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The red pill community began on a pick up artist message board called so suave, around the end of 2004. The person to originate the analogy to the movie the matrix was rollo tomassi, real name George Miller.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/26 01:01 AM
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There is a free website called succeedsocially.com
/r/seduction13/06/26 03:10 AM
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On the one hand, I support people pursuing any body modification that they want to do. But on the other hand, I do not believe that the shape of your chin matters enough to justify paying thousands of dollars and risking injury and complications. Autism has nothing to do with it. Autistic people can get relationships if they check off the boxes that really matter. And, the vast majority of people who claim online to be autistic are not actually autistic. Many are self diagnosed. Many have paid f…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/26 06:03 PM
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I have never followed any pick up artist or even considered being a pick up artist. But I have an anecdote that I would like to share. When I was reading 1 of the 5 volumes of the rational male by rollo tomassi, tomassi wrote that he recommended the pick up artist nick krauser. I glanced at the website of krauser out of curiosity. It said that krauser screens out autistic men. I wrote an email to krauser asking why he screens out autistic men. Krauser wrote to me a very thoughtful response. He a…
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 02:39 AM
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The Rational Male is a 5 volume series. I read the first 4 volumes for research purposes. I have never been a believer in red pill ideas. I postponed reading volume 5 because I got tired of this guy. I might read it someday. I have never listened to the 4 hour YouTube videos of Rollo Tomassi. I have not read more than a little bit of his blog writings. Based on what I have read, the writings of Rollo Tomassi contain many flaws. Rollo Tomassi does not understand the field of evolutionary psycholo…
/r/ExRedPill23/11/25 10:30 PM
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The term "steroids" is an inaccurate term. Not all steroids are anabolic. A more correct term is "androgenic drugs". TRT is a form of androgenic drugs. However, the dosages that you can get through a legit prescription are lower than what models, athletes, and bodybuilders inject. TRT usually gets you within a testosterone range which could be produced naturally. This guy Hamza Ahmed is on androgenic drugs aka "steroids", but he does not necessarily have testosterone levels that his viewers coul…
/r/ExRedPill31/10/25 10:12 AM
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I don't have any experience with the topic of this post. However, I want to say that I disagree with people who say that extremist views are somehow immune to logic, reasoning, and evidence. Elsewhere on reddit, I've seen people write things like "trying to reason with him will only drive him further into extremism". I don't think anything is immune to logic, reasoning, and evidence. As for suggestions, I'll repeat a suggestion that I have posted before. Read the most flattering biographies of w…
/r/ExRedPill22/10/25 03:13 AM
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You might not be able to convince him to read anything, but I believe that high quality books can help a person see through many online communities. If he has a generally negative opinion of women, then it might help to read the most flattering biographies of the most impressive women. Those biographies can go a long way toward showing someone how great women can be.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/25 10:07 PM
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For one thing, the percentage of men who never find any sexual partner is less than a typical black pilled person thinks it is. Another thing is that, when black pilled people post pictures of themselves online, often but not always, they get told that they are not too ugly to get a sexual partner. Some black pilled people have body dysmorphia, especially regarding their faces.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/25 09:52 PM
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I agree. When people say that women mask better, often they believe that the number of autistic males must be the same as the number of autistic females. This is closely related to the hypothesis that male and female brains are biologically the same. They rule out the possibility that professional diagnosis is more accurate than people say it is, and that the number of autistic males really is about 4 times the number of autistic females. In the DSM, there is no difference at all between male au…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:43 PM
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I can't advise you based on experience. But I notice that you did not mention dating apps. What are your thoughts about trying a dating app?
