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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 18 | Another day, another LVM crying and some BS excusesbUt mUH InSeCurE PeNiS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:02 PM |
| 83 | Another day, another LVM crying and some BS excusesWow!! So he’s a loser who cheats and the makes it sound like it’s her fault for being smart and beautiful??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 07:06 AM |
| 170 | I think the Netflix Cuties movie may have just ended my relationship.“Threshold for porn”? 😒 This is pedophilia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:21 AM |
| 10 | Comments so funny saying she is “controlling” meanwhile she has stopped talking to him and does not even want his help or input on healthy insurance for the pregnancy/baby. She walked away and scrote be like sHe iS cOnTrOllInG. No drain scrote, She LEFT.It’s basically pedophilia!!! And I can’t believe people won’t call him out for it and want to accuse of his fiancé of being “controlling”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:17 AM |
| 18 | Comments so funny saying she is “controlling” meanwhile she has stopped talking to him and does not even want his help or input on healthy insurance for the pregnancy/baby. She walked away and scrote be like sHe iS cOnTrOllInG. No drain scrote, She LEFT.So against my better judgement I looked up what “ecchi” means.... I need eye bleach. It’s basically animated child porn. Soooooooo many disgusting images of young anime girls in SCHOOL UNIFORMS!!!!!! And this guy uses them as his wallpaper!!!!!! And he’s effing thirty!!!!! Not to mention he’s still hung up over a girl who friend zoned him. I wonder how he’d feel if the tables were turned and his fiancé went around talking to her friends about his porn addiction (Lord knows she has good reason to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:57 AM |
| 7 | Had a laugh. Thought I’d share.I know. The level of insecurity to go around harassing women for expressing opinions about men is mind boggling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:18 PM |
| 9 | Had a laugh. Thought I’d share.Lol! This just happened to me today. Not the death threat part though. But a guy decided to reply something abusive on a comment I made on FDS. I bet he’d have PMed me too if I hadn’t blocked chat request and PMs on reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:40 AM |
| 19 | there was no need to put other women like that. I guess she just wanted to be all 'look at me, I'm better than you!!1'Jeez!! Yea right let’s all just pretend that men don’t care about looks at all. Let’s enable all the poor short nice guys, who always want to date women waaaay out of their league and like playing the victim card when they get rejected (boohoo!!! She rejected me because me so short!!! Boohoo!!). I’m speaking from personal experience here, back when I was overweight, men treated me like crap. I’d get bullied sometimes and other times it was like I was invisible. I lost a lot of weight recently an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:22 PM |
| 8 | So many LVM examples where do I begin?Not to generalise, but this would happen to me a lot in Australia too. Especially in Brisbane. Rarely in Sydney, but I’d still run into creeps at the train station who’d strike up a conversation asking me where I was from, what languages I spoke and almost always telling me “you don’t look very indian” (like I’m sorry I must have left my Taj Mahal and Bollywood mix tape at home/s). I invested in a pair of noise canceling headphones. I’d always keep them on in public even when I wasn’t listening … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:07 PM |
| 15 | So many LVM examples where do I begin?Oh wow! That’s must be so goddamn frustrating! I remember every second guy I matched with on OLD apps asking me “Soooo... what’s your background?” (They’d try to be subtle instead of outright asking me where I was from; it’s a bit hard to place me). The first few times it didn’t occur to me they wanted to know my ethnicity, so I always assumed they were asking for my research background (My bio mentioned that I worked in science). Once I realised what that question actually meant, I’d unmatch im… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:44 AM |
| 9 | Rich men can still be LV. It isn’t all about money, it’s a disgusting mindset too.Oh wow! This jackass just straight up asked you to pay half for a house to his name????!!!! I’m so sorry he abused you like that. I can never understand the what drives these men to watch their partners struggle and scrimp to provide at a minimum wage job all the while being a financial burden and sitting back watching even when he has piles of money rotting away somewhere. Goddamn leeches! Actually scratch that, it would be an insult to leeches to call these men that. At least leeches are usefu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 22 | Rich men can still be LV. It isn’t all about money, it’s a disgusting mindset too.I read the comments of that post and OP mentioned that she had to sell her dead moms violin to pay for their dogs surgery. She was really broken up about it too. All the while the scrote was comfortably sitting back and watching her go through financial and emotional distress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:13 PM |
