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I would love to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:55 PM
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Well it inflates the job market, making wages less valuable for the same salary/hours worked. And to preface, doesn’t mean women shouldn’t work, just means there’s an economical consequence when the labor force doubles by including both men and women at roughly equal levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:55 PM
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I was JUST like you when I was 25, and remained mostly happily single until a few short months ago, at age 31. I met the most amazing man just by chance when I wasn’t even thinking about dating or even sex (I have low drive too, even after meeting my man, I am not like a rabbit about it, but do enjoy it nonetheless). I’m not a bombshell babe by any means, but I’m really cute and love to talk/relate. I was in a bad relationship from age 23-25, so it was a relief for the first year or so, then I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:44 PM
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This same thing can happen to women too, for the exact reasons you put forth. People pleasing is a trauma response, and it stems from a childhood of unmet needs, parents who were self centered/absent/preoccupied with other things, whether that be a mother or father or both. It makes rejection of any kind in adult personal relationships feel just like the trauma you received as a child if left untreated. I think many people don’t even know they have that kind of trauma, or that what they experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:44 PM
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Right, and some of the most horrible men I’ve ever met have not been big, brutish masculine men either…. Good lort. Whatever happened to judging people as individuals, not by their sex, race, relationship preferences, size, shape, or otherwise what they choose to look like/identify as?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:21 PM
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Wow. Are we twins? I feel everything you just said so deeply, it’s not even funny. Same thing with having a suspected autistic mom. Her dad definitely was, and her ability to emotionally connect with words is almost nonexistent, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t care or try, she just does it in a different, untypical manner. I also think autistic traits in girls can sometimes be seen as “cute,” whereas in boys, it’s seen as “weird” when in a dating/courting environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:51 AM
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I love hoe_math! I was wondering what I was gonna see his name mentioned on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:39 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:04 PM
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Yes, exactly! How I look at it is, everyone navigates life with a unique blend of advantages and challenges, mostly because you don’t choose who your parents are or where you were born. So there aren't simply "privileges" in the traditional sense, but rather a complex combination of traits we largely can't control. I like to think of it as each person having a distinct set of "pros" and "cons." For example inverse to my own circumstance, someone who is physically large might benefit from not bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:04 PM
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The victim blaming from that person is intense! Sheesh I’m impressed you entertained them for as long as you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:56 PM
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Kids in the Hall! Love that show! I don’t know many Americans who have even heard of it. It’s quite the hidden gem. But anyways, I had no idea what Dave is going through… how terrible! I also completely agree with everything you’re saying, and the way others have responded just reinforces the struggles men face when it comes to their children and in general. I think there’s a big misconception about men not wanting to care for their kids, but I really haven’t looked into it myself, so I can’t sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:46 PM
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Haha. Same (except I’m a woman in my case). That’s why you bring a pistol and bear spray with you when you hike alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:24 PM
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Just curious: man or bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:15 PM
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If you’re a nerd like me, you may find this analysis on queens in European history interesting: https://www.iq.harvard.edu/files/iqss-harvard/files/dube_harish_queens_nov2016.pdf The thing that really struck me, is that queens were more likely to use violent measures when married. This was not the case for kings in similar circumstances. But other accounts of history confirm that female rulers were not more likely to vie for peaceful measures, and were very capable of being violent and aggressiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:14 PM
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I love that! So true. I believe society is more feminine than masculine in every way, even if that’s an unpopular opinion no one wants to talk about. How do I know what you’re saying is true? Because I was one of them up until recently. Now I can step in and outside the mind of a feminist, which is a weird flex, I know. The biggest issue aside from how pervasive it is comes from the fact that ultimately the education of our youth is wrapped up right along with the algorithm of female victimhood.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:29 PM
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Some is an outlier and only a small part of a larger portion. We know that not all will have a choice, but that doesn’t mean those that do should avoid responsibility and self agency. It’s what you’re doing now by trying to use a very small number of people to justify for the all. What the person above you is saying is they believe it’s just as much a woman’s responsibility as it is a man’s when it comes to sex. You don’t have to have sex, and neither does he, but when you say yes, you are accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:20 PM
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As a woman, hard agree. Not taking responsibility in all shapes and forms is what’s ultimately causing all the ills in our society, but in this particular case, women need to practice what they preach once in a while. It’s not like humans have no agency. I know many many women who never got pregnant on accident because they were extra extra careful. It’s just so disingenuous to constantly act as if women can’t make the decision to either wait until they know the guy enough to know he won’t screw…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:12 PM
