| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 33 | Where do lone gym rats like me (M29) go out to meet girls? I need day-game ideas. | Logistics | r1pp3r_10 | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 06:51 AM |
| 8 | "Attract, don't chase." I wonder where that has taken you in life. Are there exceptions to chase assertively? | Lifestyle | r1pp3r_10 | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 12:06 AM |
| 2 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark. | Logistics | r1pp3r_10 | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 07:52 PM |
| 0 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity. | r1pp3r_10 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/25 06:25 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | "Attract, don't chase." I wonder where that has taken you in life. Are there exceptions to chase assertively?thank you so much for your response. I agree with you | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 07:33 AM |
| 0 | Work on Social Skills Firstyeah, but it was a good reading | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 10:01 PM |
| 6 | Where do lone gym rats like me (M29) go out to meet girls? I need day-game ideas.So, I tried it today and it was a blast. I met cool people there, mostly dudes lol, but they have my same vibe and it was cool to meet people alike. They were very friendly. When I got to the venue I greeted everyone with a fist-to-fist greeting saying “hello nice to meet you” “are you running?” just small talk. I felt my social skills showing up again. There were three pretty ladies, who may have gazed at me, I don’t know exactly, but since I was the most jacked guy there honestly, I believe so… | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Where do lone gym rats like me (M29) go out to meet girls? I need day-game ideas.I will totally try volleyball! I used to play when I was a beach lifeguard | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Where do lone gym rats like me (M29) go out to meet girls? I need day-game ideas.People at my gym don’t even look up or face you, so you don't have the opportunity to say hello. I think I will have to take the first step and say ‘Hey Hi’ even if they haven't noticed me or don't make eye contact first. | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Where do lone gym rats like me (M29) go out to meet girls? I need day-game ideas.Mexico | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Where do lone gym rats like me (M29) go out to meet girls? I need day-game ideas.I want to meet a gym goer. | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 07:59 AM |
| 5 | Where do lone gym rats like me (M29) go out to meet girls? I need day-game ideas.Damn it, I’m going for the run club, there are plenty of them in my town. | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Where do lone gym rats like me (M29) go out to meet girls? I need day-game ideas.Thanks for the insight. I’m Trying to step my feet on the door with this. Any practical advice? | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 07:29 AM |
| 7 | I ruined itDon’t do it | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.The situation is the opposite here in Mexico. I’m taking 1000 USD (18000 MXN) a month. Government here pays peanuts to lifeguards. Which is decent here. But I get you, girls may be thinking the same as you. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 12:57 PM |
| -1 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.I do, and I do it pretty well. As I mentioned before, I don't plan to do shit risking someone's life or my job | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 09:43 PM |
| 2 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.Unlucky no cutties work here | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 08:51 PM |
| 3 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.Not trying to be one lol. I really meant it. I can't play games trying to get the hottest girl around when I’m at work, on duty, or not. So the fallen apples will be the best options, already showing interest I don't think they are going to complain if I hit up. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 08:50 PM |
| 2 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.Great advice. It suits perfectly to my situation perfectly. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 08:43 PM |
| 3 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.I even worry about girls complaining to my manager about me being pushy or idk. So, I’ve never approached clients before, even outside working hours… until yesterday. As other commentators say, the best way is to hit up only those who show interest. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 08:38 PM |
| 2 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.What you mean by hit up other guards? Female lifeguards don’t exist in Mexico, lol. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 08:35 PM |
| 0 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.Sure, always do. That’s why I haven’t got a pick up in 10 years of lifeguarding. I worry too much about my job. But now loneliness is getting me. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 08:24 PM |
| 7 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.I might get a promotion after doing this, great idea. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 07:57 PM |
| 1 | What would you do? I’m a lifeguard at a waterpark.Lol. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 07:56 PM |
| 3 | For Anyone Asking How It All Went Wrong - ResourcesClarity helps a lot. It's like opening Pandora's box; a lot of things come out of it. I mean clarity in what happened to you, and what happened to her. In my specific case, it helped me not to spiral down so hard into guilt. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/25 05:49 AM |
| 2 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.Thanks for your kind words. It truly made me feel better about my decision. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 05:57 PM |
| 2 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.Sorry you went through that. That's what I wanted to avoid, looking back at life and feeling like I wasted my partner and my potential. And thanks for sharing your story. It gave me a picture of what could have happened if I would had stayed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.I’m on it already. Thank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.Yeah sometimes I can't help but cry | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.Thanks for your words. Haven’t seen it that way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.I am. Also trying to be a better man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/25 07:57 PM |
| 0 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.Bro, I was a kid… One doesn't come to life knowing everything about relationships or oneself. Don't you think I wouldn't have married if I knew I was going to fuck up? I thought she was the one. I feel miserable. A damn disappointment to her, to my family, and everybody who thought we were a happy couple. I know all that is my responsibility and that's why I'm taking action. I just wanted to get off my chest and thought maybe some Divorce Men could get me. This is not the first time I've dealt w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.Thanks for your openness. Tbh, I didn't know the majority of this group are in that situation. Do you know of any subreddit for pricks like me? I mean I don't wanna be it anymore, that's why I divorced and kept distance. And I promised myself I won't play games with girls anymore. Been breaking hearts for a long time and I didn't know how to stop. I just fall in love and then it dies inside me. It's time for me to be alone and change the way I relate to women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.Yes, and amongst other problems. But a new independent life was the decision maker. I’ve been in relationships since I was 13 years old, and hadn't been single for more than a year since then. Sorry for the lack of clarity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/25 06:49 PM |
| 3 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.Yes, sorry for the lack of clarity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Life is cruelhow do you tell? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/25 05:32 AM |
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