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I believe this is what Tom Leykis used to call it. Part of his "Hail Mary" was to take her out for an Egg McMuffin after the abortion, then dump her.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 05:29 PM
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Protip: password-protect your phone, because crazy women be crazy.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:16 AM
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I've been here too, man. I had very strong frame for years until I was tied down in a 5 year relationship. I grew soft for her and it was clear that she wasn't as crazy about me as she was when things started. I thought it was a natural thing for a relationship of that length, but in reality, I had slipped and became a beta bitch. Once she was financially stable on her own, she left me just like that. I felt so used and miserable for almost two years after that. I'm still recovering, but life is…
/r/askTRP22/08/14 12:08 AM
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Read up on everything in the sidebar on /r/TheRedPill and also /r/trpgame. Make sure you're physically fit and confident in everything that you do. Develop a career for yourself. Expand your hobbies. LIFT. Those are long-term goals. For now, ignore her. Don't say anything to her until she's 100% ready to hang out.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 11:54 PM
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This would have required a sonogram, which is not part of the tests they give in this situation. That's really fucked up. I had myocarditis/pericarditis (inflammation of the heart) due to a genetic condition at the ripe age of 23. Before the doctors understood what was causing my chest pain, they performed an EKG and a sonogram, two very non-invasive procedures. There's no fucking excuse not to. Welcome to health care in the USA.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 11:49 PM
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You fucked up hard. Much to learn about text game. Start reading immediately. (Edit: make sure to read The Restart Text) You both seem rather young. Oohh, how exciting, some 21-year old surfers! Grow up. "da dank" - did she send you a picture of weed? ...sigh. Without being in an actual relationship, you had no place telling her she shouldn't hang out with those surfers. You're projecting your insecurities all over the place. What she claimed and what she did are probably not the same thing beca…
/r/askTRP21/08/14 11:14 PM
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Do you judge all women by how many friends they have?
/r/askTRP21/08/14 10:53 PM
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I love that you can see right through her bullshit without even knowing her. ♂ "Now you're mad" "Not at all" What would've been a more appropriate response here? Also, what's a better way to ask for a blowjob?
/r/askTRP21/08/14 10:28 PM
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See my post here.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:37 PM
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RP wisdom says that it's a red flag and a sign of a damaged woman, but I think it can be pretty attractive on some women. Make your own judgements on a case-by-case basis.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:36 PM
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(overly shy, afraid to initiate, afraid to correct/direct me, afraid of eye contact, etc, plus its still very physically uncomfortable for her). Your sensitive beta shit doesn't give her the vagina tingles. She doesn't shit-test you because she doesn't like you. This relationship is a ticking time bomb. She's just not that into you, and for many reasons which you detailed here. I don't know what her financial situation is with/without you, but she probably feels like she can't leave. You're not …
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:00 PM
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Cat seems awfully aggressive considering that it's named Kush.
/r/PussyPass21/08/14 08:49 PM
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I have to wonder if these other girls noticed when you left with the girl, or heard you guys smashing upstairs. They wanted to get in on it, too.
/r/trpGAME21/08/14 06:30 PM
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Once again (third example I've seen today between TRP and AskTRP), this is not dread game. It's being aloof and having abundance mentality. You did well, but it's not dread game. Dread game is reserved for a woman that you're already involved in an LTR or marriage with who isn't giving you the quality or quantity of sex that you want. You simply show them that you're in demand and you have other options. edited for grammar
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:25 PM
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I had no problem calling him a ball-less extreme beta with hamstering issues instead of resorting to a racial term that you insinuate actually means "idiot bitch."
/r/askTRP21/08/14 05:20 PM
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Fuck Vice. This wasn't a plug, it was a jab. Fight Club was one of the most inspiriational movies for me growing up, I was just a teenager when it was released. It really taught me that in order to change your life, you have to not give a fuck about anything, imagine who you want to be, and become that person. Tyler was sick of his shitty work and consume lifestyle. He wanted to hit "rock bottom" to prove that he didn't need any of that shit. He wanted to feel alive. His complete lack of fucks g…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:49 PM
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Yet another complete misunderstanding of dread game.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 04:02 PM
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You clearly have no idea what dread game is.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 03:59 PM
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This would have been a great post without the completely unnecessary n-bomb.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 03:53 PM
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This is some extreme beta male hamstering. She doesn't like you anymore because she knows you too well. Have you not heard that mystery drives attraction? Sidebar material, have you read it? Stop talking to her now. You're offering to be her beta bux and shoulder to cry on because you have no balls. Disappear for a while on her. Don't say goodbye, don't get sappy, just don't respond. Get in better shape, internalize the red pill, get ahead at your job or get a better one. Improve yourself every …
/r/askTRP21/08/14 01:19 PM
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We can't all be like Leo, and women have different tastes. I normally like your responses, and I feel like this is a legitimate question, so what gives?
