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I agree. Let other men be who they want to be. If someone chooses not to lift weights or isnt a state boxing champion it doesnt diminish their worth. Everyone has some skill or talent you just can't see it on the first impression. Redpillers are so quick to judge others and themselves to harshly. I used to judge others so much and wore my elite fitness like some badge of honour. I was immature and now I love hearing stories about other guys who can build houses or spent their 20s jamming in band…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/23 11:08 AM
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I'm 5'5 and spent my whole life fighting in amateur boxing and lifting weights trying to compensate for my height. I would run 60 kms a week and was probably around 8% bodyfat all throughout my 20s until about 35. At gyms many guys would ask me how I got in such shape and I got heaps of compliments. I believed women would see my body and want that. It doesn't work that way. When I met my wife and I took my shirt off and flexed she told me "I dont care about any of that, I'd love you even if you …
/r/ExRedPill07/12/23 10:44 AM
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There are so many: It's complicated channel Saint and the sinner Justin Waller - Jwaller on YT Just Pearly things Whatever podcast Modern life dating Mr_Organik
/r/ExRedPill07/12/23 06:07 AM
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I agree. The panels would be at least 50% Only Fans/ sex workers/porn perfomers, 20% strippers, 20% bar service/club promotion people and the rest 10% being 19-25 year old college students who have recently moved to Miami and other wanna be musicians and start up entrepreneurs. Not bad people but an overrepresentation of a certain culture that the redpillers have conflict with. Women who want to start a career, dont want to start a family or get married or shock horror want a relationship where …
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 12:44 AM
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Pearl's father has a 200 million dollar company. She grew up with extreme wealth and entilited. I believe her motivation was she hated working a regular job 9-5. She hated doing sales and saw Youtube as a easier life where she was in control. A big part of her personality is gaining attention. She started with reaction videos playing the querky role of outsider commenting on rap film clips.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 12:25 AM
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In a recent F and F podcast an OF girl was ridiculed by the whole chat constantly. That same girl was invited back on she said overnight after the podcast she gained so many new monthly subscribers that added up to $10,000 extra a month.The same people mocking her pay monthly to see her nude. Also the twitch streamer Jack Doherty was a guest on F and F. A normal older woman was on and she proudly said "I don't even have an OF". In a serious tone Jack replied "why are you even here then?"
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 01:22 PM
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From: https://youtube.com/shorts/_0PH0XwhEAI?si=vBqrPm8z00CTYkCU And whats even crazier. 24,000 likes.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 08:53 PM
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Yes they are massively racist. But there has been a shift since 2020. Before that it was mainly white nationalism and racial purity. Common threads were about intelligence being directly linked to race. Now specifically its Black American women and American cultural influences in any woman is demonised. Race mixing views have changed in the redpill with the passport bro movement becoming a thing. Under this thinking traditional white European colonised society is idolised by the Red Pill. You ca…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 03:42 AM
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Yes I agree. I often scroll down through the comments section on redpill videos. The language and lack of empathy is shocking. But I have rationalized it down to two things. 1 - Anonymity. You can hide, use fake accounts and it sounds cliche but the term keybaord warrior is appropriate. Lots of bravado, judging and superior talk none of it put into context or ever verified. 2 - Edgelord internet behaviour pushes negativity and Youtube does this because it boosts engagement. Forums and comments p…
/r/ExRedPill07/11/23 12:46 AM
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Very expensive. I know Fresh Prince CEO (yes thats what he calls himself) from Fresh and Fit charges $3000 an hour for consultations. The guru they all copied Kevin Samuels before his passing in 2021 was only charging $1500 for an hour. Talk about inflation!
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 09:30 AM
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This is just entry level euphoria. You have embraced the red pill creators idea of a big change. This big idea promises to solve all problems: to end loneliness, isolation, and a sense of personal failure. It makes vague promises of meaning and salvation.Its just love bombing and you have self initiated yourself into this community. Probably feels amazing now, but it will be short lived. Give it 6 months to a year the endless podcasts and criticism is slow poison. You cannot heal or grow from a …
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 10:17 PM
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OP are you in an active relationship with a woman?
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 02:52 AM
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How long each day were you consuming this content?
