to hear any other compelling reason for being invested in a prospective partner’s n-count. Here's one: 2/4 cluster B disorders, which are things you should avoid altogether in a partner, have a common denominator of highly sexual behaviors leading to promiscuity (at least in histrionics and bpds). Given that the frequency for each of those might be as high as 5% in women (differential diagnosis should assure no intersections so combination should be the sum, but I doubt statistics are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy not so uncommon when you are in love?The idea that "all men are naturally polygamous" is demonstrably untrue. My own personal opinion on this suffered such a radical shift in so little time I have a hard time believing anything but that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Monogamy not so uncommon when you are in love?Did you just make a remarkably appropriate Atkins joke there?!? WOA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?It can only be because we're the best men she knows. Obviously. (sarcasm intonation) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?HAHAHAHAHAHA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:12 PM |
| 9 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?Attractive enough to cause spontaneous boners; Preference for coming out intelligent above coming out naive; Not an attention whore; Capacity to assess situations and admit being wrong coupled with initiative to do it and act without the need of provocation; Emotional availability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: have you ever told a guy trying to pick you up that you have a boyfriend, even though you didn't have one?ironically are doing disservice to themselves by continuing to use such tactics. I agree here, it annoys them to act like that, wastes time, but acting otherwise brings anxiety. I hardly see how there might be enough pressure to change it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | According to recent studies there's no link between the menstrual cycle and preference for masculine men.So AF/BB lies strong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: have you ever told a guy trying to pick you up that you have a boyfriend, even though you didn't have one?I actually believe it goes the other way. The females that straight out said "no" probably got murdered a lot during out evolution. I mean, you don't want to piss a being that is used to murdering folks all around unless you're considering the possibility of killing it and women had no way to do it. Women's reaction to threat is sometimes called "tend and befriend" (googleable) because of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy not so uncommon when you are in love?Looking forward to reading your thoughts and explanations on the matter. mmmm. Your bit isn't about polygamy, it is about scarcity. When you were in love your sexual needs were being met, something that probably didn't happen otherwise. It led you to believe your partner was a source of greater fulfillment, which let you ignore your polygamy for a while. When men decide they WILL fuck a lot of women, usually they do and end up learning that their sexual needs are BETTER fulfilled outside a LTR. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: have you ever told a guy trying to pick you up that you have a boyfriend, even though you didn't have one?It seems unlikely that that is true, but if it is like that then I also don't see any practical difference between the two answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: have you ever told a guy trying to pick you up that you have a boyfriend, even though you didn't have one?I hardly believe it is only RP men that know women lie that line. My female friends simply can't master their guts enough to tell guys "no". They HAVE to say "I have a boyfriend" or they feel TERRIBLE about it. Since I know they won't simply say no I teach them to say, upon persistence "Look, I was just seeking a polite way to let you know I have no interest in keeping this conversation." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Honestly I feel like asking BP men the same question and see if their answers are any different. The problem is, when I wrote the original post I took some care to try to disarm the "AWALT" button. It worked most times, very few people said it, and it worked because I knew what I had to design the question to prevent, how I had to prime it. BP hates RP, so I can hardly think of a way to ask it and prime them against hating me enough to give an honest answer. Lame. I really wish I knew the women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: have you ever told a guy trying to pick you up that you have a boyfriend, even though you didn't have one?I'm pretty sure that the most persistent men would be persistent no matter what combination of words you used to tell them no. I really can't argue this, so this is just to make sure I got you right. Are you stating that all men that persist upon hearing "no, I have a boyfriend" also persist after "no"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I'm not challenging you. I'm just really curious about the numbers. A lot folks say "RP generalizes women unfairly observing a biased sample because their behavior only attracts the worse women". Besides that I also considered that the collection of the worst women on the planet TRP exposes us to could have made us overly sensitive to it. But that's hardly true and that is not the case. We all have remarkably solid reasons to believe what we do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: have you ever told a guy trying to pick you up that you have a boyfriend, even though you didn't have one?But why does it matter that much to me how I turn men down? (...) As long as I've done my due diligence by being polite about it I can't say about YOU, but when, in order to be polite, women give an excuse to say "no", they end up leaving an openings that will be used by the most annoying guys which will most likely piss them the most, and also by some oblivious men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: have you ever told a guy trying to pick you up that you have a boyfriend, even though you didn't have one?mmmm. I guess in the vast majority of time it simply doesn't matter, most men get the the message. The problem are the ones that don't. "No" will dismiss ALL men, BUT an eventual ill intended individual that is ONLY intimidated by boyfriends. If this dude exists, he's dangerous, but I can't quite imagine him. I'm not sure this dude exists. "I have a boyfriend" is "No, because...", it dismisses most men, but leaves the most annoying AND the most oblivious fellows behind, and they're the ones that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Well, I guess you see in enough of them. The thing is, we all observe 10-20% at least of women pulling monstrous shit, and our samples are remarkably different. It's much more likely that they all have the drive towards it than that we spot the same shitty ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: have you ever told a guy trying to pick you up that you have a boyfriend, even though you didn't have one?A sort of "It's not you, it's me" thing? More like "It's not me, it's the universe forbidding it" thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 02:28 PM |
| 1 | According to recent studies there's no link between the menstrual cycle and preference for masculine men.Well, if he did clarify, all that remains is being either unawarely or purposefully annoying. I'm guilty of the second one, so... lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: have you ever told a guy trying to pick you up that you have a boyfriend, even though you didn't have one?I disappointingly hear "I have a boyfriend" FAR MORE OFTEN than "No". Most often without the "No". Discussing it I heard women argue "I have a boyfriend works a lot better than no". The problem is, it doesn't. Most times "I have a boyfriend" and "No, I have a boyfriend" works, "No" works just as well. The exceptions are ill intended men that are ONLY intimidated by your boyfriend, and truth is they're rare as fuck since men that ill intended are rare and they'll ALSO get intimidated by ALL other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | According to recent studies there's no link between the menstrual cycle and preference for masculine men.I know he only approached that one subject, but what did he claim? According to RP "science" the menstrual cycle proves AFBB. Apparently ovulating women prefer arrogant, confrontational, macho douchebags and betas the rest of the cycle. Why would he phrase it like that if he didn't intend to say "I claim AF/BB is debunked because RP science bases it on this, and this is false"? He would have said "RP's claim about preferences during the ovulatory cycle (might) have been debunked", wouldn't him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Evolutionary Psychology: Female ‘Choosiness’ in a post-conflict and post-scarcity world.Nice try on a complicated question, but it seems shit's pretty simple: The evolutionary "choosiness" women developed won't go away simply because the pressure that selected it doesn't exist anymore. No evolved traits are lost by lack of use. They'll only go away if there is PRESSURE against them. In a post scarcity world women remain picky. Without the need to exchange reproductive access for resources to raise children, they're less prone to commit to lower men. Men with worse genes might still… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | According to recent studies there's no link between the menstrual cycle and preference for masculine men.For serious, did my reading and yours of the first line of his post are SO different? Edit: I mean, did I read "I claim AF/BB is debunked because RP science bases it on this, and this is false" and you read "This particular evidence provided for AF/BB lies proven false"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: have you ever told a guy trying to pick you up that you have a boyfriend, even though you didn't have one?"No, thank you" or "Sorry, no" - if they suggest we go out or ask my number. Conclude the interaction with a polite exchange of good-byes and walk away. PLEASE, teach ALL your fellow women how perfectly RIGHT you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | According to recent studies there's no link between the menstrual cycle and preference for masculine men.I just said he formulated his affirmation in a way he possibly knows is dishonest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | According to recent studies there's no link between the menstrual cycle and preference for masculine men.Cool, but preference shifts during menstrual cycles are far from all evidence that supports women using dual mating strategies. That's a hypothesis, not a concept, but it's supported by multiple observations. Not that many, just more than one. And given that OP isn't stupid, which he has proven he is not, making the assumption that the variations during the menstrual cycle IS the only thing that supports AF/BB strikes as a lot more likely to come from dishonesty (even if he believes it is to win… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 01:41 PM |
| 1 | If sexual strategy is amoral, then why do redpillers moralize female sexual strategy"Moral" - What is inherently right. "Immoral" - What is inherently wrong. "Amoral" - What doesn't concern the discussion between right or wrong, or that simply ignores it. "Source of morality" - A thousands years long discussion on how and why we believe some stuff is right and other stuff is wrong. "Moralizing" can only mean "make it right". It doesn't make lot of sense since whatever is the perspective you're taking for moral, something is either right or wrong. RP doesn't "moralize" male sexu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 01:37 PM |
| 1 | According to recent studies there's no link between the menstrual cycle and preference for masculine men.I couldn't find it, there's a bit too much on the subject in TRP. This one seems cool, it points some other aspects besides the variation during the cycle. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6fh152/evolpsych_womens_shortterm_mating_psychology/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 01:21 PM |
| 2 | 50/50 income split in households is very unfairDon't sacrifice yourself, live a life slutting around, problem solved. Your doctor uncle would be pretty glad fucking every other nurse that hits on him. He's giving away uncommitted, free fun. His nurse wife hardly dumped a better suitor to stay with him and he has ABSOLUTELY no guarantees nor safeties that she will if a better one comes around. There's no fair splitting of household costs when you commit to a person that makes a lot less than you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?My peers? Women. And what is wrong with slutty women? As far as things go well for them, not a lot. They find a slutty dude and they fuck each other gladly and while they do they learn how to maintain their own relationship. In theory we expect her to be a bit more demanding and far more unforgiving than her chaste peers, but it's hard to say how much and there are just so many other variables it doesn't raise big concerns. The problem is when things DON'T go well for them and they decide to "se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Your CMV? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I suppose we observe better the ones very close to us and they can talk more freely. How frequent do you mean in "over represented"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?You made an affirmation the discredits the reason that spun feminism into existence man. Either you are claiming it is not necessary anymore, or you are claiming it was never needed. That, and the rather disappointing attempt at condescension. I believe that was your best over there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Things that some people on TRP complain about, which actually make sense, making the complaint nullMay the lord be praised. It's used in these forms, actually. "All women are capable of doing preposterous shit" "All women DO preposterous shit so I should have know this one would" "Hark and behold! This woman has done preposterous shit" A LOT of dudes hit the AWALT button for mentally ill women. Shame. Makes the concept harder to grasp and less useful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I'm not complimenting you. Going through long extents discussing what causes inceldom only to find out you were referring an issue with matching in a very, very abstract form was disappointing as shit. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 08:18 PM |
| 1 | According to recent studies there's no link between the menstrual cycle and preference for masculine men.Nope. It's more like "It's so true you also spot it". It actually comes from an article about dual mating in humans, I've seen it linked here a few times, I guess a bp guy linked it to me here too. I'll find it when I have some time to search my own memory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I'm not berating the venting posts, nor defending them as representative of TRP. Just using them as a good and fair measure, for people that read RP, of the behaviors I'm talking about. It seemed far easier than writing an extensive list only to risk having dudes saying "but you missed this, and this...". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I learned about "The Rules" because of that strip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?We're kind of averse to once slutty women because your peers have the knack to, if unable to find a relationship, eventually switch strategies to "exchange sex for commitment". Which it seems like you agree, is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?But you indeed are, aren't you? So much you're not even looking for it now from what I got. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Things that some people on TRP complain about, which actually make sense, making the complaint nullIt is. Still, just so much whining about it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Well, they do, but it's pretty much flipping the standard, not "the rules". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?It's not a counter point to TRP. You could say it's a counter point to "the game" but it's hardly thoughtful as PUA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?The best one is weeding out women interested in exchanging sex for something else. There are women willing to exchange sex for sex, it's better to exchange something else for something else with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 06:09 PM |
| 2 | According to recent studies there's no link between the menstrual cycle and preference for masculine men.According to RP "science" the menstrual cycle proves AFBB. Although you have not affirmed this, your phrasing is remarkably dishonest as it makes "preference shifts during menstrual cycles is all that supports AFBB". I suppose you're quite aware it is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Did you actually read what I wrote there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Things that some people on TRP complain about, which actually make sense, making the complaint nullMy favorite one there is "AWALT, fucking disgusting women". Broooooooo, yeah man, all women are capable of doing that sort of shit and given some circumstances outside your control, all of them will. We know it. WHY THE FUCK do you expect her to NOT do it? For your benefit? Because it would be better for her in the long run? Man, ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. Stop expecting people to NOT be themselves when it suits you just because you believe it would also be better for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 05:22 PM |
| 3 | LTR getting progressively clingy.Yep. Sometimes it is murky, sometimes there's something there, sometimes you need to learn how to enter it unlike a fat dude in a trampoline. But it's murky. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 05:15 PM |
| 4 | LTR getting progressively clingy.Seems like betafying. Bang her more, don't give free comfort and commitment. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 05:13 PM |
| 2 | LTR getting progressively clingy.Fire first, ask later. If she's being annoying she's out. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?It is a complete double standard for TRP to encourage men to go around fucking lots of women and then to label women who do the same as “not worth committing to.” Not every woman wants or is ready for a relationship all the time. Sex is a normal and healthy need. You trpers also complain about women who have low sex drives. What do you suggest women do if they 1. Don’t want a relationship and 2. Need sex? Lol. If women are able to go months or even years without sex outside of a relationship, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | LTR getting progressively clingy.You upgraded that a lot. I'll edit my own comment. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 04:41 PM |
| 3 | LTR getting progressively clingy.No. If she's getting external validation she'll RAISE her confidence. She won't be clingy, she'll be possessive, maybe nagging. It takes some very specific kinds of mental issues to act clingy under those circumstances. The clinginess is dread of you leaving. She may act out on this by cheating, reassuring herself by talking to other men, being increasingly needy. If the clinginess is fear of him leaving, he'd see some efforts from her to keep him too, wouldn't him? It's much more often her way … | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 04:40 PM |
| 10 | LTR getting progressively clingy.I dont mind her being needy or clingy but can this clingyness be compensating for some of her bad behaviors? Only if she's a specific kind of fucked up and those behaviors are conscious. I suppose you'd be using the word "possessive" if that was the case. She's probably just engaging in betafying. Watch out for it if you intend to keep the LTR. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Polish every aspect of your personality and make it as shiny as it can be made, don't flash stuff that usually drives men away and make him work for everything he wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Uuuuh? I can't quite relate TRP or PUA's advice to those ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?But we do! And it's not because it guarantees sustained sexual interest, there are many reasons. Not that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Why would I be upset? (...) I will correct them. In this case, or in general? In this case you'd see him reforming the statement until it made sense, no matter how inane the end result would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Where did the belief that most men will be able to marry a much younger woman come from?scarred Scarred, seasoned, sheltered, nagging, complicated, dramatic. Pick one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?This somehow solves it. raised in a toxic protofeminist bitches' brew It amazes me just how much and how thoroughly this makes women sensible and raging to what would be traits all men share. I once pointed out to my girlfriend how she somehow manages to say all men are crap, but all people she compliments but two are men and all people she badmouths and complains about are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Oh, I'm taking into account all the women I've known That's what makes it spooky high. No one acts monstrously if they feel like a monster, we need a way to rationalize and acquit ourselves from guilt, but it's not easy to rationalize preposterous crap. 30% women being able to do it is kind of awkward. Are you by chance surrounded by remarkably rational people, or in an environment that otherwise attracts people with low neuroticism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?"Monstrous" behaviors: around 30% to 35% Fuck. This is high. Any chances you're time-scaling it? Giving higher weight to years-long events? One shitty wife and nine shit testers making over 10%? "negative" behaviors that exploit and abuse men Not that I disagree, but out of curiosity. Are these behaviors explainable by our understanding of the nature of women, or there has to be malice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I've known him before, and he means "my two female friends act AWALT 90% of the time'". Don't nerd him out. You will be upset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I'm desperately pressing the "AWALT" button here. lol Jokes aside, you should check TRP then. Some of the AWALT examples are too dramatic for movies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Nerding it out, I made none, just pointed something out. "Core RP principles are not what you see in TRP's vents" "TRP core principles were distilled from those rants and supported by some theories in psychology. In TRP vents we see some dreadful manifestations of TRP core principles." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I suppose it is. Nevertheless, one thing is a woman saying "I HAD to put out for him yesterday" to her friends. This isn't reliable evidence that she's carefully dosing sex in between "prevent him from snapping and leaving" and "not enough to gather enough self esteem to leave", for instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Well, yeah. Women will be women. But how many of them were actually dangerous? Among women I dated it's not 10%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Dude, what the fuck do you want from me? I wonder, do TRP members believe women are far worse than they are because they read a selection of the worst female behaviors ever distilled between 200k men? Or do we observe enough of these behaviors to be able to fairly state that "all women are like that" and some just live it up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Woa. This is bad man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I suppose you've seen enough crazies then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?The only “role” that society has given men and women is to live your life as you see fit and carry on with your relationship/marriage as you see fit. If that means that the man is leading, then good. This is just great! There is no shaming, no oppression, no repression, nothing! There was never any of that! Man, there are a LOT of brainwashed fellows around the world, aren't there? Well, maybe internet just gathers all of these crazy brainwashed folks in a big bubble and I live alien to real wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Shit tests are hardly what I mention, but no. On the classic definition, old PUA, they had to annoy you, "Your friend is HOT", or access whether you behaved well when women gave you attention, "I bet you say it to ALL girls". Your reaction would earn or lose you points. Now it pretty much encompasses everything that might make you lose points if you behave wrong, no problem if you might earn some or not. It's becoming pointless to refer something as a shit test these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Where did the belief that most men will be able to marry a much younger woman come from?High five. Younger for the win. Fuck us and our scarred peers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I would argue that the vast majority (all, actually) women I know could serve as examples of AWALT Well, if they didn't, AWALT would be wrong. My idea is to access whether we were made super sensitive to it because we saw too many TRP horror stories, or the pattern TRP pointed out is observed enough so we can pick up the trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Well, yeah, but it is because women's behavior is such that leads people to vent about it that that TRP is there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?For serious? I don't mean "nagged her boyfriend", I mean "betafied the shit out of him, he became miserable and lost his sense of self worth, sought a way to break up but she shamed him into not doing it with all she had, maybe with later finding out her low drive towards him was because of excessive sex with Chad." Nasty shit. But even if I stretch down to "crap you should not do" I don't get all of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Lost fat didnt gain muscleAlso, are you working out to exhaustion? He's a beginner. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Lost fat didnt gain muscleMan, it seems a bit awkward to me. As I said, I always sought to train every group twice a week. It's hard to do it with three times. Three times works but it's annoying to do. But just once? | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 12:27 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I absolutely miss your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/18 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?If you stand by "awalt", you claim there is one. And it seems fair as fuck to point it out by the way, but ONE can be random. I read the story elsewhere, yeah, she's preposterous, but I suppose there are some more that aren't actually the devil incarnate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Not really. Committed people that talk shit about their partners to committed people might find acceptance and encouragement to vent, making a trend. But committed people talking shit to single people just hear "so dump them" and might learn to shut the fuck up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?A woman taking the lead does not mean that the man automatically acts like a child So far, good. He can very well take on a supporting role and keep the relationship strong and harmonious. Now you're off. Society's given roles for father and mother towards each other are fully compliant to women, not compliant to men at all. She would need to actively leave that role to fulfill him, and she doesn't know she has to do that, she believes he's sacrificing, as he is. If she decides to ignore society… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?What's the percentage of relationships you know that went wrong because of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:25 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?How is this a "fact" since disgust is entirely subjective? The bar is his. We use "AWALT" meaning "all women are capable of / did the things that disgust you" much more often than anything else. I kind of filed the 50% under anger phase though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I reckon my ex identified me as a gaslighter after we broke up, so I guess it might be frequent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Uhhh. but I'm not drawing patterns off of her alone. How many, then, and how frequent is that? Generalizations are powerful things. There's a lot of certainty in making affirmations about trends in whole populations with remarkably low samples. But if it's just one, it can be fairly random. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Yep. It's formulated to raise suspicion on things regarded as maxims. The best you would hear is "get out and live a little and you'll see it". Lots of cursing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?are you questioning the theories behind or the examples? Nope. Just raising the possibility that we were made overly sensitive to some patterns because they were pointed out by RP and sustained with too much evidence, and we might be getting preyed by availability bias when we think about the subject. Hence why I formulated the question like that. But it seems most of us has observed enough evidence to support it ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:14 PM |
