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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | [VENT + Advice] Arranged Marriages and parentsThis is realistic. Western culture is more individualist, people become independent adults once they are 18. But in many other countries, even if you are an adult and make your own money, you are still considered a member of the family. In these cases, establishing independence and not letting your family engage in your private life may be a more realistic and suitable option than going no contact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 10:52 AM |
| 8 | I’m Celebrating My Submission Of My Honors Essay Tonight!I get so happy when girls succeed in academia, congratulations! ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:58 PM |
| 22 | Never accepting anything less than everythingYou deserve someone who appreciates your worth and treats you with respect and love... You did the right thing and we love you! ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:55 PM |
| 252 | Why are men so disrespectful when it comes to women that don’t “meet their standards”?Because they don't see women as humans. They see attractive women as properties they feel entitled to own and impose their expectations, but unattractive women as worthless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:50 PM |
| 53 | Feminist brings receipts on disparate prison sentencing between men and women, especially for domestic crimes. MRAs in Shambles.Of course there is a level of interpretation in each case, but most of the judges are men and I believe they subconciously empathize with male oppressors as nobody can be completely impartial, which is even more risky in countries with jury system. Another problem is whether self defense can only be made during the attack. A recent case in my country, a woman shot her husband (after he beat her up and went to the other room to search for a gun to kill her) but the prosecutor decided it was not s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:08 PM |
| 140 | Feminist brings receipts on disparate prison sentencing between men and women, especially for domestic crimes. MRAs in Shambles.For self defense to apply, there is the principle of "equality of arms" which means if somebody is beating you with bare hands and you stab them/ shoot them with a gun it's considered disproportionate, even though an average man is stronger than an average woman. Or the judge has to evaluate whether it was possible to stop the attack by another way without resorting to violence but it's unlikely for a woman to restrain a man. These are logical if both people in a fight have similar physical stre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:56 PM |
| 32 | For men who say: what if the sexes were reversed?This is the most illogical and invalid argument ever, only used by men to play for sympathy. Also the number of upvotes was around 100 when I first saw this post now atound 80s.. Male lurkers didn't like your post so it's certainly true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 09:45 AM |
| 11 | When women hate men, we stay away from them, when men hate women, they go on incel killing spreesFrom what I observed, they swipe right on everyone without even properly evaluating the photos then still complain about matches because even the women they don't find attractive dislike them 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:51 PM |
| 54 | When women hate men, we stay away from them, when men hate women, they go on incel killing spreesThank you so much for this comment, it clarifies exactly what I meant! I absolutely condemn emotional abuse, and it is not ok. Yet men usually paint rejection or a woman not babying them or asking them to take responsibility as emotional abuse too. And unfortunately, most women suffer from male emotional abuse (cheating, insulting, financial control, age gap relationships, manipulation)... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:43 PM |
| 80 | When women hate men, we stay away from them, when men hate women, they go on incel killing spreesThey don't see it as rejection though. They think they are entitled to date any women they want, and also entitled to insult or disrespect women they don't find attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:02 PM |
| 40 | They do not value the work you do, queen. That’s why it’s unpaid.I believe 50/50 is unrealistic. It's a mask men put on when they expect women to give 100% while they only do the minimum contribution. I have observed that men who are very defensive and afraid to be "used for money" have trust issues and can't develop an emotional connection. In their head there is always the strategy of maximizing the profit. I find this to be very sneaky. And using someone as an emotional punchbag is much worse than using someone for money... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:30 PM |
| 192 | When women hate men, we stay away from them, when men hate women, they go on incel killing spreesYet they continue to blame women because "eMotiOnal aBuSe is JusT as bAd as viOlenCe". They are so delusional, they think rejecting men is a hate crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:15 PM |
| 47 | Childish mutant spends nearly $10k on video games as his wife wears literal rags. But not to worry! He’s a “good husband and father, otherwise” 😅 Anyways, wifey just needs to know how to raise this minor topic while respecting hubby’s “financial autonomy” 🥺I think she should have disagreed him to buy expensive games from the beginning. If you don't call out bad behaviour, you train the other person to keep acting that way. What level of pickmeisha do you need to be to let your kids wear secondhand clothes while your husband spends thousands on literally unnecessary shit. That being said, the husband is the bigger culprit, he is such a selfish LVM! You don't need to be called out to provide for your family, what kind of a man would complain about "… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Poor ring is so teeny tiny, it’s almost invisible. But I guess she has to love it or be rendered a scheming gold-digger, amirite?!?! 🤪💍r/murderedbywords | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:33 PM |
| 15 | We aren't therapists for men.Lol in most cases therapy isn't even enough, they need medication and possibly be admitted to the psychiatry clinic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:03 AM |
| 14 | "How are you still single?" is not a complimentI cringe when somebody says this, because it implies a woman can't be single by choice but it should mean no guy wanted her and they are suprised because she is pretty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 10:46 PM |
| 14 | Surely linger dating/"courting" period before marriage is fine if you're young and/or still a student?I advise not to move in before you are financially able to get married. You don't want to do all housework/ cooking on top of your busy work schedule (which will likely happen since he works full time wheras you work part time). If the living situation is easy for him, he won't even feel the need to get married. Apart from that, I wouldn't want to marry someone who I might grow to dislike in the future and deal with a possible divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 03:13 PM |
