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Yikes. Some of the answers in this thread are scary. I’m a feminist because I do not want to get married or have kids or otherwise live a “traditional“ lifestyle. I like reading this sub out of curiosity, but I’m not attracted to men any more than a heterosexual man is. I don’t think I should be systemically forced to partner or mate with a man just because I’m a woman. It’s really that simple. I want the freedom to live in a way that brings me happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:53 PM
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Have you ever heard of "traditional gender roles?" Those are alternatives to feminism, and they all worked well enough to at least generate another generation to pass those roles down to, regardless if you agree with them or not. You really think those work so well? Those gender roles are directly responsible for the most radicalized extreme elements in the alphabet community.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:38 PM
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So a girl called you disgusting for asking her on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:38 PM
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I don’t know you personally, so do you have any context? What were the circumstances for being called disgusting? As for men in general, well, that is an earned reputation. Women, we have to constantly adjust our whole lives to keep ourselves safe from male sexuality. Thats why dads are so protective when their daughters start dating. They say it’s because they know how other guys are. Mothers do not feel this kind of anxiety when their sons start dating girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:21 PM
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You personally? Or just because you’re a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:19 PM
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My comment seemed to upset you. To be fair, I don’t think sex is disgusting in itself. I think most hetero sex is disgusting because it’s almost always unequal. Males usually have an obsessive compulsive craving for it. Females usually want to have sex as a way to share intimacy. Because these two appetites are often so contrary, it leaves many females feeling used and degraded. Male sexuality is often predatory. I’ve been groped, filmed without my knowledge, followed in public as a teen. Ive ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:13 PM
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That is true. But there’s a lot of talk nowadays about how you just need to think positive or whatever. But that only does so much. I’ve taken opioids and like, THAT shit makes you feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:00 PM
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Very significantly. It was the first time I’d ever had intrusive thoughts that were purely sexual. Normally, I’d just fantasize on my own time. But on Adderall I was distracted while doing other things. It was pretty annoying tbh. But it was eye opening. I’ve always had people tell me that my low libido was “psychological”. Nah, it’s a chemical thing full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:45 PM
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I’m sure part of it is socialized. But it makes you wonder why men socialize each other that way? Why are some men so virulently homophobic? I’ve asked men in real life and they can’t explain it other than it’s just disgusting. They might think gay people have the right to it, but it repulses them. Humans are apes, and like chimps, there’s been a long history of sexual coercion from male to female. Basically some males in the animal kingdom have to entice the females with decorations, like peaco…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:28 PM
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For men, sex is like hunger. They NEED it to feel satiated. For women, it’s like dessert. Just a pleasant extra they can enjoy if they want. But not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:58 PM
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Thank you. Saved me the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:49 PM
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I still think women are objectively better looking. A straight woman would not have too many problems kissing Rihanna or Billie Eilish. I’ve seen those exact sentiments in here before. Many women develop sexual attraction based on their partner’s personality, even if they’re not that good looking. https://www.psypost.org/2017/06/straight-mens-physiological-stress-response-seeing-two-men-kissing-seeing-maggots-49217 The thought of kissing another man is like seeing maggots to a straight man. It i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:38 PM
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I just don’t get why these dudes who hate women so much still want to date them. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:27 AM
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Not this argument again. If what you said was true, you wouldn’t see all of this “crisis of boys” about how women are doing better in college. Women actually do better in civilized society. Men are threatening to take us back to the Stone Age with their wars and destroying the environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:22 AM
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Yeah, I wasnt really used to that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:43 PM
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That a meme or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:15 PM
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Yes, I just don’t know if homosexuality is some kind of hardwired genetic mutation thing or if it’s a normal adaptation to a polluted male gene pool. The boy you linked is cute tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:10 PM
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I’ve only masturbated when I was on Adderall. I don’t take it anymore while I can get aroused, it’s never strong enough to act on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:03 PM
