| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | I'm a guy with a low-energy/depressive personality. Can I still be successful with women?Lift and read sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 12:40 AM |
| 15 | Fucked a girl ive been talking to but I could barely get it up.... but now she’s acting obsessed af. I’m kinda confused.She’s wanting to cure your problem. Women take it personally as they feel it’s a reflection on them. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | LTR and financeDump her . It’s only going to get worse. She’ll ruin you. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | If "nothing lasts forever" and "love" is just a temporary thing, then what's the point of pursuing relationships when it's all just illusion?Or he needs to understand it in others to allow countermeasures . Shades of red maxim 45 in sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | If "nothing lasts forever" and "love" is just a temporary thing, then what's the point of pursuing relationships when it's all just illusion?No guarantee of anything but what goes on in a moment of time has as much validity as what goes on at another moment. If two people genuinely like each other at a point in time : run with it all things being equal. What you’re talking about is managing the swing to decay which is what TRP is about . | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Need some sense talked to me about my now exGet her or someone to collect it for her, or put it into storage and give her the bill for it. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Reading the manipulated man by Esther Vilar - Angry as fuckI wouldn’t say women are callous per se. If you haven’t already read the 50 shades of red in sidebar, maxim 45 has a link to how women think in a social way akin to machiavelianism . When you start to appreciate this aspect in other people / women you don’t take it so personally and realise you can navigate through it to your advantage without necessarily becoming “immoral.” (Personal choice). | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed that all movies/books makes sense after watching/reading them from TRP perspective?Sorry I meant “Vanity fair.” | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed that all movies/books makes sense after watching/reading them from TRP perspective?Equally remembering women I knew in the past pre -TRP and I understand much more what was going on with them (bamboozled at the time.) The classic of English Literature “War and peace” by Thackeray (Becky Sharp classic hypergamy) and I guess “Gone with the wind.” | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Is violence justified?It depends on what the crime against you is. But it comes at a price. Potential Legal trouble . Risk of injury to yourself. Perpetuating a revenge cycle. Etc. Better to get even another way I would say. Or walk away from it if you can. Would need more information. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Trouble getting past this one. What am I doing wrong?You were/are in love with her. Just because TRP and AWALT exists doesn’t mean you can’t be in love. But strong feelings don’t pertain to just one woman - find one who is as into you as you her. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Blue pill deceptionVery good point. The huge losses of men in the wars were a disaster. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill deceptionStrong frame but looks help. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Stuck in a Rut (advice needed)Go for it. Whenever you feel a bit low just think about your plan. Just be mindful that NZ and AUS generally have age limit for employment visas, though sounds like you’re still fairly young so shouldn’t be a problem. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Stuck in a Rut (advice needed)Just look forward not back. You’ve learned stuff , now learn some more . EDIT: there is no crime in trying other things and it not quite working. Youll have learned things in the process including stuff about yourself. Have a plan of where you want to be now and then follow through. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Girl I'm seeing is in extreme BDSM and I need adviceRed flag and hard next | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Books to read about Masonic, free mason, free thinking?Albert Pike “morals and dogma.” I don’t recommend you joining though . A better book would be the “Kybalion” , legend has it it’s the lost teachings of Hermes Trigemestus. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | What are some of the common potential ways women betafy?Very thoughtful post. Start as you mean to go on, they should be getting you the soda. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Ltr texting other guyShe contacted him first seemingly. Surgery story sounds like some kind of cover. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Why do I get turned-on when I think "simp" thoughts? It's like I have a fetish for acting thirsty/desperate; can I un-learn this?Various answers to this one . 1. Variety is the spice of life 2. Boredom with beautiful women 3. Imbalance in your early life overdominant mothering vs less dominant father figure 4. Inner feelings of low self worth Just my thoughts . | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Reading the manipulated man by Esther Vilar - Angry as fuckYour anger will go and be replaced by stoic realism especially when you start to control your life direction. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Does redpill apply if...Yes | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Getting redpilled destroys all hope?I think a lot of beta behaviour is conditioned not inherently genetic. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Getting redpilled destroys all hope?With all respect this is nonsense. Willpower, knowledge and acknowledging your own emotions can change your inner psyche completely. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 10:00 AM |