/r/ExRedPill14/10/25 04:48 PM
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Another thing is that the subreddits called BodyDysmorphia and BDDvent probably contain people who have believed black pill ideas. Neither subreddit explicitly bans research or survey posts. However, by even realizing that they have body dysmorphia, those people show signs of awareness that they aren't as unattractive as they feel. But I think both subreddits probably contain former believers in black pill ideas.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/25 03:09 PM
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You might have already tried this, but the subreddit called ugly probably has believers in black pill ideas, in many cases without them even realizing that they agree with black pill ideas. That subreddit officially bans black pill aka "incel" comments. But that might be merely a way to prevent reddit from banning the subreddit. It is likely to attract the same people who most connect with black pill ideas, perhaps without realizing it. I also would have suggested the subreddit called virgin. Ho…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/25 02:48 PM
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I have never been a believer in either of the red pill or black pill communities. This subreddit is about red pill ideas, not black pill ideas, which are very different. There are other subreddits where you will probably get better responses than here. Off the top of my head, I can recall subreddits called DebateIncelz, IncelSolutions, IncelExit, ForeverAlone, FA30plus, and probably others that I'm forgetting.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/25 12:50 AM
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I have never been a believer in either black pill or red pill ideas. I'm not the right guy for your study. However, I just want to note that the red pill online community is very different from the black pill online community. Are you studying them separately? And if not, why not? The red pill community is far more financially motivated. There are red pill gurus charging thousands of dollars for private coaching. As far as I know, the black pill leaders do not charge thousands of dollars for coa…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/25 04:32 PM
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I want to start by highly commending you for majoring in computer engineering. With so many worthless degrees being churned out of today's universities, it's great to see someone learning how to do something valuable that can help you, your family, your country, and other countries. If you can perform well in your degree program, and then go on to be a successful engineer, then I believe that having that career will help your personal life more in the long run than anything that you can do while…
/r/ExRedPill11/09/25 01:51 AM
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5.5 inches is longer than the average.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 12:38 AM
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A lot of this depends on your major. If your degree is in social sciences or humanities, then your degree probably is not worth missing out on drunken parties. If your degree is in an engineering field, then getting high grades will probably help your personal life more in the long run than any interactions while an undergraduate. All things considered, I regret not majoring in mechanical engineering more than I regret the fact that I did not say anything to the other undergraduates at my univer…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/25 05:55 PM
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I looked on google scholar, and I did not find any entry that is co authored by David Buss and Tracey Chapman.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/25 06:13 PM
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This is the Tracey Chapman who is being asked about https://research-portal.uea.ac.uk/en/persons/tracey-chapman https://www.traceychapmanresearch.com/ I have not studied her work, and should not comment about it.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/25 06:11 PM
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The term alpha male is a term from zoology that was intended for non human species. I do not believe in the concept of alpha males in humans.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/25 01:27 PM
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I only know of 1 book published about debunking the men's red pill philosophy. It is "Red Pill Ideology" by Cynthia Payne. I have not read it yet.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/25 06:30 PM
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I am not a pick up artist, so I probably shouldn't post here. But I want to say that I would never pursue a hobby in which I was not genuinely interested. If I'm not genuinely interested, then I will never be very good at it, and I probably won't stick with it for very long. I also doubt there is any hobby that will get me the interest of more than a small number of women. And also it would be very unpleasant to work hard on a hobby that was intended to impress women.
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:06 PM
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There already is 1 book in print, about which I know, that is intended to debunk the men's red pill community. It is called "Red Pill Ideology" by Cynthia Payne. I have not read it. I will get around to reading it probably within the next few weeks. After I read it, I could comment further about the quality of "Red Pill Ideology" by Cynthia Payne.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/25 01:52 AM
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I'm currently writing a rough draft of a book that explains the many flaws in the leading men's red pill thinkers. I do not know if or when my book will be finished or published. If my book is published, then I am confident that I can shake a guy out of the red pill community. Right now, there already are books and academic articles that explain a lot of the flaws in men's red pill ideas. If my book is published, then it will be like 1 stop shopping that makes it easier for men to understand tho…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/25 01:32 AM
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I have not read any of the red pill message boards and other sources where men post their stories. What I would say is that it would be possible to cherry pick anecdotes in a way that supports a lot different narratives. Here on reddit, I could cherry pick anecdotes in a way that makes men look worse than women. I could also cherry pick anecdotes in a way that makes women look worse than men.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/25 01:28 AM
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For as long as I have known about red pill philosophy, one my reactions has been that red pill thinkers understate the diversity of women, men, masculinity, and femininity.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/25 04:06 PM
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Not all incels are virgins.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/25 08:03 PM
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I have never seen this YouTube channel, nor do I plan to. I have noticed that there is an enormous number of YouTube channels of people who want to be gurus about attraction, dating, relationships, sex, or some combination of those things. I do not watch the videos of any of those YouTube channels. To the extent that I would want to learn about those topics, things like YouTube and tik tok are probably not the highest quality sources.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/25 01:40 AM
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This post is very good. In order for the terms alpha male and beta male to be real concepts, I would need to define them very carefully. But for the way these 2 terms are often used in everyday discourse, to suggest that there is 1 type of man that is always attractive and 1 type that is always unattractive, is an oversimplification, and very different from what these terms mean in zoology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:27 AM
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I think the term "natural" originates in the pick up artist community, which predates the red pill community. It's been about 19 years since I read it, but I think the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss introduced many people to the term "natural".
