randomTAgirl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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17	The reason why so many women can't seem to fundamentally accept why dating (or other favored aspects of life) overall is so fundamentally easier for them than for men is due to indoctrination pushed under the guise of 'education' NAH, I've always known women had more options dating. And it's not hard to tell fact from indoctrination. I don't believe men are bad or given privileges. I DISAGREE that women only see high status men and then assume all men are kings. You think we don't see average Joes and weirdos? It seems more like the reverse is happening according to PPD posts made by men: Women seemingly getting all the attention and easy life; If that's all you see you're not seeing it all! I've been person B, and I'm n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 09:26 PM
2	What would be the female equivalent of a man being traumatized by his wife/GF's sexual past? I was a year into my relationship with my boyfriend when I saw all the money he spent on a woman out of state before we met, years of gifts he sent her, that had to of added up to thousands of dollars. Yeah, for me that hurt a little, because I always made a point of being fair with money, helped him pay off his debt, put a roof over his head, and never expected gifts, flowers, dinner etc. It felt for a bit like oof did he just like her better than me? We talked about it, and he explained that h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/21 11:18 AM
3	When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them? I don't have any interest or experience in helping anyone sleep around, so I don't have any advice for that. I don't understand the appeal of casual sex unfortunately	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/21 10:50 AM
2	CMV: The advice “you need to love yourself first before someone else can love you” doesn’t work for men the same way it does for women. I wouldn't call it love, that's just needing other people to tell you you're okay. It's better not to be dependent on others for your confidence and sense of security. What I mean practically is you should feel good having that validation if you do, but you should feel FINE without it, not acting toxic when it's not there. Female here and I was shy my whole life and making friends or putting myself out there has never been easy. So from 16-21 I spent most of my time alone and insecure, and I bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/21 10:39 AM
1	Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner. "You are calling your man average because you know that you can't get a really top man, because honestly you are not so good yourself. Idk what you are debating here because you are basically trying to keep the dude who could do better himself." To the guy that said that: He is my top man. Stop making up narratives. if you think a woman can't love a normal man, you have issues. If you think a woman choosing a normal man must have something wrong with her, you have issues. It's funny that people …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 09:22 AM
1	Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner. To whoever feels weird about me using the word "average" don't take it the wrong way please. I try to use relative language on here. He's actually my type and I don't want anyone else. To me he's the best. Of course I'm pretty average too. But we chose each other happily. Please don't think you know us better than we do. I'm just sharing my experience. You didn't need to hear it, but I cared enough to hopefully inspire anyone that worries they're not good enough. There's no ill intent behind my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 08:44 AM
10	Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner. I'm in a relationship with an average man and I still hold myself to a high standard. It doesn't need to be toxic. The right person wouldn't want you going crazy with routines and procedures. There definitely are women out there that are satisfied with their average male partners, and these women can still feel the need to stay attractive to them. Even if I know logically that my boyfriend doesn't have women lining up for him, I still want to keep him satisfied as well and I hope he doesn't wish…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/21 03:33 PM
2	Public life would be better without makeup, excessive beauty treatments, and overly sexualized clothing It would alter society, maybe in a way that benefits you and others that share your ideals, but it wouldn't benefit the people who benefit from accentuated beauty. And there's no telling how many people collectively benefit from female sexual liberation. I would guess a lot. What do you reckon benefit should mean? It can mean a lot of different things to different people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 09:51 AM
1	CMV: Society should encourage men to marry young Practically, no. I do agree with you that it seems to be a fair deal. I think there's merit to men adhering to the same abstinence they expect from women. It happens. I just don't think it's practical to expect anyone to have found their 'soulmate' by the age of 20. It happens! But many of us have to meet, and meet, and meet, before we know we're with the right person. And that can take years. I think it's wiser to not put a constraint on the appropriate age to marry. Because if we did have that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 08:24 AM
1	Questions about r/gonewild and other amateur porn posters If they're doing it for free, I think it's similar to why men post nudes on here too, but with the added benefit of receiving way more attention and compliments. I understand how that can be thrilling and uplifting. It feels good to be liked. It feels good knowing others find you sexually desirable, doesn't it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 08:13 AM
5	Public life would be better without makeup, excessive beauty treatments, and overly sexualized clothing It's only better for you if you decide it's better for you. You can't encapsulate a way of living that is beneficial to every person that's part of what you call a society. One easy counterargument is that a lot of people find their wives because she stood out. For context imagine she stood out to him and they ended up having a happy relationship. Rewind to their first encounter but this time she appears the same as the girl next to her.... sadly, I think the urge to stop her to talk might've ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 08:03 AM
1	Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not? I'd rather have more responsibility than no rights, so proper feminism is positive. I don't care about modern feminism. The only 'feminism' I see anymore is just bitching. Maybe the way we interact with women could improve by +1. But everything could improve by +1. My wage could improve, damn it. By +10. Who cares. Is it hard for afraid men to approach me now, and therefore harder to find love? If I were single, it probably would be, yeah. My boyfriend appreciates how rare it is to find someone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/21 07:08 AM
–	Women's best sex partner-what would you have done ? I reckon any woman that says this to a man is either an asshole or dumb. I would never want my boyfriend to be self conscious about this. If I said that, I'd want him to assume I was joking or proceed to slap me. Even if it were true, if it wasn't as good as an ex, I wouldn't care and it's not something I'd ever feel compelled to say. He's valuable for more than that, and I care about his feelings more than sex anyway. Him > Perfect size dildo ANY DAY. I get plenty of joy out of sex because it's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/21 06:15 AM
–	Women want to be protected and for men to embrace all the beneficial gender roles to women all the while those same women can’t stay chaste, cook, clean, and all want to have kids at 30. For most people with jobs making below 35k a year it's difficult affording children, and nearly impossible if you don't already own a home. And that's about how much most people make, it's less for young adults. So if we're being honest your point about women needing to lower their childbirth age to your male satisfaction isn't realistic for most families.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/21 07:56 AM
–	Women want to be protected and for men to embrace all the beneficial gender roles to women all the while those same women can’t stay chaste, cook, clean, and all want to have kids at 30. I can't answer for those people. I'm just making what I'd assume is a smart decision to not reproduce when I can't financially support them. And there's a lot of men who complain about women using welfare, and others like you complaining women are waiting too long. Can't win either way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/21 05:59 AM
–	Women want to be protected and for men to embrace all the beneficial gender roles to women all the while those same women can’t stay chaste, cook, clean, and all want to have kids at 30. Why would I have kids when wages and housing market are bad? I'm 24 and I've already accepted that even though I'd love to be a mother, it's very unlikely to happen. Because I wouldn't want my kids growing up poor like I did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/21 05:07 AM