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Question For Womenrandodeez54311/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:58 PM
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Discussionrandodeez54311/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:16 PM
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The whole point is that if they were attractive the whole situation plays out differently A “pushy” attractive guy is considered “assertive”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:39 PM
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Everywhere is considered inappropriate if the woman doesnt find you attractive. Women literally make fun of “nice guys” which are just men they find unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:48 PM
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If you’re ugly they will It’s called “harassment” and being a “creep. You may even end up canceled on social media as a woman records you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:56 PM
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You’re trying to be obtuse You literally used the phrase “settle down for” in your initial comment and now you’re tryna play the semantics game because it doesnt mean what you thought
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:55 PM
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It literally says it’s the meaning of “settling for” which is what we’re discussing People settling for others is the same as compromising
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:49 PM
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Ahh you’re an attractive women Yeah you can date pretty much anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:47 PM
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You must he really good lookin yourself or have money/ status. Lucky you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:44 PM
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Huh? All men have to pay for the attention of women unless you’re in the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:44 PM
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Well I’m not a top tier man so I know anyone I’m with isnt exactly fantasizing about me. It’d be a waste of my time to try and find that Disney relationship. Imo there’s no point in worrying about stuff you can’t control. I dunno if I’d go after women half my age but I’d likely just be in a transactional situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:20 PM
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Most people arent “powerfully attracted” to their partners tho That shit only happens in movies and to top tier people irl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:17 PM
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Me personally? Nah But plenty of men are and they do it all the time. What do you think is happening when men ask y’all on dates or buy you things? Edit: let me take that back I am currently in a relationship where I’m not doing that but if single I would gladly just get escorts or a sugar baby to not have to deal with dating women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:14 PM
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It literally says in there “to be satisfied with” Choosing to take less than your ideal is settling (or choosing to be satisfied with) less People who dont settle refuse to compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:11 PM
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Uh there are plenty of poor women looking for that Also plenty of women from other countries lookin for that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:09 PM
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Note that this different then compromising a bit. Perhaps someone realized they didn’t need a man to be that tall, a 5 foot 9 is good enough. But if a six footer is needed, he is needed. Nope That’s the definition of settling
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:54 PM
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Wait what Tall guys dont gaf if you’re short Jack guys if anything will try to help you get in shape Money is fair enough The men / friends thing just straight up isnt true and your mindset explains why you struggle finding friends. Most guys will gladly try to help their friend get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:48 PM
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That doesn't sound right. They do? At least the kind of men that get women do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:31 PM
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I’m hoping you’d provide more of an explanation for your response
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:18 AM
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Fake redpiller You should know she’s never yours and it’s just your turn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:14 AM
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Are you a heterosexual man? Please enlighten me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:06 AM
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🤷🏽‍♂️ It’s facts We are biologically driven to spread our seed. Now this isnt literally 100% of men as outliers exist but this is the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:05 AM
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I dunno My understanding has always been that it’s associated with women and being woman-like is both weak and gay. Only gay men act like women. again disclaimer as these arent my personal feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:46 AM
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Homophobia Being sensitive and intimate are considered feminine qualities. Being feminine means you’re gay. Being gay is bad. disclaimer that this is what society teaches us at a young age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:53 AM
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Yeah because you’re still establishing a pecking order so women know who’s at the top
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:51 AM
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Men are simple If you want to know why we do something the answer is always “for women”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:50 AM
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That shouldnt be the only way you date either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:59 PM
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If you’re struggling to get your looks match you either have a horrible personality or you’re uglier than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:13 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:36 PM
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Cool I dont because imo it’s natural to place yourself in front of others. I also believe all the responsibility falls on the one that promised to be monaganous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:57 AM
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Not what’s being said at all “Apply the same logic to yourself that you use on others” Aka dont be a hypocrite Feel free to say the other is selfish, lacks empathy, and is being shitty. Just remember you’re doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:59 AM
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No, it's not more than a choice. I'm not sure I buy the whole "some people are more attracted to multiple people" story, but it doesn't matter anyway. It matters in the context of me saying non monogamous people are normal Who cares what they're more attracted to? You know from the get-go what you're attracted to, but you make an agreement with another person that you both are going to be monogamous. Agreed You're monogamous as long as you're only having sex with that one person, right? Your urg…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:16 PM
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There’s no whataboutism I’m not deflecting from cheating I’m simply asking you to stay consistent with your logic That’s apparently too daunting of a task lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:05 PM
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??? Some people are naturally more attracted to one person Others are more attracted to multiple people It’s more than a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:59 PM
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They’re both But if they were monogamous they wouldnt want to cheat in the first place. The reason so many get that urge is because they’re naturally non monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:40 PM
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Ah it’s trolling because you can’t dispute the fact that you’re being a hypocrite. You’re selfish, it’s okay. The majority of us are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:12 PM
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Because it takes two to tango, if no one was willing to participate in someone else's cheating, there would be no cheating. If no one was willing to support corrupt corporations then there would be no exploitation of the poor Yet you still do it It's not about what you "owe" to someone you don't know, it's about basic fucking empathy. That you dont have for the poor people (including children) being taken advantage of to support your luxuries You are not as responsible, but you are partly. Defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:38 PM
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If you are a knowing participant in funding the abuse and exploitation if poor people, just because you want some electricity, then that imo is the actions of a complete Asshole with no empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:35 PM
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Non monogamous people are normal. That’s why cheating is so common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:33 PM
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Interesting I’m perfectly fine with acknowledging either both as shitty or neither as shitty. You on the other hand are showing clear signs of cognitive dissonance. You dont want to admit the reality that your actions contribute to hurting innocent people yet you’re willing to condemn others for doing so. You want to live guilt free of your choices while looking down on others
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:34 PM
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Fine, imo that suggests that you lack empathy on a basic level. Then so do you and all the others that live their lives aiding the exploitation of the poor. It's completely different. "Live like the Amish or you can't blame others for acting selfishly". That's an insane take my guy 😂 See? You’ve made it clear that you living with luxuries is more important than other people being taken advantage of. You lack empathy and you’re selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:26 PM
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Yep, the finger should be pointed at the one who cheated. I also believe that fucking someone that you know is in a relationship is a shitty thing to do and suggests a lack of empathy. You could argue it shows a lack of empathy. But I think it’s normal and expected. We put ourselves first. Always have and always will. Bringing in global capitalism as a means of disregarding that is a helluva reach. It’s no different. People are proven to be selfish. I dont see why we demonize this one selfish ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:22 PM
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Be able to meet the living costs in your area And that is based on living within traditional standards. That’s a choice Then frankly, what exactly is your point? I never said it was "cheating", just that it's a shitty thing to do. Are you saying you can't criticise shitty actions if you participate in capitalism? What is it man 😂 You're the one who derailed the conversation by pointlessly bringing up capitalism. If you think I used a shitty analogy, just say that! My point is that people living …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:17 PM
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What jobs are regularly available, pay a wage that is liveable and don't contribute to capitalism? Depends on your definition of “livable” Just buy solar panels? You know how much that costs right? And that there's many countries where it's not viable for all your energy? We’re talking about America, i made that clear in my initial comment. Depends on the size of em, but you dont need electricity ftr. Many people live without it. So the only one out of them that is viable is living like the Amis…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:05 PM
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Because sometimes you need something that isn't available locally. Is it really a “need” tho? It really doesn't when you're fucking someone else's wife knowingly. Then that should also apply when you’re knowingly buying from a big corporation. No matter how many well informed choices you make though, you'll always have no choice but to participate in some means. Need a company phone for work? Need to drive to commute? Have to pay for energy bills? You're always going to be participating in some …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:16 PM
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I only buy vintage and always try to shop local. Ah… “try”. So you aren’t the beacon of morality you’re attempting to come off as Is this your way of trying to justify cheating? It's not going to work. This is my way of pointing out people’s hypocrisy. I think cheating is wrong, no questions asked. Same way exploiting the poor is wrong, no questions asked. But when it comes to aiding in these endeavors it becomes a bit more gray imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:06 PM
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You have plenty of choices. Research the companies you buy clothes from. Make your own. Heck you could find smaller designers to make your clothes too. When buying products there’s always smaller companies to buy similar stuff from. If you consider participating in cheating wrong then acknowledge that funding an exploitative business is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:55 AM
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I dont think there’s any fault with the affair partner unless they are friends or relatives of the spouse. You arent the one that made vows. The issue in that relationship is that the spouse wants to cheat, not the person they cheated with. If there was no one to cheat with that relationship would still have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:28 AM
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If you live in America we all do Corporations take advantage of the poor to mass produce their products. Your clothes and shoes likely come from an international sweatshop with inhumane conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:27 AM
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Prolly not cuz a reg relationship is a lot I’d def he into non monogamy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:26 AM
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Also this topic is dumb because men also age and change Unless you’re rich you arent gonna be able to continue pulling women at their peak
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:54 AM