/r/ExRedPill24/02/25 04:40 PM
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Even if weight loss doesn't make you more attractive to women (which I doubt), the health benefits are tremendous enough to justify the weight loss.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/25 03:41 AM
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I would say to read flattering biographies of the women who you consider the most impressive. Those biographies will show you how amazing women can be.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/25 05:01 AM
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One of the standard criticisms of red pill thinkers is that they understate the diversity of women. It might be that you also understate the diversity of women.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 05:12 PM
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I think it is very unlikely that a celebrity as famous as Taylor Swift, or for that matter any of the celebrities listed in the post, has ever had casual sex while a celebrity. Casual sex is more difficult for celebrities than non-celebrities. If someone as famous as Taylor Swift went into a nightclub and had public restroom sex right there at the nightclub, then she would be recognized and the story would spread all over the world. If a non-celebrity woman has public restroom sex at a nightclub…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 08:17 AM
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If I had to explain to someone why I am not a believer in red pill philosophy, part of it is to examine the men who attract the most desirable women. Do they fit the profile that red pill philosophy says they should? Based on the evidence I know about the most desirable women, I would say no. For a celebrity woman who is considered among the most desirable women in the world, ask yourself, did she end up having sex with a red pill guy who shows no femininity or emotion, and who is always playing…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/25 09:35 PM
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I believe that height in men matters very little. As another commenter pointed out, the minority of women for whom it is important can be "surprisingly vocal", giving the illusion that it matters far more than it really does. I am reluctant to bring up the theory of evolution on this subreddit. I have had people on this subreddit tell me that evolutionary psychology is a "just so story" or a pseudo science. However, if you guys will forgive me, let's grant evolution for the sake of discussion. B…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/25 03:54 AM
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Although I am not a believer in the red pill philosophy, I don't agree with the argument of this post. A body count of 14 is not a lot by the standards of today's women, especially the younger women.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/25 03:02 AM
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In addition to the number of partners, I find it interesting to look at the personalities of the men who attract the most desirable women. There are many examples of this. When I was younger, some people considered Shania Twain the most desirable woman in the world. When producer Mutt Lange attracted her, he had written some feminine and emotional music. Mutt Lange had a lot going for him and he checked off a lot of boxes. But he did not fit the profile of a red pill guy who never shows feminini…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/25 03:00 AM
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I know of only 1 book about this topic. I have not read it yet. It is called "Red Pill Ideology" by Cynthia Payne. I can't comment on the quality before having read it, but I thought I'd mention that there is a book on this topic.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/25 01:58 AM
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I don't know much about the mgtow movement, and I didn't know what it was until a few months ago. I never understood why the mgtow guys need message boards to discuss this decision. Every minute that you spend on those message boards could have been spent on something else, including things that can make you more attractive.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/25 04:00 AM
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As far as workout advice, I am not against the compound movements, and I have been doing some of them for years (more than 20 years before I even knew what the red pill community was). But if Max and Miller just want men to be healthy, then why are they against the big gym chains? And it is true that enormous amounts of cardio can damage your hormone levels and put impact on your joints. But almost anything can be harmful if you overdo it or take it to an absurd extreme. Many people understate t…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/25 02:02 AM
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The paperback edition is called "What Women Want". Some parts of the book would make an inauthentic man who is calculated to attract women, and who is not being his more natural self. There are some ideas in the book that would help me if I did them. But the sheer quantity of those ideas makes it an impossible way to attract women. Between Geoffrey Miller and Tucker Max, Geoffrey Miller is the more interesting person to read. I have read some of Miller's other books. Geoffrey Miller is a tenured…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/25 06:57 AM
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I don't use dating apps, but I sometimes read the subreddits about dating apps. Your experience is par for the course for men on dating apps at this time.
