raju1462 Archive

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1	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. You cant be farther from truth but if it helps you cope better by assuming anyone who is repulsed by Casual sex is insecure and inadequate, I say go for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 01:03 PM
11	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. Nope. I can judge people the same way they can judge me for my views. You have the right to live your life however you want but you are not entitled to my respect, politeness or indifference to your actions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 12:41 PM
7	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. Not if they disagree with me but if they engage in acts I consider reprehensible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 12:30 PM
7	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. Hard pass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 12:20 PM
3	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. I don't have to think about that. I have been down that road... 😂 Thankfully, I quit it completely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 12:00 PM
11	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. I do agree the chances of that happening is near zero but we can reduce the chances by having some stigma around casual sex. By not treating it as if it's perfectly fine or even empowering. Remove any stigma around not being okay with it or even disgusted by it. Like calling men insecure for not wanting a girl with high body count. You have the right to act however you want and I have the right to be disgusted by it. Don't normalize it through media. This might be controversial but that is what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 11:58 AM
3	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. 1) Women weren't okay with the double standard where men didn't have as much stigma for sleeping around as women did. Their solution? Let us be as degenerate as them instead of making it taboo for men as well. 😂 Not a hyperbole. In a world where Casual sex isn't seen as neutral or good and monogamy is enforced (both legally and culturally), you will have less single moms because you won't fuck a guy until you have vetted him enough. Same goes for men. They won't fuck women unless they want to wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 11:50 AM
3	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. Is it possible that once a girl has sex with her lover and later breaks up, she engages in Casual Sex because she now likes sex and wants to enjoy? Yes. But not always though. It's a case by case basis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 11:36 AM
6	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. Yeah, in rural areas it is a decent chance. Personally, I don't care much about Virginity. It's Casual Sex I don't like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 11:25 AM
12	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. Only those who grew up in conservative families and hold conservative values. In India, you still have chance. Still Low chance 😂😂.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 10:53 AM
5	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. We gave that a good try for several millenia, didn't work for us, fought hard to escape from it. What makes you think that didn't work? It has worked good. And with the rise in the Casual sex, all we are seeing is rise post-wall women with 80 Cats, Broken Families, Incels. It's all going to shit. They think that if they are beginning to fall in love, sex will make them fall harder. And it's usually the ones who say Casual Sex is no big deal and you can have sex without feelings. If he's not that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 10:45 AM
1	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. I unironically & wholeheartedly agree. Men & Women should both stop having Casual Sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 10:38 AM
4	It’s simp behavior for both men and women to take back a cheating spouse You should forgive & forget, only because it might consume you with hatred. But never ever take back a cheater. Whether they cheat again or not is secondary. They disrespected you enough to cheat on you is sufficient reason to never give them a second chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 05:17 AM
5	It’s simp behavior for both men and women to take back a cheating spouse Partner who got cheated on is more desirable so they're out there and cheater is melting down. 😂😂😂 So much karmic schadenfreude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 05:14 AM
4	A handy guide to attractiveness levels as a man It's the opposite, the more attractive you are, higher your chances of Casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 05:56 PM
2	The idea that it is suddenly common for women to have body counts in the 20+ range by the time they settle down is greatly exaggerated if not altogether a myth, most women have less than 10 sexual partners in their lifetime. You left out multiple other possible scenarios for single women They are all rare cases and many of what you say simply are repeats. Like conservative, religious etc. all usually overlap with those who don't engage in Casual Sex. I have updated the comment to reflect that's usually the case. I’m not sure why this is such a foreign concept to so many. The concept isn't foreign. It's believability. It is extremely easy for a woman to rack-up bodies. It is pretty much encouraged as empowering & to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 05:41 PM
0	The idea that it is suddenly common for women to have body counts in the 20+ range by the time they settle down is greatly exaggerated if not altogether a myth, most women have less than 10 sexual partners in their lifetime. The Average is probably lower and under 10 because of women who don't engage in Casual Sex. For a women who engages in Casual Sex and has sex with 1 new guy each quarter will still rack up 10+ in 3 years of her single life. A girl who starts dating at 16 will be, USUALLY, one of the three at 25: Someone who has been only in serious LTRs and not engaged in Casual Sex. Her number will be low or a Virgin. Someone who has been in Casual Sex. Assuming she was single for even 3 years of those 8 years …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 05:16 PM
