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r1bb1tTheFrog/r/askTRP03/05/21 07:49 PM
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Two things can be true. While the red pill may say this, it’s also true that many men will resist this urge for the higher calling of wife and family. Of course it’s situational, but as long the man has peace and intimacy (and enough of both), the probability of cheating decreases and approaches zero for most men.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/26 10:28 PM
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I have enough money to date 100 of you. But that question makes me want to date 0 of you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/26 09:36 PM
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Kevin Samuels has entered the chat.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/26 12:06 AM
19

This is RPChristians. Not RPAgnostics.
/r/RPChristians27/01/26 01:23 AM
5

Same here, though I started in my 30’s. Not for lack of trying - I worked my ass off in my 20’s, but unfortunately had terrible jobs, terrible career guidance, and a debilitating neck injury. Fortunately, I cemented my work habits, which made it easy to keep working hard when I got a job at 29 that paid. Additionally, I kept my health top notch in my 20’s, aside from the injury, so while I may be 10 years behind money and career wise, I figure my health should give me 5-10 years above the averag…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/26 11:04 PM
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I think you’re being sarcastic, but this is the internet, so I’m not sure.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/25 12:28 PM
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So what you’re saying is that you’re everything the red pill isn’t?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/25 07:29 AM
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I dated a few of these in California. The single mom is by far the easiest to match with anywhere - IRL and in apps, followed by women past ~30. Their eyes never lied. When a single mom found out I worked in tech … usually by the 2nd or 3rd date, their eyes lit up. One even squealed. And then I peaced. I’m not saying it’s limited to this generation or to California, but these kinds of scenarios red pilled me before I had even heard the term. In the end, I found a girl in her 20s who wanted kids …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/25 01:28 AM
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I speak five languages. But it usually takes any partner I have several years before they know. And each time they hear me speak a new language they’re even more bewildered, curious, and interested.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/24 02:58 AM
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Came here to say this. Anytime a girl gave me resistance, I always said “sure no problem” and moved to the next topic. I can’t remember the last time I didn’t end up having sex with those girls.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 10:55 PM
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Don’t do the bate text. Besides being very obvious, it also shows that you’re interested in her response.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 07:00 PM
7