/r/seduction04/01/25 01:55 AM
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According to one source that I found through a search engine, the first red pill post was December 29, 2004. Almost exactly 20 years ago.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/25 04:57 AM
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Geoffrey Miller has said in interviews that he has a largely favorable view of the manosphere. You can see that here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhQMqwv6OIM I personally love physical fitness. I started lifting weights at age 17, more than 20 years before I even knew what the red pill community was. My concern about the red pill guys that a lot of them are not really interested in fitness, and they're doing it anyway because they think an alpha male would. I don't consider that a good reaso…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/25 02:02 AM
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If that book merely said to exercise, have good nutrition, and get enough sleep, then I'd be in favor of it. However, that book has some of the worst workout advice ever. That book recommends against the big gym chains. I have had memberships to some of the big gym chains. They had amazing equipment that went far beyond the crap of CrossFit. The nutrition advice in that book is better than the workout advice, but still not good enough that I would use it. I have read many fitness books whose nut…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/25 12:36 AM
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I am a book collector who owns thousands of books. Most of my books are not here in the bedroom with me. Of what I have here in the bedroom, here are examples of books that contain responses to the predictable accusations against sociobiology and evolutionary psychology. Please note that evolutionary psychology is a variation and outgrowth of sociobiology. "Social Evolution" by Robert Trivers "Defenders of the Truth" by Ullica Segerstrale "The Sociobiology Debate" edited by Arthur Kaplan "Sociob…
/r/ExRedPill31/12/24 05:48 PM
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Reddit in general is not the right place for a high level academic discussion. But the leading scholars have responded to your comment, in lengthy books and academic journal articles. You can find them, but only if you want to.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/24 02:20 PM
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The responses take up hundreds of pages of writing, and I could not reproduce them in reddit posts or comments. But you can find them if you do some research. For example, find what Edward O. Wilson has written about this topic.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/24 02:11 PM
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The professors who work on evolutionary psychology have heard that one a gazillion times, and they responded to it decades ago, long before there was a red pill community.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/24 02:08 PM
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It would be unfortunate if people let their reaction to red pill philosophy spill over into a negative view of the academic field of evolutionary psychology. Sociobiology, the precursor to evolutionary psychology, has been reputable and well accepted since the 1970s, decades before there was any red pill philosophy. The great scholars who made evolutionary psychology are not responsible for some blog or message board that throws around a few terms or analogies about evolution.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/24 05:46 AM
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It has very little continuity, and is based on constantly shocking your body in a way that has a high risk of injury. Good workout plans tend to be based on gradual changes with a deliberate progression.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/24 06:46 PM
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The red pill community started on a pick up artist message board called SoSuave. It grew out of the pick up artist community, and then took on a life of its own and become a separate community from the PUA stuff.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/24 04:28 AM
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I have read that book. My main criticism is that no man has time for even 25% of the advice in that book. To mention just one example, Tucker Max recommends learning mixed martial arts in order to signal masculinity and athleticism (which is actually a bit of a "red pill" suggestion). Becoming a mixed martial arts fighter takes years of full time effort, and has a high risk of injury, including brain damage. A guy who did that would not have time for probably any of the long list of what Tucker …
/r/ExRedPill29/12/24 10:20 PM
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Red pill ideas can motivate someone to improve their physical fitness and health.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/24 07:01 AM
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I don't have any personal experience doing this. I once read a reddit comment from a man who claimed to be autistic. He said that he got sex using the teachings of Ross Jeffries and Mystery. He also made the comment that he would be a 40 year old virgin if he had not discovered the pick up artist community. I personally am skeptical that pick up artist tactics would work for autistic men, but some people report that it worked.