2	What quality did you want in a partner until you experienced it? Only when it seems "Preferences changed" is being used as an excuse priorities change. And that is what usually happens. If a woman says "I didn't like Moustache but I met my husband who had a moustache which I didn't like at first but came to appreciate it", nobody is gonna claim that she settled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 12:08 PM
1	What quality did you want in a partner until you experienced it? 😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 12:04 PM
3	What quality did you want in a partner until you experienced it? I guess, in terms of SMV, she did date up. And from that perspective, you can say it is Hypergamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 12:03 PM
0	What quality did you want in a partner until you experienced it? Nope. They call settling when a girl is getting with a guy she isn't clearly interested in. This is getting with a guy she is interested in but has some traits she doesn't like. Huge difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 06:25 AM
1	What quality did you want in a partner until you experienced it? Nobody calls that settling. You vastly misunderstand the term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 04:54 AM
3	What quality did you want in a partner until you experienced it? Hypergamy is defined as dating above her league in terms of social status. This is more about how you can't negotiate genuine desire and tingles matter a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 04:51 AM
6	The women that “Bad boys” pick up are also low quality like he is ; So we have a girl who fucked the bad boys through out her 20s and then settles with a beta who provides for her and simps for her. We have the beta who barely, if any, got laid and now maybe gets some pity sex which is conditional upon providing for her. And you want me to feel bad for her? Sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 04:08 AM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Me: RP doesn't place the blame solely on men. You: I see misogyny is basically the only thing that works to get men to pay attention. Hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 07:33 PM
3	I noticed a lot of guys are obsessing over something sexual. Not lying, I audibly loled when I read this. Yeah, all of that is good but unless she finds you physically attractive, you are not gonna jump transition from friend to lover.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 07:03 PM
3	People who were bitter but eventually found love, what was the beginning of you losing that bitterness? I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:57 PM
11	People who were bitter but eventually found love, what was the beginning of you losing that bitterness? WTF.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:24 PM
12	People who were bitter but eventually found love, what was the beginning of you losing that bitterness? whatever they are doing, works for them. Being born with a vagina. Always works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:23 PM
4	The women that “Bad boys” pick up are also low quality like he is ; She also has desperate simps wishing they can be date her. And that negates all those low qualities she has. Just like the "bad boys" that get laid as much as they want, she can get laid as much as she wants and also tie down a decent guy/simp who can provide for her. While from a utility perspective or character perspective, she is a low value women, She is still a HVW when it comes to the demand she has. While you don't need sex to survive, if you are not an asexual, it is something pretty muc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 04:57 PM
2	should society support or shame dumping good partner for a better one? Should always be shamed. You are not only causing pain and hurt to the good partner, you are essentially sending the message the "S/he isn't yours, it's just your turn" idea and that isn't good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 11:28 AM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Not really. The blame is on the men from BP and by default they are assumed they are incels. All the advice BP gives is improve yourself and get game but the game they suggest is "Be nice, have a good personality and the right woman will find you" or something like that. Not an ounce of blame on women who have ridiculous standards. RP on the other hand doesn't place the blame solely on the man, isn't condescending to him, helps him understand the dating market, how to optimize his chances and wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 03:50 AM
2	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Wrong. Overly focusing on women, giving them preferential treatment while ignoring me is in direct conflict with men's fulfillment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 03:45 AM
12	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection They don't need to because there isn't backlash for that yet. Many blue pilled men unironically support calling men insecure for every thing under the sky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 03:36 AM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection That's the default response to avoid acknowledging that dating market is indeed rigged against men. It's no different than a self-made millionaire telling poor people to pull themselves up. While true that he is a self-made millionaire, the assumption that others are poor because they are lazy is just delusional. Host of external factors matter as much how hardworking and skilled you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 03:32 AM
5	The notion of "unconditional love" Spot on and something I have never been able to articulate in a way it can be easily understood. But using Implicit and explicit conditions makes it easy. No such thing as unconditional love (except between a parent and a child or maybe siblings) but the type of conditions are completely different. A condition that I love her for who she is and as long as she loves me is far far different than I love how he takes care of me, provides for me, is highly successful, well educated etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 10:53 AM