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5’6 (same height as me) androgynous skinny Asian. Shy brony anime nerd. He described himself as beta and had low self esteem. You probably will assume I’m lying though, but it was his feminine qualities I was initially attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:59 PM
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Easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:39 PM
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I couldn’t say. Our media is a lot more hypersexual and “sex positive”. But this can also be terrifying to many girls. I’m a millennial and I lost my virginity at 22. For the longest time I viewed sex as the most disgusting thing and there’s still a part of me that sees it that way. At least hetero sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:30 PM
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Many girls and women are fine being virgins because they don’t have a sexual appetite and most of their male peers are porn addicted weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:20 PM
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Look at the growing asexual community. It primarily consists of women and girls. Men might find this hard to believe, but a huge minority of women simply don’t care about sex. We just don’t have this obsessive urge/hunger for it like men do. I am not asexual per se, but very low libido. I am currently celibate and…it doesn’t bother me? I cannot relate in any way, shape, or form to men who describe their craving for sex like a tweaker for drugs. I don’t mean to be cruel, but male sexuality is so …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:16 PM
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That’s the thing tho. You don’t need a libido to recognize attractiveness. When I was a kid, before I knew what sex was, I thought some of my classmates were pretty. I could tell that Disney Princesses were beautiful. I could tell that Britney Spears was more beautiful than Rosie O Donnel. Femininity IS beauty. Males have never strives to be beautiful, that is emasculating to them. Many women aren’t attracted to beauty. But yeah, it’s perfectly fair to take my opinion with a grain of salt. Howev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:05 PM
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Agree. But has he had SRS or is he like that naturally? Also that still leaves 10% of women. How many men look like Sayuri Matar? .000000001? If 10% of men actually looked anything remotely like him, I would be bi, not les.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:44 PM
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Exactly. It’s like poor people who idolize billionaires. They know they’re being exploited by them, but they want to be them so badly, they’ll simp for them. Men are oppressed by masculine alphas, but they can’t condemn them because they want to be them too badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:10 PM
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Agree. Neither you nor I chose this. IMO, all humans have a divine soul. Unfortunately we are trapped in these disgusting ape flesh suits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:01 PM
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-Incorrect, I don’t believe that to be true at all. But I will check out the book because I’m open minded. I am currently reading a book called “Demonic Males: Apes and the Origins of Human Violence”. Written by two men and it debunks many of the feminist claims about patriarchy being recent or unnatural. -I don’t think that really matters. Most people date within their race. I have tried dating black women, but they hold certain biases against whites, which is their prerogative. It’s just easie…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:49 PM
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Well, there’s no way to actually prove that. -Women historically didn’t have the power to select for anything. Men evolved to be bigger and stronger to OVERRIDE female choice and to kill other men that were competition. Why would women select for those traits to begin with? How does having a mate that could kill you with his bare hands benefit women? It doesn’t, except to protect her from other men. Again, a pretty shit situation. -I don’t even know what you mean by racist preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:16 PM
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Who knows. When women are allowed to be educated, they contribute greatly to society. I don’t think we’d still be in tribes. Male violence and war and need for domination has done more to hold the human race back than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:04 PM
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Male biology is the only common denominator. Black women face all the same environmental hurdles that black men do, but they aren’t the ones killing everyone in Detroit and Chicago. Middle Eastern women refugees fleeing violence do not gang rape. I don’t really care about competitiveness or risk taking. They do more harm than good. Society has improved in many ways thanks to technology, but at the expense of the environment. And it’s only improved for those who aren’t at the very bottom. The wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:38 PM
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Don’t even know what that means. But you prove, like I said previously, men hate women because of sex, or lack of access to sex. Misandrists hate men because they’re violent and rapey.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:27 PM
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Yeah, we’ll have fun. Btw straight women have their role to play in why the world is shit, too. By enabling and being attracted to the worst men and having their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:21 PM
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That’s silly. There’s a lot of truly hateful rhetoric in the manosphere, but I would never go and shoot up random men going about their business. Male violence is not caused by feminism, it’s caused by male biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:18 PM
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Men have been expressing them since the dawn of humanity, and will do so until our species is extinct. Nothing new there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:11 PM
