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This is just really bad advice.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 05:05 PM
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"When I Say No, I Feel Guilty" Second this book
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 11:09 PM
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Why men love bitches
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 07:34 AM
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When do I get a reply?
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 05:46 AM
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Sent
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/19 07:02 PM
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Is this saved somewhere?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 06:00 PM
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Am I just not looking enough or staring long enough? I will throw glances a few times (to people in general), but no one ever looks up. My roommate and I have this game we play while we're sitting on those benches facing the door in Walmart. We try to catch a persons eye as their entering or leaving and give them a smile, men, women and children. You get a point if they smile back at you. I did have to force myself to aggressively stare at people till they looked up from their phones or whatever…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/19 05:32 AM
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Haven't read that one yet but I am reading her first book I Thought It Was Just Me :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 03:50 PM
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We had the love that comes from sexual attraction and familiarity and shared interests....and that was not enough. Can I ask why? Did he not want to commit?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 03:47 PM
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As silly as it sounds, sunglasses, plus it's a nice accessory that protects your eyes.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/19 06:01 PM
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Observing that Sally SAHM puts her kids in daycare and eats bonbons all day while not doing a lick of household work is an observation, and calling her lazy IS a factually accurate JUDGMENT. It's going to take a lot more than than for me to call someone lazy The main problem in your examples isn't that people are judging. It's that they're coming to conclusions not in evidence. I don't understand. You can judge someone with or without all the evidence "Don't project your assumptions and insecuri…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/19 06:31 PM
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If you’re incapable of shame, or feel that this is an emotion to which you should never be subjected, then you will never learn from your mistakes and you’re so selfish and irresponsible that you don’t deserve a place in polite society. I think there's a distinction to be made between healthy shame and toxic shame.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/19 05:55 PM
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If women as a group abdicate the responsibility of shaming each other in order to maintain social standards that are in the best interest of women If all women wanted the same things in life this would hold
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/19 05:49 PM
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If you observe other women's behaviors, and JUDGE the results I agree with you on that but I don't think I would use the word judge
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/19 05:38 PM
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The dismissive replies your post here has generated (especially from the OP.. so much for practicing what they preach! :p) is both highly amusing and disappointing. Never said I was perfect :) ​ I've tried to clarify some of the things I was talking about in the edits, English is not my first language ​ feel free to chime in
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/19 05:26 PM
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Didn't you post 8 days ago something similar?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/19 09:58 PM
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But it is a necessary evil to maintain healthy standards of normalcy. I think it's important to distinguish between shame and guilt.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/19 02:50 PM
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Judgment is how we assess right and wrong, good and bad, useful and not useful, beneficial and harmful, etc etc etc. Without judgment, we cannot live in this world. We'd be toast in no time. How is judging other women for their n count, clothes, age, sex beneficial to you? If you don't think something is right for you then don't do it It's foolish and dangerous to judge every person favorably. Or how about not judging at all Some people and some choices need to be judges harshly in order to have…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/19 05:00 AM
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Some of them are just men, you need to check their post history
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/19 04:51 AM
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I especially like your emphasis that being nonjudgemental does not mean being undiscerning. You can decide someone does not behave in a way you want in your life, while still choosing to believe they are doing the best they can with their background, the knowledge they have, and so on. You've said it better than I could :) I hope you don't mind if I add that to the post?
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/19 08:56 PM
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I hope this post didn't trigger you xD I know I tend to be hard on myself when i realize I judge other people and then then I judge myself for judging other people. I think the main takeaway is be kind to other people and be kind to yourself too.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/19 08:45 PM
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What benefit of the doubt would you give a screaming sjw throwing trash cans? Or a feminist saying that all male should die in to abort your baby son's? What benefit of the doubt would we give them? Immaturity. Lack of a stable home. Emotionally stable parents who could show them what a healthy relationship looks like between a man and a woman. I can think of a couple of things. ​ EDIT: It can be hard to empathize with people with completely different view points because obviously you've never h…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/19 08:37 PM
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Well think about you for a minute. Would you want to give you the benefit the doubt if you've done something unthinkable?
