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| 123 | OLD is a lot more fun when you know that it’s all entirely up to you | LEVEL UP | raddy-set-go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:31 PM |
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| 54 | Is the anticipated “more intricately woven band” also made of scrote hair?I thought it was a photo of a hand with an amputated ring finger at first glance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Men: women are so boring and don’t have any hobbies!!1!1 Also every man on tinder’s bio:I’ve seen the latter line at least ten times today alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 4 | I think I found a guy that represents all men on TinderDon’t 👏🏻 say 👏🏻 you’re 👏🏻 a 👏🏻 fan 👏🏻 of 👏🏻 pussy 👏🏻 if 👏🏻 you 👏🏻 won’t 👏🏻 fuck 👏🏻 a 👏🏻 woman 👏🏻 with 👏🏻 her 👏🏻 vagina 👏🏻 dentanta 👏🏻 thingy 👏🏻 in 👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | HVW Nanas Spread the LoveYes, this is the kind of thing which keeps me going. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | HVW Nanas Spread the LoveStart a Meetup group, get a local effort going? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:26 PM |
| 11 | HVW Nanas Spread the LoveGotta beat the lines for the Country Kitchen Buffet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:25 PM |
| 5 | HVW Nanas Spread the LoveI was wondering that too, whether it was weekly, fortnightly, monthly, or even every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:24 PM |
| 7 | All the comments are about how they’d rather get lettuce instead of flowers because they can eat it. So they’re okay with $1 lettuce as a 1 year anniversary gift...lmaoThis is called low-balling and LVMs have truly turned it into an art form. Indeed these examples here almost surpass low-balling into “beneath the earth’s crust”-balling. And they all think it’s the most fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 07:30 PM |
| 16 | Nothing boils my blood more than the phrase “daddy day care” 🤮What is this dad doing here exactly? Not actively harming his child? Amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | OLD is a lot more fun when you know that it’s all entirely up to youUnfortunately that rules out a lot of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 01:57 PM |
| 8 | Be careful out there ladies! This guy was acting creepy on tinder so I unmatched. Despite me having different versions of my name on Tinder and FB, and living in a big city, he found me on Facebook and messaged me.“Calm your tits” 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 12:16 PM |
| 10 | 55 year old men on OLDYeah I’m finding the same as I rather masochistically plunge back into the world of OLD. I’m 34 and honestly I’m having a hard time finding a guy who looks close to my age who isn’t uncomfortably younger than me. I’ve started to look a little more “mature” over the past few years (a healthy lifestyle can only do so much and let’s face it recent times have been tough for everyone) but it’s nothing compared to most guys I’ve seen aged 25+ who look significantly more “weathered” than women of their… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:53 AM |
| 15 | OLD is a lot more fun when you know that it’s all entirely up to youI’m sorry things are much worse there :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:49 PM |
| 5 | Legit laughed out loud at her with the husband“If they sleep, you sleep” Translation: “If they suffer, you suffer” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Dear Reddit, help me teach my boyfriend how to stay dry in the rain.Apparently men refusing to use umbrellas or even wear jackets or sunscreen is a thing. They wear only what they want to wear and don’t even care to try to plan for contingencies. The male ego is absolutely bizarre, it’s SO important yet fragile enough to be threatened by a damn umbrella. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:26 PM |
| 12 | Hello, r/RedPillWomen. 🎉GOOD NEWS🎉 After 9 years of dating, my Captain finally gave me a promise ring! 😊 I've never been happier in my life😊I’ll need more than one onion ring if I’m gonna have the energy to get far enough away tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:19 PM |
| 4 | He also said women shouldn't wear t-shirts when they go out. 🙄I know it’s a bit confusing having both these feelings at once! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:13 PM |
| 6 | He also said women shouldn't wear t-shirts when they go out. 🙄🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:13 PM |
| 31 | She’s not wrong to be upset. Firstly, WTF. How is this a thing. Secondly, it’s disrespectful to her. Thirdly, I’d be concerned if my boyfriend got off on animals dyingAt this point... I’m beginning to think there is actually no limit to what most women will put up with. And plenty of men have caught on. Women have stood by men who have committed the biggest atrocities. Even Hitler had a pickme by his side. Women today can have more advantages than they ever had before historically but somehow they will find some way to convince themselves that the worst relationship not only can be but must be salvageable, even if it is destroying them, their children, anyone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:38 PM |
| 15 | The people around you directly influence your state of mind. Dump his ass if he makes you feel inferior.I was literally just about to say he’s one to talk. That whole thing was so disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Craigslist Best Of: CHEROKEE BOY WHO HATES CHILDRENI’m inclined to go with “joke post” but also keeping an open mind. Even back then the Internet was a big and mysterious place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Craigslist Best Of: CHEROKEE BOY WHO HATES CHILDRENThis dude is one of the last to have truly made it an art form. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Craigslist Best Of: CHEROKEE BOY WHO HATES CHILDREN🎶Real Cherokee Love🎶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 10:32 PM |
