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Experiment with things that interest you or that you think you “want to do with your life”. If you have an interest, take action with it. That will grow you.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 11:23 PM
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Something’s off. if you use porn, stop if you jerk off to Instagram, you’re still using porn, stop if you jerk off at all, stop if you suspect test is low, get it checked if you think she won’t do that “thing” you really like, do not force her, wait out the months to see if you can incorporate it if you become more “dominant” or if you don’t want to do that...NEXT if that “thing” you really like is a weird submissive fetish that you developed watching porn so you’re embarrassed, try to kill that…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 10:31 PM
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This is the only answer that holds up over time. An alpha is as Rollo Tomassi puts it, “any man who is his own mental point of origin”. It doesn’t matter if the whole world goes left, he will go right if that’s what he wants to do. If everyone’s favorite color becomes blue, but his remains red, he’s gonna stick with red cause that’s what he wants to do. He doesn’t need to show these decisions off to everyone either. Nobody might know that his favorite color is still red, but it still is. Further…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 10:16 PM
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Yes it’s worth it. TRM is for learning IMO
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:18 PM
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You cannot wait for evidence. All you can do is Break up if you don’t want to be with her Stay if you do, and look out for evidence There’s no specifics or intricacies, that’s it. No need to confront, no need to do anything. Make a decision one way or the other and make it work. Think about the long term ramifications and ask yourself if it’s what you want from your life
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:15 PM
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In good LTRs this doesn’t exist You fuck when you want, or when she wants and when you’re in the mood. If you feel like fucking you do
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:04 PM
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There may be ethnic differences in genetics, but that is unclear and the short answer is NO It can’t matter in this life Whatever you are, you have to be the proudest fucking one there ever was. Be sexy to her by being happy that you are what you are, we are all given something
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:03 PM
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Stop sniffing feet then sniff some after a few days
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:10 AM
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Women in their 30s may be more humble because 1) they’ve hit the “wall” and have been humbled by age 2) generationally young women today are being FLOODED with attention, so they are more likely to be all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:27 AM
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Pleasant for me, isn’t a great descriptionBUT I think guys mean pleasant as in someone who is supportive of them, and feminine, from a Red Pill perspective. This means not trying to lead the relationship, falls into their frame, and supports them in their endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:24 AM
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Yes, both guys and girl. They don’t really have a type. I’m sure you know what I’m gonna say. This is the way I see it. Women may cheat with guys who are “more” alpha. And men may cheat with any other random girl they find hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:18 AM
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1) I like a lot of stuff that people may consider kinky. I’m very open with my partners, depending if they seem open to the same things. Most of it is stuff that I find a decent amount of women enjoy. 2) most fetishes IMO girls will express depending on your frame. Say a girl likes to be dominant, and I’m not too into that, we probably wouldn’t mesh, but she may not try and be dominant around me, cause it’s not my frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:16 AM
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Male friends
/r/askTRP10/07/19 08:45 PM
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Haha fair enough, but then thats very theoretical. I agree with the caveat to your argument, I believe there are objective truths. In this made up world, yes the 8s would be the ugliest, but oh well, that’s life
/r/askTRP09/06/19 02:54 PM
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Us guys in the world today don’t seem to get this. YOUR GIRLFRIEND SHOULD BE BEGGING TO BE WITH YOU. Boyfriends have fallen so far down, I see it everywhere. These aren’t relationships. Your “GF”, your wife, should be someone who tries her best to please you, even if she may fall short sometimes. That’s acceptable. Being the kind of girl that “won’t fuck her BF in a car” isn’t acceptable. You may only realize this over time unfortunately, but start today, stand up for your self worth! Leave now …
/r/askTRP09/06/19 02:05 PM
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They stop you from an addiction (porn) and they ensure you aren’t depleting your testosterone as frequently Not watching porn anymore will also save you from developing a whole bunch of issues related to porn that porn addicts develop
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:52 PM
