radicaloka Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away. I used to enjoy BDSM but I realized later that it was just part of my depression/self-loathing. I wanted to be hurt as “punishment” and was self-harming as well for the same reason but didn’t connect the two dots. Once I fixed my meds and started therapy, it all stopped and I feel disgusted that I ever wanted to be hurt like that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 09:27 PM
51	Unconventional red flags Ah it’s finally my time to shine! I’ve been cultivating a list ever since I ditched my loser ex. Here it is: https://imgur.com/a/JkLCa4c/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 10:23 PM
1	Can't tell you how many times I've had unsolicited comments about my appearance by scrotes on OLD thinking that it's a "compliment" LOL screw him. Do you have a link to that thread?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 03:38 AM
44	Anything > married to a LVM gamer Gaming is such a big part of LVM’s identities that they’ll even make it their wedding cake theme.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 06:45 AM
10	“Let me insult you, then take it back and change the subject”. Unmatched him, but not before taking a SS of him calling my nose “extreme”. Quitting OLD. He misspelled “write” as “right.” Automatic ditch.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 06:43 AM
16	Saw a bunch of pickmeshias defending this on Facebook, because 10 years “is not a big deal”😂😂😂 Imagine investing in a guy for almost a decade and still waiting for him to commit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 06:41 AM
2	Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsession I’m worried about this because I don’t have an Instagram to vet guys out. Is there any other way to tell? I’m absolutely not ok w following insta girls or being the type to do so.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/20 09:57 PM
3	Oh you know, just a standard day in the life of a pickme. And then he’ll leave her because she doesn’t turn him on anymore	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 06:51 PM
6	Scrotes be like ... My ex couldn’t ever find my clit even after months of dating. He had the fucking nerve to say it was because my vagina was “weird” and it was easier with other girls in the past.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/06/20 04:59 AM
3	What's the most egregious behavior you've tolerated before finding FDS? I tolerated a lot of shitty behavior from my exes during sex and I was too young and naive to see that it was unacceptable. My first ex accidentally slammed into my rear during sex and it was the worst pain I've ever experienced in my life (and I have a high pain tolerance). While I was unable to move/speak and close to blacking out, he giggled a bit thinking the situation was funny. I had an anal tear from that and was bleeding for over a day. This same ex also put it in a couple times after me…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/20 08:30 PM