| 8 | A post where a woman asks men to stop mansplaining on a female orientated subreddit and the responses by angry scrotes.“Don’t tempt me...” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Why do men always assume you want their opinion??Because a lot of them apparently can’t fathom a world in which they are not even taken into consideration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do men always assume you want their opinion??Because a lot of them apparently can’t fathom a world in which they are not even taken into consideration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 11:38 PM |
| 16 | I can't even... (reposted thus because I didn't post the full Screenshot on accident)Saviour complex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Really felt for this woman. I just hope she keeps her standards high and knows her worth now.His poor wife then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | A guy picking out flaws and telling you? Please let me know your experiences.Interesting! I’d even say that identifying something is below even the lowest part of the learning pyramid. Remembering things still involves having the capacity for retention of information which is important for learning whereas pointing things out which are right there in front of you only involves having working eyesight and basic language. I used to know a guy who would just point things out constantly and I was like “yes I too see these things and understand that they are things... 🙄” but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 09:31 PM |
| 3 | A guy picking out flaws and telling you? Please let me know your experiences.I’m quite “petite”, not significantly but a few inches shorter than average and my ex went ON about this jokingly, fortunately I don’t have hang ups about my height but I might well have. Also I got the teasing about upper lip hair and if I hadn’t shaved my body hair I’d be called “hairy”, again he likely wasn’t meaning to be hurtful but god forbid if I ever drew attention to any of his physical flaws, he’d have thrown a fit. And women are supposed to be the ones who are irrational and overly se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 09:11 PM |
| 14 | Really felt for this woman. I just hope she keeps her standards high and knows her worth now.You are probably right. I feel like an idiot for not considering this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:30 PM |
| 17 | Really felt for this woman. I just hope she keeps her standards high and knows her worth now.I’d never thought this was a “thing” until a few years ago when I was set to go on my first in person date with a guy who up until then had seemed really into me. I messaged him a few hours before to confirm the time and place and just never heard from him ever again. I wasn’t hugely bothered as I wasn’t that into him anyway but still was interested in meeting up in case we got along as just pals or something. So far I’ve not been able to come up with any satisfactory explanation as to why he wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 64 | Really felt for this woman. I just hope she keeps her standards high and knows her worth now.I’d never have thought this was a “thing” until a few years ago when I was set to go on my first in person date with a guy who up until then had seemed really into me. I messaged him a few hours before to confirm the time and place and just never heard from him ever again. So far I’ve not been able to come up with any satisfactory explanation as to why he would waste not only my time but his own acting like he was interested up until then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Was looking for some q-tine entertainment, left with some q-tine nausea and despairThanks! Can’t believe it’s been three years already... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Imagine having this level of audacityShe should just not cook a single thing for him ever again, let him figure out an eating arrangement that suits him on his fucking own. That is if she’s not quite ready to dump the guy and enjoy her renewed subscription solo which would be my first suggestion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:52 PM |
| 11 | Was looking for some q-tine entertainment, left with some q-tine nausea and despairThese dudes seriously believe they’re living in a porno movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:27 PM |
| 2 | I hate it that pickmeishas and men fetishize bisexual women.Thanks, I wondered why I had cake beside my name! Better go do something to celebrate... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:15 PM |
| 5 | I hate it that pickmeishas and men fetishize bisexual women.Thanks, it was a very long time ago, I’m talking like 15 years ago, and to be honest I’ve gone through far worse things since but I’m just treating it as a lesson. One of many... We just need to level up and look after ourselves! 🤟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:38 PM |
| 15 | What FDS helped me realize!A stopped clock is right twice a day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 01:57 PM |
| 5 | 4chan scrote creates a rating scale for women... of beautiful women who someone are not up to this man's standards...We really need to stop giving the tiniest shit what such specimens think of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 04:19 PM |
| 7 | Nothing new here, but telling us 10mins into the conversation about your needs to dip your dick somewhere never ceases to amaze meSame! Would we even be surprised if it were 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 11:05 AM |
| 7 | How is this gem still single?“To protect and serve” 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 10:36 PM |
| 4 | How is this gem still single?What the everloving heck is a romantic dinnes 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 10:34 PM |
| 11 | Why is it so wrong for a woman to admit she’s good at something?Just means you can cram more books in :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 10:54 PM |
