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rAFCdadHUSBAND/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/18 10:11 AM
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rAFCdadHUSBAND/r/askMRP30/12/18 06:32 AM
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rAFCdadHUSBAND/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 05:42 AM
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Um. The wife comes home from work and routinely starts a fight about nothing at all. She is fundamentally unhappy about something. Politically it's ok for her to be the man. Biologically, IT ISN'T. Take the damn university job!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 07:22 PM
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Um. The wife comes home from work and routinely starts a fight about nothing at all. She is fundamentally unhappy about something. Politically it's ok for her to be the man. Biologically, IT ISN'T. Take the damn university job!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 06:28 AM
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I'll risk it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 05:32 AM
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Thanks for this post, I've just hit 40 and will go get my testosterone checked plus read that sub ... posts like this are why i keep hanging around this sub. PS, deadlifts 140kg squats 140. Its nice when a 35yo personal trainer thinks she's older than myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 06:53 AM
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Consider a vasectomy - my comment was going to be Get A Vasectomy For the reason that a) at least your insane wife can't get knocked up again b) you need sex to be enjoyable and fun, fur the rest of your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 06:30 AM
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It sounds like you're on point. "I want to fuck women but their behavior and true nature sickens me"... that's the essence of redpill thought.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:01 AM
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If she's doing everything you want her to do then how is she not already a unicorn? what is the problem here? I'm filing this post under 'humblebrag'.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:47 AM
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About 10%of the people reading this can thank the "timing it" method for their existence.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:20 PM
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I gotta ask. How many guys has she had "the talk" with?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:57 AM
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how about "i was on anti biotics which makes the pill not work".
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:55 AM
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TRUSTNO1 makes a great bumper sticker or password :)
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:51 AM
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Not for everyone i know, but I've had a vasectomy so now it's cream. Literally. I believe the smegma (it's the actual term i promise) has certain chemicals and things that she becomes addicted to, such as testosterone, and therefore becomes addicted to you, The Giver Of Life. Women prefer it bare too, dates I've had willing to use a condom have said 'why bother?' after learning that there's no risk of kiddies. On the other hand using a condom is wise for a variety of reasons ... is it 20% of adu…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:48 AM
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Seems to me that, out of the various stages you'll make progressing through TRP education and lifestyle changes, the anger stage is the one most likely to engender a need to rant to internet friends about whatever is on your mind. The calm and collected guys are going about their business, using the information as it was intended. Therefore a bias in what we see online is likely.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:33 AM
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Shall we put it through at 50 votes?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/19 05:37 AM
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I did not mean to sound critical of you and my thoughts are just that, my view and opinions. It sounds like you're doing most things right. 'Peace' ... I'm literally doing tai chi at this time, so it is meant sincerely. Live long and prosper.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:17 AM
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Ok let me clarify my thoughts about the first part; she said that she would do something to organise something by getting in contact with you. She was fully sincere in that moment. Days later she felt no need to call you, and does not see any contradiction in that. She never consciously lied to you. This seems to be where your initial q. originated. Its a male concept "Days ago i gave my word so now i will fulfill my obligation, regardless of new feelings or context." I'm suggesting that you hav…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:39 AM
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"She said she'd get back to me on it" This was an obvious lie, sex is always the man's fault. You still need to UNLEARN to expect women to be accountable or responsible for things. Tell dont ask as others have already said. P.S, her response to you is Luke warm, shell bang but she isn't gagging for it. One could speculate that you are treating her nicely in bed instead of the hard raping she craves ... by definition she can't ask you to be more dominant, can she? Same goes for anal, they want it…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:11 AM
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good work! For whatever reason, your actual attractiveness level is quite high ... And I'm not even sure why you need advice, lol. You're banging these tinder ONS's, yes? Start planning for dates to end back at their place for sex. This way you won't have to constantly wash your sheets/ kitchen table etc.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:54 AM
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Um. I was raised with all of that guilt, shame and fear due to religion. I moved past it. Could you please go read "the God Delusion" by Richard Dawkins then give us your feedback about it here. You seem to be a sensible guy and i wish you well. P.S, i was a virgin until my wedding night. It was an awful outcome and the medal never arrived in the mail like i thought it would.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:45 AM
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See if you can make your teachers laugh. See if you can get guys to choose hang out with you. See if you can get a girl to tell you about her feelings. Post results here.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:39 AM
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When you have no money, the one thing you CAN DO is game. The only reason i don't run more club game is because i gotta be up at 5am- you don't. (This isn't true. I fucking hate clubs.) How much would it cost you to stand in front of the club at closing hour and offer girls a ride/? In Australia "wanna hook up?" Is a reliable opener when the cougar is drunk enough. How much does it cost to get 5 numbers from shoppers at a mall every day? Your beliefs are: "once i have a job i can begin to work o…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 07:24 AM