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Oh I know Thankfully my fiance doesnt want kids either, and is good with abortions. I would never do anything with someone that doesnt support them because anything can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:18 AM
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Oof Obvious pedo is obvious Sorry R. Kelly, girls grow up. Deal with it or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:15 AM
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It’s 100% the responsible and smart thing to do I can fully admit I’m just a punk. I cant even handle reading men telling stories of what it’s like post op.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:45 AM
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It’s shame that women did that to the child then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:02 PM
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Yet he can choose to transcend these base, petty frameworks of "obligation", instead seeing the reality that he can make all the difference in the world for the life of an innocent child Lmao if “obligation” is petty then why should anyone remain faith or do anything? If he wants to make all the difference in the world of an innocent child he could simply adopt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:01 PM
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Doesnt change the circumstances of the birth The man has 0 obligation to a child that isnt his. It’s the mom’s job to get pregnant by someone that is willing to take care of their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:01 PM
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No, it’s water on the bridge It’s not something that goes away especially considering the child is a result of that action.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:37 PM
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The right choice is not cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:30 PM
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A man cheating can get another woman pregnant thus leading to losing his partner Manning up is for the guy who created the child. Not the one that was cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:29 PM
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For most men there isnt an emotional investment with marriage You’re projecting your feelings of marriage on him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:04 PM
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Why get married if they’ll divorce you if they don’t like you anymore? Because it shows you are serious about this person and are not just holding out for someone better. That doesn’t compute You can leave with or without the marriage. Unless you’re religious or have kids marriage isnt anymore of a commitment than buying a house together
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:02 PM
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Also, just wondering. Is Mr Child Free snipped? If not, that's a red flag too. A child free man at his age who doesn't have a vasectomy is a man who is childfree....with you. As a man in my 30s that’s childfree and not snipped… this isnt true. I’m just a bitch when it comes to gettin surgery down there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:00 PM
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Man I wish you just led with that 😂 Then carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:30 PM
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Then move to those other continents I dont see why this is so difficult. If you know what you like then join a dating pool of like minded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:23 PM
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People who have casual sex and regular ons don't GAF. People who don't do that will mind. The world is a huge place and not every culture that is currently in existence is following a hedonistic sexual lifestyle. Then go on Christian mingle and get out of the normal dating pool. No sense in complaining about regular people yet trying to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:58 PM
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Just stating how the world works. Women who fucks chada on sight won't really be gf or relationship materiel in the eyes of other men. *In the eyes of insecure men Plenty of secure men dont GAF because they know most women will fuck Chad on sight. It’s just a matter of whether or not she told you about it Grow up and stopping being a pedo that only wants virgins. People have sex, get over it. I say all of this as another man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:08 PM
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There’s no “pretending” People can choose to have sex when they want. Just because you had casual sex at some point doesnt mean you always have to have it. That’s as dumb as saying someone who has only been in relationships is “pretending” if they decide to have a ONS. Get over yourself, you aren’t entitled to sex with a woman even if she fucked Chad on sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:56 PM
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Now you’re adding the word “highly” There’s no need for anyone to randomly bring up their sexual history. It’s up to you to ask. If a woman had a ONS before and you break up her because of it then that’s a problem you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:39 AM
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Yeah I do but it depends the situation If she was having an affair and hiding it I’d be done If she fucked a guy once(or did w/e) and admitted it herself we could work past that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:13 AM
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I’m talking about in the dating phase How would you know her full sexual history that early?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:10 PM
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There is literally no way to know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:25 PM
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Meh I feel like this applies to most people. Everything you’ve said happens to men that are dating women except the men put up with it due for consistent raw sex. Btw most women are bad at sex. So many think all they need to do is lay there and have 0 idea of how to please a man. (hint: him cumming doesnt mean you pleased him)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:45 PM
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I have never heard of men being turned off by a woman being taken
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:50 PM
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Many people make this exact argument when it comes to trans women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:20 PM
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A lot of men wont see a woman as gf or wife material if she has sex too soon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:32 AM
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Most of them probably don't have commitment issues. You should probably stop labeling them as much. it's a coping mechanism for you. I never said anything about “commitment issues”. Those men just have a lot of options and don’t see the point of settling down. At least not with the majority of women. Have you seen 500 days of summer? It just has to be the right person for a committment. Men that have a lot of options often times play the field. I've met some married men where they postponed aski…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:15 PM
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You and those men clearly like these videos or they wouldnt show up in your TikTok feeds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:51 PM
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Can you rephrase?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:49 PM
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Not just weight but also putting effort into style and grooming So many guys dont even try when it comes to appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:00 AM
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If things dont work out with my fiance I dont know if I would. Most women are not worth it imo. If I were to come across someone that catches my eye then whatever happens happens. But I wouldnt actively pursue romantic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:51 AM
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True My point is that having all the qualities you mentioned dont matter if you’re not attractive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:40 AM
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250k women is a lot But my opinion is based on HVM themselves. Men that women want sleep around. It’s why groupies are even a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:30 AM
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Go check out FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:03 AM
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No they arent lmao Women struggle with getting the men they want to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:56 AM
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None of this matters if you arent attractive enough tbh You just end up friendzoned
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:52 AM
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Funniest thing about all of this is that Tik Tok has an algorithm. If this is what you’re constantly seeing it’s because you’re constantly clicking on and favoriting these types of videos
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:49 PM
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https://closeronline.co.uk/celebrity/news/celebrities-who-cheating/ There’s some but just google celebrities cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:10 PM
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Those men are usually still having sex with loads of hot women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:24 PM
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As a man Well said You can look also at the porn industry and how popular really young looking women are It’s disgusting but true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:34 PM
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Yes I dont really care about her sexual history as long as she’s clean,childfree, and not a size queen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:39 PM
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I really should I’m honestly a bitch when it comes to surgery. I can’t even stomach reading about people’s experiences post surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:28 AM
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Male Not for anything serious If we’re both just interested in having fun then sure. I have 0 interest in becoming a father or step father.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:45 AM
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cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:38 AM
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You can stay or leave in a marriage too. Once again average marriage lasts 8 years. I also disagree to an extent. Marriage is just as important. Even in the Bible it says to put your spouse over your child. For the sake of being respectful I’ll just say no comment to any biblical stuff But if you’re religious that makes a lot more sense why you’re so adamant about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:27 PM
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The point being that having a child is a bigger commitment Average marriage lasts 8 years. Commitment to raising a child is at least 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:02 PM
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Being married doesnt mean you’re obligated to stay together Divorce exists
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:59 PM
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When did I say women aren’t wrong? She’s wrong for cheating but they also weren’t married. They had no real commitment. LOL having a child together is the biggest commitment that exists
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:47 PM
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1 and 3 can be good or bad depending the situation 5,9, and 10 arent unique to marriage 8 varies on where you work. Maybe in conservative area that’s true. No arguments for legal benefits (well some can be had via contracts and other paperwork) but that goes back to the idea that they should be available outside of marriage. I’m actually engaged myself for the legal benefits. I just dont like the romanticizing of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:46 PM
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No it’s not Double parent households are more stable than single parents Whether or not they’re married is irrelevant But it’s telling that you can’t admit a woman is ever wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:27 PM
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Are you now implying that married women don’t cheat? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:23 PM
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Ah I did misread But you’re still skipping the part where she cheated. So if he married her, she cheats, then he leaves, you would blame her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:05 PM
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I never said any of that btw. But you did say a man knocking women up carelessly is equivalent to a woman filing for divorce lmao. You’re making 0 sense. You’re equating a married man being cheated on to “knocking up a woman carelessly” You’re obviously a misandrist and can’t admit when women are at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:25 PM
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https://www.sterlinglawyers.com/illinois/property-division/gets-marital-house-divorce/ Case by case You can also sign a cohabitation contract if you’re unmarried which talks about how you’ll handle the house
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:23 PM
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You cant even provide reasons to support your opinion. If marriage was as good as you’re pretending there should be a list of things it provides that you can’t get elsewhere But that doesnt exist so you’re leaving the discussion FTR, I’m not anti-marriage. I’m more neutral than anything. I’m anti “People should get married”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:19 PM
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You’re intellectually stunned. Filing for divorce is completely different than knocking a woman up and leaving her to raise a baby on her own. Gotcha so you’re just a hypocrite When a man cheats he’s causing the divorce and is breaking up the home When a woman cheats it’s still the man’s fault and he is breaking up the home
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:14 PM
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You don’t get thrown out in a divorce. The courts usually order the home to be sold and the assets are divided. That is not what goes down when a couple buys a home without being married. You have no marriage contract in place. It’s case by case with marriages. You’re right. I’ve seen situations turn into domestic violence situations trying to force the other one out of the home, locks being changed with clothes on the front lawn, the court deciding that they can’t force the other to sell, and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:13 PM
