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| 1 | Starting to feel like 'game' = be brave and go for it!!Yes, you are onto something here. IMO, It's about state control and moving energy levels up– bringing the fun.But sure, you have to get over approach anxiety, you have to be "brave"But it's really not even bravery. It's your caveman mind thinking that if you talk to this beautiful woman, her caveman tribesmen will beat your head in. But that paradigm is gone. We're living in the 21st century, but our wetware is back in 40,000 B.C. The thing is though, you shouldn't even have to be "brave", you s… | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Can you be a player if you're under 5'6?This frame you are stuck in is fucked up and self-defeatist, my dude. You can't change it, so you need to destroy the very PREMISE of this thought from your mind. Purge it. Purge it. Purge it. You're making it about you. It can't be about you. If being (what you perceive as) short makes you so insecure, play into it! Joke about it! This helps deflate its power over you. People like this. It shows you are OK and comfortable with yourself. Being OK and comfortable with yourself and who you are is … | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | You will never be ready.Church. Perfect is the enemy of the good. I'm coming into a very similar realization approaching 30. It isn't about being ready or not ready. It's about action or non-action. Engagement vs. disengagement. Are you doing things in the world and engaging with it, being proactive? Or are you simply in reactivity– passively accepting and dealing with things as they come your way? I remember "discovering" this mindset in my early 20s and crushed it for awhile, but subsequently "forgot" about this trut… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/19 08:03 AM |
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