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We could take this further and say that ego is a delusion, a figment of our mind that has been ingrained into us over time. This is a core tenet of zen buddhism ... What I'm actually getting at, is that you could take apart any minor point if you feel like being technical about it. But the post was ok in general terms, in my opinion. I'll upvote.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/19 06:19 AM
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Yes i think he was perhaps thinking out loud, the feedback will be of benefit to him overall. If he can take the diamonds from the rock.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 07:33 AM
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Sorry to see you getting such a roasting in the comments, 'wage war on inactivity' is a worthwhile thought. And there's time for corrections and improvements as you proceed. Your imperfect plan is still going to be a vast improvement on the life you described. If you are committed to this strategy the naysayers can't stop you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 06:29 AM
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48 laws on audio- I'd be closer to 14 repeats
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/19 05:33 AM
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To start with don't worry so much about potential criticism. You have as much right to ask a sincere question here as anyone. Yes you should lift and live the life you mentioned. Keep expanding your mind also. The Boy Must Die Yes its a huge problem in our society that no clear rites of passage into manhood exist. So, you have to become your own dad. Think hard about your values. Think hard about achieving something great, in line with your values. Assess it yourself - am i doing what i should b…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 12:19 AM
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Tuesdayrain appears to have a good job (in programming) and is likely a good income earner. Hypergamy = IF highvaluehusband > (likelyalternatives) THEN stay. If Tuesdayrain loses value: Hypergamy = IF husband < (likelyorcurrentalternatives) THEN go. Also possible is: Hypergamy = IF husbandsmv < singlehood THEN go.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 06:01 AM
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Holy shit that's a sub? I'll see you all again in 3 weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 05:31 AM
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I love this post. As i had a herniated disc three times over the years, and i assume you don't wan't to repeat the experience, i will offer a little advice; It is directly related to how strong your core and back are. And t's NO COINCIDENCE that your hip flexors are tight and you herniated a disc -presumably somewhere in the L5 region is my guess. The hip flexors connect to your low spine and if they are tight your back will always be in trouble. What works for me on prevention of bad back:- Wal…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/19 06:31 AM
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This girl will get horny then get dressed up, go out and let guys by her drinks and run game until she can decently fuck but tell herself "i was drunk". You'll be at home looking for answers on your phone, the bartender or whatever will be draining his balls. But don't worry! When shes pregnant and needs a beta with a bank job and no nerves she'll definitely get back to you on the app.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 01:07 AM
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She has opened you so that a conversation will happen and then sex can happen. 'Its a sign' that she finds you attractive. Don't even talk about the cigarette at all, just run some basic game and go for the kill.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 01:01 AM
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In your shoes, the fact that TRP is 'quarantined' really sucks. But you can still read the archives and the 50 book reading list. Here's the shortest short version, according to me: Figure out exactly who the fuck you are. Figure out exactly what the fuck you are doing with your life. Fucking do it. Don't listen to fucking anyone.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 12:57 AM
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A genuine alpha character with basic game would have been able to lay them all like carpet. You won't normally see genuine alpha traits on television sitcoms as its too offensive for the target audience, young (liberal) women. Some characters who might be considered alpha are in some of the recent film's directed by Clint Eastwood. Real life examples are better, using fiction to draw conclusions about reality is flawed.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 12:43 AM
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Where the responses were emotional it tends to show that men are emotional first, logical last. This is particularly ironic when those men were making an argument for their own objective rationality. This is what i was getting at. You are welcome to disagree, i will have to consider a clearer way to present the argument.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/19 10:01 PM
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2/3rds of the replies to this post were emotional. I'm moving on.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/19 08:43 PM
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+1 the plan for deleting tinder and cold approaching
/r/askTRP24/01/19 08:38 PM
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But he was able to enter a state of flow while at the gym. Gym is transcendent for this guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 05:21 AM
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Praying =/= meditating ...i have wasted many hours in prayer. It's a long wait for a train that isn't coming.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 05:19 AM
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Thanks for making my point
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/19 01:02 AM
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"Through years of research, physicists have experimentally confirmed with tremendous accuracy virtually every prediction made by these two theories when in their appropriate domains of applicability. In accordance with their findings, scientists also learned that GR and QFT, as they are currently formulated, are mutually incompatible – they cannot both be right. Since the usual domains of applicability of GR and QFT are so different, most situations require that only one of the two theories be u…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 07:15 AM
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Based on your study of it would you agree that when the common person talks about 'logic' they do not fully understand it? Also, is it reasonable for men to conclude that men make greater use of logic than women?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 06:59 AM
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So your point is ...
