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Resting bitch face? Naw dawg, just filter number 1. That's right, I'm not walking around this world trying to make sure everyone likes me. I'm doing me. If you see me at the beach or on the vball court, you would never know I have "resting bitch face"; my daughter has no concept that I have resting bitch face Because I don't. I have my face. Just because I'm not pick meisha-ing and fluttering my eyelashes at every person, man or woman, bc that's what a nice girl is supposed to do DOES NOT MEAN I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 03:41 AM
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Speaking from a smaller city in north Florida, the dating pool sucks beyond belief. The more educated you are, the more money you make, the more you have interests and hobbies that make you "need" a partner less, the more difficult it is to find a partner. A few years ago, I read that the highest ratio of college educated men to women was Dallas. I had been asked to relocate there by my company, mid divorce so was doing some research. If I were you, I'd get out of the south.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 01:08 PM
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Seeds. All you are doing is planting the seed of the epiphany that will grow, of the discontent that will grow. That seed will eventually blossom. But to think that we can combat all of the messaging they receive constantly.....it's unrealistic. Plant the seeds, it's all we can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 01:30 AM
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Still happening..,..if all the shit that I have to deal with after divorcing my cheater ex, having to date again is at the top
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 02:26 AM
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Im a huge LOTR fan and now Gimli's gift request takes on a whole new significance, not to mention explains Galadriels question about what he would do with it. Also explains why his answer seals the deal : set in imperishable crystal - so the opposite of trying to steal the light from her hair, he wants it to be shared w everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:05 PM
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This definition of being masculine completely explains why LV men feel emasculated by strong women and HV dont. HVW show these characteristics and they are just as attractive to HVM as they are to is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:50 PM
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I would never give oral first until i was a year into a LTR. I would never give oral if i was not getting oral and having orgasms during sex. Even at the height of my cool girl phase... Ladies, seriously, this pickme shit has got to be pushed back against. I mean we do but we need to vocalize this stuff to the women in our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:44 PM
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Not nearly to the same extent? Thats a straight up lie. In this very thread, a man says FDS is a bunch of women who got punped and dumped too many times and are now salty. Pumped and dumped.....hitting a wall....golddiggers for refusing to simply hand out sex w 0 relationship/intimacy. Women are bashed constantly simply by the normal words used and accepted all over reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:26 AM
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When i first found FDS i was irritated w OLD but i honestly didnt know what else to do. Recently divorced after being cheated on, 4 year old daughter, demanding new job, living in the south, and been told my entire life how intimidating approaching me is. I also disagreed with the "never go 50 50" although i completely agreed that a man paying/ not allowing me to pay coveyed his interest and appreciation of me and my time/effort. I was wrong about both and happily OLD free for a few months now. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:02 PM
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I gave it up 6 months ago for the same reasons i do very little social media...every use made me feel hollow inside. I didnt feel more connected, engaged, excited - i felt less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:08 PM
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" you used to have a sense of humor "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:36 AM
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I knew i remembered that from somewhere....when i started hearing all this wall stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:22 PM
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Ladies spittin straight lava on this one!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:21 PM
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Dont disparage an amazing well groomed loyal brave hilarious wookie like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:20 PM
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Into the mental rolodex this one goes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:18 PM
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And i still very much need the skull emoji. Damn sis! Rofl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:17 PM
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My ex was married...to me. Howorker was married. Their friendship couldnt be a problem. They couldnt have progressed to an affair. I am divorced. Howorker divorced. Guess who is soon getting married? Do people not understand they have to guard their relationship and hearts....not to mention dicks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:08 PM
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I agree. 1. Most days at work i forget to eat lunch and have way to much to do to pay attn to my phone 2. When i am running or working out or playing vball, my phone is on DND. 3. When go outside to relax or to the beach i often dont take my phone and if i do it is for music. I basically hate texting. People didnt used to think they had a right to instantaneous access to you 24 7. And people who know me know thats how i feel and get over it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:07 AM
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I am old school. Once married we put all money into a joint account. All this splitting stuff makes 0 sense to me. Why get married if you arent a team from that min forward? All expenses are the teams expenses and if you cant talk about what reasonable discretionary spending looks like....wtf are you married? Just makes 0 sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:02 AM
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Supreme Court. Thats right. Im not going to an ivy league law school and ill be defending the right of a woman to negotiate in advance the value society refuses to acknowledge. Watch me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:35 AM
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I know most women have some swelling and water retention and tenderness but this..... Its like i have someone elses boobs and it is so weird. Like men noticeably notice them when they are like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:34 AM