3	The notion of "unconditional love" 😂😂 Women on this sub have talked about how a guy becomes more attractive if he is financially successful and how men are not supposed to be disappointed about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 10:49 AM
2	Does anyone else get screwed over in logical debates in other threads for being in this sub? Anyone who does that is not worth arguing over. Some people have done this to me and I just don't care.	/r/MensRights	30/03/22 07:17 PM
137	Women are having less sex than Men (as of 2021) Bloody hell, 53 people sample. Might as well have asked 1 guy and 1 girl and declared the result.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 10:34 AM
1	The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern society I would have considered him a chivalrous man for defending his wife if he hasn't showed himself to be a spineless cuck and it wasn't an event where hosts making fun of audience is expected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 04:45 PM
1	Transgender men are our greatest source to confirm what cis-men already knew about dating as a man Sarcasm is not civil?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 02:05 PM
1	Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP? Cool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 11:43 AM
5	Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP? Among many other things. To simplify TRP as just self-improvement is just plain wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 11:11 AM
0	Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting married So the Hollywood who claim and pretend to be progressive decided not to pretend while on a live televised event seen by millions and embrace patriarchal violence? Sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 08:51 AM
1	CMV: you do not need to appeal to ALL women. You only need to appeal to ENOUGH women so that you are never involuntarily celibate. This has the same energy as "If 99.99% women find me ugly, that still means 35 Million women find me good looking." LMAO. Yes, pretty much every man is attractive to 1000s of women if he gets to meet all the women. But that is not the case. In IRL, the social circle is limited and an average interacts with maybe a few dozen women. In online, while he can interact with more, the chads are also available as a direct competition and get all the matches. And add to it other factors like your financi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 05:56 AM
7	Transgender men are our greatest source to confirm what cis-men already knew about dating as a man And switch from low difficulty to high difficulty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 05:31 AM
4	Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting married Irrelevant if he is a closet conservative. He pretends to be a progressive. That's the only reason he isn't being booed by the progressive wokes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 05:25 AM
0	Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting married In progressive world, the last thing you should expect is consistency. Yes it is Chivalry and male violence but since it involves him simping for a woman suffering from a balding condition, it is acceptable. Do you think most of the Hollywood is conservative? They are progressive and what did they do? Give him a standing ovation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 05:24 AM
1	Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting married I am sure he is fucking and sleeping around as well but that still doesn't change the fact that she walks over him all the time and he takes it like the cuck he is. I can understand not divorcing for financial reasons but being a white knight for a cheating whore? Next level cuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 05:20 AM
12	Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP? No, we needed the pill to know things like hypergamy, af/bb etc are as not rare we are made to believe. And how many women actually don't see anything wrong with them. The expectation before TRP was that even women wouldn't like the concept of settling down or dual-mating. And then I see them downplay it over and over again. Both here and on any other internet space apart from TRP. Yes, we also knew not all women are perfect and everyone has flaws. We didn't know those flaws are as prevalent or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 05:06 AM
3	Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP? Yeah... That is not what TRP teaches though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 04:54 AM
83	Transgender men are our greatest source to confirm what cis-men already knew about dating as a man Just have a woman pretend to be a guy on tinder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 09:37 PM
6	Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them . Lets see the usual characteristics of a post wall CCd woman: She will say shit like "Where are all the good men?" when she was the one was busy riding the cc and not looking for good men. Even after wall, she won't go for good men but financially well beta men. She will whine that men her age are going after younger women and call them creepy. They settle for beta providers manipulating them into thinking that she loves them but in reality just use them. Calling men insecure if they don't date w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 07:03 AM
3	Getting a hobby to attract women is terrible advice I am guessing this is in response to that post about having long-term goals and being passionate. Irony is the guy she used as an example, probably had a long term goal since he was going to college and had video games as hobby. She on the other hand only had hobbies: Cooking, Politics and 2 other things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 06:40 AM
5	If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you. My main point is that you shouldn’t waste your life and not have a purpose. But take a look at your post and it's title. Your point is simply about how women don't find that attractive. People stated the obvious that attractive guys can get away with it and I said of course but usually not for long. But according to your own logic, people aren't attractive to women if they aren't passionate or have long term goals. So how are they getting laid?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 03:52 AM
