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I've had more success in my depressed state than I did in my much mentally healthier state So, personally, I've fallen for the depressed dude more than a few times and I realized later on why that way. A lot of times, the macho front is dropped and they're a lot more easy going, approachable and seemingly vulnerable. They're also a lot more communicative with their emotions and feelings because they're going through something major. Consider that it may not be the fact that you're depressed that…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 03:13 PM
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Correction: there's a type of woman that YOU have in mind that you feel like you deserve, but the type of standards women like that uphold you happen to find unfair.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 03:11 PM
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Skinny dorks are usually packing meat in a different department
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 03:10 PM
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I think the internet as a whole needs to quit with diagnosing random strangers on the internet with severe personality disorders just because they're not getting what they want out of perfect strangers. It's a very narcissistic thing to say and do.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 03:10 PM
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I think the major thing men need to reject isn't even redpill - its the misogyny that is ingrained in absolutely everybody in this society, including women. Red Pill is nothing more than a symptom of a much bigger problem. It is a hyperbole of the every day misogyny that is engrained in men via the patriarchy. ​ Being fit will help you with women It might, but men greatly overestimate this part because they look at the attractiveness of men through the male gaze. Men like muscles on each other a…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 03:07 PM
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Sure, if I want to risk potentially tipping an already unhinged person over the edge and find myself getting punched in the face. Maybe even gain a new stalker. There is 0 to gain from this approach outside of violence or being put in the crosshairs of an already crazy person.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 06:45 PM
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Sweetheart, the only laughs you're going to hear from this crowd with all of your "lol"s and "haha"s are AT you
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 02:32 PM
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The core of Red Pill is insecurity. If you weren't insecure about not getting sucked and fucked in the way you wish you were, you wouldn't NEED red pill.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 01:49 PM
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sure! send them my way or better yet...make a post. i think a lot of women are on this sub for the same reasons i do. having a serious encounter with a RPer, whether it was through casual dating, a sexual relationship or worse, an actual platonic relationship....it leaves a stain.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 01:46 PM
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Absolutely. And instead of dedicating their time to what WOULD make them that productive and successful nerd they dream about being, they're wasting their precious time, youth and resources on creepy forums.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 01:44 PM
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I don't think it's that simple, but it is absolutely a part of it. Using women as scapegoats in order to avoid addressing the bigger picture or problem is a core element of misogyny , so red pillers using women as scapegoats is a symptom of misogyny as a whole, not necessarily red pill. All red pill does is take every day misogyny and magnify it by a thousand. Red pill is but a symptom of a much bigger epidemic.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/21 01:43 PM
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An ideology & dating technique born out of insecurity means it will be applied whenever the person applying it is feeling insecure. Guess what? For RP men, it's always. Neg at the club to get the date. Get the date, then its all about whether or not she'll even like you to fuck. Fuck, and then its a matter of feeling insecure about whether or not someone is going to fuck her better than you. It. Never. Ends.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 10:48 PM
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It's a backhanded compliment meant to lower your self-esteem and make you more approachable/take you down a notch in order to give them an upper hand. I'm chubby, but I am curvy/hourglass. I have 0 shortages in regards to dating men. Because my weight, tits and ass are the most obvious things about me, they will be the first things they'll reach for in order to neg. Here are a couple I've heard IRL: - "You're Colombian right? That explains the BBL" (brazilian butt lift - its a type of plastic su…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 10:43 PM
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it's PUA, redpill's brother.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 06:40 PM
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Same. Its unfortunate though because I was in my 20s when I first started experiencing these behaviors in men and it genuinely impacted my self-esteem and self-worth for a while. It seemed impossible to meet someone who didn't think he had to bully or undermine me in order to get me to like him.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 02:41 PM
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That's EXACTLY what it felt like. Actually, I was on a date with a guy once who flat out ignored me for a whopping 5-10 minutes to actively flirt with a stranger right to my face and started playing this "game" where he would blatantly ignore me and I ran out of the restaurant crying because I felt humiliated. He apologized thoroughly and begged for forgiveness (he was not graced with either) and then I later came to learn that some PU bullshit tactic these guys are taught. It obviously backfire…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 02:29 PM
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I think it was after my 3rd experience with negging on a date or what felt like some strange pick up tactic that I jokingly question out loud if there was some sort of date-like-an-asshole manual that all of these guys were reading and I wasn't exactly wrong.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 01:34 PM
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I started learning more about Red Pill as a result of coming across certain behaviors in men while dating that began to feel like they were following some sort of guide on how to date (horribly)...and I can tell you, with full confidence, it is a SIGNIFICANT amount of young men that are consuming this content.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 11:56 AM
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Money is important. It is to women, and guess what? It is to men, because the majority are not in a position to economically support a woman & a family independently. This is so archaic and holding on to the shit your GRANDAD was able to do. Even if you’re making six figures, it’s not enough to sustain a woman & a family. In fact, I will argue that most women are working, bringing home income AND living up to some of the same gender-specific expectations as our grandmas. If anything; it’s men wh…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 02:31 AM
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If they're the ones providing you with these "statistics", the responsibility of providing you with that information isn't on you - its on them.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 04:26 PM
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Statistically, women ARE inclined towards being more emotionally supportive, especially with each other. It’s not a matter of opinion, it’s a matter of documented, empirically studied & documented fact. In no way did I mention emotional maturity, but I’m going to suggest that you also do a little more reading to really understand the definition of sexism because I’m not entirely sure you understand what it means. Best of luck, I think you have a lot of work to do.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 09:24 PM
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Well, to begin with there is a major difference between having insecurities and being insecure, and being able to give and receive emotional support has absolutely nothning to with either of the two. It's not that men are expected to be this rock of security 24/7, but as a whole, women act as emotional support for each other pretty consistently and it becomes frustrating when your romantic partner can't engage in that kind of bonding behavior with us. It is so second nature to us that women with…
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 07:53 PM
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if there were major issues with female pornstars, we'd know. There are. Many major porn stars have come out to talk about sexual assaults on set. You just don't care and don't want to hear it because you feel entitled to porn and quite frankly, you sound like someone who has a problem with it. I know when a guy cannot go without porn....if he can't go without porn. It's really THAT simple. Imagine being this hooked on sexual content.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 07:42 PM
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If you try to belittle men for watching porn, I'm disgusted. There is A LOT that is wrong with the porn industry and behaving as though you and 90% of men in this world are entitled to it despite the major issues that have been brought to light by that industry, there's a major problem. That IS disgusting. In all reality, there are a lot of men, especially those 30+, who successfully take a huge step away from porn as a result of what its done to them, how they began to view women, and how they …
/r/ExRedPill18/05/21 08:45 PM
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It's terrible and abhorrent, but people constantly try to compare it to redpill and it simply isn't. You know how the whole All Lives Matter bullshit started as a direct result of Black Lives Matter? Well, FDS more or less is the same thing. It exists as a direct response to redpill. Without redpill and their model, there would be no FDS. Another distinct difference would be that FDS *as a whole* encourages women to actually be in monogamous relationships with quality men and start a family. It …
/r/ExRedPill18/05/21 08:35 PM
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I feel like the internet's obsession with diagnosing perfect strangers with really serious personality disorders is reflective of people's inability to cope with reality and as a result, why things like incel culture and redpill come to fruition. It's easier to say that all of this is a result of some insidiuous conspiracy than it is to perhaps take personal accountability for participating in toxic masculinity and perpetuation the absolute worst of the patriarchy due to the belief that you were…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 11:50 PM
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There is an entire world full of people experiencing real love while you're sitting in your bleak room, assuming you know all there is to know about it while experiencing absolutely none of it. There is no point to refute with you, you're insane.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 08:20 PM
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So you admit to sitting back and observing things, and that makes you more of an expert than a person that has actually experienced dating and a romantic partner? TOUCH. SOME. GRASS.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/21 02:43 PM
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He was just Hispanic and really into Machismo culture which is essentially Red Pill en Español
/r/ExRedPill14/05/21 02:35 PM
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I have come across this as well - the guy who is obsessed with the idea of being this protector or provider who absolutely rejects any financial assistance from me his girlfriend...while simultaneously having nothing to offer and counting on other people to foot the bill on his behalf. It's mental illness. I'll never forget the one time I was dating a guy who was like this....we had a date at the park. I was starving by the end of our date I had offered to buy us Taco Bell. He refused. He flat o…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 08:06 PM
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Redpill likes to argue about traditional vs modern women, all while failing miserably to measure up to either standard for men.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 07:53 PM
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You need to go outside and touch some grass.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/21 09:51 PM
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Do you not love any pets? Your parents? Your friends? More or less the same applies. You grow to love the person in a different way because of the value they bring to your life and the affection you've developed for them.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/21 09:26 PM
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Honestly, I have to wonder what deep, dark places of the internet and your mind you would have to explore in order to come to this conclusion, so I'm just going to remind you of the following things: Disabled, obese, and people with chronic illnesses find and keep love. I guarantee there is an unattractive, obese, and disabled person with diabetes in this world with a dedicated and loving partner. These observations are more indicative of your personal approach to love and relationships, not eve…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/21 09:20 PM
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If you want to truly prevent that from happening to you wear condom every time you have sex and them make the girl take a plan B after OR how about you get a vasectomy as opposed to "make" someone take hormonal birth control?
/r/ExRedPill07/05/21 06:37 AM
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Dude, I'm going to be the one to say this to you in the event that no one else does, but you are honestly coming off as majorly insufferable. Chill. Out. Tone. It. Down. Humble. Yourself. Work. On. Being. Likable. This is advice not just for dating, but for getting along with people as a whole. For someone who opened with "I don't really see myself as better than anyone" everything you have said up until this point proves otherwise.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 05:51 AM
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Chill out. You're high-strung and overthinking things way too hard. I don't doubt you're intelligent for your age, but nobody wants to engage with someone who constantly thinks they're the smartest person in the room, much less date them. While being attracted to a person's intelligence is normal, humble yourself and work on your approachability. *Edit* Also, I sincerely doubt that there is not one single intelligent, kind, and interesting girl in your entire high school.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:32 AM
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Little homie just got the vibes 💀when I tell you this SENT ME INTO ORBIT
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:24 AM
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You're in highschool. Oh. I have some news for you: You aren't as good or as deep as you think you are.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:21 AM
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Look at the Latino community and realize there are whole 5'5 men with a wife at home and like, 3 side pieces waiting around for them. But in terms of getting what, or rather WHO, you want (women are people) - I mean, are you upset at the fact that maybe the women you're interested in landing exclusively happen to fit into a physical ideal of yours and you're upset that they may have physical ideal standards of their own in which you may not fit? Because if that's the case then here's my suggesti…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 07:46 PM
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It’s a men’s issue that women have to unfortunately suffer. Leave the blame for it where it belongs. Women did not ask for this.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 02:38 AM
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Yep. Notice how short, fat women don't really have an issue dating (much to short male Reddit's anger & frustration). They might not fit the skinny ideal of small, but they're still short and in many cases, they're being fat only serves to exaggerate feminine features like having a big ass or massive tits. Actually, as a short & fat woman, the kind of guys that seem to gravitate towards me the most are actually really tall guys. Now, if a woman is tall, a lot of guys will think that she's embody…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 12:45 AM
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You could say the same thing about what's considered facially attractive. Really, we all have eyes, noses, mouths. What makes the arrangement of some eyes, noses, and mouths more desirable than others? My theory is that people find exaggerations of the opposite sex attractive. Men are routinely bigger and taller than women - as a result, big & tall men are seen as more attractive to women. It's an exaggeration of a masculine trait. Women are routinely smaller and curvier than men - small, curvy …
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 12:36 AM
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Yeah, and as a woman with DD's titties, a fat ass, and a great hip to waist ratio I also hear men talk about how much they love curvy women and how they'd never date someone that isn't carrying a dump truck and makes me wonder how I'd do if I was flat-chested or born with a pancake ass, yet here we are. Why is it so hard for men to understand that they do the exact same thing? Does this mean that every ass man exclusively dates or marries women with outrageously huge asses? I'm sure some do, the…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 12:22 AM
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Oh this is just rich & laughable. While your wife sounds incredible, the fact that you’re under the impression you somehow validate the type of power a woman is allowed or accepted to generate (meaning as long as it doesn’t challenge yours) is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 12:25 AM
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I am not a woman. I don’t measure the quality of a potential mate by her display of power (physical, social, financial, intellectual, or spiritual) because I am not seeking vicarious power from a potential mate. I can create all the power I need for myself. Would you find a woman that generates power a challenge to your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 12:13 AM
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because there are a lot of socially maladjusted people who desperately wish they weren't.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/21 04:56 AM
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Well then, now you know
/r/ExRedPill05/03/21 02:54 PM
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....do you live under a rock or something? Are you like, not at all aware of how massive amounts of porn consumption has literally warped not just what men expect and feel entitled to from women sexually, but the pressure it applies to women to perform sexually in ways that they may not be comfortable doing?
/r/ExRedPill05/03/21 12:16 AM
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I mean, I won't be in a relationship with a partner who doesn't please me sexually and I've dumped guys practically on the spot for pumping away for 5 minutes, rolling over and having the audacity to ask if I came. Yeah, sure I came. To my senses. I'm getting an Uber, don't call me again.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/21 12:15 AM
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Beloved, the fact that your cannot decipher the very clear misogyny being spewed in redpill is more reflective of your own struggles with misogyny as opposed to anything else.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/21 12:10 AM
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Redpill IS misogynist, I'm missing what you're trying to say here.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 11:46 PM
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Its the pearl clutch at the realization that yes, being a misogynist actually aligns you with other unfavorable members of society FOR ME
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 11:43 PM
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or....get this...maybe the same thinking that leads a lot of these men to believe they are inherently superior to women as a result of being born male also leads them to believe they are inherently better than men of other races and ethnic backgrounds due to the same virtue.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 10:32 PM
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Bigoted behavior and ideology beget other forms of bigoted behavior and ideology. I'm forever floored at people who clutch their pearls at the realization that the same level of deluded thinking that makes a person believe women are second-class citizens also allows them to exercise that same rationale on other groups of people.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 10:30 PM
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Healthy attachment styles are hard to find in the wild!
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 04:17 AM
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And boys have a thing for bad girls too. I think it's a matter of dominating someone seemingly wild. It's an ego thing.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 03:22 AM
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It's not that assholes are more outgoing, it's that outgoing people have a tendency to be assholes because they only care about what they think. They're outgoing because they are people who live life on their terms and don't pay much attention to what other people think or feel. As an outgoing person, I run into being an asshole pretty often. I care about people, especially those close to me, but I don't necessarily care about they think. Because I don't place too much value or assign validation…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 02:34 AM
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I can see that. To me, as a woman, bad boy is a very specific thing. I know that whenever I've suffered the "bad boy", it's more of an ego trip than a matter of me actually liking him I will bet good money that's the case with most women caught in that situation. See, I THINK I have undying feelings for the guy, but what I am really feeling is anger at the fact that I didn't have him or that maybe he didn't like me as much as I liked him. And then it turns into an ego thing like "Wait...does HE …
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 02:26 AM
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First - I grew up in the hood too. The concept of cool is tough to define even though we all recognize it when we see it. There are many different definitions or ideas of what cool even is - cool in the hood is different than cool in the suburbs, but the bad boy is a constant figure throughout all these different ideas of cool. Cool boils down to admirable. It may not be for good reasons. It may not be for the right reasons. But the general gist of this is that cool people are often admired by a…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 02:20 AM
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There's sooooo much written and studied on the whole concept of bad boys, but I think the reason why women are so into them is pretty simple and straight forward: "Bad Boys" are cool. They're usually a guy's guy as well as a girl's guy. "Cool" people are often labeled as such because of their rejection of social norms in combination with their ease and willingness to express themselves while not becoming outcasts in the process, but rather, becoming extremely attractive as a direct result of ref…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 02:10 AM
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And are you under the impression men don't say brazen things on their dating profiles as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:00 PM
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Completely! Friends are awesome, and now with the internet, meeting like-minded people is going to be a lot easier. Join some of your local city/state subreddits, join forums that are near and dear to your interests, and little by little, you will make real friends that way. I would say that right now, I have 2 best friends IRL that I met through a makeup forum a few years ago. When I say they are best friends, I mean we've even traveled to meet up and one of them actually lives in my city so we…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 03:45 AM
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Positive male figures are hard to achieve, but when you find them, they are life-changing. I would say positive male figures demonstrate that men CAN in fact be kind, warm, loving, understanding, and emotional. I have a father who I both adore and detest. It is what it is. He's been a very positive figure in many ways (he fulfilled his role as provider and as his children, we never went without, he fulfilled his role as protector and made it a point to protect and defend us on many occasions), b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 01:03 AM
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I live in NYC and I feel like I rarely see fat people, especially fat young people. I feel like you have to TRY extra hard to be fat in NYC. Every time I go for about a week, the amount of walking for blocks and walking up and down staircases makes me lose 5lbs immediately, and this is that I'm not exactly on a diet or eating right when I visit. Everyone I know that moves to NYC end up losing a lot of weight, even if they weren't meaning to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:50 AM
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If you continue to behave like the worst women in the dating pool as a means to "get back" at shitty women, who do you think your behavior is going to make you most compatible with?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:47 AM
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It's not a high standard, but you just need to be aware of the fact that if the pool of women who are: Young In shape Pretty Not crazy Smart enough to carry a conversation Not hypersexual/haven't racked up a huge body count (this doesn't really important to me or to a lot of men, but it matters to men who sound like you) Earn a decent enough living to contribute to your overall lifestyle & wealth as a couple You are now faced with having a lot more competition for their attention, and you need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:46 AM
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This, exactly! Whenever a man enters these types of discussions under the impression that sex for women is equal to sex for men, I already KNOW they're terrible in bed. It may also be why women often sleep with their friends or ex-boyfriends, they already know them, there is emotional connection of some sort so the man may feel more pressure to give her an orgasm Absolutely and completely. I have FWBs who have had a sexual relationship with me for well over 10 years and the difference between th…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 12:28 AM
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You don’t need a girlfriend. You need friends. Focus on making friends first and work on your social skills through them first, the girlfriend will follow.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 03:40 AM
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Oh yes, absolutely!
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 01:19 AM
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Listen I am *all* for taxing the rich more, it needs to be done on a large scale but good fucking luck posing the argument that they ought to be taxed at a much higher rate in order to stop deadbeat dads from going to jail for failing to pay their child support payments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 12:33 AM
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As much as I would love to defend men's rights, I have yet to come across an MRA who did not discuss violence against women on a very real level. The focus of feminism seems to be women and the stopping of violence, whereas the focus of MRA seems to also be women and while including or encouraging violent actions against them. Feminism is more concerned with leveraging the playing field and stop women AND men from sexual assault, where as I consistently find that MRA men are really into pushing …
/r/ExRedPill14/02/21 11:52 PM
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. Being red pilled doesn't (necessary) mean being anti-female, it means being aware of female traits that soyciet doesn't talk about and are hard to see duo to biological programing and indoctrination scince the earliest days. I've actually visited red pill for years and what is really unfortunate is that you can't tell how sexist this statement is, especially when you consider what these "female traits" are discussed as being.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/21 11:39 PM
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They want to have a relationship with a beautiful woman who has 0 sexual experience while simultaneously sticking their hand in a river of pussy. Hilariously enough, they shoot themselves in the foot with TRP when this is their goal. Allow me to explain. Let us say that the entire female population is counted as 100%. TRP splits women into two categories: fuckable and unfuckable. Fuckable women are between the ages of 18-35 years old (more on this) who are thin/in shape, pretty, has 0 disabiliti…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/21 11:38 PM
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I'm not sure why this is being downvoted. There is a major difference between what we find sexually attractive as an ideal and what we find sexually attractive & compatible with us on a real level. Guys would settle for less attractive girls in a long term if they are caring, polite, smart, funny (those one are super rare), know how to cook, have a good taste and so on... ​ Similar with women. It's more or less the same.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/21 11:35 PM
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There are a lot of hypocrisies, and this is one of them, yes. What's even weirder to me is when as a woman, I try to explain that what we consider sexually attractive is very different from what men THINK we consider sexually attractive. I'll go into the ugly-hot phenomenon, I'll talk about how many celebrities women lust over aren't this GI Joe definition of sexually attractive, I'll discuss the difference between what we idealize vs who we actually fall in love with IRL....and I am met with th…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/21 11:33 PM
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You keep talking about the hypothetical value of the butt diamond or the child but that's not the point, because the point doesn't matter if the butt diamond would make you a billionaire or if its worthless (FYI, children are valuable to more than just women, plenty of men actually love theirs and this might speak volumes on your childhood and why you are the way in which you are) You keep derailing. It's not even funny at this point, its just annoying. Just say you want to force women into unwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 02:24 AM
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Oh bless your heart, you think you've faced all adversities after 5 months of financial hardship. You can't really speak on the standards in which people establish their relationships just so that you can feel good about yours. I have learned is that happiness is something defined by individuals for themselves, not strangers on their behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 02:20 AM
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The OGs are 52-year-old men who claim to be married and happy the majority but are still ridiculously hung up on whether or not 21-year-old girls still think they're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 12:01 AM
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As it seems TRP has lost its definition from what it started from. Not only do I agree, it seems to me as though all of these different TRP philosophies only do 1 thing: Increases the competition amongst themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:56 PM
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They want to have a relationship with a woman with 0 sexual experience while simultaneously sticking their hand in a river of pussy. Hilariously enough, they shoot themselves in the foot with TRP when this is their goal. Allow me to explain. Let us say that the entire female population is counted as 100%. TRP splits women into two categories: fuckable and unfuckable. Fuckable women are between the ages of 18-35 years old (more on this) who are thin/in shape, pretty, has 0 disabilities or physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:54 PM
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Being pro-life has absolutely nothing with caring about babies (or even about the male children who later grow up into men, for that matter) It is about using forced pregnancy and childbirth as punishment on women who had the audacity to have sex with men who weren't them. That's it. That's all it's about. In another thread in this sub, it became painfully obvious that even the pro-choicers viewed childbirth as a worthy punishment. These creeps are liable to hold child-birth as a sporting event …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:33 PM
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I disagree - young people base love purely on emotion. It is only when they realize that love alone doesn't a solid relationship make do they start to include standards on money and lifestyle compatibility. Listen, you can make romantic love all about feelings and emotions if both you insist on living in your parents' houses and on their credit cards. I'm sure the only people who have the luxury of dating for emotional purposes exclusively are very rich trust fund babies. But for the rest of us,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:25 PM
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imagine being so insecure you openly admit to seeking useless women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:13 PM
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Well, if you view romantic love as a transactional activity, guess who you're most compatible with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:10 PM
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People don't think outside of themselves and only approach dating from an entitled lens. I have dated guys that technically checked off all the boxes. Physically attractive. Earned good money. Smart. Funny. Dressed well. But they were painfully insecure and total assholes as a result. They were super rude & would treat me with entitlement. Whenever I would lose interest and dump them over backhanded compliments or generally treating me like shit, I would get "But I am amazing and do everything r…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/21 11:08 PM
1

