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You’re embarrassing yourself so much my guy. You didn’t even respond to the sources I gave you, are all the people collecting the data just trying to demonise men too?
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 07:28 AM
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You’ve been insulting me this entire time for pointing out well researched facts lol
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 07:26 AM
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You’re straight up stupid bro
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 07:24 AM
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I haven’t. My point was that I’ve met countless women with countless bad experiences where men have abused and assaulted them. No men I’ve met have had the same problem with women. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, I never said this, my point is that it’s an EXTREMELY salient problem for all women and very few men. Yet when we try to discuss this, you all lose your minds and claim we’re misandrists for pointing out statistical facts lol.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 07:18 AM
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That’s literally not true though. And I never said abused men don’t exist lol
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 07:15 AM
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Why? I am a feminist lol. I’m trying to explain thoroughly researched facts to you and you’re denying them.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 07:12 AM
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“More than 1 in 5 women and 1 in 20 men have experienced rape or sexual assault as adults.” https://rapecrisis.org.uk/get-informed/about-sexual-violence/statistics-sexual-violence/ “1 in 3 (33%) women are survivors of sexual violence or intimate partner violence…. 1 in 3 (30-35%) of men would rape if they knew they’d get away with it…. 1 in 16 (6.5%) men are rapists…. Between 60% and 99% of rapes and sexual assault are perpetrated by men onto women, children, other men, and transgender people. (…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 07:09 AM
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And women are openly accepted when they come forward with abuse? What about all the death threats, men saying we deserved it, men claiming we’re lying and trying to ruin their lives, women are publicly shamed and abused when they come out about being raped/assaulted lol. Many women don’t report their experiences either. Most women take years to mentally come to terms with what happened to them and are too traumatised to report it and go through the court process where they’ll be called a liar on…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 06:54 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about lmao I haven’t changed my mind, I’m aware that some men are abused and that women can be abusive, my point was that it’s statistically a vastly male problem. Like I said 99% of perpetrators of these crimes are men.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 06:46 AM
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Yes I’m aware of this. As a feminist I want men to be able to come forward when they are victims of abuse, and to be accepted and helped. It’s the patriarchy that’s to blame here, for creating the narrative that women can’t possibly abuse men because women are so much physically smaller and weaker than men. I agree that this is toxic as fuck, that’s why I’m a feminist lol. You’re the one with no clue how the world works here. You’re denying factual data lol
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 06:41 AM
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It’s not because I’ve personally never seen it. It’s a statistical fact. The data clearly shows that men commit the vast majority of violent crimes, rape and abuse (physical, sexual and emotional). Thats literally a f a c t. I’m not saying one gender is evil and the other isn’t, it’s just that men are SOCIALISED to be violent and aggressive and lack emotional maturity, among other things, and that’s why so many of them end up abusing women/other men.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 06:32 AM
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Bro you literally just said that women are the oppressors lmao. Like you clearly have no critical thinking skills and have no idea what you’re talking about.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 06:28 AM
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But this isn’t true lol. Statistically 99% of perpetrators of sexual assault and rape are men. I’ve never spoken to a man who was beaten or abused by a woman. Every woman I’ve spoke to literally has at least one story of them being raped. Women simply don’t go around treating people like this, it is statistically speaking a male problem.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 06:20 AM
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You’re being dismissive of the fact that every woman you’ve ever spoke to has been abused or assaulted by at least one man. You’re dismissing the traumatic impact of this and comparing it to men not being hit on and other stupid shit. It’s not the same. Men aren’t oppressed, they are the oppressors
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 06:16 AM
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Literally who cares. Men go around raping and killing us in huge numbers every day, who fucking cares if women don’t hit on you? This isn’t a problem. If that was women’s biggest issue then my life would be so so so much easier
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 06:11 AM
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Yes it goes both ways, there are ofc many toxic women in the world too. But the specific problem I’m addressing is how men are socialised and how this harms them as well as women. I’m not talking about things I don’t like about men, I’m specifically talking about how men are being taught to be violent and aggressive, and how this is a serious societal issue that needs to be addressed. If you just listed stuff you don’t like about women as a way of helping, that’s completely different. Men statis…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 06:08 AM
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Yeah we don’t want to be hit on though. Men just won’t leave us alone lol
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 06:03 AM
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I agree! That’s my intention with these comments, but unfortunately a lot of men (seemingly including op) refuse to listen if it’s implied at all that they’re in any way the problem, which is a shame
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 06:03 AM
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In my experience men are generally a lot more unpleasant, like I said because of how they’re socialised. Women are conditioned to hate ourselves, take up as little space as possible, be quiet and passive, care about people’s feelings and try to always be there to help others etc. Men are socialised to take up space, they command the room, they are taught that everything they have to say is valid and worth listening to even if they have no idea what they’re talking about, everything is catered to…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 06:00 AM
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I agree I think men should stop centring their lives around “getting” women and just focus on their own selves and happiness
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 05:54 AM
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Dating men is 100% a risk. 1 in 5 women have experienced rape/ sexual assault. Every woman has many stories about how abusive men have been and continuously are to them. When meeting men from the internet/tinder, there is a very real risk to the woman’s safety.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 05:54 AM
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You’re misinformed and ignorant of the actual issue
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 03:31 AM
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I’m not chronically online, I base my opinions off of facts and data, psychological and sociological studies, plus my own experiences with men as well as listening to other women’s experiences - every woman I’ve ever spoke to has numerous experiences with toxic men
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 03:30 AM
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I’m making generalisations based on data and facts though, trp is all bullshit - plus my goal here isn’t to bash men, but to directly acknowledge the shitty ones and look at the reasons they become this way, because it directly affects me and many other women who live their lives in fear of men lol
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 03:27 AM
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Women have more options but most of them are terrible lol. Yeah women can p much find sex easily, but most women don’t want this. And most of it will be awful and they probably won’t even make you cum, then be manipulative and just overall a dickhead to the woman lol
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 01:38 AM
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What does that have to do with anything lol I don’t understand your point
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 01:19 AM
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Men are socialised to be violent. Look it up, so many studies confirm this. The way men are socialised to be “masculine” is directly causing them to be violent. The vast majority of violent crimes are committed by men, if it’s not because of socialisation then what is your explanation for this? Men are privileged, that’s a blatant sociological fact. Racism is another form of oppression yes, so surely as you’ve experienced racial discrimination your whole life, it would be kind of insulting to yo…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 01:12 AM
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I doubt op has much compassion for women given that he was part of the red pill, literally buys sex with women and still complains about not being able to “get” them on his own
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 01:03 AM
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Well said, completely agree
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 12:39 AM
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All genders have unpleasant people sure, but men are socialised to be violent and aggressive - 99% of all violent/ sexual crimes against women are committed by men. Men as a class of people are privileged and society is catered to them, which leads to male entitlement (especially towards women), and since now women don’t need men to survive and statistically lead happier lives single as opposed to being with men, so many men are bitter and misogynistic views are becoming more and more salient, l…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 12:38 AM
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I would agree with that lol. People are socialised to be a certain way and I think it’s important for people to reflect on that and unlearn problematic behaviours. I don’t see anything wrong with pointing out peoples harmful views
/r/ExRedPill02/03/22 11:59 PM
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As a woman, the best way to meet and talk to us is social events. Meet people through friends, or make casual chat with people at work/school. Don’t just go up to a random woman and hit on her, actually talk to people and get to know them, befriend them and hopefully something will develop