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Buying property with someone you aren’t married to is the dumbest thing you could do. When break up it’s going to be a complete shit show. I’ve watched it happen. I highly wouldn’t recommend. Lol… that sounds exactly like divorces. Isnt the reason you like marriage because it makes breaking up a “shit show” so people are more inclined to stay? Marriage does more than that and you just named one thing. The ability to buy assets together without having to constantly worry about breaking up and bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:56 PM
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You just blamed him for breaking his home despite the wife cheating You can’t spin it so that both situations are the man’s fault. Be consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:53 PM
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Yeah no. People who shack up don’t deserve rights as people who put in the work to get married and stay married. I don’t understand why you think being married means you “deserve rights”. Having children together while living with each or having a mortgage together are big commitments. If two 20 year olds get married they arent putting in more work than 2 people that’s been together 10 years and own a house. Not everyone hates each other after years of marriage. No one is saying they all do. I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:52 PM
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I’m assuming you mean living together. Buying property together is also a sign security and reassurance Marriage doesnt really do anything outside of tax and legal benefits (which imo should be available for people sharing a mortgage )
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:29 PM
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That’s exactly how all relationships should work Staying with someone who isnt making you happy is a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:19 PM
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No, you broke that home by not marrying her before knocking her up. You haven’t figured out the broken home concept yet I see. Married people work out there problems. They just don’t up and leave. Blame this on yourself and not your ex. Women are the ones that initiate divorce the majority of the time because of infidelity. Does that mean you believe women are responsible for breaking homes in America? I’m not here to convince you to value marriage. You have already created a broken home and pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:14 PM
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You just said getting married would make an incentive to stay and that’s 100% true. You want the freedom to leave whenever you’ve had enough of her or when things get rough. Maybe you think you can do better than her. I feel the same about marriage but it’s not because I think I can do better. I want to be with someone that chooses to be with me everyday. Not someone that feels obligated to be with me because of a promise made however long ago. I’ve seen way too many people who are miserable whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:09 PM
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How so when people can still get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:03 PM
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No “bitch sessions”. Just men braggin about their “game” and the different ways they trick women into thinking they really care. I actually never say anything in these discussions because I don’t feel the same way. A lot of men wear it as a badge of honor and brag about it. You can chill out trying to talk down to me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:14 AM
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You have a negative view of women and relationships, of course, people will placate you by saying these things when you prompt them. Are you saying that I’m one of those men? Lol Not at all. I’ve just been around plenty of men that talk about women and relationships unfiltered.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:09 AM
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Sometimes it really is as simple as they just genuinely care about their partner. There are absolutely some men that are into relationships. There are plenty of others that will do all of the relationship things and appear into them to please their partners so they can get consistent sex. I’ve known men that will buy flowers, write poems (well copy poems from online), take someone to nice places etc while none of that holds any value to the guy. He just wanted sex and knew that doing that stuff …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:00 PM
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That’s lower tier men that struggle getting laid Any man that isnt desperate wants their partners to be into it and enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:57 PM
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This will sound mean but… Most men will rarely be completely honest with women. I’m sure there’s girl code as well and y’all talk about men and stuff differently around all women. You likely aren’t getting the unfiltered truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:55 PM
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Well there you go Average men struggle with frequency because they aren’t putting in the same effort that you do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:54 PM
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Which is great Do you still have issues with your women not wanting sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:48 PM
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The “reasons” usually have little to do with the partner. A lot of people are just serial cheaters or non monogamous but won’t admit it to themselves Go check out the subreddits centered around cheating. A lot of them say how their partners didnt do anything to deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:29 PM
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The figure they provided is still 65% which is the same as the article I gave you Are you going to speak on the issue itself or continue to deflect?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:25 PM
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FDS is very useful for women that put up with shitty men and abusers It’s problems come from not properly teaching women how to keep a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:23 PM
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https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-0939-z
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:16 AM
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I dunno what you consider “adult” But I’ve seen and know countless men that only really deal with women for consistent sex There are dudes out there that genuinely enjoy relationships but plenty of others that think all of it is a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:14 AM
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You really think starfish sex is desired by men? Check out deadbedrooms The fact that you’re basing sex itself solely on the man getting his nut is part of the reason women dont want it as much. You should also bring up how women usually end up taking on the lion’s share of domestic chores and childcare. Women have their faults too but the truth is a lot of men are just horrible partners both in and outside the bedroom. That’s why FDS exists. They’ve given up on even average men and only want th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:00 AM
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Has a lot to do with the fact that women in relationships with men orgasm less If more men put in effort in the bedroom they’d get more sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:52 AM
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Honestly this is most men not just here Majority of men do that other stuff to get consistent sex from women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:49 AM
1

He’s suggesting to pay for them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:18 PM
2

Well yeah But OP is plannin on askin random women to be escorts anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:39 PM
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If it’s small and not out of the way sure A practice date is a big ask
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:28 PM
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Why not? It’s about learning how to interact with women A date isnt some romance novel lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:27 PM
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If it’s a stranger why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:42 PM
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You underestimate how good they are at their jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:42 PM
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I believe in the root principals of RP. I don’t follow any of them tho because I’m in a LTR. I think RP is useful for men just looking for sex. I dont really have a relationship with my mom. Don’t hate her but don’t love her either. Edit: How it’s impacted me with women? I guess it makes me avoid anyone that reminds me of her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:31 AM
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Agreed All the men that call Will a beta fail to realize he’s in the top 1% and has his fair share of fun in their arrangement. I think it stems from people being so obsessed with monogamy that they look for any reason to attack a non monogamous couple
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:53 PM
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Never because he never expressed he would stop seeing other women This whole thread smells of insecurity. If you want her then act like an adult and commit to her. Dont just sit back and hope she decides to block everyone in favor of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:46 PM
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Imo two people living together long term or with children should automatically get the tax breaks and benefits Encourage people to stay together but forcing the “institution” on them aint it. I think people would be way better off without the added pressure of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 02:19 PM
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Marriage in general is a farce tbh It’s dumb that the government forces you to sign legal documents to get tax breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:48 AM
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This is all true too But I think the topic just speaks to the overall mindset a lot of guys have Like you said they’re leaving point on the table due to laziness
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:17 PM
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Ngl I read your comment like 5 times and cant make out what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 09:20 PM
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Because there are a lot of them complaining all the time in this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:27 PM
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In the context of this thread? Yeah The whole point here is so many men put 0 effort into their appearance It’s the equivalent of not bathing and then complaining that no one likes how you smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:19 PM
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So while yes, a lot of single desperate guys really need a makeover, not game tips, you're underestimating how few of us who are capable of getting chicks give a fuck what random girls think of us while we walk down the street. You’re likely attractive so this isnt really needed for you. It’s the incel or black pilled STEM lords that need this advice. So many dudes walkin around as 2/10 when they could at least be a 5 if they put in effort. Cant complain about your lack of success when it’s matc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:16 PM
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Nahhh Having a nice well fitted clothing looks a lot better than wearing ill-fitted clothing even if they’re both technically “basic”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:13 PM
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If you had to ball park their size how big would you guess they were? This website lets you put in different sizes to get an idea of how big it looks https://thevisualiser.net/sizer/1
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:08 PM
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Because y’all want him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:49 AM
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Unless you’re legit deformed all of those things can make a big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:58 PM
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Okay? That doesnt negate anything I said
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:39 PM
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Even then having more muscle or less fat can help your face signicantly Go check out any place on the internet with before + after pics of people when they took working out seriously. A lot of them you cant even recognize.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:38 PM
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This is just wrong You can groom yourself better, buy better clothes, get tats, work out, and try different hair styles. Anyone that says they cant improve their looks hasnt tried to looks max
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:25 PM
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Real life I grew up blue pilled af and never had success with girls while seeing the assholes get all the women. At some point I hit the gym and became more of an asshole and suddenly I’m noticed. Before then i had been told I was too nice by girls. Mind you I never even heard of redpill at the time. But once i did I realized it’s core principles are accurate. I think it goes too far and there are way too many extremist but it’s core beliefs show up in everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:25 AM
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I’m sorry but what makes this low effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:43 PM
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My length falls within average- below average range My girth is def below average Then there’s the fact that women prefer above average and think that’s normal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:18 PM
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Honestly this is beyond sad and the fact that OP exists validates FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:09 AM
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Please explain the “dating women is a better deal” thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:00 AM
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5 x 4 I dont mind talkin about it online Especially since people are always tryna gaslight small dick men and pretend it doesnt matter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:53 AM
