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| 8 | Single mom of two seeks traditional provider who is also smokin' hot. Because the last two dads weren't "traditional" or "provider" enoughMe me me, all about me. What a catch 🙄 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/05/24 08:24 PM |
| 9 | It’s unfortunate good looking men discriminate against women over 35At this point I just sit on the side and laugh at surrounding madness and delusion. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/03/24 08:04 PM |
| 23 | Emotionally mature and stable AND educated and successfulAll she needs to do is check her friendzone. But these guys are probably not hot and successful enough for her standards. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/01/24 07:41 AM |
| 15 | Single mom with kids from different fathers, twice divorced, mental health issues, and an OnlyFans wants a 6ft husband and role model.What a catch. Some people have no shame. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/10/23 03:11 PM |
| 14 | Gee, I can't imagine why guys only want one thing from you.44? This is rough. If she doesn't lie about her age she must have been or is doing some serious drug/drink alcohol And I'm sure she thinks she is 10/10. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/09/23 06:03 AM |
| 22 | [Video] Leftover landwhale turns down guy that is "nice" and intelligent after a long and great date because he doesn't drink alcohol, she exceeds the level of delusionality you would normally see..You can't make this stuff up 😂 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/03/23 02:47 PM |
| 9 | Women are falsely accusing Leonardo DiCaprio of being a "sexual predator" for dating a 19-year-old CONSENTING ADULT woman. This is part of a disturbing slander campaign designed to equate older men's attraction to younger women as pedophilia.According to certain gym influencer, you can be "underage 21 year old", so yeah... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/02/23 11:27 PM |
| 8 | When a woman thinks she's a 12/10 and refuses to settleShe has male friends. Assuming they are from the same circle, some of them are probably friendzoned. Ofc she is single, because she doesn't see a good guy right next to her, but aim for Bezos or Musk level of status. Nothing unique. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/02/23 04:20 PM |
| 34 | [Video] Joker that aready swiped left on all men concludes she must be more selective to find love - you can't make these things up!"My time is precious" said woman recording video for tiktok. Priorities... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/23 03:07 PM |
| 5 | She is so "family oriented" that she will keep having kids whether or not they have a father.No need to be cautious. It's safe to assume she is not fit if there is no full body pic. It would be instant swipe-left for me. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/11/22 09:34 AM |
| 69 | Newsflash, ladies: men don’t owe you a relationship if you don’t work on yourself! Otherwise, you’ll become an bhean díomhaoin!She got absolutely roasted in the comments section too. And she deserved every little bit of that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/10/22 06:10 AM |
| 2 | "C'mon Mr. Right where are you?" asks the single mom of 3.the same person whose house looks like absolute clusterfuck (kids' stuff everywhere) so bathroom/toilet is probably the cleanest room in the house | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/09/22 03:23 PM |
| 7 | DiCaprio: Your misogyny has been noticed. Oh yes, it's been noticedHoly fuck, this is gold. Also, exactly the way journalism is nowadays. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/09/22 11:30 AM |
| 9 | DiCaprio: Your misogyny has been noticed. Oh yes, it's been noticedI mean, nobody is stopping these women from dating him? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/09/22 08:30 AM |
| 9 | You've gotta be a special kind of neurotic and attention-seeking if you think your hubby will stay by your side after irreversibly mutilating your body to become an adhfhuafaireacht!Shittest 101. Fuck off and leave. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/08/22 12:48 PM |
| 2 | For those who missed the point of the Asian women meme, it wasn't about some race or ethnicity men want, but rather a basic standard for Western women to follow, but I'll come at it from a different angle.What a fucking Trainwreck. You can't make that stuff up. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/08/22 06:43 AM |
| 8 | Pregnant mom has no more time for games.She is definately open, or at least her legs are. trainwreck | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/07/22 07:41 PM |
| 35 | Girlboss spent her prime years "becoming the best version of herself." Now surrounded by other career women, all wondering where the "be better" men are.She is the table | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/07/22 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Does the average guy really not get casual sex?Exactly this. Same observation from my average life and my average friends. It's just the way world works. I have better things to do than complain about these. It's an interesting thing to discuss it from observer perspective, but to complain about it? Man, I rather spend that time on one of my hobbies instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 01:50 PM |
| 2 | if you're single but dont want to be, why?I don't want to be a father and I don't want marriage. These two things alone are deal-breakers for vast majority of women. Add me being slightly overweight and on the unattractive side and that's basically it. Accepted this fact long time ago 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 06:36 AM |