/r/seduction08/12/24 02:00 AM
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Survival sex is when a person who does not have shelter or food has sex with a person as a way of getting shelter and food. Survival sex can be regarded as a form of prostitution, although it is not criminally prosecuted.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/24 07:42 AM
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I agree 100% with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:34 PM
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Some people will be very unhappy without these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:24 PM
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This post is correct. I am in my 40s, and it is preposterous to suggest that I could ever catch up to almost anyone else. And a lot of that is because of the reasons mentioned in this post, although there are also other reasons. For example, physical and mental health problems are setbacks, and I can never get back all those years that I spent unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:23 AM
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I have been in a relationship with a psychotic woman. The main thing that kept me interested in her was her kindness and compassion. Her kindness and compassion influenced me to show more kindness and compassion toward her, including toward her psychotic mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:35 PM
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I don't believe that so called size queens necessarily have large vaginas. She might just have less sensitive nerve endings, and need firmer stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:41 PM
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I think that all of the options for meeting women are pretty rough. This post touches on some of the reasons why I do not plan to go to bars. For one thing, I don't drink alcohol. The drinks are so expensive that a few drinks costs more than a month of the paid membership to a dating app. People who spend a lot of time in bars are not the highest quality and most attractive people. Bars are probably as superficial as the dating apps. I also refuse to tell anyone numbers of my finances, for vario…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:07 AM
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Right now, the number of women completing university degrees is more than the number of men completing them, in the United States, Canada, and some other countries. That makes it more difficult for women with university degrees to find men who they can accept. And I agree that degrees are overrated. I have a university degree, and I have read hundreds of nonfiction books. I have learned more from being a reader than I have from courses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:27 AM
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This post is completely wrong. Women who have status and money tend to only want men with at least as much status and money as them. A female medical doctor typically would only consider men in highly regarded and well compensated professions. A female medical doctor would practically never want a handsome fast food employee.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:50 AM
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I have never told someone my exact income level, and it is very rare for anyone to tell me their income level. If a woman knows what I look like, and doesn't know my income level, then what is there for her to judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:27 PM
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Call yourself a medical doctor. The status of being a medical doctor is more important than the risk that you will be regarded as a potential sugar daddy.
/r/seduction14/10/24 02:22 PM
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In other words, a red pill approach to life leads to an arms race of things like physical fitness, wealth, status, prestige, masculinity, and other things that are believed to increase male mate value. I think that's probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:47 AM
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Online dating is a polarizing topic on reddit. My biggest concern is age filters. On a dating app, women will only see me if her profile is set to show her a man my age. Anywhere other than a dating app, a woman will see what I look like first, then find out what it is like to talk with me, and later find out my age (if she asks for that information at all). For a guy like me in his 40s who looks younger, dating apps are a very limited opportunity. Most dating app women will never see the profil…
/r/seduction10/10/24 11:18 PM
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Women are not attracted to mean men because they are mean. Woman tolerate mean men because they are attractive. Being mean won't work for you, if you are unattractive.
/r/seduction10/10/24 07:00 PM
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Yes it is a bad move. Many if not most women will assume you want casual sex. Most women will refuse to go to your place, and you will get fewer second dates.
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:11 PM
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I agree with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:43 PM
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I find this post hilarious. That is exactly what I thought would happen if a guy literally does what pick up artists say to do. I know I wouldn't want some guy grabbing at me, so why would these women want it?
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:42 PM
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Read nonfiction books that take an opposing point of view. I've always liked to read opposing books, so that I get to hear both sides of the story.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 05:21 PM
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According to the psychologists that I have read, slut shaming is primarily something that women do to other women, typically in an effort to compete with their reputations. Although there are men who would avoid a slut for long term relationships, it is woman vs. woman competition that drives slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:44 AM
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No. However, sluts are considered more desirable for short term relationships than for long term relationships. I'm sure you already knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:10 PM
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I agree with this post. For almost anything, I am being compared to her other male options, and not to any women. If most men were 7 feet tall, then women would expect me to be more than 7 feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:27 PM
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I think that the position of this post is often true, but not always. Male students in medical schools have a lot of success with women. And once a man is in a medical school, his probability of becoming a medical doctor is high. I think that part of it depends on the man's probability of realizing this potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:30 PM
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If you're that poor, then focus on your career first and worry about dating later. In the long run, you're better off that way.
/r/seduction05/10/24 04:49 PM
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For strictly heterosexual sex, the average body count for men and women must identical. That is because each copulation adds either a 1 or a 0 to exactly 1 man and 1 woman. If you include homosexual sex, then the average body count is higher for men than for women. It will documented that gay men have more sexual partners on average than lesbians do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:25 PM
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It is very difficult to say what either men or women want, because there is a large difference between what people say and what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:45 AM
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I think that's usually true. Approaching women can harm your reputation very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:51 PM
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I don't have a position in this debate. However, I think that some women can be repulsed and driven away by a man who is too affectionate, nice and good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:21 PM
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I believe that cold approaching is one of the most difficult ways to meet women. 1 success is 1 more than I would have expected.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 01:36 AM
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The gym is the best place to see attractive women, and one of the worst places to try to talk to attractive women.