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 06:50 AM
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2nded
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 05:13 AM
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Logic itself is as true as mathematics. <<I don't see the support for that statement. And logic as a discipline is extremely useful when deconstructing and constructing arguments <<<Is that different to simple reason, intelligence or wisdom? <<<I could not draw anything of meaning or use from the middle paragraph.>>> It's our understanding of it's rules is changing as we gain more data and understanding. <<any examples please? Like the laws of the universe exist independent of our existence. <<<…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 09:45 AM
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Fair enough. I was thinking of simply pointing out that two soldiers, when shooting at one another in war, both feel that their position is logical. And they would both be right.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 09:25 AM
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Where is your support for: Men are Logical. Women are not logical. Women are capable of some logic. Logic is objective. Pick one of your discredited arguments and see if you can prove it without the ad hominem attacks.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:33 AM
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Figuring out that logic is subjective has vastly improved my understanding of men women and the world I could still be wrong but you have not proved it so we are done
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:04 AM
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Math is logic - You can believe in Santa and know that he is not real- Logic is objective - Math is a form of logic - These are just a few of your fallacious statements. Your arguments have been changing along the way which doesn't look good for you. Eg, "women have no logic" has changed to "women are capable of a form of logic".
/r/askTRP15/01/19 01:56 AM
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If "Math is logic" and women do math, then women are logical. Logical, huh. Math is going to exist regardless if logic exists or not. Math is not logic. It is not ' within' logic. It may be orthogonal to logic.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 01:00 AM
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In the past i focused more on bulking programs ... it was my excuse to eat badly. So no, this will be my first time. I really really hate cardio lol
/r/askMRP15/01/19 12:55 AM
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All of your arguments were bad in various different ways. Starting with 'math is a form of logic' i don't see why that would be so. If you care to make this point properly ill read it with interest.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:52 AM
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I'm only speaking about my personal case:- I was Full beta, dead bedroom marriage. My ex was a controlling person and i thought we were being 'equal'. I took Trp and thought 'thank god this makes sense'. I read and learnt the 48 laws of power, the up shot being that her manipulations all became transparent. I was running the MAP hard, but she just took it to mean that i was having an affair bcos i was getting very fit, and never got bitter or upset when there was no sex like i used to previously…
/r/askMRP14/01/19 10:39 PM
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sorry but 1+1 is math. Logic is Greek philosophy. Men also emote and have strong emotion at times. It is self -serving bias to say that men are logical and logic is objective. If that were true men would be objective. Clearly that is not the case.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:08 PM
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There's a great opportunity for you to hit the gym instead now.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:12 AM
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Actually ... logic is subjective. Female reproductive imperatives have different parameters to males.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:11 AM
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I actually wish to 2nd this. Remember that when you run the MAP, it *often* results in positive change. But for a smaller % of wives, it leads to fear of not being in control - this was my situation - and she left altogether. ​ RedPill is good, Alpha is good - but you married this woman. A little Beta comfort now and then is necessary since, after all, you married her. You can go all-hardarse-all-the-time if you want but she may eventually leave.
