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He's wrong; woman, just like everyone else, are not entirely based on their upbringing, because there is a thing called personality. Further beyond that, people often act "hot" and "cold" based on a number of factors outside of personality.
/r/seduction10/03/19 02:01 AM
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Manwhore is an OG pick up dude. Not to defend him but keep that in mind - people with an established reputation don't need to be concerned as much with reviews.
/r/seduction10/03/19 01:58 AM
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youmadbro?
/r/seduction04/02/19 05:17 PM
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Sora dies after saving Kairi
/r/seduction03/02/19 04:12 AM
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You need to remember that picking up women, or at least connecting to them on a level built on solid romance and attraction, is a skill. It's not something you just read about and then get good at. It will take over a year of consistent practice(if you were to do it seriously) to be semi-decent. That said, if you're getting the I have a boyfriend line, you need to build more attraction and keep that boyfriend line as a shit test. Her telling you that she has a boyfriend might not be true, but it…
/r/seduction06/03/17 09:46 PM
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Approach someone you want to meet within 3 seconds of seeing them.
/r/seduction06/03/17 09:31 PM
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Wow... really sucks when you see comments like this, which are blatant website promotions, appearing as advice and getting voted up so much. Literally read the article and received nothing of value. All you did was reject the notion of PUA, provide an explanation of AA, and then gave coping mechanisms and pseudoscience for handling it. You got 5 upvotes and are promoting a webinar starting in the limited time of about 2 hours? Very suspicious, you are definitely someone riding the industry for c…
/r/seduction06/03/17 09:30 PM
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FWB is a casual intimate relationship solidified past the first date. Casual dating doesn't necessarily lead to sex and it might only be the first date.
/r/seduction06/03/17 02:49 AM
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I think instead of watching guys pick up girls you should do it yourself. Mystery said there are observers and the observed. Which are you?
/r/seduction06/03/17 02:48 AM
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Just covered that base yesterday actually. House party 10 minutes from us -> "Nope, let's just watch Archer" no complaints
/r/seduction26/01/14 08:48 PM
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My college is about 6,000 people and everyone else in this town has gone to 1 of 2 high schools, so they're all connected. I don't have an exact degree of population for you though.
/r/seduction26/01/14 08:46 PM
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word
/r/seduction26/01/14 08:36 PM
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Yes, despite me explicitly stating that I do understand what ThrowawayPUA is describing, I suppose I am presented with an idea I don't understand.
/r/seduction26/01/14 06:38 PM
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I actually heard(from SCM) that this can go both ways in terms of advantages and disadvantages. Some girls that are more liberal with their sexual identity take our slutting around as a cool thing. The classier ones don't.
/r/seduction26/01/14 06:28 PM
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In my opinion, a slight change of wording falls under "mental masturbation." I understand that you think that changing the way I'm looking at things will help. And of course, it will. But I am looking for action-oriented advice or supporting examples of people who have been in my situation. I don't think a slight change of wording will have any drastic changes in my lifestyle. I know you are somewhat of a veteran around here and I'd like you to know that I am as well and that suggesting that I c…
/r/seduction25/01/14 11:20 PM
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I'm not asking for concepts though. I'm asking for action-oriented advice from people who were similar situations. You aren't wrong, you just aren't necessarily providing me with the help that I am asking for.
/r/seduction25/01/14 10:04 PM
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Okay. That doesn't really help my situation though. "How do I create ABUNDANCE in a SMALL TOWN setting?!"
/r/seduction25/01/14 08:14 PM
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Already have found better people. I just wanna see what's up.
/r/seduction31/07/12 12:48 AM
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She flakes when I've tried this.
/r/seduction31/07/12 12:43 AM
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At this point, yup I'm just gunna do this. What i cant understand is why Im being downvoted lol
/r/seduction08/07/12 05:51 PM
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Mentioning drinking doesnt mean I directly said I'm going to get her drunk. Two completely different signals
/r/seduction08/07/12 05:50 PM
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Uhh I didn't say that. I just mentioned we're going to be drinking - obv, it's a bar - and that she's my fav tipsy asian friend.
