quietsam Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Realized I don't actually know how to hold a conversation. You have to let go of your resentments. They will fester. Meditate on forgiveness. Settle the wreckage of your past.	/r/seduction	22/05/26 02:28 PM
1	Had insane chemistry with a girl on my flight, didn’t ask for her IG, found it later — should I message her? Yes	/r/seduction	20/05/26 03:42 AM
8	Stop being afraid. This was 100% Ai	/r/seduction	09/05/26 10:16 PM
36	I built my life around Fight Club – anyone else? Sir, this is a Wendy’s	/r/seduction	21/07/25 11:59 PM
1	I'm 45 no longer have friends. My wife cheated on me and is leaving. I gave up my career and friends to support her when I was 25-33. Then, I had a head injury and PTSD. Where can a man go to find warmth from someone when he is vulnerable and dangerously alone? I have found Coda meetings very helpful.	/r/MensRights	06/05/24 05:04 AM
1	men are more reactive to lower wages-why? It still exists for the same reason any sexual attraction hardwired into our brains from evolution exists.	/r/MensRights	04/08/23 05:08 PM
0	Working Woman Cries & Asks Why We Fought For Women To Get Jobs In The First Place — 'I'm So Tired' it’s so obvious she is joking	/r/MensRights	20/07/23 05:44 PM
1	Do men find straightforward and assertive women seductive? If a man finds you attractive, seduction isn’t really necessary.	/r/seduction	14/06/23 01:29 PM
-17	She did me dirty This post is unhinged. Mods should delete.	/r/MensRights	16/03/23 12:48 AM
3	Do Women Hate Being Women? That’s true when it comes to medical topics.	/r/MensRights	24/11/22 06:37 PM
2	Do Women Hate Being Women? My guess: animals can be female. Animals can’t be women.	/r/MensRights	24/11/22 03:25 PM
7	At your lowest both mentally and physically who would you call? Brother, and multiple friends. Guys, maintain your male friendships. It takes forgiveness and doing shit you’re not always stoked about. It’s well worth it. Do not tolerate a woman who tries to prevent/ruin these connections. Leave her immediately.	/r/MensRights	15/11/22 09:01 PM
1	I texted my roommate come here and snuggle with me Apologize.	/r/seduction	05/10/22 02:55 PM
3	What are some things a guy can do to become more attractive? Make them laugh and look up to you. Putty in your hands.	/r/seduction	01/10/22 08:53 PM
1	How to build a strong frame? Think you’re the shit and you’ll be the shit. A healthy amount of delusion is okay if it has a net positive in your life. You are the shit. Know this.	/r/seduction	22/09/22 03:27 AM
19	Boys might read more if we give them books they want to read — The Centre for Male Psychology Video games are pretty hard to compete with	/r/MensRights	01/09/22 05:16 AM
25	She called him a “f**got” and “dumbass” N-word.” He got suspended from his job. No impulse control. Poor parenting. Personality disorder. All three?	/r/MensRights	14/08/22 05:41 AM
3	Is it weird to cold approach alone? How’d it go?	/r/seduction	30/07/22 04:56 AM
1	Should I break up with my girlfriend? It’s over. Leave.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 01:56 PM
5	Update to “my wife abused me and called the police” Why post if you heed zero advice? I’m genuinely curious.	/r/MensRights	19/07/22 04:57 PM
5	Update to “my wife abused me and called the police” Dear Internet Stranger, Here is what I recommend: Get a separation immediately (no financial excuses) Until she, on her own, proactively seeks therapy, spend zero time with her. Once she has been in therapy for six months, slowly start to spend a little time with her again to see if she is improving, if not, turn your separation into a divorce.	/r/MensRights	19/07/22 04:55 PM
21	How are men supposed to break out of inceldom when we don't even have the right to interact with women. Your first mistake was asking a woman. Want to learn how to catch a fish? Ask a fisherman, not a fish.	/r/MensRights	19/07/22 04:41 PM
3	how do you go from casually chilling at your place to fucking without being awkward? Dude all this is a bit much. You’re right. Just do whatever feels natural while making sure your partner is comfortable emotionally and physically. The kiss can come mid sentence. It doesn’t matter at all.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 04:17 PM
10	Today I finally became a man She didn’t waste your time, bro. You wasted your time.	/r/seduction	17/08/21 06:58 PM