| 2 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksGay | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 08:27 AM |
| 4 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksBut therein lies your bigger challenge OP than her rich friend. With all respect , are you her project? Only you can answer. I don’t think you should dump her yet by the way. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 08:14 AM |
| 2 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksTheir texts didn't mention anything outright that there is something between them or revealed she has cheated on me, but they were flirty in the way of "Look at my private jet, look at my fancy penthouse, look at my world travels; it would be fun if you were here". I did see that they have definitely met up for drinks at his hotels in the past before we were LTR. My gut feeling is that he was occasionally cheating on his wife with my now LTR. BUT I WAS SHOCKED TO SEE that she was the one initiat… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksIt’s possible. Is it her family that have money or has she made her money? BUT a woman with more money than you unless you’re extremely strong in frame is a recipe for disaster IMO. Just my opinion. Because it will stop you from your life mission. EDIT I did read the convo by the way | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksYou haven’t fully imbibed AWALT. Also your woman is controlling the frame . You need to turn this round somehow for you . Whether you hold on to her or not. Care less about her and more about you. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksOk I wondered about this. If your LTR is from money then their may be other motivations in her connection other than the obvious. But it sounds like you don’t have so much $. That in itself may make this untenable in the longer run until you make your fortune. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 07:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I deal with a failure to have a relationship with my childhood crush?Just talk to her . Start afresh. Your parents shouldn’t have reacted that way to a natural innocent behaviour . | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 06:31 AM |
| 9 | Ltr texting other guyHe asked her out . | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Is anyone else dealing with this frustration right now?Read Julius Evola OP if you haven’t already. Will explain intellectually what you have correctly observed. Ride the tiger . | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Still depressed over my ex even though we broke up a long time ago?It will be easier for OP when he sees reality more clearly , he gets it logically but not emotionally . He doesn’t love himself enough and believes emotionally that he was unworthy of this woman . Not so. Once he does realise that matters are the opposite of what he feels now this ex will topple from her pedestal. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 06:54 AM |
| 1 | I really need advice... im alone.I’m sorry some other people are lousy. But not everyone . I see you’re young. Things do get easier as you get older but you need to be around better people. And you need to do what you have to do to feel better spiritually (the rosary works) ,emotionally, psychologically, physically, economically . | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 11:39 PM |
| 2 | I really need advice... im alone.How old are you? What do you think the main problem is ? Your appearance? Or your manner of speaking / approach? Analyse and aim to improve it. Read the sidebar. Scrub up well. Dress well. Earn more money so you can afford a better lifestyle. Think outside the box. Care less about women for awhile and care for yourself. Male friends ? What have you done that everyone leaves your messages on “read”? Or are you using hyperbole? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 11:07 PM |
| 2 | How do you go w meeting her parents?Very good point and OP needs to remember this is his chance to check them out . Bad parents probably means girl not LTR material. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | I may be pushing too hard with girls. Advice?Don’t forget the human touch, a kind word works wonders - you can still do it whilst maintaining boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 09:54 PM |
| 2 | what expectations do u have for a woman?I still think what I wrote stands particularly the latter. I would definitely aim to get a younger woman , you’re not past it at 46. You can definitely get a 30 something and 20s if you approach it right. Of course that’s not easy to gauge right at the start about how her upbringing was with her father, but generally women who have a strong bond with their father make it evident early on. Also as an aside personally I don’t like tattoos on women . I used to overlook a woman having one but now I … | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Girl says she likes my company but isn’t sexually attracted to me.😅 | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Unplugging and resenting women after my first breakup at 28 years oldWe’ve all awoken at some point. Welcome. You’re still in shock. There are other women out there who won’t be such a disaster as this one. You’ll get over it. Get on your mission and be realistic about what to expect from them. You’ll then lose this nihilistic black pill mindset. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 06:57 PM |
| 2 | What are the three most important traits in an attractive male?😅 | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | what expectations do u have for a woman?Woman demonstrates potential to be a good mother and also that she has had a strong father figure in her upbringing. Last is vital. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Anybody ever gone to therapy? Advice on what to look for when choosing a therapist / psychologist?Like the divine comedy, you need a female guide at times (Beatrice) and a male guide (Virgil) at others. Emotional problems from childhood due to trauma or bad parents in some form need identifying as can be blocking you from development . You don’t always need a therapist though if you can be introspective and brutally honest with yourself . The stoics can be studied and emulated . | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 01:08 PM |