/r/ExRedPill02/03/22 11:43 PM
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I’m coming from a good place. I think a lot of men genuinely are unpleasant people, but are convinced that they aren’t the problem and that it’s women’s fault they can’t get laid or find a relationship. I want men to do better and be better, for the sake of everyone’s happiness
/r/ExRedPill02/03/22 11:33 PM
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Yes, men are socialised to be unpleasant people. They’re taught to suppress their emotions, “men don’t cry”, having close male friendships and good relationships with people is seen as “gay”, so a lot of men are completely emotionally unavailable and immature. They’re socialised into a society that’s built for them, and they’re told they deserve a hot wife just by virtue of being a man. So many men are super entitled and feel that women owe them, which we don’t. I’m talking about men as people, …
/r/ExRedPill02/03/22 11:28 PM
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“If women can have all these options with sex and dating partners why can’t men?” Men do have this. A lot of men are just generally unpleasant people and do nothing to work on themselves in order to meet women’s standards.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/22 11:13 PM
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It’s cognitive dissonance at its finest
/r/ExRedPill24/02/22 06:16 PM
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Feminists agree with this. Ideally we want nobody to be drafted lol
/r/AntiFeminists23/02/22 05:34 PM
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Porn does negatively affect your perception of women, there have been so many studies showing this. More porn usage = more likely to view women as lesser than men. Porn is a big problem for a lot of these young incels imo because they grew up watching it and have never had any sexual experiences outside of it, which can really warp your brain and how you think sex is supposed to be/ how women are. This post does highlight this. Irl men are more likely to cheat in relationships. Men are way more …
/r/ExRedPill20/02/22 02:05 PM
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I want overall equality - a true meritocracy where everyone has equal opportunities and resources. In terms of gender, I want the patriarchy to be dismantled, sexist ideas ingrained into our society dismantled and for society to stop socialising children into gender roles. I want women to be universally seen as equal to men, and for sexist attitudes to be directly acknowledged and dealt with
/r/AntiFeminists19/02/22 04:22 PM
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No
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 05:25 PM
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Point 1: women having a lot of men wanting to fuck us is not a good thing for us. It means we’re never left alone, always catcalled, harassed, sent unsolicited dick pics etc. Yeah we have a lot of men to choose from but most of them are horrible and treat us like shit. A lot of women don’t want any attention from men at all but they never stop. Point 2: doing onlyfans or twitch aren’t easy jobs that any woman can do and succeed in. And these are also available to men, so why don’t you make a car…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/22 10:22 PM
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By other men
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 12:03 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2018/feb/08/sexual-assault-women-crime-survey-england-wales-ons-police-figures This was found in 2018, and is about all of England and Wales lol
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 12:02 PM
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You aren’t pissing me off dude this is pathetic lol
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 12:00 PM
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Okay, let’s just agree to disagree. Have a nice day :)
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 02:26 PM
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You haven’t pissed me off. Your joke wasn’t even good lol. Why is it your goal to piss people off, isn’t that kind of sad?
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 01:36 PM
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No you’re missing my point. Studies show that women make better leaders than men, have greater problem solving skills and it’s a statistical fact that women outperform men in education. My point is that if all of this is true, then “traditional gender roles” that have been forced onto women make no sense. You said they come from our natural biological differences, so surely if that was the case then women would be the ones seen as logical, rational leaders, and men would be seen as the more emot…
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 01:25 PM
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Do you feel good about yourself? Did that comment make you feel funny?
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 12:59 PM
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If you think there’s no patriarchy then we’re not going to agree. Sure, traditional gender roles came from our “natural biological differences” - that’s why women make better leaders than men https://www.forbes.com/sites/avivahwittenbergcox/2021/03/06/data-shows-women-make-better-leaders-who-cares/?sh=14abad9e46be#:~:text=Leadership%20experts%20Jack%20Zenger%20and,gap%20in%20favour%20of%20women. ; women have a larger frontal lobe than men, which is responsible for problem solving http://neurorel…
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 12:56 PM
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100%, I want legitimate equality for everyone. In my view, identifying as a feminist just falls under the umbrella as an egalitarian - we need equality in all areas, including race, class etc. “It favours women’s women’s issues and rights above men’s” - that’s only because men are societally above women, that’s the problem. In most of the world men are valued over women and women experience the repercussions of that on a daily basis. As a feminist, I don’t deny that men have issues, but they are…
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 10:15 PM
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I wish it wasn’t one sided too, but factually it is. Like society brings people up with subconscious biases towards cis white straight men and against everyone else, even if you genuinely think you view everyone as equal. For instance, Harvard made these implicit bias tests called IATs that will show your subconscious biases, and even myself, a p hardcore feminist, subconsciously have views that favour men and are against women. I care about equality and justice, and genuinely that’s all I want …
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:56 PM
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Well it’s nice that you’re not oppressed in your country, but surely you can acknowledge that in most other places around the world women are horribly oppressed? I mean, even if I wasn’t affected by misogyny in my country, I would still be a feminist because I think every woman in the world should have equal rights. The women in Saudi Arabia who are denied an education, forced into marriages to old men when they’re prepubescent, genital mutilation, god even men literally burning their wives aliv…
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:41 PM
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Where’d you pull that assumption?
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:33 PM
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I would argue that everyone in western society is racist, because we’re socialised within a racist system. That doesn’t mean you’re outright hateful towards black people etc, but everyone has been brought up with ingrained biases that are prevalent even if we don’t realise it. It’s the same deal with feminism and how society views women- a lot of it is subconscious
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:32 PM
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You’re a child bro
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:23 PM
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How? What other movement is actually acknowledging the oppression women face and are trying to make real societal changes?
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:22 PM
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That’s a fair point, yes oppression is different in different parts of the world. I would love to live in a Nordic country for this reason, generally they’re a lot more equal. However, I’m in the uk, where 1 in 5 women are raped/sexually assaulted, 99% of perpetrators are men and only 17% of rapists ever get convicted. In my country the police had leaked WhatsApp messages where they were talking about raping and abusing women, and one woman (Sarah everard) was actually raped and murdered by a po…
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:19 PM
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That’s great that you want gender equality! That makes you a feminist!
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:16 PM
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Yeah my ego is the one that’s fragile, sure lol
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:15 PM
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Thanks king
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:03 PM
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Thanks ✨
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:01 PM
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I can empathise with other viewpoints, I’m a very empathetic person. But if you’re going to deny a basic social fact such as the patriarchy, then you’re an idiot. Plain and simple. That doesn’t mean I don’t have an intellectual argument, of course I do, because I’m correct. I’m just choosing not to try to convince you because you’re too ignorant to get it.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 09:01 PM
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Your opinion of me, after insulting me telling me that women are basically complaining for no reason when literally there is mountains of research in my favour, the patriarchy is a literal fact and I’m literally a woman telling you my experience, and you’ve dismissed all of it despite it being valid, said I “can’t control my emotions” ? Like excuse me that having to defend my gender constantly makes me angry? You would be angry too if you were treated the way society treats women. You said I “ha…
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:51 PM
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Thanks for proving my point
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:45 PM
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The fact that you think you have a better understanding of what it’s like to be a woman in this world than I do just proves my point
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:42 PM
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I’ve explained why I’m angry - you would be angry too if you were constantly dismissed because of your gender. It’s infuriating having to be surrounded by people who genuinely see me as lesser than them because I’m a woman, and any valid criticism I have of the system is met with more dismissal. Of course I’m angry. Women are oppressed, and men refuse to acknowledge this and have the audacity to claim that THEY’RE the ones who are oppressed. That’s infuriating. “Welcome to adulthood” yeah that’s…
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:40 PM
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Because you’ve ignored all my valid arguments and won’t listen to reason or think critically lol
