r1muwu Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	I’m done being nice	Rant	r1muwu	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 04:27 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	What are positive aspects of being divorced? I have peace of mind for the first time in years I’m actually saving money and not living paycheck to paycheck. My anxiety is much less I have time to pursue hobbies and skills that I couldn’t when I had to take care of my ex.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/26 01:55 AM
1	After 11 years, I finally filed. Here are the real reasons and they're not what anyone expects Filed for divorce a while ago now just answering Ops question. But yes I gave up far too much to make a toxic relationship work.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/26 07:29 AM
3	After 11 years, I finally filed. Here are the real reasons and they're not what anyone expects Nothing that I said was important was ever given priority i paid for her degree and a trade certificate with the expectation that she would go to work afterwards so i could work part time and get my own degree finished… that never happened. I was constantly told I wasn’t doing enough around the house when I was working 80 plus hours a week and she was at home full time by her choice. She spent money faster than I could make it on I don’t even know what then blew up on me for buying a gas station…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/26 01:54 AM
1	I’m done being nice No kids and title and mortgage are still in my name her name is just on the title	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 07:19 AM
1	I’m done being nice Next to nothing I’m having to hunt them down to get any feedback half the damn time	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 07:18 AM
1	I’m done being nice At the time I was extremely upset and didn’t want to do something drastic. So for my safety and continued freedom I left. I’m aware it wasn’t the smartest move but at the time it was the only option I felt would avoid violence.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 05:06 PM
3	I’m done being nice Unfortunately when I was young and in love I put her name on the title believe me I’ve explored the heck out of this option	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 05:03 PM
1	I am not doing well. Alcohol is a depressant so drop the drinking. Spend time in the sun go to the gym all the basic self improvement stuff	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/25 09:29 PM
8	Why wait to hook up? Wait dude just wait… 1 the courts may consider it infidelity and that fucks you across the board 2 youre an emotional mess right now whether you want to admit it or not. My dad in his last couple divorces started dating right away and to nobody’s surprise except perhaps him married his rebound and got divorced again.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/25 02:02 AM
6	Why isn’t there a divorce hotline for men? Yup been rough going through this whole process and while I have some resources to lean on many don’t. I feel like an app that streamlines how to get the paperwork together and some basic coping/therapy skills mixed with links to online communities like this one can go a long way to keeping more of us from becoming statistics.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/25 11:56 PM
6	She bought lingerie… First is to lay some ground rules while cohabitating and hope she’s a decent enough person to abide by a reasonable set of boundaries and try to either get her out or yourself out whichever works best for you. Second is to disconnect all accounts and finances from each other.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/25 01:54 AM
1	Who all is spending Valentine’s Day alone? I’m working and so is the stbxw she’s going to party with her coworkers afterwards and I’m going to go out to eat by myself.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/25 05:43 PM