Inconditional means obsolete. Words have meanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 09:24 PM
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The biggest issue that I see with dating coaches is that they provide the right advice but don't encourage the reasons WHY the "right advice" is the right advice in the first place. They don't encourage fixing your external life by working on the internal. It's very "fake it til you make it" advice. Don't work out in order to make yourself attractive to women, workout because it makes you healthy and it's a form of self-care. Don't improve your wardrobe and how you present yourself to attract wo…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/21 09:20 PM
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I am SCREAMING, you guys are essentially recommending a whole government & tax overhaul in order to justify not paying for child support. You DO realize how ridiculous this sounds? You DO realize that the US is not China, and the one child policy has absolutely ruined their sexual economy and created the most skewed sex ratio in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 06:41 PM
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It’s a big number NOW with future criminals not being born, when that million per year that are born against women’s wills turn into adults and start having kids against their wills as well, we’re talking tens of millions of people who weren’t wanted roaming this country, furthering crime rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:59 PM
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You don’t need to explain to me how Ubi works, I understand how it works, you keep missing the point that this system would still require an increase in taxes to make up for the amount of children now in the system requiring school & healthcare. The economic impact would go beyond punishing a woman for having a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:55 PM
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No one is arguing that sweetheart, if it were possible to share the brunt of pregnancy and delivery, we would gladly do it. The purpose of the bill being passed is to give men the authority to tell a woman whether or not she should have a child against her will.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:14 PM
0

You keep focusing on the value of the diamond to derail from the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:41 PM
1

Im not sure if you’re aware how numbers work, but in the context of what that means to the American public, this is 1 in every 100 people in a country with a population of 331 million. 1% is a huge number - if it weren’t, the coronavirus pandemic would be no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:40 PM
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Exactly this. Most abortion laws make it illegal after the 1st trimester, namely because the child can be viable out or the womb by month 5. It’s rare that a preemie that small survives, but it can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:38 PM
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Women are living, breathing beings. Fetuses are not, t least not yet. As a result, they are more important. Without the woman, there is no baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:36 PM
1

It’s not my obligation to educate you on how taxes and the overall economy works
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:35 PM
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They know very well of the trauma childbirth, they just happen to enjoy it because they are sadists who hate women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:32 PM
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You keep missing the point that’s being made. Should you be forced to pass the 9lb diamond against your will? Would you be okay with women making that decision on your behalf?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:31 PM
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And then they’re going to need food stamps. And then they’re going to need healthcare. And then they’re going to need schooling. And then they’re going to need free lunch. Either way, the buck gets passed on to the tax payer. A lack of child support did not stop people from having kids without a father in the past and do you know why? Because having kids is not about men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:22 PM
3

This isn’t how the larger tax paying economy works
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:23 AM
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If you don’t pay for them directly, you’re paying for them indirectly. Would you rather subsidize the child support for children you didn’t sire?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:05 AM
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No - the point or my analogy is to prove that you shouldn’t be forced into birthing a butt diamond against your will. Which for the record - you shouldnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:15 AM
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With the United States having more of its population incarcerated than any other developed country in the world several times over, it’s a highly plausible argument, and the link between available abortions and the drop in crime rates has been studied several times over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:14 AM
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The purpose of this argument isn’t about the roles of mothers as much as it has to do with whether or not you’d be okay with being forced to engage in a traumatic bodily experience just because someone else said your should
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 12:46 AM
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That’s the value of a butt diamond with no one else shitting butt diamonds. If there were over 2 billion burr diamonds in this world, you wouldn’t be a billionaire. Youd just be another guy with a butt diamond
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 12:43 AM
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The rights of the fetus does not trump the rights of a woman. She is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 12:16 AM
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It’s not about whether or not you’d shit out a 9lb diamond - do you believe that the woman in that situation has a right to force you into into shitting a 9lb against your will. Be specific. Say “I believe the woman has a right to force me into shitting a 9lb diamond against my will”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 12:14 AM
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But what you’re saying is irrelevant to the argument of whether or not men should have a say in whether or not a man has a say in whether or not he can veto an abortion - If you were biologically programmed to push a 9lb diamond out of your asshole, do you believe your girlfriend or wife has the right to force you into shutting that diamond even if it’s against your will?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:42 PM
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And you are free to not fuck around in order to avoid knocking someone up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:07 PM
2

Adults in poverty are three times more likely to be arrested than those who aren’t, and people earning less than 150 percent of the federal poverty level are 15 times more likely to be charged with a felony—which, by definition, carries a longer sentence—than people earning above that threshold.[31] Between 1999 and 2016, people convicted of a crime with at least some college education were given sentences that were between 4.6 and 7.8 percent shorter than individuals without college education.[…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:06 PM
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The double standard, I assure you, is one put in place by men in charge of writing laws who ultimately don’t want to pay for other men’s children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:03 PM
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You’re still not answering - do you agree with being forced to shit out a 9lb diamond out of your ass just because the person who helped you make it said that you had to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:53 PM
2

Statistically speaking, you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:39 PM
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I would say that you pose good arguments, with the exception of you continuing to address this as a punishment. The issue with punishment is that it offers no solution - only a continued chain of punishment. The unfortunate truth is that taxpayers will bear the brunt of no child support for these hypothetical kids, whether it’s through subsidizing child support on behalf of the father, or supporting this child through the legal system once they become career criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:11 PM
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Okay, so we’ve identified that you believe women are primarily responsible for children. What is your solution for a father who decides he wants to be in the life of a child he initially wanted a financial abortion from? Does he pay child support retroactively? Do you disagree with the current family court system favoring women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:58 PM
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What would stop men from claiming they don’t want the child as a legal preventative measure, even if they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:53 PM
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If you’ve identified dead beat fathers as the issue here, why are you guys exclusively focused on the women getting pregnant? What is your punishment for the dead beats since you’ve identified them as the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:52 PM
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If you’ve identified deadbeats as the problem, what is your solution for punishing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:50 PM
6

So you would be okay with theoretically being forced to shit a 9lb diamond out of your ass if your girlfriend says you should?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:46 PM
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Well duh, she wants 50% ownership of that 9 lb diamond doewnr she? That’s why she wants to force him into having it. Do you think her desire to share 50% profit of a 9lb diamond is more important than whether or not he’s allowed to decide whether or not he should go through the trauma of shitting it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:41 PM
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But whether or not the diamond is valuable after you shit is neither here nor there - Should you be forced to shit this 9 lb diamond if the woman who helped you make it demands that you should?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:31 PM
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For the record - you are just as capable of Googling as I am. If you have a point you would like to make, feel free to put forth the effort into making it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:23 PM
2

But condoms are the most cost-effective method of contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:22 PM
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Considering that it costs about $233k to raise a child from birth until they're 17 years old....yes. I am. I wanted to create a scenario where men are capable of growing something valuable enough to have someone want to force you into having it extracted from your body, and a diamond is a perfect example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:20 PM
2

