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If someone regards men being assaulted as less severe, I would be surprised if it was because they attach more severity to one word than the other, rather than the sexist stereotypes and pressures men face to uphold patriarchal masculinity. I don’t doubt that it matters to some victims, and if they want to organize to change the definition of rape, and this is what the majority of male victims support, and they have good reasons to believe this would be helpful and where their energy should go, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/26 06:54 AM
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I've yet to see anti-feminism that isn't reactionary and far right.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/26 05:43 AM
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Can you name these feminists? Whenever I hear this, I always find that people won't name names. But why not, if they are proud of this belief, it should be easy for me to confirm this and that they are a feminist, right? Could they lie? Yes. Would they if they truly believed this and it was a common belief among feminists? Probably not. What feminist groups are they a part of? Are there any feminist groups that have this as an official stance? The founder of a Voice for Men, which was one of the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/26 05:42 AM
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This was actually the one major issue I had with the NISVS. It listed 'nagging' as a form of emotional abuse. Now, it asked men and women the same questions, but nagging is clearly a gendered term. Can nagging be emotional abuse? Sure. Is all nagging? No. Maybe they changed it, but I felt it drastically overestimated emotional abuse, specifically for men, because of this question.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/26 05:26 AM
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Sexism. The big ugly elephant in the room is that anti-feminism is always reactionary, bigoted, and has little concern for facts. Women aren't believed because they are women. This is a survey that asked both men and women the same questions, yet somehow only the women's data is questioned. All the objections to it are easily debunked by going to the site, or calling the hotline. If people honestly believe that there is a conspiracy to inflate rape stats, they would actually look into it, confro…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/26 05:22 AM
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The reality is 1 in 5 women will face rape at least some point in her life, this stat has been repeatedly found to be true by dozens of studies across the globe. Feminists have consistently been advocates for male victims of rape but NOT when this involves derailing conversations about women as victims. It was feminists that fought to get male victims of rape included in the official definition of rape. Are there people that are jerks? Yeah. Are they feminists? Not usually, but even if they are,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/26 04:47 AM
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It seems to me like this quote is being presented as if to say women can't victimize men, or in the very least can't rape men, which is not what she is saying. The sentence before the quote in the picture starts talks about men who are raped, doing so in a way that is gender-neutral rather than indicating that it is always men that are raped by men. Though that part is excluded, as including the prior sentence would have made it harder to use the quote to imply that women can't rape men. I think…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 09:56 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/71iw170x84dh1.png?width=1007&format=png&auto=webp&s=620431e73226b313245e04705c8de4f1b0e83f8b The CDC reports the stats for men just as it does for women, it lists the stat for 'being made to penetrate' right after rape. The CDC using the legal definition of rape and not your preferred version, and listing these things separately is not the same as not counting male victims of rape/other forms of sexual assault. And I'm well accustomed to anti-feminists who do not want to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 04:04 AM
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I appreciate the sentiment, though I think the bigger problem is lack of reporting, which is not surprising considering how cops have been shown to not take victims seriously, or not take crimes seriously when they do, when they're not, you know, sexually assaulting people themselves... but the conviction rate is 1-2%. Bigger picture, for profit prisons, our criminal justice system in general is designed to protect property, not our rights or safety. And of course, prisons probably cause more ra…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 08:05 PM
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Can you give me some examples of this? This chapter gives a good overview of well-cited rape stats, as well as the prevalence of rape myths and how they harm victims, how it is common to believe false rape reports are common and done out of malice despite rape being one of, if not the least reported crime, as well as the low likelihood of conviction compared to other violent crimes. The misconceptions spread about rape, and rape myths that are most common are those that hurt victims, not that ex…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 08:00 PM
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The CDC does NOT use the 'old definition', of knowing someone in the carnal sense, no one does. The NISVS is done in tandem with the justice department so it uses the legal definition. You can find the defintion on page 2 of the 2023/2024 summary. https://www.cdc.gov/nisvs/media/pdfs/sexualviolence-brief.pdf And women CAN rape men. Where did Mary Koss ever say rape can't happen to men, and if she said this, why does the NISVS have a male rape stat with every report? This is from the 2023/2024 re…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 07:41 PM
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Sorry I'm not trying to give you a hard time but WTF? Seriously go to google scholar, search endometriosis, and tell me how many studies use cadavers for their study. If any, honestly- why would this be the only way to study it, and why would hysterectomies be involved, when the disease is very basic sense is about tissue that is supposed to be in the uterus growing outside the uterus, so you'd want to be looking everywhere BUT there, right? Why would you need cadavers to study gene expression, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 06:44 PM
