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If you're used to receiving $300 to have sex with a man, you'll eventually feel resentment when you're "sort of not in the mood" and your husband wants intimacy. You'll feel like he owes you when you are intimate. Like you're providing this great service for him instead of enjoying each other and building strength in your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 03:25 PM
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I feel like he is the best I can do. Yes, but you might not be the best he can do. The ring is to protect you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 08:11 PM
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Telling a man what to do is the same thing as telling him he's not good enough.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 08:08 PM
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Men with self-respect will avoid you Half true. Hot girls who are bitches are fine for plates.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 03:36 PM
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While it might seem fine to start with, you'll find yourself getting a little excited at other men who have more leadership qualities, and less so with your follower husband, who will seem more like a boy than a man. Sex will slow with your partner and resentment will set in. 99% of the miserable people in /r/deadbedrooms start out like this
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 08:46 PM
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A woman who is appreciative of her man gets +2 to her RMV. A 6 instantly becomes an 8 with sincere thank-yous and actions that demonstrate appreciation. It's so valuable because so many women set the bar so so so low.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 04:32 PM
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To prove your point: Name a famous woman who is dating anyone unemployed. Very hard.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 10:59 PM
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I'm stealing this: Are you asking me or telling me? Because I would never tell you what to do
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 11:05 PM
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The secret is that the friendzoned guys DO sometimes succeed. It's more rare, but it does happen.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 12:32 AM
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I hope you don't let this horrid woman near your husband and children...
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 04:25 PM
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There's a 99% chance you're being a worrywart. Finding a place to move mid way through the month? For a guy who has done it twice before without issue? This is an easy one. Relax, he's got this.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 04:01 PM
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If you need to go to sleep, don't turn on your phone. Do breathing exercises.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 10:49 PM
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He probably was just not taught how. I bet if he learns he'll like it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 10:37 PM
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When there's a leadership void, it's like a vacuum pulling someone in. Resist the urge to become the leader. The ship will sail aimlessly for a while. Resist the urge to grab the wheel again, even if some things are missed. When he makes his first move to take the wheel, be happy and excited and have sex that night. Good sex. Even the most beta male will develop a taste for being in charge. it's in their DNA, but so deep the layers of societal conditioning that it takes some time. Think of an ab…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 06:00 PM
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I think he's letting you dictate the pace since you shut him down the first time pretty firmly. IN the future, when you're shutting down a guy's advances that you ACTUALLY like but are trying to pace things, you need to do a "No" but follow it up with a hint of encouragement. Most guys don't know the difference between a hard "no" and a pacing "not yet".
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 05:51 PM
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A girl being genuinely happy and excited to see a guy, and going a little overboard in showing it is worth a lot. Basically the exact opposite of resting bitch face. Think resting excited-happy-smiling-battingeyelashes face.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/16 07:57 PM
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Perhaps I'm being a little harsh, you're right sometimes you can just be unlucky. If you want to keep the baby and your partner doesn't, I still think the best choice is to abort, but then you should probably also end the relationship as well without a VERY Good reason to stay.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 06:31 PM
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If you got to the stage where you are in a disagreement about an abortion, it's a failure to properly vet the guy. You need to take some responsibility for that. Furthermore, it's a failure to take proper precautions on BOTH sides - not just his. Both need to take responsibility Lastly, for argument's sake, let's imagine you accept both these and decide to parent the child alone. You are now among the thousands of single moms out there. Dating is now much more difficult. Your SMV is much lower a…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 06:05 PM
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Look up Christina Hendricks. Massive breasts, excellent posture. She gets both more approaches and more respect.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 05:58 PM
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why did you delete your post? others could have learned from it... selfish.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 05:55 PM