9	Today was an epic failure this guy bolds	/r/seduction	16/08/21 11:46 PM
5	What did you do on your first date? wut	/r/seduction	13/08/21 07:47 AM
10	Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps? *pique	/r/seduction	11/08/21 01:13 AM
0	[deleted by user] Nope. I do well with women.	/r/seduction	10/08/21 05:34 PM
0	[deleted by user] Keyword: firsthand	/r/seduction	10/08/21 03:30 PM
0	[deleted by user] Because a single fisherman has many firsthand experiences with various women, whereas a woman (assuming she’s straight) only has experiences with herself. The metaphor is pretty easy to understand, if you’re not getting it at this point, we should probably end the conversation.	/r/seduction	10/08/21 03:15 PM
-1	[deleted by user] It can be, but that’s one woman’s perspective. Women are not monolithic in their thinking.	/r/seduction	10/08/21 02:05 PM
2	[deleted by user] I appreciate you breaking down the expression in an enjoyable way, but it’s just that, an expression. And its use is to remind men that just because one women complimented you on X, doesn’t mean X will work on all women. That sort of thing.	/r/seduction	10/08/21 04:47 AM
3	[deleted by user] It changes once you have a SO, because you’re past the attraction phase and then need to learn about their wants and needs as a long-term partner. At this point, it makes sense to understand their particular wants and needs. You can’t ask a woman you meet how they want to be picked up, you have to draw from personal experience or second-hand knowledge.	/r/seduction	10/08/21 03:56 AM
6	[deleted by user] (The only number worth addressing.) If you talk to one fish you have the knowledge of what one fish likes. Fish are not monolithic in their desires. A skilled fisherman will know how to catch many different fish that have various wants, needs, personalities etc.	/r/seduction	10/08/21 03:52 AM
-6	[deleted by user] That’s why I said she makes some solid points.	/r/seduction	09/08/21 11:15 PM
-9	[deleted by user] I hear you. And I think she makes some solid points, I just want to make sure guys don’t think it’s gospel.	/r/seduction	09/08/21 10:51 PM
-12	[deleted by user] When you want it learn how to catch a fish, ask a fisherman, not a fish.	/r/seduction	09/08/21 10:35 PM
0	What I’ve learned from dating apps as a Male. Right on	/r/seduction	23/07/21 12:29 PM
0	What I’ve learned from dating apps as a Male. I didn’t say I was a ten. I said 7. HC is a ten.	/r/seduction	23/07/21 03:16 AM
1	What I’ve learned from dating apps as a Male. Your incredulity doesn’t make you right.	/r/seduction	23/07/21 03:11 AM
2	What I’ve learned from dating apps as a Male. That wasn’t humble. That was just a brag. Idgaf. And I’m a dude.	/r/seduction	23/07/21 03:06 AM
2	What I’ve learned from dating apps as a Male. 7s absolutely clean up on dating apps. I’m a down the middle seven and I have to turn the apps off after a day or two because I get too many matches and become overwhelmed.	/r/seduction	23/07/21 02:58 AM
15	About to go and meet a YouTube star. Yeah, man. Delete this shit immediately.	/r/seduction	20/07/21 03:22 PM
11	What I've learned after 3 weeks of day game. walks up to woman Me: Yup	/r/seduction	14/07/21 12:09 PM
14	Had one of the worst first date scenarios ever, but saved it by staying composed and in control ADD checking in. Give me chaos or give me death.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 05:19 AM
-17	why do i attract the same type of woman Play by your rules. Be alpha and it will naturally calm them down.	/r/seduction	10/07/21 05:27 AM
5	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. It’s hard to say the exact reason why they don’t want to go on a second date. It could be any number of things: how I look, my enthusiasm, etc. I’d say about 20% of my first dates don’t turn into second dates because “they didn’t feel a spark/connection.” I’ve only had one woman ghost me after a first date. Usually they’ll tell me there wasn’t a spark when I ask for a second date, but they don’t tell me why. And I won’t pry, I simply thank them for letting me know and wish them the best. I know …	/r/seduction	05/07/21 03:25 PM