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 11:15 AM
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Most redpill dating advice says to ask very early on - "Tell me about your relationship with your father". These types of people are very judgmental and you are right. They won't be able to hold the mask forever, it will slip. Also I was once told was if you really want to find out. Tell them "no" about a small matter and wait to see their reaction and body language.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 09:21 AM
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"That's its ok to be you". By this I mean that boundaries, preferences, ideals, principles and opinions are unique to each person and we should all have them. Don't let anyone make you feel inadequate or less than from the start. Negging is the most common tactic PUA's use. For clear examples of this look at the start of Fresh and Fit podcast when the girls introduce themselves. It's disguised as playful humour or banter but look at what is being communicated. They are are being judged as lesser…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 09:09 AM
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Yes it is. Whatever actual issues you have will be magnified and there will be no helpful solutions in that space. Nihilism and condescension are not positive tools to improve oneself.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/23 12:36 AM
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Yes. The red pill selling guide is: a overdressed, well groomed man in a designer outfit wearing sunglasses indoors speaking on a cheap podcast. The stoic face and combative body language is all part of the package and be sure to mention honor, family and speak in broad terms about being a successful "business man" or "consultant". See MLD, J Waller, Sneako, Iman Gadzhi or Kevin Samuels. Andrew Tate told a story regarding a friend who had trouble selling online fitness programs. This friend comp…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/23 10:21 PM
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The red pill is very heavy on self agency. The idea of starting your own business, having more control over your life and not being stuck in the traditional 9-5 job is very popular. Stock trading and crypto is sold to Redpillers as a job "outside the matrix" where you call the shots and are not under anyone's hierarchy. You log on from anywhere in the world, only work a few hours, make money and escape back to whatever hobbie you want. No need for university, long hours training, having to commu…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/23 10:53 AM
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Red Pill is really pushing this idea but with a twist. In this scenario the man doesn't officially marry the 3-4 women who he impregnates. Maybe officially through a religious ceremony but nothing recognised by the state so his wealth and assets cannot be taken by the courts or duplicitous women. This man is so wealthy he pays for everything for all the women and they adore him. The women are very willing to reciprocate and show respect by not having social media, must be of a low body count or …
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 12:59 PM
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Jwaller is a definite NO. With Tate in prison he was pushing his brand hard. His recent content focused on blending love with Redpill. But its the idea of the man being everything to his women, some abstract idea of the ultimate man who has 4 families all with children but not married under government law because you cant trust those courts. This man he's so rich he pays for them all and the women love him so much they gladly submit. No need to work, no girls night outs and the father in this sc…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 12:44 PM
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Add "Modern Life dating" aka Mr Endure to the NO list. He has been trending recently with so much drama. History of abuse with women. Another red piller with zero empathy for anyone. Angela Knight was initially on F + F and whatever podcast spouting harsh judgments. She has now come out with excellent arguments opposing Redpill. I would recommend her channel AngelaKnight2.0.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 02:37 AM
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Sneako was banned he had 1.2 mil subscribers. His harassed a fellow YT and made inflammatory comments about certain groups. In 2018 Alex Jones got banned. He had a huge following 2.4 mil on YT. That is almost double Fresh and Fits current numbers. Certainly he pulled in more money than these redpillers.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 12:14 PM
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I'm 5'5 and always had consistent gfs since High School . I'm not saying I was Brad Pitt but I had zero issues, I approached girls who showed interest in me. I did have a personal rule where I would not pursue women who were substantially taller then me. Other than that I lived in a Western Country and had gfs from Asian, Arabic and Latina backgrounds. I never experienced one gf complain about my height. My best friend is the same height and he had women all over. He had gfs much taller and stun…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 07:45 AM
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And was asked to leave if he continued with such a podcast. He chose to leave the feds.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 05:57 AM
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Totally agree with your post. My only question is when are these guys going to be fully banned off Youtube? They will move to Rumble but at least then its a much smaller possible audience to be infected from this nonsense. Why does youtube allow this content?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 05:04 AM
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Married for 10 years. We are both religious and very dedicated to each other and family. I was very smitten when I met her but my love has changed and not for worse but in a different way. We are more like one unit now and every day is filled with responsibilities, family chores, bills, work and regular everyday things. In Redpill terms I would be considered a "passport bro" although I am from the same culture as my wife just born in a first world country. She is fiercely loyal and very industri…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 07:36 PM