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I have 2 sets of bras..... One is a full B. The other is an overflowing C. Im sure you can all guess when I need the C cup. The cramps are terrible day 1 and 2 but the damned boob thing starts 10 days before my period. I hate them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:11 AM
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I saw a doc once that said something like all embryos are inately female. The only difference between a male and female is exposure to the fetus of a certain hormone at the right time. That hormone is supposed to be released correctly based on the gentic make up ( x and y chromosmes) of the male embryo. But sometimes that doesnt happen a genetic male will present as female die to the lack of correctly timed exposure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:03 AM
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As a result of my divorce and the insta 50 50 thing, ive really gotten extreme in my thoughts about how royally screwed women are bc we chose to keep having kids without getting anything for it. We put our bodies through 10 months of, at best, inconvenience but often absolute hell. Then another year of chemically altered brain and body impacts...some of which never resolve. Read that again - your body never fully recovers from pregnancy. And during that time we are usuallly put in hold mode as t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:58 PM
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My ex and i had the same draw code on our identical phones so we could both pick up whichever phone was closest to change music, look something up, etc. When his phone behavior changed after 16 years...that was the blaring siren that my gut feeling was right. I will never be in a committed relationship without an open phine policy. Having said that, i really appreciate you sharing your habit of asking your wife to open and read a text for you. This is a great example i can give to someone about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:11 PM
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Bam!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:11 PM
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He is scrumptious. However the look in that first pic is what does it for me. Whether a guy i am with is moderately attractive or a smokeshow he instantly gets a million degrees hotter when he looks at me like that. And when it happens when i am in my jammies, no make up, cooking and singing.....thats hot af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:22 PM
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Damn. I dont have that skull emoji which is too bad bc this needs it. My god i love the truth being spoken in here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:35 PM
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I would add Brene Brown since most people are familiar with her work to some degree. What she has to say about vulnerability and intimacy and courage are completely incompatible w the BS men are trying to peddle about FDS principles. And where is her source material? Years and years of fieldwork.....actual data and studies that meet scientific and academic standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:46 PM
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Thats because it isnt. People who think the united states is somehow immune to the very real possibility of a religious/political powergrab during a crisis are not students of history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:41 PM
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I do not disagree with anything said, however: I find discussions that are clearly relevant to dating as a woman (and marriage and the associated issues are a clear natural progression) can help all of us clarify and sharpen our thinking and knowledge and help other women by exposing them to the non patriarchal POV. I do take issue with one point: IMO being a SAHM should not be about the patriarchy. True feminisim is not about what women should be but that they should be what they want to be. An…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:09 PM
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Ok so i have one thatbis amazing in bed and actually fun when we are having fun ....and thats where i want to keep it. But he wants more and cant seem to understand he isnt worthy of more with me. His ego gets hurt and he becomes a typical dick in his hand bro. Or he has too much to drink and forgets i will walk in an instant and reverts to his pre programned shit. Or i am busy w work and cant make him a priority. I should be done but the sex is great, the fun is fun, and i always have the upper…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:08 AM
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Sis. Read chumplady and realize you dodged a bullet..promise. Being the relationship police is a no win soul destroying situation. And FYI.....if you are in a committed relationship and picking up his phone to use the Roku app is a problem...gtfo. Anyone who doesnt acknowledge the inherent problems w guarding a phone and insists on "privacy" can suck my dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:21 AM
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Coterie of scrotery....and theres my whiskey coming out my nose....ah saturdays nights in my beautiful home getting drunk listening to music and admiring the women of FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:33 AM
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I understand why you put the sharing of difficulties as a red flag however I see nothing wrong about sharing my story with people. Being vulnerable and honest is courageous. Doing it in a bar w some random isnt good. Waiting 5 years to do it isnt good either. I get asked regularly why i am single and my stock answer is that i didnt like my husbands girlfriend and deserve someone who sees how amazing i am. But ive had plenty of conversations with less than besties about the trauma of infidelity, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:40 AM
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Louder for those in the back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:29 AM
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What i find amazing about this.... The first time anything remotely like this happened it was after having sex for several hours and even though i was turned on, there just wasnt anything happening. The man didnt even need to be told what the issue was, didnt lay it on me, and then proceeded to use his saliva and fingers and eyes to help get my body there....i thought i ws turned on before that.... Withing the last year, i had sex with a guy a bit younger than me and it was pretty good. But a co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:04 AM
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I am memorizing this word for word. Perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:56 AM
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It isnt that they dont see, its that they dont care. Chumplady uses words like a scalpel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:23 PM