| 15 | I see now why she has to have OnlyFans. With that kind of attitude, she would be raicleach na banríon™️I'd like to see the whole conversation tbh | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/06/22 02:46 PM |
| 7 | Most men just take the little options they getI dont know, it could use some decent formatting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 03:08 PM |
| 7 | Cold Approaches/online dating vs Dating women/men within existing social Networks, and why?I would never cold approach a woman, because other than her looks i know nothing about her, so knowing my own character and what i would want to from a partner - might aswell play the lottery. OLD - hahahahaha, we all know how that works out nowadays. Only reasonable choice is pre-existing social network as you generally know more about the person. That saying, the rejection in the social network can be brutal and leads to extra issues with others down the line. Pick your poison, I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 02:53 PM |
| 10 | Long in the tooth lady leaves love of her life for long term loneliness."not interested in sex" but "wants a child". Every time I see this, it cracks me up. Sorry babe, that's not how biology works 🤣 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/03/22 04:11 PM |
| 5 | [48-F] Every day I am less impressed by people. Is it asking so much for a man to be this 46 list of requirements?hahahahahahahahaha... now that's something else. Imagine what a nice person she is. Probably looking at literally everyone as beneath her, because that is basically a list of what she thinks she brings to the relationship too. "It's all about me" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/02/22 09:52 AM |
| 3 | Poor bastard discovers that his GF has become an bodóinseach ar líne on OF. Something tells me she checks the boxes of being morally, ethically, and intellectually handicapped.She belongs to the streets indeed. Simple as that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/22 01:01 PM |
| 8 | Yeah, she's almost certainly a deamhan fola looking for a new Renfield!It was more of a reaction to how ridiculous this one is. I've seen all kinds of trash, but this is one of the true gems. I guess I could have worded my comment differently. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/22 11:18 AM |
| 1 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?I don't really see "worse" scenario here. More like both have something I would not be a fan of, but I wouldn't call one or the other worse. 20 / 16 - age difference not so much, more of the "she is just innocent 16yo" thought, and that it might be simply hormones thinking. On the other hand 20 yo man is also mostly hormones so a good fit! 45 / 20 - age difference? Maybe, but in the end - you are supposed to be responsible for your choices at 20. That 20 yo man getting 16 yo pregnant will be cal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:41 AM |
| 1 | I joined this sub thinking it was a space for debating regarding real issues… why does it seem like every single post is just out to antagonise and stoke the other?Examples please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:10 AM |
| 6 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?Usually a sign of power and status, so yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?You could actually want a stable relationship instead of only dates. Unless that is as far as you go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Study on Sexually and Romantically Unsuccessful Men “Linked to Local Mating Ecology”That's some Ignobel level research. Come on... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Cat obsession is a red flag in a partnerHumans are assholes too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Beyond shallowness - are men are attracted to competence?It's definitely a positive trait, regardless of what woman does. It shows they put effort, care about what they do, and they ain't lazy. Can't go wrong with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Can't decide what's worse, fat people or single parents on dating appsI would vote for single parents, especially young age. More often than not it's just a litany of requirements while showing all the worst they have to offer. Also pics of kids on your dating profile? Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 04:11 PM |
| 14 | Do women not realize that they are the ones who are choosing to sleep with the men that are not good to them?This. Women have terrible tendency to stick with men they shouldnt be with and it's not uncommon for them to defend the actions of these men despite no logic for it whatsoever. I'll never understand this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | pls post nudes or pet picsThis cat lifts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:54 PM |
| -1 | Why are men okay with their young sons being sexual but not the other way around?I don't hear you criticizing that woman here. I'm guessing it's fine for her to agree to this, but not for him allow her to do it? And no, I don't think that's a right thing to do to, but if course it's all men's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:51 PM |
| 4 | Her: Why would a man be turned off to find out I do porn. Like I just don't get why he would ghost me after that.......My first thought. This alone is a no-go and I actually like tattoos in general. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/01/22 01:23 PM |
| 0 | yall are misogynistic asfHahaha, no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Women should be allowed to abort their short sons.As we are all for equality in 2022, we can also look into aborting all daughters with less than D cup. Happy new year! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:58 PM |