/r/seduction26/09/24 09:44 PM
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I believe that there is a bias against men with disabilities, both physical and mental. I believe that evolution is the reason for that. Women evolved to want to mate with men who are healthy and athletic, both physically and mentally.
/r/seduction26/09/24 03:07 AM
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Doing that would get you a relatively small pool of women, although I think they would be a relatively well selected pool. I am aware that many people have met partners through friends of friends. I'm happy for you, but I doubt that doing that is getting as much results in today's world as the dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:31 PM
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All of the options for meeting women are rough, if you're not in the top 5% of men. When I hear about the failure of most men who do cold approaching, that illustrates why I think that dating apps are an improvement over things like cold approaching, bars, nightclubs, joining women's hobbies, and other things that were more common before the rise of dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:15 AM
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Sometimes it is about the person and not the age number.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:16 PM
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I recommend simultaneously trying to meet women and trying to self improve. You can work on yourself until you are 100 years old, and you will never run out of things about yourself that you could improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:38 PM
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If you are a "pick up artist" or a "seduction community person", then I think you kinda have to lie about why you are in that bar at all.
/r/seduction18/09/24 09:51 PM
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Possibly. But if she didn't reject or refuse the kiss when it happened, there's a chance she didn't mind.
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:06 AM
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Women are diverse. Some of them probably are as you describe, but not all.
/r/seduction15/09/24 05:44 PM
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If she's your girlfriend, then it shouldn't be all that difficult. I would ask permission for various forms of physical contact. Some people call this "affirmative consent".
/r/seduction13/09/24 11:04 PM
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It isn't Match.com, it is Match Group. Match Group owns Match.com and other companies, including Tinder and Hinge. Match Group has something like 70-80% of the active user base, so not quite a monopoly. Although it is rare, there have been some people who got a ban reversed through the appeal process, as discussed in r/SwipeHelper
/r/seduction11/09/24 05:49 PM
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Hinge and Tinder bans are done by computer programs. They most definitely have banned many people for erroneous reasons. There are ways to get around a ban from Tinder and Hinge. Those ways are discussed on r/SwipeHelper
/r/seduction11/09/24 05:48 PM
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No. Masturbation should be an option for everyone. Although many people on reddit are fanatically against pornography, I personally am in favor of pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:37 PM
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I don't have a firm position in this debate. But as an aside, I believe that many autistic people believe a fantasy of what life is like for neurotypical people. Neurotypical people are not mind readers. The difference between a neurotypical and an autistic person is often exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:09 PM
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I would not want to be the reason why my girlfriend missed out on what she wanted sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:13 AM
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Feeling sorry for someone and feeling attracted to them are 2 things that tend to not go together. The post used the term "pity sex", and I don't know anyone who gets pity sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:40 PM
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It's probably less common than it was a few decades ago. The pickup artist community had its peak in the late 1990s or early 2000s. That is why many pickup artists currently use dating apps.
/r/seduction08/09/24 05:23 PM
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No, but one of the other commenters is right that person's rational views do not necessarily match a person's attraction. For example, a woman who rationally supports homosexuality might be repulsed by the idea of dating a bisexual man. And the same thing happens with men. I am not suggesting that either gender is better than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:40 PM
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There certainly are some men who will love the fuckboy lifestyle until they might eventually get bored of it. However, I think some men will get more out a higher quality lower quantity approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:06 AM
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I am not sure if the body is the #1 problem, but I think it is much more significant than most people realize. Many thin people have not tried being an overweight person seeking romance or sex. However, also keep in mind that, beyond some level, a great fitness routine can harm your social life. If your nutritional guidelines are so strict that you can't eat in restaurants or go to bars, then that will negatively effect your opportunities for dating and a social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:19 AM
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Make higher quality efforts, directed at a much lower quantity of women.
/r/seduction05/09/24 11:00 PM
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I agree 100% with this post. A person either is or isn't attracted to you. It is possible for someone to be impressed by your debating skills, but I think that represents very little of the reasons why people might consider someone attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:23 PM
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