23	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. Bois, attraction includes all the things: bone structure, height, eye color, status, humor, banter, neediness, etc. You have dials. Turn them. Height not so good. Be funnier than shit. And so on. Hot chicks that have lame personalities are lame. Sure banging them is fun. But it gets old af hanging with them. Women think this ^ more than men x10 and yes sometimes no amount of fine tuning of the dials and self actualization will make certain women attracted to you. Them’s the breaks. i find enthus…	/r/seduction	05/07/21 07:11 AM
3	I did something weird last night no knock at all, just curious	/r/seduction	27/06/21 05:59 AM
2	I did something weird last night Is “chopping it up” becoming a predominant slang phrase? I know what it means but up until this post it’s usually quite rare. Dude said multiple times.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 05:09 AM
1	Is it easier to get a girlfriend in the winter than summer for you guys? I think he ran out of steam with his argument and malfunctioned.	/r/seduction	25/06/21 03:58 AM
6	Where are the slutty girls at? Insanity wolf	/r/seduction	24/06/21 04:44 AM
-1	I did a successful cold approach! Well you thought wrong	/r/seduction	22/06/21 11:53 PM
9	I did a successful cold approach! He doesn’t have her number	/r/seduction	22/06/21 11:52 PM
4	"MANimony" Rich women are angry that they have to pay their husbands ALIMONY Source?	/r/MensRights	18/04/21 12:09 AM
95	Is it ok to not want casual sex as a guy? The third date is a myth. Sometimes it works out that way, many times it doesn't. You'll know. Play it by ear. Trust your gut. Do not mention it. Do not bring it up. It will seem awkward and presumptuous and is not necessary.	/r/seduction	22/02/21 06:57 PM
16	I’ve made animated summaries of 50 of the best self improvement books. I’ve made a list of the links for each of the videos so you can find and watch the summary of the book you are interested in more easily. Hope this is useful. Too busy clicking and watching	/r/seduction	16/12/20 04:10 PM
2	Anyone here try getting professional photos taken for Tinder/dating apps? You’re right, tho. It helps to hold still, but image quality is better with photos/live photos, you just miss out on quantity.	/r/seduction	25/11/20 07:24 AM
8	Anyone here try getting professional photos taken for Tinder/dating apps? Image quality might be better, but it’s harder to control than video in terms of knowing exactly what you’re getting, so you’re going to get fewer quality smiles and facial angles. It’s a trade off. I would recommend video 10/10 times.	/r/seduction	25/11/20 07:09 AM
8	Anyone here try getting professional photos taken for Tinder/dating apps? No, most of us don’t do this. But most of us downvote people who contribute nothing to the post. Especially if it’s condescending.	/r/seduction	25/11/20 06:57 AM
331	Anyone here try getting professional photos taken for Tinder/dating apps? Here is exactly what you do: Get a buddy, a car, 4-5 outfits, smart phone Go to different locations and put on the different outfits While at the locations, stand still like you’re posing for a photo but have your buddy take a VIDEO of you. He’s moving around capturing a bunch of angles. You’re standing still smiling with slightly different smiles (open mouth, closed mouth, serious). Repeat this with different outfits at different locations. Then go through the videos on pause and you have THOUS…	/r/seduction	25/11/20 06:51 AM
5	People will make time for those that they want to see. you have to legitimately not care, yes	/r/seduction	22/11/20 12:58 AM
3	People will make time for those that they want to see. Chased is probably too strong of a word. Is she giving you enough interaction that is seems like she wants to continue your relationship?	/r/seduction	21/11/20 11:30 PM
13	People will make time for those that they want to see. About chasing? Sometimes women want to be chased and pursued. They see you’re investing time into them. They feel valued this way. But this will not show up as a straight up ghosting. You will inherently know the difference as a sexual creature. Trust your innate ability to understand the difference. You’ll know.	/r/seduction	21/11/20 09:00 PM
8	People will make time for those that they want to see. Agreed.	/r/seduction	21/11/20 07:13 PM
78	People will make time for those that they want to see. See, my dudes. This guy fucks because he gives zero of them.	/r/seduction	21/11/20 07:01 PM
