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| 2 | Question about older women | random923828 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 12:46 PM |
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| 7 | Most men catch feelings for their female friends, women rarely for their male buddiesThanks for the truth on this. There seems to be a surprising number of people who cannot understand nuance or context. Your reply is a breath of fresh air. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?So I think there is a fundamental misunderstanding between us regarding terms. When I say objectify I am NOT meaning, not making judgements about individual people and determining where or if they should fit into your life based off that. EVERYONE DOES THAT; and those aren't objective judgments those are subjective. When I say objectify (and I thought this was obvious in the context I used it in), I mean men who objectify woman as in: reducing her down to only an object for the sole purpose of s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?You seem to misunderstand what I am meaning. Any woman who actually cares about her partner would OBVIOUSLY TALK WITH HIM IF HE APPEARED TO BE SHUTTING DOWN TRY TO FIND OUT WHY AND FIX THE PROBLEM, WITH HIM. By saying divorcing because a man has emotionally checked-out, I mean that the man has emotionally checked-out of the relationship: as in he HIMSELF is not willing to work on it any longer while being physically present benefiting from the labors of his wife (cooking for him, cleaning the ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?She does get the tingles, but other things really matter also so she takes "tingles" with a big grain of salt until she knows a bit more about his intentions, interest level, character, and their compatibility. A lot of women are not just looking for a hookup. Physical attraction is one part of many other important factors. Hope that clarifies for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Just because you haven't observed it doesn't mean it is universally untrue or non-existent. Pushing sexual boundaries is not okay. No can be communicated verbally or non-verbally by a woman resisting a man; literally NO MEANS NO. This is why many men have trouble with women. They think they have it figured out what a women wants, and then end up wondering what the heck happened when a woman won't date them and wants nothing more to do with them. A lot of women myself included see it as a huge re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?You have made it clear you intend to misunderstand my statements and twist my words; and / or you have legitimate trouble with reading comprehension. The whole jist of my response was not that women have it WORSE than men, it's that THEY ALSO are mistreated by them AS WELL. WORSE has different meaning than ALSO, ADDITIONALLY, AND AS WELL. You completely misunderstood that I was saying women ALSO suffer at the hands of men. NOT that they have it worse. Again, either you are having comprehension i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?It isn't cold or intended to be, indifference usually isn't. We just weigh other aspects pretty heavily along with physical attraction in order to seriously consider someone. Also, in society, it has traditionally for a long time been the male's role to approach a woman to express interest. I think in some way that is very ingrained an us, so on some level we assume that if a man is not approaching he just is not interested, as men are taught and socialized to approach woman (and a lot of them e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?It sounds like you have had some painful experiences. We all have. I think it is inevitable for both genders, because we live in a society that is increasingly entitled, hedonistic, and unrealistic. I think women also feel a lot of pressure from men to be a certain way also, or we are invisible or largely ignored. There is a lot of rhetoric in male centric spheres about only dating hot 8+ women, who are young, and chaste virgins. Yet, a number of men also pressure these women to sleep with them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?So, I am a bit older and have worked in a variety of workplaces. I also have experience attending churches for a number of years. In my experience, yes there are many women who are attracted to (and marry) men based on personal taste whether or not they are conventionally attractive. When you said to you it seems women are not attracted to men, and only associate with men for the benefits it brings. A couple points: A lot of women are attracted to men, I think it's more rare for women to not be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?I'm not exactly sure. I do know that is common for women to just be enamored with one person who is their crush to the point where other people become invisible. Maybe it's something along the lines of "the heart wants what it wants". Or, when a woman finds someone who really embodies everything they want and / or makes them really happy considering other people just becomes pointless and uninteresting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Again, this comes down to nuance. Yes, there are women who believe ALL men are awful and bash them all and wonder why they can't get a good relationship. THAT IS NOT ALL WOMEN. Also, just because a woman talks about CERTAIN TYPES OF MEN, it does not mean that she means ALL MEN. To think that women mean ALL men when they are only talking about CERTAIN TYPES of men is to twist it into understanding it as something different. -- You said (italicized), with my responses bolded immediately after: "It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Okay, here is where learning the skill of perceiving and applying nuance is crucial. Finding someone sexually attractive, and being sexually attracted to them does not automatically mean objectifying them. You can be sexually attracted to someone without treating them like a disposable object. You can be sexually attracted to someone and see and respect them as a complete PERSON (not an object) at the same time. Not sure why for some that seems hard to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?AGAIN, YOU REALLY SEEM TO HAVE TROUBLE UNDERSTANDING NUANCE, AND APPLYING ONE IDEA TO EVERYONE. -- Regarding IG, Playboy, etc., and objectification. SOME women may be into that. NOT ALL WOMEN WANT TO BE OBJECTIFIED. IF A PARTICULAR WOMAN, OR WOMEN TELL YOU THEY DON'T WANT TO BE OBJECTIFIED, NO MEANS NO. It doesn't matter that SOME do, OTHER WOMEN DON'T WANT