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If it comes with huge tips? I’m sure they would
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:15 AM
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Tried that once and when she saw it she said “It’s not THAT bad” Which doesnt exactly instill confidence. Couldnt get hard with her. So i just avoid all dick talk. I’m good with foreplay and oral so I focus on that instead
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:14 AM
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Most of them talk the same I dont openly talk about my dick to avoid embarassment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:01 AM
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I’m assuming you’re being sarcastic Have you ever heard women irl talk about dick size? Especially for black men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:33 AM
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Confidence can get you dates and what not since women dont know your size But it absolutely matters once things get sexual. Nothin worst than a woman’s face going from anticipation to disappointment when she sees your dick
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:02 AM
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They want to is the point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:11 PM
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Not to most men including the Chads that are happy with the current market
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:33 PM
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I’m a small dicked man No need to imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:29 PM
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It’s not like most of us can afford to actually just go to a prostitute, especially specifically the men that women don’t want. It’d possibly be more affordable if it was legal and you’d have more workers. Even if they can. Hollow paid for sex will definitely make men feel worse I mean that’s what casual sex is. You go on a couple dates (pay) in order to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:28 PM
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Why would any men care? If you’re rep pill you’d just believe there are more younger women for yourself If you’re not redpill you dont care The only mind of men that care about this sort of thing are incels. There are plenty of redpill incels but I dont think it’s fair to lump their bitterness in with all redpillers. It’d be like saying every woman in FDS is just a crazy bitter lonely woman because there’s a sizeable portion of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:12 PM
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Right The issue is they wouldnt say the same about you and you dont even see that as a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:36 PM
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communication is the death of sex for sensual people, ***lazy + selfish people The kind that dont actually care about their partner’s and only worry about themselves its not the genesis of "good sex", the genesis of good sex is chemistry Who said anything about the “genesis”? Chemistry is definitely needed but chemistry can be improved through communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:25 PM
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If you dont have good chemistry you likely wont make it far enough for communication to matter. What exactly would this “higher standard” entail? Over 90 percent of men cum from heterosexual sex. That percentage is significantly lower for women. The percentage of guys who can make their women cum is the percentage you want to be in. It’s not just about cumming. Men can cum significantly easier than women. Being able to make a man cum doesnt mean you’re good in bed. That’s clearly not happening g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:32 PM
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That’s still part 2. How so? You dont consider those things part of the act of sex? Sure, but there’s a difference between telling a guy harder, faster, go slow and teaching a guy how to fuck you, which a lot of posts here seem to be implying is what’s required to close the orgasm gap. Okay so then this is a semantics issue. I’m referring to former not the latter. If you’re sleeping with a woman casually it is on the guy to perform however it’s not for the reasons OP is complaining about. It’s h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:15 PM
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If you dont want to communicate your likes then i doubt you care about his. Odds are you’re one of the many women that are bad in bed. Edit: It’s also not about givin step by step instructions. It’s just about lettin him know what you like and dont like
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:41 PM
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Sex is a skill and is about chemistry. You either know what you’re doing or you’ve managed to connect with a woman to make the sex transcend beyond just the act. And there’s the 3rd option of both parties being open and willing to explore and learn with each other For a lot of guys sex is just about sticking their dicks inside and entering into their own world where they try to relive whatever porn experience they can think of. We agree here If you need instructions you’re basically a homo sapie…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:38 PM
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My bad on assuming you were a woman Sex is all about communication. Anyone that disagrees with that is not a good sexual partner, straight up. Hell even referring to sex as “dick game” makes me sus of you. When people have good sex PIV is just a small piece of the puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:02 PM
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Could easily be their partners because many women put 0 effort into sex. They just show, maybe give a little oral and then wait for the man to put on a show.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:47 AM
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That first part is a straight up lie Women always blame men if he doesnt get hard. I always see shit like “he’s pornsick” , “is he gay” or women in general makin fun of him. Outside of head I dont think there are any other expectations. A lot of men do request anal but if a woman doesnt like it nobody judges her. If she doesnt orgasm the man gets blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:44 AM
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Redpill’s goal isnt getting long term relationships or marriage lol You’re thinking of it from a woman’s POV A lot of men couldnt care less about getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:53 PM
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The happiness of the dudes that subscribe to it matters. It helps them get what they want (women). Do I agree with all of their tactics? Hell no. But it works
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:21 PM
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Nothing about redpill is reasonable. Yet somehow it works lol I dont agree with the majority of the stuff they do but I do agree with the underlying principles of human nature. That’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:03 PM
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You’ll find more women naturally wanting to be submissive or more men being aggressive. That’s it. Each person is still an individual so I hold no expectation for a woman to be submissive. I dont even want submissive women as partners. Just because I believe redpill is rooted in reasonable principles doesnt mean I agree with everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:50 PM
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I dont believe in gender roles tho. I think that type of stuff has just been reinforced through the patriarchy. I do believe that women are naturally more submissive and more nurturing. Or that men are naturally stronger and more aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:25 AM
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According to this other person you’re not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:43 AM
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Maybe you should just learn the definition of the word
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:06 AM
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You’re having an issue separating my personal beliefs as an individual and my beliefs on our society as a whole. I’m a minority. I’m very aware of what biases in a society look like. That doesn’t mean I have to believe men and women are the exact same in all aspects. I believe we should be treated as equals in despite our differences
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:53 AM
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and to render that invisible You’re confusing What exactly am I doing that “renders that invisible” ???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:30 AM
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Yeah patriarchy has it’s issues too. I don’t agree with a man’s role being more valuable than a woman’s. When I say different I mean I believe what motivates us is different. I don’t place one over the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:23 AM
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I can appreciate you trying to help but I already see a therapist You’d have to offer a little more than that to get me to invest time and money into that book
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:08 AM
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Because anyone who identifies as a "giver" has anxious attachment. Period. They were neglected by their parents and now believe they have to earn people's love. No I don’t give to “earn” anything. I was def neglected by my parents but the reason I prefer to give is that anytime my mom did anything for me it was thrown in my face later on. I got used to feeling like allowing people to do things for me means they’ll act like I owe them and will remind me of it. So now I do my best to never make an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:20 AM
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how is bdsm degrading when its just the literal version of redpill ideology? Huh??? I said I believe in the core beliefs. So like the idea that men want to naturally spread their seed and women just care about looks, money etc. I dunno where you’re getting RP = bdsm if you're a giver, do you give women money and nurturing and compliments? or do you mean literally only sex? With a committed long term partner I have 0 issues giving. I compliment my fiance all the time and we both take care of each…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:16 AM
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I love it cuz it’s authentic. Seeing a woman let go and just get lost in pleasure is 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:04 PM
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I believe in Redpill’s core beliefs and I think blue pill is 100% wrong But I hate mainstream porn. It’s fake(I especially hate the fake moans and dirty talk) , and the rapey bdsm stuff is gross and degrading to me. I like porn that involves women being pleasured instead of focusing on male pleasure. Give me lesbian porn over a hardcore bukkake gang bang anyday. It aligns with how I am in the bedroom as I’m a giver and hate being the center of attention. Nothing is hotter to me than seeing a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:36 PM
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What is that? Is he referrin to basketball?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:19 PM
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Honestly, to hear that "everything is great and it's always been easy" I think to myself that these people have been leading parallel lives and have a lot of secrets between them. That or they just aren’t sharing how much they’ve gone through together. But yeah that’s what everyone is getting at when she keeps claiming how perfect and unconditional their love is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:38 PM
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The point here is she has no idea if they’ve ever cheated. You can still have a “great and healthy relationship” without it being a fairytale.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:47 PM
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Tbh there’s a solid chance it’s already happened if they’ve been together so long
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:45 AM
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Everyone goes through rough patches You saying that just shows you arent privy to everything in their relationship. You have a romanticized view. You should sit them down and ask how they handle rough patches.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:54 AM
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Anyone can cheat and if they did there’s a very low chance you’d ever know about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:51 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:50 AM
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Escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:30 AM
2

There are actual definitions for cucks. Their situation doesnt fit any of them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:46 PM
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Are you referring to the August stuff? They were separated at the time. He was just hurt that she did find a connection like that. That doesnt mean he didnt help define their open relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:44 PM
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Will Smith is not a regular man He’s in the top .01% and can get pretty much any woman he wants. His kids would likely be okay since both parents are loaded as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:58 PM
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I’m a man Two consenting adults can define what ever boundaries they want in their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:57 PM
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Talked it out with his wife? You think he should’ve slapped her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:39 PM
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Because they had an arrangement that let him fuck other women too. The joke about his wife’s medical condition is way more insulting than his wife engaging in consensual (consent from him and his wife) activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:19 PM
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Is he? I think his issue was the connection she had with August. I highly doubt Will would just go along with an open relationship if he didnt want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:18 PM
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It’s not one way and that was already talked about by them Regardless of how you feel about it they both clearly were sleeping with others. That’s not what a cuck is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:15 PM
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Im not understanding the connection
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:14 PM