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:35 PM
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“I’m choosing to not argue with an idiot” =/= “I don’t have an argument”
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:34 PM
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“Hurr durr communism is when no iPhone”
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:33 PM
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I’m so sick of men thinking that because I’m choosing to not argue with them, that I don’t have a rebuttal. I do. I know what I’m talking about. All of the facts and data are in my favour, if you did any research whatsoever you would see that I’m correct. The fact that I’m choosing not to argue with people who are denying basic societal facts to save my own time doesn’t mean I’m wrong and they’re right lol. There is just no getting through to some people. If you’re at the point where you’re deny…
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:31 PM
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I can’t reason with someone who is so ignorant that they think our society is a meritocracy. Like if you’re that uneducated then I’m not going to be able to convince you, so go do your own research lol
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:27 PM
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No, you’re seen as better than women. You surpass people because of ingrained societal discrimination that benefits cis straight white men and oppresses everyone else
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:26 PM
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If you genuinely believe the west is a meritocracy then you’re fucking delusional lol holy fuck
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:24 PM
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https://projecthumanities.asu.edu/content/male-privilege-checklist I’m not saying men’s lives are easy, just that you don’t have to face the same oppression as I do for being a woman. You benefit from women’s oppression because you are automatically seen as better by default. If you can’t see that then idk what to tell you
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:23 PM
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Right… so stop making me repeat myself, just take in what I’m saying
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:14 PM
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That’s great that you can recognise this! However, society pushes this narrative that men are biologically superior, I’ve seen this argument so many times esp here on Reddit. There are so so so many men out there that genuinely believe women are just biologically inferior to men in every way, and will tear down successful women and claim they’re only successful due to their looks, “sleeping their way to the top” etc. I’m glad you don’t think like this, but you have to understand that this idea i…
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:12 PM
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Yeah… what part of it are you not understanding?
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 08:01 PM
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If you benefit from the patriarchy and do nothing to oppose it, i think you’re a misogynist, that’s just my opinion. By doing nothing, you’re allowing the oppression of women to continue, and even if you don’t think you actively hate women, not opposing the patriarchy in of itself is hurting women, and therefore imo you’re a misogynist
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 07:57 PM
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Yeah imagine if men had been saying for all of human history that women are biologically less intelligent than men even though women have a larger frontal lobe (responsible for problem solving) than men http://neurorelay.com/2012/10/07/female-brain-versus-male-brain/#:~:text=The%20minds%20of%20men%20and,larger%20than%20in%20a%20man. We also make better leaders: https://hbr.org/2020/12/research-women-are-better-leaders-during-a-crisis And the highest iq in recorded history was a woman, Marilyn vo…
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 07:54 PM
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I’ve presented others with facts and they haven’t responded. All the facts, data, studies etc are in my favour. If you refuse to accept that women are oppressed despite all the facts, then you’re just an idiot imo
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 07:45 PM
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Well because women’s oppression is a societal fact, it’s not up for debate. So if you oppose feminism or are just complacent, you’re benefiting from women’s oppression and are therefore a misogynist in my eyes.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 07:44 PM
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In my opinion if you aren’t a feminist, you are a misogynist. If you can live in this world where women are treated like absolute shit and not want to change that, then you’re a misogynist. By doing nothing, or actually OPPOSING feminism, you are part of the problem. Society is never going to change unless everyone takes it seriously and the amount of men who see the word “feminism” and think we want a matriarchy and to oppress men and automatically oppose it are a huge problem. IMO complacency …
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 07:26 PM
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You’re a fucking moron dude holy shit lol.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 06:42 PM
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Literally why do you think this lol. I’m a feminist, I’m telling you that we literally just want gender equality. It’s “getting as much for doing as much or less” what world are you living in? MEN are the ones who get the most out of everything, since society is literally catered to and built around you. Women in relationships still do the vast majority of the housework and child care, and are also expected to work full time jobs and emotionally take care of the family. WOMEN have been doing the…
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 06:18 PM
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You need to actually talk to women, you can’t just put effort into your appearance and expect women to flock to you, that’s not how it works. You don’t have to lower your standards necessarily, just put yourself out there and actually ask people out
/r/ExRedPill08/02/22 05:31 PM
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Because normal people want gender equality- and are therefore feminists.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 05:27 PM
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No yeah I fully understand that, but at the same time it’s not women’s responsibility to ensure men don’t become radicalised
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 10:34 PM
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Well yeah but that’s not my fault. If men are going to end up part of the red pill bs and can’t see through it for themselves that’s not my problem.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 10:28 PM
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Not photos, the descriptions, or bios? Idk whatever it’s called
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 10:21 PM
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Well it’s because it doesn’t work that way for me. I don’t have a set of standards or a “type” I mostly just look for the vibes. I’ve been with a wide variety of people appearance-wise and personality-wise, and attraction just came with the “spark”. But I do have some basic things I look for: emotional maturity, able to communicate, someone who can make me laugh and is fun to be around and can trust, that’s about it
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 10:11 PM
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No I swiped right on people who I thought I would get along best with depending on what’s on their profiles
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 10:06 PM
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Casual sex isn’t my thing. I actually met my boyfriend on tinder: I decided I wanted to date again, we matched and that was that
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 09:55 PM
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Well I have a boyfriend so that’s my reason for rejecting people. Or when I was single and random people hit on me, my reason for rejecting them was mostly just because I wasn’t looking for a relationship and didn’t want to develop anything like that at that time. It’s purely to do with me and what I want as opposed to there being something the guy hitting on me did “wrong”, they’re usually not at fault at all, I just wasn’t interested in this.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 09:51 PM
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But that’s the thing, usually they aren’t judging you. Honestly 99% of the time I’ve rejected someone is purely just for no reason other than there isn’t that spark. Most of the time that will be the reason, unless you’re like a complete asshole who like punches their date in the face or something lol
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 09:42 PM
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I get where you’re coming from, but I just don’t think people you’ve went on a date or two with, talked to for a few days over text etc, have the responsibility to give anyone this information. If they choose to it’s a nice thing to do ofc, but I don’t think this should be expected of anyone. Honestly it sounds like you would benefit from therapy - someone who’s actually qualified to give constructive criticism and point out your faults. Expecting this from essentially any given person isn’t rea…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 09:30 PM
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But so much of the time, the person isn’t doing something that’s wrong or bad or that needs improving on, the other person just doesn’t feel the spark. And if there are a bunch of reasons as to why someone dislikes their date, should they have to then lay this all out for the other person? Surely that would be very hurtful and probably have lasting impact? Whereas if you just accept that you’re both just not compatible you can go your separate ways and try again with others. You’re placing so mu…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 09:19 PM
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I’ve explained to guys before why I’ve rejected them. Same with other women that I know. But you have to understand that some women will be hesitant to do this because so many men react so badly. Some people may have a type, some don’t. It’s not as black and white as that. Nobody is “withholding information” from you if they don’t give you an itemised list of every specific reason they aren’t interested in you. Surely that would hurt your self esteem a lot more? Would you be satisfied with “I ju…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 09:12 PM
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A lot of women will be honest and tell guys their reasons for not being interested or whatever after a date, but a lot of men react to this with temper tantrums, insults, threats etc. Also just not feeling a connection or a spark is a legitimate reason a lot of women reject men; there’s nothing that’s wrong with them per se, they’re just not feeling it. You’re so set on this idea that being rejected = there’s something fundamentally wrong with you, and that’s not necessarily true in most cases
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 08:58 PM
11

