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DATING ADVICErachel_anneliese/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 05:38 PM
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Here's my absolute unsolicited advice: You're a rare case of 2 encounters at your age, and you're not likely to find another girl who matches with you compatibally that has the same # or lower. Not saying it's impossible, but.. If the number doesn't matter to you, truly doesn't, then don't ask for her number in the first place. 1 because you said it doesn't matter to you.. 2 because if you do ask her, you are probably not going to like the answer and it will negatively affect the way you see her…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/20 03:00 AM
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Both parties are emotionally bonded at that point. I believe in the bible where it says two flesh become one. So that includes both parties. Same chance of getting STD. Same chance of unplanned pregnancy. If you don't see the connection there I can't help you. Yes the concept of entering and exiting is different. But it really doesn't make a difference in this case. Good for you. Yet if you met your dream girl... who was compatible with you in every respect... and she had a higher number than yo…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/20 02:42 AM
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Men will sleep with just about anyone. Women are usually more picky. Yes. Everyone knows this. You're physically entering someone every time you have sex with them. The same standard "should" apply by men...yet it doesn't to you and most males here. That's what's wrong. Don't demand high expectations when you don't have them for yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/20 02:13 AM
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What specifically was not working out in the relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/20 12:58 AM
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Wonderful perspective & all very valid points. Bless you 💖
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 04:23 PM
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Because I've seen first hand where men do not have to work for sex. Because you feel like you have to work for sex, and you don't see how other men regularly get sex for minimal effort, isn't my problem. Yet--maybe you do see that not all men have to work for sex (like as you previously said, girls will throw themselves at hot men) and you're just opposing the common view here for the sake of arguing. Highly probable, given your username and your previous acknowledgement that men do get the cook…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 02:58 PM
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You've already said this, but your logic is so flawed it's embarrassing. Your ignorance is showing sir
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 02:18 PM
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Then it's just double standard based.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 02:14 PM
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Wow. Thank you for this perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 01:25 PM
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The higher the number the more likely you will never have been her best fuck. So its best you never know that. And that's why it's insecurity based.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 01:13 PM
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Wow. Totally false. A lot of women give out the cookie "just because" or because casual flings are convenient, or a million other reasons. I was once seeing a man, and he remarked that I was the only girl who had not given the cookie on the first date. He was over 30. How much work did he have to put in to get those girls? Nothing compared to what you're implying. You definitely uphold a double standard. Just because you have to work very hard to get laid, or "win hearts," as you say.... doesn't…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 07:08 AM
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There have been countless individuals who have changed their lives at 30... even 35 or later. Of course I see other cases outside of church. You seem to think only people involved in church can make drastic changes to their lives. The vast majority of people are not involved in church and they're still able to change for different reasons. I said you see some cases in church, not all. No one is perfect. Not a single person. And there's something in everyone's past that they would have done diffe…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 07:00 AM
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If a guy sleeps with 20-50 women is it still considered gross? The chances of an STD are just as high & also, do you then consider how the woman views her husband? Or is it a double standard you're following? The only "consequence" I see is ruling out the guys who set expectations on women that they do not feel the need to follow themselves. Not a bad deal imo
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 06:42 AM
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If it was important he should have discussed it calmly before entering into a relationship. This isn't the case.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 06:31 AM
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In some cases yes, but people are ever changing. Someone can have an aha moment and be completely different in a day, a week, a month, 6 months. You see this especially in churches--I never cease to be amazed at testimonies of who people USED to be. Former prostitutes, drug dealers, satanic cult worshippers, etc have all given testimony about how they changed their lives and you would never imagine they had such a past. Current actions are always more valuable than assumptions made about the pas…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 06:29 AM
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Yes. In college a male remarked that three was "too many" for him to consider them a potential partner. It is more common than most people are assuming
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 05:47 AM
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Absolutely agree: WAY too many men are asking for a # here. Even if a # is high, what is done in the past is the past.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 05:45 AM
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I just threw out a number for the example 🤷🏼‍♀️ This proves my point though: the number is controversial in itself. He may consider 10 to be the CC or 30 or even more... there's no telling
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 02:05 AM
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I feel like the number is irrelevant--she may have only been with 3 partners previously and to him, this is too much. The number is highly subjective to anyone. Bringing up a specific number probably won't do much for this issue.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 01:56 AM
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I enjoy cooking and cleaning for him & most of the time it is a non issue. Agreed, he gets treated like a hubs when he isn't. However--I feel like I get treated like a wife though I'm not. He has always taken care of the household bills & 90% of grocery costs, so I've never minded doing my house-making duties to compensate. I worked part time before COVID hit, and paid all of my personal bills, but when I became unemployed due to the virus, he scooped up my personal bills as well. I feel as if I…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 01:39 AM
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Gloves are a wonderful idea & love that they protect my hands. Absolutely know that the broken dishwasher is the major contributing factor here, as I would usually just do the dishes without complaint. I replied to another comment, mentioning that I bring up this issue maybe once every 2-3 months. This has been several times yes, but not enough that I would consider nagging. I think my issue was not correctly explaining how it made me feel. Bringing him my problem instead of a solution was the o…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 12:57 AM
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Absolutely agree! This is a very minor flaw compared to many relationships. I realize this and I am very thankful for him. I may do all of the things around the home, but he does provide for me and I am very grateful for those things he does. I wrote my post when I was obviously very agitated with the situation (lots of dishes, lots of work, and stresses of life compounding on me) and I realize that I made it seem like I repeatedly ask him every day/week to fix this issue. In reality, I may only…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 12:34 AM
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We're not married yet, though he mentions engagement frequently. Most days I chalk it up to his "one flaw" and do the dishes because I really do love to serve him. Yet... Some days I'm only human and it gets to me, days like today when the reality of the DW being broken sets in and the stresses of life compound. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 12:18 AM
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Yes! When reading 36's comment I was thinking the dishes are the only thing I have an issue with. Hehe. It works out. And, maybe after him doing the dishes it won't be such a problem because he will see more of where I'm coming from. Thank you Kara 💖
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 10:00 PM
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Bless you. This has been the most relevant to my issue. I appreciate you and I will try this 💖
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 09:41 PM
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This is a fantastic response. I did feel really close to blowing up at the time I wrote the post because of the frustrations of the DW being recently broken. Before, it wasn't such an issue but it becomes vastly more important when the DW is done by hand 😅🤣 I do everything around the house so if it continues, it will be relieving to ask for some help with the dishes.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 08:45 PM
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Maybe I phrased things wrong because I wrote it after the heat of the moment. I'm 100000% certain that it's not a covert contract in this case, because when I first read about them, I realized I did that in previous relationships in different scenarios. I don't wait around for him to do this against my wishes, and I don't mention it every time it happens. I don't keep score any time he doesn't do this. It's not even a hot topic with us. I wash the dishes without complaint every day--I think the …
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 08:12 PM
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Mmm, I respectfully disagree. I have done the dishes many times without bringing it to his attention or having an "invisible hoop" as you say. I don't command him to do anything. I ask politely. And not often enough for it to be nagging. But thank you for your insight. There's other areas of life this may apply to, but definitely not this (for me personally)
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 07:44 PM
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Great outlook. Thank you so much. I know he doesn't do this intentionally it's just the habit that he has.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 07:30 PM
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Not at all, i don't look at him as a child or a dog that intentionally/unintentionally "disobeyed" me. It's a respect thing. I want to have some respect and thoughtfulness towards me as I do for him.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 07:16 PM
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I'm on that "eco-friendly" journey so I personally dont purchase disposables. 😅 But agreed this is the easiest fix
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 07:12 PM
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