THAT. -- Regarding your comment about objectifying famous men. NOT ALL WOMEN DO THIS. PLEASE, LEARN TO UNDERSTAND NUANCE EXISTS. -- You said… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenIf you re-read my post you will find that my post is talking about women who do not have autism. Not sure how much clearer I can make that. However YOU seem to be convinced in your own head that is true. If you are unwilling to LISTEN to other people's real experiences without adding your own biases and ideas, I really cannot help you. You are intent to misunderstand. Not my problem. I will restate, there are a number of real women who spend the prime of their youth caregiving. There are a numbe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Again not all women. Just because you know women like that, doesn't mean they are all like that and they aren't. Try understanding experiences are nuanced, please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Your example doesn't apply to every woman. I have said it before, but I will say it again: women are all different. Stop applying one observation to all women, it would literally be impossible to be true for all women. Understanding nuance would help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:47 PM |
| 8 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?There are other reasons why women divorce men, than the one you listed that have nothing to do with a man not being a woman's "first choice". Yes, that happens but women divorce men over other very different reasons (if we are being honest). Women also divorce men over men cheating, over men physically abusing them, over men who emotionally checkout of a relationship, over men who refuse to see their own role in why a woman who was previously happy has become unhappy, and others. There are a var… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?It's actually your understanding that is incoherent. All I said is that women want to be treated like human beings. Where on Earth did I say that women want to be treated like goddesses or queens? I literally never said that. There is a subset of women who feel that way. I don't as I am sober enough to know I am literally a flawed human and not a "goddess" nor am I a "queen". I'm sure if I was actual royalty I would have other things to do than discourse with people online. YOU are the one who r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?So a couple of things. I think all humans appreciate a little validation. Most people do appreciate being noticed at least once in a while. However, for me as a woman I really don't like attention from men I am not interested in. That is not the same for all women. For me, it would be quality over quantity. I would rather fewer people show interest, but those that I could become interested in rather than just a lot of random attention from more men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?I think with women, many of them develop a crush on one guy and think about him a lot. Many women never say anything at all about a crush to men due to fear of rejection, societal norms about men being expected to express interest, etc. From what I know about women, I think there are a number of men with female admirers', but they would never know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Believe me, when a woman has a crush on a particular man he is in no way invisible. Most women obsess, daydream, and intensely long for a man they have a crush on. I think women put A LOT of energy into one man when they are interested. Women tend to not notice a lot of men, but when they notice and are interested it is on a whole other level. I think it would be too much for women if they paid attention to a lot of men. The energy a woman puts into one man when she is attracted AND interested i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 02:59 AM |
| 6 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?I can't speak for other women, but for myself I don't date toxic men. Also, some reasons why a woman may get in a relationship with a toxic man often boils down to dishonesty. Unfortunately, there are men out there who pretend to be something they are not and pretend to want a relationship they don't just to get sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 02:51 AM |
| 10 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?You sound very sour. It sounds like you are mad about some experiences you've had. Regarding attraction, I can say that your assessment is incorrect. If you look at the men women are married to it more fits into "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". What women are attracted to runs the gamut of variety based on personal taste, and yes women are in fact capable of having PERSONAL taste in men that has nothing to do with how objectively good looking a person is. There are many objectively good l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?For me, personally there is no coldness at all to it. As a person, I'm just going about my day. I will notice if a guy catches my attention, but it just requires so much more for me to be interested. I think also women in general are hopeless romantics, wanting to find a specific person to fall in love with. A lot of women want to be completely enamored with the person we are with, and that requires more than looks. It's like we notice, but we want to wait and see if something real is there. Wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Thanks, I think if people just followed the golden rule of treating others how they would want to be treated it would solve so many issues. Especially between men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 02:00 AM |
| 10 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?We are able to differentiate. The reason why we pointed out what NOT to do, is because there are a lot of men who do what we pointed out not to do, then think some hack is going to help them get our attention. We DID cover what to do: treat women as human beings with respect and value them, instead of as objects. That is first and foremost, and it covers the most ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 01:57 AM |