/r/askTRP21/08/14 07:37 AM
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I kino'd her one time If she didn't react negatively, you should definitely keep up the pressure. "So is this gonna be a hang-and-bang type deal? Because I don't fuck people on the first night." "First night of what? We've known each other for years." I just didn't know what to say/do so I started to capitulate and say "Yea pretty much." I think this could have been worse, and it doesn't sound like she responded negatively to the idea of some casual sex. She told me that she didn't want me to sp…
/r/askTRP21/08/14 06:21 AM
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Are you saying you're a powerful woman? What kind of position are you in with your career? What attributes make you an alpha female? Are you the center of attention in a group? Do you tease your peers to assert dominance? How well do you attract men that you're interested in?
/r/askTRP21/08/14 06:09 AM
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This one hits me pretty damn close to home. I have to make excuses to myself as to why I still play games well into my 20's. I had a lonely childhood with overworked parents who wouldn't let me play sports. I turned to games to occupy my time because it was the only thing that made me feel like I was succeeding in something. I started learning guitar for a while but lost interest when I hadn't made any progress in my playing skill, then it was back to gaming. It's a really tough habit to break. …
/r/askTRP21/08/14 05:59 AM
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You're seeing what happens. It's a fucking waste of time, girls don't understand what makes them attracted to alpha men.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 10:50 PM
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Why are you even talking about attraction with her? Waste of time.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 10:27 PM
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Hopefully today's feminists hate men enough that they won't be bearing children.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 03:13 PM
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♂ Amazing stuff. "I miss you already." "Sorry, who is this?" Doesn't this come off as a bit too cold? ...or will she be begging for your attention? "Am I just some piece of ass to you?" ... say that you don't want to talk to a girl that speaks about herself in that way. I legit laughed out loud at this. Well played.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 07:03 AM
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What's the best response to her inevitable follow-up text, i.e. "I miss you already." Yo, those quotes were the girl's words, not mine. I'm looking for a response to this shit.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 06:12 AM
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Do you see why your ex is disgusted with you? You have no self-respect or confidence. How you see yourself is how others see you. Everything starts with #1, that's you, and you have to make yourself into someone that you love and respect before you can expect anyone else to feel the same about you.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:09 PM
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Books that I highly recommend for improving social interactions: The Magic of Rapport How to Win Friends and Influence People Interaction Ritual
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:54 PM
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He was referring to your age, not your SMV. Your actions are like that of a child. Your SMV seems closer to a 2.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:50 PM
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she doesn't want to be together anymore She wants to stay married From want it sounds like, this woman has no idea what she wants.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:42 PM
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Stop hating yourself and start becoming the man that you want to be instead of lamenting who you are.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:22 PM
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He won't say much about it, but a guy I know says he was in an 8-year relationship that didn't end well. Now, he's basically monk-mode gone wrong. He just sits on his ass all day playing guitar and video games, works at a barely-over-minimum wage retail outlet. No self-discipline, eats like a child, ever-growing beer belly, drunk at home on the weekends... but he assures me that if he wanted a woman, he could go out and get one. Sure thing, buddy.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 11:19 PM
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I feel like the only option for your to be sexually open about this is to join BDSM clubs and play a switch. You will have to be dominating at least sometimes, or women will not respect you.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 11:07 PM
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Straight up: you're watching too much porn. You have fetishes through watching other people play out these scenes in a non-real setting. It's a setup, and it doesn't work in the real world, especially to a man who demands respect.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 10:47 PM
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Don't text her unless you're trying to make plans. If she doesn't want to meet up, don't bother texting. *edit for spelling
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 07:22 PM
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She's low on beta orbiters right now and wants some validation. Deny her.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:18 PM
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This was the single biggest motivation for me to move out of my parent's house when I was 20.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:16 PM
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she is the closest thing to a plate I have right know You need to get her out of your head and work on yourself. Im curious to see what she wants Not you. Move on.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:11 PM
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If she knew you as a blue piller, that's how she will remember you and still see you. There's not much you can do about this. Your best bet is to start spinning new plates, show her how much fun you're having now, and make her jealous that she's not part of your life any longer. You can "conveniently" end up at a place that she frequents with a new girl on your arm and you'll see how she reacts. But seriously, don't get the oneitis. As with everything in TRP, it begins and ends with improving yo…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 09:44 PM
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Might I recommend this book: Interaction Ritual. You'll learn how to have fun with small talk, and I know that it won't seem so pointless to you anymore.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 03:36 AM
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very attractive, good in bed, and a very good friend. The trifecta. I had never put this together in my head as to why women fall in love. ♂ The easiest thing to do to keep a plate where she's at: drop any pretense of being a friend. Be unresponsive, unreliable and (of course) aloof.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 03:02 AM
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You're not good at hiding your attraction (push/pull). Make them attracted to you with intrigue and uncertainty if you like them or not.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 06:02 AM
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Next her. If you're taking her on a date and she isn't giving you her full attention, she's not interested.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 05:57 AM
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I would like to do this with some Los Angeles TRPers as well.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 02:46 AM
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It wasn't a suggestion, more of a cautionary tale.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 03:33 PM
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A dude I know made the regrettable decision of tattooing the male symbol on his arm, and years later went through no small amount of money and pain to have it removed. Just ... don't.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 09:12 AM
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Can't add text to a reddit link, but yes, the title could've been more tactful. Edit: it's just a racist rant about girls who have slept with (or been gangbanged by) black dudes.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:56 PM
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Who cares?