According to Google, condoms cost $1.85 a pop
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:19 PM
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Yes, because men's say in whether or not the child is born is not more important than whether or not a woman is forced into unwanted pregnancy and childbirth. That's what this boils down to. Look, let's remove female/male dynamics from this argument for a second and look at this objectively. Let us pretend that men are capable of growing a diamond in their lower intestine. This diamond starts small, at the cellular level, but it eventually grows to be a whopping 9 pounds. This diamond causes sev…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:15 PM
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so it’s not something that will really be abused Okay, so on one hand you argue that women get pregnant with the intention of trapping men. Now you argue that no one aspires to be a single parent (I agree with this by the way). You do need to pick an argument here. I also think that you are viewing this exclusively from the perspective of women - what about the men who will recklessly sire a bunch of children because he knows he will not be held financially or emotionally accountable for these c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:54 PM
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https://bfi.uchicago.edu/wp-content/uploads/BFI_WP_201975.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:48 PM
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Yeah, that's what your traitorous politicians have been telling your platform for decades since Roe v Wade happened in the 60s and it's not going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:46 PM
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The overall drop in crime being connected to the rise in abortions has been linked and studied since the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:45 PM
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I actually disagree completely, especially if the lack of child support means that supporting this child become's society's problem when we have to subsidize these kids' need to eat, attend school, be clothed, and receive healthcare. What an individual man "saves" in child support is a bill the rest of tax-paying America will have to pick up on his behalf. In turn, we will *all* effectively pay child support. Are you interested in having to pay child support for another man's child?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:41 PM
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The political process has proven that the abortion status quo is unsustainable within it. The political process, especially a Republican one, has actually determined that banning abortions is ultimately unsustainable. The abortion debate has been the carrot dangled in front of conservative Americans for ages now, but the reality is that society benefits from abortion as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:37 PM
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Also, do the men in this sub not realize that male children grow up to be men as well? They're not fighting for men's rights or wellness with this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:35 PM
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And if he discovers that he has a child out in the wild and demands to exercise his parental rights, he can claim the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:33 PM
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We're significantly more fucked if we do it. The children you're talking abou throwing on the wayside to suffer as the consequence of a woman's behavior? They grow up into adults. And the male children in this context? They grow up into men. If your interest is in protecting and serving men, you are actually arguing for the complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:31 PM
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I have news for you. The male children you are interested in using as a pawn for women's punishment? They grow up into men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:29 PM
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I agree, also there's the fact that these children he's all for throwing to the wayside in poverty with a mother who is now in prison for being unable to financially support said child? They grow up into adults. They don't stay life support systems for a punishment forever. They eventually grow up. Adults who grew up in those conditions, statistically speaking, have much higher incidences of becoming criminals. They are terrible for our society at large. And if they don't turn into criminals, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:29 PM
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How is it misrepresenting anything? He started off making it seem like his concern was financial and that of our economy but very quickly contradicted himself and admitted to not really care about the financial burden or impact on society as much as he cares about punishing women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:25 PM
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Medically speaking, tubal ligations are a lot more risky, invasive and not as cost effective
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:22 PM
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I disagree. Couples routinely divorce years-long marriages/partnerships and still have issues with child support. It also does not change the fact that removing child support from able-bodied biological fathers would place an extremely serious and significant strain on not just tax-payers, but the economy as a whole. While I agree with financial abortions as a theory, it just doesn't work in the context of society. The inevitable price to pay becomes society's no matter which way you dice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:17 PM
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Lol she only "surrenders" the baby if the father decides that he also doesn't want custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:11 PM
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Why stop there, though? Why not enforce mandatory vasectomies until men decide that they want a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:11 PM
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Seriously, this man contradicted himself so badly in one fell swoop lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:10 PM
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So then you don't actually care about your tax dollars, you're just more interested in making women suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:09 PM
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They however should be allowed to financially abort outside of marriage. Everyone more or less agrees with this.....on paper. The unfortunate truth is that this will never pass because if we, as a society, have to choose between passing on the financial burden to taxpayers in lieu of forcing an able-bodied man to pay child support, Uncle Sam and every taxpayer in this country will inevitably pass the buck back on to the biological father.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:07 PM
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They're not fathers until that baby is born. If there was a way in which to extract a pregnancy from a woman's body in a non-invasive manner so that the father-to-be can implant said pregnancy into a surrogate, then sure, by all means! If there was a way to NON-INVASIVELY extract that pregnancy and grow the fetus outside of the woman's womb, go for it. But until that can happen, you cannot force women into unwanted pregnancies and childbirth. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:04 PM
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Kewl? WOW, I have not heard anyone actually say that in a very long time. Tell me you're a 35+-year-old man who never matured past middle school without telling me you're a 35+-year-old man who never matured past middle school
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:02 PM
1

And even then, I'm sure they still wouldn't choose you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:59 PM
2

Yes, TRP places a very big focus on men acquiring as man body counts as possible but I don't really think that's the damaging aspect of it. If TRP promoted sex-positivity for both men AND women, it wouldn't be as toxic to TRPers but we can't talk about their need to sleep with hundreds of women and not point out the double standard their philosophy enforces. One of the things that ultimately confuses me about red pill is the insistence on sexual double standards for men and women, and how they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:56 PM
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It makes complete sense and aligns with what I believe as well. While I completely embrace and encourage women to pursue whatever form of beauty standard they desire (don't want to wear makeup? don't! don't want to buy skincare? don't!), but I am NOT down with is them thinking this means that it's okay to criticize the women who partake in this or worse, pass value judgements on the women that do. You don't want to wear eyeshadow? Great! You don't have to. But don't insunuate that women who do a…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 10:24 PM
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I get that, but this sub is a predominantly American & European sub. Quite frankly, I don't care what the culture dictates in Asia, or whether or not it's religious. Many of those cultures & nationalities also share perspectives on women that are deemed sexist outside of who the men in these cultures choose to marry.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 10:01 PM
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Well, the way I view it - men's height is attractive to women in the same way that women's curves are attractive to men. Does it help? Yes. Will it make you more attractive by default? Yes. Is it the end-all, be-all of being sexually attractive? Absolutely not. Case in point - I'm fat. But unlike a lot of the fat women I know, I don't really have an issue with dating or getting hit on. I am naturally very curvy, to the point where I was called fat even though I was maybe 110lbs, back when being …
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 09:51 PM
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That men’s attractiveness is not solely defined by the height, which is something I see so many men on TRP obsess over.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 09:35 PM
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I find many females are becoming just like this as well. I think a lot of this has to do with the doublespeak going on regarding women and beauty. I am all for beauty - I love it so much, I actually work in the industry. I think its fun, it inspires self-expression and creativity, and I love working in a female-centric environment. Despite the boom of this industry, there is a major backlash on women who actually enjoy taking care of themselves. Like...MAJOR. The amount of people that pass major…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 09:24 PM
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Hey, I totally get it! I'm not going to sit here and pretend that there aren't shitty women on this planet who view love and sex as purely transactional. But here's the thing - if you're sitting on the side of the male fence that does view sex and love as purely transactional....who do you think that makes you most compatible with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:20 PM
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Please remember that you're talking to TRP men, despite their insistence here about being able to stick their hands in a river of pussy, they all latched onto that ideology because they had difficulty connecting with and talking to normal women in the first place. I am not surprised that someone who probably spent the better part of his teen years and young adulthood stewing in resentment over women turns around to talk about women in this manner once he finally got laid. It's his way of getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:17 PM
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This also contradicts a major part of TRP ideology that insists women don't understand true love because they are incapable of unconditional love. So which is it? Does TRP love women like a person loves a pet or a child, or do they genuinely love women more than women love men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:12 PM
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Maybe your dick is small enough that you're thinking its a clit but baby girl, I recommend you don't lie for the sake of "winning" an argument? I'm a very attractive man (based on the SVM of the women I both fuck and date) who has definitely slummed it with 5's. Why? Simple. I was single and she was easy. Sort of like a one time use masturbation sleeve with a heartbeat. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/le7k2n/how_have_intergender_dynamics_relationships/gmc5ye7/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:06 PM
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then tell it to your clit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:00 PM
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tell that to your dick
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:59 PM
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unless you're talking about extremely religious groups. wow it's almost like I opened up with that exception
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 08:58 PM
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Eh he was pretty boy hot when he was young. He just carried that same confidence and energy with him when drugs destroyed his looks. He successfully crossed over into ugly-hot after being pretty boy hot which not a lot of dudes do!
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 08:57 PM
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The ones that align with who you are right now and who you want to be moving forward. Don’t rely on others to determine your personal style. Part of what makes cool COOL is the expression of “I only care about what I think”.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 08:55 PM
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But that’s you - there are a lot of people that are actually into chubby people and whether or not those chubby people dress well makes a big difference in how attractive they are to the people who happen to be into it. Also, personal style has little to do with attracting others as much as it has to do with expressing your self esteem and confidence. If someone were to tell me to give up doing my hair, dressing well and getting my nails done because I’m fat and it’s pointless, I would probably …
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 08:53 PM
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But you only know of your experience and I’m sorry, but if being tall is your whole personality then you probably fall into the himbo category. Women DO date men under 6ft routinely and a lot of celebrities women go crazy for aren’t outrageously tall. Some are, but plenty arent. You’re clinging on to your height in a really weird way and change that dude, being tall is not a personality.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 08:50 PM
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There are plenty of men who are 6ft+ but are absolute slobs that get 0 play.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 08:48 PM
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I agree. I always talk about the ugly hot phenomenon that happens with men. Sexually attractive does not necessarily have to mean good looking. Lots of women go crazy for men who are technically unfortunate looking, they just happen to ooze style & swagger.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 08:47 PM
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Of COURSE, you did! You totally said something that made absolutely no sense because it was just one big "gotcha!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:52 AM
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I don't think either is better or worse. I think that men are often seen as "better" in specific activities and dominate entire scenes and industries because of this group-oriented support. Men who become successful in something, for example, don't typically do it alone. For example, I'm into street art and there's a major disadvantage in that scene being a woman because it's so male-driven. Men dominate that industry because they ARE the industry. Entire groups of friendship in that scene are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:47 AM
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Idk if it would be the equivalent of 6ft, but you're not going to get called short or shamed for being short. Not that I think 5'9 is short, but it seems like so many people online seem to think it is. If a guy is 5'9, he's at a height where I don't think about his height, does that make sense? Sort of like when you meet someone that's neither fat or skinny, their weight isn't something that you make an observation on. Like that. Eh, women have to worry about smell, taste & whether or not they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 02:13 AM
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Am I sexier than Adrienne Brody? No. Am I better looking? Objectively, yes. I don't think a woman with Adrienne Brody's face would do well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 02:09 AM
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He's ugly-hot. Meaning he's ugly, but he's hot. He's a sexy ass guy, he's just not good looking. He is proof that styling and confidence does wonders for a man's sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:34 AM
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Beloved, you weren't discussing anything. You barged into this conversation wholly gatekeeping what's sexy and what isn't in men, and all I'm saying is that if you are an expert in sexy men and what counts as sexiness, then maybe you need to explore that and find some peace! I sure as shit know that when I'm discussing what's sexy in women, its because I want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:58 AM
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You guys keep focusing on house-keeping when I make it perfectly clear that it goes beyond that. Housekeeping is a big part of the issue, but it's not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:56 AM
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Guys tend to be shorter over here because, for the most part, they're of Hispanic/Latino descent and we're just not very tall people. Average height for men here is like 5'5 where it's 5'9/5'10 in the rest of the country for starters. I do roll my eyes when I see guys on here complaining about their lack of play at 5'6 but then I remember that in other places in the United States, taller guys might be the norm and as a result, the beauty standard for height is a lot more enforced. Don't get me w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:55 AM
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No, I'm calling you gay so that maybe you can own up to your truth & quit hating women as a means of hiding your true colors. You sure sound like someone who likes men, there's nothing wrong with it but can we stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:44 AM
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Oh no beloved, I asked if you were gay and you never really denied it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:42 AM
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I most certainly never called you a faggot, all I'm saying is that you should probably explore your sexuality with men on account of your fixation with the sexy ones
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:41 AM
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IDK man, last time I went to Disney World, I saw a whole lot of Tasmanian Devils out there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:40 AM
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I'm sure there are women in this world in his age range that would hit it. I wouldn't know, I'm not in my 60s. There are tons of women in this world that happen to like bald guys, same as there are tons of men in this world that happen to long brunettes with long hair. Does it mean that every brunette with long hair is hot? No, it just means out of all the women in this world that are already attractive, he finds the ones with long, brown hair the hottest. I get that you feel this need to go in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:39 AM
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Yeah, but keep in mind that I'm also in Miami where the average guy here is considered short by American standards. I'm Latin and I am considered on the taller side of "average" despite being 5'3. I routinely see men on here whining about being considered short at 5'9 and I'm here like damn, I consider 5'9 a really nice height. I would say that average is cut off at around 5'6 and and anything under that would be short. The guy I'm seeing right now is 6'3, but the guy before him was 5'7. I've da…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:35 AM
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Hardly, but I'm asking because you are absolutely fixated on defining what's considered hot or not in men, as though you're the one fucking them. Like, as an individual that routinely sucks dick, I am literally sitting here telling you "Hey some women find bald men sexy" and you're bursting into this convo like the Kool-Aid Man with your hurt crying about NO, THEY JUST HAVE IRRESISTIBLY HOT BODIES AND BEAUTIFUL ANGELIC FACES
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:30 AM
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I just pointed out where you were wrong and fully explained the actual reasons why meloni, the Rock, and Statham are "hot AF". Are you gay, my guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:26 AM
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But that's not true, either. Plenty of women are into the q-ball look, and the fact that they're hot dudes who so happen to be bald is an added bonus. Lmao, there really isn't any winning with you guys. If someone says bald dudes are gross, you cry. If someone says bald dudes are hot, you cry. Cry cry cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:23 AM
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I also would like to note that all of these body shapes you described are still pretty heavy on the hip to waist ratio being important. Guys aren't out here actively pursing or prefering women that are shaped like a wisdom tooth with a Hank Hill booty, and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:16 AM
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But I disagree wholeheartedly, and I know this because I KNOW women who are not attracted to tall men and aim for guys who are of average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:15 AM
0

Why don't you suck dick if you're this obsessed with defining what makes men sexually attractive? All three of the dudes I mentioned are hot as fuck AND they're bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:13 AM
2

Based on your replies and confusion on here, I guarantee you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:06 AM
2

This is probably because you don't know what good sex is for women because you don't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:05 AM
2

No. Sex workers focus on the person they're having sex with, the pleasure of the other person is their number one priority. That is why they're getting paid. There is absolutely no guarantee that a casual fling or grindr hookup is going to care about their pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:02 AM
2

Lesbian women do not have unlimited access to sex with other women, Oh baby, you've never hung out with lesbians, now have you? They don't have love triangles. They have whole love/sex pentagrams.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:00 AM
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She's a young woman that's clearly buying into FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:59 PM
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Yep, basically. I have very few interests or activities in common with some of my closest female friends, but its the bonding glue to all of my relationships with my male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:50 PM
1

Good dick isn’t of low value, that’s the disconnect you’re making here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:44 PM
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Lol quality sex, no. No sex for women is preferable to bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:42 PM
3

It’s a part of having a gene that produces too much testosterone. Not sure that’s a bad thing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:41 PM
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Yeah, I have to agree with these as well. Beauty standards across the board are easier satisfied in women, but with that said, female sexuality is complicated in the sense that sexual attraction looks at more than just physical beauty standards. Ugly-hot is a thing amongst women who are describing the phenomenon of a man who is technically ugly but still hot due to non-physical traits we prize over physical attributes(see: Adam Driver, Adrienne Brody, Pete Davidson, Benedict Cumberwhatever). I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:40 PM
1

If you’re insinuating that I’m too good of a girlfriend to men who didn’t deserve it, I won’t disagree with that statement 😂 it’s not really a matter of gratitude as much as it’s holding them to pretty basic standards of adulthood and shared labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:18 PM
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I think men are amazing at building community through activities and shared interest. Women can too, but it’s just not as common for female-centric groups based on activity/hobby to form IRL in adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:01 PM
3

Also, for future reference, its greatest common denominator. If I am the denominator that is constantly present in all of my relationships, then I am the highest common factor. Lowest common denominator would be each boyfriend as an individual because he is not present in all of my relationships, just one. Don't meant to sound like a dick about it, but I figure you would appreciate the correction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:57 PM
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Oh yeah, for sure. I mean, like I've said countless times in this thread and others - I'm not actively seeking anyone. I date a good amount and I have a pretty healthy and happy outlook on my life as it stands. Sounds like you and your wife are absolutely killing it!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:50 PM
2

Feel free to take it up with the red piller somewhere in this thread that's going on about womaning up by producing output
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:49 PM
1

Weren't you JUST arguing the complete opposite point with me in another thread? Pick a struggle, man. You're unraveling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:43 PM
1

So you would like someone who can share unique experiences that you've already experienced with other women? I'm trying to understand your perspective, but all I'm getting is a very one-sided argument.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 10:36 PM
3

Why are you sounding like Gollum?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:31 PM
2