| 3 | How I proved to myself that women are attracted to assholes (and you can too)I see what you did there. Good stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Be Honest: Do You think Sex the Meaning of Life?No but it one of the things in life that you want at least once in a while. In the end it's all about your priorities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:33 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to the male population: There seems to be 3 factions split about how they handle female sexuality: The ones who reward hoe behavior, the ones who are resentful and slut shame and the ones who don't care and want to embrace the systemSounds about right. That's exactly what I would do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 12:31 AM |
| 2 | People need to learn to give only what they're willing to give without receiving anything in return.Can you elaborate why you think it's "important"? (No shade, genuine question) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 08:25 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?Why would I want to get down to their level? Let them live in their delusional fantasies, while I judge people with my own standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Workplace relationshipsCrew/flight attendants romances are a thing, especially on long flights. Overnights in hotels far from home - perfect opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Kevin Samuels, a pick up artist ?Search for "average at best" on YouTube. That's where KS went viral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Q for TRP: If your dream girl proposed marriage to you RIGHT NOW, would you accept?Even taking that at face value is already not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 02:03 AM |
| 22 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.I was about to post exactly this, but decided to read comments again. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAbsolutely. Height is a non-factor for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 06:53 AM |
| 2 | The best outcome for all men and women, is for hypergamy to be scientifically proven.divorce rate is what, 40%? That's "sometimes"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value?Well, that is correct actually. Most of these attention seekers that post 25 selfies a day aren't exactly a great wife material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Would women be willing to date a Sex Worker?I fucking love this thread. All these hard noes, meanwhile we are bombarded by articles about poor "OF entrepreneurs" and their struggles with finding love and that it's time to destigmatize sex workers because "it's just work" etc etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Why is there this new trend among red pillers and guys in the manosphere to just "give up" on dating and women?I'm not at the point that I agree with them fully, but they are not wrong in overall message. Things are really getting out of hand, and - more of then than not - cons simply outweight the pros. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Do women find alternative men attractive?Less than 1% of girls look good in leggins too. It's not like they will suddenly stop wearing them - both men and women :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Do women find alternative men attractive?As somebody who still wears alot of alternative clothes - I don't think women consider this attractive - especially with what is promoted in mainstream media. I live in student town, and I pretty much don't see any goths/punks/metalheads. I agree that not only women, but also men really start to look very similar. Chasing trends is everything. That saying, I also think alot of people only wear alternative cloths when they actually go out to gigs/clubs. They simply no longer consider it every-day… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Would you be ok with a masculine physique women that is feminine?There are extreme examples for everything I guess. I've seen some pretty good looking powerlifters and I 've some really ugly body builders. I think it depends on how balanced the feminine / masculine that physique is. And in the end - beauty is subjective. Also keep in mind that men have very varied preferences. Proof? There is porn category for everything (bodybuilders included!) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 02:53 PM |
| 9 | Dating sucks for everyoneYou expect responsibility? Hahahaha, come on... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:09 PM |
| 1 | If you're upset about not having success on OLD, why not lower your standards?Thicc queen. Welcome to 2021. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?Reading all these comments here makes me think I must be 2-3/10 tops. Daily reminder how brutal life is once you hit certain age 🤣 oh well 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe clearly has enough in the wallet to make up for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Mgtow can go mainstream all it wants, but at the end of the day it isn't women as a collective or even sjws/far leftists, but taken/married men promoting singlism, bias and discrimination against single men.This is one of the worst takes I've seen here in quite some time. Couldn't be any further from the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 08:38 AM |
| 3 | It's not "the patriarchy" that upholds unattainable beauty standards, it's other women.Final two sentences couldn't be any more on point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 08:26 AM |
