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I do and I look mid/early thirties, I'm not athletic but I'm in shape/not the dad bod.
/r/seduction12/06/19 01:28 AM
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44 and haven't been with a girl over 30 in the last 3 years. 20 something guys are less independent than we were.You'd surprised how much value there is in living alone and having a vehicle. There's a type that likes older men , learn how to spot them. Don't have any expectations, beautiful women attract beautiful women, go somewhere with younger attractive women just to have fun, if you don't hit it off with them, you'll attract the interest of others. It also improves your reputation if there …
/r/seduction12/06/19 12:43 AM
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You have to be honest about your intent. Having a large penis helps too. But really I'm just upfront about what I want and I bring to the table. Having a lot of female friends helps too, a lot of the game is being in the right place at the right time. Most of my friends are attractive females, am I sleeping with all of them...NO, do other women think I must have something special going on because they always see me with women that are "out of my league" yes.
/r/seduction10/02/19 05:20 PM
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Are you twitchy? Like butters from south park, jerky movements from nervousness, slow then rapid fire speech, changes in speech volume(also because you're nervous) , darting eyes because eye contact makes you nervous. Slow it down, hold eye contact SLIGHTLY longer, slow your movements, slow your speech, be attentive to everyone's speaking volume go just a bit softer/lower.
/r/seduction12/11/18 01:35 AM
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download a text free app and text "hey brittany this is stepanie I was wondering if you still had the dress for sale?" You'll be able to talk her out of her name.
/r/seduction07/11/18 12:55 AM
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I don't know, but it works , so I'm sticking with my formula. But really most of the time they also feel that's it not right, or have some guilt over it, so they identify with that statement because it echos what they feel.
/r/seduction28/08/18 12:45 AM
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I don't ghost anyone, but I am honest. I get fuck buddies from that honesty. "We have great sexual chemistry, but we're not that compatible outside of the bedroom and you deserve someone who appreciates all of what you offer. I don't feel like it's right to keep having sex just because it's enjoyable." Bam FWB for life.
/r/seduction06/08/18 01:58 PM
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I'll go after after both, unless the other guy didn't know there was an existing relationship. I won't let another man disrespect me in my home or relationship and I'll make sure there are visible consequences just in case anyone else thinks that it's ever a good idea to cross me. It's not about game,it's not about the woman, it's about being a fucking man. If you let someone fuck your girl and leave it unchecked, it's an invitation to be disrespected in a multitude of other ways.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 06:47 PM
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Would you like go eat tacos on Friday talk about it some more?
/r/seduction27/05/18 05:27 AM
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No. I'll preface this by saying I might have a touch of sex addiction. Sex is sex, if it feels good and you enjoyed it...go for it. I have women of varying body types and age ranges. There's a bigger girl, not all that hot but she takes cock like a fucking champ and nothing is off limits with her. I have no shame in knowing that when these other guys are not getting laid or jerking off in the bathroom, that I have pussy waiting in the wings. They can crack all the jokes they want but I have what…
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:46 PM
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yep, 42, 1 year divorced haven't banged anyone under 30 in the last year. Currently have a 23 year old GF.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 12:25 AM
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No one likes truth, I took a girl home this week partially with truth. Douche bro starts hitting on said girl, it wasn't date just out in a group. He actually says "Look at the two of us and tell me I'm not better looking than this dude(pointing at me)" I played it cool and just laughed, he repeated himself and in a non aggressive casual way I looked over and said "I think he's right, better looking but so insecure" then I kissed her.
/r/seduction20/01/17 01:38 AM
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Of broken hearts and dead heroes- Kurt Vonnegut Breakfasting with champions Sound nutrition for a growing girl Delicious, too. Damn near perfection. Cat in my cradle sharp claws and foreboding meows prophetically scratching out neural canals filled with songs of the way it goes. ‘Charm’s a scheme’ – opus in D Major ‘Maturity a bitter disappointment’ – e minor fugue and ‘The purpose of a human life, no matter who’s controlling it is to love whoever’s around to be loved’ – Symphony in C Songs to p…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 06:36 PM
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Confidence and remember initially it makes you less threatening so it's easier to approach because they're not on guard against the big scary rapist dude
/r/seduction28/08/16 02:24 PM
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for future reference they all do penetration....for more money.
/r/seduction28/08/16 02:21 PM
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As a 40 year old guy on a run of mid 20's &30's it's great for me because I still know how to talk to and give my undivided attention to a woman. I don't think that's a thing anymore.
/r/seduction06/08/16 11:34 PM
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Maybe that's part of the attraction for her, you're not like the other guys. Don't try to be something else. Maybe she's looking for something different than the usual offerings.
/r/seduction24/07/16 04:46 PM
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Jumping in the middle of someone's domestic dispute usually doesn't end well http://www.abcfoxmontana.com/story/29016400/shooting-victims-relationships-explained
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 03:33 AM
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off topic , but it's usually a quick and easy surgery. http://www.carecredit.com/ can help you finance elective surgeries
/r/seduction26/04/16 01:43 PM
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"Are you from here?" This opens a lot of doors , if she is you can follow with where's a good place to eat/buy a book/have a drink/go hiking....We should go there sometime,what are you doing in Friday? If she's not , I've been meaning to check out ___________ how would you like to come with me on Friday.