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I admit I am misandrist. But misandrist women simply avoid men. Misogynist men will go on shooting sprees. Edit: My problems with men all come down to violence or sexual depravity. With men who hate women it’s almost always about sex and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:03 PM
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It’s not sexist, it’s just reality. Men hold the power because they are larger, stronger, more violent, more aggressive, and less empathetic than women as a whole. Even in heterosexual relationships, it’s all about masculine being dominant and female being submissive. I listen to manosphere stuff all the time. They want a submissive woman. Look at the most wealthy men in the world. Do any of them NOT have sex with underage sex trafficked girls? Look at the most wealthy women. JK Rowling is demon…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:46 PM
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Do you really feel that personally insulted when feminists point out the problems with men? Men do cause most of the problems in the world. 90% of violent crime and practically all sexual crimes. They start wars. In so many countries even today they enslave women and marry little girls. I’m not gonna pretend that I don’t see patterns. Males commit far more problems than females in practically every way. They built society. But the society they built is a capitalist hellhole that I would never br…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:19 PM
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I’m a woman but I find every single trait associated with testosterone disgusting. Ugly caveman jaws and brows, big muscles, beards, constant horniness, aggression. All absolutely disgusting. I look at men and it’s just obvious that they did not evolve in such a way to be aesthetically pleasing. Masculinity is not beautiful. Masculinity is dominance. Intimidating height. Deep scary voices. Big muscles. Some researchers speculate that beards evolved to signify dominance and to soften blows to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:56 AM
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Certain women look phenomenal without makeup. Girls I went to high school with. There is not a male on this planet that looks as good because testosterone makes you ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:59 AM
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Eh, anybody who rates Lizzo a 10 is just being nice. Go on Ladyboners you’ll see a bunch of middle aged ordinary looking celebrity dudes. And a few Asian pop stars. They’re easier on the eyes, sure. But even they’re hideous compared to girls I went to high school with. Libido has nothing to do with it. I have an almost nonexistent libido. Women just flat out look better than men, even if you ignore grooming or fashion. Testosterone makes people ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:57 AM
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And that is the fundamental difference between men and women. Now, I don‘t speak for all women obviously. But I couldn’t give a rat‘s ass about sex. I have known MANY women who have said they feel the same and ZERO men who’ve said this. I like physical affection. Hugs, cuddles, kisses. These things make me feel connected to someone. Sex does nothing. I would gladly date someone who said they never wanted sex. I have felt like an alien all my life because of this. It just doesn’t interest me. I’v…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:07 AM
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You have to keep in mind that men did not evolve to be physically attractive. They evolved to be strong so they could compete with other men. Even the most beautiful men are downright fugly compared to the most beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:49 AM
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I know a lot of people blame feminism or Western culture for the rise of the manosphere or Andrew Tate. But I think this problem will never go away. It is simply the human condition and will always exist due to our level of sexual dimorphism. I would go so far as to say that most straight people do not actually like the opposite sex, let alone love them. Men care about sex more than anything. Look how many men say they can’t feel any emotional connection to their partner without sex. Is that REA…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:42 AM
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Yes, and to be honest sometimes people will gaslight ugly men. Yes, incels often have bad personalities, too. But honestly, even if they didn’t I still think that many would have a very hard time dating due to their unappealing appearance. Ugly women usually know they’re ugly. But men sometimes have a hard time knowing because they’re always told looks don’t matter to women. And to an extent, it’s true. Most men are unattractive. When I see studies that say that women find 80% of men unattractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:11 AM
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Many of those books are biased and try to paint a picture of the noble savage and women being happily promiscuous. Research the Yanomamo and you’ll get a good idea of what tribal life would have been like for women. The men fight other men in ritual combat over minor offenses like sexual jealousy. They have raids with neighboring tribes and kill other men and steal women and girls and take them as wives. To quote the book I’m reading: ”The abducted woman will be raped by all the raiders, taken t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:10 PM
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The children would still have fathers. Men, generally speaking, don’t want to be involved in the day to day minutiae of child rearing. Changing diapers, potty training, reading bedtime stories, doing household chores. But they could still take their kids fishing, do sports, camping, the arcade, etc. I may be wrong, but it seems like most heterosexual men primarily desire to get married to have guaranteed access to lifelong sex. Most women desire marriage in order to have a solid foundation to ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:16 PM
