| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 357 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭 | Logistics | random-naija-guy | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 03:23 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | It feels great unhooking & peeling off a milfs bra with huge boobs!Lmao | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭If I’m a doctor, I can afford child support… | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 02:08 AM |
| 7 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭These women ain’t tryna hear all that fam, not everybodies tryna invest in someone. I’m someone who’s going to be well off in ten years competing against people who are ok-financially rn; most people don’t like delayed gratification I find. Like yeah they’re interest is piqued, but logistically I can’t do much with that alone | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭Yeah that I was my thought process exactly, gotta go to a decent venue for a first date, follow up with something more low key. So no dating for me this decade then :( | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭Sex is an important aspect of the dating aspect for me, compatibility and whatnot. I’ve just had phases where I’ll be talking to a woman for like a year, mutual celibacy, just to have things go up in flames immediately when things escalate physically. Not tryna have a repeat of that, or be trapped in those sexless marriages I’ve heard about. Want a marriage with one person, and it to be healthy sexually and emotionally | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭I’m in an SMP hoping to link to med school next cycle. I’m only on the federal loan which tops out with less than I need for housing. Don’t private loans lean on your credit score or somn, or immediately accrue interest while you’re in a program? | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭I’m doing research, volunteering, and studying like 8 hours a day and still getting Bs… and trying bulk and gym. Do not have time to work Maybe it’s the type of women that use dating apps, but whenever I invite them on cheaper dates like me cooking or a lake walk, they ghost idk | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭But I’m tryna get laid nowww lol | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 02:10 AM |
| 30 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭You know… I just might 💀 | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭They said my veins were too small and sent me home 😭 | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭Top golf was like 65$, she went ahead and ordered food and drinks and it was like $80. Then we played a second round. Then she’s like “I feel like going go karting rn, idk” at which point I was like naaah. Never got a call back. Shits make me anxious to pick a first date venue and seem broke now | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 09:35 PM |
| 55 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭I’m a medical student. I’m not gonna have disposable income til I’m like 35, but most people (myself included) aren’t tryna wait til then to get married. I have enough (barely) for my personal expenses, but this is the norm for students | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Surgery improved my appearance... I have no idea how to handle it“OH NO IM HOT!!!” -🦑 | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | What are you gonna be for Halloween (best costumes)?40 min out, appreciate it | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Began dating good looking girl, struggling with jealousy.Nah OP, she’s talkin nonsense. Don’t let that slide. “I can flirt with who I want to despite asking you to be exclusive, which forces you not to flirt with other women. That’s just how it is.“ She’s bitchin’ you. Personally, I wouldn’t take that | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Began dating good looking girl, struggling with jealousy.That’s what I was thinking. Dealing with constant shit tests would wear on my patience and just fatigue and irritate me. Would be fun for a bit, but I’d reserve exclusivity for peace. That’s just me though. A lot of extroverted energetic guys can handle and thrive with that. If it’s too much of a drag, I wouldn’t bother… idk depends how hot she is. Your call | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | How can I (22F) approach guys? What do I do if I catch them staring at me but they never approach me just stare???Hehehe… I know it’s you u/round4plentymore 🙃 You really stressed over this huh? You been making HELLA posts | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 12:49 AM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.This has me dyin lmao | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | What are you gonna be for Halloween (best costumes)?I have a costume idea (Ogun Montgomery from fire force) but no idea where to go for Halloween parties where it’s not cringey to dress up I’m in [redacted (lol)] | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Tik Tok has way better advice than this subredditHow can you be a neck beard warrior, but also gym twice a week… how is that compatible lol | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | 4 ONS in a month, How to get laid in college for young men.Ah I see. I still feel like white guys have it easier with white women, but I get your point | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | 4 ONS in a month, How to get laid in college for young men.*black I don’t follow… what do grannies gotta do wit it? | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | 4 ONS in a month, How to get laid in college for young men.Do you mean black people are “more acceptable up there” :| is that what you’re saying? | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | 4 ONS in a month, How to get laid in college for young men.Wait is it easier in the north for black guys 👀 (I ask this as a black 22M) | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 09:12 PM |
| 2 | 4 ONS in a month, How to get laid in college for young men.OP is 188cm. That’s where he went right lol | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 09:09 PM |