163	People will make time for those that they want to see. Do. Not. Give. A. Fuck. I sound like a broken record on this sub, but it’s the answer to all the ghosting and text-game theory. If you’re needy, women won’t like you. If they don’t like you, they won’t respond. If they want you to chase, you will be able to tell.	/r/seduction	21/11/20 04:50 PM
55	Ghosting - why it happens and how to avoid it Yes. Absolutely. Your mind set should always be self loving and confident without being arrogant. You are a carrier of your genes (a line that miraculously made it this far), you have to truly believe in them before anyone else will.	/r/seduction	20/11/20 08:08 PM
97	Ghosting - why it happens and how to avoid it The trick is not giving a single fuck.	/r/seduction	20/11/20 05:19 PM
15	Read the book Yes Man why not for the best?	/r/seduction	17/10/20 05:13 PM
0	How do you fix your self esteem? Bro, you are a human being. You are not an asteroid or a marsh or a gnat. You are a fucking human. The most intelligent and beautiful thing in the galaxy. A god. Know this, my dude. You are a literal god. And you’re alive right now. At this time. Be a god because you are a god.	/r/seduction	17/09/20 01:28 PM
3	How do you fix your self esteem? Abundance theory. And also, think you’re the shit and you’ll be the shit. Which is easy because you are the shit.	/r/seduction	17/09/20 01:26 PM
155	Upped my picture game and the amount of effort I need to put in has drastically went down my best broad tip, also having a lot of success on apps, effort. Generalizing here, so forgive me, but apps are a numbers game, women love effort. If it looks like you threw your profile together that night or week, and you’re not an 8 out 10 facially (or above), you’re going to struggle. Different locations, different outfits, different activities. Nice backgrounds. One crazy specific tip, have a friend with a new phone take a video of you as you pose for a picture. He is moving around, you sta…	/r/seduction	05/09/20 02:43 PM
5	losing virginity to a random girl I found on tinder I thought it was going to be a joke that somehow came back around to the olive oil.	/r/seduction	12/08/20 04:31 AM
4	Where should I keep my hands while speaking to a woman. That’s where her supposed to put she hands	/r/seduction	01/08/20 06:16 PM
15	Cold approach from a girl's perspective A fisherman would know all this. And you know yourself.	/r/seduction	26/06/20 04:41 AM
36	Cold approach from a girl's perspective This assumes fish have a monolithic ideology and what one fish says applies to others. They don’t and it doesn’t. A fisherman has a monolithic ideology as a lone entity and that’s to catch fish.	/r/seduction	26/06/20 02:31 AM
268	Cold approach from a girl's perspective Normally I live by this ideology: If you want to learn how to catch a fish, talk to a fisherman not a fish. However, this is solid, sound, reasonable advice.	/r/seduction	25/06/20 10:37 PM
0	Consider the possibility that the unrequited crush you are holding on to is a defense mechanism designed to keep you from having meaningful relationships with new people. not OP, but it seems like it’s not something we have the capacity to measure at this point.	/r/seduction	16/06/20 04:15 PM
6	If true this is Financial Abuse. Pam Anderson married rich Exec to pay off her debts. A mom with four sons no less. It's not that far off in some states. After ten days, you wouldn't get much. If she tricked him to pay off her debts during that time (or before), that's just him being naive. Source: Divorced twice	/r/MensRights	12/02/20 07:57 PM
3	Rant: Anyone hates how you are automatically discredited because you are a dude? ah, hadn't heard that	/r/MensRights	12/12/19 06:46 PM
-3	Rant: Anyone hates how you are automatically discredited because you are a dude? Her gender really has no bearing in her approach or argument. The people OP is talking to are missing her message if they believe it's a feminist one.	/r/MensRights	12/12/19 06:32 PM
6	Staying at my girlfriends house tonight to “Netflix and chill.” This will be my first time having sex and I’m clueless on how to initiate it without being creepy or awkward. bruh	/r/seduction	25/09/19 03:57 PM
1	Escalated and it went wrong. How can I get another chance? Of course there’s a chance. A good one? Who knows. Talk to her. You’ll either work it out or you won’t.	/r/seduction	17/01/19 03:35 AM