| 5 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?You reckon some men are in position to know this sort of crap right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?One can't quite allow you to pick up a pattern man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Well, they might not suck as partners. I guess "status" require women to display they could to better than their current partners in some environments, or at least that they can manipulate them through girly ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I think TRP's terror tales come from pursuing 8+ women I guess it's hardly that man. I could write an terror tale about myself, the antagonist wouldn't make it above 6. My family provides another incredible terror tale I could write about with great property. I could write about a couple more, whom I know very well too because I know the guys too well. That's my 4 in around 35 relationships I counted some time ago. If 100 of "me" did it in a media that never said anything about the other 31 ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?The idea was "something you'd write on RP about". But how do you mean too low? Too low too broad too restrictive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Woa, this is a lot more specific than I dared to ask for. A chick suggested an (dumped) cheating ex to tell I raped her. Ex didn't. I wonder if I can count that to make myself an example. I didn't. Your cheating and false domestic violence allegations numbers are scary as shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?"monstrous" and deserving of a RP post? I have some between family members. Sad thing, the one woman I knew to be a fully blown awalt and have never harmed a guy actually did it to her current boyfriend love of her life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?You'd get just SO MUCH CRAP for something like it in TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?It seems 10-20 will be popular number. It's pretty similar to the percentage of men doing the male seriously shitty stuff. It couldn't be that different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?It's highly age and weight related I never pictured weight but it seems it has to be. How many of the younger and healthy women you observe as a hindrance to their partner's welfare? Is it enough to count them all as a threat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Do you not see at least SOME examples of Disney-esque Pure/True Love in your social life, which serve as counterexamples to the bleak TRP view?I see a million working relationships. The reasons they WORK is because the people in it are repressing their natures. No, I don't know a single working open relationship. So they're not counter examples to TRP's view. There are some good reasons to repress your natural drives ALL around. Inability to do it is an issue actually, makes obese folks, drug addicts, among other stuff. We just accept these are our natural drives and understand that repressing them comes at some expense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I guess you're not familiar with "monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?"Hey man, do you have evidence to support your views?" Just post yours, if you feel like it. The question and post were formulated to prime us out of our biases though, at least enough to allow questioning and answers like those, 10% to 20% and not "all women are like that". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Lost fat didnt gain muscleI suppose mine could be diet, but every since I started I had "four at least, two different trains, each group twice a week" hammered in my ears. Back on the days of yore when I did 3 times a week in the first month, it was only one train. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Lost fat didnt gain muscleim going 3 days a week 3 is not enough man. Find yourself more time. I believe i've got low testosterone, does it affect my gains? Why do you believe that? It affects your gains before it affects your drive, so it might be it. But you're not actually bad for a guy that works out three days a week. If you're to work out each group only once a week trains must be utterly destructive, if you're not paining three days after it you're not doing it right. I doubt beginners can do these properly. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?Isn't it because they need to badmouth their husbands to fit in the group? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I would say women like this are less than 15%. This is the trend I'm looking for. It's much higher than we'd need to conclude all women have the wiring and capacity to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 07:34 PM |
| 6 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?10-20% are cheaters. WTF. HOW do you know that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Which proportion of women you know, among ALL of them, acted in monstrous fashions deserving of a TRP post?I'd say "shit that makes their partners miserable". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | If men are going to insist women be less picky they should first consider not wanting sex so much.They'll skip some lines while their infants are in their arms, and that's all. When "one more mouth to feed" is a literal concern they get the lower hand. They're way down on the priority list for authorities, some votes every couple years at expense of keeping one child is a bad trade. Their image could cause sympathy but it's already abused by everyone, from neopentecostal preachers talking about "I chose to wait" to feminists trying to make abortions legal, passing the "better education and f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Can someone explain to me what the FUCK I'm doing wrong on Tinder?It enrages me cus I know if I was top tier looks I could say "u want sum fuk" and it'd work. Yeah, it'd work outside tinder too. I need to figure wtf is going wrong. Nothing went wrong on there, only if you left it at that. "a man" Oh, I'm actually an overgrown boy that found a job but I'll totally fool you into believing otherwise (time and hour, then ask for phone). I guess I should let you find someone easier to get then. Found one. Number? I'm rather just asking for the number asap though an… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Psychology of attraction courseMan, you'll find more than everything you'll ever need under "PUA" or "Pick up artist" online. Or the sidebar here. Forget about paying for anything on that line unless you have too much money to spare. If you DO have too much money to spare, pick something that offers real life practice. Most or nearly all guys that went from searching it online to getting it easy found themselves a bro to get started together, read some shit and started going out and practicing. Some lacked the bro and did it … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | If men are going to insist women be less picky they should first consider not wanting sex so much.Being a mother in western FIRST WORLD/RICH societies Single mothers of poor dads here are basically twice as doomed as their single counterparts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 06:13 PM |
| 2 | How does a woman get a beta provider when she is looking for one?She meets a guy. When she meets a sexual, attractive man, she brings up her sexual persona and either show her to him or shows her the minute he asks her to. When she is seeking a beta, she isn't seeking attraction and she has learned interacting on a more sexual level doens't give her what she wants. So, she makes her sexual persona harder to access. If she's skilled, she leaves hints of it. She wants his investment, so she will ASK for it. Let's go out for drinks? Oh, it's too early for drinks… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Should I only date girls I want to marry?I'm telling a guy that in one paragraph asked how he is supposed to handle sexuality how he should act so he doesn't become vulnerable to exploitation. He will not get lucky, his preference for traditional relationships WILL be exploited, he WILL be locked by a woman seeking to get a man to offer and change the most while offering some sex and compromising the least. In a study of 681 emerging adults, 63% of college-aged men and 83% of college-aged women preferred, at their current stage of life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | How to turn the conversation Sexual?Make sexually charged jokes by far the easier way; Speak slower, use pauses, keep eye contact; Be overt in your intention of picking her up and everything will be sexual. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Should I only date girls I want to marry?No. You should date all women you find attractive enough and can. Among them, you'll find a girlfriend, and then you'll drop the others. And the standard now is having uncommitted sex, so it is not deception to have it with women you don't plan to commit to. It is upon the interested side to overtly escalate the relationship into "committed". Upon her request (often covert in the question "what are we?"), you should either agree and drop all other women, or drop her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 04:30 PM |
| 0 | If men are going to insist women be less picky they should first consider not wanting sex so much.Funny. Every woman I met that caught the baby fever went to incredible extents to get pregnant, some went below the 20% line of RMV and below 50% of SMV. But anyway, that's the catch. We do suppress our drives all the time when we're committed, and we give no shits about how picky you are unless we're butt hurt about being dumped or hear the very traditional "where are all the good men" whines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | A theory on Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks and how commitment "betifies" AlphasI had to ask myself the question and then "look what what you do, not what you think" to find it. And I see a ton of men completely oblivious about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Ghost or PlateStill your call. That chick is awkward, she should have dropped you by day 5, tops. If you're kind of thirsty just go, but escalate fast, don't take long nor talk about the party to prevent coming out butt hurt. Don't commit, she's broken in at least one fucked up way, and expect some drama when you drop her. Personally I get all too well how sometimes these situations look like worth the trouble, if only to get laid. Personally too, I also learned that all it takes to get laid is will to, some … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Ghost or PlateIsn't it? | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 02:03 PM |
| 2 | When women plate spins a few men... But what about hypergamy?What does resistance mean in your post? Easier to do, as in the path of least resistance. I edited "2" to "less resistance". And what do you mean by your last sentence? “Just higher” The lower numbers are easier to do. 1 is easier than 2, which is easier than 3. Higher numbers give women more agency and better picks between men though. It's very unlikely that a woman that is ALREADY in a higher number accepts reverting back to a lower one. She's used to that much effort. In your example the chic… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | TRP is scientific, not pseudoscience.Which over time becomes a hypothesis. (...) The "disproofs" offered are merely (...) There's nuance here. We have a knack for formulating remarkably conceptual hypothesis on RP. "AWALT" is such an example, we have, as an abstract idea, that all women behave like that. Because of this, exceptions don't serve well to debunk our formulations, it would need to be an exception with no reasonable explanation but the validity of an alternative formulation to ours and nor ours. It's rare as fuck. Our fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Ghost or PlateYour call. Personally I believe it'd be awkward as fuck having an Eskimo brother. The way you're telling this story she seems a bit fucked up and it seems you lost at least a million open windows and she defiantly insists in keeping them open. Two weeks is a lot of time to keep "casually" talking to a single chick, let alone ignore her invitations to hang out. If she's not receptive you should drop it sooner, and most women don't go past a couple days insisting. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 01:39 PM |
| 1 | When women plate spins a few men... But what about hypergamy?Most of the time, she'll probably ghost them right? No. She will keep those numbers and give them some attention, in case Mr. Rockstar bails. Try this praxeology: 1 - Least cost, least resistance: Find a guy, get him to commit, use his resources. Issue: No safety if he bails. 1.1 - Solution, keep plan Bs: String along some orbiters while with the guy, they'll boost her ego but require attention. It might come with some expense (attention given > received), or not. 2 - Higher cost, less resistanc… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 01:22 PM |
| 1 | When women plate spins a few men... But what about hypergamy?Does she WANT to fuck new 7/10 men every night if she already is trying to attract a certain 9/10 man. No. If the 9 is totally non committal she might fuck some lesser dudes so she finds one that makes up for the difference with investment and commitment. Or she might be seeking for a victim in the dual mating game. But lets say the 9/10 man is a rockstar. She's certain no one in the club is better than him. Does she still WANT to actively find guys to fuck other than him? Usually no. With time … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Thinking going mgtow because current f/26 girlfriend M/29She's a high maintenance woman. She's with you because you pay the price. If you tell her to strengthen up she'll probably find another man to pay the price. If she actually does it, her boost of confidence will most likely cause her to ditch you, even if you're a catch for her. She seems insecure as fuck. Give her some boundaries about time and the alike, boundaries provide some sense of safety as they make rules. Just watch out so you don't cause too much anxiety for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 12:35 PM |
| 2 | When women plate spins a few men... But what about hypergamy?Under hypergamy women can resort to dual mating, which basically reads as providing reproductive access to a man for resources while trying to access better genes from other men. Sex with the 7 guy is transactional, on her schedule, and she acts possessive towards him because she needs guarantees of his side of the bargain. There are articles on this man, shit's well studied. Try "dual mating in humans" or something like that. There used to be one in the cannon definition of "hypergamy", an arti… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 12:18 PM |
| 6 | Question for BP: Do you sincerely believe Reds lack ANY nuance?BP's defining characteristic is the belief that RP can't be anything but dishonest people and/or completely idiotic folks. Any evidence of anything else is somehow dismissed. This is called creating a strawman. They do not "create a strawman" to debunk, they have absolutely no understanding about RP other than the RP they attack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 12:04 PM |
| 3 | If men are going to insist women be less picky they should first consider not wanting sex so much.why they don't have to suppress their own nature. But we DO! Marrying, nuclear family, not going for younger women, that's us doing it. Men say that women should be less picky, should settle for whoever they can get. But... We don't! We just give you the gentle reminder that gun you hold have a limited amount of shots. If you spend your time and shots hunting for the elusive golden stag or the super fast horned hare, you might end up having to settle for dead hunt someone left behind. Or grow a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Do men hit The Wall? What does post-wall RP life look like?Do you think RP is a younger man's game? No. Is there a point in which all the techniques and improvements can't help them attract women? At some point your marginal gains in SMV won't add a lot, but they'll never be null. IF men reach that point it becomes highly tempting to "lock" a good chick and focus on RMV-only value. He'll still be RP, and he'll probably think of the relationship as RP hard mode, although he'll most likely be tempted by less demanding women for that purpose. What happens … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:50 AM |
| 1 | A theory on Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks and how commitment "betifies" Alphasand is enthusiastically into him a guy will be attracted. Who told you the secret? Took me a while to distill it. Not joking. I'm 31 years old and it's been less than a year that I became aware of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/18 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Are men who are overtly sexual foudn attractive/fuckable?Did you read that right? Did I? The guy that said it first wasn't very sexual, he was trying to show himself by putting someone or everyone down. Some women buy it, some ignore, some lower his value (and his target's if it is a man and he reacts poorly). The woman showed disapproval. The last guy made a sexual joke. It seems it didn't come out well. Attractive men get away with or gain value with this sort of stupidity, but not a lot. Man, the two of them arel uncalibrated and trying, and it cos… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 11:32 PM |
| 7 | Q4ALL: How many woman find that "white-knighting" and "feminism" and all that stuff actually boosts the attractiveness of a man if the man is already attractive? Does this proportion of women change as you move up the hotness scale--and if so, how?How many woman find that "white-knighting" and "feminism" and all that stuff actually boosts the attractiveness of a man if the man is already attractive? All of them. They're already primed with "attractive", they'll assume "he's the sexy kind of feminist", whether it exists or not. Does this proportion of women change as you move up the hotness scale--and if so, how? "All" Do women tend to prefer more and more "sexist" and less and less "feminist" men as you move up the hotness-scale? Women pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Most successful Redpill men either go MGTOW or Purple Pill.Is this a reasonable theory/claim? Yeah, RP and PP are about beliefs about sexuality and praxeologies, tops. BP is about disliking RP. RP beliefs are kept by successful RP men, whatever are the chosen goals. A look in ExTRP will let you know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/18 06:28 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Two identical twin sisters are interested in you. One is known to be promiscuous, her sister is chaste. You can choose only one, who do you choose and why? What does the promiscuous one bring to the table that her chaste sister doesn't?I can't decipher much of your comment cause it's kinda monologuing I guess I'm a bit salty towards Dark Souls these days. The idea is that "being a slut" doesn't make a woman a better partner. Committing to a slut doesn't make a man a better man. Willingness to work harder for a particular woman or for women doesn't make a man a better man. Just a more exploitable man that will more likely get abused. What leads you to think that? Demanding in terms of male value. The slut learns that she can se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/18 04:44 PM |
| 5 | Are pick up artists a Scum?PUA - How to pick up women. Not a scam. It works. RP - How not to be a frustrated dude. It works, too. Also, "how not to get fucked by women". Here's the core of it. A guy comes and says "I want to pick up women": PUA: Man, you're about to change your life. Here's how. RP: Man, life ain't about pussy. Here's how. (repeats some of PUA) A guy comes and says "I'm lost and frustrated, what do I do?": PUA: Man, pick up women, shit's great! RP: Man, that's a hard question to answer. Don't listen to PU… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Two identical twin sisters are interested in you. One is known to be promiscuous, her sister is chaste. You can choose only one, who do you choose and why? What does the promiscuous one bring to the table that her chaste sister doesn't?The chaste one. I've seen progressives shame males for not wanting promiscuous partners with "You're afraid you won't satisfy her." These are the most stupid fellows in the planet, and not all progressive folks are this specific kind of stupid. Those fuckers don't get it. If you want to be more challenging and demanding you have to offer more. Sluts need to have more to offer in LTRs more because they're probably more demanding. Period. If these fuckers were gamers, they'd believe they are super… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/18 12:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: People's negative attitudes about female sexuality are 100% unjustifiable/benighted.Reclaiming and owning those slurs is meant to be challenging, "that is now ok". Fourth wave believes it transcended the need to challenge or interact with society, personal choices are personal and are not meant to be publicly addressed, people's interactions must happen in a level beneath personal identities, choices and other shit. People are not entitled to have opinions on other people. It's stupid as shit. The last thinking souls in feminism are dying either silenced or lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/18 11:59 AM |
| 1 | A theory on Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks and how commitment "betifies" AlphasI'm not sure it's that simple man. I know how betafying happens, but it's hard to see it happening. I developed decent game through awareness of what is attractive and what is not and some practice, but the "game" for LTRs has some different goals and criteria that messes the strategies I use. Reliability is important, and I really can't draw the line where that starts to kill attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/18 11:50 AM |
| 2 | A theory on Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks and how commitment "betifies" AlphasNeither can you pinpoint the true source of your attraction to women. Hard task, that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/18 11:47 AM |
| 3 | A theory on Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks and how commitment "betifies" AlphasBecause they believe attraction is automatic and bonding requires compromising and hard work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/18 11:46 AM |
| 1 | A theory on Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks and how commitment "betifies" AlphasMy ex also nagged me on aspects I used to be sensitive about. There are some details about this, but even if you are aware about it handling it isn't always a choice. Some women won't accept that their committed partners are demanding towards them. Poor chicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/18 11:44 AM |
| 1 | A theory on Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks and how commitment "betifies" AlphasWell, if you're consciously settling you're already looking into allowing yourself to become less attractive, so, staying normal wouldn't even be goal. It's hard, women exert pressure in that direction and it seems right and natural to yield. It's a conscious effort not to. Plus after some time you're on some scarcity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/18 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Is this evidence against dread game?No, it's not: Results showed that relationship uncertainty had detrimental effects on confederates' appeal only when they were perceived as uninterested in the participants. Dread is meant to instill competition. Showing disinterest and causing pursuit is an important aspect to game, but through other mechanisms, not dread, and they're remarkably short term. In PUA lingo, those are negs, not dread game. There's some nuance between showing disinterest and showing detachment or self reliance thoug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/18 09:52 PM |
| 6 | A theory on Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks and how commitment "betifies" AlphasJust don't get too beta and you're good. You don't have ANY idea about how "easier said than done" applies here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/18 09:48 PM |
| 6 | A theory on Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks and how commitment "betifies" AlphasI don't think the explanation is novel at all. And although it explains WHY women betafy partners, it also doesn't go in depth on HOW. HOW is the question there. It's the HOW you want to address if you want a LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How do men reconcile hating sluts but wanting lots of sex??Women have a lot of different points towards that, some are just about hypocrisy, the one I mentioned is OP's. The liberal dudes, IF well meant and critical, usually equate women to men in those behaviors. They end up selecting some of the "best" sluts out there. I'm committed to a slut now. "Kinda" slut. Good sides, bad sides. She's not that bitchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/18 09:40 PM |
| 2 | How do men reconcile hating sluts but wanting lots of sex??I guess the issue is in "slut" there. Neither OP nor me are referring women that have lots of sex, we're referring women that fuck lots of different men. I honestly can’t wrap my head around why women and some of the more liberal men are unable to see why an exclusive slut is so desirable Really? It's really simple. Women: If men can fuck lots of women then we can fuck lots of men. Men can't even reasonably expect to fuck lots of women if we don't fuck lots of men too. Liberal men: yeah, they're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 09:13 PM |
| 2 | How do men reconcile hating sluts but wanting lots of sex??That intensity stems from bonding a lot more than from kink. If you want exclusivity to bond, which is a very reasonable thing to want, why will you mess with a slut for starters? A small loss in kink that might be recovered and WILL BE SUPPLEMENTED by bonding is a LOT better than the extra risk and demands from an experienced hoe; If you're about the kink, well, we all know you'll get it easier without committing, MAINLY if you want it from a slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How do men reconcile hating sluts but wanting lots of sex??There is. It seems it is true for him though. It's not true like that, at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How do men reconcile hating sluts but wanting lots of sex??I can actually answer this for you. 1 - We don't hate sluts: We don't like commitment very much, we HATE bad bets, and sluts are bad bets for a number of reasons. In absence of commitment there's no bet, so sluts are just great. 2: How would women theoretically satisfy mens want/need of lots of sex with a variety of women while keeping a low sex count. Theoretically, it was not supposed to happen. That's why men evolved polygamous and women hypergamous, that's the pressure that made us this way.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How do men reconcile hating sluts but wanting lots of sex??Why would you? You're already fucking her. Isn't it smarter to save it to manage to fuck the others you're not yet banging? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 04:37 PM |