| 5 | *disgusted but not surprised face*I think the most pressing question here is... How did he lose five inches??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 09:07 PM |
| 5 | Boyfriend destroys her Animal Crossing island out of spite, she later decides to work on their “communication issues”.Imagine a situation where a guy is encouraged to “work on their communication issues” if his gf destroys his game progress which he had devoted hundreds of hours to. She would probably be lucky to get out alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 09:00 PM |
| 21 | Why is it so wrong for a woman to admit she’s good at something?That’s not even bragging to me? What a truly weird thing to feel threatened by... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 08:57 PM |
| 24 | Why is it so wrong for a woman to admit she’s good at something?This sort of thing now always reminds me of this classic clip from Inside Amy Schumer about how men don’t actually want you to be confident, they just want to be the ones to control how you feel and look, ie deferential and dependent. They appear to be building up your confidence but as soon as you try to “own” that confidence or god forbid not even need anyone to tell you what’s good about you then they’re pulling the rug out from under you: https://youtu.be/fyeTJVU4wVo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 08:54 PM |
| 7 | I don’t typically go on tinder because of profiles like this. There’s something about this type of profile/person that genuinely scares me.He actually sounds like just he copied and pasted quotes from American Psycho. The only thing missing is a monologue about Huey Lewis and the News. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:06 PM |
| 7 | I don’t typically go on tinder because of profiles like this. There’s something about this type of profile/person that genuinely scares me.Few men can attain the heights of sheer physical perfection that was Marlon Brando in A Streetcar Named Desire🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:57 PM |
| 7 | I don’t typically go on tinder because of profiles like this. There’s something about this type of profile/person that genuinely scares me.Hello Patrick Bateman, long time no see! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:36 PM |
| 4 | The Health Authority for the State of Oregon tweeted out how to have sex during the Coronavirus Crisis. Apparently people need to be told not to eat anyone’s ass right now.I don’t get it. Surely kissing anyone you already live with shouldn’t be an issue and if you’re distancing from anyone it’s a safe bet that you won’t be kissing or doing anything else sexual with them. It almost feels like they just want to make up new random stuff that “could spread COVID-19.” Having said that... I’m all for anything that lessens the pressure on women to do anal or anything else they don’t want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How to better myself as a low-value woman?Just hope that the other person isn’t also a commercial airline pilot who then wants to do some “shop talk”... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:01 PM |
| 8 | Fuckboys who treat their new girlfriends to all the things you wanted but never got do so because they're desperately trying to prove you were the problem all along. Recognize it for the manipulative tactic that it is, and don't take it personally.My heart goes out to you. It’s quite a kick in the gut isn’t it when they pull that shit on you... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 02:00 PM |
| 19 | Fuckboys who treat their new girlfriends to all the things you wanted but never got do so because they're desperately trying to prove you were the problem all along. Recognize it for the manipulative tactic that it is, and don't take it personally.I am so angry on your behalf. The way these types use women like you and me as “stepping stones” is infuriating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Fuckboys who treat their new girlfriends to all the things you wanted but never got do so because they're desperately trying to prove you were the problem all along. Recognize it for the manipulative tactic that it is, and don't take it personally.This might sound like a petty thing to get annoyed over but I’d been on at my now-ex to get a passport for about a year and retake his driving test just so that we could do all the fun things he himself kept complaining that we never got to do, just to generally be able to enjoy being a young couple without kids for a while. I never even wanted to do anything too wild or extravagant, more just to be able to indulge a desire for novelty and adventure when we wanted to. He kept stalling and gettin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 01:47 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of women do you think are settling?Honestly there are plenty of women I know where I don’t even know their partner well enough to be able to make a judgement. Most of them seem reasonably happy most of the time (if posting regular couple-selfies on Facebook is a valid sign of happiness) but I also wouldn’t be very surprised if most of these women have had to compromise on a LOT over the course of their relationships just to keep things on a relatively even keel. So far I’ve yet to hear of one whose partner actually does at least … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 07:02 PM |
| 5 | Why attractive women are single?I wouldn’t go as far as to call myself attractive, although I can scrub up decently if I make an effort. I’m almost pathologically single and with the exception of one long term relationship I’ve basically never dated or had sex. This has been the case for my entire adult life and it’s definitely not for lack of interest in men and dating generally, as a concept. I’d be totally happy to date if 1) it weren’t often more trouble than it’s worth setting them up when you don’t actually know that man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Doctors and LawyersThere’s something about those who are drawn to the medical profession which has made me put my guard up in recent years. Not all people obviously (there are amazing doctors and nurses out there of course and the profession itself is an incredible gift to humanity) but so many I’ve known, or known of, have had either a god complex or a martyr complex, and it turns out that both these things are variations on narcissistic personality disorder. The traits will also vary from mild to severe but the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 02:43 PM |