Are you Adam, and are your advertising your e-learning company?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 06:34 PM
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A lot of shade being thrown at OP here. I find his statements to be on base though. There’s a lot in the Manosphere about how to approach dating, multiple relationships, and exclusivity. I’ve found that opening up about semi-taboo topics makes it easier for the girl to also open up. Talking about the girls I’ve gone out with or am currently seeing allows her to open up about the same. Once you break through the obvious “hey, we’re adults, and we’re dating, and we see or have seen people,” it bec…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 07:31 PM
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In a three year relationship. I go out and dance salsa pretty regularly, or hang with friends. My SO prefers to stay in. Sometimes she complains that I go out too much. Those are also the weeks we fuck more. The weeks I tried to be home more and on time (and showered up before bed) were the weeks of less poon. Three years is short, but I’m always mentally ready to move on, and I wonder if this is the reason it’s been working out.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/23 11:49 PM
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This will also be the day that you start to end relationships, and not the other way around.
/r/seduction20/04/23 09:51 PM
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No comments yet. No comments needed. Just nodding internally.
/r/TheRedPillStories28/02/23 10:12 PM
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I like the hypogamy term. Great framework. The only thing I never agreed with was the PUA touch barrier belief. I can’t really explain it. I almost always had sex with the girl by the third date, but I kept the physical touch to a minimum. I think the other parts of my game were quite solid, so by the time the third date came, the lack of touch created so much anticipation for the girl.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 07:54 AM
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I was with a girl and we were both ready to marry. Only problem is that she didn’t want kids. I told her that it makes no sense for me to marry if there won’t be any kids. I also told her that the question wasn’t “should we get married.” The question was, “do you want kids?” She already knew my answer, and she told me the truth - that she didn’t. That was also the answer to what we would do with our relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/22 07:53 PM
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I keep my phone on silent and face down always. If I need to use it, I use it and ignore unimportant stuff - like texts. Oh sorry btw I’m a dude, but point is that you should try it too.
/r/seduction22/10/22 12:14 AM
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Seriously. Does she have any friend that is at least semi cute and wants to fuck? Yes, that’s the one. Fuck her.
/r/seduction10/10/22 04:33 AM
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You were just given three suggestions. Figure the rest out on your own.
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:46 PM
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It will probably improve it. Maybe keep a well curated insta so you look good when a girl asks you for it
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:52 PM
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Agreed. I move a little slower than most folks here - a little - usually physical kissing around the third date. I think for most people it doesn’t work, but my hit rate is about 100% (if I went in the first date with them, and like them, then I will always get to a third date and then I’m too kissing and beyond).
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:59 AM
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Bruh yes it is
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:21 AM
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I’m okay with it. I grew up partly pre-dating sites/apps and asked very few girls out. I began my actual dating life on OKC - the website. I was terrified to ask the first girl to coffee. Terrified. But then I got into the swing of things, got some confidence and some success, and for me it translated into real life asking girls out. Kudos to OP - now try to meet some girls not from class.
/r/seduction16/09/22 11:57 PM
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Terrible advice. This might be the wrong sub for OP, but “keep your head up” is exactly the advice given to who never find a wife. OP needs to learn how to interact with women (or continue practicing if he already is). It doesn’t have to involve sleeping with them, but he should still be interacting with them.
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:37 PM
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Probably just my mistake in the way I wrote it. It was meant to agree with your statement lol
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:43 PM
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Catch flak? Sounds like a natural part of being a man.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:32 PM
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Just grind away buddy. Once you hit early-mid 30’s, you’re brain will naturally start caring. Girls will also start showing more interest.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:30 PM
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Agreed
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:03 PM
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Mostly kept your mouth shut? I agree. That was the start for me me. I’m naturally a good conversationalist, but I found it to be detrimental in the doses I was giving/taking. When I shut up, my success rates started to climb. Then when the date/hookup/whatever was on, I could go 95% back to my conversational self, and it all would go good. In my case it was a minor tweak that took like 15-20 years to find.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 02:39 AM
1

In a way. With enough experience, you don’t need to read her mind. You also learn how to communicate without playing 20 questions. But yeah, you gotta try and fail/learn a bunch.
/r/seduction06/09/22 07:33 AM
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Experience
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:51 AM
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Also change your Tinder profile to 5’10” or something so that when she brings it up you can use it as “proof”
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:40 AM
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White dude here. As long you don’t start with something dumb, like “you look so ethnic” or “exotic,” you’ll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 09:48 PM
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Interestingly enough, the less you talk about relationships (i.e. dating problems), the better your dating life will become.
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:18 PM
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Hobbies generally take skill or a specific knowledge set to be involved in. It takes no knowledge or skill to scroll through Reddit. Video games are better in that regard and growing in popularity from a “date-able” perspective, though minimally.
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:31 PM
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Thanks for the update u/repfive305. One question. If you’ve experienced this 1000’s of times, why are you asking Reddit for advice?
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:49 PM
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She offering to set you up? She probably thought you weren’t interested in the date. Going cold communicated that you were into her and so she felt safe to proceed.
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:03 AM
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Yeah. Some girls were banged on the first meet. Some girls after 5-10 years of knowing them. I wouldn’t say they necessarily lost interest. More likely it’s that they have lots of options, and they happened to exercise another option before you. They didn’t necessarily lose interest, but girls also have a limited number of hours per day to do stuff. As long as you weren’t needy in the first place and the following interactions were “natural” or she initiated, your chances can pick back up. Howev…
/r/seduction17/08/22 10:59 PM
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I’m curious about the tats. I have no piercings and no tats and I do fine. My question is more for folks who pulled before and after tats - did it help?
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:37 PM
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Depends on the situation and the interaction.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:22 PM
2