Eh, tbh I don't really care to find a relationship. It's not a priority for me. It would be great and I will entertain one if a wonderful man comes my way and he does demonstrate that he's an asset to my life as opposed to being a source of energy suckage. I have a good life that I'm happy with. At what point does "you need to vet better" also turns into "but I agree that I think men as a whole need improvement in those areas"?. Listen, I'm not alone in this. Cross on over to any of the female-s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:30 PM
1

You need to pick a struggle. Do you want women to fulfill traditional roles or do you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:14 PM
2

Im honestly still confused, what exactly is driving you to clutch your pearls at the suggestion that encouraging men to also take on domestic chores is a positive thing in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:10 PM
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I would argue that it’s currently happening, which red pillers then circle back to the whole “women these days are out of touch with traditional values”. Marriage as a whole is a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:07 PM
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What is so disgusting about expressing that often times, men in a relationship behave as though being expected to know how to operate a bucket and a mop is akin to asking them to perform neurosurgery? Most women will agree, they do this and the majority of the housework is on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:00 PM
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Yes, as a direct result of their validation in society as a whole being intrinsically tied to whether or not a man deemed them worthy of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:51 PM
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A combination of both. I’ve yet to meet a man who didn’t feel entitled to those things to some degree from his female significant other. Cause “society”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:49 PM
3

More like life partner skills. These aren’t “just” house-mate skills, and if they were in fact so menial, why is it so difficult for men? I’ll actually argue that a lot of women will have lower standards for a husband than they do a roommate just to stay married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:05 PM
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Lol gay men have notoriously terrible relationships success rates as a whole though. I’m currently on the road, but I will be responding to this more in depth and with sources. I recommend you cite yours!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:04 PM
5

But we aren’t talking about lesbians - we’re talking about marriages between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:53 PM
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Then please, prove it! I don’t mind reading up on things that may challenge my world view but as far as I know, there have been a lot of studies that prove marriage actually benefits men more than it does women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:37 PM
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But it isn’t weirdly specific. I wish it was! This is actually the main topic of discussion in most women-specific forums I’m in as well. A lot of women will put up with the absolute most just to say they’re not single same as a lot of guys will put up with the most just to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:15 PM
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I’ve dated an extremely wide variety of men. But, one thing I will note here is that I don’t date guys that treat me poorly. Whether or not a guy is nice to me is the absolute bottom of the barrel standard I uphold. They don’t abuse me. They don’t speak to me badly. They don’t hit me. But they’re just bad romantic partners who place an insane amount of weight on me to carry for us. Neither of them thought they were doing anything wrong and I wouldn’t call either of them bad guys, because they’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:12 PM
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They're so obsessed with whether or not men are outrageously good looking FOREVER that they might as well just go off and be gay with each other. It truly would not surprise me if a giant part of the TRP population struggles with internalized homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:55 PM
1

If someone is so willing to allow their bitterness at not landing a Ken doll to get so bad that it leads them to cheat and/or divorce, then they are not worth being in a relationship with in the first place. And trust me, you'll know you're not meeting their standard if they're this type of person. The novelty of being with somebody who is good looking fades, especially when they're a shitty partner. The emotional connection & sexual attraction to someone who is kind, attentive, and good to me i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:50 PM
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Why are men such poor romantic partners? I love men. I have so many awesome male friends in my life. My dad is around. Some of my most beneficial business partnerships are with men. I often paint with a big group of men and they are who I count on for support in my hobby. So, it's not like I have this thing against men as a whole. I don't. I have nothing but genuine love and appreciation for so many men in my life. I am perfectly aware of how absolutely terrible so many of these men are as roman…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:43 PM
4

You're still not telling me why you care though, only that you do. It's all well within your right, but you're not saying it for a reason. You probably know it's a shitty reason to express.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 07:26 PM
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Yes lol and you know, as a whole, this is why I don't answer when I'm asked what my "body count" is. No matter what I say, it's going to a problem and I have never come across a guy that asks this who didn't ask it with an ulterior motive. It's honestly a huge red flag for a guy to even ask this anymore. If you think my value or worth as a woman can be reduced to how many people I've slept with before you, I'll just do you the favor of breaking up with you on the spot because I really don't want…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 07:15 PM
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Women aren't really celebrated for being chaste unless you're talking about extremely religious groups. It's the kind of thing that a lot of men will fantasize about a woman until they're faced with a fumbling, awkward and inexperienced woman that requires patience and understanding. Women with little to no sexual history express a lot of insecurity due to being judged for not being a pornstar overnight by their partners in A LOT of the women's forums & internet spaces that I'm a part of.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 07:08 PM
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All you do is say that you care about that sort of thing and tell us that it's been this way for centuries (as though this is brand new information), but that's not what is being asked. You are being asked WHY you care.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 07:04 PM
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It's part of the general hypocrisy of TRP. "I'm Red Pill because women aren't sleeping with me enough" vs "Women these days ride the cock carousel until they hit the wall" Well Steve, do you want women to behave in a traditional, lady-like way? Then perhaps you need to embody more traditionally male roles and stop being this pussy-hunter that both expect to stick his hand in a river of pussy while simultaneously marrying a girl with little to no sexual experience. You know, I don't have an issue…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 07:02 PM
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Yep, you know exactly what I'm talking about. I've also experienced men who start to grow really angry when PUA/Redpill techniques don't work on me or I challenge them. I used to do it without even knowing what Redpill or PUA was, it was just my natural reaction to someone being mean or strange to me! One of the more common backhanded compliments I would get was "you're bigger than most girls I'm used to going out on dates with" which is promptly met with "that's cool, well you're shorter than m…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 05:44 PM
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I'm not going to blame women for men's decisions or what they prove to like lol I used to work at a hedge fund and some of the guys there were really into build-a-barbie bimbo types, and these were the types of guys that type of woman aimed for so it was a match made in shallow heaven. One day at a happy hour, we all grilled them and were like "but.....why?" and they revealed that they found the effort, pain, and finances that it took to make themselves as hot as they are attractive. It wasn't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:16 PM
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Eh, I wouldn't go as far as to say that women's obsessions with these plastic bodies shouldn't be blamed on men when there is definitely a market (especially in the sex industry) for those types of figures. With that said, the type of woman who is looking into making that level of financial investment into her own figure is looking for a particular type of man who happens to LIKE cosmetic enhancements, but can also afford to Frankenstein his girlfriend/wife. As for fat asses being a thing, I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:06 PM
1

Oh boy, if this is your idea of a good time, I highly recommend you close your laptop, go outside and touch some grass
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 04:41 PM
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Oh, got it! Well, in all fairness, lots of men are into the string bean type of figure! As a whole, people become really obsessed with classifying beauty as universal, for both male AND female standards, and have a hard time understanding why anybody would be into a body type they personally don't find attractive. Lots of people find string beans attractive, and there is beauty in their figures. Lots of people happen to like women with such exaggerated cosmetic enhancements on their ass & thighs…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:31 PM
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Its not my fault the majority of men on Tinder are hoes. And hey - take this argument up with the majority of the men in this post that agree if you’re so mad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:14 PM
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Lmao are you really trying to insinuate that zendaya is ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:52 PM
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Well, here’s a good job for trying to flip this on me and my choices, but this one is a universal experience for most women on tinder. Nice try though!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:42 PM
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I'm ignoring it now You're pretty shit at ignoring lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:23 AM
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If you're still looking for echo chambers, maybe you're not ready to let go Red Pill.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/21 01:19 AM
1

You're on here enough to have flair, and you're commenting about women not going on dates on Tinder, and that's the thing - your experience is not universal. There are lots of guys that go on plenty of Tinder dates, you just happen to not be one of them. Women do go on dates, just not with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:17 AM
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And yet, here you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:13 AM
1

They have no intention of dating anyone. Correction: they probably pick up on your skeeze and decide that they're not interested in dating you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:04 AM
1

Because we'd like to meet people? I mean, how out of touch are you with women that you can't fathom why women are on Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:03 AM
1

Totally get it from all sides of the coin! And you know, your side isn't one that's typically talked about, or even encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 11:55 PM
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Well, I think there are better ways to express your incompatibility with people who are into casual sex than "gross" if you want to avoid being attacked for it. You won't get any respect if you come out the gate attacking people for addressing things differently. I engage in casual sex, but I don't think I'm gross and ultimately, I only care about what I think. You can always say: "People who engage in casual sex demonstrate a major incompatibility with me. It is a dealbreaker because I am sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:58 PM
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I could go on Tinder right now and write "DTF?" to every guy I match with and I will go as far as to suggest that a solid 95% of them will ask for my address and be on their way in less than 5 minutes. It's not that I think most men will put their dick inside anything, it's that I know most men will. Congratulations on not being one of those guys. No, seriously. It's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:52 PM
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Perhaps this is the inherent difference between Redpill and FDS (I find both abhorrent and abusive practices, but I do consider Redpill to be fundamentally more damaging and dangerous) - but Redpillers can be extraordinarily threatening your physical well-being as a woman. Also, FDS exists as a direct response to Redpill - without the popularization of Redpill there would be no FDS community. I became interested in reading about Redpill after going on so many dates with guys off Okcupid and hitt…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 10:02 PM
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I don't think they prey on mental illness, specifically, so much as they prey on the insecurity & low feelings of self-worth often found in people suffering from mental illness. What's interesting is that the philosophy targets both Redpillers and their victims - redpillers insist that women are grown children who are mentally/emotionally unstable when their techniques are only attractive to mentally/emotionally unstable women.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 08:30 PM
2

Can you please stop behaving like a nuclear bomb of horrible negative energy?
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 07:46 PM
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It just makes no sense. "WHY WON'T WOMEN FUCK ME" followed by "I WON'T MARRY SOMEONE WITH A BODYCOUNT BIGGER THAN 5"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:38 PM
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Also the best way for a man to upset a woman without getting arrested is to sexually harass her. And the best way a woman can upset a man is to send his messages of sexual harassment to his friends, places of work and family. Get a hobby, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:36 PM
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Definitely not for a 2 minute pump and dump, that's for sure. Please don't think that women get anything out casual sex with just anyone. Our sexuality is not like yours. To you, any sex is better than no sex because you are practically guaranteed an orgasm at the end of it. For us, no sex is better than bad sex because casual flings and dudes on Tinder aren't interested in giving you an orgasm because they're not there for your pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:34 PM
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I agree. I see this online and IRL where a lot of my male friends will complain about 80% of women going after 20% of men. What they really men is that 80% of women they consider sexually desirable aim for 20% of men (who, lo and behold, are people women consider sexually desirable!). I think that men forget they invalidated the existence of women they don't consider sexually desirable, probably because they automatically feel entitled to women they consider sexy. I also think that men don't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:32 PM
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Well, how many times are you going to be called unstable in the same thread by people who have nothing to do with each other before you realize that yeah, maybe you need to close your laptop, get some air and work on getting an appointment with a therapist?
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 07:08 PM
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Actually....yeah. They kind of are. While being able to talk to your friends is something everyone should have, you really shouldn't be dumping the very serious shit onto them (or a significant other for that reason). OP went on to talk about panic attacks and some other pretty serious things, and that's not friend-talk territory. Your friends may not be equipped to handle a conversation of that magnitude, and that's okay. They're not mental health professionals. If you have a friend that you ca…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 07:03 PM
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Thank you! I appreciate you backing off, your behavior is totally unnecessary.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 06:53 PM
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Literally, all everyone is saying is that they are an option to consider. Don't perpetuate the stigma of seeking the help of mental health professionals. This is what they are here for - to help.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 06:49 PM
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Okay, the issues that *you* are taking out of *this* dynamic are 100% your problem and I'm going to circle back to my original comment telling you that perhaps YOU need a doctor too. I personally had a good and positive discussion with OP. I also don't think he would appreciate you speaking on his behalf. You can speak on how YOU feel, but you know, it's not polite to thread-jack so I would recommend you make a post of your own and get it off your chest if you think that will help but I promise …
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 06:47 PM
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You didn’t disrespect it at all and I think these types of conversations are great to have
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 06:38 PM
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Literally nobody said this.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 06:37 PM
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I think you’re projecting your own issues and stigmas on mental health treatment onto a post were people are delivering truly helpful advice. I don’t think you aim to be malicious, but I don’t think you’re aware of how poorly you are coming across or how your level of negativity is the type of energy depression feeds off. Don’t have the audacity to criticize the help people are suggesting like it’s not good enough while providing 0 solutions of your own.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 06:36 PM
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I think you’d benefit from going to a doctor too, tbh
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 06:32 PM
2

This is more like telling someone “go to the doctor” in the face of a broken arm.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 06:23 PM
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Even a broken clock is right twice a day
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 03:33 AM
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I understand, and I sympathize. My male friends have cried in front of me and I don't judge them for it at all. I get it, I understand. I will say though that crying in front of people is a sensitive thing for women as well, but I do agree in that it is simply more tolerated or even expected of women. About a year ago I had a panicked crisis and someone I thought I could trust tried to defame my character among all of our friends by lying about my mental state. I am....so so so sorry that you we…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 01:23 AM
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I'm unsure as to why you were downvoted. I agree with this wholeheartedly - if you are having trouble connecting with people you can trust enough to talk about your emotional issues, there is no shame is seeking out a therapist. The therapist can not only help you with your issues, but also lead you towards making the right kind of friends who you can count on as well.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 01:06 AM
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I...wholeheartedly disagree. As a woman with a lot of male friends, I end up acting as the soundboard for a lot of men when they're going through emotional issues and I'm always very happy to do it. Releasing emotions is a part of dealing with internal issues. You can't bottle everything up inside and expect things to work out for you in the long term. It doesn't work that way. Not everything in this life is transactional and it's a little concerning that you view having emotional support as som…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 01:01 AM
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Once again, I wasn't even talking about them at this point yet you made it about them. Please understand that nobody is talking about your stepdaughters here and who they find fuckable more than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:57 PM
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Oh, I agree completely, which is why I make it a point to remind people that what all of us find sexually attractive in our ideals (our celebrity crushes, for example) is very different from what we find sexually attractive in our day to day lives. How people appear in print publications is also very different from how they appear in real life. I always tell people that Adriana Lima wishes she looked like the Adriana Lima that you see in Victoria's Secret Catalogs. It doesn't make the real-life …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:55 PM
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It just means that your communication style is percieved as "masculine" due to being direct and to the point. My username is r/rainbowbarfff for fuck's sake and I am constantly confused for a man on discussions outside of female/male dynamics for the same reason. A little pro-tip: Saying that you have a "masculine" communication style is a compliment in male-driven industries. I understand why you take offense to it, it implies that having a "feminine" communication style is bad. But, be careful…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:44 PM
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I think that you are and under the assumption that girls are into extremes of perfect ideals. Ryan Gosling is still a lot more good looking than most average men in that one picture you showed me attempting to paint him out as ugly or something. I'm sure the girls that think you are a good looking guy do so because I don't doubt that you are an inherently good looking person naturally. Most good looking people are good looking as a result of things they can't control, but being good looking is o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:28 PM
1