| 6 | Camwhore learns her place in the worldHahahahahahaha Sorry, not sorry | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/12/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | EVERYBODY values appearance in a partner way more than they want to believe…This is interesting list. I'd like to see somebody show this to group of women and see where they set yourself against this scale. This would be certainly an interesting experiment. Also - is there a similar one for men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:37 PM |
| 7 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.FDS says hi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 08:17 AM |
| 0 | What's the best dating advice for womenHumans are treacherous by nature. Over 2000 years of history shows it clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 08:25 PM |
| 15 | What's the best dating advice for womenThe word is "annoyed". If she is annoying, I'm out instantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Can someone provide me examples of men and women from 5/10 - 10/10 ?if you go out and nobody pays attention to you on the street - you are 5/10. Good looking men/beautiful women will always turn heads. It's as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?Seriously putting frauds from f&f in the same category as joker? Come on 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Do 'average' Women just bring more to the table today than 'average' Men?"emotional labor"? Can we stop this nonsense please... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 11:25 PM |
| 25 | Late-term epiphany [40-F] I already enjoyed it a lot, and learned from my mistakes. Now I want to connect and have a life partner againAt least the PD part is not wrong. Women do that all the time too. Rest is just the usual mumble. But hey - men bad, women most affected. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/11/21 11:30 AM |
| 1 | What percent of women are AWALT?The younger they are, the higher the percentage is. I look at student life in my town and it's an absolute clusterfuck. Most of these girls are already hopeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 07:47 AM |
| 2 | "Red Pill" Men: Your problems would not be solved if a woman was willing to have sex with you whenever you wished.Care to elaborate? its easy to call somebody a lunatic, how about some counterpoints? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 10:15 AM |
| 15 | What height is too short for a guy? Anything below 6'4". Meanwhile, she looks like this.Omg that is so fucking accurate. Literally Ice Age character 🤣 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/11/21 11:33 PM |
| 54 | Yes I'm overweight. And here are my demands. I'm not like all the other girls, I check credit scores too!i would swipe her left on this dumbass snapchat filter alone. grow the fuck up. Why do grown adults think that using these filters is appealing in any way is beyond me. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/11/21 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Tattoos are a cheat code for getting girlsThe only real cheat code they are, is boost to your confidence. Tattoos are so prevalent in society, there is nothing that special about them, unless you have some really unique or really well made ink. And yes, I have more than enough of my body covered. Deffo disagree with this ”hot take" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 11:33 PM |
| 9 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?If you don't like cats, I don't like you. Sorry, not sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | " If you're not interested in actually getting to know me AND meeting me OR trying to have a relationship with me DO NOT BOTHER WASTING MY TIME "Gold | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/10/21 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Post-wall divorcee can't go a month without getting pumped & dumped. Wonders where all the men without problems who want a used up hot mess are. Bonus: Chronic health disorder & gingivitis.The fact that she asks about relationship when she has way bigger problems with herself says enough about her self-awareness. Her priorities are not where they should be and it blows my mind she doesntr understand the obvious. Sad life she has | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/21 07:39 AM |
| 12 | Do modern women overestimate their attractiveness? Or is it that they underestimate it?Well, pretty much the same level of usefulness as instagram and other social media, but of course more scrutiny will go towards video games. Btw, loads of women play video games to some degree. Yet we don't see people shitting on the for that reason. Funny how this works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Can men actually achieve the required standards or are they a little unrealistic?Whatever standard you want to achieve, do it for yourself and only if you want it. Trying to appease other people will ultimately never make you as happy as feeling that you are in the place you want to be. This is the only realistic standard you should really strive for. Way too many people want to tell other people how they should live - never allow them to take over your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the Kardashian look?His status and connections far outweighed the money. That was his real worth. She was still marrying up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 06:20 AM |
| 4 | Who are some women that are universally desirable to men? On the other hand, who are “attractive” some women that virtually appeal to women?Salma Hayek still looks incredible to be honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 06:14 AM |