/r/askMRP14/01/19 04:28 AM
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You say: hi, what's your name? She say: hi, i'm (girls' name). What's your name? ​ When she asks your name it's a green light that she want's to f*** so set up a date, have her agree to it, then get her number for 'just in case' something happens. DO NOT TEXT HER once the date is set up. You can send 1 one 1 only text on the day to confirm - 'Hi, looking forward to seeing you at the show' or bar, whatever. ​ *If she doesn't ask your name: She isn't into you. walk away with dignity, head held hig…
/r/seduction11/01/19 08:14 AM
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Good for you having strong game, and a conscience too.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 08:41 AM
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Solace
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:02 AM
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I hate to boil things down to a meme, but 'if your friends dont support your goals, get new friends" Your old friends wanted you to be successful, but no more successful than them. Make new, higher quality friends - surely this is easier for you now? You're fit, positive and energetic, and you have social skills plus, for bonus points, you now read regularly. Keep an eye out for high quality people, befriend them, and don't talk about TRP explicitly.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 12:59 AM
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No i don't think so. Some of these exist as .pdf's only. I hope i did not create the impression that all the books are on audible ... torrent files are your friend.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/19 02:01 AM
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I'm making it a personal mission to ensure that most or all of the books are available as torrents. Personally, i no longer use hardcopies- i use my subscription to audible.com as a 'permanent' store and it is more efficient and i can listen to books whilst in the car now. Plus hard drive backups. I'm off to lift weights until exhaustion.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/19 05:17 AM
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Seriously, is this getting downvoted? This reply is spot on. I will only add what i have already stated elsewhere; being a virgin until marriage is the worst possible start for marriage. *for men.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/19 05:15 AM
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Thank you it does, especially the last paragraph
/r/askMRP02/01/19 08:36 PM
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I actually don't think any man should get married in the present iteration.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 12:26 AM
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"She's a hoe and still always be a hoe" If you are looking for a faithful woman then you Have Not Taken the RedPill fully. They are all hoes. AWALT is core business. If you think that there are two types of women, as if evolution gave us two species of them, then YOU DON'T GET IT. There are hoes married to high value men, they are loyal due to the deep fear of downgrading to a lesser relationship. This is called DREAD. Incidentally, this woman will be slutty to keep her man. Then there are marri…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 11:18 PM
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Her level of dread: nil.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 10:58 PM
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You were not "thoroughly red pilled" you just thought you were. You willingly gave away power to a woman. It is entirely possible that you are still quite beta. Have you read 48 laws of power recently, and a bunch of times? I also was entirely BP at that age and made the same mistake, I'm now 40 and the mission to erase beta traits is not complete. So Please don't feel judged or criticised...
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 10:51 PM
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I'm afraid not, for a few reasons. Game itself is only an aspect of pursuing your sexual agenda. A Blue pill person can still learn game and get laid, just as he might also lift weights without being a red pill person. The red pill can have application to men who are single, married, chasing women, not chasing women and so on. The red pill itself is orthogonal to women - that is to say, the core beliefs of the red pill don't really say much about women at all. As for Neill Strauss, he keeps his …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 10:44 PM
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This comment is so on point ... and so very, very TRP it makes me weep that it got taken down. Many new guys won't be able to get a proper handle on redpill concepts now. Core RedPill wisdom has been relegated to the comments of r/marriedredpill.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 10:12 PM
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W/evs, you'll lose both ways.
/r/seduction01/01/19 05:26 AM
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This whole post is fiction. By a female who is preaching feminism.
/r/seduction01/01/19 05:25 AM
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Wow, you seem a little butthurt that i used your argument successfully against you. Wise of you to leave this debate gracefully while you can. Goodbye.
/r/seduction01/01/19 05:24 AM
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And is Anne fausto Sterling "susceptible to personal bias"?
/r/seduction01/01/19 05:17 AM
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I see you want to put the onus on me to provide peer reviewed journals when it is you who believes in feminism which never came from peer-reviewed anything. as I said at the outset it is a religious and political set of beliefs... once you can show me a peer-reviewed source to prove that men and women are equal I will respond with equivalent peer reviewed material. Let me make this easy for you; show me ONE belief that came to us from feminism which has subsequently been definitively scientifica…
/r/seduction01/01/19 04:53 AM
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It is obvious at this point that: there is no source material you will accept which disagrees with your views. Twice now you have rejected my sources without checking for yourself. I think you are female. Masquerading as a guy so that you might be taken seriously; unfortunately your highly emotional style coupled with a failure to grasp logic dressed up with the nomenclature of the feminist play book - gives you away.
/r/seduction01/01/19 04:24 AM
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Boys and Girls are different. A documentary series made in norway and the Nordic countries about gender roles a few years ago, worth a look. The Nordic countries eg sweden lead the way in giving women more opportunities.
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:42 PM
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compulsory gender roles. Are largely set in our biology. The scandinavian states poured billions of Euro into getting closer to employment parity across all industries; it didn't work. When women don't have to go into science technology engineering and mathematics, they don't. Because that stuff is better suited to men.