| 8 | I have no words. This guy doesn’t want to live with his girlfriend and future baby because the relationship is too “new.” I hope this woman gets out before the baby comes.Yeah. There was another post a few weeks ago about a women with a new born and her husband instead of respecting her space and offering support would keep molesting her (grabbing her boobs, pulling down her pants while she was working, grabbing her butt when she went in for a hug etc). The guy was clearly sexually assaulting her but she was still discussing it as though it was a boundary issue. Like I could feel my skin crawling as I read her post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:17 AM |
| 10 | I have no words. This guy doesn’t want to live with his girlfriend and future baby because the relationship is too “new.” I hope this woman gets out before the baby comes.I know they call it a safe space for moms and I’m generally an emphatic person but sometimes I too can’t resist wanting to call out their pickme behaviours and shaking some sense into them. They’re not doing these women any favours by mollycoddling them. Like I understand these women are stuck in bad situations, but they should have walked out on their LVM man-children before having kids with them. Even worse are the women who keep having kids with their man child knowing full well they’re not g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:10 AM |
| 6 | I have no words. This guy doesn’t want to live with his girlfriend and future baby because the relationship is too “new.” I hope this woman gets out before the baby comes.Yup. There is also the regretful parents sub. But breaking moms is just next level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:25 AM |
| 10 | I have no words. This guy doesn’t want to live with his girlfriend and future baby because the relationship is too “new.” I hope this woman gets out before the baby comes.Whoa that’s really salty of them! I mostly just lurk on there sometimes, but I swear some of those women could actually benefit from some time on FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:23 AM |
| 15 | I have no words. This guy doesn’t want to live with his girlfriend and future baby because the relationship is too “new.” I hope this woman gets out before the baby comes.Some of the stories are just heart breaking (I just read one about a guy who accused his partner of overplaying the pain of a miscarriage, telling her “You’ll make it sound worse than it is now that you know that’s what happened”). On the flip side you learn that for some reason these women have gone on to have 3 (even 4) children with the same LVM. Like just why? This crappy behaviour can’t have just begun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:21 AM |
| 108 | I have no words. This guy doesn’t want to live with his girlfriend and future baby because the relationship is too “new.” I hope this woman gets out before the baby comes.Low value as this guy sounds, from the post, I wonder if this will turn into another one of the r/breakingmom type horror story if his girlfriend does move in with him. (For anyone who hasn’t visited that sub yet, might I suggest the “man rant” flaired posts in particular?). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 46 | Scrote gets what he deservesIt was so obvious. Like he basically wants her to end up in poverty and loose custody of her children if she leaves without even considering all her contributions in terms of household labour and raising kids which itself is a full time job. Like another commentor mentioned he basically wants a free bangmaid who takes care of his children. I bet he’ll turn this whole incident into a pity party with his next girlfriend telling her how his ex was a “gold digger” who spread “false” rumours about hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:27 PM |
| 82 | Scrote gets what he deservesHo ho ho!!!! I have tears in my eyes from laughing so hard. I was so sick of hearing stories of domestic abuse and women being screwed over during divorce. I really needed this story of karma hitting this prick in the ass. I know the OP (in the post) didn’t mean to ruin his life. But I’m just sooooo glad that’s what happened! I can’t believe the asshole was so manipulative he wanted her to forfeit her rights to consult a lawyer as well. I bet the little ballsack was lying about his ex being a go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:08 PM |
| 25 | So is there any interest in this sub-reddit about discussing our own low value behaviours (besides being a pickme)? I'm guilty.Procrastination. Which inevitably leads to self criticism. I fail to be kind to myself. I fail to empathise with myself the way I would with others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:48 PM |
| 30 | When you realize someone you're been seeing is a LVMYes. Sometimes I throw up a bit in mouth when I think of my behaviour and the kind of shitty low value guy I was chasing for validation. I like to think of it as ongoing detox. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:39 PM |
| 7 | Something's gotta giveCongratulations on your baby! I’m glad you went ahead and did it by yourself instead of waiting for a partner. More power to single mums because I truly can’t imagine being able to pull it off! But you are right in that It’s better to raise a child alone than be stuck with the wrong person (who is likely to end up as dead weight anyways). Personally I lean towards being child free as even at 27, I’m not in the right frame of mind to be a mother. Also to some extent my decision to remain child fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:59 AM |