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I guess, if you want research to be based around profit and investors desires. I would hope most leftists want the opposite, it certainly doesn't seem egalitarian. This is only the 'reality of medical research' under capitalism, which warps medical research into caring about profits and shareholders rather than health and wellness, the public good. If this ad made you realize this, I'd say that it's an effective ad, even if you came to the wrong conclusion, specifically, that things are always f…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 06:37 PM
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I don't understand why that would hamper research, that would be exactly why it should be funded more. Maybe I don't get what you mean, as far as 'difficult to research'. Because not a lot is known about it? That makes it easier to research: there are so many topics open, so many fields that could contribute, so many avenues yet unexplored: limitations arise when you have a topic that is well understood, and it is hard to find an angle that hasn't already been explored.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 06:24 PM
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It seems I've misjudged you, and you do seem to me more well rounded than the standard red pillers or class reductionists I'm more accustomed to. So I thought I'd share this with you: THIS is the infamous 'but are endo suffers hot' study. I assumed it was yet another misunderstood study/clickbait when I read the headlines. No, they really had 8 people give their opinions on how hot their patients' endo were, complete with info on their breast sizes and how young they were when they first had sex…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 06:17 PM
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I'd argue that it is underhanded to make this about you, and your belief that everything that points out the ways women's health research is often underfunded is an excuse to make you the victim, rather than those who suffer form a chronic, incredibly painful and debilitating disease. They don't say that evil men did this. They point out that it happened. If you see everything that happens under patriarchy as due to men, that's on you. If you think women don't uphold patriarchy (or blame women f…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 12:40 AM
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I would say this reveals that the only exposure you have feminists: that is, you know none that are leftists. Which is kind of what I see on this group in general: there leftists that I would wager actually active IRL and know socialist feminists. And then those who have ceded feminism to the liberals and have adopted this hypocritical antifeminism that enures that most women stay as far away from them as possible due to the views they have, which end up being self-fulfilling. A lot in the same …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 02:52 AM
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I believe that many people are skeptical that 20% of women are raped in their life because they feel like they would know if this is true of the women close to them. But that's just not the case, for many reasons. There is a lot of shame, it is something not a lot of people want to talk about, much less disclose.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 02:25 AM
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What is a 'brutal' rape in your mind? Rape is penetration without consent. Either because the person did not consent or could not because they were to intoxicated to consent. If certain rapes are acceptable because they aren't 'brutal', in your opinion, than it stands to reason that this is true for male victims as well. And yes, the bulk of the research: what NISVS has shown year after year, what prior studies have shown if you account for what they measured (as they often didn't count incapaci…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 12:43 PM
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As someone who worked on the NISVS, who spent months of my life interviewing people for it, I can say with confidence we never asked how much alcohol or drugs people consumed. You can find the questions on the CDC's website. And perhaps the questions have changed since I haven't been there in years (though it hasn't changed the results) Where are you getting this from? First, this would be impossible for people who were drugged without their knowledge, to answer. How would they know how much dru…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 12:25 PM
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It was feminist women that fought to get rape to include male victims in the legal definition. So it is strange to blame feminists for not taking male rape victims seriously. I have tried to find any example of anti-feminists, MRAs or the like doing anything in the last 50 years to help male victims of sexual assault, and come up empty. I'm not saying they all take the view of Stefan Molyneux on this, but I can't find any great examples that prove so. (he said if a feminist shelter is the only p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 12:04 PM
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There are ways, but the survey itself can't ask 'are you lying to us' and expect this to be useful. Afaik underreporting, on surveys, is about the same between men and women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 11:59 AM
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You are conflating 'underreporting' which is whether people report their assault to authorities, and 'reporting assault to a surveyor' which is a different question, and one that is hard for a survey to ask about. But most major studies do consider underreporting. One way this is improved is by asking people about specific events, not relying on a person defining what happened to them as rape, as people are hesitant to do this, especially if they were assaulted by a family member or someone they…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 11:58 AM
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Where are you getting the stat of 85.3% of people who rape men are women? Most rapists are men simply because, excluding some trans women, women would have to be rape another person with objects or their fingers. And this does happen, mind you, rape is a crime of violence, not of lust. But it is most common when men can't complete a rape but still wants to harm a victim. I did find that most male rapists are heterosexual, I don't think most studies publish a 'most male rapists are men' stat beca…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 11:54 AM