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This is my new motto. Went my whole life being the dumping ground for every sorry soul. Gave out great, reasonable careful advice, offered myself up to help in as many ways as I could, you name it. Know what I do now? Just tell anyone who asks for help the exact truth they probably didn’t want to hear, but needed to. Don’t really get many takers anymore. Sorry, not sorry. I’m not everyone’s mom, for Christ’s sake. A lot of people just want someone to confirm their bad habits and be told they sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:30 PM
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Ok, to summarize what I think you’re saying: if the man is pro life, meets a pro choice woman, and it’s clear that she would get an abortion if she became pregnant, the guy has every right to turn her down if he doesn’t believe in abortion? That I definitely agree with. It would require some thought/discussion being put into who you plan to sleep with prior, however. I think that’s kind of what the other commenter was trying to say to some extent. The “close your legs” scenario boils down to ess…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:28 PM
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The point is that the system is favoring one gender over the other, yet when someone tries to point that out, outlier cases get brought up to try and distract from that fact. That’s not to say outlier cases don’t matter, but on a statistical level, those outlier cases are the exception to the rule, not the rule itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:36 PM
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Some women may not have a choice, but men have almost no choice. Like the other commenter said, these outlier cases don’t excuse the rule. Also, what is the prevalence of cases where women have to pay child support after giving up their child to the dad? I would guess this is an exceedingly rare situation. Women are always favored in cases like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:47 PM
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So the only people who should be selective are pro lifers and men? What if a woman said she was pro life, and then changed her mind after getting pregnant with her pro life boyfriend? Does the choice of the man factor in at all in this kind of scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:39 PM
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It’s not that, it’s that he opposed OP’s post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:32 PM
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Ooof. You’re sure ruffling some feathers with this post… However, I agree with a lot of what you’re saying, and I’m a woman. The rape stuff maybe is a little bit of a stretch/a bit of a sensitive subject to really dive into at a surface level like you’ve attempted to do, but I understand what you’re trying to say. Rape is bad no matter who it’s done to or by, and I would be careful comparing rape to circumcision. I think when talking of bodily autonomy, abortion is a better comparative to make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:54 PM
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I thought we weren’t using the r-word….
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:15 PM
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Dude no it’s fucking not. Your rudder is spinning you in circles because you have no argument that actually disproves what I’m saying. If you did, you’d come with raw data, not some bullshit like this. But I’ll give you one more chance: prove to me that the outcomes of single motherhood are better than the outcomes of a two parent household. Bring the data that proves otherwise and I’ll HAPPILY concede. Or, if you wanna just stop this nonsense, you could just say “you’re right, single motherhood…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:58 PM
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Where did you get any of that out of what I’m saying? Men have a responsibility too. I said that multiple times. My comment focused more on women’s accountability, because it is the major argument in this thread. Men have the responsibility to wear a condom if the both of you are having causal sex, absolutely. And if he forgot or doesn’t have one, then you don’t have sex with him! If you do, you acknowledge the risk you are taking. I’m not really sure what you mean in the second part. Are you sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:59 PM
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Sure, it’s definitely complicated. The 70% statistic shows that more women want to leave, that’s all. It may be their fault for leaving, but that doesn’t mean they are the problem that causes the leaving. You can’t really ignore 70% though. Even if it were 15% less, 55% still ain’t lookin good. In the end, I’d argue our current culture accounts for that high number. That’s what living in a predominantly individualist society devoid of moral values will do. What you value and where those values c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:07 PM
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Fair point on moving the goalpost. My apologies, I tend to way over explain, which can get me in the woods at times. Anywho, let’s get back to what we were talking about: Women file 70% of the time (so more often than men) when it comes to divorce. What is the significance of sharing that specific quote from the article given the argument itself? (But to respond to what you are saying, the larger issue is a cultural one. Marriage is not taken seriously by both genders. 50% of all marriages end i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:02 PM
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So if the issue is the same, and the husband tells her all she needs to do is put out 2 times a week, should she abide?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:56 PM
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Because they are more likely to turn out that way in a single mother situation. That’s NOT the same thing as saying most criminals are men, which is in fact actually correct. Saying not all men are criminals is also correct, and I’m not sure who would use that as a justification for the former, because it’s plainly obvious that both are true. Pointing out statistical facts is not ignoring these terrible outcomes that have happened to countless people, it is simply saying that these outcomes are …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:44 PM
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So if a man is not getting enough sex and begins to mentally check out, whose duty is it to fix the issue? (Totally just curious hypothetical, not trying to “get you” or anything)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:17 PM