| 1 | All my ex boyfriends would get raging hard ons when I was upset and crying. Sudden realisation that this is SO FUCKED UP.Have to admit that’s slightly better than doing it while you’re crying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 02:31 PM |
| 4 | All my ex boyfriends would get raging hard ons when I was upset and crying. Sudden realisation that this is SO FUCKED UP.It’s really fucked up but to this day I still have difficulty crying at all and will fight hard never to cry in front of anyone because most tears of mine have almost always been met with either amusement or contempt or even anger. I’m so sick of this idea that women and even small girls use crying as a form of manipulation, it has done SO much damage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 02:26 PM |
| 2 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?Some of the posts on there have given me second-hand PTSD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:37 PM |
| 3 | What are some bad hygiene habits an LVM you dated had?How can that guy still be alive? Odds are he should’ve been carried off by the plague years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:14 PM |
| 53 | Coronavirus making married moms realize that they may have a husband, but they don't have a partnerIt’s so incredibly frustrating to see these dynamics start to blow up in everyone’s face, especially when you’ve started to notice the inequality in said dynamics for a long time before this. Every married woman I know is stressed to pieces and literally NEVER gets a spare moment to herself. Even in the “good” marriages where the husband plays a much more (if not completely) equal role in household management, the husband still gets “allowed” some regular free time to go do whatever they want fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Even Living Alone in Siberia, Women Get Harassed by Men (The Story of Agafia)If you can’t get away from LVM in the middle of fucking SIBERIA, there’s no hope for anyone :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 08:01 PM |
| 12 | PSA: stay away from them ladies!Yet it’s already clear that women are going to pay the price YET AGAIN for men not even trying to take care of their damned selves. I’ve seen it many times even before now, where it’s happening on literally a global scale. I’m really not liking the idea of facing months or even years of disruption in my life all because some men whose existence I’d never have come close to knowing of smoked and drank and shittily ate themselves into WHO statistics. I wonder if they’re bothering to wash their han… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 11:16 PM |
| 5 | Ugly men always have a superiority complexA highly entertaining story with a happy ending! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:54 PM |
| 12 | Ugly men always have a superiority complex9 times out of 10, always listen to your grandma! I’ve always been a bit put off by exceptionally good looking men, like the type people would call a “pretty boy”, because I associated them with being arrogant and coasting by on their looks. But I’m now starting to think the same about ugly guys and I’ve been somewhat disabused of the idea that they’re any better. I think the idea is to go for just the right amount of good looking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:50 PM |
| 7 | the Reddit LVM starterpackWhen the spotlight gets turned back on you... 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | the Reddit LVM starterpackSame here :( although I fully admit that I’ve been in something of a creative slump for a while and I know that I need to jumpstart myself again soon. And I’m fully aware that I’m likely not ready to date until I do, because I’d have rather little to offer until then. It’s the ones who are resigned to all of the above for life that have the bigger problem IMO. And I definitely have never gone onto Pornhub. Not even once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:41 PM |
| 17 | Stop being nice to men.Funny you mention Ted Bundy, I was watching a recent documentary on his killings from the perspective of the women who had encountered him at some point (and I think also his brother and some lawyers who had been involved in his case) and they drew particular attention to how Bundy had completely exploited the arguably even greater pressure, back then, on women to be nice and helpful to people in need. The fact that he used women’s social conditioning against them to commit the most horrific act… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:33 PM |
| 6 | Stop being nice to men.Sorry but I just got a mental image of having to carry around one of those pepper grinders waiters use in restaurants and then having to use it on a man if he starts getting weird 😄 but I guess one of those containers of ground cayenne pepper or chilli you can just open and fling out at someone would do the trick. I find it ridiculous that we’re not even allowed to carry things to defend ourselves, meanwhile in some countries any random man can buy a gun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:27 PM |
| 18 | Stop being nice to men.I’ve actually started acting as though I really am deaf or hard of hearing whenever spoken to by a man I don’t know in public for no apparent reason. Recently I started to feel like this was just me being unnecessarily rude and besides “what if they actually need help or just directions or something” so one day I did respond when a man did the “excuse me miss?” thing. Then he tried to solicit me (or I think he did as he wasn’t articulating very well) so I hurried along. The very last time I resp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:17 PM |