5	If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you. Why do you keep switching the point? You went from "You won't be attractive if you don't do this" to "Why are you wasting your life" to "Such a shallow way of life". Why don't you answer the question? You mentioned the chads can get women. How? By your logic, they aren't attractive to women, they don't have any passion or long term goals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 03:21 AM
2	Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it? Yes, we can agree on the preferences change part. Likewise. I didn't consider the fear of bad impression as a point when making my earlier arguments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 03:44 PM
1	Unconditional love doesn't exist I wouldn't say unconditional love does exist but with time when two people spend years together, there is a decent chance of near unconditional love. There are people who are willing to sacrifice a lot for their loved ones and will forgive a lot of horrible things their loved ones have done. Not everything. There are limits but people can go to extreme lengths for their loved ones. Even when they go NC from them and never see them, there is some love somewhere. They still aren't indifferent. To …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 03:15 PM
3	Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it? Eh, FWB, ONS.. It's all Casual Sex. I just wanted to use an acronym like GF. Let's see. I didn't want to get into the idea that they are deciding to wait due to consequences because feelings don't care about consequences but if you are saying that women are deciding on whether they should sleep or not based on potential consequences, we can do that as well. Before that, I will admit that if she wants to fuck him but is holding out to make a good impression, there isn't a double standard. She isn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 02:58 PM
5	Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it? I thought so too. But I have seen quite a few real life examples and many a times observed, in many online spaces related to dating, that this is not considered as something bad or wrong. Hell, you could ask in r/askwomen and I am sure they will say, it's not a big deal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 02:35 PM
8	Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it? No, I don't think all women are like that. And if they have indeed really changed into someone who no longer is okay with Casual Sex but values intimacy, that is understandable and reasonable. It's about whether her preference has changed or her priorities have changed. Preference changing from enjoying casual sex to valuing intimacy is good. But like you mentioned in your other motorbike analogy, if she has a casual ONS with some guy today, meets a new date next weekend but doesn't fuck him on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 01:51 PM
2	Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it? Your analogies don't work because A) you are comparing a human to an object and B) there is no parallel. I am not sure how to properly explain but let me try by drawing the parallel for your motorbike analogy: I can go on tinder for FWB and get FWB. I can go on a date for GF and get GF. but going on date for a GF and getting a GF then being angry she isn't a FWB isn't the fault of FWB. Yeah agreed. But that is in no way a parallel to the situation we are describing. I am not angry at my FWB beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 01:12 PM
4	Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it? That is a double standard because your standards for fucking the guys is different. It is irrelevant, what the end goal is. Just sex or a LTR. Not a good analogy, let me provide a better one. it's like if you get mad that he doesn't spend money on you but he did it for other girls and says "I just want to make sure you are not using me for money."	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 12:37 PM
1	Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinity Every "masculine" trait that we've talked about has women that also share it. There are women fighting in Ukraine, female firefighters and security guards, female felons, women who refuse to accept help so aa not the appear "weak". Those women are called brave and empowered. In any situation btw. At office a woman says she doesn't need a man's help and she isn't weak? She is empowered and brave. A man says the same and it's toxic masculinity. But why do they love dominant alpha males? Usually RP…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 12:21 PM
4	Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it? Would you still think that you only needed to put in as much effort as the ONS did to get sex even when she’s clear she’s looking for relationships? Yes. Part of relationship is sex. For sex part of the relationship, we expect that we shouldn't need to put more effort than anyone else did. You can wait for other things like exclusivity, introducing to your socials/parents, moving in etc etc which are all part of relationship. But for sex, if we are made to wait and prove ourselves but some guy y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 10:44 AM
29	Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it? The standards aren't an issue, the double standards are. You fuck a guy you met in a bar 2 hours ago because you find him attractive and don't mind having casual sex with him but when you want to settle down, you need the guy to prove himself to you that he is worth it before sleeping with him? You can use whatever mental gymnastics to justify it, it is a double standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 10:40 AM
6	The rise of cuck culture and how it impacted dating. Sluts are idealized under the pretense that having sex with several men makes a woman better at sex than if she had lots of sex with a single man. They also call it exploring. LMAO. Go explore the wilderness, not different types of cocks. People are attacked for not wanting to date/have sex with promiscuous people even if they are inexperienced/virgins. This is absolutely intentional and manipulative. They know promiscuity isnt attractive, so they resort to shaming those who don't want promiscuo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 08:53 AM