| 7 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Your response is an example of not understanding the broader reality of what is going on. You are seeing women in their 20s who are very promiscuous, and thinking ALL women are like that in their 20s they are not. There are many many women in their 20s who do NOT live promiscuous lives. You wouldn't know it though because you are not meeting them or privy to their private lives. They keep their social media IG etc., private and just for friends and family and post about normal things. They are n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?I know bisexual women who are the same, about women. They are not noticed in general unless a specific person catches their attention. This I think is a fundamental difference between men and women. Men seem to notice and appreciate objective beauty. For women it really is not about objective handsomeness, a man could be very handsome and not noticed or noticed and not considered. For women it is more about being individually attracted to someone on a personal level. For many women that is compl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?This also is an example of negating the the whole redpill idea that women engage in "monkey branching" always looking for another partner. Many women experience exactly what you described. When many of us find our person, we could care less if a male supermodel walked in with a tray of one million dollars. We just see and want our partner. Yes, once in a while we might see a man who we think is attractive, but if we are happily in a relationship and are being treated right we could care less abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?As a woman for me I think it is not so much the style or whether formal or casual, but more about putting effort into his appearance to just look groomed. For example, there are some guys who look like they rolled out of bed, have unruly facial stubble, may or may not have brushed their hair and threw on a generic looking bland neutral tshirt and shorts. The same man could wear tshirt and shorts but put more effort in: for example, his head and facial hair looks groomed and well maintained, he h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 01:08 AM |
| 11 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?YES. For women especially, just because a man seems like an "ideal man" to other men, we may not even be attracted to him at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?A downvote? Who on Earth would downvote a comment agreeing with another person that a great place to start is by treating women with respect. Sheesh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:50 AM |
| 15 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Wish I could like your response 1,000 times. There are women who I have had as coworkers who are what most men would consider total babes, beautiful, or hot, who meet the "criteria" for having the highest SMV young, hot, fertile, who live quite vanilla lives. Again, no harem of Chads lol. It's so funny how men view women like this as fictional. I think the reason why they are fictional to a lot of men, is because many men are spending all their attention on IG hottie thirst traps, OF content cre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?You have spoke the basic truth for many many women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:34 AM |
| 6 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?So glad to see all these comments from other women talking about the reality that we are usually just living our lives. Some redpill ideology seems to deem women as either slutty having sex with massive amounts of men and of vile character, or as virgins who are completely pure, innocent, beacons of highest virtues. Many real women are somewhere in the middle. This idea though that scores of women are having loads of indiscriminate sex with Chad types is sad and laughable. Many women after work … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:32 AM |
| 20 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?This is always what gets me about redpill philosophy. That if a woman is older and single she must have been promiscuous and now can't find anyone. There are many many women who don't center their lives around men. Many women are just living their lives, following their hobbies and interests. Single for us does not always and often does not = sexually active in a casual way like it does for a number of men. From what I have read, men usually experience sexual urges like as a strong drive. I thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:20 AM |
| 25 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?This. It amazes me that there are men out there who think badly of women, parade their degrading views on women, but then want sex from them. Most humans want to be seriously considered when they speak, valued, and treated with respect. It seems so odd to me that there are men out there who shamelessly pursue women as if they are blowup dolls, treat them like everything they would even do or say is trash, take no interest in them beyond the physical, then have the nerve to try to push their boun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:10 AM |
| 9 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?EXACTLY. I think this is why there is an overabundance of instances where women are dismayed by a man who seems to be stringing her along. I think men are more capable of continuing seeing a woman for sex, even if she doesn't do it for him in other areas (psychological, intellectual, emotional). Where women on the other hand literally get turned off to a man when there isn't also a psychological, intellectual, and emotional connection they were hoping for. Many women are hoping for those deeper … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?lol, yes. thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?Thanks. I think it is way closer to reality for most women, than the info getting pushed by men who think they know what women want but are not willing to actually listen to women fully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?I commented before, but also wanted to add something, You mentioned men who get friendzoned yet who have a lot of other good qualities. Again this ties into the whole for women attraction is more individualized than based off of a man being good looking and / or having great qualities. Just because a man has a laundry list of great qualities does not make him attractive. Just because a man looks like a stereotypical "Chad" does not make him attractive either. Many women get attracted to and marr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:38 PM |