Also the roles get reversed. Much easier for an old guy to get with a young girl than vice versa
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:06 AM
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Bro your responses are all excuses. Instead of shitting on everyone’s suggestions, why don’t you figure out how they could work with you. If you can’t figure out one place within 50 miles of home where you can say hello to one person, then you’ve got bigger problems than trying to meet girls.
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:36 PM
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Why was this removed. Seemed totally benign.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:45 PM
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Correct. No need to talk about your situation or her situation or what either of you are looking for. Just go and vibe and see where the night takes you
/r/seduction02/08/22 05:25 AM
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That’s why the best wingman is a wing-girl
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:45 AM
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Is she Canadian?
/r/seduction25/07/22 11:12 PM
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Behave with them like a regular new person friend. Go to the park, grab a drink, do a common activity. If they never mention a relationship and initiate texts, they are interested.
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:16 PM
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You also start by getting involved in activities that by extension expose you to people that become a friend group.
/r/seduction04/07/22 11:15 PM
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TBH, I think she wants sex without a condom, and she’s just pouting. Still worth a try
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:29 PM
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Yeah this happens with my girl at the start of sex and it’s annoying. We start getting frisky. I put on the condom. When I turn back to her she is rolled away and “asleep.” I touch her a bit. No response. I turn away and ignore her for a minute. She turns towards me and asks “what’s wrong?” I give her some BS reason “oh nothing I’m just …” Next thing you know, she is vigorously jumping my bones. I think she wants the illusion of conflict.
/r/seduction26/05/22 04:32 PM
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Unless you live in California then it’s like 30 dudes for 5 girls on the dance floor
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:12 PM
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A lot of girls already just want a long or short term relationship. Sounds like he just makes it easy for them.
/r/seduction28/04/22 04:45 AM
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And coincidentally pretty good. Photos show that you have friends and a life, and the text is humorous. For all the people wondering how a profile should be structured - this is it.
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:53 PM
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OP can you please describe your profile? What types of photos, and what sort of things did you write in your profile.
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:01 PM
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I’m no pro, but my approach has always been anti-kino. Not anti-affection, just very limited touch, sometimes zero touch. Maybe a half-hug at the start/end if her eyes tell me to. Basically, coffee shop or bar for first date. Zero kino. Second date can be a different day or the same day (just moving locations). Still zero kino. But we’ll talk about everything that comes up naturally, including previous dates, interests, funny anecdotes, and sex. EXCEPT - I don’t talk anything of substance. Nothi…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 12:10 AM
1

I’d say I do about the same. Every couple of years I try to up my job. It’s not my life, but the added income always helps me pursue my other interests. Most of us just need to define what making a decent living means.
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:10 PM
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Sarging Dang haven’t heard that term in a minute
/r/seduction04/03/22 10:09 PM
1

Works for me too
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:33 AM
1

Also don’t confirm the day of. Just show up
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:20 PM
3

Go to places where social interaction is built into the activity. Friends parties, coed sports, social dancing. Pick something you actually want to do so it’s not about the girls, so you learn something cool, and so that any relationships (long or short) come as a neutral byproduct.
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:07 AM
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Just act normal. Dress decently, have a decent job, and have some fundamental conversation skills. In many cases they’ll take it from there. Tbh, Milfs are easier. Not because they’re “easy,” but because they know what they like … and if they like you, they’ll be normal and forego the games.
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:53 AM
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I don’t care as long as they’re a baddie in bed.
/r/seduction18/02/22 09:10 PM
2

She can’t read your mind of how you’d like to be rejected.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:11 AM
0

Why do you think? You’re probably right
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:12 PM
0