16	most people who try to debunk red/blackpiller's statements on reddit arent good at debunking I'm not saying that redpillers are right about rape or pedophilia This make it sound like TRP advocates Rape or Pedophilia. Let me guess, "Women like rough sex" is them advocating for that?. We don't. Some women on another thread made the same argument to me. When I asked what makes her think TRP thinks women want to be abused & raped, her response was TRP says "Women like rough sex" so TRP thinks women want to be raped/abused. The others were equally stupid. They seriously either misunderstand …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 08:46 AM
7	most people who try to debunk red/blackpiller's statements on reddit arent good at debunking This is absolute bs. You don't even understand Hypergamy. No wonder you think TRP is from bitter divorced men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 08:39 AM
18	If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you. If you are 5’6 and a chubby data scientist, why would you want to waste your life away just because chads are doing that? Because chads are getting laid while wasting their lives and yet somehow you think they aren't even attractive to women? BTW why did you switch your point from "You won't be attractive to women if you are not passionate" to "Why are you wasting your life?". I see in all your responses. You are basically preaching them to be productive (I agree btw) which is irrelevant to your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 08:24 AM
15	If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you. Going to college implies they have a plan. Video game is their hobby just like your hobbies. Also, you only mentioned you hobbies. Not your long terms goals. Assuming you have none, because you would mention them if you had, you find guys who have a long term goals and hobby of video games as lower than you? LOL. Why should I settle for someone who does nothing for their life but waste it away? I would say a guy who wakes up, goes to college, returns home, play video games is being as productive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 08:14 AM
34	If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you. And also, I didn’t say good looking men without passion CANT get women. When you say "You can't expect women to be attracted to you if you don't have long terms goals and passionate", the obvious implication is that men who are not passionate and have no long term goals are not being attractive to women. So how are they getting women by your logic? They aren't attractive, no long term goals, not passionate and yet get laid. LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 08:12 AM
1	Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinity So a rapist is an extreme example of "toxic masculinity". What about a female rapist then? She is also an example of toxic masculinity? "Women love Dark Triad traits" "Women love criminals and bad boys" Doesn't imply that we think women love being abused or raped. hybristophilia. And the implication is that women love dominant alpha males which is usually these criminal bad boys. "Women don't find asking for consent sexy" Nobody does that. That is true. Asking it explicitly is an instant turn of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 07:47 AM
2	Intelligence and personality matter A LOT Do you intentionally conflate things? I said "Not Physically attractive". How did you arrive at "Not deformed" from that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 07:32 AM
1	Intelligence and personality matter A LOT Nope and Nope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 07:31 AM
1	Intelligence and personality matter A LOT Nope. Not everybody settles and there are many who don't get settled for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 06:33 AM
1	Intelligence and personality matter A LOT One girl showed up, and she just called me a mysoginist. Well, you did mansplain to her. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 06:31 AM
1	Intelligence and personality matter A LOT Not more than looks. No amount of wit or intelligence is going to compensate for that if she doesn't find attractive physically. Physical attractive to her and being decent at talking her up is the minimum threshold. Once that happens, your intelligence & wit will influence if you become a ONS, FWB or LTR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 06:30 AM
1	Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinity given they aren't inherently oppressive or extreme. Wanting to be with a someone who will be a Stay at home wife is neither oppressive nor extreme. Won't stop feminists from claiming it is though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 06:12 AM
1	Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinity Usually "toxic" is used to describe traits that are harmful to the people interacting with the person who has the trait. Usually? Yes. In the context of masculinity? No. A rapist has traits that are harmful to people. That isn't usually considered as Toxic Masculinity. A man not seeking help because he feels it is feminine harms himself first. That is Toxic Masculinity. Sure, you can argue that it will later harm others when he turns into a full on incel because of bottled up feelings but the fi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 06:11 AM
0	Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinity Men are more than willing to fulfill their traditional gender roles if women will do so. But then, that is oppressive and sexist. He is a toxic man who wants his wife shackled in the kitchen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 03:40 AM
1	Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinity If Red Pill were right and women want toxic masculine men to abuse and terrorize them Seems you are the one conflating toxic-masculinity to abuse & Violence. Toxic masculinity are those traits which are harmful to men. The victims of abusive men aren't themselves. So how is that Toxic Masculinity? You know what is Toxic Masculinity? Things like manning up and fighting, not accepting help when offered, wanting to be Stoic, avoiding an appearance of weakness etc. The things Zelensky is doing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 03:37 AM