/r/askTRP06/08/14 08:30 PM
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You don't want to validate the "I thought you were different" shit test with anything she might perceive as responsive or defensive. If you really felt the need to reply substantively, you could have agreed and amplified her shit test. "You're right. Let's get married right away. I think I still have a piece of wedding cake from my first marriage in the freezer." Or turned this around on her "I am different. I got you into bed in two dates...wait, that's common for you?" ♂ Damn, that's a really …
/r/askTRP06/08/14 05:21 PM
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She wanted a casual fuck and she got it. Don't expect anything serious to come out of tinder. Women today are fleeting; they come and go. Hop on, enjoy the ride, and look for the next one. You definitely can't start getting feelings or oneitis on tinder dates.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 05:04 PM
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Obviously, you're a racist if you didn't vote for Obama.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:11 PM
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There's been a lot of teenagers around TRP lately. It's like they see TRP men getting what they want, and aspire to be like that, but don't even know what they want for themselves. OP, Finish school, get a job, get in shape, move out of your parents place, and figure out what makes you confident. Never be concerned with what women say about you. Classic TRP truth right here: It doesn't matter what women say, only what they do. You have to learn how to read body language and respond accordingly. …
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:57 PM
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Boundaries are fine, but the way you've established them only goes to show her that you feel threatened by other guys and that you're insecure with the status of your relationship. Do you know these guy friends that she hangs out with, or does she just tell you that she's hanging out with them? If you haven't met them, ask to hang out all together at some point, which will give you a good opportunity to be the alpha, size them up, and assert dominance and confidence.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 12:13 AM
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Be more vague like "I'm sure we can work something out" You have a few options: blowjobs, towels over the bed, shower sex, or anal. Get her over to your house first and figure out what she's comfortable with.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 10:44 PM
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Your restrictions and ultimatums reek of insecurity and a lack of confidence. She's probably already looking for a way out.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 10:36 PM
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I've been like this a few times in my life. Nothing gets you over the last one like the next one. Keep your chin up, maintain a strong attitude, or nobody will want to be around you. And please, don't start medications, they will fuck you up forever.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:09 PM
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Thanks, it's kind of difficult for me to make drastic lifestyle changes, but I'll see about making this kind of transition. I work with servers 'n' stuff for a very large online company. It took about as long as college does for me to develop my career through shitty jobs, but at least I was getting paid instead of racking up student debt. I also learned a lot more practical skill in the real world instead of college books which are outdated very quickly in my industry.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 03:40 PM
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I'd like to stay with her if she can lose weight. If she can't, well, I'm prepared to move on.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 03:16 PM
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Nope, you've made a good point. I need to improve myself, get some plates ready, and probably get out of this relationship.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 08:40 PM
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Dread is probably pretty pointless here. She already seems attracted to you, you'll just make her neurotic. Hrm, yeah... I didn't see her for a couple days and texted her asking if she'd been working out. She said she had, but also expressed some disappointment that it wasn't showing results yet. Maybe less dread, more encouragement. she'll never feel quite like a 7. She does have some self-confidence issues, maybe that's good for me.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 08:24 PM
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I don't even know why I mentioned marriage in the post, it's not even crossed my mind as a possibility for the remotely foreseeable future. I only mentioned "wife material" as a scale for the kind of woman that she is (aside from looks). Imagine just for a second, if she became a 7, stayed the way she is, and you got married, and she went back to 3 and stayed there. Would you be happy with that? No, I'd be pretty unhappy, and this is almost worst-case scenario. The only thing worse would be her …
/r/askTRP30/07/14 08:00 PM
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There is no dread game without improving my SMV. I want to improve myself with or without her, and either she keeps up or I leave her in the dust.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 07:41 PM
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Nice. I think she knows where she's at and knows she has to improve, but I'm sure some subtle hints wouldn't hurt.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 07:39 PM
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Stupid question, but how do I begin working out knowing literally nothing at all? I'm basically "skinnyfat" right now and I need to get in shape.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 07:55 PM
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I see lots of complaints on the unfairness of divorce agreements on reddit, and few comments from the other side (women). I am 50 and female, and have a number of divorced friends Many of my female friends and I Most of my friends got little/no alimony When presented with studies and evidence, the only response they have is anecdotal hamstering. the standard of living of a man is higher post divorce. I laughed out loud at this. She had the balls to say this on the post about the guy who had to s…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:04 PM
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