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No, the definition used by studies like the NISVS state clearly that someone has to be intoxicated to the point that they cannot consent, it is not just 'any sex while drunk.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 11:29 AM
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I personally worked on the NISVS study, which is the largest survey of IPV undertaken by humankind to date, and it has consistently proven the 1 in 5 statistic, year after year. Countless studies have shown that people are much more likely to MINIMIZE sexual assault and rape. This is one reason we asked about times when person was penetrated when they did not consent or could not give consent due to being incapacitated from drugs or alcohol. Note we made clear this is not any sex when intoxicate…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 08:57 AM
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Was hoping to find some claim of a stat on how many men are convicted and serve prison time due to a woman fabricating a false rape accusation (as in, she was not raped, but claims she was, and that a specific man is responsible, and reporting it, and getting charges pressed, testifying against him, and this being the sole crime he is convicted of). As I understand how this would be a horrible thing to face, but I don't understand how this could be such a massive fear for some men, when it happe…
/r/MensRights16/06/26 03:57 PM
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I've been told the difference between a scientist and everyone else is how they react when confronted with extensive, reliable, independent, peer-reviewed data that invalidates a view they currently hold. (or, at least a good scientist) The reaction of every MRA/pro-patriarchyist/anti-feminist to this list, thussofar, has never been one of a good scientist. Which is fine, I just wish the same people would stop pretending their views are based on facts, reason, research, and science.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 05:24 AM
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Explain to me how this one specific web address not serving men's health makes it more difficult for men to find men's health resources. And that's a very charitable interpretation of your original claim, which implied there WERE no similar websites offering support for men's health. Does the fact that menshealthmonth.org/ exists but womenshealthmonth.org/does not demonstrate women have more trouble finding health resources than men,or that women’s health resources don’t exist?
/r/MensRights26/07/22 09:08 AM
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I'll be damned, you're the first person whose actually looked at the sources and found it, and I've been posting some form of this list for almost a decade now on various anti-feminist forums. But to your claim: is it possible that the bulk of the peer reviewed research, spanning several fields and subdivisions of social science, dozens of journals, hundreds of experts and researchers dedicating their lives to the subject over several generations and multiple countries... all coming to the wrong…
/r/MensRights26/07/22 06:56 AM
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My list of sources is not in the comment you mentioned, as there were too many sources to fit in one comment. The sources are in the two comments below that one, and contain almost 2 dozen different sources. Either you didn't see them, or are too cowardly to address the data in them so you pretended not to see them, as reactionaries are known to do when confronted with facts that contradict their bigotry. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume the former. For your convenience I have a…
/r/MensRights26/07/22 01:52 AM
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I guess that would be a problem for someone who is only able to find men's health services by guessing website names rather than using a search engine. And internet search engines have been around longer than any of the websites listed above. Is that how you honestly use the internet? And do you honestly believe that significant numbers of men have failed to find government resources dedicated to men's health because this one domain isn't dedicated to that subject?
/r/MensRights26/07/22 12:17 AM
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Source part 2 Kidder. 2018. Gendered Partner-Ideals, Relationship Satisfaction, and Intimate Partner Violence.Dissertations and Theses Paper 4513. Portland State University. https://doi.org/10.15760/etd.6397 “…women's reports of most types of IPV victimization positively correlated with perceptions of their male partners' conformity to the specific norms of negativity toward sexual minorities and restrictive emotionality.” Ogolsky. 2014. The Role of Couple Discrepancies in Cognitive and Behavior…
/r/MensRights25/07/22 06:23 AM
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Sources Part 1 Barstad. 2014. Equality is Bliss:Relationship Quality and the Gender Division of Household Labor. Journal of Family Issues. https://scihub.se/https:/journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0192513X14522246 “Compared with taking no or little part in such housework, men who do as much routine housework as their partner score equally well on an index for relationship quality. While women’s relationship quality deteriorates the larger their share of intermittent work(doing small repairs) is,…
/r/MensRights25/07/22 06:20 AM
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Peer reviewed research has demonstrated, extensively, that feminists (specifically: people that believe in gender equality and don't adhere to strict gender roles and stereotypes) have happier relationships and more satisfying sex lives. (trying to link to studies below, but it keeps disappearing? Going to have to break it up into multiple comments, I guess there's too many links/sources for one comment.) If you’re worried about toxic masculinity,Feminists are more likely to see less stereotypic…
/r/MensRights25/07/22 06:17 AM
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There are a variety of government sites and programs dedicated to men's health. https://health.gov/healthypeople/objectives-and-data/browse-objectives/men also https://minorityhealth.hhs.gov/mens-health/ and https://www.nccih.nih.gov/health/mens-health https://www.benefits.gov/news/article/368 https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/men-and-mental-health/men-and-depression/nimhs-real-men-real-depression-campaign https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/men-and-depression June is men's health …
/r/MensRights25/07/22 06:09 AM
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