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Moana all the way for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:35 PM
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This is how i always justified it. She was literally in a tornado of magic. But then i started playing beach vball and people didnt recogize me wearing clothing and off the beach. And now people dont recognize me w makeup and in dressy clothes So i think it is more realistic than it seems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:33 PM
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We should play a game of all the places we have been asked out..... Publix At the gym in the middle of a squat At the beach playing w my dog Hmmm perhaps switch that up..where havent we been asked out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:57 PM
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The silence is deafening.....and so very telling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:55 PM
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From what he has "seen". Rofl. This douchecanoe doesnt want to see a pic of me in a 2 peice, holding my masters degree in one hand and my w2 in the other. There is 0 doubt I am amazing and i am raising a woman to know that about herself. And i understand that it is terrifying.... suck it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:53 PM
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Isnt this straight out of legally blond where she makes the argument about abandoning all his masturbation sperm? Why these sperm??.??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:19 AM
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Fuck this. Men leave LTRs for fantasy land bc they are cowards. Not bc they do things they wouldnt for you bc they dont want you......but bc you were strong enough and adult enough to state your needs...and emasculated them or wtf-ever. Come the fuck on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:04 AM
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And....lets say you brought a downpayment to the first house. Maybe you lived at home the first 3 years and horded money and had s nice little egg. So then you get married, you bring the downpayment, you both are on the deed. Now, 10 years go by and maybe you refi or sell and take all the equity into the new house..... and at year 12 he is on love w howorker and wants out. Guess what happened to your downpayment and the associated appreciation??? It became a deemed gift to your spouse when you r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:36 AM
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Wow. Girl. No one believes i am 42 either. I run and play vball and lift and had horrible acne which has slowly become amazing oily and nice skin. Lol. But ive been hesitant to date younger than 40. Maybe i should give it a try. Bc i see alot id like to try in that 33-38 range....mmm hhmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:14 PM
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I second finding another therapist potentially. I had post partum onset 6 months after birth when i stopped breastfeeding. It took a year to figure out meds that would help. I tried everything including induced seizures to treat it. Finally an old drug did it....started seeing improvement in hours...literally ...my parents were there and talk about it to thsi day. I was in therapy the whole time and still am. 3 months after recovery, my ex who had the highest of HVM up to and especially during t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:51 AM
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Same here. Everything about me that was awesome became hated. I realize now some it was happening ever so slowly the whole relationship. And then got worse as he hit 40 and i guess got a little unsettled about life, idk. Just really sped up when he decided howorker was the answer to his mid life crisis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:34 AM
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You are what you do, not what you intend or say or anything else. My rules: 1. Integrity > everything 2. Actions > words 3. No response is a response, a strong one 4. Head high, squats low 5. Dance through it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:12 PM
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Enraged. And it is coming out more and more. I have always thought it was me. I was too....strong and made people uncomfortable...my physicality, my intelligence, my inherent attitude having been raised by a HVM to believei can take the pepsi challenge with any man any day any metric, my knowledge about how i should be treated, my okness with not being liked, my refusal to accept i am a bitch when i simply refuse to be treated unfairly. And i was ok with that. I am who i am and that means a very…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:05 AM
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I started off with the mindset i wasnt going to buy my daughter dolls and "girl" toys. But the problem is that she wanted to imitate me. From a very early age she wanted to step into my heels. She wanted to show me how she can be gentle w a baby doll. She wanted to cook for me. She wanted to play dress up. She now wants to imagine whole lives and scenarios for her barbies. These are normal play behaviors and important for children...at her preschool starting at 2 both the girls and boys enjoyed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:50 AM
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I dont think bashing into current SAHMs is the intent. It is the intent to make it very clear how vulnerable you are making yourself by making that choice. You being any women but mostly women who havent decided to do it yet. Someone needs to be real about it instead the BS spouted Let me be clear: most states are no fault now, LT alimony is almost non existent, and mens rights advocates and therapists have somehow decided that 50/50 is in all kids best interests....oh and also makes child suppo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:41 PM
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Compelled. Thats an interesting word and i need to think about it a bit tbh. I dont think i feel compelled but maybe i havent examined that. My reasons: I loved being in a relationship, having a team, feeling secure and able to be completely open, my full true self w another human being, all my dark secrets and hurts and shames known to another and still loved. Anything i love doing is better w someone else there to enjoy it with me. I really enjoy sex and all physical intimacy...kissing, touchi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:27 PM
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Of the many injustices to deal with due to my exhusbands affair and ny divorce..... Trying to date as a 40 year old woman has got to be in the top 5. Im pretty much over the divorce itself although i will never be over the betrayal, but this is one of those constant reminders if how much it sucks.....i am regularly delaing w men who think i should be grateful they are paying attention to me and all i can think is I hate my ex for cheating and forcing me back into dating. All of the stories here …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:21 PM