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Lecturing us about privilege when talking about the Oscar crowd is ridiculous. Will Smith is one of the most privileged people on the planet, which he is proving by facing zero consequences. Will Smith is anything but privileged. He wasnt born into money. This isnt Jaden we’re talkin about. Will’s background is likely why he felt the need to handle the situation the way he did Regular people don’t throw hands at every opportunity because they have families to support and will actually face conse…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:13 PM
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Yes to all of this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:11 PM
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That’s white america mostly A lot of minorities think Will was justified. White people tend to side towards “ItS JuSt WoRdS”. It really just comes down to your culture. I think Will’s response was understandable but imo should’ve happened off of TV. Anyone that says “violence is never the answer” is privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:59 PM
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He’s not a cuck They had /have an open relationship and he fucked other women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:53 PM
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Remove the “intentional” part. Intentions don’t matter. What matters is what actually happened especially when we don’t know his intentions. Even the crowd’s reaction was more of a hurtful groan. But we don't know that he didn't think he was making fun of a fashion statement. Especially when she has a history of rocking that cut. What I’m saying is whether or not he knew is irrelevant. When you make jokes like that you’re rolling the dice on whether it’s a fashion choice or other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:47 PM
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It doesn’t matter if he knew. That’s why you shouldnt make jokes like that when someone has an odd appearance. What if she had cancer and was doin chemo? I love comedians but it was done in poor taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:37 PM
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How does that change the fact that she has it now and has been fairly open about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:26 PM
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This is dumb They had an open relationship and he also slept with other people He def took it too far to slap Chris on live TV but not wanting your wife’s condition to be made fun of is reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:12 PM
1

Right I swore I read this garbage last night lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:07 PM
1

Maybe maybe not I just know I would personally hate being famous
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:42 PM
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In all honestly. A guy should focus most of his efforts into game. Now before any introverts get into their feelings and tell me that they dont wanna deal with the trying noses that is fame, would you rather be the person who is invisible with zero dating options? Yes x100000000 Give me no attention over attention from everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:08 PM
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Being fat vs working out also has a clear affect on one’s testosterone production. If you’re young and fat you’ll produce less than if you were in shape. It’s not a guarantee you’ll get a jawline but it can help
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:25 PM
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Did I say anything about “magically growing a jawline”? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6206510/ Testosterone impacts stuff like jawlines
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:47 PM
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Honestly your OP kinda proved their point lol. You sound like you have unrealistic standards. I’ve seen plenty of incels only interested in hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:54 PM
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Yeah some people just get unlucky with looks but a lot of times dudes look better when working out. Especially when they’re still young because the extra testosterone can help influence things like jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:31 PM
1

Well losing weight typically helps your face look much more attractive Multiple necks and no jaw line doesnt really drop panties
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:18 PM
1

If I ever become single I’m fucked cuz I dont even have social media
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:50 AM
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A girl who is saving herself for marriage typically is religious and wants the same from a guy - someone who shares her values. When dating within a religious community, you are joining that community, which means going to church regularly, showing genuine interest in the religion, praying, meeting her family, and winning the approval of her parents - something that can't really be faked. You’ve never been around religious people if you think that cant be faked
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:11 PM
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No she’s right There are different kinds of overweight women. Some carry their weight extremely well due to their fat distribution. So many men find bigger asses, bigger thighs, wide hips, big breast attractive. For a man you’d need some muscle thrown in to still be somewhat attractive and overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:57 PM
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Getting tired of this strawman No one is saying women should ignore attraction We’re saying all women shouldnt have unrealistic standards for physical attraction IF they’re looking for serious LTR. You can’t complain about not finding husband material while chasing all the Chad fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:53 PM
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If you want the truth Being in the top .02% in terms of looks while also having a great personality and domestic skills
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:25 AM
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I lol’d
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:24 AM
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Man hating parrot? I am a man I’m just one that understands how to please my partners. You still can’t wrap your head around women orgasming less with men or sex beyond penetration. You’re still conveniently ignoring articles that said they have as much desire which is the whole premise of being horny. Men want coitus more than woman. We can agree on that. But it’s only one part of sex and I’ve provided enough evidence to show women dont get as much enjoyment from it and that they still have as …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:52 PM
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What "fact"? Do you realize that things that you believe in, is largely a religion? That it it not only isn't based on actual facts, but is also is something that is not even falsifiable, like, you know, that god thing. So what you’re saying is when you post articles and wiki links it counts as evidence. When I post even more they are dismissed because you can’t deal with reality. I'll take it as an agreement. And there we have it. You consider just coitus as sex. It all comes full circle. You d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:00 PM
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Oh, that boring gender blaming again. Or we can just call it facts. You’re still trying to dance around that fact. Yeah, women want good sex. That doesn't change the "men want more sex" at all. Women desire coitus less than men because they dont get as much from it. Women want sexual contact as much as men. Does that make more sense? It's a logical nonsense mixed with mild ad hominem. What I do know or not know about my female partners is not up to you to judge (not that I would give a flying F,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:25 AM
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Lol no it doesnt You just pay people to do the work needed to maintain your money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:38 AM
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Why are we even wasting time on that, when we have another study I’m fine with focusing on that one While also showing the gap between them being dissatified isnt as large. Women want good sex. Herero men dont provide that as often as any other type of partner. Hence women caring less about wanting more. They have the desire but the act itself is pointless if your partner isnt good. No, it didn't change much between 2003 and now (the first non paywalled link in google): Stops in 2018 we’ve conti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:03 PM
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So all that effort to somehow discredit study from 2003 is in vain. This is exactly why I wanted access to the full study. It was released in 2003 but we have no idea when the data was collected. For example https://www.statista.com/statistics/195951/marriage-rate-in-the-united-states-since-1990/ Marriage rates in 1990 were twice that of 2020. It was about 50% higher in 2003. They’ve been falling A LOT. I think we touched subject way more important, than whatever was discussed before. Possibly, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:49 PM
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At that point they’d no longer be an average man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:23 PM
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Uh. Sexual INACTIVITY increased is "what you said"? I said men are having less sex and people are having more sex outside of relationships. I provided data on the 1st, marriage rates speak for themselves. Although I should’ve made the point of marriage vs just relationships since there arent many studies on relationships. Not sure what that is supposed to mean, or prove. Lets go slow. Back in the day marriage rates were way higher than they are now. So of course more sex was being had within mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:47 AM
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My relationship with my parents / family is nonexistent so I’d be a hypocrite to care But I lol’d @ “feminine dignity”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:11 AM
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Average women arent interested in average men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:33 PM
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This is so true and exactly why FDS only hurts women looking for good men A good man won’t deal with a woman that’s entitled, puts in 0 effort, plays games, and refuses to communicate. Redpill at least preaches their aloofness under the idea of plate spinning instead of getting long term commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:11 PM
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I don’t think anyone expects a woman to date someone they’re not attracted to. The idea is that your partner shouldnt have to be a 9/10 to get your attention especially when you’re a 6 or 7
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:07 PM
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Thank you for clarifying. I was worried you meant he wasnt allowed emotional support anywhere but with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:15 PM
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Arent close friends intimate by nature? Like is he not allowed to be emotionally vulnerable with friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:04 PM
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So if a guy already had a close female friend he has to ask you for permission to continue being friends with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:53 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7293001/ In this survey study of US adults from 2000 to 2018, sexual inactivity increased among men aged 18 to 24 years and 25 to 34 years and women aged 25 to 34 years during the study period, with the increase among men mainly occurring among unmarried individuals. There ya go Kinda lines up with what I said. Men are the ones really seeing the drop off. The overall rate declined a lot due to less married couples but unmarried women arent seeing the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:26 PM
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I've missed sex revolutions that happened between 2003 and now. Online dating??? Social Media??? The overall progressive movements in the country??? Huh? Not sure where you get those wild ideas from, but millennials have less sex, not more. Men in general have less sex because women have more agency and are more picky. People are having more sex outside of relationships It also rubs me the wrong way that you seem to honestly think that humans need some social blessing to want or not want sex. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:10 PM
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The relevant part of the article is already visible in preview. Well if it’s your evidence all of it is relevant. I just noticed it’s from 2003 as well which is extremely old. Today’s dating scene and relationships work differently. Women are more liberated sexually. The wiki links an actual scientific articles, that have figured the phenomena. "a myth" "explanations" go with vague "but couples have less sex over time". See, what's wrong here? There’s an entire section with criticisms explaining…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:44 PM
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Do you have a way for me to view the article? It’s locked The wiki link you provided called it a “popular myth”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:25 PM
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Men whores that men don't care about, how are they related to the said not caring men? Study in the OP says they were asking about friendships Check how often lesbians have sex vs gays (not to get "but it's because tradition" rabbit hole) First result I found says “Among couples in the first two years of their relationships, 67 percent of gay couples, 45 percent of heterosexual couples, and 33 percent of lesbian couples had sex three times a week or more.” But it also mentions “One problem with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:13 PM
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You mean men that those men want to marry, or men in general? I dont understand the question. Can you rephrase? Whether one can get pregnant from 7 men at the same time, or whether a man can get 7 woman pregnant and what the SUPER BASIC implications of all that are. I’m not sure how this is relevant towards anything I said. ANY not too unhealthy woman can walk into a bar and get out with a willing sex partner. Perhaps a man from top 1% could achieve the same. Sexual appetite gap between genders …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:04 PM
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Arent there more make virgins because additional agency for women has just led to them chasing Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:32 AM