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:16 PM
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Feminism does not argue that men and women are the exact same gender for a generalized perspective. But, they did. ​ As for lies from feminism here's a bunch from google. Many of these are from women and feminists. ​ Men and Women's brains are different; if your personal observations aren't convincing you then here is one of the articles about it. __________________________________________________________ I may owe you an apology; we don't normally free a mind past a certain age. It's dangerous,…
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:06 PM
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R/hotornot
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:22 AM
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That's a really great question, one that i asked myself the other day. What I learned: get some photos of yourself doing things. Not selfies. Do you have outdoor activities planned? Do a bunch of stuff over the next 12m, and get pics of it all. One with a dog, doesn't have to be yours. If you got abs, Chuck it in there - use a photo of yourself in a kayak or wakeboarding or holding a board so that your shirtless pic looks non staged. You wearing a collared shirt can help, and you IN THE MIDDLE o…
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:18 AM
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Get a job, move out. Some real life pressure might make you understand adults a little better. Learn karate, beat the shit out of them in about 3 years. Or you may learn to respect yourself and others along the way. Please do a follow up post :)
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:12 AM
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Bang, and Day Bang by RooshV are both very specific about techniques and methods. Groups: "How do you all know each other?"
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:09 AM
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PPS; you went to pizza evenings with lots of liberal women and didn't get laid, did you. They were nice to you because you werent a threat - once they realized you were asexual they paid you as much attention as the carpet. We can all be friendly and down to earth with puppies and small children. One more thing. DO YOU EVEN LIFT, BRO?
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:59 AM
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Feminism taught us all that men and women are the same. You can't see a problem with that? A feminist wrote that ideally, men should be flaccid during sex since the penis is itself a symbol of patriarchal dominance (or some such shit). An outlier, you say? She was one of the top 50 feminists authors of all time. Feminism is a mental disorder, having the worst traits of religion and politics without any benefits. It is you sir, who does not understand the beast you are dealing with.
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:56 AM
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Respecting people is very, very hard once you get to know them.
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:41 AM
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Owned it. You do realize that a feminist can't ever be wrong and won't respond to logic or the evidence of direct first hand experience ...right? I liked the game is about winning part ... game is about winning sex, specifically. They have it, i want it = Game.
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:37 AM
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When the student is ready, the master appears. Wasn't it owen cook who was laughing at all these guys who spend a couple years learning game, then turn around and 'realize' that "I never really needed game anyway".
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:30 AM
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'Working Girl' Escort
/r/askMRP30/12/18 11:02 AM
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Do you flirt with other women? Have you read sex god method? For that matter, how are you doing with the reading list - its 50 books, have you read them all? Sounds like you have the good beta traits but could use more Alpha ... what's your level of dread?
/r/askMRP30/12/18 09:42 AM
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Nice. I'll keep that in mind. Like many people i have gone through dry periods from time to time. Committing to it permanently will be a lot simpler.
/r/askMRP30/12/18 07:42 AM
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Hes an alcoholic ... if you dump him i imagine your friends and family will thank you. He may then have a trigger to change for the better.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 07:01 AM
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Thankyou, looking into it now
/r/askMRP30/12/18 06:38 AM
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I'm applying the lessons of this post to myself ... right after i took TRP divorce hit, it has been difficult to stay on track. My SMV is still too low for these kinds of results that OP is enjoying, however my fitness is getting better. My financials have lagged. N- count is at 30 which is not bad but not playa figures ... Being a virgin until your wedding night is not a recipe for success imo. Thanks for the lesson that TRP absolutely works. +1
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/18 05:26 AM
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"Dont Argue" =/= "say nothing" and everyone else got that. I never said any of that other stuff you invented.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/18 08:46 PM
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You only really control yourself. Your own, better, behaviour may have induced better response in your wife. Or it might not have. You may have chosen to never accept and come to peace with your sons death (Im truly sorry). You are still in control and occasionally at fault of your own emotions.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 07:05 AM
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I don't think so. It will work if she's attracted to you. If not attracted, you get a 'no' and save wasting time. Girls don't mind being asked, they are generally kind about it if you did it right and they decline. They only really mind if you KEEP GOING - every attempt after she says 'no' is creepy and will make her uncomfortable. Girls never have to man up and approach ... so they understand reality is that it's the man's job. Source: yes i get numbers and dates during the day, but im no maste…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:38 PM