| 23 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?For me, I am rarely attracted to most males. However, the alternative is not what most men think it is. Many men erroneously think that all women automatically want a "Chad". That's not accurate though. For women in general, I think the whole "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" rings true here. Not all women are into the male model look or archetype. One time a woman showed me a photo of a conventionally very good looking man and was fawning. I felt nothing. No attraction whatsoever. To me, h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Educated Women’s arguments here against dating the working class make no senseThis is very true and an often overlooked and underappreciated reality. Most people on average group together with people of the SAME socio-economic class for basic daily living. Rich people are usually around the rich, middle-class around mostly other middle class, working class among other working class, and poor with other people who are poor. People usually on average marry those within their league in terms of looks, income, lifestyle, habits, intellect, education, attractiveness level. Obv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenUnderstood. It seems strange that so many men would want children with the way the world is today. It is difficult to be a human in today's society. For me, even if I were of child-bearing age I would be very hesitant to bring a child into the world with the way things are. Rising costs on everything and stagnated wages make paying for life in general (without children) difficult and expensive. To bring a child into the world is a huge financial investment. Between hospital costs $18K on average… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:54 PM |
| 1 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythIt's unfortunate that a lot of women do that. Makes it difficult for those women looking for something genuine with someone to find a real and lasting romantic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenThis is very helpful; thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 04:40 PM |
| 2 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythI can understand that's your perception. Especially if many of them are on online dating sites. However, a lot of women in aggregate fit the categories I listed. It would be great for everyone if there was an alternative to online dating, where the conditions that cause a lot of women to avoid it entirely were not there. More quality people would be on the dating market in general (men and women). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Question about older womenWhat on Earth...? No, trying to understand a gender a person may date is definitely NOT trauma signs, It's what a sensible person would do. I think you are trolling. Stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Question about older womenLikewise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Question about older womenWhy is that a problem? I truly want to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 03:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should looks-max/career-max for the highest overall successIt was a challenge to your view though. You said: "If I can use a stock woman image from google images and get 100+ likes and 20+ intro messages without lifting a finger on my "lunch break" within 4 hours, what makes you stand out? The average man has no chance. Thus the push to be the most successful and attractive you can be for dating and career advancement." The challenge was to the part of your post where you said "...what makes you stand out? The average man has no chance." In retrospect, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 03:30 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should looks-max/career-max for the highest overall successHonestly, it seems like a lot of dating apps and the whole online dating experience is a bit trash. Maybe approaching someone interesting in person, being authentic, taking a real interest in her as a person and a possible relationship instead of just getting laid as quick as possible. A lot of men are after that and quickly expect a woman to put out, we can sense when men are after that and it is annoying. Many women truly just want to fall in love. Not assuming / applying toxic ideologies abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Question about older womenThat's interesting; thanks for contributing that perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:09 AM |
| 7 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythYes, and in aggregate there are a whole lot of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Question about older womenI don't doubt your assessment about the current reality. Why be liable? That's what prenups are for. A woman who has no intent to use a man should have no problem signing one, because she knows if he built it without her, it's his not hers. I as a female would actually have a man sign a prenup because I wouldn't want someone taking half of what I labored for either. Obviously the exception would be halving up what two bought together. Yes there are many instances where love fades, but many where… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Question about older womenI completely understand. Most people in general are completely shielded from the reality of what sole caregivers actually go through without break. I haven't had a vacation in about two decades, a day off in about a decade, and can't remember the last time I was able to sleep through the night or even eat a meal without getting interrupted. Caregivers sacrifice so much, and the burdens and volume of complex responsibilities are well out of the realm of what most people can even fathom or compreh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Question about older womenAre you saying beta men are suckers? I hope you don't have that view. A beta is not going to be taken advantage of by a woman who has no intent to take advantage of him. Regardless whatever negative rhetoric there has been about women, it absolutely doesn't apply to all women. Every woman is not looking to take advantage. Many just want to find their person, fall in love, and live in peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Question about older womenYou are adding intent to my post that is not there. My post is not talking about women with autism, a fetish or a few strange unicorns. It is talking about the many typically UNSEEN real women who are a minority in comparison to the average woman on a dating app, who are in an extended caregiving situation that started early in life. It seems you think I am not understanding you, and it's clear you did not understand me, so let's just leave it at that we don't understand each other and move on. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:32 AM |