| 2 | How do men reconcile hating sluts but wanting lots of sex??It's interesting because it doesn't make it irrational. It seems it is true for him though. It's not true like that, at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 04:35 PM |
| 1 | What even is status?It doesn't. Maybe if the interests and hobbies bring status. You have TWO things you are hard wired to do in life. Fuck and survive. If you're a woman, bearing a child makes three unless you put it under "fuck". If you're a Maslow nerd other needs are lower. Surviving is granted usually. If you're a Maslow nerd other needs are pretty much granted too. Once you nail "fuck", you get INCREDIBLY bored. You're left with too much time, those two used to take your whole day to accomplish. You need to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 04:34 PM |
| 2 | One thing about the concept of hypergamy that doesn't add upThe fact that tons of losers have girlfriends and get laid The threshold for "attractive" raises a lot. As you're a teen, simply having enough balls to talk to her and ask her out puts you in advantage. They had too little competition. They struck to the inexperienced and unseasoned women as good picks. The main difference I think is that straight men are attracted to a larger % of the female population than straight women are to the male population. This would be like that as a consequence of h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Where does TRP end and Domestic & Psychological abuse begin?Where is the line where RP ends, and domestic and/or psychological abuse begin? Sort of on never intersecting and non parallel lines here. Think of 3d, by the way. They intersect because of some fellows have poor understanding. To stick with the 3d, when you look from either above or below there seems to be an intersection at a point. There isn't, there's just an intersection on what some dudes define as RP and as abuse... What's a person supposed to think (...)? That some users are a bit alien,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:35 PM |
| 2 | What even is status?Mmmm. I guess you're seeing something wrong there. Status is attractive in MEN, for women. It is the MEASUREMENT of how much the man's peers and society will aid and support him in caring for her and her infants, or even support her alone for that end if he does not commit, because her infants are also his. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/18 12:23 PM |
| 1 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTmen have the capacity to rape It's awalt as much as amalt if it's to make sense. "All men are potential rapists" makes no fucking sense, at all, for a million reasons. The fucking neural systems that modulate "fight or flight", violence, and "feed and breed", fuck, are different and concurrent. And that's just one. A whole hellovah lot of them are pretty negative. You presented a lot of HYPOTHESES. AWALT is a concept . But anyway: women will cheat, cuck a man if a high value male comes by You ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTShit's true. That's how we work. If you're a 9 the loving and committed father of your four children will get cock sucked by an 8 that plays smart. It's worsened because unlike women we don't have standard barriers against suitors, suitors don't pursue and when they do they're all without any semblance of strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Tips on gaming a girl with a BF?Look better than her boyfriend, be perceived as more attractive than him. Easy task, she sees him on his worst, you'll probably be good enough if you walk around in your best; CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS. "Good chicks" have some standard barriers when they're committed and make them much more unhackable if they spot your intentions. The better chick she is, the stronger will be the barriers she'll raise when she realize them. For most chicks it makes it just too hard to be worth the shot; You can wo… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTHaaaaaaaaaaa! This one isn't so precise but might just be the sort of shit you want to hear: ALL loving and caring and invested husbands that married before having reckless uncommitted sex with naive and defenseless women will cheat on mommy if enough hot secretaries hit on them. There's a box for "resisting", it gets bigger the more naive innocent defenseless women men fuck and their ego grow, it gets filled when chicks hint on them, the hotter the chick and the more insinuating the hint, the f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTBe creative on being super negative enough then. The rules are there, polygamy doesn't look better than hypergamy from the standpoint of traditional relationships. Which super negative generalization terps use AWALT for are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 06:10 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] Is feminism responsible for the rise of the Redpill?Kind of. I guess the same way feminism denounced that society was not great for the particular needs of women, a movement would eventually flourish to say it is not great for the ones of men. Feminism got too much momentum to say crap though, and no one seems to mind. RP is younger, a few years after feminists start to sermonize folks saying garbage we will start to popularize the double checking of our affirmatives too. We're men, we think and learn fast, giving feminism a few years of fresh st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 06:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Marriage is no longer about protection, security and status for women.Marriage is no longer about protection, security and status for women. There's where it went wrong. Our standard status is to fuck around and care for our small tribe. Monogamy came for the men that could excel to ensure their offspring was getting privileges. Then someone noticed nuclear families were a good idea, because they ensured that and also released the individuals from the burdens towards the community and allowed them to place this latent capacity towards something else, like religion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTI guess I talked to you about it. Basically when a RPiller says "AWALT" he means "this is to remind you that all women are capable of this sort of preposterous crap in relationships". Being more rigorous, as I have to be do define it, the concept derives from the ill consequences hypergamy brings to relationships, and a lot more if we define relationships as only the traditional christian ones. So then what are the negative examples of AMALT that aren’t AWALT? Similarly, AMALT should derive from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Male language ≠ female languageYour readings are probably right given the probable contexts underlying them. "Shit test" became a bit of a broad concept so they probably are. If you handle these questions as shit test you probably won't fuck up more than you will score. And it's a bit pointless to seek better examples. Their LANGUAGE is different, not some particular sentences. You're not far fetched from how to think about it, so, keep like that. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 12:12 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The female dating advantage doesn't go away after 30, and making 6 figures isn't worth much on it's own to women anymore"once you hit 30 and have a good career, women will finally start coming after you." This doesn't mean "30 yo women with good careers will come after you". It means "you will be able to develop a lifestyle that is so novel, alien and attractive to struggling younger women that it will generate a lot of attraction that you will be able to use to get laid, even if you don't fix your looks. Once you get laid a bit you'll get very confident and it'll help you getting laid further." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 12:06 PM |
| 1 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTAdding a ps before the body seems funny to do here: I do not intend to sound smart. I intend to prevent us both from feeling like we're the person playing chess with a pigeon. I failed that halfway already, and possibly full way. Congrats for going grammar nazi. Thanks for pointing out the missing "o" in too. You see, if you do not know what concepts are, you can not know what evidence means to them, and we would be discuss endlessly with you falsifying an hypothesis, but not the concept, or dem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 03:10 AM |
| 1 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTThis is lame. All men don't feel penises entitle them to sex. Nice guys do nice things to feel entitled to sex. Husbands do chore play. Overconfident dudes say its not going to suck itself. And so on. If these men do these things to feel entitled to sex, then all men can not feel that penises entitle them to sex. Women hysterically define all men as rapists to entitle them to feel threatened by men's existence. Women's needs for safety are known to be bigger and therefore the perceived threat wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 02:46 AM |
| 1 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTThis place is remarkably predictable. You were probably taught this difference in high school, so either recall or learn what are concepts,and what are hypotheses. Then, tell me, in which of those categories you're putting "AWALT" and "AMALT", and to which category they belong. After this, when I'm sure that you either understand or can understand what evidence and "cherry picked examples" mean in these discussions, I'll gladly discuss both AWALT and AMALT as either hypotheses or concepts. Other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTmmmm. I mean you have two male reactions towards commitment: Averse to it because he knows it makes sex harder to get and will only commit if he sees potential to offer benefits besides that loss. Sympathetic to it AS a way to reach more steady sex. Your guys are simply on 1. But now that I look at it, I kind wrote it in a way that can't be rendered wrong, that thing is stated as "If (A) or (not A), then true." A no brainer that adds no info at all and is always true. So it's not really a parall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 02:23 AM |
| 1 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTCongratulations on being the first person I ever saw to formulate this phrase in a way it's not wrong. In fact, all men have capacity to be rapists... As all women have, as all children have the capacity for murder, as all dogs have the capacity to kill babies, as all butterflies have the capacity to enter innocent bystander's eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 02:16 AM |
| 3 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTLarger breasts to a point. I can picture a few MODERN environments that would favor smaller breasts. But if you're thinking about environments with scarcity, larger breasts are just dead weight, she just needs breasts. We have no way to have evolved an association between larger breasts and increased capacity to produce milk. There is an optimal amount of fat for each gender. Those numbers look good (that woman is ripped, that guy not quite, by the way). But is the sort of shit that we associate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Why do non closeted gay men look happier than straight ones?Well, pick ALL the non intuitive shit about attracting women. To these dudes ALL is intuitive, they can assess courtship through sheer empathy. Sex is big shit in our lives, plays a lot with self worth. No wonder these fellows manage to be happier for having that alone figured out, despite of all the shit they face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Why do non closeted gay men look happier than straight ones?You are quite fun to be around. It's just hell to interact with you when "sexual tension" exists. Your selection process is a pain to even interact with and it's hard as shit to manage to put you in a different mindset without triggering despite or contempt. And we need to interact and PASS this process to get laid. Of course gay men are happier. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 08:30 PM |
| 3 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTmmm. It was supposed to be under "polygamous" and the overall human likeliness to pick the path of least resistance, but it is worthy to clarify. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 08:22 PM |
| 4 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTAll men are attracted to women who show the ability to bear healthy children. This is true. This means they are attracted to women with larger breasts, wider hips, symmetrical features, healthy amount of fat, youth, and stability. First two: Not really, we're not so good at this association on a primal level. Shit's more cultural. Symmetrical features, youth: Absolutes. Healthy amount of fat: To me it makes sense that we are observant of it, but "healthy" seems to be largely environmental. Exces… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 08:20 PM |
| 2 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTEvery woman feels like this because this is their nature, some women manage to overcome it to be better. Its ill effects MIGHT be less apparent than AWALT's because we're not encouraged to live our natures, but being a straight white guy I might not be the best judge. The same logic I've made a few times here to say that generalizing awalt is rational works here too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 08:15 PM |
| 9 | What is the AWALT equivalent for Men, AMALTPolygamous, inclined to preserve our freedom of choice above offering safety for our partners, and understands that relationships are meant to allow us to lower our efforts to maintain attraction under the pretense of focusing these efforts elsewhere, most often "nowhere". /u/LewisCross --want the most sex with the most variety with as little effort as possible We even have a parallel to the apparent conflict between serial monogamist's "branch swinging" / cheater or trashy girl's dual mating: E… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Being a career-focused woman is a good way to obtain a high-quality partnerI don't know how a career-focused woman could end up alone unless she was ugly. These girls are very feminine, slightly conservative and not trashy, they just have careers and care about having their own money. Here's your glitch. Feminine, slightly conservative and not trashy is kind of a rare jewel these days. Having a career doesn't add nor remove from their value, unless their career is time consuming, in which case it removes. Pick one Dr. Brad, present him two women: Dr. Mary, feminine, sl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 06:14 PM |
| 2 | #nolittlegirlmmmm. Not quite on spot man. Using a very romanticized vision for feminism and feminists to say this, they strive for ending the idea that women NEED a man to be happy, or supported, and CAN choose. The way you formulated the question, women ended up with three options: Marry, have a man to herself and belong to a man herself; Be asexual; "Be a side-chick in some way", fuck who she pleases. It seems that (again, romantic notion here) feminism should preach that all women have choice there. The i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 05:59 PM |
| 2 | #nolittlegirlDo you agree with the radfem campaign that no little (mentally healthy) girl wants to grow up to be a prostitute? Hard to answer man. It seems like a no brainer I agree, but: "No little girl wants to grow up and do something that is stigmatized as exploitation" is different than "No little girl wants to grow up and do something that challenges her anxieties for money". The second one isn't true, and despite of the belief that women should be left completely without guidance or role model to find… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societyTo enact the dystopian future of an equal outcomes society, feminism will need to establish a government larger in scale and authority than any preceding governmental agency. What I don't see is either the NEED for that outcome, and arguably, that such strategy, "all powerful government", is the best strategy. Progressiveness made something people abhorred tempting through the usage of precise propaganda and brainwash, the successful dictatorships also rely on that rather than simply governmenta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Women want a man other men want to be and other women want to fuck.This creates the biggest inequality in our society. For serious man? Really? Who fucks who is the biggest cause of inequality in your society? Are you in Narnia, Scandinavia, Metropolis or something? What is the language around you? Are there immigration forms and plane tickets? Hell, I'll walk and row if I must. Women want a man other men want to be and other women want to fuck. Still horseshit. Men men want to be: Rich, smart, big dick, lots of free time and a sense of self achievement, the be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 02:19 PM |
| 1 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societyYou can always show me the data to proof. Interesting thing here. Be warned, some lines of nerdery follow. I'm not sure if you noticed, but you have designed a concept, not a real world hypothesis. The concept is "there exists an absolute bottom of 12% of men that can not get laid". Concepts are ideas, and as such, they're meant to be attacked and debunked in abstract. They have an interesting property when it comes to real world evidence: Evidence that they are true support them, but evidence t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Will incel men ever be able to empathize with women?The men and boys in our lives have genuine motives. Your mother, your father, and your family have genuine motives. Humans are also very sympathetic towards children, but only to the extent that they can spare and for as long as they're sensible to. For adults in need children in need are said casualties. Adults that have seen enough of them lose sensitivity and might only have it towards the ones they lend individual interest to (sees him, pictures the hardships he faces, cold, hunger, etc). An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 01:00 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereI also assumed it was a shit test, the shittiest one I got from her so far. I care because it implies that once more I fucked up my game. Long story, it seems more likely to me that folks here are right. Not a shit test, but a fair warning that she's losing her interest. Maybe more fair than I can reasonably expect to get. Given this, the process to fix seems to be different and harder. I'll start with game, because bad game isn't something I can afford to have. I hope it is enough, I don't cons… | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 12:43 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereFunny how that was meant to sound to be offensive and yet is the only solution I'm willing to adopt. I have no intention of entering a RP hard mode relationship with her, nor with anyone for now at least. I reckon I played bad game and game is not something I can afford to lack, so that is what I will fix. | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 12:32 PM |
| 1 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societyYou forgot we are all born calibrated when it comes to sexual selection. We're all born with some heuristics that serve mammals and hardly had time to evolve to serve us in tribal settings in which sex = pregnancy. The traits we pick on are hardly the ones that define "best" today and are somewhat trivial to mimic now, although it was probably impossible to some time ago. Women's selection doesn't imply in inceldom. Men's inability to move their arses against their own heuristics and capacity to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 12:11 PM |
| 3 | Sexual Selection and SocialismThoughts? Actual world: Your roommate picks the woman that pleases him. The other woman does not start to flirt with you. She has no incentive to but your resources and believes she will find some better genes. If she doesn't, eventually she realizes that the "you"s that did not convert to Christianity reverted to a tribal state in which everyone is responsible for upbringing children and collectively shame "monogamy" because they blame on it their inability to get laid. She moves there. At some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 12:02 PM |
| 1 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societyThis is called settling. No. Solves his issue and debunks his hypothesis all the same. PUA bullshit. Yeah, I forgot women are born calibrated with hot and ugly dudes and have a very definite, precise and non gray checklist they fill upon first glance. Woe is me. Wait, does this mean I'm Chad? Yay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/18 11:46 AM |
| 1 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societyAgain, I am not talking about incels, but male involuntary celibates You know, incel stands exactly for that. men who could not have sex in the last 1 year. And they don't talk about a year. I cannot fathom how 12% of the male population can be extreme deformed(source up in the post) or people so anxious they do not move (this is a sickness but yeah, I met a guy like that, it happens)... please tell me how. Pick a guy, tell him "it must happen naturally, don't push it". He'll never face his anxi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societyOn my answer. It's their inability to handle the anxieties surrounding sexuality. And the fucked up incentive they pick for NOT doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societyAnswered eslewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 08:21 PM |
| 2 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societymmmm. Not really. I'll count on your experience, how many very fucked up guys you've seen with cute chicks around you? I suppose enough. They made such women perceive them as attractive, even if they're not. It is possible because women's criteria isn't objective (it would be enough) and also flawed (makes it kind of hackable). Inceldom spurs from men's incapacity to handle the many anxieties surrounding sexuality, or maybe also from deformations you asked us to dismiss. Edit: Unless you're coun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | would you....my comment you replied to because you decided it contained issues. Oh. I see the issue. I'm not criticizing your opinion here. I'm approaching you saying that such worries are alien to you. You have a perspective issue, a paraconsistent certainty that there are no odds there because you believe you have full control about the bit I pointed out as "risk". This is could be hellish, but I don't see how it'd be an issue for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societyI guess there's a fundamental difference between me and some people here. I went through a long and boring discussion because a woman assumed that when I said "it is not moral to", I meant "there should be legislation prohibiting it". Why "all powerful government" pops so quickly for you? I guess since I'm raised and used to a government thoroughly unable to enforce any laws the idea of a government that manages to effectively intervene that deep without some usage of well known propaganda and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societyYou are not a particularly creative individual if you can not imagine a world where inequity/inequality is erased. This one particular dystopia doesn't seem to fulfill the requirements you made. inequity/inequality is not erased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societyI guess she was far more broad than that. But I've answered you elsewhere. No, given the female behavior, incels are not a must. Inceldom doesn't spur from how women select, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 08:02 PM |
| 0 | would you....By hurting him financially, what I meant was seeking out more than my fair share in divorce. I reckon how noble you mean to be, but some guys won't share the concept of "fair" their partners do, which cause them to perceive a threat, even if there's an ubiquitous meaning for "fair" in the context. And their perception is all it takes here. Kinda sucks but... As for rolling the dice on the success of the marriage, I don’t think in terms of percentage of risk. (...) As for rolling the dice on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societymmmm. Women's perception of male attractiveness is based on remarkably flawed criteria. So flawed different women perceive the same guy differently, and the same guy is perceived differently given different contexts and behaviors. In practice that causes a big rotation between the men women perceive as the best pick they have in the lot. This big rotation makes it feasible the nonexistence of male incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | [CMV]There will always be male involuntary celibates in every societyThat you should be able to picture a world in which all men are equally attractive. And that would be a hellish world. Only that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereI'll take a look at it with better eyes. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Masculinity is socially constructed in ways that often have nothing to do with biology.Well, I know Egyptians did it, but I never read anything about being women that did it. Greeks were patriarchal as fuck, lots of puns intended, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad thing?You can value anything you have as much as you wish. Not a bad thing, it is a good thing; You can brag about it and want people to offer you MORE because you have it. You CAN advertise it. It is a neutral thing, or maybe even good; You can NOT shame people into paying more for it. You can NOT call people "promiscuous idiots" because they don't cherish virginity. This is a bad thing; It is a TERRIBLE thing to say you have something you believe other people find attractive to attract other people,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 07:02 PM |