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Emotions are addictive as crack to women. Make your opening comments emotional, then sexually suggestive in 1or 2 minutes. It does sound like you are being innocuous and polite, which sadly doesn't work. Black nails girl: You with big fuck off grin and too much volume; hey are you going to suck my blood? Hb- no, laughs You- Aww. Darn it. Sad face. Girl- laughs again. Later: Circumvent asking for the number: [ something cool] is happening (soon, Friday night, w/e) Do you want to go? Yes, because …
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:37 AM
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This conversation can only really happen if you stay too long after sex and she has your number. Besides, i think you just said it.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:18 AM
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What a great post. You are progressing toward the top of your mountain, when you get there you will see only a few other people at the top of their mountain. Perhaps you will meet one person who is worth keeping in your life. Since your judgment seems to be excellent, I'm not sure that the internet has much more to offer you. "You do you" is normally left wing hippy crap, but in your case it may be the correct advice. The only specific problem you have is self doubt. Discard it like you did with…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:11 AM
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We need to know the age of the girl ... Boy wants to fuck. 22yo gf wants to fuck get knocked up and be a mom with a father who will be present, hopefully. Make her mother proud. 32yo single mother of 2.3 kids just wants to fuck. Men sometimes forget that sex is about reproduction for the girl, it's a deep seated biological drive that may carry a lot more weight than your 'game'. I can read about game from books, her game is HARDWIRED IN EVERY STRAND OF HER DNA. This may be what actually went wro…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:58 AM
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+1 "I KEPT LIFTING" -i think the OP hasn't got enough credit here yet- +1 Made a plan to be Alpha and follow redpill to.the.letter. Overshot, but holy shit it's refreshing to read "wuz 2 Alpha" instead of "i wuz such nice wut hap'n?" +1 for holding the line and executing said plan. +1 if he learns to calibrate better in the next relationship. Possible -1 for whining.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:50 AM
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I believe the Married man sex life primer by Athol kay endorses using both alpha and beta qualities to full effect... within the context of marriage, of course. Ymmv
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:42 AM
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Yes it does sound like he wss pretty brutal. Does anyone else think the girl might come back for some chad in the future simply because he was such a hardarse?
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:35 AM
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I didn't see the original post, however let me say this: both sides are not only reasonable, there is a meta level here we should consider. How far along the AWALT line are you? The bitter, divorce raped and cheated on guy will fall into the "no never" camp more likely than a guy who is 2 years into a happy marriage and hasn't been hurt. Yet. The 'Recently quit pro football to go into international banking" guy will probably be relaxed about trusting his wife, too. So it is with considering the …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 05:23 AM
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Many thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 03:15 AM
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Exactly. Have you read "the report from iron mountain" ? Chillingly accurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/18 01:13 AM
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Yes exactly so.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/18 08:02 PM
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Kpwn88 it sounds like things are working out well for you in your marriage on a redpill basis. Is it a reasonable guess to say that you two don't argue much?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/18 07:45 PM
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Actually i believe that voting makes no real difference, which is why they let us vote. So sure, why not let women vote? I have tried to keep the post as short as i can, so I've not gone into gritty detail about everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/18 07:43 PM
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I wonder if he would still get it 3x week with little or no initiating at all... isn't it possible that she simply wants it that much so that's what is happening?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/18 05:33 AM
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"She cuts it off long before then though." Perhaps we are talking about different things. Get yourself an erection. Fuck her against the kitchen bench. You made it sound like you are waiting for permission to be dominant ... Can you see the logical contradiction? Cut out the vanilla sex intro.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/18 02:34 AM
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Re boring sex; i noticed that if we had a huge fight in the a.m, there would be passionate sex that night. Perhaps due to women's addiction to emotion, it may be worth a try if you want to experiment. Per david deida, she wants to feel connected to your heart. 2, has she got fantasies about something a little more brutal than the vanilla you are delivering? Since being single I've discovered that some women NEED to be choked, slapped, raped against the wall, sex in a car and do on. I don't want …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 06:17 AM
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I'd like your thoughts about the effectiveness (for her in particular) of the following position; Starting with basic missionary position, she links her hands behind your neck and her ankles around your waist. You (the male) lift up and into a canine position. That is, you are on all fours and holding her almost completely off the bed. So, her body will result in a 'C' shape with her pelvis pointing toward you, which results in excellent G spot stimulation. I look forward to hearing back about t…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 01:15 PM