Damn downvotes! Comment ruffled some feathers.
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:12 PM
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Bruh. She’s your roommate. Be a normal roommate. That’s it. Make jokes and be fun, sure. But above all, she wants to know that you’re normal and that she’s safe. Coming in with your bulge sticking out is trying too hard.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 08:39 PM
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Prepare stuff in advance. This is easier for Halloween, when you can expect people to make comments about your costume. Find some close friends to joke around with. Learn to do that with new people.
/r/seduction13/12/21 02:26 AM
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Bro. Focus on 0-1 first. And honestly, don’t even focus on zero to one. Focus on: Zero - phone number. Then phone number to text. Then text to coffee. Then text to beer. Then text to either your or her place for a movie. Then movie to arm around her shoulder and keep watching the movie. Then arm around to kiss. Each one of those steps teaches you lessons about human interaction. Sure, at some point you’ll be able to go straight from bar to hook up. And if you ask enough women in a row, it might …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 03:06 AM
1

When a girl tells me she’s in her period, I can’t smile and tell her, “No worries, I’ll go grab a towel” Then I go get a towel and come back and move reaallll slow with her.
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:48 PM
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It’s more common in America because in other countries it’s more likely for a girl to also approach a guy, or at least make the signs abundantly clear.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:49 AM
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All you gotta do is find one girl who also likes chicks and threesomes, and wants to do it with you. Obviously easier said than done. But seriously, look for one girl first, not two at a time.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:26 AM
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Tell her that her boyfriend isn’t invited
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:15 AM
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Not sure where OP is from, but women chase a lot more in other countries, including countries where men look/dress/speak like a local.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:44 PM
3

Brah. She’s either not interested,or she just wants to hook up. After a couple one-word replies, just ask her either: (1) phone number? Or (2) Address? and go for the lay. And then ignore if no response.
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:04 AM
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Yeah but you just proved my point by describing a different situation.
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:59 AM
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Too often on this sub advice is given as an absolute. Things like: “Never show jealousy.” We forget that everything is situational, and jealousy can be used to your advantage. Women like to be desired. Jealousy in men is usually a sign of immaturity, but sometimes a girl will flirt with another guy to get your attention. Show a small bit of jealousy and it may turn her on, because now she has the idea that she might get with you.
/r/seduction14/09/21 06:52 PM
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That’s how females do it.
/r/seduction02/09/21 07:24 AM
9

In addition to this: The reason you should be stepping back is not to try to get her attention again. Most likely it’s already gone. Step back in order to have fun and meet other people, including girls who will give you their number.
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:10 AM
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Hold off. Once you’re seeing her on the regular it’s fine. Just make sure the surroundings are well kept. No laundry, empty bottles, unmade bed, etc in the background. Obv it can vary depending on the girl
/r/seduction26/08/21 08:11 PM
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Bro too early. At most, send her a photo of yourself dressed up, from the mouth to the hips, shirt untucked, suggesting that maybe your pants aren’t on (but not showing anything, maybe a tiny inch of skin or underwear). Women prefer this sort of suggestion 100x more than a stupid dick pic.
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:05 AM
2

This might be against traditional seduction teachings, but I never touch, escalate, or generally talk about sex on the first date. I also never close on the first date, but any of those that I see again, which is most, will always close, either on the second or the third date.
/r/seduction09/08/21 11:07 PM
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No. It’s just how women communicate
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:52 PM
2

I usually ponder and say that I’m happy with the number of women I’ve slept with. If they press I’ll just tell them the rough number.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 03:46 AM
1

Write it into their contacts that they get get paid a measly 100k / year. And each year they manage not to get any girl pregnant, they get a bonus equal to that year’s intended pay. Got a girl pregnant? No bonus for you. Obviously that wouldn’t fly, but it sure as hell would work.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 04:53 AM
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Best potential fuck of my life and I had a similar issue. Nothing will get you to quit cold turkey like going limp at the wrong time.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 09:28 PM
3