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/19 08:25 PM
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The workplace environment was pretty toxic. I was added to a "women engineers only" Slack channel that consisted mostly of feminist rageposting, petty drama, and shittalking about the few male developers in the company. Needless to say this made me extremely uncomfortable. Any time we hired another male developer they would complain, usually without having ever even met the person or viewing his resume. Very little actual work got done. The girls seemed to spend a great deal of their time gossip…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/19 04:28 PM
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What retinol cream would you recommend?
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/19 06:07 PM
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what is first/full anti wrinkle?
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/19 06:06 PM
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Iyanla (https://youtu.be/wBR9rTXZhgw) She's such an empathetic and insightful lady :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/19 04:28 AM
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race talk?
/r/RedPillWives16/06/19 05:06 PM
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Art of Manliness and UnF*ck Your Brain
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 02:58 PM
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OP why do you care you're a guy. This is a low quality post.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 02:40 PM
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This has nothing to do with feminism. You are dealing with a woman who needs to get some counselling.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 02:32 PM
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If a guy like Tebow was saving himself for marriage that's attractive!
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/19 11:38 PM
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Do you have a link to that thread?
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/19 11:32 PM
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Would love to see a thread on this too
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/19 11:27 PM
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...I just don’t identify with at all, which makes me wonder if I’m too old fashioned and boring? That's just you. I see a lot of myself in Ms Marvel pre-RPW
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 04:41 PM
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I drive stick and need my man. Stealing this :D
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 04:21 PM
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I meant money
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 04:15 PM
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Moolah /s
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 03:59 PM
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This won't protect you from serial cheaters and non monogamous men. OP you still need to vet! vet! vet!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 05:42 PM
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stealing that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 06:20 AM
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How is this relevant to RPW?
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 05:32 AM
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So she should settle for being a plate?
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 05:27 AM
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Even the Indian side of my family engages in this kind of communal parenting -- aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents, all have input that is on a similar level to that of the parents. Do you know how annoying that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 02:12 AM
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link for the whole letter?
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/16 06:23 AM
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What happened to no sex until commitment?
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 11:17 AM
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This is what you get when you have trp running rpw
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 06:15 AM
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Next him
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 02:27 AM
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How do I know if he's just being nice and making conversation?
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/16 04:12 AM
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Awww
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 04:13 AM
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what's wrong with hockey and beer :(
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 01:15 AM
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I guess the same can be said for books?
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 02:37 AM
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We can't pick 0 on the no of people we had sex with?
/r/RedPillWives27/07/16 09:28 PM
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Great thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 09:21 AM
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Could we have one on Dita Von Tesse
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 08:56 AM
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Out of curiosity, where did you hear that "a woman with a high n count can't pair bond because of the desensitization to oxytocin"? /r/trp :P It came up on one of the recent threads
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 01:05 AM
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If a woman with a high n count can't pair bond because of the desensitization to oxytocin, does that mean every time a woman masturbates she's ruining her ability to pair bond?
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 03:32 PM
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Would something like having a set of milestones help? Like meeting his parents after a year of dating? Move in by the next year etc. Do I have to mention this stuff to him in the first 6 months?
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/16 02:03 PM
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My bad, sorry about that. Pinging /u/VigilantRedRooster
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/16 01:18 AM
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In a previous thread you've mentioned It is the woman's prerogative to secure and enforce commitment in the relationship What would that look like IRL if the couple don't want to get married?