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“There are outliers that do justify divorce or single motherhood” - literally in the quote you copied. This is just an appeal to emotion, because no one ever denied that in these situations, a woman should be forced to stay. The instances of all the things you mentioned are the minority, outlier, least likely reasons people divorce or separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:14 PM
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Well, the question now becomes “in what ways are women suggesting the problems be resolved, and does the husband agree that 1) its an issue that can/should be solved, and 2) does the way being suggested to solve it meet his needs too?” Women tend to be way more emotional, often ruminating on things more, which can cause problems to arise that maybe aren’t actually issues to begin with (I’m not saying that to be dismissive, it’s just a fact. I’ve done it to myself many many times. Women are super…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:10 PM
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https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220511-why-women-file-for-divorce-more-than-men 70% of women file.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:31 PM
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This sub is about these kinds of issues, so of course it’s like holding up a mirror!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:25 PM
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That’s such a bogus talking point, sorry. Not trying to be a dick (ha), but OBVIOUSLY a person isn’t going to randomly point at someone and say “you!” And then bang them! But the person you are replying to is definitely right when they say women are selectors. A woman cannot get pregnant unless she chooses to let the man fertilize her. Biologically, women are more choosy anyways. And biologically, men are wired to spread their seed (ew I hate saying that but it is what it is), which means that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:24 PM
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HAHA brainwashed? I wish my parents would have been brainwashed into staying together… and probably so do many of the other children of divorce. Take a look in the mirror, sweetie. Do you really believe what you’re saying? You also didn’t actually respond with anything of real substance. Accusing someone of being brainwashed isn’t a real argument. Besides that, I already stated that even in not great marriages/relationships (which happens!), children are still better off if they stay together wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:59 PM
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Also that violence against men by men is statistically double the violence by men against women. No violence is obviously the hope, but it’s not like women are the only ones getting physically hurt here. Also I’m pretty sure violence against men in relationships is grossly underreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:37 PM
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Neither is leaving when they do. What duties do you believe husbands and wives have for each other anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:31 PM
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Dude. All the things you listed are caused by single mom situations. These problems exist WAY less often in homes that have 2 parents. Even in cases where the parents don’t have the greatest relationship but deal with it and stay together for the kids, they still have an advantage over kids raised by one parent. Heck child abuse is SO much more likely to happen with step parents! I mean I thought up until recently that it was literally common sense knowing single motherhood is the worse choice o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:28 PM
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This person(s) is simply just cope. Love how the comment below is a “call for mods” because you “didn’t address the post.” No, you didn’t address the post the way she wanted it to be addressed. They want confirmation of their own biases and opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:16 PM
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Completely agree. And I mean come on, someone has to have some kind of accountability, or else it’s a literal perpetual “he said she said.” All this hookup culture shit is a lie anyways. No one is actually happier because they slept with ___ hot dudes last week.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:10 PM
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There are so many options these days that have less side effects, and some methods don’t even use hormones at all! You can even keep track of your cycle by monitoring certain cues, like temperature, to see when fertile/not fertile. Plus it is a choice to take, no one is forcing birth control on anyone. It is also a choice to have sex or not, and that is true for both sexes. Your values also inform your choices. If you value yourself, you’re not going to give or receive it from just anyone. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:06 PM
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This is it right here. It would be one thing if men and women were indifferent to the human factor of this truth, but many aren’t, and/or don’t react kindly to the opposite’s version.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:39 PM
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I don’t think this person is “getting something” out of anything, they’re just stating a tough truth. I don’t believe a single person on here who says they’ve never said anything offensive. And the root of why mostly being; who really gets to say what will and what won’t be offensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:37 PM
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Ok good, I tried really hard lmfao. What you’re saying is definitely important. Vital, even. Our moral framework in current society is literally hanging by a thread. Everyone’s suffering, yet no one can see the obvious elephant in the room that’s causing it. It’s so frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:28 AM
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The point I believe this person is trying to make is that traditionally it was expected that who you were dating was only with you. There were no rosters and simultaneous options like there is today, which has largely proliferated by online dating and only fans. It was previously expected that you would be monogamous because everyone was monogamous. The case for polyamory could somehow be argued this same way probably, but I’m not trying to scramble my brain right now. Anyways, right now in soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:08 AM
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