| 19 | Stop being nice to men.There’s a thing called the “grey rock method” which was originally developed as a coping mechanism against narcissistic people in your life, where you are technically polite to them but give the bare minimum responses so as not to give them any “amno” to use to harass or otherwise take advantage of you. I feel like this is also the best method to use against men you don’t know, or men you’re forced to interact with regularly but want to keep at a safe distance. Answer their questions simply and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:09 PM |
| 13 | Daily reminder that most men are disgusting and responsible for much of the spread of COVID-19Do they even have wash basins in men’s bathrooms? Or do they just think they’re for decoration? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 02:47 AM |
| 34 | Daily reminder that most men are disgusting and responsible for much of the spread of COVID-19I’ve heard of men doing the “two firm shakes” thing after peeing and already didn’t think they used toilet paper when going number one. But realising that so many of them don’t even wash their hands after any bathroom use has put me off men even more. If it turns out that they’re responsible for how fast and far coronavirus has spread, and if they’re still not even trying to improve their hygiene, then I’m swearing off them for life on principle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 02:47 AM |
| 8 | nOI hope there’s a tiny car coming to pick up all these guys here 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 02:39 AM |
| 10 | Indian men are so embarrassingMy heart truly goes out to Indian women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:22 PM |
| 5 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.So... you were only “allowed” to keep being healthy and physically toned as long as you were also dragging him along with you and not rubbing it in his face how much healthier and in better shape you were? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:11 PM |
| 2 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.Some people here are saying 5ft10 but my phone calculator is putting it at 5ft 8.3. Being over 300 lbs at either height isn’t a good thing, unless a LOT of that weight is muscle. I’m thinking the odds of that being the case here are vanishingly low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Anyone wanna keep relashions with this man?He wants a borderline underweight woman (if she’s closer to 5ft9) to “bear his children”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:44 PM |
| 11 | How does anyone see this and like/share it cause they think it’s cute? BarfffffThat’s definitely the worst part of it. We’re trained from a very young age to see the “potential” in a man rather than who he is right now. Even going back to the school bully who you’re assured “actually secretly likes you” when he’s horrible to you, girls learn to hang in there and search (usually in vain) for the slightest glimmer of humanity in him. This of course leaves them, when they grow up, wide open to abuse and they’ll never leave because they’ve been conditioned to define true love … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:10 PM |
| 6 | How does anyone see this and like/share it cause they think it’s cute? BarfffffSo is true love to a man finding someone willing to be a complete doormat? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:05 PM |
| 21 | Remember that while you keep yourself honest and humble, men put no such limits on themselves.If so then he also just compared himself to a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 02:39 PM |
| 78 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.I see variations of the phrase “the one thing men truly have in abundance is audacity” being thrown around a lot here, and the more I see posts like these... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 02:19 PM |
| 16 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.Unless he’s exceptionally tall... Edit: just saw he’s 178cm (5ft8) so... not exactly, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 02:15 PM |
| 22 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.If he’s looking for external motivation why not just hire a trainer or a lifestyle coach, some of whom just so happen to be attractive women (especially trainers as their very job requires them to be in great shape)? At least they have a chance at getting adequate compensation and wouldn’t be expected to also have sex with and house this man... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 02:14 PM |
| 59 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.I’m continually amazed that men like this one aren’t embarrassed to be advertising how entitled and developmentally regressive they are (provided they don’t actually have any developmental conditions of course.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 02:11 PM |
| 59 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.I’ve surrendered entire years of my life to helping partners “find their way”, trying to get exactly the right balance of helping them and giving them space. You know, trying to be that “dream girlfriend/wife” that eventually-massively-successful men credit in acceptance speeches and acknowledgements at the end of books for “standing by their side and never giving up on them” during the long years of struggle to get to where they are now. I thought that’s what I had to be in order to truly be wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:56 PM |
| 17 | Such a disgusting porn-addicted man. Sadly, theres plenty of them out there. Found on r/creepyPMsIt’s all too easy to forget that even those types of men were children and babies once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:36 AM |