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Masculine vs feminine isn’t the same as good and bad. Masculine men will always be more sexually desired than betas. If every man were to become masculine, it means they’d all probably get more pussy than they did before. The reality is that we haven’t seen a past nor present where this has happened yet.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:48 PM
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TRP is hard for “blue pill” people to understand. It’s just the reality. It’s a philosophy based on actual self improvement which means hard work, which equals painful to accept for lots of folks in the “masses”
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:02 AM
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Maybe you are bad at escalating haha but don’t worry if they shit test you. You shouldn’t care if they get pissed. Just go to sleep, take care of yourself first, it’s always better to focus on girls who want it without a doubt
/r/askTRP07/06/19 11:57 PM
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Either dread her or dump her. You gotta do what your gut feels, and here you feel something is off, however you don’t confront something like this because she’ll just do it behind your back. What you always gotta remember is that you have to do what feels in line with the person you WANT to be.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 12:51 AM
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“What that was about” is that she’s just being a girl
/r/askTRP13/05/19 08:31 PM
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Be straightforward. You just have to be direct, you shouldn’t worry about widowing them, it’s not as if that’s your goal
/r/askTRP13/05/19 08:28 PM
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Yes, it communicates that you do what you want with your body. You’re “more of a badass” than the guys who won’t get them for job reasons or whatever the fuck. That being said, only do it if you want to. Should never feel forced
/r/askTRP13/05/19 08:22 PM
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Apologize if you were wrong. But other than that the best way to stop thinking about it, is just to literally stop thinking about it. Allow yourself to move on if that’s what you want.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 08:13 PM
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The guy who sees himself as the star, the prize, the boss, etc. Everything else is secondary
/r/askTRP13/05/19 08:11 PM
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Women are a need for all of us. You can do that stuff to get women as long as you don’t rely on women for validation. Needing to be “liked” by women will communicate that you don’t deserve them.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 07:34 PM
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Just offer another option, If it happens over text, do something else, then hit her up at a later date for coffee or something.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 07:26 PM
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1) envy 2) Many times “betas” are conditioned to be “nice” guys so they don’t understand the naturally cocky self-image of some Chads. Men are men all around. and many chads just feel more justified in being cocky than less secure guys because they have a better self image This is something anyone can change
/r/askTRP13/05/19 07:25 PM
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IMO If you were asleep, and nobody told you about it the next morning ... either confront him or phase him out. You: did something stupid in the eyes of TRP, maybe it’s a lesson learned But do NOT listen to any of the pussy responses in here saying it’s open game on your “FWB”. If any “friend” hits on any sort of girl you’re with and it isn’t understood by the group that she’s “for the boys” Then they arent your friend. TRP needs to start calling out the retards “It’s HuMaN naTure” - the biggest…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 02:14 PM
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“Becoming a Barbarian” by Jack Donovan talks about the individual, first few chapters alone are pretty worthwhile
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:37 PM
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A lot of it is just the beats/melodies... But otherwise it’s because people want to relate to the feeling of being the “badass” guys in the song. It’s actually a little funny, I was listening to a rapper talk about how he was going to “fuck someone’s bitch” the other day and I thought how funny. A generation of entertainers who talk about fucking the girlfriends of random Beta nobodies who are afraid that a guy who pretends to kill people for entertainment is going to sleep with his woman. It’s …
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:34 PM
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Stop thinking, start acting
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:25 PM
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This has clearly been already said via this comment but I want to corroborate for anyone reading it’s the truth! ALPHA MALES WIN at the sexual marketplace game in the end - if it’s all a game, then these are the winners
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:24 PM
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Read the sidebar and materials, it’s all in there. It doesn’t matter, if you are high value on paper. Any random small lack of confirmation about how valuable you really are - especially attitude - can trigger a girls revulsion.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:04 PM
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Break up, legitimately If it pisses you off, take control of the one thing in life you can control. Yourself And move elsewhere