| 18 | I’m dating someone and I want to make sure she’s not dating/talking to someone else. What should I do?Yes but he was man enough to admit his mistake so respect to him for that. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 11:19 AM |
| 2 | girl asked if I was a player or had been seeing anyoneOr pick another random day. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 04:21 PM |
| 0 | If AWALT anyway, what’s the point of red flags?It’s on a spectrum and there are such things as outliers. Doesn’t invalidate AWALT. In fact exceptions prove the rule . | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 08:01 AM |
| 41 | Fighting my "Best Friend" and getting injuredGood that you’ve lost this toxic friend. Sorry you didn’t win the fight but I doubt he’ll call you a bitch again. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Chick hit me with the “we just started talking!”Sidebar | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 07:50 AM |
| 2 | She wants a “platonic relationship” after a date with good IOIsMaybe she means she wants a sexual relationship where you discuss Plato? | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | How To Speak With Woman I Find Attractive "Freely"You are the prize. Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Asked her where she'd like to travel, she said "your heart." How to respond?What a nice thing to say. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | I know I acted like a beta, how to not do this in the futureThis ^ | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 08:45 PM |
| 4 | I notice a drop in libido and erection quality whenever I'm focused on work and grinding hard. Help?Your body only has so much energy to go round, if you try to do too much something will give. Have you been having any “flu like symptoms” ? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 10:51 AM |
| 26 | I might be laid off by next year.. and I'm ok with thatTry and get something else lined up . It’s much easier getting something else whilst you’re in a post. By all means schedule a break but unless you’re filthy loaded it’s a mistake to take too much of a break from income generation, unless you’re becoming an ascetic or going off grid completely. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/10/20 09:41 AM |
| 25 | Why they sabotage me?Some women are nasty. Perhaps she has a thing for you or perhaps if you “see her as a sister “then she thinks she will lose this connection if you get with these girls. In any case I would avoid her company. Talk to girls out with this immediate social sphere, or talk to the girls you mentioned when she is not around. Do not call her out , but amplify or continue to ignore. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 09:36 AM |
| 0 | How to answer "What do you do for a living?" appropriately?You must be fibbing as that was Jesus (God). | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 2 | How to control your emotionsI have the same problem so can relate. The Kybalion also gives some advice about emotions , they work as a pendulum and if you can observe it for a time rather than immediately go with the energy letting it dominate you - then it can be used to intellectually control a situation as the emotional pendulum swings. Not an easy art but powerful. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/09/20 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Fixing a milfIt might be better for you to “next .” Don’t underestimate the wiles of women, particularly older ones so to speak. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Do I hide my books?Say: I read eclectically. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Best friend fucking recent LTR of 2 and a half years but can’t confirm it what do I do ?“Give them enough rope.” He’s unlikely to admit to it , better to wait and get some more evidence as difficult as it is. If you confront now and he is doing it, he will know to cover his tracks more. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Will not having a "high status" job eventually lower an LTR's opinion of me?Yes. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 3 | How can 'smart' beta men be so content to be so beta?This engineer guy might like solving problems but we all know once some woman sets eyes on his beta bucks he really will have some problems to solve and it’s not likely to end well for him... then just maybe he’ll find this reddit sub. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 02:15 PM |
| 2 | How can 'smart' beta men be so content to be so beta?To be fair Sinclair was screwed a bit by the govt as if he’d built the C5 any bigger or more powerful the govt would treat it like a motor vehicle and have charged road tax. But I take your point . | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 02:09 PM |
| 4 | Anyone dealt with extremely narcissistic women?How did you know she was fucking the photographers (out of curiosity)? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Blocked before 2nd date because I pushed for sex too early? How do I handle this better in the future?I think some women even with Brad Pitt etc may still be annoyed at being told what to wear . | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 08:01 AM |