| 17 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythThere are also a whole set of women outside of the norm, who are not married yet are older due to reasons other than promiscuity. A number of these women have been off the modern dating scene almost entirely or entirely. For example: Women who became early in youth caregivers to a profoundly disabled, chronically ill, or elderly relative. Women who are or were religious and their religious group forbids / forbade sex before marriage, going on traditional dates, dating outside their religion, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Question about older womenWhen I mean qualities, specifically I am referring to things like: how you feel in her presence, character, and things that are unique to her that you find charming or appealing on an individual level. Thanks for your insight. Your approach definitely seems logical. It seems that for some men, dating may be more of a logical deduction based on optimizing choices from criteria. Versus seeing someone, connecting with them, and then getting caught up in a person wanting to know more and see where i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Question about older womenYes, this has been a life of huge sacrifice for me as well. Totally relate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenThis sounds like a reasonable take. I would understand the social skills thing. However, caregivers do interact with others a lot where social skills are required even though the context is not specifically a purely "social" event. For example, many doctors appointments, medical care coordination, etc., often involved preliminary small talk and chit chat before getting to the main issue. Also, socializing with the care recipient, and seeing modern TV shows where people interact and banter also h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenNoble of your aunt to provide caregiving. Thanks for your perspective. I can't understand why a woman would even consider another man a valid better option, if she is truly in love with the one she has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenThat is encouraging to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Question about older womenThanks for your sharing your observation. It's a bit different than what I have observed, many women have become attracted to and are married to introverts. Churches, workplaces, etc., are full of introvert men who are married. Perhaps it is situational context. There are some places where I can see women not being attracted to introverts, where there is an advantage to being louder and more social: maybe the gym, the club, or the bar, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenThat seems to sum up what I have perceived and read so far. It seems like the only things that matter to the majority of red pill men are youth, ability to bear children, and being very attractive. Is it your opinion that a lot of men think like this in general? Or that red pill is more of an outlier mentality among men as a whole? I think most people don't like it when other people assume their entire life story without even knowing them. Do you have any ideas regarding the types men who don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenGot it. I am not sure how exactly men think as I am a woman so I am trying to understand. Does that logic about attractiveness and youth apply just to gaining attention or does it also extend to keeping it and choosing a relationship partner? Like if you got the attention of both the older and younger, but the older had other qualities that surpassed the younger would you take note and focus attention on the older and explore the chance of falling in love with them? Or, would you choose to keep … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Question about older womenYes, they are rare and due to reasons described are usually off the OLD scene and social media too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenI am not sure what LVM means, but I think it might stand for low value man. If that is reality I am not disagreeing with it, I did ask for honest feedback. I just want to comment (not to argue but to contribute a thought). What exactly is a low value man defined as? Is it someone who isn't looking to invest in a relationship, is sexually repulsive, and has poor character? Or does the red pill just define LVM as a beta, of normal looks, who isn't making 6 figures? If it is the former, it is sadde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenAgain, I have to respectfully disagree with you on a number of points. Having interacted with other caregivers I can tell you that there ARE IN FACT caregivers who meet the criteria I listed. This may not be your personal experience, or those of those you have known but I can solidly say that there are in fact women who meet the criteria listed. While you may think that there are not women who can show that degree of selflessness, I am telling you that you have not met enough women. There are wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:06 PM |
| 1 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?As a woman, I have mixed feelings about this topic. In one way, it seems like it would be a kind gesture. In another it seems like it would almost feel a bit like manipulation like the man would expect something after paying (even if that isn't the intent). As a woman I personally feel bad for men who get put in the situation of always having to pay. I am a caregiver and leaving to go anywhere is expensive, as in it would require hiring someone to provide skilled care at an hourly rate while I a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenI have to respectfully disagree with some parts of this. Women do not live in a vortex shut off from information on the internet. There are YouTube fashion and makeup tutorials. Many women do desire to look good, because it makes them feel good. After many years caregiving and not prioritizing externals, women actually do find it refreshing to update their look, and participate in a better level of self-care in the form of aesthetics grooming. Many women like to be beautiful and try to invest in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Question about older womenOkay, so same exact scenario but imagining the woman cannot have kids whatever age that happens at for her. Let's say 40s at the maximum end of the spectrum, yet everything else mentioned is the same. What then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 04:24 PM |
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