/r/askTRP11/03/19 09:06 PM
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Just practice. If you keep it pushing towards the direction of being more standoffish and less nice-guyish, eventually you will become like that
/r/askTRP08/03/19 09:47 PM
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Stop worrying. You seem to have some worries. For example: You: “I make progress everywhere besides women” Your subconscious: “oh no, WTF WILL I DO?” This effects the way you do all of the following: - enjoy your free time -approach women -fuck women In this case——— stop worrying. If you’re doing the actions, the part that you need to “fix” is the mindset. And the first step here is to stop worrying about it.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 09:28 PM
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“My weeks been good thank you” What you and many people who ask similar questions need to figure out IMO is....what do YOU want? Do you want the sex? Go for it! Do you feel disrespected? All right, she can FUCK OFF then! That’s TRP!! The beauty behind it lm not one for specifics. The sidebar is the best place. YouTube Red-pill podcasts are the best place. The books are the best place. THE MINDSET behind TRP creates within you the ability to handle these situations the absolute best that you can
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:14 AM
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Especially since it is your first time, my big tip is...DONT worry....even a bit. Sex is about doing what you feel. If you never had sex before you won’t know how it’ll feel. Focus on enjoying yourself. You shouldn’t worry about seeming like an amateur. Why would it matter? You’ll lose the girl? One-itis?... See where I’m going? if you’re following TRP, it’s probably best you don’t slip down that path Get OUT of your head and fuck the girl. It’s all thoughts. Tell yourself you’re the man while y…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:52 AM
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Is this real?
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:02 AM
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22? You haven’t missed your 20s yet my man
/r/askTRP26/02/19 06:50 AM
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Men “not trying too hard” is synonymous with an IDGAF attitude aka outcome independence which is popular on TRP. This is mainly why. She wants to get off, but the guy who is focused more on his OWN pleasure than hers is the more “selfish” “jerk” “bad-boy” type that was likely to get her into bed in the first place. It signals to her that he puts himself first.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:08 PM
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The only “beta” traits she really desires IMO are Provider traits. Status, money, and commitment. Commitment being simply that you’ll even agree to an LTR, lots of people won’t. Things like “extra kisses and hugs” or some other shit if that’s what you meant at all are never really necessary. Those are more up to personal discretion/how flirty or “cuddly” or whatever you’d like to be. But IMO women don’t really desire/need those all that much
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:05 PM
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I avoid everyone I think is annoying. If their progressive man hating sounded like malarkey to me (which it does). I wouldn’t even bother. It’s not just me-too for me. But yes I keep it absolutely 100% quiet and removed in the workplace always
/r/askTRP23/02/19 09:34 PM
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You should only approach women... if you want to! That’s all there is to it. Otherwise, spend high school making yourself into the sexiest beast possible and having the MOST FUN possible. When you do these things, the girls will come out of the woodwork like fruit flies in a college dorm. They can’t help but notice. Keep reading the sidebar, it will help
/r/askTRP23/02/19 09:32 PM
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No, you didn’t. End of story
/r/askTRP23/02/19 09:30 PM
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Do what you wanna do, just focus on that. Minimal investment, If you get her you get her That being said thinking all this much about a girl who might be wifed up is a low ROI activity, Plenty of fish in the sea
/r/askTRP23/02/19 09:11 PM
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Frankly, the lying about anything at all seems like a big no-no. That being said, in general, there’s no need to be paranoid. You shouldn’t be worried about “what she will do”. You should always live a life that will make her worry about “what you will do” think about it. If it helps you can think something along the lines of “I don’t need to be worried about this.” “cheating is not going to be the focus of my energy. Lol WTF does she think this is?! this is the Mr.BigBolls show, not the (random…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:31 PM
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Rule of thumb: no need for “serious” declarations about yourself in your Tinder. Something funny, lighthearted, that catches attention. All it takes
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:00 PM
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People might always fuck you over. It seems like you’re doing the work to vet someone. The best indicator is probably time. Has this girl seemed “worth it” for at least a few months to a year before you decide to LTR her? Some would even say over a year. MOST IMPORANTLY ... what do you want? Do you actually want an LTR? Then go for it. You’re never gonna know for sure. If you’re pretty “alpha” in her eyes, the likelihood that she’d fuck you over decreases significantly. But even then, mehhh, may…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 07:58 PM