| 21 | Do modern women overestimate their attractiveness? Or is it that they underestimate it?That's a rich take considering most of women spend majority of their free time either watching TV or using social media. Just another terrible "men bad, women most affected" post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 06:10 AM |
| 1 | HobbiesThe point of view picture of the sea with your drink and legs visible. Very common 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Would you guys please pipe the fuck down your victim complex?Oh yeah, women here never complain about harassment, oppression, etc etc Bias is real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | If TRP/MGTOW/Blackpillers hate women so much why don’t you leave women alone?This thread is fucking gold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Do women crave to be noticed by men?Unless he is 6'2, rich and handsome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:48 PM |
| 49 | HobbiesSo sad how accurate this is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | How they think it happens vs how it actually happensOccasionally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:10 PM |
| 1 | US Womens National Soccer Team screaming for Equal Pay to Mens team, ends up making less in the endI would anyone go and watch something they have no interest in. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/10/21 07:39 AM |
| 1 | 😎Johnny Bravo was not getting laid either, just saying 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishI had a occasional conversations about it with a friend, but that's only because we like to exchange opinions. Nothing wrong with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Women have it easier in pretty much all aspects of lifeIt's sexual harrasment when he is ugly, but it's flirting when he is good looking. Seriously, we know that there are bad people there but assuming every woman here is getting harassed every 2-3 days is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Why is incel stuff usually banned here? The arguments they make are correct, even though some people occasionally take things to extremesDrugs. Just read this garbage again. Obviously under influence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 07:19 AM |
| – | Why has the amount of sexless men 18-30 increased more than the amount of sexless women 18-30?its all about the clout. if you have verified account, enough followers, and enough trendy pictures, doors are open for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Has this tactic ever worked on any girl ever?It's not his fault, cause he didn't do anything. Just because some of men are trash, it doesn't mean that somebody explaining his point of view on this behaviour is. Are you going to take a blame for toxic women agreeing to dates only so they can get free food? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 11:32 AM |
| 0 | Has this tactic ever worked on any girl ever?Desperate times call for desperate measures. And no, I don't think it's good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather stay lonely or date somebody who doesn’t necessarily pass all your dealbreakers?This. I would deffo stay alone. There are simply some dealbreakers I won't compromise on and that is non-negotiable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Question for those in this sub who keep saying partying and drinking is the key to finding partners and casual sex....I live in town with uni and young women deffo go to pubs here. No idea where you got that take from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?Welcome to age of social media. If you promote certain standards over and over again, people will believe they are true. Also the fact that asian culture is "trendy" adds to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 03:17 PM |
| 9 | For ppl who get anxious about the idea that their SO enjoyed sexual intimacy with another person, is “low n” or “virgin” your preference?Let's be real here - unless you are REALLY young these days - we are all secondhand goods. Just as you wouldn't buy a car with 500k miles on it, you don't want a partner with obscene number of previous different partners either. I won't judge a person solely on the "n" number if it's reasonable, but high number is certainly a sign that something is not right and caution is required. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingHas/wants children Religious Obscene social media presence (not career related) - especially OF Conspiracy theorist Doesn't like pets Bad spending habits/debt Smoker/big drinker/junkie Bad timekeeping Living off benefits by choice Bad hygiene Obese I could probably add some more specifics but that will do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 07:01 PM |
| 3 | I can't help but wonder WTF was going through this ceann na mná craiceáilte as she made this video talking about her iaraithreacha na leanbh. Being such a mess that no one wants to commit to you or your kids isn't something to brag about!Wtf did I just watch... I really hope this is a satire... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/09/21 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Would you let your partner have sex with someone of the same sex?It's called preference. Nothing wrong with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 07:28 AM |
| 2 | RP men, what do you want?If that's the price, I'll take it anytime. That's a huge win for everyone and it would be very good for society in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How much should you tell your significant other about your financial situation?First thing that came to my mind. All the praise for "ex" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 05:47 PM |
