| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 43 | posted by a large account on instagram. everything in this is bad but the phrase "bad little girl" gives me major pedo vibes. i hate that this is so normalized. | PICKME CULTURE | radarie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 02:40 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | FDS is BACK!same! i spend most of my time on reddit on here, so when it was suddenly gone i just closed the app...to reopen it 15 minutes later to see if the sub was back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 09:26 PM |
| 21 | FDS Going Private For Monthly Cleanup - Sept 1st and 2ndi think it was like that for a lot of the members here, me as well. we checked it out because of someone raging about it and fell in love with the community! ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 02:12 AM |
| 35 | FDS Going Private For Monthly Cleanup - Sept 1st and 2ndi don't even know how the mod team does it, it's gotten more and more over the last months... the hate posts in other subs as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:39 PM |
| 60 | The best way I've found to describe "50/50" is the dreaded group project where the woman does all the work.as a german i can tell you that while most young and progressive people don't really like the cdu (merkel's party) and germans in general love to blame her for everything that goes wrong (hence the popular thank you merkel meme), we do love our merkel and even call her by pet names like angie or mom. she has an enormous burden on her shoulders and always tries to make the best decision, not just for herself or her party, but for germany as a whole and does so very professionally. also there's ad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 09:13 AM |
| 48 | Eye-Openeninghi and welcome to the club! i think a lot of us came here in order to spy a little bit and expected to find a ridiculous group of man hating witches, just like fds is described in other subreddits. we also all had the revelation that that isn't the truth at all. it's very comforting to find people that share the same experiences and where you can talk about these experiences, no matter if good or bad, without interruption from outsiders. let's heal and grow together! ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:23 AM |
| 182 | Cry me a river.literally any apology i've ever gotten from a man was either of these two: 1. i'm sorry you feel that way or 2. i'm sorry i'm such a horrible person i should just die + tantrum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:12 PM |
| 152 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳girl your boyfriend is a future serial killer!! i can't understand for the life of me how women stay with men like that. probably trauma bonding and stockholm syndrom. she doesn't want to shame him? he needs to see a psychiatrist asap! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:16 PM |
| 288 | This tweet speaks truths BUT FDS is here to stop women from choosing LVM to have kids with.the first rule of misogyny: women are responsible for what men do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 07:16 PM |
| 6 | Reminder: LVM will pick at absolutely anything to make you feel less than. See it for what it is.i've read a quote somewhere that people who call themselves brutally honest are often more focused on the brutality than the honesty and it rings so true. they never use their "honesty" to be kind to people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 11:23 AM |
| 40 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guythank you! i wish the same to you... scrotes manage to sexualize absolutely everything. equestrianism is probably one on the top of the list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:30 PM |
| 169 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyi do competitive cheerleading, same here. the amount of men who sexualize it is astonishing. like no, i don't want to "show you how flexible i am" you disgusting pervert. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:34 PM |
| 93 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADi'm from germany and i've come across screenshots of these forum discussions. i felt physically sick reading them, the men are so incredibly depraved and talk about these poor women (most of them trafficked here, young and unable to understand german) like they're literal objects. it's so disgusting and i don't recommend seeking or searching for these screenshots since you will feel horrible for a very lomg time after. it leaves an impression that you're unable to shake off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 10:08 AM |
| 39 | hope everyone has a good Friday ❤️omg this totally reminds me of an incident that recently happened in korea. it was an advertisement for stuff you need for grilling/picknicking and there was a sausage on a fork and a hand next to it doing this 🤏🏻. it was meant to show how good it is and that you want to grab it but men immediately freaked out and said that this advertisement is sexist towards men by saying their dicks are small? it doesn't even make sense but men make absolutely everything about their dick. the company even had… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 09:37 AM |
| 21 | He Who Does Not Wash His Ass has nothing of value to say to you.i want you to write a book so bad 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 05:25 AM |
| 2 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.although i understand your reason it's hard for me to upvote your post as it's just so sad and regrettable. you'll be missed a lot! as i'm not part of the discord i look forward to listening to you on the podcast! good luck for your further journey 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 05:05 AM |
| 6 | Have any of you experienced worse street harassment since lockdown?it's like the whole covid situation doubled their audacity. just yesterday i came from work and needed to change my streetcar. mind you, it was in the middle of the shopping district of my city and 2pm. i'm just standing there minding my business, mask on (since we're in basically full lockdown here in germany), earphones in, looking at my phone. clearly all signs that i want nothing to do with anybody, right? apparently not, because from the side of my eye i see someone approaching me. and not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Will I ever be over Lee Jeno?i'm so happy everytime something kpop/kdrama related comed up during fine af fridays! 😂 as a fellow nctzen i approve, but johnny got my heart 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:45 AM |
| 2 | posted by a large account on instagram. everything in this is bad but the phrase "bad little girl" gives me major pedo vibes. i hate that this is so normalized.oh my god that must have been so much work to gather them all up like this! thank you so much! 🙏🏻☺️ edit: i absolutely love the macbeth and medea girlboss ones and the hamlet one! made me chuckle out loud 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 08:19 PM |