| 3 | would you....There are some issues there. First is that the idea of "fair" might strike as bit too unfair for some men, so "not hurt my partner financially" might mean something that he reads as that, and at this point it is his opinion that counts. But the main one is number's tyranny. Would you bet a 5% (low number for divorces AND fucked up?) chance of losing "all you have" to get "traditional marriage benefits" above "cohabiting and solving logistics to sex and family"? It's a hard bet to make. Some men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereOnce the model is established internally, then you practice to hone your sensitivity to the point that you don't think about it anymore. When you start acting instead of thinking, you've reached internalization. You have, roughly speaking, two somewhat conflicting models. Or I have. First, "game" model, low stakes: See behavior, put in "shit test", "comfort test, "ioi" or "iod" box, pass shit test, offer comfort if comfort test, escalate on ioi, proceed game on iod, quit if it's not working. "LT… | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereIt's clear now that I erred too much to the bad side. I do enjoy some couple-ish stuff which include giving her attention, and since she reacted and reacts well to that I might have overdone the attention bit. It's pretty clear to me that I've been giving her attention at times I'd rather do something else, so I'll start here. If it doesn't get fixed doing this I'll see where it's going and make new considerations. I have a professional habit of striving to and uncurling most or all ifs. It does… | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Masculinity is socially constructed in ways that often have nothing to do with biology.Brewing beer was seen as exclusively feminine in most regions of the world for thousands of years, dating back to ancient Egypt, until the rise of commercial breweries in the 19th century. Citation needed? Other than that, you're stating "masculinity = looks" there, aren't you? I don't think that you believe that, not for a second. For serious. Other than that you'll see that even looks reflect what is culturally perceived as high value for men: Capacity and willingness to protect (loved ones); … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereI got some spots. Tell me something. you scanned words on a page without internalization. Read again. How does the internalization really works? Is it like a habit of sitting down and trying to attack some issues from all angles? Or you just kind of automatically clicks to all angles that approach an issue? First thing I thought was "Is she really giving me the first hard shit test NOW?" and got kind of biased to that line. Granted that there was a lot more noise than I let in the post, I didn't… | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereWash the sand out of your vagina and get real. Although I miss the mandatory "or just leave", you're right. There's not a single merit in doing shit I know will worsen things because I enjoy the idea that they should make them better. And I thought I had been over it for a while... That's my kind reminder. Either red or single. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereShould I entertain some of the "faggot" answers as a way to say thank you to the folks that pointed shit I should have realized but got lost on because of the noise of the reality and maybe inexperience, or is it cool to just leave them be? | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 03:49 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight here4 hours drive, sleep, see her competing, 4 hours back. She'll by busy as shit and if she has free time, she'll spend it with her teammates. I signed in because she asked for help on the drives and added that she always cherishes the companionship and I thought its important to see it. Other than that I really don't care about the modality or amateur competitions altogether. It seems those didn't change and I shouldn't quit, but I'll watch lots of other stuff and habits I've been creating. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereGot it now. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Can/Cannot women obtain as many (in count) high level positions as men do?Yes. They CAN obtain. Both men and women are averse to risk for different reasons, which might cause women to be more averse to it. But it takes men in high positions capacity to overcome this aversion to get there, and I see no reason for women to be incapable of overcoming such aversion, even if it is harder. The reason I believe they CAN obtain is a belief that they're not MORE plagued than we are with such aversion, only a LOT more encouraged not to challenge it. As we encourage men NOT to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 02:31 PM |
| 2 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereDamn. It is clear. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 02:24 PM |
| 2 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereYou're ticked because you wish she were more into you, but she's not. Now I'm also ticked by being stupid enough to let this crap elude me. Thanks. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 02:19 PM |
| 7 | Q4All: Does feminism shame male sexuality/masculinity?There might be feminists that don't shame it, but feminism does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 02:17 PM |
| -1 | Q4All: Does feminism shame male sexuality/masculinity?"There are feminists who just" is hardly the same as "feminism just wants"... Feminism is not to be defines by men, and whoever holds the concept hardly allows "equal pay and for sexual assault to be taken seriously" define it, even if the vast majority of supporters are all about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereIsn't this kind of what I said, adding "I developed a habit of double checking my ability to leave"? Does this habit mean I'm fucking it up? | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 02:09 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereIt's somehow clear that I went further than I was meant to. I'll keep it in mind. There's a certain fuck up I've been doing daily and I never observed it. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereGot it. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 02:03 PM |
| 2 | I guess you guys might give me some insight heregive me a something to chase. You are remarkably right but this stands out as shit. I wonder if I have feasible time to quit the trip for starters. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereSince I fucked up my last LTR by going down the path "be nicer so she'll fuck me more", even if I reckon I didn't have a lot of reasons NOT to fuck it up now, I kind of need to reassure my ability to leave if preposterous shit happen. Every now and then I catch myself rehearsing it. I see the insecurity in it but it's kind of hard not to worry about it. I'm not sure if my workaround is thoroughly bad or brings some harm, it didn't prevent me from bonding properly, or at least as well as I've bon… | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereIs this a standard wake the fuck up answer, or am I just too far off to reach? | /r/askMRP | 23/05/18 01:44 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] Will Women ever be to empathize with Incels?You need to add something in the mix. Pick all that you noticed already, add hearing this so much you believe it: Sexuality is natural, there is someone there that likes you just the way you are, people need to like you just the way you are, otherwise they are not good people. There are women that will love you just the way you are. If you ever think that you should change yourself to reach more women, you're an sexist ungrateful bastard that thinks he's entitled to sex and despises "all the wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 01:41 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Will Women ever be to empathize with Incels?I'd totally sermonize you if this only wasn't so accurate. It's a shame that obviously capable women so often interact with us by giving us shit and rewarding us with pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 01:37 PM |
| 5 | [Q4All] Will Women ever be to empathize with Incels?I guess empathizing is impossible there. The things that cause incel's ailments don't cause them any issue at all. The best they can do to empathize is to recall the way they feel about something and declare "he feels like this about women and his incapacity to interact with them". It's not easy to do and hardly serves any purpose, if any at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 01:35 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Will Women ever be to empathize with Incels?Certainly not somewhere filled with rock outcrops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 01:32 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] Will Women ever be to empathize with Incels?Empathize, literally? No. Every time they talk about it they're sympathetic and get pissed though. Through abstraction and reasoning women could understand them. I just don't see any practical reason for them to, besides nerdery or some selfless intent to help them, in which case it becomes necessary. I reckon ignoring completely and refraining from actively pissing them off ought to work for most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 01:31 PM |
| 1 | I guess you guys might give me some insight hereDismissing the stinger. I'll delete it and post there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/05/18 01:24 PM |
| 1 | What is a "slut" to you?N counts for majority of woman cannot be "seen" on them. Got the issue. "Slut" as in "unfitting for LTRs" isn't determined by the count. It's a kind of a safe heuristic, to use the chick's count to determine whether she brings the risks I mentioned or not. High count women are so unlikely to actually make good partners, and LTRing someone is such an expensive bet to make (even if you're RP about it), it's actually wise to dismiss the whole hign-n population, with some good chicks among them, fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?I mean, about her. I said she presented herself as a whore, we had one date, had sex, she was quite forward, then she turned the other way. She's like among the least likely people to have that profile. What I believe happened there was an ill implemented strategy. 1 - I want to fuck this Tinder dude, so I'll present myself in a way I believe makes men horny; 2 - I want this person to make me his girlfriend, I wonder how I can persuade him to do that? Oh, right, mom said to act like this. Men sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Random people in the internet fail the Turing test, too. But I'm actually curious about something. Did it come most often from males (accounting for and dismissing the butthurt dumped ones) or females? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/18 10:41 AM |
| 3 | What is a "slut" to you?Mr. LewisCross gave you enough already, didn't him? Your portrait of RP is wrong. And I could just point out to how strong the generalizations we make are, too, since that seems to be what bothers you the most. Someday I'll end up doing the math here. You made some worthy questions though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Not quite. On both, you've been dating for a while. On one, it looks like he has been around, for some reason you ask and he confirms it. Not necessarily a body count, there are lots of tells for it. On the other, he looks shy as fuck, something comes out, like "I never had sex outside a LTR" and you know he didn't have half as many as you did. Shit like this. Or numbers. Whatever. He confirms what before were only suspicions, after you've been together for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 11:41 PM |
| 3 | What is a "slut" to you?I'll disregard the inaccuracy of your post and just answer the questions correctly. 1) who are these "sluts" men can pick out of a line up? With some exceptions "sluts" are only labeled to mark women that are not good picks for LTRs. They're women who need too much attention, women that can easily justify wrong doings for themselves, women who never lie but don't count "telling something different from the truth" as a lie. There are some tells. 2) If she didnt look like the basic slut, above ^ b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 11:37 PM |
| 2 | "Former" slutWell. No "former". We're (men) all on a slut hiatus. You're (women) all on a slightly different kind of slut-hiatus. If either man or woman has lived their potential to slut, they're forever doomed with knowledge of what they'll miss. Women might score high and just don't miss it at all, but slim chances these days. Men will know forever. That's all that changes objectively, but each person reacts to it differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?7 and 8 - I don't see the difference? He confirms your suspicions and expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?And who expressed dislike for things that are your option? Random guys? Random women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Too soon to ask if she is loyal?There's a certain profile of women that are not acutely aware about just how much that shit screws them are quick to draw it. I came inside my girlfriend when she was on her period and she took it. Another chick took it because we had unprotected sex for a while, despite the fact that I didn't cum on her. Don't bother a lot. She's 23, she probably hasn't been abusing it enough to become reckless about it. And she's your PLATE dude. Hit the sidebar. Exclusivity is her subject to bring, NEVER your… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Are threesomes realistic?Probably something every guy that can consistently pick up new women can get if he makes a case about getting one. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever dated a practice or placeholder girlfriend? What was it about her that made her just temporary?Nope. I reckon you might kind of fear this a lot since it might sound appealing to women, but for us it's an awful strategy. You can dismiss this as a non concern. Even if a guy takes a girlfriend like this, chances are he'll keep her. If he's feeling the need for security, he's not quite confident in his game, otherwise he wouldn't bother getting a girlfriend to have a chick to put out for him; Game rusts with time, his already weak game will rust, his anxieties will worsen; Stability curses mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Do liking/following other girls count as dread?Will this make a girl jaloux or Will it have another effect? Probably another effect. Some chicks might feel kind of threatened if you look at other women, but most will think it's kinda lame that you follow lots of randos on social media. The core of dread is other chicks showing interest in you. Get followed by chicks and it might work properly. I mean since I cant cheat The idea in dread isn't to threaten her with cheating. It brings insecurity and drama. The idea is to let her feel you have … | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 06:58 PM |
| 2 | If she love bombs you is she a borderline?How the fuck did you leave all that out? No. Some women which are not bpds love bomb. Some chicks that are bpd don't love bomb. Now, given the rest, you're talking about a solid case of don't stick your dick in crazy. Hyper sexual; Self damage; No self control, although it might be that she thinks it's pretty to be a spoiled brat. It makes a good enough trio to dismiss for BPD, although I stand for nexting psychos and bpds even if you're 90% likely to be wrong. But more than enough red flags to … | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Girl communicates overtlywhat do you mean by this? That she trusts strongly that you won't say "no" or disappoint her, otherwise she wouldn't take chances. If she thought you could say "I'm sorry, but I don't feel like that", she would never say a thing. She’s a virgin, but she’s made sexual interest clear in the past. I just couldn’t close. You REALLY didn't paint her like a girl that could be a virgin, at all. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Too soon to ask if she is loyal?Here's how that will play out. I'm thinking of confront her about the past What about it? if she was a slut then Is this really what you think? I was young, I made one mistake in my life! if she still is a slut. Oh my god, men are REALLY intimidated by sexual women, aren't them? Are you afraid I'll treat you like you treat women, you sexist pig? Did I ever sermonize you about going to a club and picking up women a decade younger than you? Because I hear shit about it. Did I ever sermonize you fo… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl communicates overtlyWhat must she be feeling to communicate like this? Two things. First is a strong desire to keep you ready for when she is ready, second is strong confidence that she will not be denied of intent, that you will not "dump" her from the "crush" position. How can I fix/respond to the situation now, having been a “blue pill” when trying to make moves before? IF: She said "I love you" but made no mention or signaled intent to start fucking, then the "like a best friend" is there, but is not overt. Tel… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?it sounds like she was brought up that way but had men tell her this is wrong. How on earth did you come up with this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?I don't need to know whether she lied or not. I gave you two separate answers. First one is generic, for all people. On her specific case, she had some practice and kinks I wouldn't expect in an inexperienced woman, so it was probably a lie. She presented three issues: The sudden change from presenting herself as "I'm a whore" to trying to change it to "I'm very prudish" hinted at a change to a less sexual behavior I absolutely didn't want or fancy. She was counting on me letting her feed me way… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?I'm sorry, but I assume you're a woman since you said "him" to SO. Why are you apologizing in the edit? Were you ever shamed because of these opinions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | What is your line? What has to happen for 1- a man, and 2- a woman to receive a well-deserved full force knockout punch to the face?Nope. It would be always a woman pouring a glass or spitting shit on a guy. She either was already drunk or having a shitty night, disapprove something you did and that was it. I guess it died although I'm not sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Wtf is wrong with waiting to have sex until 25? Very few reasons can cause one to wait for so long, most of those reasons scar people. you don’t seem to respect her or like her very much despite the fact that she got naked with you. I understand and I see reasonable reasons for people to completely change their minds about how they present themselves to you. But I'm antipathetic to people that tell me lies no reasonable person would believe in and expect me to believe them. It means they believe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 12:13 AM |
| 1 | What is your line? What has to happen for 1- a man, and 2- a woman to receive a well-deserved full force knockout punch to the face?The only time I got it was at some known alt club. Birthday of an ex's friend. It was a trend at "cheaper" clubs, late teenagers, and folks at their early 20s. You'd always see some guys soaked though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Got you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?So I reckon this one lie is worse than most others? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Only redpilled men truly respect women.Depends man. If you respect a chick because you believe she's nAWALT when she has been a disgusting whore all her life up to the moment she met you and now she's trying to do it right and not fuck this up too, are you respecting her or not? Bloopers show them respect, or not. Repillers that respect women are the only men that respect them knowing how they are. But we are not majority in RP. Most RPillers believe such people only deserve respect to the extent that they're able to repress their na… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?I think it is a bit odd that you give points to a man that lied to you about having a high count and turns out has a low count. It doesn't matter whether he believes having a high count is or is not something to brag about, only if he has or not the high count? And on 5, "He breaks your expectation of a low count with an incredibly high count", do you feel somehow cheated or betrayed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?You didn't say you wanted your partner to lie nor it could be read as that. I'm adding that and asking if it bothers you more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Got you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?These are actually about personal experiences, aren't them? I had women OFFERING their backgrounds on this one regard really early on. I believe most or all of them were intentionally misleading. And yeah, she's weird as fuck. Outlier. Sad thing is we liked a lot of the same stuff and it would have ended up working out if she hadn't triggered the crazy warning with that and some other shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?For some reason it's a cognate and I managed to only use it in its one meaning that means the opposite. It means "offer". I'll use something else now. Now, how the fuck do people actually get it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?9 and 10, if you're lied about it. Is it any worse than being lied about any other thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?You said you don't care and have never asked, this answers everything there, but the last two scenarios, which are about people lying about their counts. Is being told a lie about your partner's count any worst than being told any other lie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Ok. And is being told a lie about it any worse than being told one about something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Is being told a lie about it any worse than being told one about something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?I guess it makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Its still painful, any way to relax ? Should I even relax ?still rejections hurt as fuck Change your game. Lower the investment on each individual woman so that when rejection comes, if it comes, it won't be so annoying. knowing that this is all bullshit, that its a cover story. Some people work out just fine being fully plugged in man. Some lucky men, and most women. You aren't that lucky, but you can still work out just fine. Maybe I'm in the angry phase... Hack your way through it. Everyone gets pissed when they realize they didn't have fun and were … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Ten of them. Come on, I gave ready answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Women soliciting low counts don't make you suspicious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?For serious? Like half the tinderellas I hung with remarked how "conservative" they were on every opportunity they had. Best one was a chick telling me she traveled and stayed in the same hotels as her favorite band when she was 18 on one day, to, on the following day, after we banged on the first date, tell me she lost her virginity when she was 25 and didn't date a lot because she was raised a neopentecostal christian. Literally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Really? The causes vary between situations, reactions to it might vary equally, but they're always pretty easy to grasp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 07:19 PM |
| 2 | I cheatedDude, this shit happens EVERY DAY. It's kind of settled that sex doesn't mean commitment but for some reason chicks believe that, while you can casually eat her pussy and casually fuck her ass, if you have dinner together it means you're boyfriend and girlfriend. Or make a trip, or whatever. She can swallow and it's not a biggie but if you hang out and kiss in public it means you'll marry. Basically you're always in the wrong. If you had been living together without ever making shit overt and yo… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | I cheatedHer view: I feel it is time for you to yield and submit to appease me. Anything you try to divert from this path will cause me more righteous anger to push you further, and if you quit you're the worst man on earth. You pretty much has to change how she feels. If she's open towards you try recollecting kinder memories you have to change it, so she doesn't FEEL that you have to bend. It's usually no rocket science. If you can't change it, give up. There's no use in bending to appease her. It won'… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Worse than another lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Is it any worse if a person lies about this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Often for different reasons. Here I tried to pick on all the situations that comprehended: He's flashing his high/low count; He gave you a wrong impression about it; He lied about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?10 questions, 10 answers that might be actually be just the same. I'll make the edit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 06:15 PM |
| 0 | What is your line? What has to happen for 1- a man, and 2- a woman to receive a well-deserved full force knockout punch to the face?Not quite. There was the spitting trend here. God, that was hellish. Mainly on some "liberal" places, frequented by enough bis and gays, men would get booze all over them for lots of really, really stupid shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | What is your line? What has to happen for 1- a man, and 2- a woman to receive a well-deserved full force knockout punch to the face?Man: Offer threat; Participate in an escalation of aggression that went beyond verbal; Woman: Offer threat (even in escalation of aggression) AND either prove or have known credentials for "too risky to be safely neutralized in another way"; | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: How do you weight a potential partner's count in these circumstances?Male, straight; 1 - II Ok, but why?; 2 - I; 3 - III Ok, but why? There's shit there, there's no way there's no shit there.; 4 - II Ok, but why?; 5 - I I only have myself to blame.; 6 - I I only have myself to blame.; 7 - IV Great that I get what I expected; 8 - IV Great that I get what I expected; 9 - IV Poor thing, was she insecure about it or something?; 10 - III I assume she maliciously tried to portray a role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Where did the belief that most men will be able to marry a much younger woman come from?Oh. Thanks. But I still have a hard time picturing men past their 30s dating women their own age. Courtship and such. I have very few friends that married women their own age, most are around 5 years younger. And it's not because women our age are less attractive. It just might be that 30 is the new 20 for women. I picture that whatever we offer for women our age is simply unimpressive. Maybe the only thing that tells some of us apart is willingness to have children soon. When it comes to the 20… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | A hypothetical about masculinityWe'd hardly dismiss D. You get to ignore aggressions when they're done to you, but it's stated that it did include the partner and it did cause damage. "A" might be the right pick for some guys, but most of us should go with "D" and a bit of "A" to flame things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Where did the belief that most men will be able to marry a much younger woman come from?As true as that might be, I doubt it's the most influential variable for divorce rates, or even influential enough to discourage the approach you seek to criticize. But anyway, most guys that actually DO the nerd-turned-playboy thing start off thinking they'll fuck for ten years and a thousand bitches before finding the most chaste woman they can find, only to learn how much they enjoy partying (they do) and fucking new women (fun too) and make a much more conscious switch to a LTR in one or two… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Advice — will seeing girls casually keep me from meeting someone I actually want a relationship withI doubt you have haters. People dislike bragging though. You're better than none for achieving this, so you don't flash it around. You'll get one or two pissed chicks tops. Maybe some more when you commit, that earned me a hater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Who is more "oppressed": an elite female escort who makes $300/hour or a man who makes $15/hour (or less) doing menial labor or working as a cashier or something?How many of your $15 peers are on that spot by choice? A person working a $15/hr job because it's the bare minimum of what they're willing/able to put into it would not make very high-tier escorts either. That is the whole point of making the comparison to ELITE escorts, and not beginner escorts. One has no choice of bettering or must put incredible effort to achieve it, and works in a uncontroversial field. The other hardly has a choice to bettering as its spot is already the top of a trade, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 02:29 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: Where did the belief that most men will be able to marry a much younger woman come from?Honestly, I don't see how it can be a lot different. Younger women are so much easier to date and impress. At least on the 30 range I have a hard time picturing men getting along just fine with a woman the same age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | A hypothetical about masculinityMost masculine: A or D, depends on your own style, D is far more common. An aggression is required, you can't ignore harm done to someone you should protect (B isn't an option unless done to bring harm, and it doesn't seem your point), time for C is later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Who is more "oppressed": an elite female escort who makes $300/hour or a man who makes $15/hour (or less) doing menial labor or working as a cashier or something?There is no such thing as a tie because there is no winner because there is no finish line. I'm referring to what you called Oppression Olympics. They're different jobs that take different types of mental and physical energy. So... These two people: 1 - Is a genius, fought his way to a top tier job, faces pressure; 2 - Is average, is stuck at a bottom job and will experience life threatening money deprivation if they quit and try new paths; Are equally oppressed because you were once the first o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Why is true masculinity discouraged?Because we believe that: People ought to be grateful to what they have; Failure leads to disappointment and should be avoided, it's stupid to try against the odds and to try too hard altogether if you might fail AND you have a safe choice. Encouraging ambition is "evil", even the all glorified entrepreneurship is only encouraged as long as it's "safe", as long as people have a "safety net" behind them and won't end up worst than not trying. Encouraging people to take chances is equated to encour… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Is men shutting down in conflicts actually protective?Yep. Those are the mechanisms. Avoid conflict: You'll see us avoiding fights we don't know how to win, arguments we don't see a way out. If we see, chances are we won't hesitate from arguing, we don't often feel threatened by our partners. Yeah, it worsen things. As a rule of thumb she only argues when she believes she's having a right violated, and she reacts violently to anything but compliance. IDGAF Yep, it is attractive because of that. Sex to reestablish dominance I'm not sure it happens f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Theory behind branch swinging?They CAN just leave. The best ones: If things are good: Stay committed and invest; If things are going downhill: Display warning signs, try to solve, then quit; If Chad comes, shows investment and seems available enough: Swing. Notice that he must come and show investment, they're not actively baiting him. The worst ones: If things are good: Stress test the guy to figure out the least they can put; WHEN things are going downhill: Cling, whine and increase nagging on the guy and try to shame him … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 12:54 PM |