| 3 | How much should you tell your significant other about your financial situation?This is something I can get behind. Reasonable approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How do you/women check guys out in public and what are the things you check out?Fair enough. That is my assumption as well. I learned that long time ago, so kinda not surprised here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How do you/women check guys out in public and what are the things you check out?Is it really? I fully understand that. I would say my approach is exactly the same as a man. If a really beautiful woman walks along, I'll have a quick look. Most of the time tho, I'm just busy with my own thoughts don't paying attention to women at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 07:51 AM |
| 0 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tMen bad, women most affected. I like how this is perfectly fine, but when man says stuff like that about women, he is branded incel etc... Also same women who say that, usually complain about gender pay gap etc. Reality is - nothing in life is without risk. Women that approach relationships as "investments" are less likely to find a good partner. If given a choice, women are less likely to take a risk, even if the benefits are substantial and it's the same with relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Why does the manosphere have an aversion to women with tattoos?As somebody who spent a lot of time in tattoo parlours, both as client and hanging out with friends - I can see the reason why some men don't like it. Two main observations: Women are more impulsive with purchases so quite often they come to a tattoo place, pick some random stuff from a catalogue and do it without considering the consequences. Women are way more likely to make a tattoo because it's a trend. Examples? Original tramp stamp "tribals" on lower back which back in a day were really th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 08:35 AM |
| 2 | What is it about happy couples on social media that trigger some in the manosphere?Twitter is a cesspool of humanity. You can expect worst kind of responses on anything you post there. That's is just asking for trouble. As simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.And that's exactly why I would never cold-approach a woman. Last thing I want is being taken for a perv. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Is OF porn and sex work predatory on desperate and lonely men?There are OF thots ,- especially ones that only do nude pics or something similar_ that will try to pretend it's "ART" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 06:09 AM |
| 7 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.But it's definitely not "the most difficult job on the planet" either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf that was the only choice at this point of my life? Move to cheaper county and live off passive income. More in touch with reality - invest the most, and still work for some time to see if I can make some more out of it for proper retirement. No interest in killing myself with stress starting new business etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's an understatement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Onlyfans shuttering their sex content and how it may impact the dating marketAnd it's not men that promise this. Usually it's other women boasting on social media how "of changed their life", or friends telling friends how they sold some pics to thirsty guys etc. You don't see men on social media anywhere convincing women to join OF. Come on... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Onlyfans shuttering their sex content and how it may impact the dating marketSome of the most revered porn stars were doing just fine "post wall". There is a reason why pornsites have so many categories. Men have widely different and often very specific preferences. Older women is one of the more common. There is a reason there are milfs and gilfs. I'm sure there are examples of successful OF in mature ages groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | What are you not willing to change about yourself that would otherwise improve your RMV or SMV?I'm willing but I'm not motivated enough to lose some weight. I'm not obese or anything, but I deffo could lose some of that. What I will deffo not do is go to the gym and try to get buffed etc. I respect people who do that for dedication, but I would not sacrifice the time I rather spend on my hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 08:23 PM |
| 10 | What are you not willing to change about yourself that would otherwise improve your RMV or SMV?Hobbies hurt your "value" because people judge them, quite often linking them with some dumbass stereotypes, especially if they are niche or unusual hobbies. On top of that, if you are dedicated hobbyist, they become expensive and time consuming - alot of people don't like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Guys I have some very Good News 🤝🏻probably a couple years of his life | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/08/21 01:27 PM |
| 14 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapI'm sorry but you have one thing wrong here. Men having casual sex with women is a consequence of women allowing this. Not the other way around. Man might want to have sex with every woman he can think of, but if she says no - it doesn't happen. Let's not make this into another men bad - women most affected thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere are people that do it :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 12:25 AM |