You work on yourself, go to therapy, reflect and set goals etc. It’s your responsibility to deal with this emotional regulation yourself
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 08:28 PM
-2

Why doesn’t the male gaze count? I struggle with anorexia and body dysmorphia, which is more than twice as prevalent among women due the the impossible beauty standards we’re surrounded with from birth. Women are taught to take up as little space as possible in order to be valued, which isn’t something men ever have to face. My body is currently at the lower end of a healthy weight, the most I’ve weighed in 6 years and I’m currently having a panic attack about having to leave my house and be per…
/r/AntiFeminists07/02/22 10:14 AM
-5

Not anyone can be “oppressed”, there are ingrained societal structures that benefit cis straight white men and oppress everyone else. If you genuinely think that race, class, gender, sexual orientation etc doesn’t affect anyone’s ability to succeed within our society then you’re insane lol
/r/AntiFeminists07/02/22 09:25 AM
-49

Just because you’re ignorant to blatant societal oppression doesn’t make it not true
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/22 04:24 PM
-54

No
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/22 02:44 PM
-1

🙄
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 12:51 PM
-1

Then why are you on this subreddit lol, the solution to women’s oppression is feminism
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 12:32 PM
0

So you agree that women are oppressed?
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 12:08 PM
0

Yeah it will take men actually acknowledging the problem and working with us to create gender equality. But you refuse. You make anti-feminist subreddits and claim that women aren’t actually oppressed. Nothing will change until we all acknowledge and dismantle the problem, but you refuse. How can you sit and criticise me for “complaining” on Reddit over my own oppression, yet you’re here in an anti feminist subreddit denying reality and trying to paint men as the victim when they aren’t. You are…
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 12:01 PM
1

The fact that you genuinely think this is astonishing
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 11:49 AM
1

Exactly bro. It’s almost like we’ve been socialised within a patriarchy and oppression of women is so normalised that you can’t see it. That you are blind to women’s lived experiences because of your gender and genuinely believe these women are complaining about nothing. Since we are socialised to dismiss women and we’re characterised as whiny children with no legitimate concerns. It’s almost like there’s a correlation here.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 11:45 AM
1

The fact that you genuinely think this is so fucking funny dude
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 11:40 AM
1

No. You are denying reality.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 11:36 AM
1

That’s a fact you fucking moron
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 11:32 AM
0

Me: “I want women to not be oppressed” Men: insult me Me: same energy back Men: “see this is why nobody takes you feminists seriously”
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 11:29 AM
0

You’re the embodiment of the Dunning-Kruger effect.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 11:26 AM
0

The problem is I have a progressive discussion, and everything I’ve been saying is a genuine societal issue that I’m trying to talk about, you’re just dismissing me. That’s the problem. Every time women try to bring up how maybe men should stop treating us like shit, we’re just dismissed as being whiny children, when in reality women deal with oppression every day and want that to change, the men who reply to this with hatred and disdain are the ones throwing a tantrum here. Why are you on an an…
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 11:21 AM
1

I’m just “triggered” because I’m pointing out societal oppression? I just want gender equality bro lol. Yeah feminists act like I do - they also point out societal oppression, that’s the point. “Men tend to actually be different” men are the most violent group of people, 99% of all perpetrators of rape/sexual assault are male. Men stalk us, harass us, belittle us etc constantly and it’s not fair, that’s what feminism is trying to address. If you refuse to see that then you’re denying reality. I’…
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 09:17 AM
1

There are SOCIETAL STRUCTURES and INSTITUTIONALISED DISCRIMINATION against certain groups. God you people don’t understand sociology at all
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 11:06 PM
1

Right and what about the narrative that society paints about women? The ones that has actual societal repercussions for us, like being far more likely to be raped/abused, looked over and dismissed constantly, never being listened to, always having to police your facial expressions, body language, tone etc to keep yourself safe from men and also even in our own homes, we’re so accustomed to the male gaze and constantly being perceived that we can’t even relax. What about the narrative of women as…
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 10:51 PM
1

You’re delusional I’m not engaging with you anymore
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 08:05 PM
0

I’m not minimising it, I’m just saying statistically it happens to women a lot more, the fact that that’s even up for debate at all is laughable. You’re against feminism, the fight for gender equality, and just refuse to listen or think critically when all the statistical evidence is in our favour. There’s nothing I can say that’s going to change people like yours’ minds because you just refuse to budge
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 07:35 PM
1

More recent findings are saying different things though. I’m from the uk, and the definition of rape these studies use is “Sexual violence’ is a term we use to describe any sexual activity or act that happened without consent.” So not gender specific, allowing for the possibility of female perpetrators. Even still, 1 out of every 5 women have experienced sexual assault/rape vs only 1 in 20 men. Even in the “rape by penetration only” definition, 7.1% of women experienced rape/sexual assault vs on…
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 07:11 PM
0

Show me a source for these stats, because every source I’ve seen has the same statistics: men are 99% of all perpetrators of sexual violence and 91% of victims are female. That’s more or less universal in most of western society. “Most murder victims are men, most suicides are men, most work related deaths are men. Like men are dying more than women but hey kill all men” Okay, how is that women’s fault? How is that feminism’s fault? Men are the majority of perpetrators of violence and murder, no…
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 07:00 PM
1

The cdc is American. All other western countries have the same statistics for rape, despite not going by that definition
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 06:50 PM
1

Overall men are FAR more likely to be an abuser. 99% of all perpetrators of sexual assault/rape are male. That’s not feminists skewing the facts, that’s the actual statistic. https://stoprape.humboldt.edu/statistics
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 06:46 PM
-1

Yes but a woman saying “kill all men” as a joke and men collectively saying “kill all women”, or “rape all women” was the exact response to this trend, are completely different. When men say “kill/rape all women” it has power behind it because we live in a patriarchy where men have actually and routinely kill and rape women. Whereas women saying “kill all men” as a joke has no actual consequences because women are beneath men socially speaking. Women don’t actually go around killing men like men…
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 05:44 PM
0

So you just don’t understand societal oppression and hate speech lol
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 05:33 PM
1

Nothing else works. Men have dismissed feminism the whole time it’s been a thing.
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 05:10 PM
0

Dude have you ever watched a movie? What about how women have consistently been objectified, sexualised, characterised as incompetent, a bitch, or just purely there for decoration. The portrayal of women in media has always been incredibly sexist, so now women are making movies with powerful strong women. Why is that what you’re focusing on instead of how horribly women have always been depicted? Some women are purposefully making “woman good man bad” movies to make the point about how men have …
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 03:47 PM
1

Yes I understand that, but it’s important to recognise that especially in this wave of feminism, we don’t agree with everything every other feminist does or wants. There are many factions of feminism and many waves, each with differing views. This current wave of feminism is critical of people like this
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 03:32 PM
1