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I have mixed opinions about waiting for marriage. However, the bottom line is that your husband should be the best sex you've ever had. If he's not, then you're going to have a hard time being in that head-over-heels state for him. It's ingrained in our DNA. Sometimes the problem isn't N count, but in that a high N count means he probably won't be your best, and you'll never feel the way you could have about him. The relationship dynamic is different, trust me. In the main sub they call it 'alph…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 05:46 PM
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Don't forget, you've got to show interest in other ways if you're denying denying denying. Text afterwards saying you had fun and hope to see him again If he asks you out and you already have plans, always reiterate your interest and always suggest another time. "I'm sorry, I would like to see you again, but I am busy on Friday. Saturday I'm free in the afternoon if that works for you :)"
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 05:37 PM
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Evening activities with other kids and their parents. Sports are good. Swimming lessons. Anything at the community centre. There are plenty of other parents there and it's fun. She'll come once in a while and notice you're friends with all the other parents, including hot single moms, but that's not the point. She's missing out is the point. Then she'll scale back her business when she notices how the kids have more fun with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/16 05:26 PM
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Coming from a self declared /r/schizoid ? I take that as a compliment.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 08:17 PM
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I'm sorry, but your comment is what I would expect to find on /r/feminism not here. It's pure hamster and not redpill at all. Edit: I'm going to try to illustrate an example to help you understand. Imagine you start dating a wonderful guy. He's 28 and had 3 girlfriends in the past. Each one he was exclusive within a week and even engaged after 3-4 months. Each time doing more and more romantic things with them, giving them his commitment and all his heart each time. Now he's with you, but it's a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 03:28 PM
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Most people consider being together for 1 year to be the 'honeymoon period'. During this period your perception is distorted and sometimes you can't see the true person. It's also a period of time that a lot of people seem to be able to 'fake it'. Most can't do it for more than a year. That being said, if you get engaged after one year, make sure you leave plenty of time to back out during the second year as the 'true person' reveals themselves. This goes for both genders. I would say 1.5 years …
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 09:31 PM
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I friendzoned him and we were cool afterwards He was never cool with it. Only you were. He's pretending to be cool with it hoping you'll change your mind. That message is crystal clear and you're ignoring it. Face it. You like having the benefits of stringing him around. He pays attention to you, validates you, maybe even supports you emotionally and financially in small ways. The problem is, he's either hurting your own relationship, undermining it in subtle ways, or he's actively preventing yo…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 04:07 PM
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However, if the same 3 dates happened and you later find out she has banged 25 guys within an hour or two of meeting them, but makes you wait weeks and months, that is soul-crushing. Like, any random guy and the panties come flying off, yet she makes you wait? Clearly you're the bottom 4% in her eyes...
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 04:03 PM
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Sometimes I wish I kept my magic cards from you nerdy youth days. I think they'd be worth a fortune. However I know that I needed to throw them all in that dumpster a decade ago to get to the next phase of my life... sigh c'est la vie.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 07:25 PM
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I had fallen really hard for him (my first big mistake, which I'll make sure not to repeat) This was not a mistake. Letting yourself fall for a high value man is how good relationships work. Don't become jaded, it will hurt future relationships. That "I wont let myself fall in love again" attitude works for good romantic movies where the guy will eventually breakdown the heroine's walls, but in real life, you'll walk around with a resting bitchface and be less approachable.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 06:25 PM
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http://www.returnofkings.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/pictorialscale.jpg She is a maximum of 3 who is chasing 4-6's and wondering why she's having problems. That 3 is assuming her personality and demeanor are PERFECT (I doubt it). There are only 3 solutions: lose weight lower expectations to chase other 3's (what she calls settling) exit the dating market and become a cat lady.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/16 08:19 PM
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I knew the answer before I even finished the title.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/16 08:07 PM
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My advice: Lose the weight and then find a better man with your higher SMV. at 200-300lbs you have to settle, and he's probably the best you can get. At 120-150lbs you don't have to settle anymore, you can be a lot more choosy. You can't be red pill at 250lbs.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/16 11:12 PM
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Some ships aren't worth saving. This one is sinking. Go work on yourself, alone. It's way easier. I ended it and I've never been happier. I only wish I did it before I had the kid... Don't make the same mistake. She's giving you an amazing gift.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 07:23 PM
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