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Just try and enjoy it. It sounds like you’re afraid of oneITIS happening, even before it happens. It’s great to be safe but remember... You control your thoughts. Remember that. Every time the thought comes up “oh no, she’s so great, I’m gonna fall in love and become a pussy cuckold husband sissy man” Or whatever it is that you think may happen in your subconsious, Just tell it to go away, think of something else. Literally. If you feel very positive towards her just let that happen. You control…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 06:16 AM
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My LTR at the time was at a music festival and I wasn’t there. I had already become “purple pill”. A little more online research just pushed me right into the red pill. Never looked back, love it
/r/askTRP05/02/19 05:52 AM
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No response is better, but if you don’t care it doesn’t matter. You can literally say anything if you don’t care. Why? Because it’s not like you care anyway. If you hold your frame and laugh it off it completely changes the vibe of the comment you made, even if it is a “beta” try-hard thing to say
/r/askTRP05/02/19 05:51 AM
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I’m not gonna tell you have to live your life or how to “fix” your anger solely my opinion. IMO the anger is weird. Especially since you feel so weird about it and came here to ask questions. Also, recognize that from this point of view you got angry at a girl for not taking ENOUGH dick. It seems counter-intuitive to the fostering a healthy relationship and the ideas of TRP. The fact that you “did as you wanted” by getting mad isn’t necessarily beta but that isn’t the problem here. It’s like you…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:40 PM
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Focus on what you actually want to do. Are you at a party? What do you really want? Why are you there? Well you’re there to have fun right? So focus on that. Then you are creating your own frame in your head. You have interests I assume correct? So ... twist the thought process. Instead of .... “I hope I have something in common with this guy so he’ll like me” Try and think this “I wonder if any of these guys like football, cause I really like that and I wanna talk about something I like” All of…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:01 PM
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Simply - do not feel poorly about it. This will stop all the “man I suck”. Just don’t do those. Recognize you are with her and then stop. There’s need to say that out loud. It sounds like a learned behavior you were taught. Most likely, when you were a kid your instinct wasn’t “man I suck” that’s some bullshit you were fed somehow. A lot of us do this. Just recognize the mistakes in your head and keep your cool. Yea you fucked up. Okay, time to move on. No need to shoot for perfection.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 02:45 PM
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Obviously you may already be doing some of these but... Appearance/physical: dressing well eating well to complement your “gains” Mental: -Go out and experience women -work towards something everyday that YOU really want- similar to the gym you will “achieve” a personal goal watch YouTube videos about Red Pill mindset until you start to get the “hang” of it. Then I would suggest taking a break and going out into the “real world” and meeting girls with the new info you have. Eventually you will s…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:39 PM
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You’re welcome for the original message, and to answer your new questions... It doesn’t matter to her at this moment what you guys had. As I said before she chose this guy BECAUSE he is aggressive, and psychopathic. He’s dominant! What you’re seeing is an acute example of how a woman will DROP all her history to be with “The more alpha guy”. It’s just part of this girls nature, and many people would argue all girls. Dont take it personally as cliche as that sounds. The guys in this group support…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 12:08 AM
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. I don’t really think there’s a place to meet these women, I just think it happens. Also, as a guy who considers himself fun, I can turn a lot of interactions with women into “a good time” by controlling the frame with my humor my point of view. It’s like a big game, and they LOVE it. I also tend get really bored hearing about some of the surface level shit girls talk about, so I stay away from it. Either I stay out of the conversation or I “create” a random situation that is fun for me. When t…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 12:01 AM
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Frankly she’s with this guy BECAUSE he is a violent anarchist criminal. We don’t really talk about this enough. It’s not that girls Need criminals, it’s that he’s probably the “most dominant” guy in the area. So he will naturally have some selection of women even though all won’t necessarily want to be with him, even if their hindbrains do. What to do: Cut her off and stop thinking about her. When she pops into your mind, think of something else. Fuck other women, spend time doing things you lik…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 11:42 PM