| 0 | Advice — will seeing girls casually keep me from meeting someone I actually want a relationship withmmmmm. Been there, kinda. I ended a rather long relationship, but I was remarkably ready for ending it when I did it. The idea is to collect, then select. Go around, pick up as many women as you can, spare no one, spare no weeknight. Provided that you want to find a woman to eventually marry, make some effort in having more dates with the same women. Some chick ought to stand out. That's your next bet. Lots of women are agreeable and actually not fierce unyielding creatures with anything. Most m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Who is more "oppressed": an elite female escort who makes $300/hour or a man who makes $15/hour (or less) doing menial labor or working as a cashier or something?Essentially, the high risk job has potential to produce a higher turn out. But also has worse downsides. I recall the complainer sought to make the comparison between ELITE escorts and men at the bottom of their careers. And it should have a pretty obvious answer, comparing professionals in the top of trade with others that hardly have professional prospects. Ive literally worked both sides of this coin and am baffled why everyone always needs to select a winner for the Oppression Olympics here.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Who is more "oppressed": an elite female escort who makes $300/hour or a man who makes $15/hour (or less) doing menial labor or working as a cashier or something?Well, some people said "they're even". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 10:58 AM |
| 12 | CMV: “Treat all guns as if they are loaded” as justification for believing “AWALT” is a flawed analogy that encourages excessive cynicism and paranoiaThe problem lies in the analogy and perhaps in your perception of TRP. Women are neither machines designed to kill men nor harmless machines designed to serve society and make the world a better place. They are, as men, beings that evolved to survive and pass on genetic payloads, and it turns out that their best strategy for them isn't the same as men's. AWALT means that. It's usually used as "The behaviors that disgust you in some chicks women are often of the female nature and present in all w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Would men get married, if they knew it didn't guarantee them sex?Oh. I'm starting to get a rather different picture. What I meant by novelty was answering "So, what are we going to do today?" with things like: Let's travel to...; There's this place I really enjoy; Let's go (outdoor sports)... That is what I meant by the excitement of novelty. The new world or worlds you start to also belong to or dwell into when you meet someone that lived like that. The perspective of new, uncountable possibilities. Because for some time you get that, and then you lose it. N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/18 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: What is red pill ideology all about to you?What specific aspects of RP ideology do you believe in? Beyond "women are this, that and the other," what does RP say about how YOU should live your life and the changes YOU should make that resonate with you? Chronologically, that my life ACTUALLY sucked (average frustrated chump), then that it was totally ok to blame the "suck" of my life on my relationship, that it was ok to blame the "suck" of the LTR on my partner, then that the alternative to "relationship" was actually something great for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Which (1) men and (2) women stand to lose the most if TRP ideology/principles spread?Which men stand to lose the most if TRP ideology/principles spread? If it spreads like "info", nothing changes. If people take it seriously, men that are gifted enough to stand out WITHOUT much effort at all will lose this capacity and have to put some work. Which women stand to lose the most if TRP ideology/principles spread? RP draws attention to an imbalance between the potential fulfillment relationships offer to men and women. "Committed women" face the biggest threat here, if men start to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | The stud to slut ratioHow is it possible that one sex can have a higher on average number sexual partners? It's not if you dismiss same sex interactions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Would men get married, if they knew it didn't guarantee them sex?It's not something taught Oh, so apart for some lucky enlightened people, it is impossible. I thought it would be like that. I never had that much time to hang out Poor fella. Maybe this makes the above simpler? I don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Aren't men "commitment branch-swingers"?Not quite. On the way we call women branch swingers, we're not-committers. When the guy COMMITS, he loses a good deal of his potential to be sexually fulfilled, because he can no longer enact monogamy. If his partner loses some of her looks, he's not loosing much further. What fucks her up is if she changes into someone quite different form the woman he committed to, for starters. So to answer that question, they won't leave IF they were not stupid upon committing for starters and their partners… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Who is more "oppressed": an elite female escort who makes $300/hour or a man who makes $15/hour (or less) doing menial labor or working as a cashier or something?Easy and objective question, the way you made it. The men: Little or no chance to grow a career and make more money; Attempting to change careers might threaten subsistence; Work shifts prevent personal growth and discourage changes further; There's no incentive to hide the career, and it causes pity (low status); Money they make can not buy status. ELITE escorts: Are the top of their trade; Might have parallel careers; There's incentive to hide the career, but it causes mixed feelings due to di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/18 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Would men get married, if they knew it didn't guarantee them sex?Thanks man. Both names ring a bell, I suppose I saw both at some point. I'm pretty sure it is by Esther Perel now and if this is the only one by her, it is it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Would men get married, if they knew it didn't guarantee them sex?Speak for your own relationships. Others have been able to maintain it with effort. Although I can imagine a man or woman that might keep novelty flourishing forever, I doubt either exists. What you probably have is people capable of maintaining physical attraction with a lot less novelty. Seems quite feasible, although hard. If you are indeed saying "others are able, though effort, to maintain the novelty that permeates the beginning of LTRs", oh master do teach me. Hard to maintain friendships… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I kind of prefer otherwise, I don't think that a chick with repressed drive has a shot at making up the hassle LTRs are, although keeping that constant I'd take the least ridden. Your opinion is majoritarian even here though. Let alone outside, where you don't bump into these sermonizing fellows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] If TRP desires to stayed hewed to reality, why do you assume so much about so many? Why not just stick with the facts?terpers are obsessed with accepting hard truths. I kind of keep catching myself generalizing things, as if I could grasp an intent about the literalness. Whenever I read awalt I read "women can do shit that you disapprove" rather than any literal meaning. Shit like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How to ESCALATE at the CLUB?Here you'll pull her to dance and it might happen, but taking aside places where people go TO dance, you'll be good enough to kiss if she agrees to dance. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 10:09 PM |
| 2 | [Q4RP] If TRP desires to stayed hewed to reality, why do you assume so much about so many? Why not just stick with the facts?So what do you say, TRP? Think of how many people they interview in election pools in your country. Less than a hand full of thousands? Less than two of them for sure. Now, think of the total population. Some hundred millions? And at last, think of what they say, "The results will be this, with this error margin, with 95% certainty". fuckers love 5% failure everywhere Or of drugs entering the market, tested on a few hundred people and determined to be safe for the entire population of earth, min… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 10:05 PM |
| 2 | How to ESCALATE at the CLUB?I'm in Brazil. The grinding thing is crazy rare here. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How to ESCALATE at the CLUB?I think interesting as fuck how it goes like that in US. Must be nice. I often forget shit can be as simple as that too. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Would men get married, if they knew it didn't guarantee them sex?Makes some incredible sense. I reckon you also imply that older people are more discreet. I kind of see how it'd pose an issue for a dead bedroom guy though. I would be PISSED if my nagging "I don't want sex I don't need that much" wife suddenly found herself with renewed sex drive. I imagine it happens a lot while the guy has a hard time getting laid for starters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 07:55 PM |
| 2 | How to ESCALATE at the CLUB?Take a look at "club game" man. There's waaaaaaaaaaaay too much shit under it. I fucking hate night club game man. So I do high risks, high losses. Hi. (3 minutes of random conversation, I go for laughs) Touch or be near her, or something Excuse to take her out of the group "I can use a beer, will you make me company on the long barren line?" any crap. she knows, you know talk a bit if it's awkward touch hips or just use some pick up line to make out | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Would men get married, if they knew it didn't guarantee them sex?I'm asking for your guess there. I kind of expect it to be overestimated but it'll be worth something. I have a kind of conflicting observations there. I knew ONE open couple (hardly even acquaintances though), some more that had threesomes, mostly FFM. On the other hand the few swing houses here (pretty large city) are crowded despite being expensive and selective as shit. Even if most people there are curious men and women that coupled as friends to enter, there must be some lots of swingers a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Are the women that approach me a good indicator of my leagueYou can be sure your own league and reach is fairly above those of the women that actually open you, and you can also learn that they don't find you otherwise intimidating, you're coming out fragile or has something that they believe make you more prone to agree with them. My nerdier looking friend is the one chicks open most often, and he's actually opened a LOT, like half of times we go to clubs or festivals. Most of the times by girls that aren't worth it, but he's opened by some fuckable chi… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Would men get married, if they knew it didn't guarantee them sex?Define "extremely common"? Like, how many % of the marriages are secretly open? And openly open? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Would men get married, if they knew it didn't guarantee them sex?I wouldn't argue any of those are impossible to solve, but rather things that make maintaining attraction while committed HARDER than it is otherwise. So becoming boring and stale. The issue is in the "becoming". Novelty is interesting, it's ridiculously hard to be novel all the time. This you will lose and will have to live without, in a monogamous relationship. But can also be linked to not wanting to put in effort to maintain an outside life, Yeah, it is solvable like that. like they did whil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Would men get married, if they knew it didn't guarantee them sex?mmmm. I was VERY literal there. IF a man marries BECAUSE he wants to get laid (as some our parents might have done), then he will not get married IF he believes marriage does not guarantees sex. Else, the rest of the answer comes into play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Would men get married, if they knew it didn't guarantee them sex?Loss of mystery, contempt, higher reliance of the woman on her partner's ability to fulfill other social needs that lead to inevitable disappointments, shit like that. There's a TEDx talk, over "dead bedrooms" that's pretty interesting on the subject. It's a woman, she gives the female's perspective on the why, describes the problem well. I don't remember her name, nor the talks, she was a therapist or something like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Would men get married, if they knew it didn't guarantee them sex?He made a poor job explaining it, but increased commitment often implies in decreased sexual attraction, there are quite a few mechanism that cause it. It's not just "decreased sex because decreased husband". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Would men get married, if they knew it didn't guarantee them sex?Of course they would, as long as they are not doing it TO get laid. All of us realize that sex dwindles with time in LTR but few of us realize that increased commitment is a factor that makes sex harder to get from our partners. Since we don't, we don't count it negatively against committing, or marrying. RPillers are kind of made aware of this, so we count it against committing. But "not commit" isn't the only solution, "be increasingly more attractive" works but is hard to make, "change chicks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | What are your opinions on IQ as a measurement of general intelligence?Do you believe it's accurate in terms of intelligence Their idea was to measure how quickly you can learn. And yes, it is biased towards exact sciences, but it seems only because it's easier to design questions like that. Other tests are measuring and weighting other things. Memory and vocabulary are common. hence potential success it predicts for you in life? It relates, but it doesn't fully define it. Your 140kg guy will beat the 100kg guy in a lifting contest, but Ronaldo will beat them both … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 04:47 PM |
| 2 | How long do you guys wait to text a chick after getting her number?Depends on the situation man. If you made no investment on her nor she did on you, you have time. Otherwise you want to use the momentum you had and led her to give the number to also get a date, so, asap. Same night if you can. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 04:36 PM |
| 0 | What do spontaneous nudes mean more often? She's dtf or just fishing for some attention?But how often the move fails? | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What is the Blue Pill explanation for women's fixation with male confidence?I reckon is should be blue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | What exactly does it mean to let girls chase you?Most often it means "max out aspects of SMV that are noticeable at first sight, some women will qualify themselves to you and spare you from putting any work". It happens. But probably not as often, as much and with the women you'd like. It's more reasonable to read it as "raise your SMV a lot, open the chick and game her enough for her to be attracted, then stop gaming a bit. she'll miss the attention and work towards getting it back, at which point you'll have a much better position to do what… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 01:28 PM |
| 9 | What exactly does it mean to let girls chase you?Most often it means "max out aspects of SMV that are noticeable at first sight, some women will qualify themselves to you and spare you from putting any work". It happens. But probably not as often, as much and with the women you'd like. It's more reasonable to read it as "raise your SMV a lot, open the chick and game her enough for her to be attracted, then stop gaming a bit. she'll miss the attention and work towards getting it back, at which point you'll have a much better position to do what… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 01:27 PM |
| 2 | If a woman were to apply TRP tactics and strategies on men to either get herself a boyfriend or for casual sex, would it be effective?What is "apply TRP tactics"? This is not a good term in itself, but I'm betting in act masculine and polarize traits that imply one's preference for freedom and confidence and one's capacity to find other partners? (And hoping you're going with "be attractive" and not "lift hard and be big", lol) Lots of women do this. RP encourages men to do it because women perceive it as valuable, and we kind of noticed women find it valuable because enough women do it. RP doesn't encourage men to do ALL whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 12:47 PM |
| 4 | Q4BP: What is the Blue Pill explanation for women's fixation with male confidence?Some options: "It is a non issue, why are you even asking" "It doesn't happen, why do even think it" "Women owe no explanation for what turns them on you sexist pig" "They're confident because they're hot sherlock" "RP is right but only about this, so it doesn't make RP right, so RP is wrong about this because it is RP" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 12:25 PM |
| 2 | If some people are turned on by the illicit/"naughty"/taboo *nature* of cheating, then are these people not terrible candidates for marriage, since their fantasy is to cheat?Yep. Some people are averse to whatever turns you on. Among these people, some don't believe a person with that perversion is functional enough to NOT live it because it is too perverse, and others don't understand that people can NOT DO what they want to. These people will couple together and with a trick of stupid's magic, "he fetishizes it" will become "he likes it", then "he does it, avoid him". And they won't even believe they're wrong, it'll be "obvious". If some of them believe they might… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 12:19 PM |
| 2 | If some people are turned on by the illicit/"naughty"/taboo *nature* of cheating, then are these people not terrible candidates for marriage, since their fantasy is to cheat?You see, yes, they are worst candidates. But all people have some red flags that make them bad candidates. It is the choice that makes the difference, not the potential. Our natures make us all potentially awful candidates. Don't share your fantasies outside the right places, do not trust people to understand that you can choose, and you'll be cool. I doubt you'll be drowned by guilt and sabotage relationships for wanting to cheat. Maybe for doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 01:17 AM |
| 3 | How to survive monk mode when you’ve never experienced the external validation of being an alpha male?What is, exactly, that you are looking into "monking out"? Some people are kind of too hysterical, in the technical sense. Everything they look at strikes as messy and have no beginning and no end. Other people are more obsessive, also in the technical sense. When something bugs them, this something is the cause of all their ailments. Most men are here. It seems that you are obsessive, because you're a man and also because you have elaborated it this much. And it seems that the thing it bothers … | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Can someone tell me which guides/article describe what women are attracted to in males?You see, I meant women, not celebs and somewhat abstract concepts. Those attractive entities that roam the streets around you and seem to talk to your penis instead of inviting you to contemplation. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Trying to plan second Tinder date and need adviceI don't know whether I sit back and wait or I text her to either ask or tell her which day There are some situations in which it is better game to let her do it, but they're rare and not easy to spot. Usually you should text, set the day, and the place. Missing the window is a crime and usually fucks things beyond the point of it being worth to recover. Trying too soon doesn't fuck things a lot, and trying when it was better to let her take the lead also doesn't fuck up too much. The precise bes… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Trying to plan second Tinder date and need adviceCan't grasp when it's best to let them do the initiating and when I should be proactive in trying to get laid. On tinder you should be proactive and try to get laid as soon as you can. She went to meet you because she is attracted to your looks. Unless you used dishonest pictures, you have a green light for making out. Making it soon enough gives you "bold" points for attractiveness. "Hot, not a pussy, not a creep" usually does the trick. From that moment and on, it's about raising the heat. Mak… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 10:34 PM |
| 7 | Can someone tell me which guides/article describe what women are attracted to in males?You're looking for something that was made into a science and engineering under the keywords "pick up artist", or PUA. Opinions about which ones are the best here diverge and opinions about its worth diverge a lot more, but we all agree that they DO work to pick up women. I suggest you to start with Mystery. It lays off fundamentals well, its strategy works and will explain what, and it'll explain why beta dudes also pick up women, although less and spending more time and money. And I'm a bit sk… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | when you read that some man being described online was able to get laid.........do you automatically imagine him as chad in your heads and assume the girls he had sex with were models or Stacy's? Nope. Not anymore. Do you know/think that non-chads are able to get laid with not great looking women? Yep. With great looking women too. Do you believe that happens or does it just not count to you? Happens. I guess it varies with men's experience and how much they want and can't manage to get laid. Zero xp - Only Chads have sex, only hot guys get to touch women; Some kisses -… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 09:58 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] What are your experiences with men lying to get sex?Fuck, this was sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | The UMC view point is over represented on this subTRP's purpose is clear and serves it to make some false things into maxims if they're true often enough, I don't bother. Screwed up men fell there, support group horseshit applies. TBP, on the other hand, can not make such claims. But whatever. I'm starting to get skeptical about ANYTHING working well here. DO NOT PAINT SCENARIOS. Whatever is your purpose, no matter how much you state your purpose, no matter if you say "look how this scenario is ridiculous", people will assume you are defending … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 09:41 PM |
| 4 | The notion that prettier women have higher standards is not entirely true.What the hell man. Look at how you formulated it. "The notion that prettier women have higher standards is not entirely true." HOW can it be argued? The notion that there are no super heroes is not entirely true. The notion that pokemon don't exist is not entirely true. The notion that I am not god is not entirely true... Other than that just take a look and see how often a ugly woman picks a hot guy and a ugly guy picks a hot woman. Wives are kind of more lenient to looks. As someone pointed ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 09:30 PM |
| 2 | The UMC view point is over represented on this subRP should use "AWALT" meaning those bullets there, and also "Will betafy partners", which I forgot. It would be better. But in practice it goes like "all women do things that disgust you", because the point is "don't commit if you hope that the woman is not capable of doing things that disgust you". It's annoying in either case, but it is not unfalsifiable in none. And it is a remarkably strong proposition you know. All the time we wishfully argue to ourselves, "this is an unicorn", only to soon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 09:24 PM |
| 2 | The UMC view point is over represented on this subAwalt is a concept. Not a behavior of a woman or some women. The concept says all women: Are hypergamous: They do not have interest in mating with men which are not the best they can get; If there's no pressure otherwise, men that easily bang 6s will bang 5s if no 6s are available, women will rather wait and it might take a while before they realize 6s are not available for them anymore. Act rationally: They have great pressure to leave a worst partner for a better one if it is available enough;… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 09:00 PM |
| 2 | The UMC view point is over represented on this subNope. AWALT is a concept, and it admits falsifying as such. It is arguable that women are not hypergamous, or that there are some circumstances that causes women or a woman to NEVER act on their nature, which would also cause it to be false, although it doesn't serve a lot of purpose to prove that A WOMAN isn't, unless you want to do induction to generalize it to some women or all women later. It might be arguable in many other ways that I'm not spotting right now, creativity is the only limit. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I constantly see comments on /r/TheRedPill stating that it takes very little effort for a man to stand out from the rest these days. Is that really true?Thoughts? I reckon roads have a knack to look incredibly long before you start and kinda short after you finish them. RP's road has too many turns too, some lead to an end. Such ends strike like dead ends to some, to others, they're simply ideal. All of these men feel like they reached the road's end. that is one that does not match my experience. Have you checked yourself for some sort of bias? Next time, look around and count, these men and total men. I used to have this impression too, someti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 06:52 PM |
