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You're fine. I was there a few years back. Here's what helped more than I could have inagined: Body. Workout like your life depends on it cause it does. Mind: find ways to find peace within yourself and learn to be comfortable in the unknown. That's where opportunities happen to be playful and help other around you feel a bit of joy. (Needed for banter and flirting) Style: outfits, hairstyles and even your shoes show how you think and help others see you. Figure out which colors work on you and …
/r/seduction28/07/26 03:32 AM
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Not just that, but I'd also like to add by doing this this, the lightweight flow and feeling would allow him to actually be playful enough to naturally banter and flirt with freedom. It would boost the confidence as well which would make him more attractive overall.
/r/seduction25/07/26 01:43 AM
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If that happens again, run. Women like that arent worth the dime they want you to spend and they'll be nothing but trouble every step of the way anyway
/r/seduction25/07/26 01:27 AM
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You're trying too hard lol
/r/seduction23/07/26 02:55 AM
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We all "pre judge." But try these: Practice talking to people. Delete the self depreciating apps( hinge, bumble, tinder, and all the lazy crap that we werent designed for). Work on conversation skills and banter. That's pretty much it since you're already in shape and have the height advantage. Playfulness is attractive to everyone. So be playful.
/r/seduction14/07/26 10:55 PM
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So, you'd like to fly, but want to do it while in your own designed stationary cage? You probably hate socializing cause you suck at it. Videogames are fantasies. Why not go out and talk about video games? I dont want to be harsh, but you cant expect to get what you want without giving something. Go to the gym, get some confidence, learn a few things, meet people, and talk about them in a playful way. Dating apps suck, but getting girls in the real worl isnt hard cause many guys are exactly what…
/r/seduction05/04/26 07:06 PM
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Tldr: Girls should aim for the hourglass look. Guys should aim for the upside down dorito look. A good smile multiplies everything.
/r/seduction13/10/25 03:44 AM
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Boobs. Many of us men love boobs. It's that simple. As for confedence, workout a little, stay relatively in shape. It's okay if you're not skinny. Just be healthy. Give yourself time to feel good after a workout. Rinse and repeat. Ps: if someone finds you attractive, it's cause you're attractive. Accept it. Rinse and repeat. Avoid comparing yourself to IG clowns or adult entertertainers. They are entertainers. Their bodies are their jobs, so they have to fake as much as possible. Accept that you…
/r/seduction08/10/25 03:31 AM
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Well, eyes are the windows to the soul lol Anyways, yes, it might be hard at first, but its a very easy way to be welcomed in for a conversation. Think of it this way: Would you rather force yourself into a conversation or be welcomed into one? If you'd rather be welcomed into one, the eye contact is like a confirmation ticket.
/r/seduction20/09/25 12:07 AM
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Men love to help so much. We put ourselves in harms way to help others feel comfortable. It's worse when we actually like someone. So, anything you can do to get him to help, do it, and "accidentally" touch or lean into him. There's also the "thank you" that comes with the upside down triangle look. Then let the magic do what it needs to do.
/r/seduction17/09/25 03:11 AM
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No. Just go out, touch some grass, and say hi to someone you find attractive. 80% of the users on there are men, and not many guys are approaching women. Why pay to be behind the curve?
/r/seduction14/09/25 04:54 AM
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I want to see the content you're looking at cause I haven't seen a single one 😂. I've only seen attractive, logical, and more accepting of other people's views instead of the side that's always trying to shove something down somebody else's throat. Please, share a link or two
/r/seduction28/07/25 07:20 PM
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Using the "busy guy" argument to excuse outsourcing thinking is another level. You're really riding that gpt, huh 🤣. Good lord!
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:43 PM
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Did you really use an LLM to write a day game story for you? Really? Seriously? Jeez, that's lazy. Gaw-dsyum!
/r/seduction26/07/25 02:15 AM
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I say lean into the awkwardness. "Look, I gtg, and it's awkward, but I'll text ya. Promise. Okay! Bye! 😅" If she laughs, you're in. Just be animated and free.
/r/seduction12/07/25 12:29 AM
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I love chocolate, and others absolutely hate it. There are times I yuck other people's yum, and there are times they yuck mine. Whether she said it out of hate or not is irrelevant. Again, chocolate is the best flavor to me, while others absolutely hate it or simply don't feel like having it on a particular day. Hope you understand where I'm coming from. Best of luck!
/r/seduction11/07/25 11:50 PM
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What's the plan for meeting people if you treat your home like a cell?
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:35 AM
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/r/seduction08/07/25 04:30 AM
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Unfortunately, yes. Smile back, do your thing, and if you want, go for the approach. If you don't, she won't. Another sign is that smile with a clear up and down checking you out look.