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Uh you didnt read the whole thing She added that prior research shows that men often view promiscuous women as unsuitable for long-term romantic relationships, leaving these women outside of many social circles. What you’re showing in the OP is that men dont care if other men are whores
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:29 AM
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Uh just an FYI but the majority of people have some form of herpes. It’s really easy to contract and spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:39 PM
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Individuals make up the species We are quite literally made with a biological need for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:00 PM
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Woman are better looking Halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:06 PM
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We do need sex or we’d die out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:57 PM
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Modern?? Dudes had concubines in the bible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:51 PM
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I like the idea of it in theory. Finding someone you want to spend the rest of your life with and committing to it. But I don’t like how it works irl. Personally I could never marry a woman that places emphasis on marriage over a healthy relationship. Or when women hold back because they only do certain things for their husband. I dont think it’s fair that a man should be okay with accepting less than 100% while he has to go above and beyond for her. Then there’s the whole wedding and ring stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:56 PM
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This isn't true. There are still tons of rights you don't get. Social security benefits. No health insurance if company doesn't allow non-spouses. Taxes. Inheriting without paying taxes.Think about it, you're spending thousands on a lawyer to draft docs that give you maybe half the rights a marriage does. I think this is fair enough and honestly the main reason we’re going to get married. But I think it’s silly that people are pressured into it. Most if these things arent really concerns in your…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:41 PM
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From a legal perspective, on what happens if one of you gets sick or dies? Or loses their job and loses their health insurance? (USA) You can have a lawyer draft up legal documents to take care of this. From a FDS pov, yes, it is still bad if one of the partners does want to get married and one doesn't. You aren't compatible, and one sacrificing rather than realizing that. Of course, I meant if it isnt a priority for either side. Then there is the placeholder issue. Nah… most men dont see marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:51 AM
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I’m the guy lol You said the reason marriage is important is because of kids and chores. Neither of those are issues in our situation so why does marriage matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:24 AM
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But not all of the time, so my question still stands: Why is mess inherently a problem? Dirty is a problem, but mess is not. Mess is subjective. I guess it would come down to how messy. Being completely disorganized or cluttered is also a problem. Makes it harder to find things and harder to clean. In my experience of people, mess is mostly just misplaced items, not typically food/trash/dirty clothes. Obviously, that will differ from person to person, but it does show that mess itself isn't the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:35 AM
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We’ve been together for 12 years You were saying “forever girlfriends” are an issue. I’m askin if it’s still an issue in our situation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:16 AM
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As long as it's not dirty and things are just out of place, what's the issue with it? Why is it a problem? A lot of the time it is dirty. Some people like their home to feel lived in, instead of looking like a doctor surgery or a show-home where nobody ever touches anything. It’s one thing to be OCD and a neat freak. It’s another thing to be someone that doesn’t want trash, food, and clothes all over the place. There are too many men that don’t know how to handle basic cleaning
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:33 PM
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Having a higher tolerance for mess is a problem and only supports OP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:59 PM
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So what about couples that dont want kids and share household duties? I’m a man and clean just as much as my fiance. I cook just as much as my fiance. I dont believe in traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:13 PM
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But I think they would want you to take issue with them, the goal is to be off-putting to men who are value incongruent. The problem is they’re off-putting to virtually any man. Having values is great but they openly advocate lying, snooping, manipulating, being emotional abusive, laziness, etc. No HVM would waste their time with such an entitled woman unless she was drop dead gorgeous. And if that was the case HVM would’ve already been flocking to her. I love what it stands for at it’s core as …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:10 PM
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RIP OP’s bs He probably blocked you at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:41 PM
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You’d still be in a better position making 50k compared to 30
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:15 PM
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you are probably right for non chads and (below) avg guys, they'll never experience that. I'd rather just not be in a LTR then. That’s easy to say if women attention is a luxury for you. Below average guys especially are starving for it so they’re not in a position to be picky. I have to think that your avg guy, can get that experience. At least I have hope for them If they lower their expectations and get a below average women… yeah. But most dont want to settle
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:13 PM
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This is exactly why I tell guys, don't settle. If she's not giving you her all, doesn't find you hot, initiate, do pretty much anything for you. Walk. Horrible advice for non Chads and just creates more incels. There are men (most tbh) that exist that simply will never find a woman that feels that way. OP is correct except she should be including women that also have delusion expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:24 PM
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Men also watch porn that doesnt involve sex and penises Heck before internet porn magazines with pictures of vulvas was the go-to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:08 PM
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You’ve lost me at this point I have no idea what kind of porn you think guys watch
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:53 PM
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Yes it does…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:38 PM
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Really? Most men just love to look at vulvas? They're asking for vulva pics? Nude models specifically show their vulvas in pictures? The most I've seen of vulvas are in feminist or body positive art. Yes to all of these Men arent looking up artistic nudes when horny. They’re looking up hardcore porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:08 PM
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Well income max just means make as much as they can. Same way looks max doesnt mean they’ll be a chad but they may be able to add a couple points just from being in shape, proper grooming, and having style
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:59 PM
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Either looks max / income max or lower their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:16 AM
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Incels would still exist because they have an overinflated ego and want women to lust after them like Chad So I dont think much would change
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:53 PM
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Any average person that has delusional standards will likely end up alone. I dunno if “deserves” is the right word but it’d be a direct result of their actions. Also if you’re average and you do end up in a relationship, you’re being settled for. Only the elite get to have everything they want in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:00 PM
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The mythical FDS HVM does not exist unless the woman is a literal super model LVW would never see that much effort from such a man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:51 PM
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If she’s “self proclaimed” and in a relationship with a LVM then she clearly isnt one. The confidence and knowledge to avoid low tier relationships is part of what makes HV people special. The HVM doesnt settle for the lazy entitled attitude of LVW. A HVW would never waste her time with a LVM’s ego. These people are secure enough to know they can do better and have plenty of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:49 PM
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Nice try This is a trick question because HVM know their value and would never be in a serious relationship with a LVW. That’s the entire reason FDS exists. He may keep her around for sex or if he’s bored but no way she’s getting real effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:37 PM
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I think that completely depends on the type of woman Some are big on showing they dont need anything from the man. Some dont believe traditional gender role. Some feel bad about men always paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:11 PM
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I agree with all of this but I don’t understand how any of that makes it a bad sign if a woman wants to pay dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:46 PM
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Huge dick
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:58 PM
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Honest advice, I would take it as a bad sign if she insisted on Dutch, because typically that's to establish that she owes you nothing and doesn't want to feel like it's a standard date exchange. Im confused She doesnt owe us anything whether or not we pay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:56 PM
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For all you men here who believe physical attraction is overrated, please hit the dead bedrooms subs and enjoy the scope into your future. I love it Deadbedrooms are 100% because women arent physically attracted to men. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:40 AM
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Spark isnt a LTR trait You can get a spark from some rando at the club
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:42 PM
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You consider intimacy a chore (i dont just mean sex) Not sure what benefit you’d really find in LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:51 PM
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Well it sounds like you’re not interested in long term relationships. Nothin wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:39 PM
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And a lot of women also stop putting in effort Women that think it’s only the man’s job to create that spark are part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:38 PM
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Like seriously: why am I even trying to get a relationship if not to find someone I spark with? What's my motive here? Companionship? Love? Security? Starting your own family? Intimacy? There are many different reasons to date. If you want to date based on spark, go for it. Just know the odds of finding anything long term will be difficult. That's not a universal defenition of the spark. That was in direct response to OP talkin about an average lookin guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:28 PM
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If you choose correctly you'll still get those butterflies 10, 20, 30 years in. Nah It’s way more than that. This is why I said that mindset is immature. It’s not as simple as just choosing right. It takes work to keep butterflies in a long term relationship. Too many women expect it to just be there and then leave once it’s gone. Hint: It’s not the men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:23 PM
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There’s a big difference between initial butterflies (spark) and getting along well with someone (chemistry) Spark is that honey moon period where you don’t know a lot about the person and the newness blinds you to their flaws. Chemistry is when that wears off and you both enjoy each other as people. I think it’s immature to base relationships on the initial butterflies, not the ability to get along with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:18 PM
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Sparks are just chemistry lmao. Chemistry isn’t Disney bullshit They are two different things in the dating world Disney bullshit is that you’ll randomly and easily meet someone who’ll quickly sweep you off your feet This is the idea of spark. You don’t know this person but the idea of them (usually due to looks) makes you crazy about them Sparks on the other hand, natural. Why do you think two people can fuck an hour or so just after meeting for the first time? Many different reasons. Usually l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:06 PM
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You don't need someone who checks all your boxes on a spreadsheet - you need someone who makes you feel happy when you are with them. That’s not spark tho. That’s chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:56 PM
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Spark is disney bs lol People can create a spark through effort. If you’re just a bystander in whether or not spark exists in your relationship then you’re not mature enough to be in a serious relationship. You’ll just hop from fling to fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:48 PM
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Is ego not one’s sense of self? It’s normal for people to feel bad about themselves after rejection. How they handle that feeling is what may or may not be toxic. But the initial hurt to their ego is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:46 PM
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Fear of rejection is normal and not toxic The selfishness to lie or manipulate to get what you want is toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:36 PM