| 6 | posted by a large account on instagram. everything in this is bad but the phrase "bad little girl" gives me major pedo vibes. i hate that this is so normalized.for real! abuse is bad but not if his dick is out? i really don't understand the logic behind that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:02 PM |
| 4 | posted by a large account on instagram. everything in this is bad but the phrase "bad little girl" gives me major pedo vibes. i hate that this is so normalized.i love that! can you recommend some? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:00 PM |
| 6 | posted by a large account on instagram. everything in this is bad but the phrase "bad little girl" gives me major pedo vibes. i hate that this is so normalized.this made me scream laugh 😆💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:58 PM |
| 40 | Went on a lot of coffee dates in my pickme days.. never again!it's not the title of the video. the video is called basic grooming tips or something. but in the video she very explicitly says that you should remove your hair because "nobody likes a hairy girl". i do actually remove all of my body hair but i still think that statement is very offensive. especially if you consider that there's lots of girls out there who might be hairier in general because of their ethnicities and got bullied for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 08:56 AM |
| 166 | Went on a lot of coffee dates in my pickme days.. never again!i usually love her content but her "nobody likes a hairy girl" video that she recently uploaded on tiktok kinda irked me. that was really off putting in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:54 PM |
| 20 | Girls-Only Gym In The US Ignites Discussion On Whether It’s ‘Segregation’ Or Protection Of Womenaww stoooop! i was starting to forget about that! 💀😂 that post and the brown water in the shower post will haunt me forever 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:24 AM |
| 38 | This was posted in a subreddit (which I can't name as to not break FDS rules) where users share "cringe" content. I fail to see what's "cringe" about a woman having standards? This is why males on Reddit are singleomg I saw that one too! the comments on tiktok were absolutely insane 🤮 so many lvm and pickmeishas insulting her and trying to argue! "but walk dates are my favorite!" "don't wonder if you end up alone!" "golddigger!" "dates shouldn't be interviews!" the whole nines.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 02:37 AM |
| 8 | To “scrote” or not to “scrote”it's rare that something on the internet makes me laugh out loud but scro-cha-cho sure did 😂 men always want to tell us that all the shit they say about us is "just a joke" but get a mantrum as soon as we extend the same energy towards them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 04:44 AM |
| 6 | dump his asshis @ is shown in the video, it's lukefranchina ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 05:38 PM |
| 39 | Nah a degree >>> a man. A man can leave, die or be broke. You will always have your degree & it will always put money in your pocket. A good piece of Red Velvet cake can replace a husbandlmaoo that blanket photo is soo petty, i love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:45 PM |
| 46 | PSA: Men are learning about FDS but like most things they don't get it all. Stay on Scrote Watch!it's a name redpill dudes for women, they describe dating as "spinning plates" with women being those plates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:42 PM |
| 41 | dump his assomg i love this dude, literally all of his videos are like this and it's amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 38 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaooh no not the nest! i was trying to forget about it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 07:12 PM |
| 7 | This isn’t empowering.lmao yes! i call it my customer service voice 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:09 PM |
| 25 | Why do men feel entitled to participate in spaces made for women?i think that's also a reason why fds is hated so much on reddit. men feel entitled to put their opinion anywhere they please, even if it's unwanted or unneeded. and in here, their opinion is not only worth nothing, but they can't even complain about not having a place to speak and that must enrage them so much! it's not like we're seeing their "hot takes" and actually ignoring them (and them thus having achieved their goal of women having to look at/hear their opinions), no, they're not even get… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:10 PM |
| 31 | We're like a small city!omg my friends and i are actually daydreaming about something like that constantly! just opening a village or a small town with women, everyone just works on what they can and everyone gets taken care of! a real community.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:48 PM |
| 22 | um no tf it’s not. this is the kind of low value “wholesome” things young girls are subjected to all the time. time has shown again and again that love is not enough. men need to bring more to the table.omg i saw that one too and thought the exact same thing! if i wanted nothing from a partner except for love i would just get a dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:10 AM |
| 11 | I can receive a notification, see a part of the comment, and not even a MINUTE later:i'm just so glad that there is a sub where we women can exist as we are without having men's opinions shoved into our faces the entire time. thank you mods!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏omg i've read that comment too! they're so desperate for attention from women that they have to roleplay now lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:26 PM |
| 26 | It happened! All I could do was laugh and unmatch. Even Pre-FDS, I declined coffee dates, because I don’t like coffee and I feel like coffee shops are impersonal.omg are you me? the worst thing is that i let myself be talked into taking a walk with him after and he kept on weirdly hugging me and i just let it happen because i was way too shy to say how uncomfortable that made me. i should have known when he stood me up the first time and then came 20 minutes late on the re-planned date. i cringe just thinking about it, 20 year old me was a mess 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:28 PM |
| 34 | Cats, candles, wine and the golden girls??? SIGN ME UP 😍😍😍my father just recently told me that i am intimidating to men and that my energy tends to demand a lot of attention since i am extremely extroverted and assertive. he also told me i should tone it down if i want to have a boyfriend. i told him that my girl friends don't seem to have a problem with it and if a man is intimidated by my personality, maybe he just isn't man enough for me. there is absolutely no way i will make myself smaller just so a man doesn't feel uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:25 AM |