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I’m going to answer with the following because I believe this is what you are getting at but if not, please feel free to lmk. If you are naturally a humorous guy - then you know what you think is funny. I love jokes. Always have. I have a very comedic view of everything and so sometimes the ideas I’ve seen about how being “funny” takes you out of masculine frame were difficult for me to want to hear and I wondered about them a lot. What I feel these days is more so that humor can be a great expr…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 11:33 PM
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I agree, the girls SMV COULD be low. The other thing as some people pointed out is just the raw emotion the girls get. It’s the “energy” on the guy. They can “smell” the alpha in him. Just from observation, there are actually a ton of random verbal cues, body language indicators, tone of voice, eye contact and a lot of other bullshit that indicate to women what kind of guy you are. And as always remember, girls don’t think of this as “alpha” or “beta”. They usually call it “hot” or “big dick ene…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 11:25 PM
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Being nice most likely gets you dominated because (I believe) human beings are competitive by nature. If they see someone who is “nice” - which is really a synonym for “agreeable” if you look it up - then they believe that person will be agreeable to whatever. In other words MOST people will start to label you as a pushover. First, you have to make sure you aren’t being a pushover, or simply being a guy with no self esteem, because a lot of people who think they are “nice” are really just afraid…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 01:26 PM
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I’m not sure about “true abundance” because abundance in its truest form probably needs to have an abundant selection to choose from. BUT, speaking from experience when I started, you can train yourself to have a very good sense of it by understanding that abundance mentality is a NECESSITY. that you need to be able to drop your girl if she fucks up, that you need to not get discouraged when you couldn’t pull a hot girl from the club. That nothing can phase you. It isn’t the exact same thing as …
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:05 AM
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You may have to next. I’m not gonna go on about that here since you want alternatives. But that’s just the truth in some of these cases. That will give you the most benefit sometimes. IMO that being said - don’t change the way you’re being. I’ve dealt with an LTR like this. Really a sweet girl mine was, not so much entitled but clearly insecure. You’re gonna have to make her yours. Just keep on keeping on. rough sex your frame but most importantly reward her when she’s really doing things for yo…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:57 AM
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One thing that may really help is ———— letting your balls hang more . What I mean by this? Pick out an outfit you really like to wear and wear it. No reason. Go eat some food you really like. No reason. Stop thinking about the qualities you need to fix. For a few days Cat-call a girl from your car. I’m not trying to land you in jail. Just if you see a beautiful girl - “hey, you look gorgeous” tips hat then drive off. Sometimes spending days doing a lot of this stupid shit is really helpful. You …
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:49 AM
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I would say embarrassing yourself may not help. I did it for years and it only helped me when I would perform, I got really good at it! But for face to face interactions, you have to 1) practice talking to someone and maintaining eye contact. And saying exactly the words that you mean to say. Don’t focus on the shaking of your body or the tone of your voice. Just say the information to the people while maintaining eye contact. This was the really scary part of social anxiety for me. 2) In your h…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:32 AM
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There’s two sides I believe. Disagreeing for the sake of it in an intellectual argument is stupid IMO, because if you don’t know what you’re talking about, it’s better to just shut up and change the topic or something. If you mean, when people ask you to do something then here’s some good ways to notice when’s the right time to decline: if what they are asking seems disrespectful to you- you would not ask someone else to do this in their position if someone has been treating you poorly recently …
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:22 AM
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This may be what is happening. People shit test because of our competitive nature. Generally speaking, people are going to shit test you, boy or girl for a number of reasons I used to be VERY annoyed by this. I was up front all the time. No behind closed doors, none of that. I still mainly am, BUT... The people of the world are Machiavellian, we all are, in different ways. Simplified all the way down, we are all seeking power using the advantages we have in the world. If you are an “honest” “up …
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:12 AM
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I also have thought about this a lot. There isn’t a ton that I’ve found on friends from a RP perspective but one guy who talks about friends is Andrew Tate - Tatespeech on Twitter. And I tend to agree with a number of things he says in this regard. I would say that if you want to be a successful Red Pill guy, you should have friends that respect you and are loyal to you. Like you guys are a group of soldiers. Whether they are conventionally “blue pill” or “red pill”. If you are really into TRP i…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 01:58 AM