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Beacuse its a splintering of ex Kevin Samuels supporters who are already red pilled. Pearl filled that gap from his passing which is very odd as she is not pro black or pro anything really. She supports her own views and will switch stances to bolster that with zero integrity.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 01:16 AM
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Insecurity leads to micro managing. Narcissism means your ego is fragile and needs to be constantly propped up by others. This comes with trying to control how you are perceived by others at all times. Image, speech, dress, job, status, friends, money, wealth, level of attractiveness and number of sexual partners. Its a fruitless task and these types always crash and burn because the strategy is never enough. Because the external validation only last a few seconds and must be replicated with eve…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 12:13 AM
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Not sure why this was so down voted. But this is the reality in the red pill space. There are many isolated young men who are oblivious as to social communication with friends and even less for the opposite sex. They are not going to ask relatives, or mentors or pay for socialisation/psychology courses. No, they gather most of their information online. Its free and they have plently of time to waste and already harbour negative feelings of rejection. Its so easy to access Youtube from the comfor…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 11:11 AM
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The former employee said that was the high end. The other main presenters are earning 15% contracts.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 11:30 PM
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That was an interesting video. She takes 70% of all add revenue for 3 years and expects you to work 7 hours a day with zero base pay guarantee. Wow.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 04:38 AM
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The 'gym' and 'how to get over a break up' are the 2 most common bait and switch themes red pill creators use to lure in new recruits. The topics are so common and come from an insecure place.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 01:58 AM
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Being shredded comes with discipline and strict caloric intact. Above all you must love training hard and your life revolving around your gym workouts. Training on low carbs and eating foods you dont really like will become the norm. You eat for fuel not for taste. I was around 7-8% bodyfat for 15 years. I trained 5 days a week and started with weights. By the end the end of high school everyone knew I was a gym guy and had a six pack and all. It made no difference. I was still shy and insecure …
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 08:49 AM
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This is the YT redpill norm now. Money is made through superchats. Members earn badges and emojis by donating over certain amounts so they can feel special and gain status among the chat. The hosts and even the audience are actually holding back because YT has already demonetizsed them and censors them. So instead of calling women a slut well shes a 304 or they ask 'so you aren't a traditional woman are you'. They dance around the insults and try to present them like acadamic discussion points b…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 11:39 AM
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Yes all RP audience. This is not a show about dating as adverised. Its an inquistion where RP guys behind keyboards pay to insult women and hopefully brainwash their ideals on them. 99% of the audience would be RPers and most likely male. This is the content that our young men are watching and paying hosts to repeat ad naesum RP talking points that never change.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 11:33 AM
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Aly insults the girls with her very first statement. Then tries to play the "I'm a girl too card" that doesn't work and she tries even harder claiming her advice is out of concern for all their safety because she really cares for them all (she actually said this). The young girls find her totally unrelatable and don't agree with her RP points. Aly frustratingly pulls out RP doom/guilt statistics about women being alone and childless and chasing careers in the corporate world. Its hilarious, one …
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 11:27 AM
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Its supposed to be funny. The host Brian names her Kiki and makes reference to her for comedy. Its lame and try hard. She is used as a mocking inside joke that the chat uses to generalise their guests. Blue hair is said by RP to be feminist and a massive warning sign of dysfunction which she also has. Also this podcast has text to speech triggered by over $100 super chats. Thats right these RPs spend $100 to insult women they never met and in turn make the podcaster rich as part of this communit…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 11:15 AM
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"Daddy issues" is the watering down of real psychological theories called "Attachment theory". There is not just one but many such theories, its heavily studied and by no means is there major consensus in this field. The most important idea from attachment theory is that young children need to develop a relationship with at least one primary caregiver for normal social and emotional development. RP twists this idea down to a simple concept - a crazy woman comes from a crazy family (and usually o…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/23 10:42 PM
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Its ok to hurt we are all human. But you bounce back man. Plently of fish in the sea. Maybe she's just not for you. You smile and you move on. Red pill is all about that angst that pain and turning it into fuel and an entire social outlook. Thats what you dont do. One crush that you feel didn't reciprocate. That's all. Good luck to her you do you and keep moving we gain control by letting go not by holding onto to things.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 09:17 PM
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I am so intrigued. When you watched F and F what were your motivations and feelings watching these episodes? Does this format get boring?