Well, your wife IS married to a red pill man who is still seemingly obsessed with where he stands with single and sexually available women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:24 PM
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Yeah, this is usually why I'm against gender reveal parties. While I think the idea is sort of cute or endearing at face value, the reality is that the majority of the time, they're a "IS IT A BOY????" party. The difference in how the entire family reacts when its a boy vs a girl is something that just makes me feel horrible each and every time. Like damn, your daughter is already facing sexism within this family and she's not even BORN.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:22 PM
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While I think this entire study and the conclusion they came to based on a whopping 1% different this: ​ Surveys confirm that teenage daughters and fathers, in particular, get on each other’s nerves. They also show that parents of teenage daughters argue more about parenting than do the parents of sons Is undeniable. I don't think that daughters are inherently more stressful to raise or damaging to the family unit. After all, they are overwhelmingly responsible for the eldercare of their parents…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:19 PM
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You could've used a million different examples of how women sexualize men, yet you went with how your stepdaughters do it. If you don't think it's an issue, mind telling your wife you said this about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:08 PM
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And? It doesn't mean he's suddenly unattractive. Its the same for female actresses. I could pull up a million images of Angelina Jolie looking like the Crypt Creeper outside of her movies but it won't take away from the fact that even at her worst, she is still significantly more sexually attractive than the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:06 PM
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I think that perhaps your idea of what is sexually attractive in men is based on your own ideas of what you consider sexually desirable in them and I would recommend you explore that for the sake of your own happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:04 PM
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Yeah, I don't know what you're talking about. Ryan Gosling looks good there too lol. If I were at the beach and saw that splashing around in the ocean, I'd look.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:57 PM
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I'm not the one who knows you well enough to accuse you of sexualizing your stepdaughters, you did that all on your own
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:50 PM
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Yeah, and the photo to the left was from what now, again? A modeling shoot. He's still a very good looking man to the left, he just happened to have crooked teeth. An easy enough fix lol. There's a major difference between celebrity hot vs real-life hot and both of them were good looking enough on a normal day to day level to even be considered for fame in the first place. Like, Zac Efron is so hot that he doesn't even have to be talented because he sure as shit isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:47 PM
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Let us start with I hope your wife discovers how you're looking at her daughters, particularly one of them, and leaves you over it. How old are these girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:33 PM
1

Zac Efron and Tom Cruise are both very good looking men that would be considered very good looking men regardless of their fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:32 PM
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Tom Cruise was considered a complete babe in the 90s are you kidding me? He was the OG Vampire heart throb. The biggest reason why his "stock" went down was due to his involvement in Scientology, but prior to that, he was considered a very attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:31 PM
0

I am over the whole "80% of women go after 20% of men" bullshit. No, 80% of women MOST men aim for because they're ridiculously pretty, well put together, and mentally stable aim for 20% of all men. Hot looks for hot. That's it. If you want a smoke show of a girl with a lot to offer in terms of intelligence and income potential, you need to make sure that you're the type of guy a girl like that is going to want. 20% of men realized that dressing well and having a developed sense of personal styl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:13 PM
1

Yep, a lot of pain/pleasure stimulus is just plain science. All pain comes from the central nervous system, as does pleasure. All pain also released endorphins in an attempt to block pain but when it’s mixed with sexual arousal, it increases feelings of sexual pleasure. That’s why you get the “high” feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:31 AM
1

Well, I’m glad at least one of us is having fun but I have the impression you get that a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:17 AM
1

Because Im in stitches at the fact that a guy is all butthurt at a domme that’s mean to men in a conversation about sado-masochism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:03 AM
2

Well, you are coming up with the storyline in this fantasy all on your own, I’m just here for the ride
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:02 AM
1

You might want to explore that fantasy if it gets you off. Would you be the person doing the beating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 04:55 AM
1

My mind is pretty clear after I bust a nut so I’ll make tonight’s orgasm in your honor
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 04:52 AM
1

Actually, a lot of people release endorphins after experiencing pain. This is why people like spicy foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 04:51 AM
0

You can alway mind your own pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 04:50 AM
1

I get choked and slapped and I do the choking and the slapping. If that's enough for you to clutch your pearls then you might not be ready for the rest of it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 04:43 AM
1

Also: You can always date women. They get beat too. I just enjoy doing it more to men :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 04:42 AM
1

I'm going to ask you two very real questions. 1) Why are you under the impression that your validation is important to me? and 2) Do you know what BDSM is short for?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 04:40 AM
1

He's a self-proclaimed Red Pill man who flips his shit at the implication that his girlfriend is subservient (which is the core of their belief system is not?), careful, he'll have a meltdown at you agreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 04:24 AM
2

Imo women and men are like a pair of mismatching black and white striped socks. We are the same as we both consist of lots of layers of black and white. And we are different, as every individual layer is mismatching. I love this! Very good observation. Submissive people actually deliver the most control in a BDSM setting. You set the limits, you set the tone, you set the speed. I can definitely see how a shy person benefits from this! It is an exercise in control and respect for their voice and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 03:33 AM
1

Yes, and that doesn't take away from the fact that thousands of videos have been taken down from the site as of late due to uploads of child and revenge porn. Listen, I am pro-porn. I want ethical porn consumption to be a thing. I want porn actors to have safe working environments that care about them as people. But we are not there yet and it's really weird that you're not even addressing this but you keep deflecting and trying to change the goal post of the convo. BDSM porn and BDSM studios ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 03:25 AM
0

Oh, I don't hate men. Not at all actually. I think they make amazing friends, I think they make amazing business partners, I think they're awesome colleagues to have. I love that friendship with men is largely activity-based, and I get to exercise a ton of my hobbies through strong networks made up of mostly men. I just don't really like men as romantic partners. I love to fuck them though 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:18 AM
2

Actually, you know, now that you speak on that this is a conversation I've had with a lot of my friends who are tattoo artists. I personally don't have tattoos, I'm not really into them. The idea doesn't really excite me and while I am an artist and SHOULD be excited at the idea of having artwork on my skin, I can't get behind the hours of pain behind it. Simply put, I dont think I am capable of trusting somebody else with my pain for that long. I have, however, tattooed people in the past and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:15 AM
2

That's an interesting take! I think that as a whole, men are more proactive whereas women are generally reactive, which is typically why most men tend to lean dominant in bed even if they're not into BDSM. The funny thing is, dominant people end up having to put in a lot of work to maintain their status in their social groups and something very similar happens to people who express that dominance sexually - even though you are the one in control and you get to take out a lot of your aggression o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:10 AM
1

I don't agree with your opinion, but it's okay for you to have it. It's not like I'll be pegging you any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 02:04 AM
1

I won't give you what you want :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 01:55 AM
1

Most doms & dommes have an element of anger to their reasons to enjoying what they do and anyone in BDSM would very well benefit from therapy. You have to enjoy delivering pain & humiliation for it to work & to feel good about doing it but the ultimate power comes from being in control of your subs pleasure. While delivering pain and humiliation feels great, being in control of their pleasure is the real treat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:52 AM
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I didn’t put her down, I inferred that her experience was not universal, which is what your post pointed towards. I don’t think any which way about your girlfriend. Do you feel better now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:44 AM
2

I think that whenever somebody gets this emotional about discussing porn, it’s indicative of their dependence on it or issues with it. R/fuurakafu isn’t saying anything outrageous - yes, there’s a huge amount if coersion and major mistreatment of women in porn. Pornhub specifically has gotten into major issues recently due to this. It’s a main reason why so many women are also getting into porn direction these days and why female-friendly studios are on the rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:36 AM
1

I’ll get offended about whatever I please, you might dominate your girlfriend but I’m not her. I approached the comment with enough respect to open it to dialogue and you’re out here getting your panties in a twist over it. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:30 AM
1

As a woman, not on the behalf of women which is what your writing made it sound like she did. Don’t get mad at me for my feelings, perhaps communicate what she means in a better way. And maybe learn a better insult that Karen, that’s not how it even applies here 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:16 AM
2

I think most doms and dommes have an element of anger behind their reasons for being dominant, but the ultimate doesn't come from actually hurting someone, it comes from having the power to measure the pleasure they get out of that pain. For example, I love it when a dom fucks me like he's mad but at the end of it all, it has to be centered around my getting off sexually if I'm subbing. When I'm domming, my partner's sexual pleasure is a priority. As someone who also subs, I am 100% aware of red…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:15 PM
2

I have to agree. While I'm into this stuff, I've come across guys that just assume choking and slapping are normal enough to do it automatically without, you know, looking to into whether or not I CONSENT to being choked and hit?! What's worse is that I actually like that stuf, but in the event that a guy just blind-sides me with that shit I will put an end to the sex and the relationship completely. No questions asked, no second chances. You are either so completely warped from porn that you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:11 PM
1

That being said, I view BDSM as a whole as misogynistic and abusive. Probably because there's been a major issue with BDSM going mainstream-ish and a lot of guys think being a "dom" gives them an excuse to be a complete asshole for the whopping 10 minutes they get to fuck a woman. I have certainly come across my share of "doms" who think being a dom means being physically abusive and providing 0 sexual pleasure, which of course is the worst way to go around it. Real doms provide pleasure, and as…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:06 PM
1

Your girlfriend equates femininity to subservience, which is her personal view and hardly a universal one. As a woman, I actually find that implication highly offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 10:55 PM
4

I'm a switch. I am a domme because I have a lot of anger towards men and I enjoy giving them pain and making them hurt. I take pleasure in making them beg and denying them things like an orgasm. I get a sexual rise out of being completely in control of their sexual experience. I experience a lot of issues with men who seek to dominate me in real life, and it's a real pleasure to dominate them instead, so when I get to do it sexually, it is completely blissful. I enjoy expressing complete control…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 10:51 PM
2

It implies that women are the gatekeepers of sex, which I'm pretty sure is universal. While consent needs to be given by both men and women, it is generally understood that most men will have sex with just about anyone if given the opportunity, meaning that women hold most of the power behind whether or not sex happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 10:45 PM
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Completely. I often tell men in real life AND online that what many of them need isn't a girlfriend as much as it's needing to having FRIENDS, period. A lot of men will also dump all of their emotional dependence on a girlfriend, which isn't okay. You should not rely on a significant other to be completely responsible for your emotional well-being. Not only does it afford a single individual too much power over you and your emotions, but it causes resentment. With that being said, I don't think …
/r/ExRedPill05/02/21 10:40 PM
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The women who would otherwise pursue them are too busy avoiding the bitterness and over thirty hate And trust me, this part is hard. I've had it happen to me and it's happened to plenty of my female friends where we're actively dating a man between the ages of 30-35 and it seems to be leading somewhere positive. We meet the friends. We meet the parents. We're invited over for the holidays. They're making future plans and we think "I think this is going somewhere nice!" ....and then he dumps us b…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/21 02:47 AM
5

Well, of course, they hate voluntarily single women. Voluntarily single women decided that a life with pets, nieces & nephews, and friends was preferable to having a partnership with them lol. I can't say I'm completely voluntarily single, but I'm certainly CONTENT & single. I am open to meeting someone on the condition that they make me happy and actually like, improve it. I don't understand having a relationship for the sake of one and I find codependence deplorable. For the most part, I have …
/r/ExRedPill03/02/21 02:42 AM
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They use "females" to replace the word they really want to use: bitches.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/21 01:42 AM
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Yes, and WHO is profiting off this division? WHO is in power? I mean, we can't exactly have these kinds of conversations without pointing out the fact that the person that likes to think they're smarter than everyone with their "He who sells the panic, sells the pill" bullshit rhetoric is the same person who gets to benefit off the labor of others unlike him when he holds the cards and is also the same person who benefits the most when he IS the cards. So what exactly is your husband's solution?…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 08:39 PM
3

Red Pill is just Machismo culture made palatable for Americans that speak English.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/21 07:12 PM
2

I would honestly consider it a huge fucking red flag if a guy's dog dies and he doesn't cry. I would think he's a sociopath or something.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 11:41 PM
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This is starting to sound oddly specific and coming from a place of hurt, so here goes: Basic self-care isn't necessarily pampering, and if you find yourself in a place where you're skipping showers, wearing the same clothes for days on end, and generally being someone you don't recognize, please seek medical help. With that said, whether or not strangers, do things for male validation is a completely personal thing, and it does not determine your worth. If you are feeling some type of way as a …
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 12:42 AM
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I mean, yes. A lot of grooming may not necessarily exist in a vacuum, but we are living in times where people don't really have access to sex or people of the opposite sex due to do covid restrictions. I still do my nails. I still blowdry/straighten my hair. I am still into my beauty subscription boxes and my skincare hasn't missed a beat. I love doing a full face when I hope on Zoom calls with clients & friends. I am going to the gym and eating well because I want to lose weight even though I'm…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 12:31 AM
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I think that men are under the impression women do things exclusively for male attention because of their own willingness to bend over backward for male attention.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 12:26 AM
2

I'm downvoting it because you've yet to pick a struggle - are younger women better in bed for men sexually or not? You can't seem to pick a solid argument here. As for asking the 35-year-old man if I was better in bed when I was 25 years old than a 35-year-old woman, to begin with, I'm not into making my positive sexual experiences into shitty ones for absolutely no reason other than to satisfy a future argument with someone who has a hard time wrapping his mind around the fact that both sexes t…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 10:55 PM
1

I think that you're not actively having sex with both men in their late 20's/early 30's and comparing them to men in their 40's/50's......and it shows. I was 25 and banging 25-35 year old guys at one point, and the difference was present then as well. I feel like you're under some assumption women in their 20s are these inexperienced flowers or something. I am not sure why this is a news flash that seems to really upset people. Men too face a big decline in sexual prowess and ability once they'r…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 09:46 PM
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I mean, the same can be said about a fit 40-year-old woman. And uh, no? I was 23 years old and revolted at the idea of sleeping or being with a 40-year-old man. Many women in those age groups are busy having fun and dating around, I'm really not sure what this whole ~*ReAl WoRld WoMeN nEed A mAn nOt A bOy*~ BS you're spewing. As for that bit on sexual experience... I'll be real with you on this - I've slept with lots of 40-year-olds. I've slept with lots of 30-year-olds. I've slept with lots of …
/r/ExRedPill20/01/21 04:30 AM
7

For some people, sure. But for most people, no.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 11:08 PM
3

Yeah. Reality lmao. The issue with evolutionary psychology is that maybe it was applicable when our cave communities was 30 people strong. We are no longer cavemen/cavewomen and our communities are massive.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 03:07 PM
1

Are you brand new to earth or something? My guy, the very thing that makes BOTH of these circles dangerous is people's personal takes on it. None of it would exist *without* people's personal takes on anything. The fact remains that redpill, its mods and many of its followers encourage and supported horrific acts of violence against women. Seriously, this is starting to read a lot that OkCupid research where they learned that men's biggest fear about online dating is having a woman show up fat, …
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 12:45 AM
1

u/MarbleWorld: "Again, minimizing the absolute horror the manosphere has been, in which they have advocated and executed rapes, terrorist attacks, and murders" ​ u/p0ocorn3r: YEAH WELL THEY DONT LET TRANS WOMEN INTO THEIR ONLINE FORUM & THEY MAKE MEN PAY FOR DATES
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 12:38 AM
2

I agree. While I think FDS is trash, FDS isn't out here encouraging the rape of men or justifying it through bullshit evolutionary psychology. FDS doesn't have women shooting up whole fraternities of men, posting a manifesto before doing it on YouTube, and then going on to be celebrated by the sub for murdering innocent people. Or, plowing through a crowd of women with a van. There have been SO MANY example of redpill driving men towards extreme violence towards women and this dude wants to equa…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 12:35 AM
1

FDS exists as a response to redpill and last I checked, they weren't out here encouraging sexual slavery of men, celebrating the murder of men when one of them goes batshit and shoots up a fraternity, or encouraging things like rape and sexual assault (or even justifying it by claiming that "alpha" men used to rape otherwise unwanted women so deep down, women want to be raped). So no, to say that they are the same is a false equivalency and an extremely poor comparison. FDS women pair with Red P…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 12:29 AM
3

No. The only two people in this world who owe you undoconditional love are your children and your parents. That's it. Romantic love is very much conditional. It's conditional on whether or not you're sexually attracted to them, whether or not you share compatible interests and values. The success of a relationship is also conditional. It is conditional on how you handle finances, on what your lifestyles are like and how you resolve conflict. Whether or not someone stays in love with you is compl…
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 03:09 AM
5