/r/seduction30/06/25 03:46 AM
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The fact that men are giving tinder their time is INSANE. Anyway, cut your losses and get tf off that app.
/r/seduction22/06/25 03:52 PM
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Bro, I hate to be this guy, but if sge asked for a pause, just assume she wants to go elsewhere. I say recover if you have to, and go find some that likes you. If this girl comes back, she'll most like be there to take and never give. Don't play stupid mind games where you're manipulated.
/r/seduction31/05/25 06:16 PM
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Just remember, the Benjamin Franklin effect. The more you invest, the more you're going to invest. Is she worth the effort? If so, why? If you can't answer that, then I'd say it'll hurt to let her go, but you're gonna have to. Effort works both ways, and if she wants to be a friend, then nice. Go spend your time with a girl who wants you back and have her as a bro. Exhange ideas, vent, and ask to borrow things from time to time. Slightly below a bro, but still - if you want her in your life, tha…
/r/seduction28/03/25 01:37 PM
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As someone who has a skin problem and struggled with confidence when I was younger, I can truly say it doesn't come free. If you've ever worked with kids or even seen kids in action, you'll see how free they are, but if you really look, you'll see the exchange happen. If you have friends with kids or have a park nearby where people come together, I'd say go have a look. Putting the creepy feeling aside, there's a lot you can learn from the little buggers. They say what they think, they experimen…
/r/seduction23/03/25 02:40 PM
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It also increases confedence which is an upward spiral. Pretty neat.
/r/seduction20/03/25 01:06 PM
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The comment section here is disappointing. Many are suggesting you do more, but sometimes you don't want to do more. You want to do less with more effort. (Less is more) Follow the "show, don't tell rule." Speak in comparisons and exaggerate everything. Instead of "I think you're beautiful" say "that beauty can settle conflicts amongst worlds" Be playful. "You hear that?" Her: "Hear what?" You: "The level of peace your voice brings to my soul. " When you speak to her, think, "how can I help her …
/r/seduction15/03/25 06:38 PM
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This post warmed my heart. There's hope after all 🥹
/r/seduction13/03/25 02:08 AM
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Yeah, bro, so take your chances where you can. Worse case: you tried something you wanted before your lights go out. For all you know, she adds just a little bit more spark. Y'never know.
/r/seduction12/03/25 02:22 PM
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Whenever I remember death is guaranteed and I have no idea when he'll be at my door. Worse, I don't even know if he's eying me down. Then I simply say something like "if I die today, at least I'll know I wasn't a bitch on this one" - then walk up and say anything. Anything at all.
/r/seduction12/03/25 12:11 AM
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Start with the most innocent thing a child ever does. Simply say Hi. Do that until you're comfortably. Then, the following time, say hi and then ask a simple question. I use hypotheticals to help me detatch from the nervousness.
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:52 PM
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6's are ugly now 🤣 Your reality is distorted
/r/seduction11/03/25 07:34 PM
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Never. And I mean NEVER do that.
/r/seduction03/03/25 10:18 PM
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I was about to defend you from some of the comments, but then I read your post. Arrogance is not a good look. There's a reason why some billionaires pretend to be like the rest of us. To answer your question: realize that all it takes is one puney microorganism to take you out - making you no different than the homeless guy you walk by on your way to work.
/r/seduction02/03/25 10:44 PM
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Bro, chill 🤣 If you want to approach her, make sure she's not your doctor.
/r/seduction24/02/25 05:16 PM
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Me - ANXIETY KICKS IN: Okay, this feels challenging, so go! Me - Anxiety feeling like excitement: oh, now I'm curious. Why am I getting anxious just by looking at her? Okay, say something. Me: Hey, I saw you from a distance, and my mind started racing. What's your name? Simply leaning into what I feel usually helps. Another thing that helps me is disconnecting by creating a hypothetical scenario. Me after sometime chatting of seeing the same person repeatedly: hypothetically, if I asked you out …
/r/seduction23/02/25 11:17 PM
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Try talking to people. It's not "women" that's causing this. You have no idea how to be comfortable being yourself yet. I suggest the book Models a lot, so give it a read. If you don't want to read, work on feeling good with yourself regardless of things you can not control. Talk in groups, purposely create awkward moments and see if you can laugh it off. My go-to thing is to flat out say "this is awkward" and before you know it, everyone is laughing. For some, it's something like "Oops." And aw…
/r/seduction16/02/25 07:08 PM
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Yes, but you can lobe yourself and still struggle with basic things.
/r/seduction16/02/25 07:02 PM
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You're what we call a bro! 😎 A true legend!