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 11:06 AM
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I agree there shoud be more censorship. This is not my usual position but things are getting out of hand. I know Youtube demonetizses most of these videos and shadow bans them through the algorithm but the channels seem more popular then ever. Lately you see the Jerry Springer talk show model with many outlandish guests who the RPers roast and get superchats from (I heard YT can take up to 30% of that revenue). It a game of cat and mouse with the app guidelines and most of these RPers are coming…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 11:01 AM
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"Since the beginning of time powerful men have had many women". That is as close to an academic explanation Fresh and Fit give. RP likes it very simple and reduces complex concepts down to either/or. RP also lump 95% of all women into the "whore" category for the most minor of things. If she wears make up- she wants sexual attention from strangers, if she wants to go out with her girlfriends she wants sex, if she has tattoos or piercing shes a slut, if she has social media she is advertising her…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 10:24 AM
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Rpers view on women is 2 fold and explained by the Madonna-Whore complex. A man with a madonna-whore complex is a man who will sleep with and lust for a sexual and beautiful woman but he will never respect her as "wife" material and he will never marry her. Idealistically RPers want only the good girl for LTR. This type of woman is good at domestic things: cooking, cleaning, homemaking in general and should submit to her man entirely etc. A proper, pure "madonna" type woman who will bear his off…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 07:04 AM
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If you have seen the documentary "social dilemma" it says negative news travels six times faster than truthful news. Content that is exaggerated and controversial will also be favoured in these algorithms. Guru's are aware of this and tailor their content to get the most exposure no matter how outlandish or dumb. Just look at the thumbmails on many of these red pill YT videos. "Rude woman gets put in her place" or "When they can't accept reality". Andrew Tate himself has acknowledged this. His H…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 10:14 PM
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Why not accept their compliments? Allow yourself to be worthy of praise and to be loved. Your inner critic voice is out of control man. Every comment on this thread you have written is from a deficient perspective. Things are NOT over for you and you arent doomed to loneliness. You are holding such self limiting beliefs. What happens if you ask your brain the opposite questions? What evidence is there that you are a good person and what things can you add to a partners life? There's also plenty …
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 11:04 PM
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People love to take the superior moral position and enjoy joining in on the judgment-fest. It's schadenfreude - pleasure derived by someone from another person's misfortune. Lets all join in and hold these young women accountable. In other words we will tell these worthless guests (i.e. women) how wrong they are about anything that doesn't match RP rhetoric. Pearl's guests assume they are free to talk about their lives, dating and opinions They aren't, they will be mocked and told they are infer…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 11:53 AM
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There are a lot of single truths in this one argument. Yes statistics do show that more children are born to single mothers than ever before. Yes many government polcies such as social security and child support are geared towards providing safety nets for single mothers and their off spring. But when all grouped together its a leap too far. So many assumptions are required for this argument to come off. Its reductionist , one sided and simplfies government policy and social change down to an es…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 10:46 AM
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The common argument I see is about single mothers. The thinking is that women having sexual freedom post 1960s has brought about social and moral decay. Women have become promiscuous and are responsible for the destruction on the traditional family. Children are born out of wedlock to independent single mothers who don't value men and in the absence of strong father figures and male leaders raise soft weak effeminate children. These growing hordes of single mothers in turn hold massive sway over…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 06:48 AM
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Redpillers don't entertain our view of friendships. Everything for them revolves around sex or getting some type of benefit from social clout, status, looking cool or asking for favors. You often him them mention relationships involving male or female as "transactional". It's a competitive narcissistic world to grab as much as you can before someone takes it from you. Women are categorized as hypergamous in the RP world. This view goes to comical levels, where Red Pillers believe women cannot go…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 06:11 AM
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What observable improvements have been made in your life as a result of these two RP gurus? Have you got a new girlfriend, attended the gym more often, started a new business, joined many new social circles?