Been to Colombia twice. Can confirm.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:52 PM
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That sort of personality is no indication of their actual interest in dating or sex. Some of the most flirtatious and outgoing girls I knew like that were virgins until 25 or later.
/r/seduction22/07/21 04:53 AM
1

She probably had dates scheduled with multiple men, and then dropped them all when her first choice agreed to a date. While you were one of the men she canceled on, you probably weren’t the one she referenced in her post.
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:33 PM
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The sooner you realize and accept that this is the law of life, the sooner you can stop caring and see more success. I hate it too. But it works. I was going to post a similar rant recently, then held off. I’ll put it here: I hate red pill I don’t hate it because it’s wrong. I hate it because it’s right. I can’t be my happy, positive, natural self with a romantic interest. My primary plate was starting to slip - call me less, promise things and then not come through. Like someone here said, “whe…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 03:12 AM
2

I had a similar situation temporarily. Just had to find the women that wanted to host and not travel.
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:05 AM
3

If she engages when your conversation turns to suggestive stuff, then ask her if she wants to come over. No planning. No date. No tomorrow. Simple. And if she doesn’t respond, don’t send any more messages. If she deflects, leave her on read.
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:19 PM
2

Great point. You need to do what helps you grow. In the above scenario, I still stay very social and talk to plenty of girls. If anything, it will make things better with my plate. Even if I’m not spinning other plates, she will see that I have high social proof, and more importantly, that other girls are joking and sometimes lightly flirting with me. This isn’t some sort of manipulation. It’s just being social, including with girls, and your fwb/plate/gf/whatever will be able to detect when oth…
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:44 PM
1

It never really happens like that. Instead, you need to be clear from the start that you don’t want anything serious. That you want to be just friends. Oftentimes, the girl will want the same thing (or she says she will from fear of losing you). After some months of fun, she will start to ask if she is your girlfriend, or if the relationship can go to the next level. That’s when you calmly tell her that you’re in the same spot as before, and that your feelings are the same as in the beginning. Y…
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:41 PM
2

The happiest I’ve been is any time I had one casual girlfriend / FWB. Basically a girlfriend but without expectations. Always available (and asking) for sex. Hang out on occasion, and generally no complaints/temper tantrums/etc. I still would have to maintain frame and push back occasionally, but I wasn’t out gaming all the time, nor did I feel the need to.
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:44 PM
1

Sooo … be a fun and engaging human being?
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:39 PM
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Without compartmentalizing, this has always been my approach when I want to get a girlfriend (or fwb). Become super social, say yes to all the parties, join new activities, make new friends, maybe host something, etc etc.
/r/seduction05/07/21 11:07 PM
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The good life decisions you make in your twenties will affect you in your thirties, whether you are single or have a family. Focus on your education or craft - Grow your career, Make money Focus on yourself - Practice social skills, have friend groups, Stay healthy (lifting/sport/etc) These things will help you whether you settle down to have a family or are single and dating women.
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:42 PM
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In US yes. Other countries are seeing huge second or third waves.
/r/seduction02/07/21 07:25 PM
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I give it, laugh, and tell them not to make fun of it. I have 3 posts over the past … almost decade? No need for me to tell them that I don’t use it. It’s clear from seeing it that I don’t use it.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:21 AM
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Agreed. The added layer of humor helps distract her from whatever she was saying. Added bonus is that it will improve her emotionally (and thus you as well) without you placating her.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 03:22 AM
3