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Like another commenter said - practice will always make improvement. Just keep doing it. It’ll stick. IN ADDITION, it sounds like you might not believe in the tactics. I may be wrong. However, it’s imperative that you internalize “red pill” beliefs about the nature of women in addition to the actions you have to take. Mindset! As you may already be aware, here are some good sources to learn from online about mindset online: - Red Man Group on YouTube and any of the guys in the red man group. You…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 01:42 AM
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Glad to help
/r/askTRP15/01/19 01:36 AM
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Yea, I bet they do see you as very serious. I remember some instances that this really worked against me. One time there was a group of girls we all just met. I was clearly the most “dominant/scary” of these guys but I couldn’t pull any of them home. Truthfully I was scared but it was buried VERY far down. When we left and everyone hugged them, and I gave the girls all handshakes like a fucking undertaker, didn’t hug not one. One even said “Okay? lol, nice to meet you”. Truthfully, fuck her, who…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:50 PM
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It might just be a bittersweet part of your life for you to look back on. Nostalgia. You sound like you’re experiencing gratitude, it’s a nostalgic feeling, it’s not bad. As long as it doesn’t affect your decisions daily, enjoy it actually.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:52 PM
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A couple of things. I’m speaking from experience. They think you’re the “strong silent type”, they are confused, they think you can’t take a joke - which may be a good or bad thing! They see through you and are bored with what you have to offer. It might not be confidence, but I used to experience this. It’s more of a matter of you probably having very acute social skills, and therefore you carry yourself very tactically and articulately. People are probably just confused. It’s actually a blessi…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:37 PM
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Try trial and error ! I used to hold back a lot during sex. Because I was afraid of going too hard and cumming fast. It had happened in the past. But when you fully let yourself experience all the crazy slow, fast, hard, soft, whatever shit you wanted to experience - you may cum like a broke fire hydrant, but then after a few times, it goes away, you have experience. It really is mostly in your head! At least that was my experience!
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:27 PM
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If you think it is
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:23 PM
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You don’t
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:22 PM
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Underrated
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:22 PM
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Always put your desires before those of your woman
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:22 PM
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You are NOT this guys friend! Look, I don’t care what level of “morality” you’ve decided to drop since you learned TRP, I’ve done the same. But I will say this. You are NOT this guys friend! That’s all there is to it. Morality may be bullshit sometimes but what you’re doing has no honor. And people will recognize it. If your goal is to navigate the world completely on your own, then more power to you. I salute the fellow loner. But you cannot have a friend group and play this shit. It’s absolute…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:19 PM
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If you don’t wanna pay for dates, don’t pay for dates and make her deal with it. If she bounces she bounces. I mean this as seriously as I can. I used to read shit like this on here and think “they don’t get it”. Don’t do shit you don’t want to keep somebody in your life, who isn’t already your wife. Even then it might be better to bounce (in an ideal world without divorce laws)
/r/askTRP11/01/19 05:55 PM
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Here’s what I think when I read this. I’ve never really differentiated between comfort tests and shit tests. I haven’t been on this forum in a while and before today I haven’t thought of the word comfort test in a long time. To me they’re all shit tests. So I treat them like that. Usually I have success. If not then it is what it is. I’m actually in almost a constant mode to deflect shit tests I’ve realized, and I treat a large majority of what girlfriends say to me as such, in one way or anothe…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 05:37 PM
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I think that’s where I have my personal dilemma here. Since this isn’t a common occurrence, my gut feeling was just as I acted- to laugh it off and keep it moving. She hasn’t given me any grief about it since. I know girls sometimes just try to see where you’re at, and by being indifferent as I was, you just reinforce the Person she assumes you are. I just figured I don’t want to set any poor precedents going forward, and that I’m making myself clear, and not misunderstanding some of the lessons…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:47 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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