| -2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe is a massive douche pos that is not even hiding the fact she did this on purpose. She is also perfect example of everything that men don't want from women and why guys are signing off dating market. He is an idiot for getting caught in this. It's 2021, guys should know better. No really sympathy for any of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOn Reddit? Never ever. This is purely discussion place for me. Never even considered it in any other way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn a words of Bill Burr, you can look 50 or you can look like 29yo lizard. Father time is unstoppable, you still won't look young unless you have miraculous genes, no matter how many ops you will get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 12:12 AM |
| 6 | Are today's men dropping below even a reasonable woman's attraction floor?Money, power or clout. Pick your poison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 12:35 AM |
| 5 | What do you really get out of dating today? (Question)More like being more successful in life than majority of chads . Respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 2 | CMV. The Bar for men is not set low for relationships or sex, despite what women tell you.FDS in a nutshell. That's exactly what she means, but you ain't getting it straight words. After all - men bad - women most affected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates?This. Just look at your own list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive Womenwhile theoretically that is true, it has nothing to do with real life setting. Not to mention, from purely appeal stand point - consider how much "cheating" can women do with their apperance (makeup, heals, clothes, hair, lashes, fillers etc) - and this is supposed to be widely accepted as normal thing to do - I believe women have it better. It's way easier for them using the tools available and social acceptance of that (which i despise to some degree) to make them more appealing and open the d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | The Best Advice From Red Pill Isn't Red Pill SpecificThere will be a bad/extreme advice within every community. Doesn't mean you have to listen to all of it. Common sense still takes precedence, but whether you like it or not - what redpillers say about modern women behaviour (especially the younger generation) is true in many aspects, unfortunately. From my observation of how people I know, I met in workplaces, and even my dating adventures - can't deny, they are not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenHave it better in what regard? I can't think of any setting that unattractive man ”have it better". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:55 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?Same thing as I'm doing now. Working, investing, chilling and spending free time on hobbies I enjoy. Only few years away for magical number you picked. All good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Men and women working together post-#MeToo movement – thoughts?60% of women are gold-diggers and falsely accused men of rape /s Even for a #metoo standards you are taking it way beyond delusion line. Take your bias somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | People that think that creepiness is based on being ugly clearly don't have any EQ nor social skillsNo, if you do that, it's you are a fatphobe. Double standards are real, anyone denying that is delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 08:00 AM |
| 9 | On Sheryl Sandberg's advice to women on finding a life partner: be the first guyIt's better not to participate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 07:56 AM |
| 4 | Husband makes wife sleep on the couch after having an argument/fight."hiw do I fix this" How about you stop nagging your husband? Awareness of a child... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/08/21 07:02 AM |
| 0 | Yeah, anti-discrimination laws go both waysThis looks like a money grab dressed into equality thing. I actually don't mind Bumble strategy. I see nothing wrong with it either - you agree to T&C when you sign it. And that is me saying it, while I've seen some decent women there that I would message first if I could when I was using it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/08/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Love boobtubersI see what you did there 😂 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/07/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for womenDo you also wear heals, use pushup bras, and wear wigs because it's fun? Not saying you are wrong, but let's be realistic here - most women lie about their true appearance not because it's fun, but because they try to attract a guy in any way possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 11:57 PM |
| 22 | Modern fathers are responsible for 99% of "slutty"/sexually dysfunctional womenWith this logic, being a single mum is the best thing that can happen to a girl, as only 1% of girls raised without a father will end up as sluts? Keep blaming men... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Updated to fit rules: Delusional 33 year old blames us for her choice in men15 years on tinder? Either I call bs, or she deffo has mental issues 😂 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/07/21 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Guy makes girl split the bill on a dateThey do when it's convenient for them. Selective feminism at work. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/21 11:58 PM |
| 9 | Who pays on the first date?I love how everyone went silent when he commented on sex. Zero fucking logic audience. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/21 01:10 AM |