Ugh that sucks. Most straight men don’t experience this unless they get hit on by a much larger and aggressive gay man. Then suddenly they have a small glimpse into the fear and discomfort that women feel on a more regular basis.
/r/seduction14/06/21 04:43 PM
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It sounds like you’re happy, your husband is happy, and your husband’s parents are happy for you. It might not be everyone, but it sounds like you have support where it counts, even if your parents aren’t into it :/ I am happy for you as well. Congrats!
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 04:39 PM
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We’ve all seen the flirting/harassment meme. It’s flirting when the guy is cute, it’s harassment when he’s ugly.
/r/seduction13/06/21 05:52 PM
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I agree with this man here. After a couple real weirdos, I decided to vet more. Also, keep in mind that accidental pregnancy is a thing. I won’t sleep with a girl unless I think she is a decent human being and would be a decent mom if the need ever arose. I get it, awalt, but some are significantly worse.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:39 PM
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Here’s the book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Power-Sleep-James-Maas/dp/0060977604 Btw I don’t take anything, not even Tylenol. Also, I simulate a sunset each night. Example: My place has 5 lamps/lights. 9pm- turn off one light 9:15- turn off another light 9:30- turn off another light. 9:45- turn off last light (only night light remains) 10:00- turn off night light, go to sleep.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 07:19 PM
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That’s because she wants to fuck you short term. No need to exchange numbers for that
/r/askTRP12/06/21 05:40 PM
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I’m a thin dude. If I do nothing except live my life (i.e. approach zero women, don’t try to game anyone), I’ll hook up with 2-3 women per year, and could make any of them an LTR. If I put in effort with approaching, flirting, dating, apps, etc, those numbers will increase nicely. I’m sure getting bigger will help, but it’s not a hindrance. If I really thought it was an issue, I would have probably been power lifting ages ago. Again, it’s a tool in the toolkit.
/r/seduction12/06/21 03:57 AM
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Yes and no. No - they don’t, but they want you to think they do. Yes - women are better at non verbal communication. They start practicing it at an earlier age. But men can learn too, even as adults.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 01:59 AM
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I had this one fwb ages ago. One time I went over, we got in bed, chatted for a bit and relaxed. Standard protocol for us. She then tells me she just wants to cuddle and not have sex that night. I made a joke off the cuff about not coming over anymore. Then I just closed my eyes to sleep. A minute later she was trying to have sex with me.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:07 PM
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Interestingly enough, if you control for things like childbirth and time off work, there is no difference in pay between men and women. In fact, take any woman who stayed in the workforce and chose not to have kids, she makes more on average than her male counterpart.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:32 AM
1