| 8 | Something's gotta giveThat pretty much sums me. I plan on staying child free mostly. But I plan on adopting an older child if I change my mind at a later age (50s? Maybe 60s?) when I’m hopefully richer and done living my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:29 AM |
| 57 | Something's gotta giveTo be fair I’d wouldn’t pity an older women who chooses to stay single her whole life. This is a women who has clearly chosen herself and her life experiences over marriage and kids. She’s is also more likely to be highly successful, rich (because she saved all the money that goes into child rearing), well travelled and at the top of her game. I’d be envious of a woman like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:05 AM |
| 15 | Was an inexperienced pickme, can I salvage the relationship?Rule of thumb: If you are so upset by his treatment of you that you feel the need to google his behaviour or ask for advice from strangers on the internet, then you should have dumped him yesterday, the day before even. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 06:44 PM |
| 6 | We finally broke up, I could use some validation that I’m not crazy.I think you need to block him. On everything. Even the game. You are not his friend. And he is certainly not your friend either. The best analogy I can give for a relationship with good sex and love bombing followed by extended periods of shitty behaviour is going out for tequila shots and getting black out drunk. Sure you are having fun, getting drunk, getting high and dancing (for a few hours maybe?). Then you go home, suddenly you have alcohol poisoning. Your body is rejecting every single bi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 6 | I have no wordsExactly! I was imagining a grumpy 3 year old toddler with a pacifier in his mouth as he glared at his mommy giving all her attention to the new baby. It gets a lot scary when I think of a grown man doing it. Like being stared at by a creepy pervert (shudders). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:22 PM |
| 78 | I have no words!!! Shows men truly don't give a shit about women, including their own family members!!!Wow! And to think a bunch of common street thugs felt her brother was a POS enough to advise her to ditch him! And what kind of parents care so little for their daughter to let something like this slide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:16 PM |
| 21 | I'm actually fine, thanksI legit spit out the water I was drinking when I read your comment 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:59 PM |
| 29 | I don’t find this as funny as the other 8.2 kI would start by trashing the boyfriend first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 04:11 PM |
| 23 | I have a problem with Indian men.Same. Brown 27F and don’t want to get married. I can’t handle the baggage of nosy in-laws that comes with brown men and will be expected to lug if I marry one. Plus I see how my father treats my mother. It’s a good reminder that staying single is a much better option that ending up in a miserable marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 12:05 PM |
| 25 | Woman begs boyfriend to pee in a mason jar with a lid, empty it out, and wash it every morning instead of peeing in water glasses and leaving it sitting out all day.Calling this guy a dog would be an insult to dogs. At least you can train them. I had a golden retriever trained to pee down the shower drain if there was no one around to let him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Men are too interested in my job - red flag?I’m so sorry this happens to you! A lot of OLDs are filled with LV losers. A lot of other comments have suggested that you remove you job description from your profile or be evasive about it when you are asked. I might be of the unpopular opinion here, but I think you should leave it on your profile. If you do leave your job on the profile and the guy you match with starts acting creepy, you can immediately unmatch and block him instead of wasting time. A high value person would never make you f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:45 PM |
| 134 | If men don’t have anything to offer, they have the audacity.Perfect mix between girlfriend and FWB, translation - be my bangmaid and therapist for free without expecting any commitment from my behalf. I won’t add any value to your life and will probably cheat on you but that’s fine as you agreed to be a “cool girl”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:24 AM |
| 50 | My sister just got this exciting dude, he asked her on a date and then decided to switch up on her???If it wasn’t for the “aggravated assault with deadly weapon” arrest (oh but that’s perfectly fine babe! I can explain it! It was nothing really!), I’d say he was just another average cheap LVM trying to manipulate your sister into accepting a cheap date. But four arrests?? Nah. Also brownie points for the way he tries to infantilise and preach the corona situation to you sister “BuT CEOs AnD AtHEltes ArE GeTtInG iT toO” as if we’ve all been living under a rock all this time. Bullet dodged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:18 AM |
| 9 | Omg just look at this. "My husband beats me but he's so sweet and I don't believe in divorce!". What the fuck is our society doing to girls to make them think this way!?!?Wow that was so hard to read! I kept thinking what if he caused her cysts to rupture by breaking the car deliberately? I’ve been hospitalised for ruptured cysts before and mine are nowhere near as big as this poor woman’s cysts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:28 AM |