| 2 | TikTokEven if it was a made up story, if that would happen to me, this would be an exact scenario. Not because I like to hit anyone, but nobody spits on me without consequences. NOBODY. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/06/21 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Pregnant momma needs help raising Chad’s babyWhat's makes any woman showing her pregnant belly think that is the way to present yourself on dating up... I can't comprehend that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/05/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Rant about this subholy shit, this is gold. if only there was a GIANT explanation for this sub on the side as well as link to similar sites of the "pass" network... Don't forget to go to twitter and cry about it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/04/21 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Background checks on dating appsMandatory no makeup/filter picture? Sounds good to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?why would you buy a cat when you can adopt one for free? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?Dont forget to run to twitter and cancel him... I'm sure Cat > you aswell, but it doesn't seem like that would be much of a challenge with your attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?This. There is a big difference between unattractive and ugly. If woman is ugly, she truly is at the bottom of a barrell. Unattractive women are just ones that don't catch your attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 01:26 PM |
| 59 | The bigger the "queen" the better she is, right?"top gifters"? Really? What a disaster | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/03/21 05:47 PM |
| 2 | What is the average relationship duration for you?Why wouldn't you? It's not hard if you care and actually try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 06:43 PM |
| 12 | Askfds broad deletes guys if they don’t respond after an hour...and she wonders why she’s all aloneNot much of value is lost | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/03/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | To what extent does money/ power increase a man's SMV?He certainly didn't get to his position just by paying off, and certainly not with looks... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | What's your desired social climate in regards to what and how men and women do in terms of attracting others, sex, casual sex, relationship, marriage? How would you say the present situation differs from your ideal world? Where are you in the red/purple/blue spectrum?I think most of men (and women really) just want a good work/life balance. Not everyone wants to be next Bezos or Zuckerberg. Some people will say that if you ain't aiming for that, you are "not ambitious enough". And I'm ok with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Don’t wait for the male BC pill, men can take control of their reproductive system right now - get a Vasectomy!I was actually seriously considering it, but since my sex life has been dead for couple of years now, I decided to spend that money on other pleasures. That saying, I recommend the procedure! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Newest data from WHO: 1 in 3 women worldwide are assaultedWHO is not "everyone"... I will leave it at that, since the moment you changed my words is the moment this discussion is over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Newest data from WHO: 1 in 3 women worldwide are assaultedI would need to dig into that. I just don't trust WHO. Not that it matters, it's just my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Why is the "move on" advice given all the time, no matter how small the circumstance?Because the circumstances are small is the actual reason. There are snowflakes everywhere making drama out of anything. That exactly why people need to learn to "move on". You have only one life - you either move on, or you will end up poisoning yourself with constant "what is" due to overthinking the situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 10:52 PM |
| 5 | Newest data from WHO: 1 in 3 women worldwide are assaultedBroad study from independent scientists and/or charity/non-profit organizations etc. Like I wrote earlier - I do believe that issue is real, but not to s degree of these numbers, especially in western countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 10:48 PM |
| 13 | Newest data from WHO: 1 in 3 women worldwide are assaultedThe same WHO that was so accurate about reporting the pandemic correctly and bending to Chinese overlords? Same WTO that is corrupted to the bone? Yeah, ok... Don't get me wrong, I acknowledge the issue is real, but these numbers are deffo not accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 10:41 PM |
| 26 | Good afternoon everybodyOP name checks out, thats for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain men redpill would consider 10/10s still getting horrible results with women?Just because they are good looking/successfull, it doesn't make them any better in all life decisions than alot of average people. You can be a genius in your field and completely bad at judging people. Also success will always bring people into your life that only want to take advantage of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 07:54 AM |
| 1 | 30s+ Men, please share how dating has been for you.Dead since I was 32 (I'm almost 40 now), but I'm ok with that. Mostly because I would not compromise on my certain lifestyle choices, the way I approach money, and I understand my looks are not what most of women are after. I do have love/hate relationship with OLD and even when I actually tried it never worked. Maybe I just couldn't "sell" myself properly/had good pics. Thanks, father time! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 07:45 AM |
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