1	Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinity I loved that segment. And he is right. Woman can say all they want about how much they love men who are in touch with their femininity and wear Skirts, masculine men will never go out of fashion. Also, a significant factor for their love for Zelensky is the hatred for Putin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 03:29 AM
3	Is it possible that women are not straightforward about their sexuality because they are afraid of a possible male backlash? People cheat out of frustration, boredom, and entitlement. Occasionally those cheaters create an unplanned pregnancy. That is why I said "Often" and not always. If the OP isn’t satire, you must all believe that women track their ovulation and willfully scout the neighboring region for a man who is the physical genetic opposite of the man she married. Or they just have an affair with the alpha while married to the beta. During the affair, get pregnant and instead of aborting, you push it onto the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 01:40 PM
1	What do you think of this behavior? Yes. My point was that while they didn't agree to be exclusive & serious, she lied to him that she only sleeps with men she is committed to. He is not expecting her to act as if they are serious. He is expecting her to act the way she said she would when not serious i.e not sleeping around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:46 AM
2	What do you think of this behavior? True. The first five (or maybe seven) bullet points made it clear that its an instant red flag. By extending it so much, OP made it seem convoluted and unrealistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:31 AM
1	What do you think of this behavior? 2nd point, until they agreed they wanted to start something serious, why would they act as if they were in something serious? They don't need to. He should expect her to act as if it's not serious with him. And since she is seeing him casually, he should also expect that she is not serious with anyone else. And by her own admission, she doesn't sleep with men without being serious. So why did she act as if she is serious with other men? IF he asked her if she was already behaving monogamously an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:26 AM
5	What do you think of this behavior? I've trained my entire life to play hard to get and that the more chaste a woman is, the more respectful and desired she is, so I will use every weapon at my disposal to ensure this hubby material So women are manipulators who will lie to get what they want while fooling the guy into thinking she is someone she really isn't. I mean agree to an extent but that's not the gotcha you think it is. If this is what you want men to understand about women, I fully agree. LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:22 AM
4	What do you think of this behavior? While this does happen, it's not as bad as presented here (except in rare cases). However, the 1st five bullet points seem to be common occurrence. I have observed this in real life and was advocated in relationship forums by women themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:20 AM
5	Is it possible that women are not straightforward about their sexuality because they are afraid of a possible male backlash? They aren't mutually exclusive. A woman who wants an Alpha to fuck & have kids with but a Beta to raise the child, will resort to lying/manipulating to commit Paternity Fraud. Otherwise, she would just divorce/breakup and go live with the guy she had a kid with. She doesn't because she wants the beta to raise the child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:11 AM
7	Why do men ask "What do you have to offer?" to average women in a condescending way, when they seem to covet and be desperate for the attention of average women? The one who are desperate for attention from an average women aren't the one asking "What do you have to offer?". The overlap is extremely narrow. And that is asked when her tinder bio has a listicle of all her requirements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:01 AM
11	Is it possible that women are not straightforward about their sexuality because they are afraid of a possible male backlash? Imagine if women were more honest about the 80/20 rule, the AF/BB strategy etc. What backlash would be there except they will be very careful to avoid being the BB? That is not a backlash. All it does is women will now have low chance of successfully manipulating men for being a provider. That's why they aren't honest and justify it with "My Priorities have changed" or "I like your personality" bs. Do you think they are consciously afraid of a possible retaliation from men becoming hostile and e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 07:52 AM
5	Questions for those who MGTOW / WGTOW I am not sure if I strictly fit the MGTOW bill because I am asexual but I have been part of that community and my friend is an MGTOW. So here's my thoughts based on what I learned from the groups & my friend: A) This is not a straight answer. No Straight guy wants to go MGTOW but they do so because they realized that the game is rigged (not just the dating but the govt and law as well) or got burned badly. Maybe someone got divorce-raped (My Friend). Someone who saw his best friend got divorce-r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 05:15 AM
2	How much responsibility does a man have in protecting a woman and vice versa? As much as protecting another man. Nothing. None. If anything, if you are smart, you should be very cautious while helping a woman than a man. If accused of a sexual assault falsely by them, you will have a much harder time if it's a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 09:39 AM