| 1 | I can't get over oneitis!You’re in a grieving process for what was or could have been. Kubler Ross stated individuals move between stages (non linear) denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Protect yourself in future, be clear about their nature . That way, you will meet women who will want to be with you in the right way (and who you’ll want to be with.) Where you red pilled when you were with this girl? It sounds like you weren’t fully and that is a shock to the system. Sidebar / Tomassi’s “the rationa… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you raise your kids to become red pill?This is an interesting comment. In unguarded moments my own mother told me how I should act around women, but I also got the blue pill stuff as well. I speak with my daughters about TRP but weight it within their own self interest - I want them to have the high value man and know their own value and that promiscuity will decrease it etc. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Is this plate broken?lol | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Let’s talk about neglect, please share your stories/experiences if you can relateI can relate to this. CEN isn’t that uncommon sadly. I’m nearly middle aged and in last few years read Jocelyn Webb, Alice Miller and Shari Schreiber about this as I realised my parents were not healthy with helping me to managing my emotions in childhood , and that life errors later probably were aided by this cycle of emotional neglect in families. Schreiber is good to read as she is very sensitive to men and the dangers of mixing with BPD women - which you have a higher risk of doing from an … | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/09/20 12:35 PM |
| 1 | So I just had a shower thought on avoiding divorce rapeInteresting idea . | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/09/20 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Sandman has lost it....Enjoy the rest of your day and Cheeerzzz! | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/09/20 12:14 PM |
| 0 | Sandman has lost itSandman uses humour and is a comedian at heart. Hence his weird style, also didn’t he say he was on the Aspergers spectrum hence his weird take on things at times? | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/09/20 12:11 PM |
| 0 | What do women find more attractive? Fancy car or fancy house?Not in my experience . | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 10:30 AM |
| 1 | What do women find more attractive? Fancy car or fancy house?Both. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 10:28 AM |
| 1 | I can't get over oneitis!Over time you have a multitude of feelings about different things , we have a tendency to remember nice things and you liked how she made you feel but think more about how she made you feel bad and what she did. She didn’t see you as a Prince - and that is what you are. Value yourself more . Develop more of a sense of indignation at her stupidity for leaving you. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Does only getting interest from low SMV women (overweight/obese) mean anything?At least some women are interested in you. Increase your own SMV and better candidates will emerge so to speak. Also you need to approach you might not be noticing cues. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Coming to terms with being alpha-widowed (not a joke)There are certain posters here that believe taking DMT opens up your consciousness to a wider view to help you to put things into perspective . It’s not directly related to TRP. IMO I believe such a strategy is a risk and there are better ways to spiritually elevate ones self. I guess in the context of OPs dilemma the suggestion was made to take them out of petty egoism and strengthen or re-develop their pair bond . | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How do I tell this girl that making me answer questions that only has one plausible answer so she wouldn’t be offended OVER and OVER again that it’s making me not want to talk to her without offending her?Most women do this in some form or the other . Say something quirky and change the subject. Or on occasion give a backhanded compliment . They’re talking emotionally . | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Coming to terms with being alpha-widowed (not a joke)Hallucinogen | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 06:14 PM |
| 5 | Why do I still act awkward AF around people I used to be super beta/awkward around?“A prophet is scorned in his own country.” It’s that kind of effect , crabs pulling you back only you’re not a crab anymore but because they think you are it rubs off on you. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Religion and guiltEvola states as best I recall that Christianity does retain elements of tradition but also contaminants from the east, “lunar” religion (Judaism, Islam and communitarian Christianity which are arguably “heretical”) as he put it vs solar religions of the west. I think there are correlations of Roman tradition with the Zoroastrian religion , the eternal flame (hearth), importance of water , priestly order and order of virgins (temple of Vesta etc.) There is a deeper level to religion which will no… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Religion and guiltWhat I’d say about this being someone who is very supportive of tradition (Rome, stoicism, pater familias and traditional Catholicism - not watered down modernist nonsense): is that you shouldn’t make women a goal of your life but an adjunct. I think in metaphysical terms there is a higher side to male-Female relationships but we are on a material plane and TRP is there as a guide. Men have a higher nature that women will actually create an obstacle in you reaching. There are numerous tales from… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 09:52 PM |