As a feminist I’m against this, feminists are the ones trying to express that men can be raped/abused etc too. It’s the patriarchy that has come up with this idea that men are strong and can’t be abused by a woman.
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 03:03 PM
0

You’re the delusional one here. Imagine denying blatant societal facts lol
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 06:22 PM
-1

It just blatantly isn’t though.
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 06:17 PM
2

🙄
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 06:17 PM
1

Yes because it’s a societal fact. “Oh look, another scientist telling us global warming is happening and the climate is going to suffer” like that’s how stupid you sound
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 06:07 PM
2

Why? What have feminists done? Even the most radical feminists only want separation from men. Literally what has feminism done to warrant this hatred? Do you all just really hate women that much?
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 05:34 PM
1

No I’m just a feminist and have feminist beliefs lol
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 05:32 PM
1

You judge feminism based on skewed statistics, illogical thinking and a lack of awareness of what it actually is. You anti feminists use the same arguments now as you did back when women were fighting for the right to vote back in the 20s. Everything you think about feminism is a product of anti feminist propaganda, if you actually knew what it was then you wouldn’t be against it
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 05:30 PM
2

Both lol
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 02:02 PM
2

Because people have studied this. Most women don’t report the rape because of the very low incarceration rate, it’s not worth the trauma of having to go through the legal process where you’re constantly questioned, accused of lying etc and in the end it’s only a 17% chance of the rapist being convicted. False rape accusations only make up 2-10% of all allegations, as a man you’re statistically more likely to be raped yourself than falsely accused.
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 12:37 PM
2

Bro 2/3 rape cases go unreported, and the incarceration rates for rapists are extremely low, only 25 out of every 1000 sexual assault perpetrators will go to jail https://www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system I don’t see how you can say the accusation of rape can ruin a mans life when the statistics show that in actual cases of rape and assault, the perpetrator rarely sees any consequences
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 12:22 PM
3

They all fall under rape culture. Which feminists are trying to abolish lol, how anyone can have a problem with that I’ll never understand
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 12:02 PM
-1

Being harassed and assaulted is bad though…? And it’s an extremely prevalent problem among women and any attempts by us to speak out about it is met with angry incels saying we deserved it or are lying. Rape culture is oppression. You’re assuming a lot lol, I’m literally in the stem field and study psychology, I know what I’m talking about
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 11:53 AM
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Everything on this list is empirically backed lol, it’s all from psychological studies. What are you talking about? Rape cases are drastically increasing, 1 in 5 women have been harassed/assaulted and 99% of perpetrators are men. If you looked at the actual data you’d know how fucking stupid you sound lol
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 11:42 AM
1

https://projecthumanities.asu.edu/content/male-privilege-checklist
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 09:01 AM
1

How?
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 08:26 AM
1

That doesn’t make sense bro
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 08:20 AM
1

Feminists are the ones saying that you can have platonic relationships lol.
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 08:20 AM
1

This happens to women all the time. Men will “befriend” them with the ulterior motive of sleeping with them, that’s what’s being criticised in the post. Like I said, developing feelings for a friend later on is completely different and not a problem
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 07:22 AM
-3

No feminist wants female supremacy. We literally just want equality. Even the most radical of feminists don’t want to oppress men, the most radical idea put forth by feminists is total separation from men. Even the most radical feminists don’t want to rape, abuse, traffic, degrade etc men, that’s just what men want to do to us and you can’t accept that you’re the only ones who think like this.
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 07:19 AM
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Why are you assuming I’m lying? Genuinely
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 07:17 AM
-1

That we want female supremacy, hate men, complain about nothing when we have legitimate goals etc
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 07:17 AM
-15

Men have so many privileges over women are you insane
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 07:06 AM
1

This happens too yes and this isn’t a problem. But what I have said where men will purposely do this to try to manipulate women is VERY common and I’m sure if you asked any woman you know about it they’d confirm this
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 07:06 AM
1

Well I’m sorry you went through that, but I don’t understand why that would make you anti feminist. Feminists are the ones who are advocating for equality, informed consent etc, and would never react like that of someone just didn’t want sex. Feminists are the ones trying to get rid of these attitudes towards sex
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 07:05 AM
-3

I just came across this subreddit and am very confused because everything that’s claimed about feminism is just blatantly false
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 07:01 AM
-52

No we don’t. Why do you think this lol so stupid
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 08:47 PM
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That’s a whole different thing, nobody is criticising friends where one develops feelings down the line. What happens is men will find a woman hot and then pursue her under the guise of friendship, trying to manipulate her and get sex from her, and usually end up being really controlling and entitled, thinking that because they were such a “good” friend to the woman, she should reward him with sex. That’s what people are criticising here
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 07:15 PM
-3

No?
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 07:12 PM
0

What??? How is not wanting sex bad? And wanting sex in itself isn’t bad, the post is about men who purposely befriend a woman under the hopes that she’ll eventually sleep with him, which is bad lol
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/22 03:17 PM
2

Good to see there’s hope for people in this sub!
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 09:13 PM
1

God you men are so emotional, try using logic instead of your feelings when discussing important topics
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 05:24 AM
0

Yes in this society women’s bodies are sexualised, that’s the problem. It’s not the natural state of things, it’s the result of social conditioning and can be undone. It’s not inevitable like men always claim it is, the way you see women and our bodies is a direct result of growing up and being socialised within our society that is patriarchal and enforces misogynistic ideas
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 05:22 AM
0

No, many cultures don’t even sexualise breasts and in other countries where women go topless, instances of rape are p much nonexistent. Women’s bodies aren’t the problem, it’s men’s opinions on them
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 04:08 AM
1

But it’s not misandrist, I’m not saying men can’t think a certain way, just that they should want to not be sexist and controlling towards women. That’s not misandry that’s just common sense. Okay agree to disagree, bye
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 04:03 AM
0

“Exposing your boobs to everyone just screams fuck me” no, it really doesn’t. Like at all. A woman could be fully naked and still is not asking for it. All her clothing choice says about her is that that’s how she wanted to dress. Any perception of “this means she wants sex” or to be objectified or whatever is misogynistic and wrong. The problem is how men view women, not what women wear, and we shouldn’t have to change what we wear so that men view us differently - you should just not view us a…
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 03:55 AM
1

You’re acting like I’m just choosing to be upset over peoples opinions, but the guys actions and mindset in this post is straight up sexist. Like it’s just objectively misogynistic, and that’s wrong. I don’t understand the issue with me pointing out that people shouldn’t be sexist
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/22 03:48 AM
0

Cats are great companions but I’m actually in bed cuddling with my boyfriend right now :) so I think I’m good, I’m also very pretty and smart so I have no trouble getting male attention if I’m ever so inclined ✨
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 08:05 PM
0

It makes no sense lmao, men will straight up tell you that they built society and made every contribution while women just chose to do nothing, but then turn around and blame institutional systemic problems on someone else. Like, I’m being criticised for “blaming men” for misogyny…. I thought yall invented everything? What happened to that?
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 08:04 PM
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The only reason there are “consequences” for her wearing things like this is MISOGYNY. And it needs to be dealt with at the source: men and their ideas about women and their sexuality and autonomy. The dress isn’t the problem. A woman should be able to wear what she wants without getting gross attention from men, and the fact that this isn’t the case in our current society does not make it a woman’s fault for wearing revealing clothes. Again, it’s the patriarchy. “He has a right to walk away fro…
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 08:01 PM
1

