r0637 Archive

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1	Even if men admit that they over-prioritize sexual attraction and promiscuity, they don't recognize the consequences of doing that. Ah yes there's that red flag word that avoidants use to try to pathologize a loving relationship. It's pseudoscientific nonsense that came out of AA and is meant to apply to the partners of addicts. I hear you about pathologizing words and the judgmental effect they can have. On the other hand, do you not think anyone could ever be leaning on someone in a way that was unhealthy? Because whether we use the word 'codependent' to describe that or not, to me it is a fact that people do form unhealth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/21 07:36 AM
1	Even if men admit that they over-prioritize sexual attraction and promiscuity, they don't recognize the consequences of doing that. This is the problem because the moment he shows that he genuinely wants you, you'll interpret it as neediness and codependency. You're describing a one-sided relationship. But you're describing it like this is the only kind of relationship that can ever exist. I don't think that is the case. I've seen this sentiment before "I want a man who WANTS me not a man who NEEDS me" well what's the fucking difference? If someone said that to you, they weren't the right person. There's something to be said…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/21 07:31 AM
1	If women don’t like nice guys or find them to be “boring”, does that mean it’s over for genuine nice guys? Yeah, I hear you. It does suck. But if you accept the situation and accept your feelings, some good can come from it. You don't have to give up your dreams, but you should remember to tune into those feelings and feel them to the fullest. They really enrich one's consciousness and experience of life!! Its a righteous thing to be sad and alone sometimes! That's what it means to love what's right in front of you: your own life and yourself. And loving that, you become more loving in general. And t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 12:52 AM
9	Men are approaching way less than people here think good point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 09:20 PM
1	If women don’t like nice guys or find them to be “boring”, does that mean it’s over for genuine nice guys? so on point!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 07:38 PM
1	"Sex is a need", "Sexlessness is growing" etc: what do you want us to do with this information? I thought so too, until I read Warren Mosler and Stephanie Kelton and took the time to really understand their arguments. Give em a look if you're interested in new ways of looking at money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 05:28 AM
19	"Sex is a need", "Sexlessness is growing" etc: what do you want us to do with this information? wow, that is an interesting idea! And the first time I ever heard anything like that proposed. Its not half bad, actually..	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/20 05:22 AM
1	Guys need to make the case for why it’s beneficial for women to follow the male imperative in accordance to sex and romantic relationships Think about that for a few more minutes. Think about what exactly? That you are an amazing human being, unlike anyone I've met in the last 37 years?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/20 06:25 AM
1	Guys need to make the case for why it’s beneficial for women to follow the male imperative in accordance to sex and romantic relationships If that were the actual meaning of that passage, he would have said: "Judge people a lot, because it will result in you getting judged a lot - which you should think is a good thing." The meaning is precisely opposite to that. we should be happy to be judged by others, not afraid of it. I am. This is a bold stance but it doesn't hold up to what I've seen of human nature. I guess you are an amazing human being, unlike anyone I've met in the last 37 years. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/20 06:14 AM
1	Guys need to make the case for why it’s beneficial for women to follow the male imperative in accordance to sex and romantic relationships So the absolute numbers of a society shrinking indicate its imminent demise? And society shrinking is immediately extrapolatable into society collapsing? That sounds overblown to me. Worst case, society shrinks. Because of the high desirability of these areas, it is not in fact the case, due to immigration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/20 05:55 AM
1	Research Paper claims: (1) Men tend to fall in love more readily than women; (2) women tend to fall out of love more readily than men. Seems to explain / describe hypergamy (and a few other dating phenomena). I think a recurring theme of this sub is fear and anxiety around the potential for loving relationships and meaningful, safe, exchanges between the sexes. If this research info resonates with you, its likely because it plays upon some fear or intuition or sense of foreboding you have re: the opposite sex and relationships. It can be fruitful to explore that in a meditation practice. These fears are valid but not factual, they are ghosts that haunt the mind. Ghosts of past hurts. The paper gives …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/20 05:26 AM
1	If a woman is single, but has sexual desire and is not able to get into a satisfying relationship, what do you think she should do? The reserved ones. The serious workaholic ones. I'm sure they would be very loyal and good girlfriends, but it doesn't matter because the guys they're attracted to don't pursue them like they pursue girls who exude sexuality. Everyone's romantic dry spell offers the possibility of being spun into a sad tale of hopelessness and/or neglect. But I think people are alone for good reasons - for example, to work on themselves. And human beings have different mating schedules - some only find mates in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 07:29 AM