/r/seduction16/01/16 02:45 PM
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good posture
/r/seduction13/01/16 12:35 AM
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in a heartbeat
/r/askTRP10/01/16 05:37 PM
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Me too, they put my grandparents generation in prison camps because they thought all Japanese were religious fanatics who were only loyal to the emperor of japan. Families like mine had actually had their wealth confiscated in the late 1800s and didn't care for the Japanese govt at all. When given the chance to prove it my grandfather and the rest of the 442nd went to Europe and walked out as one the most highly decorated units in WWII. I'm guessing the Syrian guy who's kids were killed by isis …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 02:50 AM
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no
/r/seduction11/10/15 11:03 PM
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That he who asks first, reaps the rewards. Fortune favors the bold, the guys who are banging girls out of their league are doing it because they went for it.
/r/seduction27/09/15 05:11 PM
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......... " So I was reading this great book the other night and there's this passage where _x does does x and it reminds of you/this situation/that guy /girl over there. Don't you love it when that happens" "isn't it funny how all the suits/chads/girls weaing black dresses congregate around the punchbowl/whatever, physics teaches that like particles are attracted to each other. I guess that principle must hold true for people too" In other words make the things that you're passionate about rele…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 11:04 AM
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But these modern dynasties all started with one patriarch who was above average at something. Because of his skill he was able to accumulate more resources than his peers, he used these to give his offspring a head start and they did the same. I'll just use George W Bush as an example... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obadiah_Bush This guy was born in 1797, made some money manufacturing stoves and running off to the goldrush. Not a captain of industry by any stretch of the imagination. But it was…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 04:07 AM
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but copies of some genes will survive I don't care if they know my name, if you think about it in terms of genetic material remaining intact over long periods of time it's pretty amazing. We know that people with blue eyes had a common ancestor at some point. We can't narrow it down to a specific person, but we know that person was able to survive and reproduce.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 04:06 PM
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It takes a man to raise a man. If you abandon your kids because you can't deal with the woman, you're a huge pussy. Kids are your shot @ immortality, I'm invested in getting that package that contains 50% of my genetic material to a point where he can reproduce and gather more resources than you or children can. It's a game of survival , you should play to win.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 03:04 PM
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It will flip the way divorce is viewed on both sides. When women lose their homes and income to other women it will change how women view alimony and divorce plundering. When a man can't pay his bills because another man didn't pay child support , men will have a different opinion of court ordered child support. Nothing will happen overnight
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 03:27 PM
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Pay more attention to the body language, if she only does it with you ....It's directed at you.
/r/seduction04/04/15 04:59 PM
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She competed in judo at the Olympic level, I grew up playing judo. It's co-ed when you're younger and the men and women are pretty evenly matched. Paired against someone within 10-20 lbs of her weight I think she would win. Judo negates a lot your opponent's advantages and uses gravity and their own weight against them.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 04:08 PM
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vitals post op Q15 the first hour
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 12:24 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wr4j2qswac4 pimps up ho's down full documentary
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 11:49 PM
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Be helpful, I'm a dad I just try to treat them like an extra child in a non patronizing ,mentor type of way. Do it right and just like a kid they'll try to gain your approval, works with both sexes. You don't always need to have the bigger , badder persona to lead ,sometimes you need to be smarter and more strategic. Soldiers fight battles based on a general's plan.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 10:37 PM
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That's why you don't date the alpha females. Keep it a level below them and they have the "he could do so much better" mentality.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 08:23 PM
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I've always gone the opposite way and built my own "harem". Not in a sexual way , but having a group of women who are emotionally invested in you can shut down 99% of the bullshit before it becomes a problem. You want the older ladies to think of you like a son or grandson, women your age to think of you like a potential mate or work husband, and the younger ones to see you as a father figure. Find the alpha women and befriend them, never hit on them. If anyone from outside of their clique tries…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 05:13 PM
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That's not feminism, it's a pathological selfishness. The primary drive of any living thing on this planet is to reproduce.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 04:57 PM
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Not always. A lot of these fit model/bodybuilder women are the gf's and wives of body builders. Look at it this way if your life revolves around the gym for socializing and employment do you want the weakest most naive woman there or do you take the strongest from the pack?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:02 PM
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There's more of social taboo so it's the best way to piss off daddy.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 04:13 PM
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depends on how many x's there are before the L on her T-shirt tag. Just because a 2x isn't stretched to the limit doesnt mean she's small.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 09:06 PM
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You won't win, I'm staring at your eyebrows. If I'm navigating a crowd I'm looking over your shoulder behind you.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 05:22 AM
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I think it actually comes from resentment. It's the typical "why is she with an asshole like you?" . They think by acting in the opposite way that they're going to negate your "charm" and win the girl.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 04:22 PM
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Lindsay only had a headshot...bad sign
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 11:53 PM
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or chad's boyfriend was just a little jealous that night.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 01:09 AM
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If hair is your only hang up, fix it. Don't dwell on it do something, transplant or man-weave(hair club for men). If havent seen a doctor do that too, there might be a reason for your hairloss. You could also try going after some older women and use it as an advantage
/r/seduction27/04/12 04:35 AM
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