| 1 | I'm the luckiest man aliveI’m not a twin but have heard of this strong bond. I have third cousins who are identical twins who have a strong bond, I remember 2 female identical twins at university who both were studying the same subject and obviously close friends. I’d imagine it’s a great advantage in life but I guess downside that you suffer if your fellow twin is suffering? | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Is the Red Pill Community fighting to legalize prostitution?Legalising anything just means allowing the government (pimp) to take its cut . | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Am I in a abusive relationship?No problem with snooping but you need to remain in control and see yourself as the prize and that she has disqualified herself from you. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 12:08 PM |
| 1 | need advice with best friendHe doesn’t sound like his bro though if he doesn’t bother sending him a text once in a while. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 08:50 AM |
| 1 | need advice with best friendYour friend has made the mistake of putting all his eggs in the basket of his relationship, and it is painful when you feel people are cutting you out, but you yourself need to work on why you’re depressed. If your own path to self improvement is not lifting it you need to work out what the blockage is- if it’s issues earlier in childhood then you need to try to self parent yourself by identifying when you were emotionally shut down and that it’s ok to have emotions - but use them in long run to… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 08:42 AM |
| 2 | If I have any alcohol I can’t get hard.Don’t take alcohol then . It is a toxin and strains the liver . You may have low tolerance to it . The body uses vasomotion to maintain itself and will send the blood most were it’s needed - when you take alcohol it’s needed somewhere else . | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Am I being played by my colleague?Potential plate. Spin others . | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Any of you guys have long hair? did short hair work better for you?I’m going to say it: Rollo should get rid of the pony tail. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Moving out at 27 years oldGreat comment . Made my night . | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | The girl on the restaurant told where you looking at?She was a slut and wanted you to hit on her. Edit: so why didn’t you? | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 11:35 PM |
| -1 | Asking a woman back to your placeFFS. Shouldn’t even be a consideration. If you want to be egalitarian, hedge and ask “yours or mine?” | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Opinion on my beardLooks ok but I think you probably look better without it. I did grow one in my 20s for a little while to look older and haven’t bothered since . | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Tinder date walked out on me, whole conversation prior was that she was just looking to make new friends. was this my fault or what? [Pictures of messages included. Full details in text]Maybe if she was above average intelligence and an 8 or 9 she felt you were too obvious in playing her . Everyone wants to feel they are different. And of course she has other competitive options . I still think you can recover it but you need to do so with your own frame . Don’t tell her you did anything wrong but hit her up again and ask to do a gallery or something and escalate in a measured way: being too eager puts them off. Edit: By the way I didn’t read your texts, just based this on the … | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Lost interest in increasing my count, anyone else feel this way?Imagine the Red Baron had felt this way... | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Destroyed after GF of 4 months broke up with meShe dumped you on SMS .? Classy. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Advice on how to become more alpha in my relationship?You don’t need to be a dick to people. Your main problem is you’re traumatised and spoke too much to your girlfriend about it. Get some perspective on your trauma, Value yourself, find your mission so to speak, care less about your girlfriends opinion and more about your own. She will automatically fall in line with you more. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Least worst plate?Spin more. You’re the catch. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend mockingly dismissed me in front if two other women and I felt really disrespected... am I exagerating?I actually do pick up on the slight she gave you . Treat it as a red flag but you shouldn’t care about it so much . | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Ex-girlfriend keeps texting me.She’s keeping you as an option. Maintain no contact. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 11:20 PM |
| 2 | How do I change my values?The moral side of life is important. These questions are important . TRP is just a summation of women’s behaviour and to be used in context of the big picture . Some women are more moral than others - so seek them out as long as you don’t fall into the NAWALT trap. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | A lot of guys hit on my girl with texts and interactions, what should I do?Good point. they probably mean 7 when they say 9. 10s don’t exist by the way, and neither do 9s without makeup. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | A lot of guys hit on my girl with texts and interactions, what should I do?Hard next the slut .Spin plates . WTF are you thinking of OP? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | LTR has a guy "friend" whose SMV is higher than me, how to deal with this?Which comedian? One we would know? If you let us know we could heckle him during one of his gigs. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | LTR has a guy "friend" whose SMV is higher than me, how to deal with this?Cultivate the abundance mentality. Induce dread in her by “plate spinning” real or implied and it may counteract gamer boyfriend. She sounds a bit geeky though anyway, I would say a woman doing online gaming is a red flag in and of itself . | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Seems like no matter how much you ask a woman to do something, they say "yes", but never do it. How do you personally get a woman in your life (or just in general life) to follow up with diong a simple, reasonble request (reasonable, but irritating if they don't follow up)?What I mean is if they want to be with you and think you’re high enough value they’ll do things but it isn’t often what you want but what they think is important. I guess you have to use emotion, to a man you would say could you do x but to a woman you have to be more subtle and say x makes me feel good, happy etc and then plant the seed and they may do x. However often they’ll do y instead anyway. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 10:27 PM |
