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rahrahrudy/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:28 PM
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Cut your loses. She slept with another man that she works with. She’s been talking to him longer than you think and as long as she keeps working there he’s going to be in the picture. Focus on yourself first and everything else will come after.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:11 PM
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You’re a young man figuring it out. It’s okay to be confused and feel like you don’t have it together. Getting your shit together is tough. Keep hitting the gym, perfect your craft, keep chasing your purpose. It hurts now but all of this is going to make you a stronger man in the end. You loved her but she had another experience right away. The chances are she was probably faithful to you but she was flirting with this man every so often while you weren’t around and you two being separated just …
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:37 PM
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Could be your calorie intake or maybe try adding in some cardio if you aren’t already.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:43 PM
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It doesn’t matter how long the drive is. If she wants to fuck you she will even if it means waiting 5 minutes or 30 minutes.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:28 AM
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maybe don’t do it? She has everything to gain and you have everything to lose.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 05:38 AM
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She probably wanted to be with you. You didn’t really do a whole lot wrong other than post another girl and she saw it. She probably liked you and was hurt by that.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 11:02 PM
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Those aren’t really any red flags. Just go for it man roll the dice
/r/askTRP25/05/21 06:31 AM
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It’s just a cigarette. No need to go above and beyond.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:34 PM
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Do what’s best for you and don’t look back.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:12 PM
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You literally just reiterated what I said but In another way
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:37 AM
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Depends on you. Do you want to be the provider and breadwinner? Or do you want a woman who holds her own weight with or without you? As far as cooking and cleaning goes if you’re the main provider and she stays home; you’re going to want things done. If you want a 50/50 then you’re going to have to wash your own things and cook your own meals from time to time. It really just depends on what you’re looking for in a relationship.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:06 PM
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Agree to disagree.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 06:43 AM
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There isn’t one unfortunately. That’s part of trp. You don’t open up to a woman. Only person you can probably open up to is your mother but even then she might not get you or fully understand you.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 04:54 AM
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Why would you say something you don’t mean for the sake of a reaction? Might as well do what you said Because you’re going to be hurt when she starts talking to other guys or decides to fuck them.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 10:34 PM
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No you can’t stop her nor will she probably come clean or tell the whole truth. But the man is in an LTR and by asking what she has going on for the day/night; he is able to use his best judgement based of what she tells him instead of him being left in the dark wondering what she may be doing when he could’ve asked her. Being in a LTR requires a balance. Act like chad all the time you’ll get left for being a asshole act like beta billy and she’ll get taken.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 02:27 AM
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Just ask. Nothing really insecure about asking what she has going on for the day/night.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 05:11 PM
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From what I understand, you’re just green. You lack life experience and it’s going to take trial and error and more experiences to make you more confident and sure of yourself. Read about things you want to learn about, unsure about something? Google it. People fucking with you? Learn how to fight. Getting punched in the face will toughen you up faster than a weight will. The way people treat you is a reflection of how they perceive you. Want to be taken seriously? Yes, hit the gym. Dress well. …
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:57 PM
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🤙
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:11 PM
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Really all in your head. A simple, “ I don’t feel much.” Or a “ I feel fine” would’ve been suffice.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 04:25 AM
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It’s the whole thing. It gives no insight or idea of who are you. Nobody can get a sense of who are you from reading that. It’s a bit weird actually.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:54 AM
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Your whole profile could use some work. Less of a bio more quality pictures.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:35 AM
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While that’s probably true, you are a business owner. You don’t get cut a regular check. You don’t have pto or sick days. You have the freedom to be your own boss and that comes with its own challenges and it requires grit, discipline, and so much more. Nothing good comes out of being comfortable. you’re working like your business took off already...
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:30 AM
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you say you’re not making much and you are living off savings. Working on your business 2-3 hours isn’t much time to be putting into a business that isn’t bringing in revenue. I feel that you are anxious because you are not working as long as a typical employee and it’s a reflection of the money you are making and using savings rather than profits. I could be wrong but I feel that you are feeling that way because you are not doing enough for yourself or your business.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:24 AM
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The gym is part of his schedule..