/r/seduction09/02/25 03:59 AM
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They're 10 years apart. I'd see your point if he was old enough to be her father, but really? Leonardo and Henry Cavill date people who could be their children, but this isn't one of them. Take a chill pill
/r/seduction31/01/25 06:30 PM
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I figured I had to learn again, so I started with reading Models and learning how to read body language. Then it was really just working on trusting myself by working out and building rapport with myself. The rest was just learning to just talk to people as people. That was it. Now, if I see someone and a song is playing, I'll smile, dance, wiggle, chuckle, point, and just be playful. Works for me because I've learned that's how I feel more free with people. It's odd cause they usually respond v…
/r/seduction19/01/25 05:21 AM
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Now I'm better than before. I can't even compare the two versions in a way that's fair. I'm way more confident and playful, which changes everything. Back then, I was just trying. Now, I just do.
/r/seduction18/01/25 05:07 PM
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Same thing happened to me a while back 😅. Just talk to people (men and women). In the process, it'll come back.
/r/seduction18/01/25 04:42 PM
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Unfortunately, if you don't fix that desperation, it'll ruin not just your dating life, but most likely your future relationships if you manage to somehow get lucky. Ever heard "we haven't had sex in [X] months"? How about "Not now"? Why is bring this up?: they all have the exact problem. Sometimes men focus so much on th physical aspect, they forget everything we do is mental first. In the future, don't touch. Speak, play, laugh, and joke. She'll touch you. Enjoy the moment with her and tease. …
/r/seduction11/01/25 04:56 PM
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Male here. Wanting sex is a human thing, and most males will say if you want it then go for it, but I do understand not wanting to be the next count in what's probably a pile on his list. Now, fortunately, there are universal ways to keep things spicy without getting spicy if you know what I mean. It's okay to be nervous or anxious, but also know it's natural, so lean into it, accept it, and show that you're nervous. There's no need to hide it. Second, simply saying you're nervous oddly makes yo…
/r/seduction30/12/24 07:34 PM
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There are some things a guy should keep to himself. This, unfortunately, is one of them.
/r/seduction30/12/24 05:36 PM
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You really couldn't ask that question any creepier? Anyway, if you want to invite someone, invite them. If she wants to invite her friend, just say you were asking her and not her friend, but in a nicer way. If she refuses, move on.
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:04 AM
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Welcome to the brotherhood! We are proud of you
/r/seduction14/12/24 11:27 PM
1

Think of what makes you smile or laugh and use that. For me, it's knowing saying "money" looks like a real smile when it's actually fake. Now, if I'm going to the awkward version, but deep smile, I literally just embrace the awkwardness and before you know it, we're both laughing. The nice thing is, it works with everyone. For example, I walked in on a couple having a conversation, said what I needed to say, and there it was - the awkward silence. Then I said "okay, I'm going to end the awkwardn…
/r/seduction07/11/24 08:02 AM
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When you start to work on yourself, you'll get a few looks from time to time. What I would do was avoid eye contact and be on my way. Don't do that. Take a few glances, smile, and simply walk up to her and ask for her name. Eye contact and a smile are at least 30% of the game. So, even if you have everything down, you're still at a D- if you fail with the smile and eye contact.
/r/seduction18/10/24 07:18 AM
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Forget "leverage" - whatever that means. Forget girls. Read "Models", and then read "what every body is saying." Implement what you've read. Learn to walk, smile, and conversate properly. Ditch the dating apps. Touch some grass and talk to actual women. Experiment. Before you know it, you've dated 3-5 girls within two months with very low effort; a lot more if you're serious with dating. The problem now is that we have too many guys reading but not implementing. One thing I wish I knew starting …
/r/seduction14/10/24 05:20 AM
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I had to change. Figure which styles make me look and feel best. Hitting the gym. Reading more and talking to people more. Not just women. Believe it or not, women are people, too. So, learning to make people laugh and feel comfortable around you is super helpful. I even noticed that now (especially in clubs), I get approached. Usually, after laughing and connecting with a group of people. Outside of that scene, just talk to random girls and speak with confidence. Complement from your chest. Don…
/r/seduction16/08/24 10:41 PM
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What every-body is saying and models are great books that helped me. Remember, body language is universal. Focus on the journey of just being able to read people. Everything else will click in place.
/r/seduction31/07/24 05:59 AM
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The best advice I got was from an old man at work: "What you do in your free time is your business. You're both grown ass adult"
/r/seduction29/07/24 04:51 PM
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Bro, if you're not already in the gym, you're already fucking up. Last night, I went to a club and made eye contact. Both her and I laughed. Before you know it, we're dancing, kissing, and touching up on each other. The WHOLE TIME she's feeling on my chest and arms. Get to the gym, bro. Like last year.