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I honestly don’t know why women need to get married to a man to have that lifestyle. Most of them lose their libido after having kids and they still work full time. Women should just use men for sex while they’re young then pair up or live in groups with their female friends and raise children together. They’d be so much happier. Personally, I love the idea of staying home and helping to raise someone else’s kids. But not with a man in the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:42 PM
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Good for you. Generally speaking, heterosexual relationships are terrible for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:10 PM
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My sister stayed with her abuser despite her family helping her pack her stuff and leave time after time after time. Eventually you lose sympathy for those who don’t want to help themselves. If someone is attracted to abusive characteristics they both deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:05 AM
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If you stay with her if she is constantly hitting you, you are dumb and you deserve it. And yes, I’d say the same to a woman unless she literally could not leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:00 AM
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It would be one thing if he slapped her, shoved her or spit on her. But he used his full football player strength. And yes he actually beat her. IMO, women need to stop dating men and stop marrying them and then they won’t ever put themselves in these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:46 AM
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I don’t condone any violence against anyone. But that was a use of excessive force, even in retaliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:32 AM
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I…really can’t understand what you just said. The wording was very confusing. The lady wasn’t beating him to hell. They were arguing, she shoved him then he knocked her out with a punch. He wasn’t the victim. She was the victim, but honestly I do blame her if she’s dumb enough to still be attracted to him after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:22 AM
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It is just be basic human decency because of how much stronger men are. Like that NFL dude in the elevator. His fiancé put her hands on him, which I don’t condone, but she obviously wasn’t a serious threat to him. But then he knocked her unconscious in retaliation. Of course, she forgave him, so I don’t really have much sympathy for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:48 AM
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Not too long ago, women couldn’t even open their own bank account. You either got with a man or you couldn’t survive. Heterosexuality was institutionalized and forced on us. As a lesbian, I am grateful every day that I don’t need a husband to have a roof over my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:22 AM
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Yeah, it cracks me up when they pull the “real man” stuff. Like “real men don’t hit women”. Because it shows that men, by and large, aren’t motivated by an internal sense of empathy or morality. They need to believe they’re becoming higher status than other men in order to just have basic decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:49 AM
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I can assure you, you greatly overestimate how valudating it is when thirsty men go “dumpster diving” for fat women. I’ve been quite fat many years ago. Do you think it feels good when we get hit on by creeps because we’re seen as low hanging fruit? We’re not stupid. It’s not flattering at all. Many fat women may seem confident, but it’s just cope. The body positivity and fat acceptance movement arose because of the poor self-esteem most fat women have. I dealt with my self esteem problems with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:53 AM
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Plenty of fat and unattractive women without male orbiters have close friendships with other women. What’s stopping men from developing close friendships with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:26 AM
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Exactly lmao. These people are nuts. Do they really think that our ancient ancestor women living in tribes had the power to turn down a giant muscled horny brute because she was not attracted to him? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:23 PM
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I agree with the OP, the market is over saturated with those stories. But there are many women like me who are starved for different types of stories without heteronormative gender roles. But the mainstream doesn’t want it and calls it perverted, so we have to write our own stories. For instance, I love anime with tomboyish women, effeminate androgynous twinks, same sex relationships, or straight relationships with reverse gender roles. But this stuff (especially the gay stuff) is often censored…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:27 PM
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Women make choices to accommodate hetero relationships all the time. They take birth control pills, they get implants, they let their partner watch porn, they have sex even after just giving birth and when they don’t feel like it. Our whole world revolves around the male libido. I think that by and large, straight women are unhappy with their lot in life. Look at mumsnet. I was raised religious and told that straight was the only option and I lived that lifestyle. I know what straight people go …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:40 PM