2	How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then men So…how do you rationalize these two thought processes? There is no law that says the one who is better is valued. It happens more than you think that an underqualified guy gets a promotion over someone qualified. Or 2 people are equally qualified but only one gets the appreciation. Are men valuable to society and the world or not? Yes. They are. But the world & society doesn't recognize that. At-least not as much women. Men are undervalued and women are overvalued. Does the world/society need me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 12:11 AM
0	Barney Stinson(HIMYM) and Howard Wolowitz(TBBT) are an example of how certain men are seen by women and society. Okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 02:03 PM
-1	Barney Stinson(HIMYM) and Howard Wolowitz(TBBT) are an example of how certain men are seen by women and society. Sorry buddy. Nobody got time to run a study/survey about how many men think Howard is creepy and Barney is charming. I have observed it over and over on multiple forums and spaces. If you don't agree, I don't care. If you believe audience perceives them as equally creepy or equally charismatic, good for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 03:15 AM
0	Barney Stinson(HIMYM) and Howard Wolowitz(TBBT) are an example of how certain men are seen by women and society. There is this thing called internet. There we have groups and fandoms where discussions of TV Characters usually happen. The vast majority of people do consider Howard as creepy while Barney isn't considered as much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 02:57 AM
1	Barney Stinson(HIMYM) and Howard Wolowitz(TBBT) are an example of how certain men are seen by women and society. I think rejection makes one desperate leading to them to engage in acts that are "creepy" which only leads to more rejection. It's a vicious circle and only solution is rule 1: Be attractive. Howard was creepy and wouldn't take no for an answer from Penny. Sometimes I think he was just joking but other times, he was not. He did improve a lot as soon as he found acceptance from Bernadette. I haven't seen HIMYM so can't comment but from the clips I have seen, Barney was no less creepy but way unre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 02:55 AM
-1	Barney Stinson(HIMYM) and Howard Wolowitz(TBBT) are an example of how certain men are seen by women and society. Based on how audience perceives 2 characters on 2 different shows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 02:49 AM
1	Men’s worship of women is a MAJOR problem in dating, and it goes well beyond social media likes and can honestly be seen in every facet of human interaction Simps and White Knights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 02:43 AM
3	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value But we aren't saying that. We are saying sleeping around and being a slut lower's an individual's value. Man or woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 02:42 AM
8	The whole “Chad” thing is extremely overblown, women consistently get with men less attractive than them Such a thing doesn’t happen in a culture where casual sex is shamed. I swear. I have been in both progressive (not as much as west) and highly conservative places in my country. The more accepting the culture is of Casual Sex, the more frequent it is. The only thing that's stopping them is the shame associated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 01:43 PM
1	The whole “Chad” thing is extremely overblown, women consistently get with men less attractive than them Girls may lust after certain idyllic prototypes but rarely if ever do I see attractive women with equally attractive guys. Doesn't mean that the girl lusts after the guy she is with. As for everything in 3rd & 4th para, Women are dumping really good looking guys over trivial bs and ending up with average looking guys? Except in case of AF/BB, that is very infrequent. I know better, I’m interested in facts and being honest about what I see. Sure. Look up Chadfishing. You will get all your facts. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 01:27 PM
0	There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want to Brutal but honest facts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 09:04 AM
7	There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want to Why do guys get to fuck sluts with literally no backlash, but when girls do it they get shamed? Men are also shamed but that shame is usually accompanied by sorta respect for being able to sleep around. That requires skill & talent or insane physical attractiveness. The Standards men have for women are far lower and as such she doesn't need to do anything to sleep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 09:04 AM
7	There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want to I mean sure, why wouldn't they optimize their benefits. They get to sleep around and then feel empowered about it as well. And then they find a guy who might be repulsed by the count, if he ever finds out, and then she can say that he is insecure and if married, his options are either to accept it or to divorce & lose custody of the child as well as pay alimony. I’ve also heard that the pair bonding studies on women are actually pseudoscience and not really backed up as real. Not really. Seems l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 09:01 AM
3	Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ? It's still the same. Hoes are unattractive. Man or woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 01:49 PM
8	Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ? No. That is just some bs excuse for justifying being a hoe and some men agree because they hope they can get laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 01:48 PM
2	USA: Starbucks barista wrote secret message on cup for a girl, 18, who was (apparently) being pestered by stranger. OP: And they wonder why men do not talk to women anymore! Next time you call someone a rapist, have the guts to actually let them respond. Why did you delete your comment where you called me a predator? Felt like a moron because you made such heinous accusations simply over an internet disagreement? so sexist for not siding with a man in a mans right sub. You are sexist because you defend woman who judge men for no reason and then you call people who disagree with you as predators. I feel so bad for any woman in your life The women in my life don't go …	/r/MensRights	22/02/22 07:59 PM