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Those that have children, I think would be the majority would say yes. Because of the joy the children can contribute to your life. I am father of 2 beautiful girls, they are 4 and 1. I am currently running the MAP and basically planning an orderly divorce in about a year. I have been consistently running MAP and some mild dread game on the wife, with unfulfilling results. I would still say 'No' if I could hit rewind.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 12:55 PM
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No. It is betaizing arrangement which hands power to the woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 12:49 PM
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I dont know what the fuck to do with her when she's like this. Do I just say "Look, I'm not enjoying this, lets talk another night"? Hang up. 2nd date rule applies.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 12:45 PM
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These always turn into arguments with her rolling her eyes. Saying shes "Damned if [she] does, damned if [she] doesnt" and all sorts of irrational things. Usually she just makes up shit I havent said. Like I'll say "I dont like it complain" and she'll say "You think I ALWAYS complain" ... No, I said "WHEN you complain, I dont like it..." fuck it makes me mad. When your woman can win logically, I bet she is clinical as a triage surgeon. Stop paying attention to what she says. It is clear that ver…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 12:44 PM
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Example: Today I was telling her that I dont want to travel with her anymore, last time was a bitch fest and I'll either go by myself or she'll have to accept it will be less often because she demands so expensive shit (like $200 a night hotels). Make the bookings, ask if she is attending or not. She will very likely say 'no' to shit test you, if you pass the test she will get tingles and come with you instead. Fancy hotel not required, just maintain frame - I'm drawing from a direct personal ex…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 12:40 PM
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wife is in school and often seems to give me shit tests when she's tired No, she is giving you shit tests constantly and you aren't spotting them. By author Frank B. Kermit "Everything out of her mouth is a test." If you want to understand the 10 emotional needs that women have, then you need to read that book. It's out there somewhere as a .pdf ofc there might be other needs of women, the book could just be a rant by some random guy... but read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 12:37 PM
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Wow, that was some next level shit, Exactly on the money. My nipples are hard. 48 Laws of Power + TRP + MGTOW + Dark Triad.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 12:31 PM
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Part of me resents her for requiring so much work. Like keeping a child or something. You have struck on the truth - you need to treat this woman like a child, and the more you do it the better her behaviour will become. I have a wife and a 4 year old daughter. I have learned to stop myself arguing with either one. Neither one of them gets the privilege of arguing with me as if we are equals, as if we can negotiate and come to terms.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 12:24 PM
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I had technical difficulties formatting the above post correctly...I hate that. A note about Item 3. You don't have to actually do it. You just need to install some dread game/asshole game to get her hamster spinning. Men and women treat assholes differently, get onto chateau hartiste and search 'alpha buddah' if you don't believe me.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 12:14 PM
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I guess part of me really wants to know her and talk to her, another part of me hates when she acts like a child. You will have to be the adult in your relationship. I'm only just realising this myself, after reading stuff like: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/160b5u/woman_the_most_responsible_teenager_in_the_house/ She is a child, it is not an act. Also, I notice that my wife will speak to me as equals when it suits her, but to avoid taking responsibility she will drop into 'child m…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 12:06 PM
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sololupe, i'm glad that this struck a chord for you. It has been the biggest realisation for me in about the last 10years or so. Unfortunately your wife is the one person you can't really fool. If my life is to be valuable, I can't pretend that i'm talking to a drunk 22yo at a club, it has to be for reals. Keep suckling dude, photos welcome :)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 11:09 AM
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I am: Father of 2 girls, employed, live in Australia, both 36yo, wife is still skinny but not fit. And doesn't see sex as all that important, so it happens less than I like. I'm reasonably fit at 94kg and 180cm. My long term behaviours were certainly Beta and wrong, i'm working on changing lifelong beliefs and habits. This is slowly working on wifey but the sex is still predictable PIV though. Some details of the changes follow; REALLY Owning my Shit: The biggest thing recently is that I went to…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 04:28 AM
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The coupon is gold - No means Yes Yes means Anal. Coupon='Yes to All' surely! or Yes to: Watch porn and replicate the scene no matter what. I bet this woman has a rape fantasy. On a serious note, she can't tell you to be more alpha/explore your fantasies/stop being a pussy, etc. Because if you follow through, you're still only doing it within her frame and minus your masculine power. But if you start to get your sexual needs met, with her, she might finally feel that you have no need to look els…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 03:26 AM
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"Not all LTRs are marriages, but all marriages are LTRs." =TRUE "The dynamics in them are the same." =FALSE Perhaps it is for the best that you are not married.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/15 01:26 AM
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