| 127 | Excuse me, ma’am... MA’AM WITH THE PICKME ATTITUDE... Being flattered by objectification is not only harmful to you but all the other women out there.Wtf she sounds like she is actually jealous nobody harasses her at the gym? So desperate for male attention that she is willing to throw other women under the bus because they "should have been flattered" if creepy guys comment on their body and despise attempts to save them 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:48 AM |
| 58 | Why is she cleaning his apartment before she moves in?And she touched the remaining bits of hair with her hand :(( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 08:58 AM |
| 66 | simp = guy with basic respect for womenI agree, it's like the male version of a pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:26 PM |
| 9 | [Rant] Men are far more 'high maintenance' than any 'high maintenance' woman I've ever metI'm so sorry you had the coronavirus... But at least you recovered and left him which makes me happy! Now it made you stronger and wish all the best to you in 2021❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:02 PM |
| 27 | Ladies, how much do men you date tend to spend on you, per month, during the early phase?If he knows what firm she works/ how many years of experience she has he can probably find information on salary comparision websites like glassdoor. He definitely stalked tho 😮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:45 PM |
| 277 | the shit ppl do for cloutEw ew ew! She cooks for him and even brings the plates to his bed, for a guy that call her a bitch? And she seems okay with that and just smiles? Girl, have some self respect! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:39 AM |
| 25 | PSA: Remember ladies, men always think they’re WAY better looking then they actually are and ugly men WILL treat women more attractive then them badly.How dare he? I'm happy he is now your ex, glad you dumped him. I hope you are in a better place now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:32 AM |
| 63 | PSA: Remember ladies, men always think they’re WAY better looking then they actually are and ugly men WILL treat women more attractive then them badly.I think they know deep down that they are ugly and can't do better, but also sense your lack of self esteem which leads you to believe this ugly guy is your equivalent and use that to manipulate you. If you visit any incel/red pill subs, they focus on beautiful but unconfident women and treating them like shit to keep them "submissive". It's nasty! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:27 AM |
| 14 | this is going around Tok Tok + Facebook, trying to get women to accept LVM and shame them. anyone sharing or making videos to this needs to get CutoffI can't stand how men view themselves better than they actually are and feel entitled to the best women without showing any effort, but us women usually struggle with self confidence. Yet, they would continue to shame us for having standards, because wE aRe nOt a priNceSs and must be grateful if the guy barely works.. I'm convinced they collectively try to lower our self esteem! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 10:07 AM |
| 39 | Dropped a manipulative narc on Xmas, just looking for FDS support and loveYou gave the difficult but correct decision and I'm proud of you, congratulations! You gave yourself the best new year present. Now it's time to channel your time and energy into yourself instead of this guy. Block and delete his number, change your locks, if he tries to stalk you or anything issue a restraining order. Then, buy yourself some nice gifts and enjoy your best life queen ❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:41 PM |
| 37 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingYou know something is not right when male redditors call him the asshole instead of telling she should have cOmMunicAted! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Logged into this gem in my reddit dm's. Promptly turned those off and blocked him. Thanks FDS, past me would have been the nice girl and politely declined his offer. Dude you aren't worth my time and I did not ask for your attention!Girl I looked at your profile, you are so pretty! But just be careful not being anonymous on a place like reddit especially if you are active on FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 01:08 AM |
| 6 | “Find a pretty girl with low self esteem” sickening. LVMs will take advantage of anything.You go queen! You only deserve the BEST and don't need anyone because you are self sufficient. We love you ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:06 AM |
| 7 | Teenage girl groomed by her employer since she was 15. Boss wants a relationship now that she turned 18. Hopes his daughter grows up to look like her. This is very troubling.She also won't have anybody to go for help (assuming she doesn't tell her parents or distances herself from them for this guy). Then, he will have all the power on her :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:04 PM |
| 32 | Teenage girl groomed by her employer since she was 15. Boss wants a relationship now that she turned 18. Hopes his daughter grows up to look like her. This is very troubling.Ugh, where to start.. The age gap is just creepy, he is targeting and grooming her since she doesn't have any life experience (and honestly not quite smart either). She is completely unaware and in denial "oh I don't mind but ny parents would be mad". Like girl, if you are still afraid of your parents' reaction, maybe you are still a child and not old enough to date guys twice your age?! Regardless of the age, I'm against dating a person whom you have a different hierarchal position (like boss/e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:49 PM |
| 41 | I knew I was going to get attacked for saying this, but I had to. I hope she takes my advice.Also we need to clarify real meaning of FDS, it helps us understand we are worthy and should not sacrificing our time/energy/life into men who don't value us, rather focusing on improving ourselves. It doesn't mean we must radically support any women's post on the internet at the cost of appearing illogical. This only gives incels and pickmes more opportunity to attack and discredit us (like they did on the comments, because the author supports FDS etc) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:27 PM |
| 60 | I knew I was going to get attacked for saying this, but I had to. I hope she takes my advice.I usually evaluate things on the woman's perspective, but this doesn't sound fair. The room is not just for his gaming, it's an office for both their business and if his husband works from home, office space (which helps them make money for a living) is much more essential than a wardrobe regardless of how princessy it makes the wife feel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 17 | Why girls and young women NEED FDS! 🗣Lol, imagine peacefully showering and watching Netflix or something just to realize there is a man under the bed 😅 I would either die from a heart attack, or sue him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 10:22 PM |
| 183 | Lazy scrote who doesn’t want to work wants Reddit to help him convince his wife why it’s okay not to work.Well then he would define her as a gold digger lazy bitch instead of "a free soul who is against slavery" like he defines himself 🤮🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:38 PM |
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