But the point is that “doesn’t wear revealing clothes” isn’t a valid preference for a man to have regarding women. It’s inherently sexist and controlling and removes her bodily autonomy. In no circumstance is this an acceptable take for a guy to have. “I don’t see control I see a person stating a preference” - the post states that he begged her not to wear it and broke up with her over it. That is controlling ! Begging someone to wear something else because of YOUR sexist hangups and ideas about…
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 05:23 PM
0

I understand that different relationships have different boundaries, but my point is that controlling your partners clothing is abusive and should never be tolerated in any relationship. Issues like monogamy and exclusivity are genuine boundaries that need to be set in a relationship, whereas “you can’t wear this” is not. I have no problem with people having different values and boundaries, and that it depends on each relationship, but what is not okay is controlling your partner. What I see hap…
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 05:08 PM
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Yes in theory, but this take ultimately legitimises the boyfriend’s mindset that he’s entitled to tell his gf what to/what not to wear, and that it’s okay to have this perception that women are objects and need to cater how they dress to men. This idea is fundamentally harmful and absolutely should be addressed and deconstructed. By saying “they just have different opinions”, you’re validating his view of his girlfriend/ women in general as lesser than him and less entitled to autonomy, which is…
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 04:58 PM
0

No she isn’t controlling him? She just wants to wear a dress and he feels entitled to her body and is trying to control what she wears, which is NOT OKAY. Literally how can you think he’s in the right in any way? What???!
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 04:33 PM
2

I’ll never understand the absolutely vitriolic hateful replies I get from men on here for simply pointing out facts like the patriarchy exists and misogyny is a thing. Like why does me pointing out basic facts result in a bunch of men trying desperately to hurt my feelings and just spewing hatred lol. You need help
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 04:06 PM
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In what way is wearing this dress indicative that she’s at risk for cheating???? Like where are you getting this idea from, there is absolutely no correlation between a girl wearing a revealing dress and her being more likely to cheat. “Don’t attract unwanted attention” - women get unwanted attention REGARDLESS of what we wear. Women should be able to wear what they want without having to consider reactions of others; if she wears this dress and gets more unwanted attention than normal, that is …
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 03:20 PM
0

His boundaries are unreasonable. She shouldn’t respect them. The image in the pic is probably a completely unrelated dress and not actually the one talked about in the post - it’s obvious that they just found an image of the most revealing dress possible, but even if this was the dress in question, the boyfriend has NO RIGHT to demand she wear something else. Why would wearing this dress mean she’s likely to cheat? There’s literally no correlation lmao. Her reaction in no way signals that she’s …
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 03:08 PM
1

This study only proves that misogyny and internalised misogyny is a serious societal problem, in no way does this prove that women have always been the ones enforcing modesty on others, to claim that is just ridiculous. Women had no rights until quite recently in human history, it was men who dictated the lives of women before then. Your version of “evolutionary psychology” is just ignorant. “When one woman in a tribe dresses or acts like a whore, it diminishes the worth of every other woman in …
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 02:11 PM
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I wish I was as stupid as you
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 01:17 PM
1

No, for most of human history women have been oppressed, and the idea that dressing modestly is important has been forced onto us. You’re speaking as if misogyny makes any sense and is the natural way of things when that just isn’t the case. Just because it’s been systematically enforced for many years doesn’t mean it’s correct. Imagine if it was the other way around, and women have always been in control of society and didn’t allow men to contribute, and now it was universally considered disgra…
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 12:51 PM
1

I didn’t say men should be forced to stay with anyone they don’t want to be with. Of course men have the right to end a relationship for any reason they want, I’m not trying to take that away from them. My point is that this mindset that men have is sexist and harmful and they really need to reflect on this.
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 12:25 PM
1

Okay so you haven’t been repeatedly insulting me for no reason then?
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 12:14 PM
1

In what way? Women are free to wear what they want, what is there to be responsible for? How men react to this? That’s their problem, not ours. If a man sees me a certain way because I wear revealing clothes, that is not my fault or responsibility.
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 12:12 PM
1

You’re making a lot of assumptions lol. I have worn “revealing” clothes while with my boyfriend, and this has no relevance to how much I respect him lol. Me wearing a revealing dress isn’t disrespectful to my partner, the only reason people think this is due to the patriarchal idea that women = their boyfriends property, and that revealing clothes = woman is low value sex object. Obviously neither of these things are true in reality, so women wearing revealing clothing isn’t the problem, the iss…
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 12:09 PM
0

Wow you’re really triggered huh?
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 12:01 PM
0

Alright bro lol
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 11:58 AM
0

You seem like a really sad person, hope you get the help you need
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 11:55 AM
1

I haven’t been a cunt at all bro genuinely why are you so upset with me lol
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 11:53 AM
0

I think calling entitled misogynistic men with delusional ideas about women psychopaths is important
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 11:50 AM
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Very mature
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 11:47 AM
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That isn’t equality, that’s men holding a misogynistic idea that their gf is their property. A woman wearing a dress isn’t “dressing like a prostitute” or “putting her body on display”, this is just pure misogyny and objectification. I am in a long term relationship with a good man, and he has not once had an issue with me wearing what I want, because he is a feminist and understands that I can wear whatever I want and it says absolutely nothing about my value. You not wanting women who “dress l…
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 11:46 AM
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How is the woman wrong in any way? That’s why you’re psychopaths, like this post is full of comments demonising a woman for wanting to have control over her own body and what she wears, she literally didn’t do anything wrong yet there are so many salty men claiming otherwise stemming purely from their own misogyny
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 11:14 AM
-1

Wow I’m so upset I’m crying rn
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 10:41 AM
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Yeah it’s a good idea to walk away if your partner is trying to control what you’re wearing, I’m fully aware that this is an option, I’m just pointing out the audacity of men who think it’s okay to act like this towards their partner lmao
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 10:41 AM
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In a relationship you’re supposed to have reasonable boundaries: like not cheating, flirting with other people etc. What isn’t reasonable is controlling what your partner wears because you’re insecure. This is never okay and the amount of men who seem to think otherwise is so so so disheartening.
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 10:37 AM
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The woman isn’t wrong at all you’re all psychopaths
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 09:46 AM
1

Because we’re feminists, our focus is on the ways women are oppressed. I’m against all circumcision as I’m sure many feminists are, but this just doesn’t fall under our jurisdiction.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/22 05:13 PM
0

These people just don’t live in reality
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 08:11 PM
33

Yes it’s a myth. You’re absolutely correct in thinking we all have varied preferences - for example the “dominant alpha male” could not be more repulsive to me
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 03:42 AM
1

Mum was abusive and dad didn’t know
/r/AntiFeminists08/10/21 03:24 PM
1

Ikr, if only we could hypnotise all of them, we’d genuinely create a utopian society
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 06:54 PM
1

Lmao his only post is about how to hypnotise him so I thought it give it a shot
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 06:00 PM
1

I was 12-16 and was manipulated/groomed
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 04:55 PM
1

Dream canyon Women are oppressed BELIEVE
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 11:29 AM
1

I’m choosing to believe you’re a troll now and you can’t actually believe the things you’re saying. Nobody can possibly be this dense, have a nice day
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 10:51 AM
1