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I love the sweet taste of downvotes almost as much as the rage of men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:22 AM
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You need to take this down. We have to be super careful about the appearance of brigading. I know it suck but you cant link to that shit sub or directly mention it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:58 AM
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I feel like this is the natural evolution of the handmaidens tale....after gilead falls women FINALLY say: ok our turn for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:49 PM
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Id lobe an example or 2 of what you consider to be eye roll inducing, not wholesome. Just out of curiosity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:00 AM
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Way to point point by point make me put down the hopium pipe. Sigh. I knew i was tough and thats why i felt so lucky to be with my exhusband....bc he wasnt that way and i am all of that. But it was too much for him eventually, apparently. Damn it. I think this is truth and i neeed to accept it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:31 PM
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You have almost convinced this old lady w your honesty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:29 AM
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Ignorance is bliss - alot of people, but none of the queens up in here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:28 PM
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I would have presented him w a bill for my time at my hourly rate. I bill at 450 an hour. For 3 hours. And then i would have line itemed the $35 against my 1350 and asked him for the 1315 balance. If you want to get transactional, illl treat you like a client.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:51 PM
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Just a note: When all this was fine for a long time and becomes not fine - trust me something is wrong. My ex had 0 problem w my loud, energeric, strong, dont care what people think personality for 15 years. We had alot of music in common but he stayed kinda stuck in 90s alt and i kept branching out. Still he never had a problem. When that person starts slowly becoming critical of the things about you that make you you.....be careful. I tried to think " well im not perfect and maybe i do get a l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:25 AM
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And honestly chumplady and FDS have alot of overlap. She is huge on valuing yourself, cutting out people who dont support you, brutal honesty, and that being by yourself is way better than being disrespected and abused. I encourage anyone who needs help changing their focus from external validation to internal validatation to read her. Also - the woman has saved lives. Literally saved lives by speaking truth about the devastation of adultery and the tactics those people employ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:11 AM
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Sis, you are spot on with this. People who are confident and secure in themselves love me even if we are very diff personalities. People who are insecure and faking it dislike me bc me being me makes the mask they wear uncomfortable. Wish i had learned that long ago......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:16 PM
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Because anyone that doesnt worship / obey them is attacking them. Went on a date Saturday. It went really well until i refused to back down from my position in something. Downhill from there. Ok, whatever. I walk over to my local brewery and a few people i know are there and say hi and ask me what ive been up. Mixed group and i do a smal vent about the date and the difficulty of dating. This "guy" who dislikes me immensely because I dont kiss his ass started almost yelling at me that i needed to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:17 PM
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That rape scene though... i just cant watch it and i barely even hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:00 AM
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Yep. That about sums it up. Alot of "poly" guys or guys looking for "open minded" women. Barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:26 AM
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I loved R2D2 too much not to picture the same exact thing and feel like bots need love too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:31 AM
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I hear that song every time my ex tries to cause drama via my daughter. How can someone who knew me so well for so long think he has a chance of forcing me to engage w his BS? Think i won't treat him like a hole in the air? " you must not know bout me...."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:55 AM
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Good bot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:50 AM
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Amen. I lived through this exact scenario. Only he was HVM through everything andni have 0 idea why he suddenly became capable of cheating. All i can say is if a man cant talk about his feelings to some degree, avoids normal healthly conflict, and comes from a family that puts being "nice" over addressing issues...that is a disaster waiting to happen..it might take 15 years, a baby and turning 40.....but it happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:02 PM
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I am trying not to get offended by this when i am on the reverse side. I know women w kids are generally much much different than men w kids and that was the subject of your post. I thought i had a HVM for 15 years. And then when our daughter was 3 suddenly done and in love w a howorker. Ive heard alot of guys talk shit about women w a kid dating and how they dont want the "baggage" and how i should feel lucky for their attn since i am "competing w younger women w less drama". Your last line com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:46 PM
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I cant believe im asking this: But how did you do that? Ive always been attracted to women and have had some physical experiences but never dated one. I think id actually like to open up to that but im very concerned about wasting someones time while i try to see if my attraction is more than physical/ i can overcome my default setting. Any advice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:28 AM
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^ this. Average size who knows how to move his hips, pays attention to what is doing it for me, and actively enjoys going down > huge dick any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:55 PM