| 3 | The UMC view point is over represented on this subBecause I seem to be plagued with mimicking the styles of books I am reading, and I am reading a book in which the author seems obsessed with not leaving behind any loose ends, thus elucidating every single point. I guess I might be the only person that admires this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 06:08 PM |
| 2 | The UMC view point is over represented on this sublol I get that you are pissed. You see, there's a problem with perspectives here. Either because those women are blue pilled and do not believe reds about their own nature, repressed and ignorant, or because they believe but have conscience that they CHOSE to act otherwise, these women BELIEVE themselves not to be like we claim women are. And unless something goes terrible wrong, their beliefs will reflect their reality. And it is not a given that something will go wrong, pretty much the other w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | The UMC view point is over represented on this subBut repressed women are not evidences for nawalt. There are no living proves for nawalt, as there are no nawalt. Women that behave decently are around us, all around us, also everywhere. But we must know what is the female nature so we can tell apart the ones that are acting towards it and enveloping it in a cute way, and the ones that are making concessions so that you make some too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | First post - Dog logicMan, the prudence it preaches about picking jobs, the propensity to call some careers "pursuit of dreams" are what I had in mind. But if you look at "picking partners" there's a powerful trend in minimizing risk rather than maximizing risk-reward. And it's incoherent, because a RP man MUST be able to take blows from break ups. "Don't commit" is also preached as some maxim to cover this, but all maxims contain risk aversion and encouragement not to assess your own chances anyway. Edit to add some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Question for the men: Would you want this kind of woman?Good one. The woman you designed? No fucking way. prime partner material? She's dangerously incoherent and it seems that she wants "someone" rather than "me". Given that, to be in a relationship, I must want "her", this poses an unacceptable risk. It also seems like this is not intentional, but you made her with "financial independence" as an identity trait ("you gotta respect...") and also made her not prone to respect this as a trait of her partner, ("you might be looking at being a stay at ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 05:16 PM |
| 3 | The UMC view point is over represented on this subI challenge your view. The men you refer to are not lucky and they do not dwell in a bubble where all women fit to long lost male ideals that make them not cheat, be kind, be supportive, and not nagging, etc etc etc. The men you are referring belong to one of these categories: Incredibly lucky men that are very attractive for the sake of something that flashes and have women in a "I must not fuck this up" mindset, which causes women to play a role they were taught men find attractive rather than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 04:54 PM |
| 0 | What is/was Red Pill Women?I wish there was a sub with red pill women. Women that acknowledge the differences between sexual strategies and approach everything from that angle, as it is expected from TRP. Honestly, I looked at RPW a couple times and it struck me as "blue pill for women becomes functional when with RP men". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Oh, I never had any pretension but to test the people in here. When I was under the impression that the opinion of people here differed from my impression of real world, I remained skeptic of the representation of people here. When I made the run through I realized something: It aligns with what I expect from the real world; I challenged the people that gave answers I somehow desired, I do not believe that most people think chastity is NOT a factor, I rather believe those men were flashing virtu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?Unpleasantness is unattractive. I suppose that if I say proceeding will not cause you to be automatically seen as unpleasant, by observing body language, tone and context we are able to determine whether it will be unpleasant or not, and it is only when men make wrong reading of these that women get annoyed and increase their perception of a man's unattractiveness will cause you to go back to this is not true, if any form of "no" is present, all the subtext does not matter, and we'll both be lef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Well, although I never made it explicit, I never expected to represent anything but PPD population. I am suspicious that people believe people here are very different from those results, on average. I'd test the sample and the conclusion for power, if 24 offers decent certainty for 15000 and a few. But I'll need to pick a distribution and I don't recall anyone that would apply by standard. Any suggestion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | First post - Dog logicRP has an inner issue. If you ever asked yourself, "is it alpha because it is attractive, or is attractive because it is alpha? Is it unattractive because it is beta (...)?" you probably found quite unanimous answers on "alpha" and "beta" having both traits that strike as "desirable on men" and "undesirable". In our eagerness to fundament our knowledge in other than social engineering, someone gave the wrong answer. And on the effectiveness of the wrong answer for some goals (interacting with wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I have ONE quantitative answer, besides my own. I derived those qualitative meanings from people's answers there. I'll see if I can figure something quantifiable there. Seems possible at first sight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?remove individual blame so that harm can be avoided. I do not see how the removal of individual blame avoids harm. I see how it might prompt people to perceive it as more reasonable. But I don't see how such polite excuses would manage to accomplish even that. And I don't see any lack of sense or reasonability in the harm caused by a rejection, so, also no reason to soften it. So, "it is debunked, I will not say how nor why, and by virtue of my credentials I wholeheartedly hope you believe it"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?See the run through. I just made an edit. The incoherent answers are lovely. I believe they're guys flashing virtue although I can be proven otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?But relationships are hard work! And no one is happy all the time! (Heard these) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Which is why I remain skeptical of "chastity isn't desirable" is an opinion shared by any relevant number of men even if some men here actually have this opinion instead of just flashing their virtue but being caught unable to solve a question that has an obvious answer for those with that thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?You know, with all their importance, I think creating boundaries are a hassle. I got kind of full red. If I must annoy myself pointing out things that I believe were meant to be obvious, I can just not commit and fuck bitches. If maybe I am wrong on what is meant to be obvious, well, I am wrong, which annoys ME greatly, but then again I won't ever know of it if I just assume she was wrong and go on fucking bitches until maybe I find a woman that agrees there. It's not immoral not to commit nor i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Is a man with a mix of alpha and beta traits rare?As with everything, nothing exist in the extremes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I kind of expected all men to say "all else the same, I pick the chaste, but she can not be less attractive if all else is the same". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Oh. I don't believe she realized anything. She worked on issues I pointed when I said they would cause the end of our relationship. But hardly on herself, although I pointed that out, too. I hope she did afterwards, but it wasn't enough to cause us to stick together. It was a karpman drama triangle. I dwelt in the role on rescuer, she as a victim, and whenever I tried to take the victim role she played the accuser, then back to victim. When RP came I took the role of the accuser, and then broke … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I suppose another day I could have grown a bit more misanthropic upon the order, but once you reach a certain point you need novel stupidity to grow any further, one more of the same old goes to the "you know how this sort of shit goes and it's your fault to expect it to go any different, you only have yourself to blame" box. I will learn this, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Yes. Yes. New me would have it solved and made it work perfectly with her, if I wanted to. Actually she would always draw and express a world view that caused her to suffer and be a victim of anything that did not go the way she wanted. If I tried to argue, she would say "that is the world". If I tried to leave, "but don't you love me and want to stand by my side?". If she saw me as the cause (and she often did), it turned into passive aggression. I did not know of any ways to handle it, but to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Come on, we compare remarkably different things all the time. "The light is brighter than the sound is loud". We do it by comparing their relative intensities usually. Chastity does not add to attractiveness but they might both weight in picking a partner. A million folks here said it doesn't weight, yet it simply makes the answer CLEAR instead of impossible. Some folks gave this answer. Edit: You kind of gave that answer, with a few too many ifs that cause some doubt though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Ceteris Paribus (but it never is) a low n-count get more "points" than a high n-count. You see, this is actually what I expect of the most reasonable men. I got curious with men that said "it does not matter" and decided to challenge them, but it seems to be a subject BP reacts to with violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?That's not an argument against the proposition. I am saying that you have done it. You aren't trying to have a discussion, here, you are trying to push your own point of view, and I have no interest in that. Now I am the one making the draw: You are projecting, because you are willing to impose your point of view. I'll support this, though. I see more people on the other side, even in this thread... Which is exactly what I said, and also exactly what surprises me. There is no possible margin to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?The idea is to, given the premise that all of the women are LTR material, how do you weight chastity against attractiveness. You negative and positive values apply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?The idea is to, given the premise that all of the women are LTR material, how do you weight chastity against attractiveness. You negative and positive values apply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?See, the idea in discussing isn't saying "this is wrong because anti-this is right". The idea is saying "the alternative to this explains factors this fails to explain and are not explained otherwise, so if the alternative also explains everything this explains, the alternative must be right". Or at least "anti-this is right because of these". On the other hand, the sheer idea that communication between two people CAN occur, in any situation, in a fashion that dismisses anything, body language, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?That sounds very lenient to me. The 10 scales are hellish but they have a knack to be designed FOR beautiful people only. The most usual ratings leave like [0,3[ to ugly people and [3-10] to others. If I'm left to rate thinking of 10s I'll end up rating women I date with 4s or 5s. I kind of force myself to recall that 5s must be average. If, like that, I think of all women I see, I don't touch anything under 7, meaning top 30%, and I'd be embarrassed to be seen with 7s. I guess women don't rate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Not taking it into account caused me to waste six and a half years of my own life, and six and a half years of a woman that truly believes her life will be a failure if she doesn't bear children. I left her when she was 31. That blindness, "the box" I referred, caused me to fail to observe remarkably obvious problems. I only managed to leave the box upon cutting the bonds, I saw the obvious problems, and she worked hard and well on them, but too late. I believe she would have done it sooner. She… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?They did say no. Whether or not they choose to say anything AFTER that is irrelevant. (...) saying “no (because)” already has that relevant components of an answer. You are stating that there are no contexts or hints, communication is always overt, if there is a "no". Is this what you believe in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I think that you are projecting. And I have solid reasons to believe that people that know what that means are quick to draw that. Most people, today, in Western societies, are over that nonsense. Honestly I got quite surprised that people here confirmed it. I should remain skeptical though. At least for as long as feminists whine about slut shaming. But this thread is as much solid evidence of it as I ever had. When I hear someone talking about "saving sex for marriage," I know that I am talkin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?But that is the point. It is not a problem in itself. It's just a population plagued by others often enough to make it reasonable to be more skeptical. Only a specific case of insecure man sees it as an issue in itself, and to them it IS a biggie, since they won't solve their own problems while committed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I thing you wished that was true, or wished you could believe that was true, but you know it is not. There's no reason for men to prefer otherwise. More sexual women, ok, but between two equal women the less ridden will be chosen. "But there are not equal women" No, there aren't, but we have a knack to believe two things we can't compare but must pick are "equal" and focus on some aspect to choose, instead of being rational and more broad. So it happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/18 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?But maybe you've have bad experiences? Not quite. I seem to do pretty well with experienced chicks. But there is no unfair bias. Many mentally ill women are more sexual; Insecure people are worst partners and insecure women find affirmation in their capacity to seduce; Women confident in their capacity to seduce perceive men as more fungible and replaceable and it is rational for them to put less effort, or be more demanding; Oxytocin insensibility is a thing, they bond less; There are too many … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 11:55 PM |
| 0 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?They're all complex things, very different, but more often than not, easy to access. The absence of a comparable quantity (and we're good at comparing different things, we compare their intensities, the light is more bright than the sound is loud makes sense for us) makes us believe they're "tied". Equal women don't exist, there's no real tie. But women that we can not quantify and compare EASILY exist, and we'll end up thinking they're "tied". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Ugh. Just because there are extremists in a group, it doesn't make it that all of them are like that. I've seen very few women who look like that let alone women who are feminist who look like that. Oh. My. God. Did you really feel the need to make THIS remark in a thread that contained "Thanks to feminism women are no more then wet holes good for a quick pump and dump"? Isn't it kind of obvious that we deviated to mock a straw man we build to be funny? Fat blue haired woman is the feminism's la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I'm confused at how that confuses you. I want my daughter to be happy, I know for a fact that pretty people are happier, whether they're sluts or not. Whatever they want to be, it is easier for them. Sex makes people happy, women feel superior because they're capable of seducing more men. If she fucks them, be it. I'll make sure she learns how be an amazing player, whatever the game, and on this too, instead of whine about rules she can not change. And this game is different for her. On the chas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Really? Smells like that flair will change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?It can be the other way, but I assumed more people would value chastity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?But if she's all that I would dump her BECAUSE she's entitled, she isn't supportive, tries to shame you and impose her ideas of what's right and wrong. That is YOU. You KNOW she's like that, as you know better. To that point of the argument, inexperienced men don't know. They know they feel bad, if much they know their partners make them feel kind of bad, but they felt bad all their lives because they didn't fuck, so it must be an effect of that, they must be envious. It's hard to manage to actu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Isn't that irony lovely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Lots dude. Try picking a car. A house. A job. Actually, basically any choice between things that are both appealing individually and have factors we can't quite pinpoint. Our brain bugs. There are a LOT of biases that plague us to make us this way. We exaggerate small chances and underestimate high ones. We believe what we can observe is the whole reality of something. We overestimate the importance of factors we KNOW and can quantify in situations that are affected by many others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?The daughters question is easier to answer; It is. If she's a virgin past her mid 20's, I'd want to know why (...) It's established they're all relationship material and loyal enough, otherwise we'd apply severe penalties to possible traits such women have, and we'd rule them out. I didn't expect "I prefer the slut". Doesn't it bother you that at some point, during the relationship, she might be in a low drive, and you think "I, that love and care for her, am probably the first guy she ever made… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?We all use different 10 scales, so that IS an issue. But for serious, we're quite unanimous about +-1, and also quite unanimous about 0, 3, 9 and 10. I trusted that there wouldn't be many or any "I'd rather an 6 virgin than an 8 slut". Just "I'd never pick the virgin / slut, I'd pick the inexperienced if she was one point below the experienced". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I guess I remarked it in OP. Life never gives ties. On the other hand we keep producing them and seeing things as a tie all the time. Poor us, plagued by biases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?That kind of is expected. The question is, how much more attractive the slut has to be for you to pick her? And generalize. How much more attractive A has to be than B for me to pick A. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Well. That is one of the reasons. I suppose you agree the others are legitimate? And to this one, you see the risk there? The woman WILL tell him "relationships are like that, they're hard work", and she might not be an entitled cunt and be right, she might also pressure him into staying by many means he'll be very sensible towards; Society will tell him he's being a sexist pig and shame him; If he has some scars on that front, he'll have a hard time spotting anything besides that, he'll believe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I read a book, thinking fast and slow, that put numbers on some judgments we make qualitatively. It struck me that it's not that hard to do, and often easier than the considerations we must make on the qualitative assessments. Our biases makes us pay too much attention to some possibilities, we exaggerate small chances and underestimate big ones, so we end up losing time remarking irrelevant things. When you put numbers on it, sometimes you end up realizing the conclusions aren't very sensitive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Congrats. You're seeking in relationships that which defines relationships, not "sex". It's pretty much the only way it can work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?So that's just jealousy of other men and envy of the woman who was able to have a lot of sex and you didn't. Well, yeah, but try to live with those and you'll be miserable. It bothers a lot and it can not be solved while committed. I don't understand the slut shaming from trp There's no "slut shaming". We're glad there are so many of those. There's rage upon women that believe men must accept them. The poor fellow there is socially SHAMED into belittling his concerns and committing to women that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | If sexual attraction is not always instantaneous and can grow with time, why do women turn down most of the approaches they get?So why is that women turn down most approaches they get unless they found the guy attractive at first sight? Because they believe they can afford to. That they have enough chances, they have enough shots. They can dismiss ALL possibly attractive men which are not attractive at first TO dismiss the unattractive ones on the first round. On the second they can dismiss ALL the unpleasant guys. And they trust they'll still have to pick between the remainder. It goes that they'll give up on those beli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?With ">". But that solves ties, you don't. I re explained the moment I saw it was not exactly what i meant, I missed how similar it was. Sorry for that. It just leaves ties to solve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Sluts have a habit of being more bitchy than they can afford to be, so I kind of agree there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I agree, and I have as an understanding that only men that had enough think like that. As said above, men to whom "sex" is a very valuable thing, often because it is scarce, valuable enough for them to commit to achieve, will be upset that sex is costing them so much. If all you want upon committing is sex and everything else the woman has is just "stuff", you'll be disappointed to have paid effort, care and commitment for the woman because her "sex" used to be "cheap". This was proven false wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I agree here. But men to whom "sex" is a very valuable thing, often because it is scarce, valuable enough for them to commit to achieve, will be upset that sex is costing them so much. If all you want upon committing is sex and everything else the woman has is just "stuff", you'll be disappointed to have paid effort, care and commitment for the woman because her "sex" used to be "cheap". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Virgin: x/0/0/-1 (The virgin will be picked if she's as attractive as the other two, or minus one on a ten scale compared to the last) Virgin, the first one, won't be compared to herself, "x". First 0: The virgin will be picked above the inexperienced woman if she looks better or they both look the same. It breaks the tie, but doesn't add. Second 0: The virgin will be picked above the average woman (...) Last number, -1: The virgin will be picked above the average woman if she is up to under one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?IT's not correct but this solves it. It doesn't seem I'll have enough data and if I have, this can be translated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I think you didn't quite get the quesiton but I think I understand you. Do you mean "the slut can get lost"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?They're all equally likely to cuck you and unlikely enough for you to consider a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I'll check it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?The idea that a woman that has freely given sex for other men demands you to "treat her right" for it doesn't annoy you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?They add the “because” out of politeness, because they don’t actually owe you an explanation at all. No, they don't add "because" out of politeness. They add "because" to make the "no" a consequence of the universe, something which is NOT their choice. As if, by adding "because", they would have no responsibility for whatever ill consequences could come from "no". This habit of politeness doesn't serve women in ABSOLUTELY any fashion, and it does not serve men either. “No” == “No (because)”. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?The virgin will be picked if she's as attractive as the other two, or minus one on a ten scale compared to the last. She can be uglier than the party girl. (Not my answer, mine is here somewhere). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I reckon ties don't happen in real life. Chastity won't ever come, I suppose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Isn't it funny that it came to that? All heils to feminism. It can stop now, don't make all women fat blue haired whales. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather your daughter grow up to be chaste, or beautiful?Yep. Therefore I must be rational. Which is why I make the claim I make. Solutions might be moral, right, efficient, or effective, (more than one) and be profoundly antagonistic to what we believe. We ought to own what is already true, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Not even LTRs to spare you from putting much effort while the honeymoon lasts to focus on something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Lots of folks are declaring chaste daughters better than pretty ones. It doesn't look like it makes any sense to me, so I'm trying to find out how much more ugly a chick could be if she was chaste and still be picked. I kind of expect that your opinion is ubiquitous. It is mine. But just so I can measure it later, what happens on a tie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?Just so I can quantify it later, what happens on a tie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?I’m confused why you would use an example that is not accurate to the scenario you are describing, but I’m fine with dropping it. This doesn’t feel productive. It's not only you, everyone gets confused. That's why I'll change. Do you agree that if men would simply leave or stop talking to women upon hearing "I have a boyfriend" or any other "no, because" formula to dismiss a guy, things wouldn't bet better for women, but if women would change to "no", it would solve things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?I'll make some comments about the intent in the edit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: How much would you lose in "attractiveness" to gain in "chastity"?x/0/0/0 +.1/x/0/0 +.1/+.1/x/0 +.1/+.1/+.1/x It break ties, but in practice there are no ties, and is slightly preferable, but hardly enough to make a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 05:25 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Would you rather your daughter grow up to be chaste, or beautiful?Beautiful. If I have a little girl she will be raised to recognize the advantages and disadvantages she has, engineer them to achieve her goals, and look at depth at her goals. The unchaste yet beautiful woman will thrive. Chastity doesn't add any value to her but as a partner and even to that use it's not something valuable men care too much for. The ugly woman will have to make concessions to that end. In that end, alone, being ugly is worst, and beauty adds to many other uses. I can see ABSOL… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | True or false? TRP assumes it’s the man’s fault if a female is unhappy in a relationship, while the TBP outright denies the possibility of men being unhappy in a relationship.Should I thank you for the perhaps unintentional illustration of that very line over there, or would that be inadequate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | True or false? TRP assumes it’s the man’s fault if a female is unhappy in a relationship, while the TBP outright denies the possibility of men being unhappy in a relationship.I'm really trying to understand what the fuck was the exchange that happened after this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?But what you’re describing will not lead to this, because the primary feature you’re missing in your proposed strategy is mutual pleasure from the exchange. I should refrain from illustrating things. It seems that whenever I illustrate something, it doesn't matter how ridiculous, absurd, and worst, how much I stress the intentions and encourage abstraction, I can't manage to get people to do anything that is not assume that I am defending the illustrations I drew. No matter how much I admire the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?You do not seem to understand how building a rapport works. I am self conceited enough to believe that having me as an interlocutor is a privilege and because of that, that being deprived of that is enough of a punishment. Halt the discourtesy. You cannot henpeck and nag a woman into finding you attractive (...) Trying to debate a girl into making out with you isn’t gonna drop any panties It is possible to cause a woman to find you attractive even if she does not find it at first, it was even ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?mmmm. You realize you didn't really challenge the explanation I gave, but rather proposed that things would be better if they were different, right? No biggie, we don't need to agree yet, I disagree with that bit too. lol On every single moment in life, "no because" means "yes if you solve this". It might annoy you, but you can't expect someone that wants something to let go of his/her intent instead of solving it whatever obstacle you oppose. By design, this should bring greater benefits for th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 01:43 PM |