I still agree with the advice here to see a doctor at that point. Two more things: The best sleep I ever had was in the summers of high school and college. I went from sleeping a restless 2-3 hours a night, or less, to deep asleep for 8-9 hours. How? I got a job doing landscaping and manual labor for 10 hours a day, 6 days a week. Hardest physical work I ever did, and out in the hot summer sun. After a week of that there was no way I could stay up. I would just pass out. I read a book called Pow…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 10:39 PM
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In addition to the other advice: Remove the following foods from your diet: All wheat products (bread, cereal, tortillas, etc) // All dairy products // All processed foods // All factory produced drinks (soda, energy drinks, sugary juice mixes. Ideally, water should be your only drink). // Refined sugar // Red meat // Coffee // most tea Instead, eat lots of organic vegetables on a daily basis. Eat organic fruit regularly. Broccoli, celery, carrots, onions, spinach, peppers, lemons, apples, cherr…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 05:31 PM
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I couldn’t agree more. Only talking to girls with the goal of fucking them? Some guys need to grow up. Girls can be your friends, your plates, your colleagues, lovers, etc. Believe it or not, it is possible to be a well-rounded human being and to also spin plates. That’s what plenty of girls do. They just don’t call it “spinning plates.”
/r/askTRP06/06/21 11:39 PM
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I’ve said this to girls in the past and it’s definitely true. Tbh I’m not completely sure why, though I imagine it: Makes her wonder if you’re doing the same thing. Let’s her know she can’t complain if you do.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:30 PM
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u/shittyfuckdick didn’t say to research the topic. He said to go get a professional medical opinion.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 07:17 PM
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Not yet, would love to visit.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:40 PM
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Hahahaha. Brazil, Colombia, Costa Rica, Mexico, Jamaica, other Caribbean islands, Canada, Germany, Poland, Ukraine, Turkey, Malaysia, Singapore, Thailand, Taiwan, China, Korea, Japan, maybe some others.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:39 PM
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He came upstairs and started ... I’m pretty sure he wants to do it, but something external may be killing his libido. If he wasn’t able to get hard, that may have been a bit depressing for him too. Did you ask him to go down on you? No need to answer that question here. I was in a similar spot before ... getting frisky with my girl, and for some reason my manhood didn’t want to cooperate. It was embarrassing, I couldn’t look my partner in the eye, and I was ready to turn in for the night and giv…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/21 10:41 PM
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Red pill right here.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 10:07 PM
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This blew me away when I first began traveling. So many attractive girls, AND way more attention! After a few countries, I realized that this is the natural order of things. Reading this sub ... now it makes even more sense why.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 10:01 PM
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I agree with the comments saying that something might be off - and it could be anything. However, when you say that you initiate by wearing lingerie ... that’s not really initiating in my opinion. That’s just putting on sexy clothes. Initiating for me means that she takes physical steps to escalate sexually - hugs me when I come home from work, and then puts her hand or head between my legs or down my pants, and more. I understand that’s pretty forward and might be unexpected if you’ve never don…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/21 08:35 PM
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You are her gay best friend. You should date other girls ASAP. I hope you’ve been on other dates.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 08:35 PM
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Agreed. She’s literally telling OP, “let’s have fun! (but nothing more).”
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:51 PM
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No need to apologize. And thank you for the clarification. You are right that those points are some of the basics to check off. I think there are some good responses here, especially about branching out and making friends in other places, like clubs in or outside of school.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:10 PM
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I am detecting some ego. “I’m 6 foot tall and I start on the football team and I work out ... why won’t anyone hang with me?” Look. Stop asking every girl out. Stop telling everyone you’re 6 feet tall. Go read Dale Carnegie’s, “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” People like being friends with other nice people, regardless of their height. Practice making friends first. Learn to grow a social circle. Being 6 foot tall is gold if you’re in a vacuum. It’ll give you a leg up in the dating wor…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:17 AM
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My first meet is usually coffee or a drink. Almost always, the girl will offer to split. I tell her, “no worries, you can get next time.” When next time rolls around, usually also something small, I’ll make way to pay again, and inevitably she’ll speak up and insist paying. This works for me 99% of the time. If she doesn’t offer on either the first or second date, then there will not be another date.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 01:13 AM
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This whole thread is a great example of Red Pill conversations vs FDS conversations. Here we have a fact based conversation about the way things are. An FDS conversion is very emotionally charged, filled with name calling (scrotes, LVM, etc.) and accusatory memes. Some consider FDS a place that balances out Red Pill. However, it seems more like a room where women can go, close their eyes, and sing “nah nah nah.”
/r/askTRP28/05/21 06:50 PM
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I’m an oldling (well, middle aged), and I still have to remind myself of this sometimes. The pain doesn’t always hurt less, but the coping strategies and bounce back are easier.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:53 PM
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What pharmacy do you go to? I want one of those rewards cards.
/r/seduction26/05/21 09:55 PM