| 2 | How to handle female boss who is after you?Men are more likely to see the logic in a criticism and the capital in perhaps taking it on board. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How to handle female boss who is after you?Ride it out, don’t play her games and outwit her . | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Seems like no matter how much you ask a woman to do something, they say "yes", but never do it. How do you personally get a woman in your life (or just in general life) to follow up with diong a simple, reasonble request (reasonable, but irritating if they don't follow up)?You can’t really rely on them. But the skill is to make them please you spontaneously. However this is hit and miss dependent on the intelligence of the woman. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Need some older male advice hereYou have c-ptsd from your childhood. You’ve learned to channel your nervous energy into high achievement, your latest problems are just a setback that you can use to make you stronger. However you need to work on your self-criticism and feelings of unworthiness - read Pete walkers book(s) on c-ptsd . | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 06:47 PM |
| 9 | Girl that wants me as BF will ask if I slept with a girl who I just visited (Yes I did)Iron Rule of Tomassi #1 Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are. Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/20 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Anyone here simply don't care about anyone other than yourself? Feeling nothing but total indifference? I mean even foryour closest family membersTry scoring yourself on NPD checklist . The fact you’re aware of it probably means you aren’t one , but it’s a spectrum. There are other disorders that can make you flat like childhood emotional neglect (CEN). | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Moral Dilemma“Lockdown” and her heavy schedule if she’s a medical student gives her some legitimate excuse but not to put you off for a month. I would suspect she’s up to something. Even if not, you can see yourself it’s not ok. The other girl wants to be with you. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Am I insecure or is my friend toxic?Crabs in a bucket. Lose the negative influence . | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Moral DilemmaWhy can’t she meet you? Long distance makes it a non relationship .Tell LTR to meet up with you next weekend or whatever , if she refuses then you have your answer she’s not in to you. Promote the other girl. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Why do I keep attracting broken girls?It’s your upbringing. The answers are in your childhood. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Any advice?I’m going to say also read Tomassi s book, “the rational male”, even if you’re more swayed to MGTOW than TRP. You’re the catch, and if you don’t believe it , possibly due to the feminist nature of our upbringings , look inside yourself with acceptance and soberly about what motivates you and what you can achieve, put it into action and you will begin to believe it. Action and belief are symbiotic. | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Any advice?This ⬆️ Although I would add it is possible to keep them but you need to accept they may not hang around and it not make your world fall apart. Also personally I wouldn’t go to Thailand for anything except maybe the beaches. | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/09/20 01:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you even handle this?You could have seen it as “credit.” Next time you saw your female “friend” she owed you one so to speak. Instead you gave her power over you by chasing it right away. Obviously paying for two drinks was a hit out of your budget otherwise you wouldn’t care so much. So focus on acquisition of more wealth. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 12:51 PM |
| 9 | How do I make friends?Join a dojo. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 12:41 PM |
| 0 | Recurring shit testTell her to phone Uber . | /r/askTRP | 05/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 1 | What went wrong here?Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/20 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Why do alpha personality traits make you someone that women will fuck rather than someone who provides?This is the present state of play due to civilisation being degraded . Higher civilisation majority of men were “alpha.” Involution is what is happening, not evolution, society has degraded not evolved. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/20 09:18 AM |
| 4 | Was I too honest with plate?The moderator didn’t say he had to lie. He said get another who was happy with the arrangement. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Asking plates for feedback when they break?Yes but walking away sways her perception of him as being more alpha . Although asking for feedback would obviously damage any gain from this and more . | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend seems flirty with her new male colleagueAWALT. Potential monkey branching. Abundance mindset is the counter, you’re the catch. Work on improving your life. If she walks it’s her loss not yours. Also focus on your child . They are your sire. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 10:17 PM |