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I just wish one of these dumbasses would think this through: She said something terrible so hitting her was maybe not ok but understandable. Interesting. So have any of these people ever had a boss say something terrible or demeaning in front of others? And....you were able to stop yourself from hitting the boss right? So why shouldnt a man be capable of not hitting a woman regardless of what she says? Bc it isnt about what SHE SAID. Its about putting her in her place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:31 AM
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This is the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:23 PM
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I understand your feelings and thoughts and they are 100% valid. Ive chosen a different path on this: i dont care who is looking, go ahead. I just ignore and ice queen and do my thing. Having said that i have played competitive sports since i was young and had no choice about people looking at me in awkward poses. And specifically vball....we all transition to beach sooner or later....and we play beach in 2 peice bathing suits. So very early in college i learned to ignore assholes on the beach m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:27 PM
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I found out about my ex husbands affair while we were out of town. Of course i didnt know it was an affair, he had been acting weird and forced a fight the night before we left on the trip so i was trying to believe they were friends. Anyway point being that we had sex several times on that trip and less than a week later he was done w our marriage. After i realized what had been going and on and saw the text logs....i felt used and abused and violated and just absolutely horrified. And disguste…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:29 PM
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I am right there with you. How do i co parent with someone who literally addreses me, in writing, as "kid's name's mother"? Answer = you dont. All comm in parenting software. NC outside of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:14 PM
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I dated a guy 2 years before it was even discussed, at all. And it came up only after we started playing w toys a bit. And it was 100% no pressure. And he was very conscious and concerned the whole time and stopped all movement immediately if i said anything. Anything other than that is a red flag for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:26 PM
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I think the idea of understanding all of the pressures and changing social dynamixs that are leading people to use shitty coping mechanism and escapism to deal is a valuable discussion So in that context, in the theoretical psychology of cheating/ other shitty behavior i think she has some useful insight. The problem is she wants people to use that insight not to understand and figure out how to stop the harmful behaviors but excuse them. Hell to the no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:46 PM
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This is the way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:06 PM
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She is a cheater apologist. She blows. Chumplady skewers her regularly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:01 AM
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Ding! Ding! Ding! Women: he cheated, what was i doing wrong? Others to women: he cheated why werent you meeting his needs and keeping him happy ? Btw you are WAY PAST THE WALL and men over 30 have their pick so you are screwed. Men: she cheated, what a slut. Others to men: she cheated, what a slut, btw you wont have a problem finding a new woman bc good men are hard to find.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:41 PM
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No response is a response, a powerful one. 10 seconds to hear, a while to believe, even longer to fully implement, instantaneous change. Helping my daughter learn this WAY EARLIER than i did is one of my many goals as a mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:41 AM
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In my case, the howorker was married to LVM and my ex was HVM. She was looking for an upgrade from her shitty husband. My ex hadnt dated much in college before me and we had just had our kid, i had some post partum, then the stress of trying to be perfect at everything got to me a bit. So at the lowest point of our 17 year relationship, howorker throws herself at my ex...who i thought was HVM....turns out he had a core of neediness and dont ever criticize me that never came out before. Suddenly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:07 PM
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Agree. Ive been full commando since high school other than skirts and dresses....and even then only if short or i think the wind is a threat. Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:08 AM
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Thats why i had the talk w my almost 7 year old daughter. In a way i want her to stay innocent s bit longer but that out of my control. She asked 2 different times and expressed confusion since one of her teachers isnt married but is pregnant so clearly being married isnt what causes pregnancy but she has always been told babies and marriage generally go together. Anywho - so we talked about something she understands kissing....as physical contact. And so i explained that when male and female pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:33 PM
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I get the same. I think its the idea that we are older and potentially less drama/needy/ just happy to be wanted and therefore lower effort? Thats all i can come up with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:03 PM
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This is an insta no for me. 35+ never married no kids want both? Um, no you dont. Which is fine but the fact that you are lying/baiting/completely thoughtless on this topic is a red flag buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:57 PM
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Compulsory heterosexual. What a perfect term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:08 PM
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A couple years ago i got into a rather heated confrontation bc i was sitting at a brewery drinking a beer and not responding to attempts to get me to talk to a group of guys. Finally they said something inappropriate enough that i responded...and the whole brewery came to a stop while i lit into them and told them to fuck off. And this is exactly what i said. They tried to call me a bitch and i slapped that down as well. Did i cause a scene? No! They did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:45 PM
11

Girl, i am 42 and recently divorced, never thought that would happen. Dating men in their 40s who think they missed out on all this freakiness and trying to make up for it. I am just like.....dont you have a daughter? Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:46 AM
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