| 3 | What is a good dating resource/community for men that isn't Red Pill? If there isn't one, why do you think that is? Why isn't there a "Blue Pill" for dating?I have a hard time conceiving "blue pill" as ANYTHING but an ill drawn antithesis to RP. Whatever else I use fails to even explain all I see here, let alone survive testing. One of these alternative explanations, on the other hand, might be handy here. "The blue pill assumes we work well together by design and if it is not working out, it is because one part, in its short sighted selfishness, is acting poorly towards its goals and bringing harm upon itself and the other, and it recognizes this p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 12:58 PM |
| 5 | True or false? TRP assumes it’s the man’s fault if a female is unhappy in a relationship, while the TBP outright denies the possibility of men being unhappy in a relationship.I get your intention in stating those, so, TRUE, but not literally. I can't see TBP as anything but an ill constructed antithesis to RP, so I must leave to blues to digress about their side. But RP goes kind of this way. If a man wants a relationship he must act in a fashion that will cause the woman to stay, and we assume she stays because she is happier than otherwise, but we admit that it is now what is defined as "happy": - The praxeology we use points that "maximized-happy women are women t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Why should men keep approaching women?But then you must ask, are those women even worth being with? In your opinion. I would have shared it, but I learned getting my dick wet is a good enough of a reason to open, which made it rational to seek to optimize this form of "courtship". If you're looking to a traditional marriage 1.0 relationship as goal, your reasoning is not wrong, and it is most likely to also be rational and dismiss women that you are aware that accepted NSA sex instead of such an arrangement. But we men face it all t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Why should men keep approaching women?Possibly. But yeah. There's some writings and quite serious articles on the subject, women's reaction to possible threats is "tend and befriend", not quite "fight or flight". It goes shortly like this. Female and women that caused males and men to get mad at them before a lawful society were eventually murdered. Women that deescalated tensions fared better. It kind of explains why women today are somewhat proud of "solving things pacifically", it kind of empowers them, while we feel the "concess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Why should men keep approaching women?Because if as less and less men approach, the VAST majority of women gladly share the ones that do. Approaching causes some worries and anxieties that neither gender wants to face. Although the explanations we have suggest that women's parallel to approach anxiety comes before sex and causes LMR, there's quite enough observable evidence that both face both kinds, for whatever reasons there might be. This is, to some measure, the environment you have today. Women's heuristics to select men assume… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Why should men keep approaching women?Hardly. Women shy away from saying no for possibly evolutionary reasons, and often remain being "polite" and anxious until they get pissed enough to be dull. Not being used to being dull at all, they have no measurement, and we face what OP described. It doesn't have to be YOU to cause the annoyance by the way. Other guys do the deal. What you get is usually something that reads as "no because..." as "I have a boyfriend". The guy then sets himself to convince her, solve the "because..." and she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/18 10:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The world would be a better place if it was a Matriarchy.The comment that you made instead just got us into this ridiculous, waste of time, discussion. I give it that changing the mind and tune in the middle of it kind of caused the loss of the humorous point. Shit became alien. But you're kinda right on the useless, so I'll take the chance to make it more useful... But I'm glad you don't actually think those things listed in your original comment have anything to do with the subject! We are plagued by some biases that strike as feminine when it comes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The world would be a better place if it was a Matriarchy.And whoah dude, come on. OP offered some affirmations with no factual support nor reasoning to back them up. RP believes something as he can believe absolutely ANYTHING. It's on OP, alone. My first idea was to nerd it out and say "there were matriarchal societies that didn't prevail and there are matriarchal societies that still don't prevail, societies that advance in the line you claim will prevail over ones that don't, therefore matriarchy can't cause them to, on itself." I realized I was abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What do you think of the theory that TRPers select for low quality women?I deviated from red some days ago. It was supposed to make me purple but it seems that I'm redder than red now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Do sluts feel proud of their high n-counts?I see this conflict too. I guess most women I dated walked this path: - "I am a sexual woman, impervious to society's sexism, I have sex when I feel I want." - (no hint of commitment) - I did NOT have sex with a lot of men, what we have is special for its virtue. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 05:07 PM |
| 3 | "Hoe" to housewifeWhy is it so unbelievable? It's not unbelievable. It's not prudent. Former hoes turned to good partners are not distinguishable from Hoes putting an act to lock you, the same way betas turned attractive are not distinguishable from betas putting a PUA act. Provided that RP assumes breaking up is HARD for men, it sets the grounds for making aversion to taking the chances a rational thing. The same conclusion will come if you assume breaking up is hard for women, too. RP assumes it's not that hard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: What do you think of the theory that TRPers select for low quality women?In my experience the most preposterous PUA crap works on most women but some more experienced or bitchy ones, and the least preposterous simply work on all women. Aggressive, Roosh, works often, fast and well enough for it to be a good choice, and somehow it doesn't manage to screw it up with quality women, although it should. Calculates, Mystery, is a test for patience but will hardly fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Q4RP: What do you think of the theory that TRPers select for low quality women?I think it's a trend to attack a straw man when it comes to RP and that it serves no purpose to fix the straw man since people will still argue "but that reading is fair for some of RP and I would like to know if it applies to that part". Hell with that. For some reason folks seem to assume that views such as RP's can't steam from fair observation and reasoning, but only from SELECTION biases or sheer stupidity. Damn you all. But anyways, it seems that theory is flawed even given its unrealistic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 04:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The world would be a better place if it was a Matriarchy.The intent is to say OP is wrong. Obviously if god wanted it to be any different, it would be different, and also obviously, the world can't be a better place against god's own will, since all that is, it is his will. If you want to prove it wrong then disprove god. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The world would be a better place if it was a Matriarchy.Honestly, I planned to come up only with shit as ridiculous as OP's claims. They're some completely unsupported and unreasoned affirmations, and to leave side any doubt he made their intent clear. Midway writing those bullets it struck me that I could make actual points against it, but I couldn't bring myself to change what I wrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 04:15 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The world would be a better place if it was a Matriarchy.There were less wars before women voted; Less people died before women voted; Wars were more civil, less children died; People were more focused on their social functions, society worked better; The world's biggest genocides as mass murders happened after it; Women don't feel any safer with the feminism's advance, no feminist claims she feels safe or safer now, but many non feminist women claim they felt safer and better before the "advances"; There was less or no abuse when women's sexuality wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 02:26 PM |
| 1 | How common is for a guy to generate physical attraction in a woman even if she doesn't find him attractive right away?how common is for a guy who's not a celebrity to inspire raw physical attraction in a woman if she doesn't find him attractive at first glance and I'm not saying necessarily ugly, just non physically relevant or noteworthy at first sight? Quite common. How common is for a guy to generate with time physical attraction in a woman by virtue of his personality, character, mind etc.? by virtue of his personality, character, mind: Unusual, maybe impossible. by virtue of "etc": Quite common. Or do you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: How do you explain older/unattractive women having successful, happy love lives after riding the CC?(link) This one didn't settle down but rather found herself men that accept the situation, right? I don't believe these men are functional and I will argue that they MUST be less happy than they'd be single and LESS happy than they'd be with a monogamous partner. Their acceptance of such conditions must come from a sense of helplessness or inability to find a better life for themselves. How do you explain older/unattractive women having successful, happy love lives after riding the CC? Because t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 01:34 PM |
| 7 | Do sluts feel proud of their high n-counts?But then, why do they brag and let you know about how sexual they are? Women believe pre selection is valuable; Women believe men with options are superior; Women believe people that succeed in challenging taboos are superior. Sluts are proud of their ability to seduce and be chosen by valuable men and as such, of its consequences and their numbers. If they refrain from flashing it, it is because they are aware of the disadvantage it might bring, but they believe it brings disadvantage because p… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 01:05 PM |
| 0 | What are the *genuine* problems of being a super-attractive woman?What do you guys think of each of the bulleted problems? unwanted attention Seems easy enough to dismiss actually, a mild nuisance at worst. validation getting old I assume it's like absence of scarcity, abundance. You simply don't realize it. nobody seeing your non-physical features I assume a variation of this might be an issue. Everybody will give you chance to show yourself besides your looks and will admire you more, but you'll always know you've been somewhat condescended on and got a free… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 12:56 PM |
| 0 | Are attractive people with sh**ty personalities the biggest 'problem' in the dating world?Hardly, and also hardly the reason RP is so obsessed with awalt. The biggest problem with the relationship world and relationships is how blindly we delegate "roles". When we enter a relationship we unawares delegate to the other some roles, we impose upon other people some obligations towards us and our welfare AND we forbid ourselves from acting in self interest regarding the delegated subjects. Because we do this, their failure to fulfill these brings us enormous distress and loss of happines… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What % of your non-relative male Facebook friends would you have sex with?Why? I can figure some reasons for that but I guess I couldn't nail anyone's. There might be too many to make any of them a good guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Ask PPD: How many first dates did you go on until you met your gf/bf?On the broadest definition for "first date" it's quite above 30. On the narrowest, "only counts if you were interested in her even if you weren't to have sex and wanted to know her better", should be 5 tops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Women ideology isn't actually for womenRed pill says "sexual strategy is amoral", "male and sexual strategies are concurrent and one's maximizing dooms the other". It doesn't tell men to maximize theirs, but if tells men that if they want to maximize theirs they'll be kind of assholes but it's cool since women are kind of struggling for standardizing the maximization of theirs as a social rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Young women using tinder to get free dinner....AF/BB example?Implies that morality is gender dependent. If men and women are not the same it strikes as quite reasonable that what is moral and what is not varies with gender. And I doubt anyone would argue that they're the same, so this bit kind of seems easy to swallow, no? So, cheating should be morally acceptable for men I'll dismiss the "since", it seems hard to prove it that way. But it might be. "Women are rather sharing the alpha than being stuck to the beta" and "what you don't know doesn't hurt you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Young women using tinder to get free dinner....AF/BB example?Talking of being bleak... If this was intended to prove that there was something wrong there through explosion, it came out a damn slippery slope. I can't see how that reasoning would imply any of those, nor how they stem from the same train of thought. Assessing utility is rational and a bit of every economic model for behavior, doesn't mean people are short sighted, as it seems they must be for those consequences to happen. And using utility's sum, or maximizing welfare, as a moral compass, on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Ultimately I agree that no one would know for sure Here, you know for sure. we do a lot of irrational things I'm actually talking about two hypothetical scenarios there. Describe a couple, people look at it as a question of allowing one to chose and go full into it. Tell it's with you, and people are uncomfortable with the idea of KNOWING. That's why I respect those couple that sticks together and even idealized such relationship. It can be a remarkably rational thing. You just need to be sure t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Young women using tinder to get free dinner....AF/BB example?I've actually banged a woman I knew was just banging me because she thought I'd commit (1) and dismissed most because I thought they would only put out if they hoped for commitment. I don't feel particularly bad about having done 1. The world changed and fucking might be the prologue for a relationship but it doesn't imply there will or that there might be one. Nor particularly good for having done 5. I only went that far because thanks to tinder I could find some out of that list. make up can b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Young women using tinder to get free dinner....AF/BB example?Nope. Premises are: The role "relationship" plays in the life of women is biggest than it plays in the life of men. Being in a relationship must not harm the man, the woman can't whip and extort him from his value. The "fulfillment" she offers is proportional to the man's value, the she's 90% fulfilling to a 7 guy and he commits because of this, she'll also be for a more demanding guy or he won't commit to her. So, she leaves the guy 1. She zeroes hits "relationship" mark, but nothing further, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 08:30 PM |
| 3 | When does vaginal tightness start to decline in a woman, and is it a significant factor in SMV?Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Young women using tinder to get free dinner....AF/BB example?This makes a lot of sense It does, doesn't it? And she never denied she thinks it's a good bargain. This is what they do. This is a bit like the "open to commitment" loophole I guess. Every guy can fairly say he's open to commitment upon questioning, even if he knows it's profoundly unlikely. It's actually pretty hard for a guy to say "there is no chance of me committing to you", and he'll probably be wrong if he says it, so, he's literally open to commitment. Every chick can say she might fuck … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Young women using tinder to get free dinner....AF/BB example?Lol. A few days ago I convinced myself that branch swinging is moral and it is more moral for women to do than to men, and I couldn't get myself to prove that wrong. Ever since it became a whole new world and I probably didn't think as much as I had to to give this answer. But where, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Young women using tinder to get free dinner....AF/BB example?I know one of those. I HEARD a chick say that she expects to get the dinner for putting up the work of getting to the date, it's the price she charges for wearing up for the guy and the date not to go clubbing, and she'll gladly have sex if she gets turned on. So is this a clear example of AF/BB example? It seems it is. Alphas give cock for enthusiastic pussy, betas give resources for reluctant pussies. Is AF/BB manipulative? It might sucks, but I'd only say it's manipulative if you encourage pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 07:20 PM |
| 3 | When does vaginal tightness start to decline in a woman, and is it a significant factor in SMV?I don’t see how it’s possible for a woman to judge her own vaginal tightness unless maybe she has sex with women. I still can't quite see how would this help her knowing she has a loose one. I suppose she'll know she's looser, but it's not something she'll bother about, mainly because in this case it surely won't change how she might pleasure her partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Feminism Vs. Dating: Why Are They At Odds? (or are they?)How rigid do you consider male/female gender roles in dating? Dating is surrounded by anxieties for both sides, and both men and women frequently rely on some rituals to help them easing these anxieties. These rituals are often in the role. Even remarkably sex positive people find themselves naked and unprepared if they're removed from these rituals, most people just learn how to move through the rituals faster. So basically, the roles there didn't NEED to be that rigid but since some bits of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | When does vaginal tightness start to decline in a woman, and is it a significant factor in SMV?Was her form bad? I mean, there's a trend of nicknaming common improper forms, but anything that would cause a teenager to smirk gets a nickname if it's funny enough. What exercises do these refer to? Curl's dance: Any biceps curl in which the guy cheats using the shoulders or leaning back on every move to help raising barbells. Sex rows: When for some reason the person's hips look like they're moving, usually because the person starts with the chest propped against the bench but leans back to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 06:53 PM |
| 7 | When does vaginal tightness start to decline in a woman, and is it a significant factor in SMV?Vaginal tightness is the female equivalent. I pretty much challenge this. Or are chicks self conscious about it and I never knew? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | When does vaginal tightness start to decline in a woman, and is it a significant factor in SMV?Am I the only guy in the world that gives the "best ever" title to a quite loose one that felt like gently sucking rather than tight? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 06:41 PM |
| 3 | When does vaginal tightness start to decline in a woman, and is it a significant factor in SMV?This is genius. Around here we give mock names to shit, mainly improper forms. The curl's dance, sex rows... I shall name these accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 06:39 PM |
| 9 | Roger Scruton: "To question [feminism] is...essentially made impossible, both by the curriculum and by the way of teaching it...Conformity to an orthodoxy [has taken] precedence over intellectual method."I'm kind of sorry to even share this, but it seems that every revolutionary movement has at some point given itself the permission to believe itself right even if it couldn't manage to prove itself right. The underlying logic seems to be: Premise 1: "A world with no (problem) will be a better world". Premise 2: "(method) removes (problem)". Observation: "The world isn't better / good enough". Conclusion: "We have not applied (method) enough." For some reason some movements managed to make it tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 06:07 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] RP men are responsible for the decline they are now trying to enjoyLeaving out all other merits, it doesn't seem your hypothesis can be chronologically right. It doesn't seem that your conclusion derives from the timeline you're referring to. I'm guessing this must be the timeline. Roman numbers are points of change, hindu arabics are society's statuses 1 - Women were socially enforced to remain committed to unattractive men; I - Women woke up; 2 - Unattractive men were left with no partners to mate with; II - Men woke up; 3.1 - Men dislike it, label "decline",… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What happens when all the men in the world are practicing TRP advice?You'll have a lot of women nagging and whining about men you now call uberChad. In short, there is no reason to believe that SUCH sudden change in the nature of men will cause any change in the nature of women. TRP tells men a lot of shit that ends up making them men women select, so this particular change won't exert pressure on women. I suppose you'll get the most immoral folks resorting to dishonest strategies we can now afford to abhor because the bar isn't set very high. On the other hand i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't the type of sex matter more than body count?Are you really a female incel looking to grow over it or are you just testing us for coherence? Truth is it depends for whom. There are some pretty common profiles of guys that would face hell with each one of those women, or with any of those. Most guys have a hard time getting laid and because of that, place extremely high value in sex. For these, committing to girl 1 is a no go, they WILL feel they were cheap. Some guys are plagued by performance anxiety. If they learn that their chicks is re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 05:24 PM |
| 2 | I am a very prideful person. How to change this?Is being prideful really a bad thing? It's not inherently bad but it hints bad shit far more often than it doesn't. Classics are: Arrogance to mask insecurity. Folks that are insecure about easily observable valuable traits need to show and brag about not so easily observable things to make up for it and feel like they are valuable too; Profound inexperience you're surrounded by idiots and you don't really know, so you think you're better than average; Being attention starved folks crave admirat… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | How often does the girl kiss your thighs during foreplay vs you kissing her thighs?You mean teasing during foreplay? My girlfriend is getting the knack of doing it, but because I told her overtly that I'd be nice if she tried. ALL other women would suck for a minute or so and leave it like that. Admittedly, I also didn't bother a lot. I've read the sex god method quite a while ago and have been aware of how important it is for maybe longer, "foreplay" is kind of an overstressed subject, so I can't claim ignorance, but rather sheer lack of will. The mechanics of NOT having the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 04:51 PM |
| 2 | why do I get scared by girls that like me?Well, it's kind of the heart of game, to sound excited with your life and make it sound interesting by narrating anything in order to evoke feelings. But that's not what I meant there. What I meant is, you managed to get somewhat comfortable BY running game, not WHILE running game. Running game probably made the process of interacting with women orderly and predictable, and because of that, you get less anxious. In absence of such order, you're finding yourself in full anxiety. You'll get used t… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Is asking a girl whether she has a bf ok?It will work as you intend with some chicks, they WILL know that you are interested, but it is very unattractive, it sounds like you're hitting on them but trying to do it in a way that prevents them from saying "no", so, it will make them a LOT less interested on you and they will leave you. Some women might STILL be dead ends. Chicks inclined to collect orbiters and friendzone guys will string you along if you leave that opening, and you'll bite the bait like some thirsty fish because you'll b… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 01:55 PM |