/r/seduction21/07/24 01:29 PM
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I've seen "buy a gym membership", tailored clothes, and a haircut. Start with a haircut. It can shift your whole face. I notice I'm checked out more after a lineup (facial hair). A gym membership is useless unless you're working out. Eat like Mad and workout like an addict for about 6 months. Then eat like normal. Don't forget to rest, and yes, eat quality foods. The clothes you wear can add or remove features. Take the time to figure out which colors work best with your skin tone AND which ones…
/r/seduction08/06/24 11:29 AM
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I get you're in a bad place, but you can't let that get to you. Thinking like that is the first thing to fix. The things you think of yourself are the behaviors you follow. So be careful of how you're thinking. Positive change is also slow, so be consistent for about one year and trust me, you'll see changes. If I, a dude with a burn, somewhat yellow teeth, and bad skin can do it, you have no excuse. I've seen extremely unattractive men with some extremely cute girls too. So yeah, no excuse. Sto…
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:53 PM
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Not to attack you, but even as I read this, I sense maybe you've focused too much on the girls, but on enough on yourself. Why sound so defeated? Are you working on becoming a better you? Are you making freidns where you go? I've been on dates that had absolutely nothing to do with looking for one. I've talked to girls who happen to be around because I'm laughing with some dude, and for some reason, they decided to say hi. I used to think I should do x and y for the girls, when it should be abou…
/r/seduction05/06/24 04:58 AM
1

What happens when you inevitably start to think it's because of the alcohol? I say just start by saying "hi" and work from there. It's best to take the hits now, knowing you're in complete control rather than falsifying the confidence. Good luck!
/r/seduction15/05/24 01:04 PM
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You'd rather risk becoming an addict than fostering some courage?
/r/seduction15/05/24 04:49 AM
1

Look at any animal in the animal kingdom. Watch the standoff and eye contact before battle. Given that we're also animals, we follow the same rules. Strength, fierce brave, boldness, and everything else. Tension is another thing I forgot. All of those require confidence, or else you'll be chewed on and spat out. Again, look at the animal kingdom.
/r/seduction15/04/24 11:54 PM
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It comes naturally if you relax. But I'd say listening to music with double meanings, watching comedy, and really just learning to play with words yourself. Find some apps where strangers like to text. That way, you can focus on texting and working your way up to speaking. No pictures in the way or anything like that to think about. In a couple of weeks, you'll be set. Just don't worry too much about getting blocked in the beginning, but don't be a creep either. And if a girl is hitting on you i…
/r/seduction15/04/24 01:09 PM
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Couldn't agree more. I think it would help if he remembers she's HIS wife.
/r/seduction11/04/24 05:29 AM
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Learning to think on your feet is a nice tool to add in your toolbox. I'm a nice/goofy guy by default, and lately, I've been practicing being witty with dirty responses. Believe it or not, it works. Say things that might have double meanings. Not only is it comedy, but it'll help both of you loosen up. Then you can really work on loosening her up. 😏
/r/seduction11/04/24 03:51 AM
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Bro, I literally just had 8 girls reject me at the same time, approached two girls, and had a great chat. One of them left to talk to the other group that just rejected me and her attitude changed from bubbly to dismissal when she came back. We can't let shit like this get to us too much. Just learn from the experience and try with better people next time.
/r/seduction31/03/24 07:03 AM
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I hope you dropped it and you're moving on.
/r/seduction31/03/24 06:08 AM
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There's always someone that's going to try to shame you for something. That's just life. Heck, some people try to shame others for SMILING.
/r/seduction19/03/24 07:25 AM
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Try to make connections wherever you go. I mean WHEREEVER. Yes, even on here. Also feel free to join communities and work on yourself. The rest will just fall in place(mostly).
/r/seduction23/10/22 11:04 AM
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If it's a trip you've wanted to go to, then go. Keep in mind that you are there for yourself and not for her though. That means going to have fun and talking to girls your find attractive regardless of what she might think. That also includes her friends because you are there for yourself. If it's a trip you don't care about and you were only going for her, then fuck it and simply don't go.
/r/seduction10/10/22 04:04 AM
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Well, don't text too much if you're trying to go out with her. Use the texting as a tool to help you set that date, otherwise avoid texting. Too much texting comes off as needy and those girls don't like that. If you don't actually like her or see her that way, then move on and leave this one alone.
/r/seduction28/07/22 04:36 AM
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You were waiting for this question lol. I felt the passion in this. Bravo! 👏
/r/seduction28/07/22 04:33 AM
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