quietdiablita Archive

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2	Which of your hobbies has introduced you to the most friends? Ah, yeah, that sucks. And I guess the pandemic won’t have helped either… As I mentioned, I made some friends by starting to go to a va local movie theater that only shows vintage films. Most of the time, I’d just go, watch the movie and then go home, but every now and then, I’ve come to talk with some of the other “usuals” and it led to one short lived relationship and one strong friendship. I’m counting it as a big win because I got to do something I really enjoy in the first place and I’ve act…	/r/seduction	03/04/22 05:14 PM
18	Which of your hobbies has introduced you to the most friends? Probably won’t be very helpful since most people wouldn’t count it as a hobby, but: be willing to participate to any after work activities my expat colleagues were organizing. Even the ones I thought I had no interest in, like laser tag. I ended up getting “adopted” by a very extroverted coworker with a large social circle. Going out for movies, dinners or drinks with them gave me the opportunity to make true friends, to the point where I’m now a part of his closest friends. It also gave me the …	/r/seduction	03/04/22 04:27 PM
11	what do you think about this dating advice? (i want women perspective on this, but men is also okay) Meh… This technique surely can work, in some specific circumstances. If a guy is able to chat up a group of women without them feeling weirded out, what would be the point of using a tactic that’ll mostly work on shallow or insecure women? Why not use his confidence and reasonable level of charisma to find out which girls he truly feels a connection with and have an actually interaction with her, instead of trying to play with a random woman’s head? For context: I’m a 45yo woman and have learned…	/r/seduction	27/03/22 02:55 PM
4	I met a girl on tinder, we had a casual conversation and about on hour later we exchanged instagrams. I mean she told me her name and I followed her, she followed me back. Why don’t you just ask who it is? Could be a relative, for what you know. Or, as you said, a close friend. As to how you may ask without sounding creepy, well, if the stories with this guy show what they were doing (movies, hiking, partying, concerts, etc), you might suggest that you’d like to join on one of these activities in the future, “unless they’d prefer to keep by themselves”, in which case suggest a similar activity just for the two of you. As a date. If the guy is her bf, she’ll tell y…	/r/seduction	08/03/22 03:59 AM
1	Can't stop obsessing over a girl I picked up just for sex? Nobody says you should propose right away! Why don’t you just enjoy spending time with her? What’s he worst case scenario for you? That you might be happy with her? You know that you are allowed to be happy, do you?	/r/seduction	28/02/22 03:13 PM
1	Gay men are interested in me, but women aren't? That’s another debate. OP is on the spectrum and has asked a specific question, so I assumed that the very least I could do was to offer an explanation as to why women are not chasing him like men do. You think that imperative from society is outdated? It sure is, but I know from experience that women who are upfront and openly express their wants get relentlessly slut shamed. And I’ve never even lived in a country where religion had any weight on social behaviors.	/r/seduction	31/01/22 05:32 AM
2	Gay men are interested in me, but women aren't? It’s not about what you are communicating. It’s about society encouraging men to be active when it comes to sex and relationships while encouraging women to be passive. Women who are interested in you probably try to show their interest with subtle hints or plainly hide their interest, thinking it’s one-sided. I don’t have much of advice, to be honest, just to not expect from women the same behavior as men.	/r/seduction	30/01/22 11:41 AM
2	[deleted by user] Out of curiosity, may I ask why you already consider it to be a ONS? Did you both agree on that? Did she tell you she didn’t want to meet up again?	/r/seduction	02/11/21 06:40 AM
3	reddit makes me feel so unconscious about asking people out. Thanks! But as you said, posting and commenting on Reddit, or at least on a lot of subreddits, means taking the risk of getting trolled to no end.	/r/seduction	23/08/21 12:23 PM
10	reddit makes me feel so unconscious about asking people out. Absolutely! I recently got downvoted into oblivion for stating some factual truths like “there are more men than women on online dating apps, so no wonder if women are being picky”. It was funny until some tried to be hurtful and it all became very cringey.	/r/seduction	23/08/21 03:14 AM
10	I'm giving up weed and jerking off Uhm. I didn’t get everything you wrote. Did you imply I’m a young man with similar issues to yours? If that’s the case, you couldn’t be more wrong: I’m a woman in her 40s and I’ve never ever smoked pot. As a woman, I can tell you that there are woman who like nerdy guys.	/r/seduction	17/04/21 04:57 PM
28	I'm giving up weed and jerking off Honey, don’t start trusting stupid movies, a makeover isn’t a magic trick that will instantly make you feel at ease with women. Cutting down on the pot might help you at different levels, including seduction, so go for it, but there’s no guarantee, so don’t put too much pressure on yourself, as it could backfire. So slow down, but maybe don’t stop entirely, as it might make you jumpy and ultimately make you go back to your old habits. Just be kind to yourself, unlike your a**hole of a brother in…	/r/seduction	17/04/21 04:43 PM
2	A girl I barely know randomly sent me a snap in her lingerie... Years ago, I decided to go crazy and send a guy I was flirting with a picture in my underwear. Nothing suggestive, actually, think “in a bikini on the beach”. And to send it via WhatsApp I barely ever used. And I sent it to a friend of mine instead. A guy friend who had just happened to be the last person to message me on WhatsApp (his Easter wishes). I realized my mistake hours later when my friend made some very funny jokes about the Easter bunny/Playboy bunnies, etc. I was mortified! The guy …	/r/seduction	17/02/21 12:26 AM
2	When a girl doesn't want sex I get in my head You’re welcome, bro!	/r/seduction	05/12/20 05:08 PM
7	When a girl doesn't want sex I get in my head Stop overthinking this. If you make out on every date, then she’s attracted to you. Just not willing to hop in the sack right away. There can be so many reasons for her to want to take it slowly. She might want to know you first and be sure that you both want the same things (a relationship?). She might need to build up trust before having sex to actually enjoy it. It could be anything. But whatever her reasons, if you get pushy, then you’ll ruin it all for both of you.	/r/seduction	05/12/20 03:47 PM