| 0 | How can I (22F) get more male validation/attention? Do guys like girls that dress slutty?https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/xgxqx9/i_hate_being_a_virgin_as_a_21f_but_i_dont_believe/ioyihtu/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 See the post was deleted, but the “I look like Layla from All American” was the same. It was also the same in the string of other posts | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 01:16 AM |
| 0 | How can I (22F) get more male validation/attention? Do guys like girls that dress slutty?Can you STOP reposting this SAME paragraph question??? I saw you post this (post is now deleted) same question two weeks ago! I know it’s you because you keep describing yourself as looking like Layla from all American lol I responded the same then: Get off Reddit and use the advise you’ve received. I kid you not, you must have reposted this SAME question like 20 times, yes?? Please get off Reddit and approach some guys, Jesus Christ. We had a convo in that post along these SAME lines, and now y… | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | /r/askseddit has just been bannedFigures. Been in that sub for month, as SOON as I arrange for a date and need advice, they go down… | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Asking For Consent SucksYou should probably rephrase the title to emphasize the fact that you mean consent in the context of dancing, and not sex | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | I hate being a virgin as a 21F but I don’t believe in hookup culture. What now?Tbh tho, I’ve had pretty much no luck either. It’s worse for me, I’m on a Christian campus, fairly small. The number of people in premed here is small, so if I DO try and move to some girl from my classes, the rest of them would know. I don’t even have time for clubs (which are pretty nonexistent anyway) cause I’m supposed to be applying for med school. I’ve been going to the club and bars, chatting to ladies, but I can never close and agh. I can’t approach every cute guy I see That resonates. I… | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I hate being a virgin as a 21F but I don’t believe in hookup culture. What now?Ye it’s true. I keep seeing similar posts and thinking “Didn’t I see that same post a few days ago…” I’m (22M) also a virgin, personally I’d see it as a a bit of a relief if a girl I find is equally inexperienced. You’ve got nothing to worry about. Funny thing is, I constantly get girls showing interest, but wanting to establish a relationship. I just want a hookup 🤷🏾♂️. All the other guys my age got to do that, now they clown me for having not. I’d rather be single than get into a relationship… | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | I hate being a virgin as a 21F but I don’t believe in hookup culture. What now?You’ve been asking the same question in multiple subreddits for days Get off Reddit, and use the advice you’ve gotten. Go rizz some guys up | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Need to know if this girl is into me enough to kiss herUpdate? | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Is there a middle ground between the Simp and the Recluse?For extroverts socializing is a hobby, for introverts it’s a skill Bars | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Approached a lot of girls in the club this weekendWhy do you think it’s easier outside of the club? Just wondering | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | For the people who know womanese when a girl says shut up after a tease what does that meanNot really helpful… | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | “Acting” nonchalant about a girl who doesn’t reach out?Then switch focus to your other options | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 08:30 AM |
| 1 | “Acting” nonchalant about a girl who doesn’t reach out?OP my homies always say to have at least 2-3 options you’re working at a time. That way you don’t have to strain yourself not to give one of them too much attention, you just won’t. Pursue someone else | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:09 PM |
| 5 | Name is ClintMy names Bagina, I get where you’re coming from… (“Clintoris” has me dead tho, ngl 😂) | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?Generalizations are just that. Generalizations. Not rules. They have utility in them of themselves to describe what TENDS to be the case. It's implicit that they're not ALWAYS the case. It’s not like they’re rules. They’re fitting descriptions, not prescriptions. For whatever reason, cultural or biological or whathaveyou, women in their 30s tend to be baby-crazy. Yup. I don’t really have like… a big point I’m building up to. I just kind of felt like being pedantic :p | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 10:36 PM |
| 20 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?like you’re a bit ashamed of the fact that you have a cock This phrasing made my day lmao | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | How do guys pull girls at church, and if it doesn't work out, how do they keep going and keep trying if it doesn't work out.Very interesting. I’m finishing a biblical studies minor, parents are evangelical, feel like that’s all pretty accurate. “Vague signs” being used as a (possible well-intentioned) excuse for abuse, tyrannical pastoral control, etc. Can’t tell you the number of literal months I’ve been forced to fast continuously in order to be eligible for my college getting paid for on the basis of a “spiritual hunch” or somn… lot of that’s just some bullshit, I see what you mean | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | How do guys pull girls at church, and if it doesn't work out, how do they keep going and keep trying if it doesn't work out.Yeah but… isn’t that the entire point of belief in God in the first place? Predestination and all that. Don’t see how you can be super religious and think that divine determinism is immature, like isn’t that the whole thing | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | How do guys pull girls at church, and if it doesn't work out, how do they keep going and keep trying if it doesn't work out.“Throw the ‘God meant for us to be together’ bullshit away that’s not how it works” You don’t sound “highly religious” my guy haha | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 10:53 PM |