| 25 | Maybe he doesn’t hit you.... butMaybe he doesn’t hit you.... but he infantilises you. Critiques every decision you make. Veils his insults as jokes and casual sexism. Neglects you when you are sick. Calls it drama and leaves the room when he can’t handle your emotions or anxiety. Treats you well only when he wants something from you. Throws tantrums when you make what he perceives as “mistakes”. Expects you cook, clean and pick up after him. Uses cultural patriarchy as an excuse to justify shitty behaviour and misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:17 PM |
| 50 | At least this scrote is directAm I the only one getting rapey vibes from this? I’m sure he’d call it “hate sex” or “rough sex”. He seems like a real “you wanted this. All women want to be abused” type of guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 04:42 PM |
| 6 | Scrotes trying to convince themselves that they’re too good for women who were coerced into sex by predatory men at a young age. The comments are disgustingFor fucks sake the old predatory asshole said the girl “owed” him sex in exchange for gifts. That’s sexual coercion. And this pricks response is “ShEs a SuGaR bABy”. He is judging his girlfriend for being sexually coerced while in a vulnerable position. Acting like he has the moral high ground. What a jerk! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 01:53 PM |
| 8 | Step right up for LVM Bingo!Damn. I just experienced PTSD looking at this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:45 PM |
| 7 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?If I may add one more to your list. Kubernetes : Random ass app development software. So If you are pickmeisha enough to consider swiping right, you can look it up as proof that I actually have a big boy job in Silicon Valley. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:41 PM |
| 16 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?Here is my 5 cents on this. This is clearly a 15 year old insecure problem child trapped in a 39 year old giants body. So he’s going to drop shit on his profile that makes him look impressive, his height for starters, the jiujitsu, LTC, homeowner, “Silicon Valley”, MUh CaReEr, TraVeLleR, MaH LaBiDo and (my favourite) kubernetes. The last one is for any pickmeisha who won’t immediately reject him and will probably look it up (now I don’t very well remember what it does but has something to do wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:36 PM |
| 19 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?Damn!! Just two hours? What if I’m busy?Doesn’t matter though. He seems like the kind of guy who experiences shattering orgasms by looking at pictures of himself. I’m sure he’ll be able to keep his “Labido” satisfied if I don’t respond in time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:50 PM |
| 28 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?And cheap too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Ladies be aware of negging! He really thought this would work on me?And he needs to work on his spelling, which is worse than a kindergartener’s. I love your hair btw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 09:43 PM |
| 31 | Homosocial tendencies within heterosexual male relationships. It all makes sense now.That really makes sense. Even in Ancient Greece homosexuality was encouraged in military units like the spartan army. The thebean army was another elite unit formed solely of same sex couples (men obviously). The theory being that men in homosexual relations would fight more aggressively to protect the lives of their partners having formed strong emotional and sexual bonds. No wonder the Spartans were one of the most elite units in the ancient militaries of Greece. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:16 PM |
| 12 | A scrote calling me a “pedophile” because I felt some sort of way about the sexualized Audi ad involving a childShit! I got the same message!!! Except, since I’ve blocked all DMs, this scrote wrote the exact same thing as a reply to one of my comments on another subreddit r/aww on a post about a cat. Thankfully the mods on that sub deleted that comment. So imagine my horror when I’m commenting on Mr Willis the rescue cat and this prick replies calling me a pedophile. Edit: Apparently the prick is going around spamming/abusing anyone who found the ad inappropriate. Imagine being such a pathetic, insecure l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 10:37 AM |
| 11 | I’m lost for words at this point 🤦🏼♀️🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:38 PM |
| 69 | I’m lost for words at this point 🤦🏼♀️So he thinks she’s supposed to lactate when she’s turned on? Does that also mean he’ll ejaculate glitter from his ding dong when he comes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Men lack everything but the audacity.Lol. Maybe he should loose 5 pounds off his chin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Do not date ugly LVMYup learnt that lesson the hard way. I once went on a date with an unattractive Australian guy who had the audacity to ask me “How many sheep my father would sell me for?”. He had the audacity to be cheeky and disguise it as casual racism (I’m indian btw). The funny thing is that the ignorant prick didn’t even know that it’s not even an Indian stereotype. (Supposed to be a very old misogynistic tradition in the Middle East; groom gives the brides fathers a “bride price” in exchange for the bride… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 04:43 PM |
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