| 39 | The audacity is off the chartsmen always say women aren't funny but i laugh more on here in a single day than i ever laughed about men's jokes! i've got so much love for this sub, so many of you are effortlessly funny. i love reading the comments here 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 05:52 PM |
| 76 | Saw multiple men repost this on FB - especially the "if I'm giving her (money), she giving me money" took me out... What's your take on that ladies?this took me out 😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:46 PM |
| 10 | Her whole account is GOLDthat reminds me so much of that one margaret atwoot quote!! Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it's all a male fantasy: that you're strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren't catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you're unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 11:07 PM |
| 44 | FDS has been saying it all along and women are catching up. Men do not love women like women love men and that's why we need to start demanding more and holding back the energies we give out for freedo you ever read something that resonates so deeply with your thoughts and feelings that you feel your head clear up? because someone put it in words? because that's how i feel right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 10:53 PM |
| 3 | (idk if this was made already!) Shout-out to the mods cause I'm sure they read through a whole lot of bs to shield us from it, so THANK YOU💖the mods here are truly amazing! even back in my lurking days i never saw a single scrote comment here. it's just so nice to have a space dedicated for women only and not get harassed by men constantly. thank you for your hard work 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 10:47 AM |
| 2 | I'm not even sure if I want to date anymore. And I think I'm okay with that.omg that reminds me of that recent aita post! now i'm angry again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:00 PM |
| 9 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏omg i have the same problems! i only buy midi skirts now because everything that's advertised as a mini skirt is just a wide belt on me lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:01 PM |
| 35 | This is why Reddit’s favourite adage of “just communicate” is so inappropriate. Communication means nothing if you’re with someone who is committed to misunderstanding you.oh my god, the "jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe!!!" on relationshipadvice or similar subreddits makes me livid every single time. if you think the women in the posts haven't tried to communicate with their NVM's multiple times before making this desperate post on social media you must be genuinely stupid! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:22 PM |
| 5 | So this woman has been sleeping on this scrotes brown pillows prior to this?!!!omg not the nest guy! sometimes i think about that thread and shudder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:07 AM |
| 4 | I know he fuckin’ lyin’ 😂😂😂😂the way i gasped "no!" when i scrolled. i expected something bad but this... oh my 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Damn. That kind of hurt.this hit right where it hurts lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:33 AM |
| 3 | Scrotes Rolling Up To Comment on FDS Likethe incel thing makes me laugh every time! of course searching for a decent partner who puts as much value into the relationship as you do is the same as absolutely hating the other gender because you can't get laid and being willing to kill over it!! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:40 AM |
| 13 | LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻same! i woke up from a nap and got scared at first! if fds goes there is almost no reason for me to go on reddit anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightthis honestly made my day. i love the correct, so blunt! this is a work of art! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:37 AM |
| 4 | Never let a LVM know that you are angry with him. Men simply don't fear female anger in the same way that women fear male anger. In fact, men seem to actively enjoy it.they know they hurt you. they just don't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:31 AM |
| 6 | Men battering women for rejecting them must come from more than just a sense of entitlement.that's why i absolutely loathe the reactions like "omg why a fake number? you could have just said no!" if i wouldn't have to be afraid for my safety for saying no, i definitely would. no matter what men like this do, women are always at fault for their behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:05 AM |
| 14 | When the bar is so low, yet....no mattress, just dirty clothes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 05:31 PM |
| 115 | When the bar is so low, yet....there was a post, i think it was on relationship advice, where a woman went to visit her boyfriend for the first time and instead of a bed he just had a big clump of unwashed clothes that he slept on in the middle of the room. the poor girl actually tried not to be "judgemental" and tried sleeping on it but obviously could not live with that and the guy got super offended when she told him that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 06:35 AM |
| 129 | Seriously thoi once read a quote somewhere that went like "are you happy or are you the oldest daughter" and it's actually heartbreaking how much that is actually a thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:34 AM |
| 28 | this is the bare minimum ladies !always when i think the bar for men has hit rock bottom they seem to get motivated to dig deeper | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 10:19 AM |
| 9 | But it's perfectly acceptable for men to call all women "hypergamous thots" "golddiggers" etc. with total impunity. You LOVE to dish it out but sure hate being on the receiving end...oh my...i saw that a couple of hours ago and the comments in the thread are so bad that i exited the app because i couldn't read any more of them. the delusion is strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 02:07 PM |
| 7 | In Light of Recent Events, I'd Like to Give This Sub My Thanks Before it Goes Down.i'm kind of scared now. normally i'm only lurking, saving and upvoting posts here but never commenting, mostly because other people already said what i'm thinking lmao now i regret that.. i should have participated sooner, i don't want to see this sub go. it was the first thing that gave me some kind of sense of self worth.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:19 AM |
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