IDK. I think it's easier to believe people like this are trolls than to admit they're real. Honestly, the dude sounds mentally ill. Everything more or less makes sense, there's just an obviously shitty language barrier. I don't think his person is 19 (who says dank memes non-ironically? lol) and I most certainly don't believe they're African or black, but I do think they're just a shitty human being.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 02:23 AM
4

Honestly? You need psychiatric help and for the sake of your well-being, I hope that one day, you get it.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 01:17 AM
4

You're dumb, because you're stupid. I mean, I don't actually believe you are a North African black man based on your super fucking racist memes, but I digress. Yes, you're dumb. I'm glad you've acknowledged it. We've come to the root of your support for Trump.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 01:00 AM
5

LMAO sure, a North African man that's on Reddit actively taking extreme anti-immigrant stances and posting racist jokes? You're either really dumb. or a liar, and I'm not sure what's wosre! I mean, we all know you're a pathetic misogynist, but adding self-hating racist or lying white supremacist to the list is just....yikes. BIG YIKES.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 12:44 AM
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Of COURSE, a guy who writes an unpopular opinion An Adult chatting in a deviant way sexually with a minor 15-17 yrs Should not be considered abuse , harassment or pedophilia doesn't think there's anything inherently wrong with a president who not only went on to say "grab 'em by the pussy" BUT who also bragged about strolling into Miss USA/Miss Teen USA dressing rooms to "inspect" beautiful women. Not to mention some of your more questionable posts on seeking to hurt women and your obvious previ…
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 12:16 AM
9

Loooooool sure, says the guy with anti-immigration posts & talks about talking sexually to minors on his account.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/20 11:52 PM
9

While I agree, I also think he cares about white supremacy. It's probably the only social issue he's passionate about.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/20 11:19 PM
11

When you say Trumpis more Pro-USA and for his country, do you mean he cares more about what *you* percieve as American? As in white, Anglo Saxon, monolingual Americans?
/r/ExRedPill30/11/20 11:18 PM
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What I find hilarious about this is that I actually find Trump to be a caricature of what hypermasculinity aims to be, but falls ridiculously short. From being obese, to having small hands, to be unattractive, to being bald and overcompensating with that ridiculous haircut, to being poorly dressed, to having a wife that clearly doesn't love him but is with him exclusively for the lifestyle he provides - everything about him is just that - an overcompensation for falling short. Obama, on the othe…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/20 11:11 PM
2

You literally did
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 04:23 PM
15

Just because a woman has low self esteem or suffers from mental illness doesn’t mean she deserves to be treated like shit or be emotionally/mentally abused.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 01:36 PM
16

They complain about women bringing nothing to the table, until they find one that does and it threatens his masculinity/reduces her femininity because her focus on career takes away from her focus/ability to do what she was born to do - be a mother and supporting wife.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 01:33 PM
3

Redpillers often have a very narrow window on the world The one thing I notice the most about redpillers is this, specifically. They let it be known that they don't get out much by how SMALL they seem to perceive the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:32 AM
3

And with this, you're learning a big lesson - Once you break up with someone, what they do with their life and their genitals is none of your business. Might I ask *how* you're coming to learn about all of these hookups and sex if you're not like, digitally stalking her or something? I have literally no idea what happens with my exes and their sex life once I break up with them because I cut them off and go no contact.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/20 03:23 AM
2

I think that there are many people who jump from sexual partner to sexual partner who are very happy because they don't prioritize relationships. Both men and women can be very happy doing this. I know a lot more people who jump from relationship to relationship and are miserable inside.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/20 03:18 AM
2

Of course. You have to be someone a woman will want to be with. One of the guys I’m friends with has scoliosis/a humpback, fake teeth, glasses and is overweight. You’d think he’s an incel right? Dead wrong. He exudes big dick energy. He’s talented, HILARIOUS, charming, has tons of friends. The type of women he dates are also beautiful, fun women and trust me, they adore him. He’s ugly as fuck and he knows it too but it hasn’t stopped him lol
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 06:51 PM
1

Its cultural. I'm Latina in our culture, it's very common to live with your parents up until you get married. Its not uncommon whatsoever to come across guys in their mid to late 20s who still live with their parents. It's not as attractive once the man is in his 30s, but even then, the families of these guys are most likely to allow the male in the family to bring home women to have sex with them. The same rule does not apply to the girls of the family, of course.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 05:56 PM
2

I agree, but good luck telling them this. I know so many ugly guys that have sex. So. Many. Shit, I've had sex with plenty of guys who weren't attractive (as well as with men who are!). The entire WORLD is out here having sex despite not being tall, fit, muscular or good-looking. What I find most interesting about incel culture is how revealing it really is about the individual. It's based on arguments that insinuate the world is small. They have a very limited view of the world and who lives in…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 05:53 PM
6

I'm going to reiterate what I told someone else here: So many of the comments here insisting that women can just have sex with anyone if they truly want to tells me ALL I need to know about the incel's understanding of female sexuality, or even your own skills in the bedroom. It's not a matter of how easy it is to have sex with women. Is sex in and of itself "easy" to get? Sure, I suppose it is. I don't think I've ever really had an issue getting sex. Now, is most sex a pleasurable experience fo…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 05:47 PM
3

LOL just because a guy is good looking doesn't mean he's good at sex! This is why the whole "big dick energy" saying was developed in the first point. I've been with some BABES but I've also been with some highly questionable men who were amazing at sex, and these guys don't really go without. If you think that only tall, good looking and muscular men are the ones who are out here having sex, you are dead wrong. They're not. But, if you have a specific type of woman in mind and that is the type …
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 05:42 PM
4

I bet the vast majority of women can have sex whenever they want to and so the vast majority of women who are sexless in that graph can have sex if they wanted and this right here tells me what you think of female sexuality, or even your own skills in the bedroom. It's not a matter of how easy it is to have sex. For men, you stick your dick in a hole an thrust until you cum. The end of sex is always a pleasurable one. You cannot fathom sex being anything but pleasurable because you have a natura…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 05:25 PM
3

He beat the shit out of his steering wheel, crying, foaming at the mouth in anger because.... My car had the audacity to break down on the side of the road and I called him for help so that I wouldn't have to ride with the tow truck guy. That was it. That was the straw that broke the camel's back. His disproportionate anger & emotional outburtst finally hit the level that I always feared they would, which is was him getting physically violent. I was so scared of him on that car ride as he beat t…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 05:47 PM
5

Yep, and then they get really upset at women who actively choose to date softer boys and make it seem like there's this worldwide conspiracy to ruin masculinity lol. Nah bro, we just demand that you stop punching walls and destroying rooms when you get emotional. I had an ex that embodied all of this before I knew about red pill or any of that but he was an active Redditor and I wasn't on here at that time but looking back, he was definitely red pill and it definitely kept backfiring on me. He w…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 03:45 PM
11

thats not the point - they'll look down on anything that isn't STEM (aka highly educated) all the while working jobs that require 0 education, but instead are considered "manly". Personally, I don't care if someone works a blue-collar job. How you make your money and handle your bills is none of my business, but especially if you're not shitting on how I make mine!
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 04:56 AM
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he believes that women have done nothing to contribute to humanity or the sciences and gets extremely defensive or aggressive when you try to tell him otherwise or will constantly change the goal post when you start to talk about current achievements made by women in STEM. is under the impression that you have a secret desire to be a homemaker/stay at home mom despite your career ambitions because he believes that this is all women are good for, and thus, this is all we aspire to do with ourselv…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 03:00 AM
8

that's how RPs describe women because that's the only type of person their tactics attract
/r/ExRedPill06/11/20 12:53 AM
6

And yet, the majority of the world is filled with men who are neither tall, best looking, or fit and they have no issues dating.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/20 12:52 AM
-1

Tbh.....I don’t think there’s an issue with MGTOW inherently. I think more people should be encouraged to not make finding a relationship the crux of their validation. I know plenty of cat women and dog men who have no desire to find a romantic partner but are extremely happy people.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 03:59 PM
35

"Dopped plate" LOL BRUH that would require you actually held the plate in the first place 😂
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 03:45 PM
1

Creepy men are creeps. I have a lot of male friends that I disagree with plenty of times. But the key is they're not creeps about it. Toodles 😘
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 12:13 AM
1

Hey if you want to side with a creep, that's none of my business
/r/ExRedPill02/11/20 10:29 PM
18

Why aren't vasectomies ever discussed? If you are a man who does NOT want a baby, invest in a vasectomy. They cost anywhere between $300 and $3000 depending on where you live, but a friend of mine got his for $850. A lifetime of birth control at $30 a month comes out to be a lot more expensive in the long run. If you are a man who is truly serious about his desire to be child-free, why are vasectomies just not considered???
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 06:13 PM
17

While I agree with financial abortions in theory, they'll never pass. Why? Because whatever money the father is not paying, Uncle Sam will have to fork over. And if my taxes are raised due to people not being held legally responsible for the people they help make, I will most certainly vote to make them so. The money to help pay for that child's well-being is going to have to come from somewhere and so long as there are two able-bodied adults that can work to help pay for it, they will be held a…
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 06:08 PM
3

No, sweetheart. It doesn't. Especially at the beginning, a woman probably has a lot more viable options and if she has self-esteem, she'll take your lack of interest as a non-verbal cue and just move on. And I mean, of course, being attractive helps. But a lot of men seem to be under the impression that you need to be tall, jacked, and handsome in the face to be successful with women. Sure, it helps, but plenty of people in this world don't look like that and they stay fucking. There are plenty …
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 08:05 PM
1

No, you simply stated a pseudo-scientific explanation behind certain attractions
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 07:52 PM
3

What does someone looking like Jaba The Hutt (if you're going to reference pop culture, please do it correctly) have to do with anything?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 07:50 PM
1

Exactly! And mind you, the expect unconditional love while being EXTREMELY conditional about what they expect from a wife/girlfriend. Can't be fat, must be submissive, should not be overly invested in career, can't be overly aggressive, must be hyper feminine, must be willing to drop most ambitions to play a supporting role for her husband (them) - the list goes on. Their standards seem to be extraordinarily conditional.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 07:48 PM
2

Or is a previous victim of abuse and doesn't have proper boundaries established, making them the perfect victim for RP abuse.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 01:19 PM
1

Why would my wife continue to love me if I suddenly turn out to be a monster and abusive? Ding ding ding. There it is. Redpill IS abusive. The hangup and desire for a wife that loves unconditionally is necessary for the abuse to go on.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 12:59 PM
6

This. Before I even knew about what PUA tactics were, I had a guy try to "neg" me. I was immediately turned off. Like...IMMEDIATELY. It confused me as to why this person who was trying to hit on me was also insulting me. I called him out on it and everything. "Do you think you're gonna go anywhere by being rude to me?" That's the thing with PUA and redpill. It's easy to assume that all women are emotionally unstable and deeply insecure if your dating tactics include preying on emotionally unstab…
/r/ExRedPill29/10/20 10:38 PM
1

As opposed to which reality? The one I'm living in is one where "fat" women like Kim Kardashian and Meghan Thee Stallion are viewed as HVM women by legions of men for their physical appearance, not to mention their wealth? You must've jumped to misogyny like white on rice when even as a gay man, women found you insufferable. I have come across some hilariously self-important, I-clearly-live-in-the-middle-of-buttfuck-nowhere shit on here but this exchange takes the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:01 AM
1

You are somebody you referred to people significantly richer, more successful, with a longer history of dating HVM women than you have as “desperate losers” beloved - the word “objective” does not apply 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:48 AM
1

So now you're a man who is apparently an expert on what makes the collective hive mind of men's penises hard, but you don't even like women? Oh this getting better by the comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:43 AM
1

HVM in comparison to you? Well, if we're "valuing" people on those levels, then the answer is YES. You've yet to sit here and tell us what makes you a HVM in comparison to two multi-millionaires with fame, fortune and sea of people that know and respect them, ESPECIALLY the very good looking one. I would say the one with a history of dating models, but that would also include 'Ye 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:37 AM
1

A bipolar creative genius/famous musician who, despite his mental health issues, is still HIGHLY respected in his industry....and who is without a doubt richer and more respected than you. Meghan has been involved with G-Eazy, who is a complete fucking smoke show and is also very, very rich and who I guarantee is ALSO on a godlike echelon with women on a level you would *never* achieve. Seriously, what's undeniably hilarious about this is the undying belief that you are too quality of a man for …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 06:45 AM
3

It makes them upset because as RP men, they feel like they have to work SO HARD in order to be deemed sexually attractive by women that they have an extraordinarily hard time coping with the realization that women *they* personally find revolting may have absolutely no problems finding quality men that are into them. They can't wrap their minds around it. If they have to work as hard as they do for female validation, they are not willing to entertain the thought of women they don't think are wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 02:02 AM
1

Feminism is based on the understanding that many toxic male behaviors that contribute to women’s disadvantage in this country is SOCIALIZED, not innate.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 07:49 PM
1

because the goal is transparent: they want to justify their misogyny and hatred for women by assuming some default behavior hardwired and coded into our DNA that makes us unworthy of basic respect. the same "evolutionary science" BS that says that women are incapable of unconditional love also says that women are best suited to be primary caretakers for children due to being overly emotional. so which one is it?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 07:35 PM
2

MUSCULAR MEN ARE ATTRACTIVE BECAUSE MUSCLES ARE SEXY. Why are you so obsessed what life was like 10,000 years ago? Do you sit around and think "I would've been SUCCESSFUL as a cave man!!!" or something?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 07:26 PM
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Women only love conditionally based on what you can provide for them. Men love unconditionally as a sort of evolutionary safeguard, where a woman is incapable of loving unconditionally. Let's get one thing straight - ALL romantic love is conditional. Period, point-blank. It is conditional on how you connect non-sexually, how you connect sexually, how you function financially and domestically. The "idea" that romantic love should be unconditional is precisely what leads to resentment, to feeling …
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 07:24 PM
3

So who's going to tell him what his young, sexy mail-order bride is going to be doing when he's away at work?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 01:08 AM
8

Because sex is fun, especially when its with different people? That's it. Sex isn't brand new or groundbreaking information and not everything requires some deep, dark explanation simply for diverting from super conservative values. Sex is different with different people. Some people can give you fun experiences, others can introduce you to things you didn't know you liked befpre. The desire to have sex with many women comes from a place of wanting to explore what the world has to offer. There's…
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 01:06 AM
0

It doesn't if your mental maturity and EQ is regressed by 10, 15, or 20 years, and it's my mistake for assuming that yours would be age-appropriate....whatever that might be.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 09:05 PM
0

Also lol. You must really think older dick is something of magic, huh? A 27 year old man has a dick harder than a diamond and can go several rounds without much recoup time. The same can't be said of men in their mid 30s and higher.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 08:39 PM
1

A *predatory* preference based on the advantageous dynamic siding with an older, more experienced person who's preying on the inexperience and immaturity of a much younger person.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 08:38 PM
0

Sluts give people orgasms. They're not hurting anybody. Adult men dating chronically dating women who are 10, 15, 20 years younger than them are doing it out of the sexist idea that women their own age are undesirable...and so that they can take advantage of an immature woman with little to no life experience. The people they hurt ARE those women.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 08:17 PM
1

I have no problem shaming predatory behavior. If you don't like getting called a creep, don't do creepy things.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 08:10 PM
1

Oh I provided plenty. It's predatory, its creepy and its unethical. You can choose to take it or leave it. If you want to be a creep, that's none of my business.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 08:05 PM
1

It's not wrong - just unethical & creepy. Predatory behavior doesn't start at forcing someone to do things without their consent, it runs deeper than that and if you really need to have coercion and grooming explained to you, then perhaps you should consider putting a pause on dating altogether...not just on the young ones.. I don't owe you an explanation - I'm sure one will be given to you when you think dating 19 year olds as a 40 something year old man is a good idea.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 07:52 PM
3