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Yes, I would agree to this to some extent. However, the effects on pair bonding (at least from the data I have seen) are much stronger on women than men. I agree. But that supports my point. Women, who tend to have a lower libido and a more emotionally-driven sexuality, have a hard time pair bonding with men who don’t share their same outlook. Personally, I don’t think men and women are compatible for pair bonding and I think it’s highly unnatural. Prior to birth control, if a woman stayed in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:42 AM
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Porn addiction is the result of a high libido. Porn addicts struggle in monogamous relationships, even healthy relationships with a partner they love and are attracted to. How is my last point tangential? If you were dating a woman and she constantly had the urge to fuck other men, you don’t think that would worsen the quality of your relationship? Even if she suppressed that urge, it’s still kinda gross, right? I mean, I think so. I don’t have those urges, when I’m with someone, I don’t crave s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:09 AM
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Just look at the Nofap movement. Also, it’s just common sense. Why are so many men threatened by a high body count in a woman? Because it is a sign she will not be faithful. Most women want a faithful partner, too. Do you think straight women like when their dude is looking at teenage instagram girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:51 AM
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The article states that male physical competition, not attraction, was central in winning mates among human ancestors. The most dominant men chose females, and the females did not necessarily have to be attracted to those males. I’m open to the idea that some women evolved a preference for those traits over time as an adaptation. But anthropologists definitely argue that women had less mate choice in history. Patriarchy has been the norm on all continents in all time periods. Marriage was create…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:37 AM
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They don’t HAVE to do anything. Just like how if I was straight, I’d much rather be single than take birth control, having to deal with side effects and possible pregnancies/abortions. Blech. IMHO, men and women are not really biologically compatible for long term monogamous pair bonding. I am perfectly happy for gay men who live in line with their libidos. I don’t judge them and I’m happy that they suit each other’s biological needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:23 AM
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Are ALL men like that? No. But the majority of men are high libido and this makes them crave promiscuity, which is undesirable in a mate. I would not be interested in a constantly horny promiscuous woman who is addicted to porn and can hardly manage to control her urge to have sex with other people. Would you? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:03 AM
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https://www.psu.edu/news/research/story/it-was-brawn-over-beauty-human-mating-competition/According to anthropologists, female preferences had little effect on male evolution. Women never truly had strong mate choice until now. Women have always been owned as property by the most brutal, powerful, and wealthiest men. The most reproductively successful men are mass rapists like Genghis Khan. It’s hard to say what men would be like looks-wise or temperament-wise if their evolution was influenced b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:47 AM
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Precisely. We can’t all be winners of the genetic lottery. But even those who are, their looks fade and they are just like everyone else. You can love and enjoy people for other reasons than how they rate in a 1-10 scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:31 AM
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I get that they didn’t choose it and I was sincere when I said I pity them. It genuinely must suck to be that horny all the time. But that level of sex obsession in males is a bad trait genetically. An uncontrollable urge to sleep with a bunch of women may have been successful in the past, but nowadays it decreases the likelihood of a mutually fulfilling pair bond. I’m an antinatalist lesbian so it doesn’t really concern me, but it‘s probably better for the human race if super horny men were mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:22 AM
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Women are human being with feelings, not objects for you to “get”. If you can’t even see them as people, stay the hell away from them. They really need to invent some kind of libido lowering pill or something. Then you can enjoy life the way many ugly single women do. Volunteer, read books, do psychedelics, play video games, adopt an animal. There is so much more to life than sex. I truly pity you guys, it must be awful to be that obsessed with sex and lead such a shallow existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:40 AM
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Most women just don’t find sex very important compared to men. Men have a desperate craving for sex, like a raw hunger for a steak and they become miserable and bitter and sometimes violent when they are “starving”. For women, sex is more like chocolate cake. It’s a nice treat to share with someone you love. But it’s not a need. Orgasms feel nice, sure, but I could never begin to understand how compulsively obsessed men are with them. Men and women are very biologically different in that regard.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:37 PM
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Exactly! I’m so thankful for all of this Tate/manosphere/red pill stuff, because it tells us the truth about most men. They care about sex. They want a partner to have constant access to sex. Sex, sex, sex, sex, domination, power, competition, raising their status by being seen as masculine. That’s what motivates them. So many women get offended and are in denial and try to tell themselves that men are just like them and they want the same things they want, such as a deep emotional monogamous co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:21 PM
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