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 03:34 AM
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I watched a clip of Myron today saying how amazing Saudi Arabia was. He mentioned their strict laws, prayer space on planes and women being virgins and marrying the first man they sleep with. The other guest was in agreement and said " yes so good for families and asked if he had been". Myron then answered he had never even been to Saudi Arabia.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 10:09 AM
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I see the term "high value man" used often now in RP spaces. This change has happened over the last 2-3 years. "Alpha male" is still used but sometimes refers more to individual behaviours like assertiveness and leadership qualities. "High value man" means basically anything RP wants and is very broad. Its a rich man, a businessman, one who has plently of women around from which he "exercises his options" and one who other men go to for advice and has contacts to help his close circle of male fr…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 07:04 AM
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RP communties have expanded this term "simp" so much that even giving the smallest gift or emotion to a woman is considered simping. I've heard it used for buying a date a coffee or even living under the same roof as a woman is simping.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 04:11 AM
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Great topic. So many. Kevin Samuels - "Buy a dog and die alone". Rich Cooper - "Women wait at the finish and choose the winners" Mryon Gaines - "Women are trust fund babies and men are self made millionaires. Women are given their beauty upfront and have to preserve it." Myron Gaines - "With all due respect f## your feelings" Whatever podcast - "If body count doesn't matter to women why won't you tell us your number then. I will tell you my body count if you tell me first". Women want the three …
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 04:06 AM
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Attractive and promiscuous people have a degree of social power that the RP envies. Red pillers want to be the ones who choose, who judge and who experience these rewards and social validation at their command. Its about control. Even if its a total mental construct and the RP participant only watches videos online and changes nothing about his life. RP is about the powerless and the rejected become the powerful and the rejectors. Its about creating a totally new social hierarchy where they are …
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 09:21 PM
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Yes, its a shaming judgmental tactic. It's real intention is to insinuate the person is promiscuous and of low moral standards who needs to adopt tradcon views immediately otherwise they are doomed forever . RP loves this fatalistic view on people and society. I find it ridiculous that women 21-25 years old are threatened that geriatric pregnancy awaits them because they choose to have an instagram, or wish to go out with their girlfriends to have fun or enjoy their youth. Its total nonsense and…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 11:26 PM
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You start from a spark or an idea and you go from there. No one is perfect we all make mistakes. You acknowledge you are not where you want to be as a person. Find materials, people and places that inspire you to be that better version of yourself. If redpill, right wing politics and porn is leading you down a dark path its time to cut parts of this down. Eventually you need to stop consuming these media all together. Just as you learned bad habits you can learn new beneficial ones. If you chang…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 11:14 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/kN_hCnbeRTk . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dz-zXcpdXt4
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 12:26 AM
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This is all built on so many assumptions. The realities of moving countries looking for love requires economical means most men cannot do and comes with many risks as well. And the eugenics argument about women and geriatric pregnancy is a conversation for a couple to have, not one that you tell a 20 year old prospective date or people you do not know. The median average age first mothers is 30 years old in the USA and 31.5 in Australia. The RP acts like when a women turns 30 she is entirely use…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 11:44 PM
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RP has constructed a world view no matter the outcome women are at fault. Women can never win through their own actions, it is only a man who can lead them to success. Female autonomy is painted as the main reason for Western Society's demise. You will hear RP talking heads spout this all the time. Myron Gaines, Kevin Samuels and Rich Cooper say women don't really know what they want. And if women get what they think they want, we all lose anyway. For the example you have mentioned, RP thinking …
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 11:13 PM
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I call it the manosphere fantasy. Its a movie script Hollywood would be proud of. A high flying lifestyle where you command ultimate power as a business owner with women flocking around you for attention. You take short breaks from earning big money to sleep with these women who all fall in love with you but they cannot compare to the perfect virgin who you will marry and carry your children, stay at home and worship you. Occasionally you will cheat on her, but that's ok because you earn so much…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 10:25 PM
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I find Myron Gaines despicable. With Andrew Tate you can see the embellishment and obvious attempts to troll but Myron is pure seeded in his hatred and discontent of women. He is devoid of genuine concern for anyone and he has boiled down RP to catchphrases that he casually sells on t-shirts. Myron sees nothing but hierarchies and looks to punish women, society and men. No one is good enough for him and even if you make it to the top you hate all those underneath you and must dominate others to …
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 09:09 PM
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Nothing wrong with any of that. But these traits to do not come at the expense of treating others around you like garbage which is what RP is about. Treat others how you want to be treated. RP is the exact opposite of stoicism. Men who cant get over a breakup and blame others with endless victimhood and "why me?" type attitudes. Humbleness? - Andrew Tate tattoing his girlfriends with "Property of Tate" or Confidence? Weatwaffles charging men $60 to rate their facial structures. These are not the…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 11:57 PM
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Then why not read bodybuilding articles and learn about nutrition. Red Pill goes beyond just workout and training advice. Red Pill is a gateway into an entire world view with exposure to ideas such as women hitting the wall past 35 years old and Western civilisation is falling apart due to women rights and men should leave the USA to find virgin untainted women. I dont see the correlation between that and what is the optimal program for biceps. Just know when you consume RP content all those tox…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 11:38 PM
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What actual observable benefits has the red pill brought to your life? I'm interested to know.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 11:55 AM
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There is huge $ to be made. Patreons, super chats, personal coaching, merch etc. Rich Cooper and the late Kevin Samuels charged $1000 an hour for personal coaching, Todd V dating charges $4500 per bootcamp to learn dating. The fact that most RPs are creating books, programs and trying to sell them every 5 minutes is obvious.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 12:05 PM
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Its the pure arrogance of RP that gets me. A large portion of the RP are single and not in relationships or MGTOW yet they incessantly want to tell women what they can and can't do. I'm shocked by the number of men who have not dated or have no experience with women but want to tell women they never met how they should live their lives and psycho-analyse them from the comfort of keyboards.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 11:45 AM
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Can you elaborate on how many actual partners this woman has had?