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You need spark, you need chemistry, you need mutual attraction. Just being with somebody because they are on your level is no reason to be with somebody...no reason at all.... This is such an immature take on relationships and people. Basing your relationships around “spark” is a sure fire way to make sure you’re hopping from relationship to relationship. Chemistry is certainly important as is mutual attraction but you don’t need to be blown away by your partner’s looks for them to have either o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:31 PM
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To me, a well shaped ass is often earned and developed. Any hambeast can have big boobs but to have a slim waist and plump ass usually requires effort Not true at all It’s based on their natural fat distribution. You can workout for a better ass but most women have it naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:44 PM
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If you want to say you’re just talkin about white people go ahead No one’s gonna cancel you for discussin white culture
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:42 PM
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Black Americans are Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:29 AM
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What kind of horrible person loses respect for someone for being vulnerable? I wouldnt want that person in my life as a friend let alone a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:59 PM
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Horrible advice Being vulnerable is a big part of relationships and building the bond you share. Does that mean complain about everything? No But if you have a true moment of weakness there’s no reason to hold it in
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:24 PM
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That’s also a good point They don’t realize they play a part in cultivating excitement vs finding someone to bring it to them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:13 PM
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Makes sense But the context of this this thread was TRP men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:01 PM
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I disagree with the title but agree with a lot of what you say. I think social media, TV etc has messed up the expectations of what relationships are. It’s rare to find long term couples that are genuinely “excited”. That’s why the phrase “honey moon period” even exists. Part of that long term stability involves habituation which is normal. You learn to appreciate your partner as a person and friend, not just an exciting lover. I think too many women look for that “spark” or “excitement” without…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:40 PM
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But please don't blame men for this. Its women's action, specifically hypergamy that causes this. I think your entire post is correct but this is bullshit. Men are taking advantage of these delusional women. There’s no need to shield scumbags that spin plates or actively cheat. If a guy is clear all he wants is sex, fine. But most times they’re pretending they’re interested in commitment while juggling As at a certain point women get so low in SMV that men will simply not be attracted enough to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:25 PM
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Grown men that are obsessed with young virgins are pedos Cant be anymore straight forward than that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:16 AM
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Anyone that is obsessed with dating a virgin is a low key pedophile imo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:24 AM
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I’m with you on accountability I hate the “we need to accept everyone except regular men!” Talk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:11 PM
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There’s no victims here In that scenario the guy’s size isnt ideal for her. That doesnt make him a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:10 PM
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I appreciate that. I try but I have my moments of doubt. But like you said it’s a waste of energy to focus on stuff you can’t control. I’m confident I can blow a woman’s mind with my tongue which at least keeps me competitive with the rest of y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:00 PM
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I dont like double standards either. Same woman that scream about body acceptance will make fun of dick in a heartbeat. More power to you. But know that a lot of women will make that comparison just not to ya face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:58 PM
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I dont like double standards either. Same woman that scream about body acceptance will make fun of dick in a heartbeat. More power to you. But know that a lot of women will make that comparison just not to ya face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:58 PM
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Men got every right to not want fat women same way women got every right to want a big dick. It’s not fair but that’s life. I dunno what else I can tell you. Men also dont like ugly women but I wouldnt say a man is wrong for wanting to date someone pretty. Let me ask you. What do you think happens if a man with a small one had ya attitude? I’m supposed to wait around until I find this mythical woman that prefers small dicks? Nah, I’d rather make do with what I have. No woman is ever gonna lust a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:40 PM
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Women dont know what average is. The nelly situation proved that. Women prefer bigger dicks, we all know it and women try to virtue signal and pretend they dont. That’s not really my point tho. As a man you absolutely could say that (assumin you’re talkin to your friend in confidence, not putting it out in the open for no reason) and I’d call the woman out on it as well if she overheard you and used it against you. This isnt a man vs woman issue. Truth is there’s a good chance your lady wont giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:20 PM
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I literally said that 'perfect' is unreasonable. It is also unreasonable to accept too much 'bad', which a lot of people are doing precisely because they aren't able to stay happy single. Sorry I’m not claiming you said anything. I’m providing you the logic of others who settle. I do agree with you about people not being happy alone and taking anything. I can 'like' someone just fine without wanting to enter into an intimate relationship and share my life with the person. For that to happen, yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:45 PM
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Doesn't matter if anyone's being insecure .the insecurity stems from what women say and think My point stands that saying something like that about your partner will get you dumped. Especially if that guy has any self respect. Because he objectively doesn’t have the biggest dick or wasnt the best at sex? Or the issue that she talks about your sex life? The former is unreasonable the latter is up to you. Do you also break up with women if you find out you dont have the highest salary of all of he…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:41 PM
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I don't consider it settling. For me settling would be looking at someone and being able to produce a list of shortcomings/things that annoy me but turning a blind eye to them because 'at least I won't be single'. The reason isn’t “at least I won’t be single”. It’s that people aren’t perfect and the good outweighs the bad. I'm not obsessed about some arbitrary 'perfection' - if I'm into someone that means I'm into someone and all vital checks/requirements have been fulfilled. So you only like so…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:34 PM
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But he’s still objectively unattractive. Who knows how she’d describe him to her friends in an unfiltered environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:32 PM
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Nah you must he tall or attractive if you think that. Go ask below average lookin men what their experience with women is like. I sure as hell never been “attractive af” to anyone. Attractive enough? Sure. But my personality carries me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:42 PM
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the people I've been with were people I loved and wanted to be with. I was attracted to them and enjoyed their company. This can apply and you’re still settling unless they’re literally perfect (hint: no one is) Since I'm not Chad Thundercock socially, getting casual is extremely hard, so the no-sex aspect of singledom can be a bit annoying, but otherwise - I'm pretty content being single indefinitely. Nothin wrong with that if that works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:37 PM
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I think in both scenarios you’re being insecure Sorry but odds you being the biggest, tightest, best kisser, best at sex, best cook, funniest etc is pretty low No one is a 10/10 in every area. People wanting to be are delusional and unrealistic. You don’t have to be the best to be good enough. Sorry Disney lied to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:35 PM
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Unless you’re in the top tier of men or women you’re going to settle. Otherwise you’re either lying to yourself or perpetually single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:19 PM
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Nah this is 100% insecurity You’re no different than women that cry if their man doesnt think they’re a perfect 10/10 Disney princess. Sorry buddy, we can’t all be Chads or physically irresistible. That’s just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:18 PM
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What you have been happier just staying an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:17 AM
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Of course it’s not ideal. But his biggest detriment to having a successful long term relationship will be his lack of experience. If he gets that then he’s no longer bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:02 PM
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You know when you see a really cute girl’s profile online and start imagining a life together and shit? Well I don’t social media but that sounds creepy af lol That’s how you gotta make them feel. Present both overtly and covertly a life that they could see sharing with you. I’m happy i’m not in the dating market but if this is the expectation I will gladly stay single if my current relationship doesnt work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:00 PM
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Marketing isnt just showing your best qualities. It’s about making them seem better than they are. I’m not saying I hate marketing as a whole but the practice has definitely moved from just information to straight up dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:49 PM
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You need to water grass for it to grow. Most women wouldnt give the ugly guy a second thought. If you would, props to you. You’re one of the few people that isnt shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:48 PM
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Don’t put it to the side 30 year old single mothers are bottom of the barrel. I’m speaking only in terms of the dating market. Not saying they’re a low tier person or anything. No one should base their happiness on relationships anyway. At that point his best bet is to just get experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:47 PM
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Define “decent” Average income and looks with no sexual experience makes him bottom of the barrel He need to be making A LOT of money to make up for it. Even then he’d probably lack the charisma to get a woman’s attention if he’s an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:44 PM
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At that point the man is likely bottom of the barrel if he’s an incel. Beggars cant be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:07 PM
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Marketing is basically tricking people Is that how we should approach online dating? Serious question because I thought the goal was to be genuine so you can find someone compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:59 PM
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You put /s but I think she has a point. It is the norm and women will side eye you if you dont know how to navigate it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:58 PM
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Say a guy can make you laugh but is ugly Would you date him before an incredibly good looking boring guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:58 PM
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Tall maybe but not handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:55 PM
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What does being good at social media mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:27 PM
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Doesn't that make you more attractive despite being short or with a not so handsome face? To women? The answer is easily no lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:27 PM
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As unless you are having a marriage and child with your celebrity crush, the ultimate fantasy, how arent you settling? That’s pretty much the point. The only people that have the luxury of not settling are the top 20%. The rest of us take the best we can get. It’s no different than buying a house. If you’re rich you can get literally everything you want. The rest of find try to get most things we make but settle in other areas. It’s not a big deal and is definitely about maturing. When you grow …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:51 PM
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Bro just find a career oriented women and dickmatize her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:36 PM
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FDS is Female Dating Strategy. A subreddit full of bitter women trying to figure out how to lock down top tier men. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/ It just ends up being a place where they insult average men and fawn over that 20% (or even 5-10 if you wanna use that number)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:30 PM
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Sure a 1 night fling is purely physically but woman are much more inclined to read red flags leading into sex and not than a man is to disregard them to simply get laid. If this were true stuff like FDS wouldnt exist either. Women are desperate for the top 20% of men the same way average men are desperate for average women. If you’re really in the Chad category then you’d have many women come on to you. I’m nowhere near that but I’ve witnessed it through friends and the way women treat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:31 PM