Of course, there's a lot of things that are ethically immoral about a 50-year-old dating a 20 year old, and its something most people, including your friends, will find you a less respectable person for. You don't control what your friends think about you - your actions do. Predatory behavior tends to change people's outlook on an individual. The only people who think this type of thing is okay is *ding ding ding* people who haven't hit their 30s yet. I'll even go as far as to say mid-20s, dudes…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 06:54 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 05:44 PM
2

I mean, if you're used to not having friends or people that think highly of you then I can see why you'd feel this way. But rest assured that most people with a healthy social life? They value being a respected individual.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 05:24 PM
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I know a few men IRL who embody the whole MGTOW mentality and lifestyle, whether they came to it organically or they actively followed something on the internet that taught them the philosophy. I'm involved in a subculture that is extremely male-dominated and perpetuates a lot of "macho" mentality, much to my disappointment. Here are a few things MGTOW * won't'* tell you: ​ Most men will eventually get lonely and feel a desire for female companionship, and not the rotating kind. At this point, m…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 02:58 PM
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Buddy - you got dumped. And in case no one around you has told you...make no mistake, the person who is potentially dodging a bullet here is her, not you. I cannot imagine having someone go the extra mile for me the way in which she has and STILL managing to overthink myself into something like this magnitude over something so stupid. Holy Shit. I'll tell you what I read: I'm reading about a situation where you have a girl that is doing the absolute most to show you that she's 100% into you and …
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 05:45 PM
3

I dont doubt that there are women out there that enforce toxic masculinity in men and shame them for being emotional or crying but...the norm? No. Definitely not the norm.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/20 01:42 AM
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I think that what causes the issue is that men aren't really accustomed to expressing their emotions, so they may not understand or know how to express them in a way that isn't coupled with hostility, aggression, or violence. Women who do this get rightfully called "psycho" and...the same applies for men. And while I sympathize, I truly do....my safety cannot come at the cost of you learning how to manage your emotions. It just can't.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 06:21 PM
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So, I'm going to say something that will probably get me eaten alive but - I've come across men that say this and when you get their ex-wife/gf's account, you come to learn that it was a little more than just showing their vulnerable side. A lot of times, they expressed violence. An ex of mine, for example, went around saying this about me completely omitting that he punched the steering wheel of his car so hard HE BROKE IT and that he trashed my living room in the middle of his emotional breakd…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 03:25 PM
1

And I am a regular and insightful poster here who is a woman too and she does not speak for us :)
/r/ExRedPill09/10/20 09:11 PM
2

LMAO and yet, it is far more common to see a gorgeous girl with an unattractive guy than it is the other way around
/r/ExRedPill09/10/20 01:48 PM
1

Now I DEFINITELY know you're not fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:19 PM
6

Oh definitely. You see it constantly with the way people, as a whole, react when a girl says she likes men above a certain height. Guys AND girls will clutch their pearls and foam at the mouth at these women for daring to impose a physical beauty standard on men....as though there isn't an insane beauty standard constantly imposed on women. I have many male friends that will wallow and cry about not being wanted for their height....but when asked what they're looking for, they are seeking 100 lb…
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 01:34 PM
1

You can’t tell you don’t have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 12:36 PM
2

and yet, there are many people on the spectrum in relationships AND aren't inherently sexist. funny how that works.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 12:21 PM
2

we've all been there. they want the sex that comes with a girl that cares about you, but they view women they've had sex with as subhuman and unworthy of basic respect or dignity. its mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 06:07 AM
2

So, are YOU willing to be sexually explorative as the one getting fucked? If your next girlfriend expresses a desire to peg you, you're obligated to give in? No, she should be sexually explorative with whoever the FUCK she wants to be sexually explorative with. A few years ago, I explored with anal and guess what? Discovered I didn't like it. If I'm in a relationship with someone now who brought it up, I would tell them I don't like it. And I am not obligated into exploring whether or not I like…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 12:54 AM
3

If you want to casually fuck someone that does girlfriend things and cares about you on a deeper level, you're sick. That's narcissist/sociopath behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 12:51 AM
1

First off - no, women don't treat their casual sex partners better than their husbands/boyfriends. What you consider better may have something to do with not being held to the same levels of accountability as a FWB than you would as a boyfriend/husband. My FWBs come over with wine, we do our thing, watch some TV or a movie, order in, and they're out the door by the time its time to go to sleep. I don't host sleepovers for them. They don't have expectations of me outside of sex and the feeling is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 12:50 AM
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THIS THIS THIS. Honestly, you'd swear that everyone's a smoking hot 10 on Reddit based on how they talk about themselves sometimes, but guys...not everyone is hot. Plenty of people who are considered less than average for whatever reason have 0 issues dating and/or having sex. And truth be told...I think women are way more likely to sacrifice their prefrences on physical appearance than men are.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 12:36 AM
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I don't even see how this is even a question - incels, especially the VIOLENT and hateful kind, are a direct result of sexism. Believing that you are owed sex? Sexism. Refusing to work on your emotional intelligence and make yourself more relatable to women, thus more approachable? Well, that would require you to view women as people. Sexism. Believe that women shouldn't have a choice in who they have sex with and that you deserve a sexual partner assigned to you? Sexism. Believing that women ar…
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 12:31 AM
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Yeah great job trying to convince me that you’re not on the side of the violent deviant minority while actively using terminology the I-hate-women side of the internet likes to use 🤣
/r/ExRedPill12/06/20 02:58 AM
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Yeah I make it a point to say this whenever someone tries to come in and say that men and women are equally shitty to each other lol. No. Statistically, women are more likely to be killed by a man. Not just a man, but their intimate partner. Men also kill men. Statistically, women are more likely to be sexually assaulted by a man, and this has absolutely nothing to do with sexual preference because do you know who also sexually assaults men? Men. Women are also most likely to be physically assau…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/20 03:42 PM
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Statistically and historically, one sex is a lot worse towards the other....and it's not women. This isn't even debatable.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/20 06:03 AM
5

We are creating a society of misogynistic men who will have absolutely 0 problem with acting selfishly because they will feel 100% justified. Correction: you've just become aware of what's always been around.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 06:12 AM
2

Because they’re validated by society & given value for being married. They’re in love with the idea. The reality is very different. It is nobody’s life goal to essentially exist as a live-in baby maker, maid & secretary ON TOP of a full time job .
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 04:44 PM
3

Statistically, men benefit more from marriage than women. You don’t have to marry anyone if you don’t want to, but this idea MGTOW men have that it is this grand honor to be chosen by them for marriage is honestly laughable. Statistically, married men earn more. Live longer. Report higher levels of happiness. Statistically, women’s careers come to a sudden stop, they earn less, they report higher levels of depression. Their role in marriage also require a lot more emotional labor - have kids, be…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/19 04:28 PM
1

Yes. Exactly. And it’s better to have your first time be with someone where it flows freely between the two of you. It’s a great feeling when it does.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 03:30 AM
2

It’s not unspoken pseudo-virtue. By default, sex releases a slew of bonding hormones and chemicals in both men AND women. It is a lot harder to learn how to suppress and control those feelings for the sake of casual sex before learning how to even wrangle these naturally-occurring reactions in a normal relationship setting. Hell, there are people who’ve gone their entire lives without really knowing how to handle these reactions in a casual setting. OP can do what they want and ultimately they k…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/19 02:55 AM
11

Honestly? No. Learn to have regular, meaningful sex before jumping into FWB, something that you should only pursue if you have the emotional strength and maturity to feel used and be ok with it.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/19 01:54 PM
3

That every day they're alive, they're making a whole ass fool of the woman who birthed and raised them. I would be absolutely humiliated if I learned I had a son that truly believed this.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/19 03:11 PM
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I mean, its all just misogynist af so
/r/ExRedPill30/05/19 05:41 PM
3

Agreed. While I do think that cheating is pretty awful, the extreme in which people use being cheated on as a means to victimize themselves is just...next level. You need to look at what's happening objectively. I'm not saying do this to forgive the person, that is 100% your decision to make, but I'm saying that before you have a meltdown calling your SO a sociopath narcissist who eats puppies, think about whether or not this was a happy relationship in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 07:54 PM
0

I'm just gonna copy paste something I wrote up in another sub. ​ Some cold hard truths for everyone: Nobody cheats in a relationship because they were happy. If you got cheated on in a relationship, feel your feelings but take a big step back and take a good hard look at your relationship objectively. Were you happy? Was your partner happy? Was your relationship the best it could be? And be honest with yourself about this. Does anybody deserve to get cheated on? Well, that's not my question to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 07:51 PM
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This. This is more telling of OP's social circle, social status and who he chooses to affiliate with than all of womankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 07:43 PM
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Lets be real - this would require you ACTUALLY carry out platonic, healthy relationships with women in the first place and judging by the tone of this email, you carrying healthy platonic relationships with women is determined to be a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 07:42 PM
1

i'd be sad at dating a loser who actually thinks shit like SMV is not only valid, but tied to a crazy sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 01:40 PM
1

I mean, I'd laugh but then I'd be pretty sad at the realization that I'm with a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 04:48 AM
2

Then you're what, surrounded by people in their 30s still working retail or something? I'm just having trouble wrapping my head around thinking 35 is old when 35 is about the age people with a career worth a damn start getting married due to, you know, work and study
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 01:38 PM
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Serious alarm bells? I mean, sure, maybe if you’ve lived in a small city or town your entire life and your definition of 35 is the same as your parents’, but not necessarily for city people or individuals who’ve pursued masters degrees or higher. 35 is still very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 08:07 AM
2

Sex is not, and should never be, an obligation. Period. I’ve been with a man who had a lower sex drive/libido and there was no such thing as compromise. We had sex when both of us wanted to because I learned how to put him in the mood. People with lower sex drives don’t necessarily want less sex, it just takes a little longer and a lot more sensuality to put them in the mood and to warm them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 09:19 PM
3

I mean, if you're only engaging with women you want to have sex with and see no value in them as you know....people? human beings? That makes you sexist. ​ ​
/r/ExRedPill29/03/19 11:31 PM
2

Because my initial comment was specifically addressing housework and child raising, to which you responded, specifically with extremely sexist verbiage. So let’s say this is you - if your wife did all of the housework and child raising, why does losing primary custody affect you so much? If you had it made in that regards before, then this is practically perfect. You’ll have the kids WITHOUT the wife. And, If you’re in excellent financial shape but she’s not due to not working as much, you shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 12:46 AM
1

Plenty of solid income men who stick their harpy, cunt wife and ungrateful kids in a nice house in the suburbs, private schools, nice cars, et al come home to bullshit, unappreciated for their long hours in the office to a fat wife who won't fuck them too, ya know... And he has every right to leave her, but if he won't then he won't. There is literally nothing altruistic about choosing to stay wallowing in misery for the sake of it. I work long office hours to maintain the lifestyle I've been ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 09:50 PM
1

They just never learn to formulate the skills needed to make an emotional relationship last. Its honestly sad.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/18 08:20 PM
2

seemingly "OK" marriages come to a near end or terminate completely from nothing more than mundane routine, especially with kids involved, and typically the man isn't doing enough and she's not haaaappy. See how to you this is no big deal? If you're not taking part in mundane routine, of course it will seem like no big deal to you because you're the sole benefactor. How wonderful would it be to just work and come home to a clean home, dinner on the table and diapers changed! But this, this right…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:51 PM
1

Throwing away relationship commitments because she's not haaappy. I have to sincerely disagree with this. Anybody, male or female, has the right to leave a relationship if they feel genuinely and sincerely unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:49 PM
1

Somehow, I feel like its not a matter of immediate satisfaction if you've been together for years upon years upon years. I have many married female friends who are utterly miserable because their aloof husbands refuse to do any kind of housework or carry any kind of emotional labor. The husbands genuinely don't think this is a big deal because they do diddly squat. I'm not saying that every divorced man is this way, but I am saying that socially the role of the wife has been to be the sole provi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:45 PM
1

I am a feminist, through and through. However, I do believe that as a sex we are not exempt from needing to make changes within ourselves to ensure the equality and changes in society that we're seeking. Princess complex. Stop feeling like things need to be done for you. Don't be afraid to go out there and hustle. Actually be okay with work and needing to work in order to get the money and lifestyle that you want and desire. Thinking its okay to sleep your way to the top. Stop using sex as a cur…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:42 PM
1

Of course, but it’s the general admission of guilt from the get that shows you why this shit is ultimately the chemtrails of dating. They go red pill because organically, they weren’t getting the results they sought with women, inferring that by default they are not the mythical man they simultaneously despise yet aim to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 12:39 AM
1

The ultimate pot hole in TRP logic. They simultaneously hate yet admire Chad, admitting from the get they are not and will never be him organically while simultaneously bragging about their sexual conquests - inferring what exactly, that they get the pity fucks? That the women who choose to be in a relationship with them are essentially settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 11:07 PM
1

Of course they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 10:54 PM
1

Hey, I've always wondered whats it like to have been raised the dark! So, does the food that gets slid under your door already come warm or do you have to heat it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 02:17 PM
5

While I agree, there’s a funny thing about this - despite the initial flattery of being asked out or approached, it’s been my experience that making it “easy” this waysimply does not appeal to most men’s sense of masculinity. I’ve approached guy I’m interested in or bought him a drink, but my best luck/results typically happen when I phrase it like “so, when were you planning on asking me out on a date/my phone number?” after establishing contact and a flirty dynamic. You can set everything up f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 05:07 AM
2

I mean the concept or idea that they’ve really been living in an illusion will appeal to men disillusioned with sex and dating. It’s not society - it’s the movement itself victimizing the people it intends to target by claiming it knows “the truth” vs teaching genuine coping mechanisms. TRP is basically the chemtrails of getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 04:40 AM
1

Also, why it takes very little for a man to be deemed a great father and husband. Do the bare minimum and you’re showered with adulation. For women, on the other hand, it takes very little to be considered a bad wife and mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 06:10 PM
1

“ A sentiment that men don’t share” - wrong. From a social & political power perspective, men are not typically allowed to rise into a position of power without a family, but at the very least without a wife. Marriage is an institution where both men and women experience social gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 05:44 PM
15

Sure! I know a “Chad”. He’s a tall, caramel skinned, beautiful man who, for years, had a conveyer belt of women at his disposal in his 20s. He’s 35 now and wants a genuine relationship but tbh he’s pretty ruined. I mean, he’s also getting up there in age where hitting on girls 25 and under has turned into a joke. He’s handsome AF and despite what redpill likes to promote -young women aren’t going to think you’re datable if you’re too old. He can’t handle a disagreement without resorting to seeki…
/r/ExRedPill18/03/18 05:27 PM
6

lmao if its easier to believe that women are both sexually insatiable beings capable of "trapping" a man with sex through prowress and desire yet SIMULTANEOUSLY being frigid enough to not want it whatsoever once the ring is on, then do you and while you're at it, start hosting YouTube videos on other implausible and far reached theories like flat earth arguments and reptilian overlords. Alternate realities where the most implausible outcome is your source of truth seems to be your schtick. Becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 09:08 PM
7

Just as women "trick" and manipulate men into marriage, by having hot monkey sex all the time until the ring and date are secured, after which she then cuts him off and refuses him sex, because she was never all that attracted to him in the first place hate to break it to you buddy, but if someone automatically stops having hot monkey sex with you after years of doing it, its not because you were always unattractive to them, its that somehow some way you are unattractive to them NOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 08:13 PM
2

Men aren't shamed for wanting or desiring casual sex. It is practically acknowledged that this is their default setting. Men are shamed for doing things like not being clear about what they want out of dating because they think 90% of women will bounce once they hear they're not interested in anything serious which in turn feels like trickery, or like you removed the option of choice from a woman. And maybe most women WILL bounce once they hear a guy doesn't want anything serious - that doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 08:10 PM
1