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/16 02:34 AM
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progressed beyond "plate" Friend with benefits? A lot of men hang around with their plates for fun.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/16 05:36 AM
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I suppose it's a bit different for SAHM, but you can always freelance and continue learning new things (don't know the specific expression in English, as in when things advance in your field, something changes, as in new functions in a programming language or introduction of HTML5 in design, you should keep up with it). Was thinking about this as well, I think a remote job should do.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/16 06:47 AM
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Humility - I've given up a lot of great opportunities because I was too proud to ask for help. I wanted to keep up this image others had of me, this just puts me under an insane amount of pressure. I've cracked more than a few times, not a great way to go through life. Patience - Be more patient with myself. It's the process that counts not the product. Courage - No fun playing life safe. Flexible/Improvising - Knowing that you can handle whatever curve ball life throws at you keeps the anxiety …
/r/RedPillWives19/06/16 03:33 PM
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I was hoping to hear some concrete backup plans in case things go south (can't imagine what would happen to the kids). But I'd be able to be financially independent if that's what you're getting at. One should be able to do that much, regardless of their relationship status. I'm a developer myself, the job pays great but I hear it's tough to get back once you take a break and the shelf life isn't very long for devs.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/16 05:44 AM
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And how long have you guys been together?
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/16 05:29 AM
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How long have you guys been together?
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/16 05:25 AM
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Thanks for answering :) One more question if you don't mind - how old are you? you don't have to be precise
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/16 07:23 PM
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Can I PM you too?
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/16 05:54 PM
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This looks great, nice job :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/16 05:51 PM
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Do I have to wear it even if I don't leave the house?
/r/RedPillWives15/05/16 02:19 AM
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Keep a journal! Great way to get all your feelings out when you don't have someone to vent out to or if you don't feel comfortable sharing them with anyone else (family or friends), since your diary won't judge you. Be honest with yourself, you have full permission to write out what your feeling/thinking and don't judge yourself for feeling or thinking this way. Then have a good nights rest and maybe revisit the entry next morning and figure out why you were feeling this way.
/r/RedPillWives13/05/16 05:08 AM
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I put a clean t shirt on my pillow everynight, no more acne :)
/r/RedPillWives13/05/16 02:03 AM
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I would look for another job. Not worth putting up with that kind of behavior for a year or more, starts rubbing off on you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/16 01:24 PM
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What books would you recommend? I have a very demanding dad, hence a lot of (unreasonable) expectations to live upto and he doesn't hesitate to shame me when I don't. I think this has caused problems for me in the workplace; I can't take criticisms without getting horribly anxious and shutting down (bombed one internship because of that)
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/16 03:22 AM
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Any pro woman book suggestions (not necessarily the "you go grrrl" kind)?
/r/RedPillWives15/04/16 06:05 PM
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I really loved this episode from the Art of Charm Podcast http://traffic.libsyn.com/theartofcharmpodcast/497-KimberlySeltzer.mp3
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 09:12 AM
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I would work on getting good habits into place (Eg. Wear sunscreen everyday) and break the bad ones. The earlier you start the better.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 04:38 AM
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Use the > > This is a quote This is a quote
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/16 06:19 AM
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did the flab ever go away?
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/16 02:28 AM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 02:23 PM
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Interracial relations Could you explain why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 05:32 AM
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http://beeminder.com/ or https://www.stickk.com/, if you really want to get motivated :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 05:22 AM
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Does it even matter?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 10:25 AM
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How's it coming along?
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/16 01:36 PM
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Whiny men. I hate it when they just keep complaining all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 07:39 AM
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I like her posts on becoming a high value women, not the usual "cook, clean, have sex and look nice" drivel.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 07:21 AM
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I need this class D:
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 07:52 AM
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n count
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 04:56 AM
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Wouldn't it be better at this point if she did leave him and find a guy she is attracted to?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 06:26 AM
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Never thought about it that way
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/15 01:13 AM
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Conversely, would you see a good caring father as someone who could be good to you/your future children? If I was desperate sure. But I'm not a 40+ single mom, I have options who come with less baggage/clean slate.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 11:47 AM
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A girlfriend recommended wearing fake "hillbilly" costume teeth when traveling alone in a dangerous foreign country. I'm going to try that :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/15 05:10 AM
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OP do we get an update?