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Fifthed
/r/askTRP22/05/21 06:17 PM
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Way easier overseas. Easier to talk on the street, easier to get matches, etc etc. I’m not sure if it’s because they see foreigners as more attractive (a lot of research suggests this is true for any culture) or if it’s because their mentality is different. I’m willing to bet it’s both.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:02 PM
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If it doesn’t prompt a response, then I’ll sometimes leave it on read, whatever I feel like. Nothing wrong with that, I just do it. If she’s doing something wrong or hurtful, I’ll leave her on read regardless of the message. She needs to fix her error if she wants to talk to me <——— I’m 100% aware how much of a dick this makes me seem. I used to always try to talk things out. Be patient, reasonable, patient, kind, etc. It worked 0% of the time. Zero. Only when I had enough and broke it off would…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:53 PM
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Case in point: My plate promised to do something for me yesterday. She didn’t do it. This morning she texts me, “good morning. How are you?” I ignored her got a while, then left her on read. She texts me again, “my love ...” I responded, “please keep your word.” She calls me immediately and the conversation goes something like this: Girl: I said good morning to you. Me: Yes I know. Girl: But I said good morning, you’re supposed to respond with good morning. Why are you being like this? Me: Why a…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:02 PM
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Entrepreneurs in cars. I love how he is always deadpan and emotionless. Any time a girl tries to start shit, I keep a deadpan face and ask why she’s behaving like that. No emotion and keep the conversation to a minimum.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 12:10 AM
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You’ll get more shit tests. Pass them and you’ll get more action.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:09 PM
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Part of being red pill is recognizing your behavior with different people. You can emotionally bond with plenty of women just to fulfill regular, non-romantic, friend needs. It’s like girls who hang out with guys who are in the friend zone. It’s because she also has regular, non-intimate social needs, and she uses some guys just for that. She’s not dumb. She knows they want her. But she has a need for regular friendship so she uses them for that. It’s not a bad thing. It’s just how it is. Funny …
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:56 PM
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Fuck her first, then ask her what she’s looking for. I had a few girls do this to me before I realized they also just wanted to fuck. A lot of “shy” girls are shy because they don’t want to admit that all they want is the D.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:58 PM
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Build your social circle first. A solid group or two or three of several friends that are involved in healthy activities. Drop your standards one or two notches on the dating apps temporarily. Go after some 6’s. You’ll naturally be more confident in the dates. When you move back to dating 7’s and up, you’re training (experience) will help you get further.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:04 PM
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This is a fantastic response. I always found that when single, my single best way to find a girlfriend (or girls to date) was to become as social as possible - say yes when friends invite you to group activities or organize some yourself. If you don’t have many friends yet, then find group activities of things you like or things you’d like to try. When you’re joining activities that expand your social network, often you’ll meet people who are also recently single and trying to expand their socia…
/r/askTRP07/05/21 08:04 PM
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That seems extremely risky. I would definitely ask much much earlier. By the time you get to “up until sex” ... You know the rest
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:36 AM
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A temp arrangement for sure. I agree with everything you say. Girls who ask me for money have no respect for me. Though they usually weed themselves out and disappear in short order. This one’s been around way too long so maybe it is a sunk cost syndrome.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 02:46 AM
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Hehehe I’ll try asking her for money next.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 02:39 AM
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My success has come without physical escalation. I can’t fully explain it. At some point she’ll come to my place or I’ll go to her place. It will always be any reason except sex. Maybe to look at a book. Maybe to continue the drinks. Maybe I got to her place after we went to a park. If she makes any comment about being tired, I suggest lying down or snuggling up together. Lay down, lift up your arm with the universal invite to snuggle. She’ll snuggle up. Wait a bit and let it happen. Obv this is…
/r/seduction30/04/21 03:16 PM
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“Now we look like the male version of FDS” Underrated comment of the week
/r/askTRP28/04/21 06:26 PM
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Noobs date hot girls, act like betas, get rejection, feel the pain. Noobs date average girls, act normal (what some here will call “alpha”), get some lays and some confidence. They date a hot girl again and go back to beta. With enough experience, you start to identify your weak behavior when you’re with a girl you actually like, and learn to behave the way you would with an average girl. After you identify your own behaviors that need to change, you realize that the biggest shift is addressing …
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:21 PM
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I’ve experienced a higher incidence of catfish too. Interestingly enough, doing a video call beforehand has upped my success. Nothing crazy, just some fun banter for 10-15 minutes. If they are willing to do that, then they’ll also do a date.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:05 PM
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Single moms are almost always pleasant, imho. They are very aware of what they have to offer, and they can no longer get by with as much bs.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:04 AM
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This post is better than 99-100% of the paid content out there.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:10 PM
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