/r/seduction08/07/12 04:32 PM
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I have this terrible weakness to opening. I can do everything well but the most frustrating part of my game is my opening. Generally, I just run direct approaches or just let my wing do the opener because of the way it makes me feel. Hell, my best closes are my openings from wings because I'm more consistent that way. By opening, what I mean is actually opening and transitioning. tl;dr everything goes to hell when I open. Can you gimme a lil idea why and help me improve it? It really does hurt m…
/r/seduction02/02/12 03:46 AM
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I just go beyond small talk and get the other person engaged.
/r/seduction13/08/11 09:03 PM
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In the process of
/r/seduction13/08/11 09:02 PM
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It's cool bro. Thanks for the advice, but I try to give out value to others. I was chilling with A yesterday and I honestly kept trying to spark shit up with her but i was getting conversation enders in return. I kept trying to shoot shit up but she went to play PC games and I just slumped aorund at that point. Then her friend B came and they started talkin about relationshits.
/r/seduction13/08/11 05:25 PM
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Did college for a year, going back January.
/r/seduction13/08/11 05:07 PM
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I don't play video games anymore. Also, I'm broke right now, or clubbing would be down my alley.
/r/seduction13/08/11 05:07 PM
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no idea where the downvotes are from, thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction13/08/11 05:03 PM
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I haven't read that book but I saw some guy reading it on the bus.
/r/seduction13/08/11 05:02 PM
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I don't necessarily mean it that way. Sorry, my emotions might have gotten to me there. I mean, I don't treat others with complete indifference, but I just don't get upset or feel offended during the interactions. Outside of them, though, is when I kinda start wondering.
/r/seduction13/08/11 04:38 AM
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Dude, you're getting me wrong. I don't give two fucks about banging girls right now. I want to get people fucking attracted to me, and it seems that shit isn't working. I don't give a fuck about 95% of other guys because I'm determined to solve my own issues and the other 95% can kiss my ass.
/r/seduction13/08/11 04:21 AM
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Right. So, basically, get to know the guys of the group and ignore the girls for some time(to break off from the friendzone).
/r/seduction13/08/11 04:14 AM
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But that's the thing though: I don't have a target group. It feels that people who I meet, even #close, genuinely don't want to get to know me, even if I'm being myself. Fuck personalities and popularity. And again, I personally don't get offended when I'm in the interaction. I'm cool with it and shit. I can be myself and I can still generate people to talk. But afterwards, it feels like I really don't rub off anywhere.
/r/seduction13/08/11 04:12 AM
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Like, some days I'm really on my game. Some days I'm really not. In either case though it feels like I'm fighting an uphill with some folks. I see Facebook kids my age post up some status and get 200 likes, get 2 women a week asking them to come to a party on the weekend. I've met these people personally and I can't figure out what makes them stand out from me. They're just the same way I am.
/r/seduction13/08/11 03:55 AM
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She didn't outright show me it. We turned to that conversation and I was the one that did most of the talking and the typing.
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:41 AM
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See, I'm not good with group ordeals though, so when her friend came I got quiet, but I did make her laugh a ton.
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:40 AM
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Great, great advice. Harsh, but I'm willing to accept what you're saying. I don't feel bad, although I did feel trashy the next morning. As for the threesome, it was always on my mind, but I put the pussy on the pedestal and it through me off.
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:39 AM
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If you read my previous question here, it really seemed like a good idea in this situation. It really did.
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:36 AM
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To be fair, I was somewhat interested in meeting her chick friend and I did #close her towards the end of the night.
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:36 AM
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Asking for a kiss has worked for me before. "Do you want to kiss me" is a great way to ease your way into a kiss without outright cavemanning it. I was playing with her dog at the time so I found it to be a good point in asking. But you're right. I definitely should have bailed and this experience is already past me.
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:34 AM
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