/r/askTRP01/04/21 05:19 AM
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Dating will get better for you when you get older. You’ll be able to go out more and be able to go to places 21+. You’ll get to meet more women your age or even older (if you’re into that). As for the hand on the knee part, you have to build up to that. Too fast they’ll think you’re a creep... too late they’ll think you’re timid or uninterested. As a side note, They’re going out with you for a reason. Hope this helps.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 05:31 PM
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Let him be corny on his own. You don’t need to say anything. That’s what would’ve separated you guys. But because you said something... he took what you said and one upped you in front of others making you look bad man.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:53 PM
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Don’t be so hard on yourself. She’s for the streets don’t take her so serious.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 06:24 AM
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They’re not interested.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:29 PM
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That’s a good one
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:28 AM
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I live in Los Angeles. Takes maybe 4-5 hours.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:13 AM
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Leave her on read
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:48 AM
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Uber eats. Easy way to make 100 bucks or more after I clock out.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:43 PM
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Leave.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:37 PM
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I get it. I mean as a sophomore you’re probably 20 and haven’t worked very much. Try out different jobs or internships. Hit the gym. Read books. Listen to podcasts you enjoy. All these things will open new avenues for you to explore and maybe just maybe you may have an idea of what you want to do. I worked 4 different jobs before I decided i wanted to do real estate and when I made my final choice I was dead set on it because I explored my options. I’m still young and can continue to explore my …
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:19 AM
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Think about where you want to be in life and how you must get there. It definitely doesn’t require feeling lazy, feeling sorry for yourself, and giving up. To be successful you must do the work... when I was in college what kept me motivated was my mindset. I told myself that “if I study this, learn this, and apply myself to this and the field I’m going into..... I can have anything I want later.” Now I’m not a millionaire but I’m 24 years old and I am working in real estate, driving a foreign c…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:08 AM
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Leave brother. You don’t deserve that. And you don’t owe her any closure. She wasn’t sorry when you didn’t know. She’s sorry because you found out.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:56 AM
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You have no control over it so don’t mind it.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:42 PM
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Don’t try to force it. Let the conversation flow till it gets there. It’s understandable to date people and meet them since that’s the whole point of the app but you don’t want to come off too strong and make them think you’re a creep for trying to meet so fast. Also make it (the date or meet up) seem casual, a lot of women aren’t really looking for anything serious but they don’t want to come off easy so suggest something that seems like nothing I.E. getting coffee. Hope this helps
/r/askTRP05/03/21 04:50 AM
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Cut your losses big man there’s a lot of other women in the sea. Don’t chase. You are the prize. She has to earn you, your time, your attention, she has to earn you. You as a man have everything to offer meanwhile most women have nothing to offer but drama and some pre owned cat. She sees you as a friend and that’s why there’s no more sex or anything like that. Women either want it or they don’t.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 11:24 PM
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Best way to hold your frame is remembering what you can and can’t control. If it is out of your reach don’t worry about it. If someone is a threat then handle it. Don’t be a loud guy with nothing to back it up. If you get laid out it’ll make you look even worse compared to if you were quiet and put up a good fight. If she cheats on you she was never yours to begin with and the other guy did you a favor. Hope this helps.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:54 PM
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Find something in their profile or pictures and make a conversation out of it. Don’t compliment her.. tons of guys are already doing that. If you pick something of substance to talk about that she has within her profile she will respond to you.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:51 PM
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Say you piped another girl and see how that turns out for you... It seems like she wanted to get a reaction out of you and you held your frame which was good but why bother with someone who feels the need to constantly test you? let alone test you with something like that... if you haven’t had sex with her and she said that to you it’s a red flag
/r/askTRP02/03/21 01:44 AM
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Probably 6 months or so to get over her. Breakups suck but what’s done is done and you can only pick yourself up and try to move forward.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 11:50 PM
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There’s mixed responses clown
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:23 PM
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I wouldn’t consider buying any programs; however, YouTube is always a good start. From workouts to style, and finance... YouTube is great. Watch different videos. Find men you would like to be friends with (if you could be) watch someone you respect. It all starts with being open to new ideas and concepts and grasping different things from different individuals. Visually - a woman wants to fuck that hot guy who’s ripped and handsome. Or if not those things, someone who dresses really well and ha…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 10:52 PM
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I experienced abundance when I started focusing on myself. When I started getting a better body and started getting smarter with my money my life got better. By improving myself I was more attractive materially and physically which helped me get any girl I wanted at the bar or club. It is also how you carry yourself, how you speak, how you dress, you create the image you want for yourself and how you want to be recognized.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:46 AM
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You need to believe that you are not average. You need to believe that you can create abundance in any area of your life whether it comes to accomplishing goals, fucking girls, or making money. You can believe you are in a pond and there is no abundance or you can believe that you are in an ocean and that there are other fish in the sea. You achieve abundance by becoming a high value male. When you succumb to women you begin to lose value and she’ll walk all over you. Be the man she wonders abou…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:37 AM
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When you’re more masculine you become more of a predator. Men and women are able to see if you are masculine whether it be in your appearance, posture, or how you speak. To answer you more directly, I do not believe so. When you are more masculine you are like a lion. A forced to be reckoned with. Someone will think twice before fucking with you.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:35 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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