I never stated men don’t have issues. Okay there are so many issues with everything you just stated as evidence of male oppression and I don’t have time to go through it all and explain it to you. But for the sake of argument let’s assume everything you said is correct; all of these issues are a direct result of the patriarchy and toxic masculinity, which is what feminists are fighting against. All of these problems would be solved by dismantling the patriarchal ideals that are deeply ingrained …
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 10:45 AM
1

Dude you genuinely believe that women are privileged and benefit from being women, when the vast majority of studies state otherwise. That is embarrassing. I have provided so many sources that clearly show the truth, and yet you’re incapable of any critical thinking and instead choosing to insult me for pointing out repeatedly demonstrated facts. Not once did I claim men don’t have issues, you’re using strawmen now. I’ve never been broken up with by a man, and don’t hate men, so again nice straw…
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 10:32 AM
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I’m 24 and have studied law and psychology at university, I’m not basing my arguments on shit I see on Instagram, but the vast majority of credible studies that have been done and clearly demonstrate that this is a gendered issue of male violence towards women. How can you research a topic and blatantly ignore the data that comes to this same conclusion over and over again over many years? You’re denying science and choosing to believe men are somehow the victims, when this is demonstrably false…
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 10:23 AM
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The overwhelming majority of studies show that sexual violence and abuse is perpetuated by men towards women. Go look at my other replies in this thread for many other studies. This is clearly indicative that women are oppressed in society, and if you can’t see that then I have no interest in arguing with you further since you’re denying basic facts
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 10:18 AM
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I did my own research, and it overwhelmingly demonstrates that sexual assault and rape is an issue of male violence against women, and therefore indicative of women’s oppression. I didn’t address anything you said because you’re nitpicking and trying to argue semantics about a very obvious black and white issue, and it’s pointless. If you’re unable to look at the actual evidence that goes against the victim mentality narrative you’ve created for men/yourself and face the truth then why would I b…
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 10:10 AM
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91% of victims of rape/sexual assault are women and almost 99% of perpetrators are men: https://stoprape.humboldt.edu/statistics Men are socialised to take advantage of women and most don’t even realise that their behaviours count as rape/ sexual assault. 1/3 men in this study said that they would rape a woman if they didn’t get caught, however when they used the actual term ‘rape’ the numbers dropped. Men don’t understand that what they’re doing is wrong and that’s a serious societal issue: htt…
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 09:56 AM
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Having sex while not wanting to and being intoxicated and therefore unable to give informed consent is legally classed as rape… “whether you like it or not” this is the universally accept truth, you’re the outlier here. You don’t get to just change the definitions of rape/assault to fit your narrative Also thats just one source, but if you actually looked into it yourself with an unbiased lens you’d find that in most studies it is women who are disproportionately assaulted/abused as opposed to m…
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 08:19 AM
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If you knew anything about psychology or abuse you’d know that in most cases it takes years for the victim to come to terms with and accept that they’ve been abused. Also I was a child when this happened to me.
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 08:10 AM
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No feminists claim that simply being asked out is sexual harassment
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 08:31 PM
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Okay I’m not going to argue with someone who refuses to see reality
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 06:28 PM
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You’re just denying science now? Are the people conducting the studies, all of which demonstrate a disproportional amount of violence and abuse towards women perpetrated by men, are they all just biased? What about peer reviews? Do you even understand how research works? You can’t just deny facts lmao how can you not see how ridiculous this is
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 06:26 PM
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What do you mean? I showed you the actual statistics and you’re claiming they’re just not true? You can’t argue with facts lmao. How can you be “anti feminist” if you aren’t even aware of what the patriarchy is? Do your own research
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 06:24 PM
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I’m not constantly on here arguing, this is only the second thread here I’ve commented on. And I don’t “fall flat on my face”, it’s just simply impossible to argue with someone who refuses to face reality. Women being oppressed is a societal fact, and no matter what I say, what data and studies I show you that demonstrate this, you’re all just going to say it’s bullshit, and the most ironic part is that you all masquerade as intellectuals who know better than everyone else while denying basic un…
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 06:19 PM
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The fact that you automatically don’t believe female victims just further proves the patriarchy.
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 03:41 PM
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I’m not a witch you idiot
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 03:40 PM
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One in 5 women will be raped at some point in their life, versus one in 71 for men. Men are more likely to be raped by another man. 91% of victims of rape are women vs only 9% are men. You’re just spewing blatantly falsifiable lies, and if you took a second to actually look into the facts you’d see the truth https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/publications_nsvrc_factsheet_media-packet_statistics-about-sexual-violence_0.pdf
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 12:00 PM
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I’m literally about to go file a police report for the years of abuse I endured from my ex. Every woman I’ve ever met has been sexually assaulted/raped/abused by men, yet only 1.7% of rapists are ever brought to justice. That’s the patriarchy
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 11:42 AM
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“You still think the earth is round and vaccines aren’t a way to control people 😂😂”
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 11:04 AM
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Exactly. You are the stupid person in this situation.
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:47 AM
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“Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.” ― Mark Twain
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:45 AM
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So you’re an idiot, got it. Educate yourself please. You’re embarrassing yourself
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:43 AM
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So you’re an idiot, got it. Educate yourself please. You’re embarrassing yourself
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:43 AM
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So you’re an idiot, got it. Educate yourself please. You’re embarrassing yourself
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:43 AM
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You’re an idiot bro
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:40 AM
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Wow okay I’m not going to waste my time arguing with you since you have no idea what you’re talking about. Please for the love of god educate yourself, you’re genuinely embarrassing yourself
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:40 AM
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Feminists don’t want this though, I am a feminist and am literally telling you this isn’t what we think or want. Women go into lower paying jobs etc because of how we are socialised, and most high paying fields are male dominated, leading to copious amounts of sexual harassment or the women who do venture into those fields just being treated like shit by men. Men have made it so advancement through the glass ceiling is impossible, and yet claim that women who don’t break through are just not as …
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:38 AM
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Bro you’re an idiot. If you genuinely believe society isn’t fundamentally biased towards cis straight white males and against everyone else, you’re just genuinely stupid. It’s an easily observable and blatantly obvious fact. Why are you refusing to educate yourself?
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:34 AM
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You’re an idiot. The patriarchy existed a lot more extreme in the past yes but it is still a huge problem. 97% of women in the uk have been sexually harassed, the wage gap still exists, all medications, cpr dummies, car crash test dummies etc are all based on men, so women are far more likely to die/become seriously injured. There are so so so many examples of how women are oppressed and you just refuse to look at the facts because you want to be the victim
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:32 AM
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The gender pay gap in the uk was 8.9% in 2019: https://www.ons.gov.uk/employmentandlabourmarket/peopleinwork/earningsandworkinghours/bulletins/genderpaygapintheuk/2019 https://www.openaccessgovernment.org/97-of-women-in-the-uk/105940/
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:19 AM
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There is a wage gap, feminism is about equality and women are not privileged. You are living in a delusional fantasy land where you want to be the victim. Educate yourself. 97% of women have been sexually assaulted by men, the fact that you refuse to see what’s right in front of you just proves that all of you anti-feminists are wilfully ignorant.
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:13 AM
