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| 2 | Social NPCGreat resource when I was your age, the pua scene gets alot of hate but the framework and workflow are excellent fundamentals. The reason pua gets hate is due to the memorizations of lines and other antics, just follow the structure while incorporating your personality. Also, continue to grind school and working out, you are going through a new experience and will adapt, ie you have the awareness that you say dumb shit..... most of us remember this stage and still cringe at the things that came … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/23 11:59 AM |
| 2 | How can I maximize my odds at a second chance?Pick a day during the week, not on a holiday, and not on the weekend and send her a text that says "I saw a baby at the park today and it reminded me of you." Or something along the lines of "I was thinking of you for XYZ reason." She will be mentally reviewing why, then will txt you back asking why. DO NOT ANSWER give her the run around, and set up an in person event. Make this an action date like bowling or playing pool, darts etc, wrapping up withing 15 minutes of your place or hers. If she a… | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Will any woman cheat on their boyfriend/husban if the circumstances are perfect from a biological standpoint?Stop daydreaming about unicorns and accept that people are flawed. Women like to branch swing. There is no getting around that fact. If you start seeing women as they are and not as you would like them to be, you will have a much better time, and the woman you are with will be happier. A woman would -much- rather share a top guy than to have a relationship with someone who is afraid to lose her. If you give no care for her leaving, you become the prize. You leaving her is the thing that should b… | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Should we wait for "the right girl" or should we keep trying with a lot of them to be sure not to miss the good one ?have an upvote. Playing the field is important when you are just dating. Waiting for the 'right girl' won't get you as far as dating 5-10, then letting the cream of the crop win your affection over the others. also having an abundance will get you much further than a lack of options | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 09:31 AM |
| 3 | Time to ask for major help....You need to get thoughts of 'womanizer' or 'shame' out of your head. Those are societal constructs you have adopted in your self thoughts. Admonishments of shame and guilt are what keeps men from acting as a 'womanizer', which is really deep down what a woman wants. You have to remember women want social calibration. You need to be able to maneuver in any social situation, whether it be socializing with men, talking with attractive or unnatractive older or younger women. Making incremental progr… | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Best way to start a conversation on Tinder or other dating appsThat sounds like good advice: u/SexlessNights has a way to deliver a playful sounding tease that could also get her sense of humor revved up. Your dating coach likely has good advice. You also have to remember: most women have tons of men vying for her attention and unless you make yourself interesting or a challenge, you can also get forgotten. | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 09:05 PM |
| 7 | Best way to start a conversation on Tinder or other dating appsMention something you found interesting in one of her photos, or in the bio. Try to make it something that she put effort into such as her art, her style, or her life details. Not just that she has genetic traits her parents gave her such as a great ass, pretty eyes or hair, or tits that you can't take your eyes off of. | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Tinder is confusingAlso: you could go back through the night and ask yourself if you failed to escalate. I have done this recently and she ghosted me when in hindsight all she wanted was for me to be bold. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | What is the BEST book for Outer Game?Keep in mind the phrase "So how do you guys know each other?" Then mostly ignore the woman you like the most, and charm all the other people in the group. Eventually the girl you like will make herself loud and get in your face because everyone else there is smiling and competing for your attention. Once she starts talking, pull on her sleeve to take her aside from the group. Then close by getting her number or asking if she will come outside for a few minutes away from the music, crowd etc. Onc… | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | help for seduction ? :(Start by using a gesture to stop her, tell her you had to stop her because you are busy, but she arrested your days progress. Mention something she put effort into for a compliment. Use her nails or he style, not her genetic features that caught your eye like her tits or her ass. When talking punctuate moments by touching her. The more you can calibrate touch to being comfortable the more she feels good having you touch her. Close the set within a few minutes by saying it was great having this c… | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Im going to approach herAfter you open her, you mention something she puts effort into as meeting with your approval. "I like your nails (ear-rings, hair style -anything she put in effort on- etc.) You make sure not to tell her you like her ass (tits, figure, eyes, face) mentioning her genetic traits are things she didn't choose to do. They took no effort, and she feels like you don't appreciate her, nor that she has earned your attention if you like her being 'cute'. After you open, talk about her nails etc. she will … | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 01:38 PM |
| 9 | Tinder "date" adviceOf course it's a date. Don't overthink it. Meet her, show her you can be socially calibrated, then wrap things up with a kiss, or go back to your place if it feels right. That's the expectation on a tinder date. If you don't escalate to sex, then she will be disappointed and likely lose your number. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Pick up game roadblockIf you can, try not to share -anything- about yourself. Ask them about themselves and each time they pause you will get a chance to speak. Then say a version of this: "Tell me more about that." Repeat ad nauseam until the girls wind down or they ask your opinion. Never try to talk about yourself. All of our minds are going in circles thinking about what we have to do, our jobs, our hopes our dreams etc. The ability to stuff a cork in your mouth hole and LISTEN is the one thing that will charm wo… | /r/seduction | 28/10/18 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Advice for hooking up with my lady friend?In this comment thread there is no 2 years comment, that was on another thread. That said: if you were with someone else, she had time to be with other people. Most women are seriously open to a guy initiating things with them for the first little while. After 2 years, I doubt she is seeing you as being on her radar. If you really want her, you may have to go out and attract a few of her friends or other women and be comfortable moving forward much faster without verbalizing it. Use subtext, nev… | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Advice for hooking up with my lady friend?How long have you known each other? | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 02:10 AM |
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