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Yeah… This is based on nothing but patriarchal non sense to make ugly men feel good about themselves. If that were true we wouldnt see all the incels complaining about Chads gettin nonstop casual sex. Hell we have women who admit there are guys that are good for just sex but not dating material. Those other things matter but it all takes a backseat to physical attraction. Not really any different than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:06 PM
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Im assuming you meant to respond to OP and not me But women are also visual. That misconception is exactly why men dont put in enough effort to be more attractive. Women lust after great looking men same way men lust after great looking women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:59 PM
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I got that info from bi people The average woman puts in way more effort into her appearance than the average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:31 PM
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Non sense Attractive men have 0 issues getting women Ask bi people, the notion is usually that women are better looking on average. They just put more effort into their appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:30 PM
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Men on average just arent as attractive as women If the average guy was a Chad people wouldnt think this Women are horny just not for average men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:55 PM
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Just read that sentence out loud lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:13 PM
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Oh you’re still young I was scared you were gonna be a mid-late 20s dude hunting teens
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:13 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:12 PM
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It’s just the whole social song and dance we do. For jobs, friendships, neighbors, and romantic partners. We are always trying to impress others so that we can maintain good social standing and show that we care. When someone behaves in a way that is contrary to that, it stands out as a negative. Thank you for spelling this out. I am so socially inept that I’ve never even thought of this or knew this was how things worked lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:41 PM
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I dont care if its a man or a woman, if someone is whining, then they are. You must be an amazing partner or friend if this is how you treat people’s insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:26 PM
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His jealously is but he isnt mad at her or even using it against her. He made an accurate statement. Funny how when women have insecurities or issues we’re all supposed to take notice but the second a man has an issues he’s “whining”. He said he accepted the situation for what it is but that doesnt change the fact he’s right. She would never have given him a chance before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:54 PM
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Black men being hyper sexualized existed way before porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:37 PM
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That’s not at all the point She confirmed that she wouldnt have given him a chance when she was younger. He was making the point that when women are at their physical peak they only go for chad types and when they’re older their priorities change. She even acknowledged his points and didnt disagree with them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:36 PM
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So even though she confirmed all of his insecurities he’s still the bad guy? His initial comments were wrong but his feelings about the situation turned out accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:03 PM
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Your girlfriend would be devastated to learn that you settle for her and she's not your dream partner. Why? Very few people get their Disney ending where a princess meets a prince. Unless you’re in the top 20% or so you can’t get everything you want in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:59 PM
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Bdsm is def not the standard for “hot” sex Plenty of people find it gross (me included) If you’re missionary only with the lights off it might be dull but standard sex is hot too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:16 PM
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Passionate vanilla sex can be hot Work on that part and you’re good to go
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:39 PM
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Honestly the worst part is seeing a woman’s sexy look of anticipation go away the moment it comes out. I’ve literally seen a face go from 😋 -> 😕 It’s the one thing I would never wish on anyone and something most people will never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:13 PM
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We have a multitude of sex toys and vibrators now to assist even the smallest of men. Become familiar with them. This advice doesnt help when most women wont give you a chance sexually. It’s always funny to me how different online is than irl. Online everyone always pretends it’s no big deal but when you talk to women irl they make it clear they want nothin to do with a small one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:06 PM
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Statistical average and what women think is average are different. But the length isnt really the worst part it’s girth. Girth average is like 4.5 so the overall volume is just small.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:33 PM
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It’s below average in both But yes women expect black men to be packin I dunno if you’re aware but the rapper Nelly accidentally posted a video of himself gettin a blow job. His dick was above average and women were trashin him callin him 🍤🍤🍤
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:23 PM
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I already said people can vet or choose what they like I also explained why i think bein repulsed is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:51 AM
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I had a woman begging to see it and she reached in my pants to pull it out. Her response was to tell me it’s small but she apologized. Sex wasnt on the table after that. She actually friendzoned me. I’ve had another give me a pity look once she saw it. We still fooled around some but she left without wanting sex. She also stopped showin sexual interest afterward
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:47 AM
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I guess it depends how you define love
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:00 AM
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You clearly dont have a small one I’ve been insulted multiple times the moment women saw my dick. In real life plenty of women will turn you down if you’re not big enough. Edit: For those askin it’s 5 x 4 So it’s below average and im black which makes it worse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:55 AM
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I am not “repulsed” I don’t know how many times I have to say it. I would not want to have sex with someone with poor hygiene nor date them. But I wouldn’t be disgusted by that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:36 AM
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I mean infertile women have always existed so I’m not sure why you believe there’s “no script” This reads more like a fantasy novel than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:22 AM
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What about small dick men? I can never become the guy women want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:19 AM
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No and no I don’t understand why I need to be repulsed. My first thought is wondering why their hygiene is poor. Maybe they’re poor, maybe they have mental health issues, maybe they were abused. If I knew someone like that I’d be trying to help them instead of being repulsed by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:43 PM
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I’m ignorant, can you explain this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:27 PM
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Even in that case women are winning because the average women is now sleeping with HVM and some LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:26 PM
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It doesnt change anything I’ve had women I didnt find attractive come on to me I’m not repulsed by them, I’m just not interested. If anything it’s a compliment. I feel like you’d need to be really full of yourself to respond that way to someone liking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:24 PM
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I’m a man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:20 PM
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For top 20% men that’s true. Below average guys like me have to get to know women and hope they like my personality enough to give me a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:38 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with vetting or choosing what you prefer What I’m saying is that anyone that frames their dating criteria around repulsion is sad. Perfectly fine to not like someone but to have such a negative reaction is telling of your(general your) character. Exceptions of course towards people that genuinely hurt others like rapist and what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:36 PM
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2 main reasons 1) Men enjoy sex lol. You can just get nervous in the moment because all the pressure is on us to perform. Not every guy has the confidence of pornstars 2) If we don’t show our sexual interest early on then we run the risk of being friendzoned
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:33 PM
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The difference is one is rooted in negativity and damn near hatred. The other is rooted in positivity. I think it’s sad if you base your desires around negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:31 PM
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Preferring anyone is fine Being “repulsed” is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:28 PM
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Nah Average woman can still get sex easier than a HVM Women still settle a lot and will get dicked down by non HVM
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:00 PM
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Extremely if they’re a new partner Men get nervous too and performance anxiety is a major factor in ED
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:03 PM
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That’s just sad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:14 PM
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That’s just not true There are plenty of highly conservative religious countries and the women still get raped Rape existed when America was mostly conservative too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:20 PM
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Uh have you heard of religion? It’s the name of the conservative game and many people are openly hypocritical about cherry picking which rules to follow
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:17 PM
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You underestimate how many dont actually enjoy the company of women outside of sex. A lot of them tolerate women just so they can have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:46 PM
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True It’s for the opportunity to get you to consent. When you’re in an actual relationship tho he’s pretty much paying for consent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:35 AM
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Honestly depends the prostitute But good on you for sticking to your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:33 AM
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You don’t pay for dates because that’s what leads to sex. 🤣 No clue what world you’re living in but many man absolutely pay for dates so it’ll lead to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:29 AM
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I feel bad for them. It must suck to have absolutely no game, to be so unlikeable, or to be so unattractive that they can only get laid by directly paying someone for their time. What do you think men are doing when they pay for your dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:43 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/szz60n/im_very_new_to_all_these_pills_but_red_pill_seems/hy7vye5/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 You comment is right there. You says there’s “a way to win”. A as in singular. Dont backtrack now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:40 AM
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Yeah let’s pretend there aren’t a plethora of men willing to fake it to get sex. You already exposed yourself saying women should only wait for marriage. You’re just an incel that wishes he could find a low n count women. Sorry buddy, your best chance is makin a lot of money and settling for a high n count woman with multiple kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:15 PM
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How the hell can you blame the woman for looking for something serious? The guy in this situation is a major asshole if he pretended to want a relationship for months just to get sex. The fact that you’re tryna frame that as a woman issue instead of a man one is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:03 PM
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Not always There are guys that debut as monsters. Unfortunately some organizations like feeding low level fighters to their talented up and comer to pad his record. Both could be 0-0 but there’s still a huge skill discrepancy. It’s a thing and not really the fault of the fighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:59 PM
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Well his opponent could just be really good There are elite fighters that have gotten embarrassed in the cage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:07 AM
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I’m a man and I honestly dont know how to connect the 2 I’d always had intimacy issues from a not so pleasant childhood
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:29 PM
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