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Do you also think white privilege doesn’t exist? It’s like you people refuse to educate yourselves even a little bit. The patriarchy is a blatantly observable fact, denying that society has institutionalised biases is just pure ignorance. Read a history/sociology textbook for fuck sake
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 10:09 AM
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My claim was that men are praised for doing the bare minimum, which they don’t exactly do studies on so I’m not sure what you want from me here? It’s kind of a blatantly obvious observation so I’m unsure as to why you need to see empirical data on it, just look around you
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/21 08:16 AM
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I provided some sources in my other responses in this thread, but this comment was mostly just my opinion. I can’t really provide a source for the claim that men get praise for doing the bare minimum with parenting their own kids since it’s anecdotal evidence, but it is something I’ve seen a lot and I’m unsure how you can be oblivious to it; here’s an article about it instead https://www.google.com/amp/s/globalnews.ca/news/4263122/dad-bias-praise-parenting/amp/ There are many studies that show w…
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 09:20 PM
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You’re blatantly ignoring the facts and choosing to believe something that isn’t true. I have shown you the actual data and you’re ignoring it, and now you’re just using strawmen. I’m not angry at all, I’m amused and fascinated at your ignorance
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 07:43 PM
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Bro that’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard please for the love of god educate yourself lmao this is just pathetic
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 07:29 PM
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I genuinely don’t understand why you think this? So are you admitting that you’re ignoring the facts now? The facts are that men aren’t discriminated against in family court: that’s backed up with studies and statistics. So you are ignoring the facts yet accusing me of doing so? I am a feminist, why are you trying to claim I’m not? And how am I being disingenuous? Dude literally none of your points hold up and you’re not making any sense lmao
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 07:24 PM
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Whatever bro, keep living in your delusional world where feminists somehow ever had enough power to enforce a matriarchy and discriminate against men in custody battles, even though that is just blatantly not true, and men aren’t even discriminated against since the court only decides who gets custody <10% of the time and most of the time the fathers don’t even ask for custody of their kids. Im not going to engage in this argument anymore since you’re just blatantly ignoring the facts and actual…
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 07:10 PM
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Right so you’re going to accuse me of using biased sources and then link me to ‘mensrights.com’ and ‘dadsdivorce.com’ lmao make that make sense my dude I did read the article you posted, I just didn’t mention it because it’s not relevant to anything lol. This one lady in the 80s thinks women are better parents - that’s not indicative of how feminists think today especially regarding child custody, where feminists advocate for gender equality lol, which again is the whole point of the movement. Y…
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 06:46 PM
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I provided sources to actual studies about this topic, whereas you have none to back up yours. You can’t just claim all the studies are biased, that’s not how science works. Where are your sources that men are discriminated against in this way? Single mothers are demonised I see it every day. Granted this is purely anecdotal so here’s some stats to back it up: 75% of single parents suffer stigma https://www.hud.ac.uk/news/2019/december/single-parent-sigma/ and around 90% of single parents are wo…
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 06:04 PM
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Source for what exactly? How are my opinions irrelevant?
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 05:17 PM
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Nobody is saying that men don’t go through the same thing, deadbeat mothers are indeed a thing: I had one myself. “Mother’s are expected to do the majority of childcare because the government gives women custody most of the time” This isn’t entirely true and even if it was, this still reinforces the patriarchal idea that women are innately better suited to childcare, which feminists are against. Anyway, in 51% of custody hearings, BOTH parents decide that the mother will get custody: https://erl…
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 05:15 PM
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Yes parents shouldn’t care about recognition for looking after their own children, but surely you’re aware of how men frequently ARE given praise for “babysitting” their own children and doing the bare minimum? That is blatant sexism; mothers statistically still do the majority of the childcare and get 0 recognition because it’s expected of her, whereas I’ve seen men praised for doing their daughters hair once or whatever. I don’t understand how you can twist this to be anti-feminist; surely you…
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 02:46 PM
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Agree 1000000%. It’s infuriating how ignorant they are yet claim to be more intelligent than everyone else for “noticing” all of this. It’s literally just blatant misogyny and entitlement under the guise of intellectualism
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 11:28 AM
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Any insecure and pathetic* man wants a submissive woman due to his fragile ego and need to feel superior :)
/r/ExRedPill05/01/21 09:58 PM
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Thank you! If a man acts like an “alpha”, I’d go out of my way to avoid him at all costs. I don’t understand why they think women are attracted to this
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 10:21 PM
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The idea that women only like “alpha males” is just a lie. I’m a woman and I prefer short, soft, sensitive guys. Muscular, tall and masculine men are a turn off for me. You need to accept that women are different and have different preferences when it comes to what they like in a partner. Don’t let your insecurities or redpill bullshit ruin a chance at something; if she agreed to go out with you then she obviously likes you
/r/ExRedPill25/11/20 08:46 PM
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I’m aware men have issues too, which are caused by the patriarchy. Feminism benefits men also by looking to abolish this. Feminism focusing on women’s issues is not saying men don’t have their own problems, but you can’t logically look at gender issues in today’s society and claim men and women are equally oppressed, because that’s just factually untrue. Society used to be far more patriarchal, but we still have a long way to go before women are seen as truly equal to men. There are still system…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 01:23 PM
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Okay well I don’t think it’s very ‘humanist’ of you to blatantly ignore that 1 in 5 women will experience sexual assault in her lifetime; there are countries where fgm and child brides are still common; women are constantly being dismissed as too dramatic or emotional leading to even doctors failing to diagnose them properly, often leading to medical complications or even death; women’s right to our own bodily autonomy is still seen as a controversial issue and illegal in most of the world; we’r…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 12:44 PM
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Okay well there’s your problem. Women are oppressed, that’s just a fact. If you can’t see or accept that then obviously you’re not going to vibe well with the feminist movement lol
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 12:33 PM
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All I’ve done is explain what feminism is. It seems to me that your issues with it come from a fundamental misunderstanding of women’s oppression and what feminism aims to do
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 12:29 PM
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It is for equality and it is also about men, but as I said the focus is on women since we’re oppressed. It advocates for women’s rights and to bring us up to the same level as men, thus creating gender equality. I’m struggling to understand what exactly about this you have an issue with? Because it doesn’t prioritise men? If it did, it wouldn’t be a movement towards equality
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 12:25 PM
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It’s primarily for women, but also benefits men. It’s gender equality and focuses on women’s struggles since we’re the ones who have been/still are oppressed. It’s not supposed to be all about you
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 12:19 PM
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I’m a bisexual woman who prefers smaller boobs, does this make me a beta male?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 08:06 AM
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I and a lot of girls I’ve met have rape fantasies and like being dominated in bed, despite having a history of being sexually abused. We internalise the abuse and replicate this over and over, it’s something I’m working on in therapy rn. I’m only attracted to people that are toxic and only enjoy sex if I’m being submissive, as a direct result of my years of sexual abuse. Since 1 in 5 women have been sexually abused/assaulted, i would guess that there’s some correlation. Idk though, just my opini…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 04:12 PM
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But atheists aren’t being discriminated against? I’m an atheist and I don’t feel the need to seek support online because I’m not facing any sort of backlash from being an atheist. The same way men aren’t facing any backlash just for being men, hence why subs like this aren’t necessary. Men’s behaviours that are damaging (such as abuse, rape, sexist attitudes) are facing backlash, and rightfully so, but men are so privileged that any sort of movement towards equality feels like discrimination.
/r/MGTOW20/10/18 04:00 PM
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Even if that were true, which it isn’t, why would you make a point of “going your own way” to then solely focus on women? Like surely you can see how that doesn’t make any sense?
/r/MGTOW20/10/18 02:54 PM
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False rape allegations only make up 2-10% of all allegations.
/r/MGTOW17/06/18 05:38 AM
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