| 21 | She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?”Lol | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 4 | Calling all females…I’m not a woman, but I find it interesting that a good number of the responses from women here are saying they want a “straightforward, honest guy who isn’t putting on a persona”, but isn’t that the entire point of this subreddit. To master the persona you put on to be attractive to the opposite sex? An aspect of pick up art (if you can call it an art) is that it’s inherently manipulative. So then, would it be wise to just… improve your persona more so that women believe you’re being more genuin… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:36 AM |
| 5 | Calling all females…Right? God forbid wanting to talk about serious, mature issues instead of the weather… I thought women prefer to skip small talk half the time | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Finding a boyfriendHave you considered that some of the guys may not be shallow and do value personality, but you just have an underdeveloped, boring personality? Make sure you explore interests, ideas, and views to make yourself more deep as a person. The more interesting you are as a person, the more people are interested in you for your personality. It needs to be “the most interesting thing about you” as they say. A lot of the time someone can be super attractive, but honestly really difficult to even converse… | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | I am above average looking and a lot of women want to sleep with me [M25] but it scares my virgin assHonestly, this isn’t the type of subreddit you need my guy. People here are figuring out HOW to attract the opposite sex (or same-sex, whatever), but you’ve already got that down. You’re attractive to women, that’s good! At this point, I wouldn’t imagine it’d be that difficult for you to get a girlfriend then. Unless you’re super set on having a higher body count, or ‘exploring sexuality’ or whatever, just get a girlfriend and wait til you’re comfortable with her. Takes all the awkwardness out a… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 09:42 PM |
| 5 | I (F22) want to hook up with my flatmate (M24) who I’m temporarily living with, there’s clearly tension between us but I’m not sure how to make the move. Any advice?Lady… just fuck him. He’s your roommate? Wear something skimpy and come onto him. Act super seductive. Simple | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Avoid the "what about you" question after every sentence is the most powerful tool on chatPfft that’d never work! Nah, best to be hyper-critical and overanalyze every minor interaction… | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 01:18 PM |
| 2 | How can I reclaim the situation when a woman uses her sexuality to tease me.I was just thinking this 😅 show her your stomach??? I don’t think that’s the play | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 03:07 PM |
| 9 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?That doesn’t actually imply anything about non-western society tho… | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Hmm… Well do you still have genuine feelings for her? Do you see a longer term relationship with her having a future outside of just sex? Do you think you’re compatible? Cause if you are then, at risk of coming off to her as kind of a pussy, you could put your cards on the table and say that you’re now genuinely interested in pursuing her romantically and getting to know her deeper. Could ask her what she means by working on herself and what that would mean about room for a relationship between … | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis: Get rid of it today!I see… that makes a lot of sense. So it’s not about completely objectifying people (more specifically women), more so objectifying someone enough so that you can properly evaluate whether or not they are worth committing to and individualizing fully. Appreciate the response! | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 03:40 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Have you considered that the reason she doesn’t want to have sex with you is because she wants the relationship to be deeper than that? Maybe she wants to relate to you outside of a purely sexual context and wants to be with you emotionally and all that 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 03:17 PM |
| 7 | Oneitis: Get rid of it today!Not everybody who thinks a woman as an individual is “unique” or “special” is a simp. That’d be like sayin that nobody as a person is capable of anything other than being a face in a crowd, which is a pretty bleak look on society that’s reminiscent of sociopathy… You’re essentially saying if a man is committed to a single woman it’s because he’s completely incompetent. Isn’t like… loyalty a trait we would value and want to be expressed in the parents of tomorrow? Idk man, that’s just my thoughts… | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis: Get rid of it today!That’s kind of a sociopathic cold mentality isn’t it? | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Always be skeptical when a girl shows interest to youDon’t let this cut you too deep G. You’re only 17, still in high school. I’d like to think that women become more emotionally available and easy to read in your 20s. Don’t let this make you paranoid or untrusting. Not all women are just using you for validation. Graduate, turn 18, and in the future in situations like this you can just bang her and walk away. Things are less messy post HS. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Do you think this is appropriate?I thought that was pretty smoothe personally | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 10:38 PM |
| 1 | I'm catching feelings for the girl I lost my virginity to😂😂 | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 11:37 AM |
| 1 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetOk kitty titty committee 🌚 | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 03:14 PM |
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