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 10:56 AM
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If this womans body count is an issue for you, she is not for you and you move on and thats it. There is no need to pass additional judgement on her or on yourself for making such a decision. It just didnt work out and you go on living life. But redpillers cant stop there. This one small interaction leads to an entire world view where the narrative is that men are victims, women are resource takers and society at large is in deniall because they dont know red pill truths. Its your choice but you…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 10:43 AM
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From the ages 18-31, I was around 8% bodyfat. This took extreme exercise and a diet that bordered on fanatical to remain in caloric deficit (I ate no sweets or chocolate). I was obsessed with amateur boxing and basically lived in the gym. People around me knew I was supremely ripped and it really made no difference to any women I dated. Maybe at fist they admired my discipline but it came at a great cost. I was always very hungry and thus very grumpy and I was no fun to be around at parties or r…
/r/ExRedPill02/12/22 12:53 PM
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The "Fresh and fit" podcast holds Leonardo DiCaprio and the rapper Drake as their idols. In real life the excesses don't stop with women and usually come with drug addiction, broken marriages, illegitimate children gambling problems not to mention the damage done to their actual partners and children who cannot properly bond with their father. There are countless examples of this from celebrties such as Evander Holyfield the champion boxer had as many women as he wanted. He had 11 children, 9 of…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/22 02:09 AM
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Same here. My gfs would always text loving things back to me on the girls night out and I would end up picking her up from the club.They had fun and were happy to be with their friends and usually in a good mood for the coming week. In fact all the girls group (5-6) of them would be collected by their s/o's because they wanted to be safe getting home and usually missed their partners. I never saw this supposed "hoe phase" from these women. They had respect for themselves and other people. Just r…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/22 09:47 AM
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I don't get it either. Is his wife cool with all his content? Hubby is going to work again writing another paper on single mothers. At this stage I think its just a job now for him. He specialises in pity parties and enjoys the victim superiority.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 12:06 PM
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You totally nailed it. I agree with all your points. I think we have really seen via social media is how easy one can self radicalize. You can very easily go down the rabbit whole with recommended viewing lists and echo chamber comment sections and forums. Without a dissenting voice its all reinforcement of the same ideas and it doesn't take long. Red Pill is about ego and power. There is a fascination about hierarchies and judging others as deficient. It is actually envy manifesting in anger an…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 12:13 AM
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He was diagnosed with "bi polar" and has not been able to work since.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 09:21 AM
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Large part of that older crowd that is MGTOW or variations of that. One popular guy is Rich Cooper on Youtube (200k subscribers.) His personal story and book cover getting divorced in your 40s and rebuilding your life. He has a big following of middle aged guys 40s, 50s. Lots of single mother dating lectures, dating women but not living with them and prenups etc. Misery loves company and It's all sold as self improvement and dating advice. They all come to the same conclusions about Hypergamy an…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 03:26 AM
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My friend probably late 30s was the IT guy at work. He was chatty and a cool dude to speak with. Broke up with gf, it was very bad she even called the police on him and had him removed from the premises. He never processed the break up and went full red pill, was also into the Donald reddit everyday, talking about anti-feminism and hated his female manager at work. He dabbled into drugs on the weekend to "find himself". Eventually he became so hate filled he got fired from work for threatening t…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 03:21 AM
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And why does the RP say women want this Chad? You said -"Tall and strong" - you are actually talking about characteristics from the alpha/beta mating strategy. Females choose the alpha because he is strong and can protect the tribe/clan from outsiders and their young should also possess these traits. It all stems from this theory that RP has been spouting for 20 years. Go listen to Rollo, Fresh and Fit, Rich Cooper, RSD Tyler, RSD Julian etc they all mention this. Read Mystery method from the 90…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 02:18 AM
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Yes thats what they are referring to.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 01:52 AM