| 8 | We already know this but I'm seeing more and more of this thing pop up on social media. Ladies are catching onOne of my exes was sort of halfway between these, frequently bringing up grand plans and ideas for things to do that sounded exciting, only he would usually expect me to work out the details and logistics then get mad at me when I didn’t or was unable to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:27 AM |
| 351 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.“Parasite seeking a host” That should be the heading for far too many male dating profiles tbh. Also what the hell is it with the fixation on having a woman to motivate and inspire them? Like they expect a woman to make herself a significant part of his life purely to serve a single function, which may not even end up serving that function? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:03 AM |
| 6 | Man "jumps at opportunity" when new mother agrees to get a puppy - then calls her an asshole when she can't handle raising their newborn & puppy alone.What is it with men becoming obsessed with getting a new pet, and even going as far as to bring one home as a “surprise”, only to play a minimal role (if anything) in that pet’s care 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 10:24 AM |
| 57 | Reminder that men don't value women enough to support stopping violence against us. Be nice for what? Please keep working hard on filtering out those LVMThe headline didn’t even specify men. Congratulations sir. You played yourself 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:51 PM |
| 9 | Man (34M) lands shiny new job, is thinking of upgrading forever GF of 6 years because he now "knows he can do better", worries about his penis. THIS IS MALE BULLSHIT ON FULL DISPLAY. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!He’s using some rather violent language about her, “kick her to the curb”, “slam a postage stamp on her head”... I’ve seen enough shows to know possible foreshadowing when I see it. Actually starting to feel like he should break it off with her and try to “do better”, fail miserably then realise what an idiot he is. Also bragging about making 3x more money than her and at the same time whingeing about having to shoulder the burden of expenses? Asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Another night on OKCupid.....I once met a guy who didn’t like music or indeed any form of “culture” at all, literally had only one very specific interest. I remember being taken aback at the time but I’m sure I’ve heard of one or two more people since then who were similar in that they just didn’t like anything, not even actively disliking everything, although that too would be a red flag, just being completely indifferent. I’m not sure if it’s a sign of mental illness though but it is weird enough to give me pause. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:54 AM |
| 7 | Another night on OKCupid.....When being like a dirty old man from half a century ago is a step up.......... 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Typical 1 3/4 hours of on-line datingThere’s already a Museum Of Broken Relationships, there should definitely be a Museum Of Terribly Hilarious (And Hilariously Terrible) Things Men Say When Turned Down For Sex. I’d be happy to donate to the Patreon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:37 AM |
| 27 | Thought I'd check out the over 40's in my area. Yikes 🤢“I’m allowed to have ridiculous standards regarding a woman’s age and appearance but also HOW DARE she even think about trying to get something like money out of the bargain?!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:28 AM |
| 33 | What’s Your Instant Red Flag/Trigger Word In OLD or Texting?“Hey my first name isn’t Attila.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:22 AM |
| 47 | What’s Your Instant Red Flag/Trigger Word In OLD or Texting?What the hell does it even mean to “vibe”? This just makes me picture a couple on a first date randomly starting to vibrate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:17 AM |
| 14 | Red Flag vs Green Flag when telling a man he has upset youWhat would almost always end up happening when this happened with my ex is that he’d break down emotionally and lament what a terrible person he was for doing that to me, and I’d end up having to comfort him and build him up again. It took SO little to send him on a downward spiral and it got to the point where I struggled to make any critique of his actions and behaviour without this happening. I ended up keeping a lot of feelings to myself because this cycle got so tiring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:01 AM |
| 7 | And dying with cats is supposed to scare me into a relationship like that?! LmaoI’d straight up rather die without any cats than end up like that. Dying surrounded by cats sounds like far from the worst way to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:48 AM |
| 3 | It usually starts at home, you do not have to repeat to cycle!Even in the “happiest” marriages I’ve had the privilege of observing from the outside, the wife, sooner or later, has ended up confiding to me (I’m told that I’m a good listener so this happens at least every so often) that they’re only just barely holding things together and that the husband has usually done at least one thing by that stage that, for me, would be a divorce-able offence, or at the bare minimum it would be grounds for a trial separation... and they almost never do even close to t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:29 PM |
| 31 | It usually starts at home, you do not have to repeat to cycle!This hits home hard for me, because even when the man in question isn’t “garbage” the woman almost always finds herself in an uphill struggle. On the surface it looks like my parents have a perfect marriage, and I certainly hope they’ve stayed together all these years at least partly out of happiness. But the closer I’ve looked the more I see the immense amount of emotional labour required to keep things going, both in their marriage and that of many people I know, and let’s just say it’s not us… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 10:24 PM |
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