| 1 | After self improving and reading RP lit, I’ve started to notice my life long best friend is a beta male loser. What do I do?He has to see it for himself. Experience and logic. Also he has to be open to advice which clearly he isn’t. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | How TRP changed my lifeForgive the caustic wit of some of the others here. More power to you OP, continue on the path. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 09:46 PM |
| 2 | What do you with all your past LTR memories? (Crafts, letters, paintings)Burn. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Ex LTR Messaged MeConservathot lol | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Ex LTR Messaged MeSounds like she watches Dr Who or had been watching that film “sliding doors.” | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Ex LTR Messaged MeShe does want you back. General consensus seems to be don’t . I found her deja vu reference interesting though. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Not mine, but someone'sBit tight, but i guess that’s why they have $$. | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/09/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants me to show more affection/care over textLol | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Is cheating part of a woman nature ?IMO, aside from women’s’ inherent hypergamous nature which actually is necessary biologically to a certain point, women with weak fathers or none are more prone to “immorality.” Society is weak now in general, the churches are weak (eg. Vatican 2 council of apostasy) , mass democracy means weak men, means women have not been educated on “behaving” and can run to the state even when with a strong man. Read Julius Evola or Prof Hans Herman Hoppe. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 07:33 AM |
| 1 | “You’re never romantic with me” - shit test or comfort test?Warning sign she’s thinking of screwing someone else, possibly an orbiter . | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 11:29 PM |
| 6 | Is there a name for this phenomenonIt’s attraction. And the fact you experienced the feeling at least twice serves to demonstrate against the dangers of unbridled “oneitis.” | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 11:11 PM |
| 2 | What's the best way to quit Reddit & Social Media cold-turkey?Why do you need to quit it? It’s just a communication tool. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Men's ClothingIf you have the dosh go to a Saville Row tailor or the equivalent if you re not in the UK. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Does ghosting leave you more susceptible to oneitis with women you can't avoid?Or AskTRP | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/08/20 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Now what...what’s next?Spinal injury guys have used vacuum pumps I believe , might help kickstart. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | She has a boyfriend, but wants to lose her virginity to me.If he doesn’t want to now he won’t regret it later either IMO. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 2 | "Surge in calls from male domestic violence victims during Covid-19" - Read the comments...wow.Not really helpful people saying that. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/08/20 07:51 AM |
| 120 | Have you done hookers?Yes the bill for a normal girl is much higher. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 07:37 AM |
| 5 | I’m fucking devastated guysThis is good advice OP. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 07:31 AM |
| 5 | Finally found abundance and self resepctI agree , an overreaction at least based on what was written. I assume there was more to it though from context. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 11:47 PM |
| 2 | After making great strides in my development, with a naked woman in front of me for the first time, I couldn’t keep it up and do the deed. How do I get past this?Spend less time on the prose. You didn’t fancy her enough in the end. There was something missing even though you didn’t want there to be. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Is Anyone Here Religious? Christian In Particular?Yes. Roman traditionalist aware of womens’ nature. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Breaking a vicious cycle and getting my shit together once and for allI agree and a lot of us have struggled with aspects of the OPs lack of motivation. I was merely pointing out that 30 is by no stretch middle age and for him to take heart, he knows TRP and that he has a problem, so he’s halfway there. I’m older myself . | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How can I compete in the SMV as an ageing ugly man?Don’t go the goatee route . | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 05:20 PM |
| 8 | Breaking a vicious cycle and getting my shit together once and for all30 is not mid life, try 50. OP still has time on his side . | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | So I simped out hard (before I know this was a thing) and now I have a new girl that is basically me when I simped out, how do I handle this?Ok not catholic in the Roman sense then. She isn’t a unicorn as you know but sounds like she’s into you, not sure a woman can simp - as long as you’re not. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | So I simped out hard (before I know this was a thing) and now I have a new girl that is basically me when I simped out, how do I handle this?How do her parents own a Catholic Church? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Ever since becoming 'Chad' my ego has gotten out of hand. Any suggestions?Razor like wit is an art , as long as you understand everything has its consequences both good and bad. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 10:50 AM |