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/15 02:23 PM
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Again that depends on what said help would be doing, he probably wouldn't mind a cook or a maid but I'm guessing he'd rather feed and look after her himself than have someone outside the family do it. If OP is unable to cope up with the pressure she should def. get someone to help her with the kids and household duties but it's still up to her FIL to decide who gets to look after his mother.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 05:49 PM
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I don't see how hiring someone to pick up the slack and give the family a few hours off would be considered not living up to your filial duty. OPs father in law may not see it that way, he sounds very traditional to me. Then again it depends on what the hire will be doing and for how long. I'm certain even in Korea families get some sort of help with the dying. Usually extended family.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 04:06 PM
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I bet he doesn't want to be separated from his wife, and wants her to stay at home instead of being put in a facility. That and most asian parents expect their kids to look after them when they get old, it's a way for the kids to repay them back. It's just not the same hiring someone to do that filial duty for you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 03:28 PM
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Hire some help to take care of things at home, a maid, cook or a babysitter? I don't think they'd object to that if it's someone from the community. Makes things easier for the entire family and you'll be able to better look after the grandmother in law
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 02:54 PM
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Have an upvote :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 02:40 PM
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Is there anyone else in your local Korean community who you could talk to about the situation? Preferably someone of the same age as your father in law? This sounds like a better idea OP, try to get someone the family knows.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 02:39 PM
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I don't think the father/grandmother in law would be ok with letting a total stranger bathe her.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 02:38 PM
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This might help weed out the ones who just want to sleep with you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UXtG3htUreQ
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 05:57 PM
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If you always choose the thing, you are always prioritizing your life over your relationships because they are "too new", and thus never giving them the chance to get "old". I will keep that in mind thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/15 10:35 AM
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At the end of the day, the man is either important to you, or he's not. He is either going to take precedence over all others in your life, or he's not. So when do I make this decision exactly? After the first date or after a year?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/15 04:58 PM
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Why do you need to drop hobbies? He doesn't feel comfortable knowing his gf is surrounded by fit men. I've edited in a thread, might provide more context.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/15 04:30 PM
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https://www.pinterest.com/VintageGirlGame/
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/15 05:35 AM
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Forget about this "girl it's only 2 weeks" bullshit advice, show your devotion to the relationship, and make plans to travel places together. Pick on: travel with your girlfriends or have a relationship (and travel with your SO). And if he doesn't like travelling?
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/15 03:03 PM
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It took a lot of growing up to come to terms with the idea that maybe it wasn't marriage that was the issue, but the people getting married. What helped? Honestly, marriage still seems like a terrifying prospect for me. Getting tied down with the wrong person and all that
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 03:00 AM
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sure you had .ng at the end and not .com ?
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 03:44 PM
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works just fine, what seems to be the problem exactly
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/15 01:15 PM
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Might want to read No More Mr. Nice Guy
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 04:30 AM
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Work on being more mindful. Meditation helps. You might want to try http://mindhacki.ng/
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/15 06:25 PM
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What would a moderate count be?
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/15 12:47 PM
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30 is way too old even by indian standards. Parents get them married by 25 tops
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 06:31 AM
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Low partner count
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/15 02:42 AM
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OP mentioned his mom was hot edit: I find it a bit strange she stayed a spinster for so long
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 01:31 AM
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My mom was 30, she knew her time was coming, and they married her off. Don't they get girls married off young?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 12:36 AM
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Glad it worked out in the end OP :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/15 03:19 AM
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It didn't seem ban worthy bad
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/15 03:18 AM
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It's not rowing. OP has to choose between BF (who might not even stick around for that long) and old friends with whom she's trained and sweat blood with.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/15 11:22 AM
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Do you want to be doxxed?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 04:02 AM
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So basically you're a cafeteria catholic.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 07:09 PM
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When, of your positions, it seems to you that his is completely wrong, for the two of you, even for the kids, maybe, still keep trusting his clearness of mind. This may seem to be an unbearable effort. You will be afraid, because abandoning your beliefs is scary. But you’re not jumping into the void, you’re jumping into his arms. Good read, thanks for the link :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/15 08:35 PM
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