| 8 | why do I get scared by girls that like me?Annoying women/manginas will be annoying and will say it is because you must be in control and need to learn to let go of it. They're kind of right, but it doesn't necessarily has to do with you needing to control, but rather with you having learned to rely on a method or road to handle and ease a particular situation that is surrounded by natural anxieties and being alien to it happening otherwise, in which case you go heads first into the whole anxiety deal. Shit like that is bound to happen, … | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Disagree and disagree. You know something rather interesting? Our biases, the biases that you remarked there, make us somewhat sure, or sure enough to make the exchange. In real life, we know, rationally, that we can't be SO aware about the compatibility, we are conscious that we can not have so much certainty, but we ARE certain. We believe we are sure. Now here I TOLD people they are sure. I remarked it ALL ALONG THE WAY. I did it because I wanted people to assess the conflicting values freely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Why are redpill such fans of the theory that men have no agency or judgement?Your indignant post kind of serves to illustrate it, doesn't it? Once more here. You are affirming "RP believes men have no agency", but you're illustrating with the ONE example of a broken relationship in which the man should still give a shit about the woman, and you are equating "must be a father" to "must be her partner": You are saying that the man must be a father because your examples involve children; You are equating to "being her partner" because you are making the focus about the woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Is there a shortage of (1) talented, (2) skilled, (3) dominant men when it comes to the bedroom? How bad is this shortage? Has this shortage gotten worse, and if so why?Which goals? Broadly speaking, participating in supporting an environment that suits child raising, usually translated as committing. but can you re-word this more simply? Prime women (women that are still gaining value, not yet losing it) are seeking to lock and complying to demanding guys, alphas, even if they suck in bed, provided that they have potential. And the only reason for them to do it is because "good in bed" men are becoming just SO SCARCE they gave up on locking one of those altoge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?My solution: Don't commit to women that were hard to get. Care free first, then think of committing. This solves a tonne of other issues besides this one by the way. Women are kind of proud of their sexuality, when they are sexual. Being able to challenge a social taboo is a VERY valuable strength for them, they'll be attracted by men that do and will be proud if they do it themselves. Come out non judgemental and they WILL tell you. At least until like 28 or 30yo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/18 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Why are redpill such fans of the theory that men have no agency or judgement?mmmm. Are you by chance equating saying that women are not free of responsibility for those bad outcomes to saying men have none? RP says women have influence and capacity to influence the bad outcomes, and to some particular ones stop them altogether by sacrificing and compromising a lot less than men are expected to. This does not equate to saying men are not responsible, it is just to stress out that women are not standard victims, as it is so unanimously professed. Your indignant post kind o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Frankly, the comic is interesting and has a fucking amazing story, but the media itself has limits. I dislike nerding out each panel. The movie somehow aced it. There's not a thing out of place. Not a single imperfect soundtrack. The comic's presentation of Dr. Manhattan and his relationship with time is wonderful and elucidating besides being poetic as fuck. It's perfect, hard to beat. I recall that in Siddhartha the author, famous to his own accounts, tried to, and in a novel he couldn't do ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?It's hard to find ONE quote from that to like the most. The whole thing is brilliant. Context wise I guess I'd go with Manhattan's "But you, Adrian, you're just a man. The world's smartest man poses no more threat to me than does its smartest termite" just before realizing Veidt was right and to this merit, he had been defeated. I was more intrigued by this. can't feel really relived or scared for fictional characters like that You unemphatic monster. Probably that's what it makes predicting peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?The first bullet is the one pops out bright, I agree. However, it is accurate and it is the third one that preys on women. That's the point that upsets them the most. They read "Why can't I have a care free moment in my life when I am younger? Why will men hold this one me forever? Why was that wrong? Why does that make me a worse person?". We read "Why can't I have care free fun with you? Why is it that you will demand more from me? Why is it wrong that I drop you and pursue that from care free… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?I suppose you hated how it ended, or felt relieved by the fat journalist picking the journal. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you think it's okay to lie to women or hide your intentions in order to get sex?Do you think it's okay to tell a woman whatever you think she wants to hear (e.g. that you're open to or looking for a relationship) in order to get her into bed? No. But there's a loophole there, namely, you are always open to a relationship. And even if that was an illustration, somehow it's a classic, most women need to know there might spur a relationship. There always might, damn. But If your intention is to convey to her that you ARE considering her for a relationship in order to have sex,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Come on, discussing morals is made by causing conflicts. lol I reckon strictly utilitarian views make comic book villains, when they apply. Adrian Veidt had no issues doing what he did, because to him all lives were doomed if he did not kill some millions. Manhattan is the same, but he can not pull the lever even if he is god, a man needs to, because he never interferes. Rorschach is our good self righteous truth telling fellow. Edit: I'd pester you if you hadn't made the exchange but would pull… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Sorry. One in which there IS a relevant conflict, which you will not solve by retorting to that. The recent variation fits. As you stand on a bridge, you realize that on the track beneath you there are five people, picked from the town's "innocent people" repository, namely elementary school, and that there comes the trolley, to decapitate them all. Near you, you notice a heavy person passing, and you know that if you push the person from the bridge and on the tracks, thus killing the person, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?I do not believe this. It is a long shot. So, do design ONE scenario in which you'll honestly say it must be otherwise. Watch out not to include small letters to add an excuse, things of the sort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Why the need to diagnose a woman, just because she is hypersexual/loves sex?I know you are not. But it is the case that a given sort of crazy women either IS hypersexual or likes to say they are. It IS a symptom. Because of that, however imprecise it might be to blurt "BPD" or something else solely because of that, it serves us well. We'll do better if we dismiss a LOT of false positives for the sake of some real ones. Screaming a precocious diagnose is how our aversion to risk manifests, and in this case, it might not even be such a bad thing. If we only managed to do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?I never said that. I am aware that you did not. Are you making leaps on general rules based on actions in specific scenarios? Yep. And I am aware that it is an incredibly LONG shot to take, but I took it nevertheless because none of your standings falsify it, and you shared quite a few. Did I get it right? Or can you picture an exception? DON'T say my hypothesis about you is unfalsifiable. It is EASILY falsifiable. Scenarios that would falsify it kept coming all along and you kept finding an exc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Why the need to diagnose a woman, just because she is hypersexual/loves sex?Because we profess to be profoundly skeptical with crazy. The actual danger a crazy woman brings is so big it strikes as instinctively prudent to dismiss women that display ANY symptom of being crazy. Specially wearing "I challenge deep taboos" as a shirt and writing "I am hypersexual" on their greeting card. And it just might be the case of the instincts nailing it right this time. Turns out in practice, we'll just dive in, and it'll go the other way around, we'll end up rationalizing OTHER sym… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Is there a shortage of (1) talented, (2) skilled, (3) dominant men when it comes to the bedroom? How bad is this shortage? Has this shortage gotten worse, and if so why?Is there a shortage of (1) talented, (2) skilled, (3) dominant men when it comes to the bedroom? There is either an absolute shortage, or a shortage of such men that will also commit and comply with women's goals, making it a relative shortage. I guess there's no lack of evidence of the relative shortage, and it might come from the absolute one Assuming it exists, how bad is this shortage? Bad enough for experienced and skilled women, or women that believe themselves to be such, to commit and se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Is the experience of a menopausal wife being left by her husband to start a new relationship with a much younger female comparable to inceldom for men? Does this uniquely female experience have a corollary at all to something males experienceThe best I can picture is a "nice guy" that did lots of efforts to control his anxieties and not express discomfort when his beloved partner went out with friends eventually being left by her when these anxieties manage to spur unattractive behavioral consequences, or because her anxiety-free environment allowed her to flourish and his anxiety filled environment stalled him badly. It's not the same experience, it doesn't have the same intensity, nor it is plagued by the inexorability of menopaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Do I really have to pick your other comments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?I am saying that you believe that there are NO situations in which: What requires you to harm an innocent that trusted you is the right thing to do; What requires you to expose one to risk is the right thing to do, provided that you will get benefit from such exposure. And you will argue that for EVERY situation there is an excuse, an impossibility, that changes something, to make it that "there are no situations in real life in which that is true". Excuses such as "it is not really like that, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?kmt. You know what I meant I know and it still fits though. lol And I answered your hypothetical. Not before making the long list of questionings and remarks and INSISTING on them. But you ALSO did it. Most people simply did not, at the end. In real life, smart people are aware of the risk, dumber people not so much. Not quite. In real life smart people learn fast, sometimes so fast it's scary, but they're plagued by the same biases dumb people are. You can argue that striving to escape these bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?"The universe's rules clearly forbid situations in which YOU PERCEIVE THAT disappointing a good person is the right thing to do for yourself, and because they forbid it to happen like that they either forbid too, or it is pointless to, discuss whether doing it is right with any moral compasses you might have"? (Your answer) That's a "YES". You did say a long, kinda apologetic, yes. Or didn't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Kinda like "of you could fly, what would you do" entertaining for sure. Turns out, like flying, you CAN. The "real world application" there was trying not to have people asking "is it like magical unicorn flight or real world plane flight?", "gliders count?", "but will the plane crash?", "Do I get to have an hover board?"... For some reason I'm kind of sure that if I try "if you could fly, would you go to the moon or visit places on earth" here, you folks' favorite answer will be an ill tuned ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?That's a "YES". Come on, I narrowly missed the first shot, and it was long as shit, only to hit the second, and to have you making an example that suggests I also nailed the first one. I TOTALLY get to be clairvoyant now. lol What flair? I have a flair? You can have the blue one, then. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Sorry for being boring, but did simply say "yes" to "The universe's rules clearly forbid situations in which YOU PERCEIVE THAT disappointing a good person is the right thing to do for yourself, and because they forbid it to happen like that they either forbid too, or it is pointless to, discuss whether doing it is right with any moral compasses you might have"? To the extent that you HAD to add remark, "If you're getting to know someone that well then you aren't very happy with your current SO, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Because this whole scenario is designed to draw some moral values to the conflict, I made the intent clear, and sought to make it in a fashion that whenever people could think of evading the principles tangentially, there was something pushing them back to it. This is, I reckon, cheating, but it seemed it was by far better than being abstract through and through. And it seems that I was thoroughly wrong on this assumption, since it annoyed people so much most of you were rather criticizing the i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?You are fairly lenient with "rational", too. I'll take a long shot. Are you trying to say "The universe's rules clearly forbid situations in which disappointing a good person is the right thing to do for yourself, and because they forbid it to happen like that they either forbid too, or it is pointless to, discuss whether doing it is right with any moral compasses you might have". I reckon you're the person that had a thoroughly hard time accepting that something that also seemed to bring yourse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?You are remarkably lenient with the usage of that word. It is not only possible, the mechanisms that permeate our thinking and cause rationalizations make ALL the decisions between staying or leaving a partner a variation of that scenario, although some of us are also prone to rationalize leaving. It is not only possible, but because of how we particularly view life, it is likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Give an example of this please. She has ill sleeping schedule. Doctor? Student? Maybe also has cortisol and serotonin imbalance that renders her the devil when she wakes up outside the right time. Just go adding and create your own, I actually don't see how this scratches the moral principles the whole thing is explicitly meant to bring up, unless you want to argue that this is impossible. Who gets into a relationship for this reason? The fuck "This"? Ignoring the fact that all way along I made … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?It's hard to tell it apart from the alternatives. For serious, I do my metrics by remembering "days pissed because of the LTR" and letting availability bias plague the idea of the relationship. And it seems not skeptical enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Judging by your post and the comments you've made so far, you believe people would of course leave their current partners for the "soulmate," I propose this: I never expressed this, or made this statement, or let anything out here that they should do it. On this post, I only cleared things, or asked for clarification. Only on rare occasions entered a debate, NOT for proving that point, AT ALL, although I WOULD enter one if someone, yet again, said "marriage, no, not marriage, yes". You will find… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?For serious? I only saw one making the claim. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?This whole scenario is just built up in your head in a “the grass is greener“ But OF COURSE IT IS LIKE THAT. It is like that by design of the whole thing. It's even stressed out in the end to leave out doubts. I'd have made it abstract all the way if I thought less people would pester me for it than for giving things names and scenarios. how the hell do you know that other person even wants you and will keep wanting you? This is also like that BY DESIGN, and also stressed out in the end. You see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Not make the exchange yourself, try to discourage partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?I'm not sure how you can debate a person's preferences for their own lives, but sure. Really? It's most often done by pestering people on incoherences spurring from their standings, although in that case I would have done it by nitpicking the general principles underneath and going for them. You're assuming that people's morals are the same as your own (read: rational egoism). Why is it that you keep assuming I'm assuming stuff? Worst, rational egoism, god forbids, I swear by utilitarianism when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?For serious? You pay compliments to a hundreds thousands words book written to prove a point that fits in a paragraph in wikipedia, and you need this one made clearer? Fearing a shameless "yes": No, it is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: At what point does it become morally questionable to break up with an SO?I propose that, for break ups, morality can be assessed by an utilitarian standpoint: It is moral to break up whenever it raises the collective welfare of the world, in this case the assessment being often fairly restricted to immediate families, you, and partner. It is not moral if it lowers it, with the exceptions: Staying is overwhelmingly sacrificial for you; You can not assess the consequences even if you put honest effort into it and must, by virtue of that, focus on yourself. Conundrums t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Oh. That came from urban dictionary. It's the second one I studied, the second one I read the most in, but for the last year at least not the second one I use the most and I guess because of that, not the second one I'm the most comfortable with anymore. Sometimes writing here is hellish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?what if she is secretly a thot/drama queen/etc? Then you trust your tests more than "ALL FACTORS YOU CAN POSSIBLY ACCOUNT FOR". I guess it's fair that you do, because that is quite broad if you challenge it from this angle. But then again, I suppose the described relationship won't happen for you because such a partner as the proposed "current" one wouldn't pass the tests. So, the whole thing goes down to hypothetical again. Also, I doubt the plate passed the tests. You're much more likely to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?I found it now. I suppose if it is meant to be derogatory, yes. Else, probably not, because of the S bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Yesterday, I had some mood for discussing, rather than just picking on how people thought. Yesterday, I wanted to learn if there was any reason for branch swinging to be immoral on its own. So to apologize for being a prick: I don't know why, but you got stuck with the idea that I wanted to legislate against break ups. All that I meant was that it is not legislation that makes something moral or not, but rather, we legislate what is right because judges might get caught by good acts, and when th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Google didn't help me lot here... ESL? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?I suppose either you can kind of spot whether she's a good fuck or not by seeing, or you are. Funny thing, CC riding women have the first one there and develop it. I wonder if that's because they need to have good sex to make it worth it and learn with that as a goal. I know a chick that claims she can tell cock's relative sizes for that merit. I suppose if that matters for you, you probably can tell some traits too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?I see you didn't toy with the idea of "meritocratic". Do you truly believe the "tests" you designed are so fail safe someone who passed them beats someone evidently better in "ALL FACTORS YOU CAN POSSIBLY ACCOUNT FOR" solely because she passed them? You see, for this to be true you must either believe the tests are perfect or you must have dismissed many candidates that were better than the current in "ALL FACTORS YOU CAN POSSIBLY ACCOUNT FOR" for starters but proven worse along the way. I guess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Your phrasing allows the discussion of the underlying concepts of right and wrong that cause it. You made it debatable. I do think this is great. BUT she managed to prove that your answer can be "right" (as in coherent and rational) and moral for the sake of much simpler, broad and settled compasses. So it's kind of pointless to do it here. Going further, the "rational model" for our behavior assumes we'll act towards what is "better" for us. People like to mock this and say "homo economicus". B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?I kind of couldn't fit that whole thing in the title. Both the current partner and the alternative partner are pretty well defined over there though. Would you make the exchange? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?The catch there is to see if you were saying "it is bad because Fascists did it". Take a look at your phrasing, which did piss enough to earn an arrogant answer. Were you genuinely only remarking the fact that Fascists would legislate feelings if they could (even taking aside the fact that I never said it nor let that as a fair interpretation)? Or was it meant to end the discussion by saying "it is wrong because Fascists did/would do it"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Sorry for the gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?mmmm. How "so easily"? But I get it. Then, no and no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?That was for yesterday, but leaving differences between amoral and immoral aside, they claim it is immoral because of... something. Things. Lots of things. Different, with each post. Leaving the vulnerable side HAS some appeal to look immoral, and if only for the sake of it, they'll paint the left men as vulnerable as probably the strategy there. I'm not going to nerd this and pick data now. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Well, sorry then. In my country fascist means just about anything, I thought around here it still referred to Mussolini and Hitler, despite of how the last one called his party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?He's the guy from yesterday, I talked to him about yesterday. I'm only clicking "context" to follow most stuff too, so you might end up having to provide some if it is not on this thread. I remember you gave an answer already and somewhere though. Are you interested in having it challenged somehow? I asked "what you would do" and can not challenge your opinion, it is not wrong. By definition it is true, however incoherent it might be, because it is yours, unless you are lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Women might be decent, as we might. It does not change how we feel, or how women feel, it only means we are choosing to forfeit something to benefit the other, often hoping that the other will do the same. And they DO. It doesn't make an unicorn though. An unicorn is a mythical creature, it has a horn and makes magic. There are only exceptional horses around. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Which is the understanding I am biased upon, since you are claiming I'm falling prey to confirmation biases? For god's sake. Here, I did not spur any. Here, I don't even WANT to question people. Here, I am curious about what you think and how you act, and here, I had the most pleasant surprise, because here, someone pointed out something that escaped me. Yesterday, however, I made a post about John and Mary, and I recall you were there. Yesterday I was trying to find a solution to something I pi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Sorry if I am mistaken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Oh, it is because it is for him with hardly any context having been given for others. It's in the "you being a prick". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?She is no unicorn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?I tried to trick people and see if they'd go with Mill, it is moral because it maximizes the welfare. For some reason even if it does, when we have personal gains, it numbs the judgment. I think this is odd enough. Pull the trolley lever. Kill one. No added info to make it immoral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Religions and god aside, it is arguing that the strength of the commitment lies in its formality. Being more or less formal doesn't make it more or less damaging to your partner (although you might argue that in absence of such formalities people that take such damage only have themselves to blame). Yesterday I'd toy with that until I got to "divorcing a healthy partner that will be happy in a few months is then more immoral than leaving a heart broken vulnerable and cancer stricken partner", ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?So I'm not sure what this "FINALLY!" is about, Someone, here, finally observed you shouldn't go on messing with the conditions to favor a given answer. Yay. It was not to pick at you. It's interesting to see how RP holds the right praxeology there You don't need to say "all women are NOT like that" to argue that women might not be monsters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?There's no need to be a conflict for it to happen, her decision is a LOT easier to make if there's such a conflict driving her mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Will it be about all dogs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?I'm looking if I can trick red pillers into going blue or vice versa. Come on, if you could go through Atlas Shrugged this is piece of cake. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?beat him to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?I won't pick on this because /uu/philomexa actually proved this might be just rational, but this is EXACTLY the hook I wanted to shift the debate towards morality. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Well, I reckon no and no? Notice that in the situation you're being required to be discourteous towards the guy, if you are not to discover that he is "mr. right". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?https://xkcd.com/310/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?Despite you being a prick, I envy your orderly view of the world, even provided that I wouldn't embrace the incoherence needed to have it. I hope that you are never proven wrong by the world and I also hope that you are, you manage to reform the orderly view in a fashion that renders you safe from the same harm, instead of having to drop it or simply ignoring what did spur the damage, after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?If your focus is only yourself, then "Yes", and "would impede"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What would you do if you were already in a happy relationship but met your "soulmate"?mmm. Let me see if I got this straight. Only marriage actually means you have committed to a whole current exchange that makes you both happier than being single, therefore expectations developed before it are our crosses to bear? Or only marriage holds the idea of PERPETUATION, and therefore any expectations on this exclusive regard are own crosses to bear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 08:27 PM |
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