| 1 | CPSTD and flashbacks - how to hold frame during themPete Walker’s book(s) are helpful. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't feminist women the biggest supporters of capitalism? Feminism IS the purest form of capitalism in the sexual marketplace.You HAVE to see it solipsistically . The intellectual component to it is a subversive one used to undermine traditional society- theorised by men. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't feminist women the biggest supporters of capitalism? Feminism IS the purest form of capitalism in the sexual marketplace.But it is solipsistic . The intellectual component is from conspirator men using it to subvert rival tribes traditional societies . | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't feminist women the biggest supporters of capitalism? Feminism IS the purest form of capitalism in the sexual marketplace.Women are not known for logic, feminism is not logical. You’re making the mistake of treating it as such. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 08:33 AM |
| 2 | How does child support effect the dual mating strategy?The democratic state is a criminal swindler enterprise which legitimises itself with the weak minded by acting as a surrogate father figure . This subsequent dysgenic behaviour promoted in the masses weakens the private individual. Murray Rothbard and Hans Herman Hoppe are the best sources. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Stuck in a rut in life because of gynecomastia. Advice plzDon’t eat dairy foods. If it doesn’t resolve after that see an endocrinologist if you need to, but you’re overthinking it - most other people won’t notice or care. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 08:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with all the lies of the world?Read John Rappoport - he explains how the illness is no one thing and fabricated for political motives. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with all the lies of the world?You don’t care about yourself enough. The whole world can go to hell but why should you? Read the stoics , keep the flame in your own house burning , be Pater familias - build eternal Rome. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone here feel like a sociopath? This is not a diss on the red pill. Trp has changed my life.Obsessive compulsive disorder | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Ignored messages after repeated flakes, now reaches out again on another channel of communication3 strikes and you’re out . Possibly autistic to next now tho your choice. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 09:29 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with breakup guilt? Partner with anxietyStrictly speaking she has (C)PTSD which manifests differently: I would make the distinction. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 10:00 PM |
| 8 | What the hell keeps you guys going?Women do have emotions and can love you. The mistake is just assuming permanence with it. Nothing is permanent. You need to just be aware and do what you can to maintain things. But you’re not even there yet, It sounds like you’re on a downer, get another focus or foci, get a different perspective, find something that motivates you, meet some new people. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 10:34 AM |
| 4 | How did you find TRP?Nearly middle aged, would say been red pilled a few years although familiar with some of the concepts earlier but had considered them a bit “extreme,” eventually you can’t deny behavioural observations to unfortunately see that TRP is true. In fact my father told me stuff when I was a boy bordering on TRP but he wasn’t able to fully go down the road . Take heart, as painful as it is now - you are young and it will save you worse misery down the road if you continue improving yourself and learnin… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Two big personal issues that are holding me back from fully embracing self-confidenceThere are treatments now for hair loss, involves injecting your own blood plasma (PRP platelet rich plasma) in scalp, have you looked into it? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Women keeping their maiden name upon marriage (hyphenated surnames)I’d been aware of this in Spain etc., but I agree with it being a big red flag in Anglo world a woman trying to go double barrelled with surname. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 05:38 PM |
| 8 | Is looking for a “unicorn”pointless ?Look at background, family, strong father, not Godless. I saw a beautiful catholic girl (wearing a headscarf) in a UK city in a traditional Latin mass church. There are no unicorns but some are much better LTR material. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 01:55 PM |
| 4 | How do you view sex?TRP is a guide to how women behave and interact. (What they do and how it often doesn’t correlate with what they say.) A lot of The church fathers were aware of women’s nature , men were generally more aware but knowledge lost with egalitarianism from French Revolution, mass democracy etc. You use the knowledge to your advantage and to be realistic about what to expect and what you need to do in your relationships with them in whatever form you decide it to take. In a sense it’s up to you how yo… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 01:45 PM |
| 1 | No emotions at allI’m getting nearer to 50 and in recent years saw I had a bit of a problem with this as well. There is another aspect to this, assuming you weren’t abused in a major way , many in childhood don’t get their emotions validated by parents or carers properly. As a result your emotional system can be “wonky.” The advice about giving yourself a little pat on the back for doing simple things above (peeing for example) was actually good as that’s a way of making the problem better. Some female authors ar… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 06:46 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter