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rainmaider/r/seduction05/11/15 05:05 AM
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I'll be honest with you. I know for a fact I have value, I have a life and I am different from others. What I don't understand is what do I have or don't have that makes women just hate me. you must focus on yourself! Who are you and what do you want from your short time on this planet? The thing about this saying is that I've always focused on myself, making me a better person in order to not only reach my goals but to do so happily and successfully. Those thoughts and practices have led me to …
/r/seduction06/11/15 04:49 AM
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I play video games, play a lot of chess, go to the gym, movies, play pool. Visit my family. All that and the rest is work, which I do enjoy.
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:51 PM
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I've never really had female friends to learn from or treat a certain way to see how they react or feel so I'm sure that doesn't help. Earlier this year I looked into things and I saw all the pick up talk online. I really tried to follow it and even though most of it confused me I tried to take it all in and change how I portray myself and suck it up and just approach women and try to talk to them on a more personal level. Obviously I failed miserably but I just don't know what to do at this poi…
/r/seduction05/11/15 11:54 AM
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That video was very well made, simple and effective, you are quite good at explaining your points without convolution. I can't help but notice I lack a good number of those generic value traits such as significance, security and certainty parts. One of the reasons why I decided to work where I do is because I don't quite do the same thing everyday or work in the same place everyday but I don't think that counts since it's only my job. Appreciation is one I do have because (as sad as it sounds) m…
/r/seduction05/11/15 11:38 AM
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I actually really like playing pool and practiced that a lot in high school. Pool halls that I've been to haven't exactly been crawling with women, and not to mention pool isn't really something that women think is necessarily interesting let alone attractive.
/r/seduction05/11/15 10:59 AM
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Ok...I don't believe you want help. I don't believe you want to change. I think you want to be told that your situation is unique and special, and there's nothing that can be done. That you are not the problem, it's not your fault...women want something that isn't you, and you're not wrong here. Please listen to me. I am in the wrong here. There is something not right with me when it comes to women. Women want whatever they want and it's not what I have to offer. It's not their fault I'm lacking…
/r/seduction05/11/15 10:48 AM
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Perhaps you don’t understand what women really want? Most women make it very very clear on what they want. If there’s one thing they all want, it’s the feeling of safety and protection. This overrides everything. Not everything apparently. I'm living proof of that. That feeling of no matter what happens, when they are with you, they are totally safe. If a crazed axeman stormed into the restaurant in which you’re eating, she feels you would find some way to make it ok. Any sane person in their ri…
/r/seduction05/11/15 10:22 AM
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I can tell you from experience that there are far more women interested than you see, back in the days i had the same problem, always thinking no woman could ever want me, but when i started to learn about myself, about what my worth was, and i changed my mindset, i started to notice the women that wanted me. It is all about perception. Interested in other men? Definitely. Interested in me? I have yet to meet one. After 23 years of no interest from one female I don't think it's about perception …
/r/seduction05/11/15 10:12 AM
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I get what you're saying. I only say that because I do think, in this case, I am in the extreme. I've never heard of anyone ever going through this and believe me, it's nothing to be proud of. I used your "fat chick" analogy because even women who you would think are "undesirable" have options. Women, unlike some men, always have options, it's like a supply and demand market, women are in demand, and because they aren't lifeless objects, they get to choose who they are with, more men have to set…
/r/seduction05/11/15 10:03 AM
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Somehow I don't think you were kissless at 23. My only option is the one I'm taking now. Women have so many options of amazing men to choose from I highly doubt a "fat chick" would even pick me from the masses. I've gone through many fears, I've paid dues in other aspects, believe me. But this one, I don't know man, there just doesn't seem to be a goal or a point anymore. I'm all out of options and ideas.
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:52 AM
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I understand what you're saying and I respect your perspective from your age. It just feels bad being this age and not having anything to show for it when it comes to women. Most men my age have at least kissed or had a girlfriend, hell there's teenagers who have done more than me. Not only is following my own path the number one thing I can do, it's now the only thing I can do so I'll focus on what I can do instead of what I cannot. I really feel like throwing out all hope because at this point…
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:42 AM
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Well, this is not the best place to get that experience, since it is only second hand, and also far from the real experience. It meant mostly to see what other people have going for them. What they go through when dealing with women and relationships, getting to text them get intimate, etc. i don't know you, but i am pretty sure you have all the requirements for a relationship, at least the potential. In order to have a relationship you need to have a woman be interested in you romantically, I h…
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:26 AM
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I've concentrated on myself most of my life. And I thought at some point I should try and get with at least one woman. I'm not getting any younger and it just felt bad being 23 and zero experience at all. I'm a little burnt out on the whole I teaching with women thing and I don't feel like going out of my way to do it anymore.
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:11 AM
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I've been on this sub for a while now mostly because I like to see what it's like to have relationships, sexual experiences and just overall women in your life in general. I feel like venting and just putting it out there in writing, even if only a few read it, it does make me feel better by letting it out. Don't get me wrong, would I like to have female friends, a girlfriend at some point? Of course. I do care about women and I do wish I had the requirements to have a relationship. What I no lo…
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:02 AM
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I know there is more to life than women. It's just when you've spent over 23 years without even one semblance of interest from any woman ever you start to question why. I thought I had to make a change for the better, but right now I am taking a step back, things have been going amazing for myself in the past year with a great job and I'm in the best shape of my life, but I don't think I want to make that step back "in" to meet women. I'm just done trying to fit the criteria, I don't know what i…
/r/seduction05/11/15 07:58 AM
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I mean when I say I'm going to give up I obviously don't mean just stop caring about life. I'll still take care of myself and keep growing as a person. I'm just giving up on women amd trying to appeal to them cause every effort I've made has just made me feel stupider each time. I only made this thread because I've been here before just to take a glimpse at what it's like to have a sex life, a partner or just women in your life in general. A felt a giant weight lift off my chest when I decided n…
/r/seduction05/11/15 07:53 AM
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Just staying in and enjoying my free time and work related successes make me happy, I'll focus on those and personal goals in the gym and that's it. I won't lie to myself though, even though I am giving up on women, I will always think what it would be like to have a woman on my side at some point in my life. It is what it is.
/r/seduction05/11/15 07:23 AM
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That's another thing I never understood. An alpha male is supposed to not care at all about what women think and how they are portrayed to others. Yet the entire point of pick up is how you appear to others, especially women and what they think of you. Appealing to women and hitting on them/approaching them. It's completely ass backwards to me.
/r/seduction05/11/15 07:20 AM
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At this point I don't think I'm interested in either but before it was any of the two.
/r/seduction05/11/15 07:18 AM
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I've been trying for months now and just can't get it to work out.
/r/seduction05/11/15 06:18 AM
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