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Chads exist today because cavemen practiced this in small tribes at the pre dawn of mankind. This is ingrained in our DNA and is a natural human behavior that women subconsciously want. This is the fallacy of the noble savage yet again. Says who? Really? What proof? No cavemen exist today and they had no records. Its a theory and one based on lots and lots of assumptions. Its evolutionary psychology explanations are so stretched no scientist asserts this RP theory. There are so many studies that…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 01:29 AM
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Hypergamy is a way to discredit women for anything. By this RP definition a women can never do anything right. She is always scheming and looking to upgrade, if she does so she succeeded if she doesn't its because her plan failed or she didn't have the resources capable of even putting a plan together so she settled for less. They are judged as morally deficient in both scenarios so its a loaded concept. Hypergamy also feeds a victim complex for the RP man, who under perceived threat has to prot…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 01:08 AM
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The last decade has seen the Red Pill merge with lots of political right talk. With their rigid views on family dynamic, gender roles, nationalism and power apparently they advocate there is only one system of government that would work. On one hand they advocate against single mothers and the welfare state with traditional conservative views on family. Yet the next sentence is about creating your own harem manipulating women to sleep with you and hording power and influence. Its all shallow cra…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 12:31 AM
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How long is a piece of string? There is no answer or guideline and its up to personal preference. A friend of mine married three small children under 7 years old. He's a big earner and would be classified as a high status male by RP community. He's an insurance director ex fighter plus was very successful with women before marriage. His wife who is a doctor cheated on him with a work colleague. She kicked him out of the house and said she was pregnant with this man's child. It turns out she wasn…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 12:15 AM
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What ideas from TRP do you still consider true? You can research counter points. There is so much evidence against these rigid beliefs. ​ Why exactly do you want to change? Is this to please others or for your own?
/r/ExRedPill08/10/22 11:46 PM
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Probably from way back in the late 90s from MysteryMethod or Ross Jefferies. Its an extension of Alpha males mating strategy taken from evolutionary psychology. The alpha in the animal Kingdom is favoured by the females and has aggressive, dominate and assertive traits. I guess if we transfer this to humans this would be a Chad, a movie star, a politician, a famous athlete etc. The douchebag doesn't always get girls he's just more likely to because he speaks up for his wants and would actually a…
/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 06:43 AM
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In 2016 all the Red Pill content was outright hostile to feminists. Open hit pieces on any literature, YouTube or celebrity were very popular and each side went back and forth insulting each other. I was surprised that from Red Pill theory there was now only one accepted form of government and there was massive hostility towards single mothers. Everything centered around Donald Trump winning the US election and restoring men back to their place atop the pecking order. It was all so over the top …
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:52 PM
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Around 2011 I read the book " The Game" where I was first introduced to Red Pill content. I was more interested in their perspectives on how society functioned rather than attracting women as I was getting married. Not long after, I saw an RSD highlight video of Julian Blanc. It was a "infield" of him interacting with countless women and pulling them back to his place over and over. From the video he looked like a superstar who could make girls flock to him. That began about a six month period o…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:19 AM
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I would be willing. I was immersed into the sub culture around 2012 and have seen some major changes in the way in conducts itself since then. I never went fully into it personally but I consumed massive amounts of products prior to getting married. I have stories about friends who went deep down that rabbit hole and it took a massive toll on them.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 08:32 AM
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5’5 Asian man here. I’m 42 been happily married for 10 years with a loyal very feminine woman. Grew up in a Western country where height difference was obvious. I had consistent girlfriends before my 30s and getting married and dated women outside my culture from Latin America and Arabic women. I have glasses and started balding at 26. I could have had million excuses but I lived my life. Women are just people and they aren’t perfect but who is. Life is about giving and loving. If you want confl…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/22 12:26 AM
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