• Are you prolife or prochoice? I'm pro-abortion. • Would you personally get an abortion if you found yourself pregnant today? Depends on the quality of man and the sort of relationship I have with him • Would you have an abortion if you wanted to keep it, but your husband/boyfriend/other told you to have an abortion? Keeping it wouldn't really be my first option and I wouldn't want to bring a child into this world without a steady father figure. And no, a visit every other weekend doesn't count…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 05:00 AM
1

She's playing these games with you when you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 09:46 AM
1

I'm not redpill whatsoever but it makes me keel over with laughter when these guys, who like to make big claims about being alpha or whatever the fuck, talk about still boning a chick after she's just put them through as many fiery hoops just to see how desperate he is. WHAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 09:46 PM
1

I'm....not even sure if you're disagreeing with me or not. And yes, when it comes to sex, women are typically the gatekeepers of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 01:38 AM
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a) I'm not a guy. And I stand by it because this isn't about fucking anymore, this is about someone knowingly putting a guy into some kind of grey area where he can face serious legal and social ramifications because of it. Clearly, YOU care because you're talking about it. You can still fuck, that's not off the table, but fucking someone who likes to mess around with the concept of consent as some kind of guy where you wind up on the losing team is not something to take lightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 01:06 AM
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No, and as I've instructed my brothers - if a woman is resisting and you're respectful enough to back off but she then turns around and tells them that no, this is a game she plays and she really does actually want it - PUT A STOP TO THAT SHIT. Make her wait. Be firm about this shit. You haven't even boned and she's already running the show like this? And hey, let's use Red Pill tactics and verbiage in this one. If a girl resists, you walk away, and then she turns around and tells you that she a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 11:35 PM
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Awwww I think its absolutely endearing that you're now woman-splaining when you're blubbering on in an emotional manner, using nothing but anecdotal evidence to back up your claims <3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 11:27 PM
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Yeah but how many girls have you seduced and fucked? A....lot actually. Most women need to be buttered up first to decide if they like their personalities (aka seduced) Yeah the horror of this thing called "attraction", that pesky thing that constantly gets in the way between you getting sex from whoever and whenever you want. Who knew that making yourself attractive and desirable could yield positive results rolls eyes Truthfully, this is why some of you just don't get it. You never experienced…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 09:13 PM
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Yeah, and do you really want to guess how many of them refer to you as the fucking creeper who kept pushing for it even though they said no? You really don't want to know that. Who the fuck do you think holds more clout in what women's supposed fetishes are, some knuckle dragging, mouth breathing nerd who resorts to the internet to tell him how to get laid and become alpha, or you know, sexually active females who engage in conversations about sex with other sexually active females? It just crac…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 09:10 PM
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You don't care, in fact you encourage it, unless it is your mother, your daughter, your grandmother, your aunt, your girlfriend, or you. Then its a problem, right? That's the point you're missing, shit-for-brains, the other thing you're missing is that YOU can easily become the victim of rape yourself. The only thing you're a victim of is some really shoddy raising. Holy shit, I hope your parents are absolutely embarrassed by you. I sincerely hope every woman in your life and the men that love t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 09:05 PM
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Of course an advocate of rape would victim blame by insinuating that this happens to them for not knowing how to take care of themselves. Here's to hoping no one slips anything in your drink and rapes YOU just because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 07:50 AM
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You're so full of shit you can't even defend your stance on your own advice when directed against you and your loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 07:28 AM
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FEMALE REPORTING HERE. IS FRIEND WITH MANY OTHER FEMALES, MORE THAN YOU MOST LIKELY. TALKS ABOUT SEX WITH THEM OFTEN. CAN CONFIRM THIS IS NOT A FEMALE FETISH. I REPEAT IT IS NOT A COMMON FEMALE FETISH. I felt the need to yell this in case anyone actually buys into your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 06:57 AM
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The overwhelming response to this question can be paraphrased thus: "I want a man to desire me so much that he simply can't help himself and forces himself on me in a pure ecstasy of frenzied lust". LMAO AT YOU BELIEVING YOU ACTUALLY HAVE FEMALE FRIENDS THAT TALK TO YOU ABOUT THIS, SPECIFICALLY
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 06:56 AM
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No, it's not "just him". One of the funny things about TRPers is how so many of them insist that this isn't a misogynist, woman-hating movement. Yet time after time, many avid and vocal redpillers admit to rape, and go as far as to encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 06:55 AM
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So if a man were to rape your daughter, you'd be fine with it? Or lets take it further - someone targets your grandmother. And forces themselves on her. They know they can get away with it, and they do. Is it still acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 06:53 AM
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well, how WOULD you feel if your Grandma got raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 05:47 PM
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You just know that minority TerPers would be black/hispanic supremacists if the situation was reversed i.e. if they were the dominant ethnic group Actually, TRP is latin machismo. Its like someone went to Mexico, was exposed to the ideology and took out all the Spanish. But it's the same ideals. Same methods. Same mind games.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 10:34 AM
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Yep. Pretty much. I'm stoked, he's amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 10:19 AM
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Also - great job convincing anyone in this sub that you're satisfied in your sex life and relationship when you are literally posting to subs about your pregnant girlfriend threatening to leave you a mere 11 days ago and that you essentially resort to the approval of your online peers in your relationships YEP. A REAL LADY PLEASER! EDIT saw that first post is essentially a satire, but you still delivered!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 10:17 AM
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oh yeah real horrible, orgasms ruining relationships left and right. you're right, i actually don't think you can get a woman to orgasm lol. there are no insecurities to be had here. idk man, you are convinced that people are somehow jealous of you when...you're advocating not getting your rocks off. it's not something to envy. look, you go live your redpill orgasm-less life where apparently you've convinced yourself the key to happiness with a woman is by depriving her and yourself of orgasms. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 10:08 AM
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Yep, I made sure my man blew his load three times last night and twice tonight. I enjoyed many more than that. I'm familiar with tantric sex, that's how I learned to achieve multiple orgasms in the the first place. That's how he's learned to edge himself to have such good orgasms that he instantly recoups for more. Throughout this thread you're accusing people of hamstering without coming to the realization that people are also capable of having sex different from you. Orgasm is what kills sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 09:50 AM
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I mean it took you this long to figure out that in order to keep a partner around, you need to consider paying attention to achieving more than orgasm when having sex with them. I highly doubt you've got it all figured out when something this basic was a mystery to you for so long. I'll keep having and experiencing orgasms with my partner, thanks, they're pretty fantastic! I recommend you actually learn how to give one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 09:30 AM
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I feel really bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 09:04 AM
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Does this sort of comment have any place in a logical debate? you are proving his point about society in rape. Why yes. It does serve a place in a logical debate. His Grandmother is a woman capable of falling victim to rape. In fact, OP himself can fall victim to it as well, but for the sake of taking in consideration someone outside of his immediate field of vision - which would be the young women he's most like referring - I'm providing a case where the victim is a woman is who is dear to him …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 05:58 AM
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Don't bother, this idiot is so caught up in repeated tired white supremacist rhetoric that reading through her commentary on art and history has me in stitches. It's like someone handed her a pamphlet in 1992 and she never bothered to develop an argument outside of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 03:18 AM
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Do you know what happens to the jock who stops exercising because he thinks ruling the roost this very moment is a wave he can ride forever? Yeah that's white superiority right now. Westernized Asians are aggressive. They work out. They are far more competitive and driven. They score much higher on standardized testing. They have the discipline to achieve whatever they want. Perhaps it is you who need to get their head out of the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 12:14 AM
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Would you truly feel this way if your grandmother was raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 12:03 AM
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Actually, I would argue that Westernized Asians are the next alpha race in this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 12:00 AM
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No, but white culture certainly does not encourage a lot of the more subserviant traits other cultures have. My white girl friends are honestly the only girls I know who can get away with being a SAHM who has a nanny, a cleaning lady and a cook because "she's not a maid". In no other culture, in my experiences, is this acceptable. Which is fine, good for white women on extracting maximum profit from what they offer regarding their motherhood and child bearing abilities. No hate here, but it's de…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 11:56 PM
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This isn't RedPill, it's just racist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 11:53 PM
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And I'm presenting a way around this. No, you aren't. Anyone who's ever had a sexually fulfilling relationship with a long term partner gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 11:50 PM
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After all, we all know that orgasms are the best thing ever, right? It's probably the only thing red and blue pillers would agree about, right? No, and this is where the rest of your argument unravels and becomes this really painful drivel about rats and cages and boning. I's not the orgasm that is important, it's how you got there. What makes you hot for each other, what keeps you hot for each other, what makes this person's understanding of your sexuality (and you, their's) so strong that it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 11:49 PM
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Yeah. I mean they were right, he was an asshole lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 10:09 AM
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Considering that the penis is essentially built the way it is to exist as a plunger for existing sperm in the vagina....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 10:07 AM
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Feminism existed long before TRP. Disagree. TRP is essentially latin machismo. It has the exact same teachings, tones and attitudes towards women. It's like some white dude went to Mexico for a weekend and decided he liked the ideology without all the Spanish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 10:06 AM
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You really, honestly think I intend to stay married to my wife until one of us dies on her self doubt? Basically, yes. Red pill tactics work ON women with self-doubt. You feel the need to employ redpill in your marriage. You still participate in those mind games and emotional manipulation tactics when you aren't 100% in control. I mean, you can say it's not like that in your marriage, and I'll believe it, but you cannot pretend the entire foundation of TRP is exacting some kind of revenge on ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 06:05 PM
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Cooking, cleaning, taking care of the house and kids, being a loyal person who isn't branch swinging and lusting for luxury goods and internet fame...these qualities are of GREAT value. So....the baseline? Man, I feel bad for you guys. It's like you've never been loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 08:14 AM
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Their entire schtick is based on degrading, humiliating, manipulating and playing head games with women in order to get what they want. They would never admit to there being a "right" way for women to do things because they would lose the biggest tool they have to achieve what they want with the women they seek to date/marry - her self-doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 08:11 AM
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about that...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 09:01 AM
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TRP requires submissive women for it to work. RPW is a sub full of women who are happily submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 07:45 AM
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I will sometimes wear revealing clothing because my tits are hot, I think they're hot, and they look good when they look hot. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 08:56 PM
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Everyone seeks validation and attention to some degree. That's why you're here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 08:56 PM
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It is irrational attempting to debate because as much as a lot TRPers accuse women of hamstering, they hamster hardest. Even when you make sense or establish a point, they end it with "oh well you're different". "Oh well you're the exception". "Oh well that's not my experience". There is absolutely no debating with someone who resorts to insisting you are an "exception" when you, in fact, prove them wrong. If the conversation isn't going their way, then they literally start accusing you of all k…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 04:59 AM
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but the problem is that the girls in my area are very career-focused. Therefore they seem quite hesitant to stay out too late since they're worried about getting up early in the morning Most girls will gladly exchange an hour of sleep for an hour of dick, get real
/r/seduction22/01/16 11:17 AM
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Were you pretty and popular Sure. I mean, I'm not ugly now. I hit a real hideous phase in Middle School but that's expected. Aside from then, I've never had trouble dating or finding someone who wanted to be in a relationship with me. I experienced a lot of straight up sexual assault (guys grabbing my ass/tits in crowded environments, school halls, etc), guys following me home, guys have tried to roofie me on two occassions etc. It wasn't always positive. I developed really early, as in, I had f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 11:16 PM
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She wants the relationship to be a fair exchange of goods and services, rather than two people giving out of love and generosity. You think this is a good way to have a healthy relationship? ...Yes. Then again, it makes sense this isn't your opinion considering your first point was throwing all expectations of fairness and equality out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 10:43 PM
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We're pretty open about both of our kinks and our past. It's definitely not a taboo issue between us whatsoever. I wouldn't know about rough estimates in terms of bodycounts, but both of us have been with a substantial amount of people and we're both pretty experienced. He's 33, I'm 29. We also share a lot of kink between us, something that is crucial to our relationship, and something that does require a lot of confidence about our own sexuality. Has he ever inquired into your sexual past? Yep.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 06:42 AM
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Because is a wife, to many RPillers, is an object you can buy but will talk back to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 09:11 PM
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Lol whenever you trump them in a conversation, debate or argument, they resort to the "oh but YOU'RE different!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 09:08 PM
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AGAIN you all really love to assume things about my life with details I haven't even offered. I have been engaged before, and current guy and I are discussing marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 05:31 PM
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As you can see below - they don't undergo an all-encompassing crisis upon learning I've had sexual partners before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 08:10 AM
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So now I'm in a subculture and a gang! Wow, I am starting to get very sucked into this story line. Please! Continue, tell me more. The only person arguing themselves into cycles is...you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 06:07 AM
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They're not threatened because they don't know. I like how you say this with all certainty, as though it is information I contributed. Can I ask, where do you get this shit from? I mean, seriously, do you have a literal Jump to Conclusions mat that you employ in times like these? They know about it. It's never been a problem. Unless you're a groupie. Since we're just coming up with a random story for the sake of it, would you like to tell me what band I was a groupie for? I'd love to know. I'm r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 05:47 AM
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.....And you just compared a wife's role within a marriage to that of a janitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 05:40 AM
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Again, you're adding details that simply just aren't there. No one said anything about lying. I have no idea why you guys insist on building up the plotline to and tacking on details that aren't even discussed. I say that's because they don't know and honestly, they probably wouldn't care anyways, even if they did. Yeah, this is called not being threatened by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 05:32 AM
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It's very interesting how many RP members like to accuse women of emotional reactions instead of logical discussion, but all of these visceral replies seem to demonstrate that emotional arguments and unfounded assumptions are their forte.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 05:00 AM
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And it's a bitter dose indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 04:28 AM
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But we're not discussing female sluts - we're talking about male sluts. You are the one who chose to barge in with your opinion on your female counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 04:22 AM
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Or I can fuck ethical sluts who, you know, wears condoms. I wouldn't engage in sexual activity with a man who's the type to go without a condom with his casual encounters. That's just disgusting. But aside from that, I love slutty men. They fuck right, they're usually kinky as all shit and they are not threatened whatsoever by my past because their confidence in themselves and their abilities as superior is established within themselves. Edit good job going into my comments history and downvotin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 01:53 AM
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I am a feminist. And I am also a person, capable of rationality. Many of the feminists I also employ such tactics. What you are describing as "feminist" is more of a cartoon than an actual representation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 01:49 AM
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Definitely untrue. I have plenty of female friends who have gone completely berserk after getting dumped/rejected, and one of the struggles I have faced with my some (note, not all) of female friends and dating is that they got overly invested far too quickly and grow upset or resentful when things didn't pan out. Some, not all, guys do this too. Both sexes are addressed when they do this. People acting like complete nutcase because they're not socialized properly or were never taught to control…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 12:42 AM
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I could ask RPers what offends them about a "female led" relationship? Many describe women as "childish" and incapable of making rational thoughts and decision, but rather going by more emotion-led decisions. I mean, they have terms to dismiss a woman's thought process/feelings (aka hamstering). Their structure just does not allow for a female-led relationship because the entire purpose of TRP is to become "Alpha". If their wife leads the relationship, then they are now Beta to a woman. But thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 12:03 AM
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First of all, it weeds out those without interest No, it just weeds out girls who are not into guys that have absolutely no creativity or finesse in approaching women. Your approach, IMO, is way too aggressive.
/r/seduction29/12/15 07:27 AM
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unpopular opinion, but yes. same as sometimes, being a "bitch" is necessary as a woman to get your point across. the trouble is that with dating, some people cannot (or will not) take 'no' for an answer. or, they simply refuse to pick up on the cues of disinterest that you're giving them. this is when being firm and stern with what you have to say comes into play. is it necessary to be an asshole? not really but you will probably get called one by someone who wants more while you're not. if you …
/r/seduction06/02/14 10:34 PM
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