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So why don’t you see a prosititude instead of a sugar baby? Especially if they’re the same to you, with a prosititude you’re ensured sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:18 AM
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Not the same as a prosititude…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:11 AM
0

If you want a prosititude why don’t you just get that instead of sugar dating? Seems to solve all your problems
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:08 AM
4

With all these comments it really feels like some guys don’t exist in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:45 AM
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I don’t think women in general would naturally tradwife. Maybe some will but I doubt it would be most. I don’t know any who would
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:34 AM
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You do know it wasn’t just in the 1820s right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:31 AM
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It per definition doesn’t. Those words don’t have the same definition nor meaning (use a dictionary)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:37 AM
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Attention doesn’t equal attraction…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:35 AM
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I don’t get turned on simply because somebody has money. and neither does anyone I know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:21 AM
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You do know that we don’t go down the street and then suddenly get horny because we see a handsome man right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:18 AM
13

Sounds like some really sad relationships you think women have. But why are women statistically much more likely to watch romantic movies or want acts of romance in a relationship if they get nothing out of it? Because what you qualify as what women want just sounds like having a very good friend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:06 AM
12

Then in what way do they love their partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:59 PM
9

No you’ll just be depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:21 AM
11

35 year old men who want to date an 18 year old rarely have a lot in the wisdom or maturity department.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:18 PM
2

It’s closer to 20-30% according to multiple dating apps themselves. Generally using AI for research is very dumb cuz it tends to find either bad statistical work or the statistics that fit your opinion the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:30 AM
3

Where did you get those statistics. Because all the statistics I’ve seen don’t show anything nearly that high
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:18 AM
2

They really aren’t. You just need to make some friends that are girls then it gets significantly easier to date based on personality. On dating apps theres 1 girl for every 3 guys, so the odds aren’t in your favour. And unless you’re super attractive you won’t get a lot of matches. In the end statistically most couples meet outside of dating apps so it must be easier to find a partner outside of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:12 AM
4

In real life personality matters much more than in dating apps where you swipe based on looks. Is if you aren’t super handsome irl is better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:02 AM
5

Personally I just don’t want to be cold approached in any setting. However it is okey with some people I feel like which can make it hard to set a clear line from where it’s okey to not okey
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:38 PM
2

I’d probably look into the cause first. How do we prevent the men from getting those feelings instead of just putting on the bandaid that the sex would be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:43 PM
4

I don’t mean to sound mean but isn’t stay at home girlfriend just a fancy word for jobless?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:06 PM
3

You keep on whining. Your whole reply to me is you whining. And I didn’t say it was my best example it was just an example that was just below this comment thread on my phone. I think my best example is your reply to me You also didn’t adress anything I commented besides the example part. Which just proves my point in that you don’t engage with any comment where you can have a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:19 PM
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“Poor men can’t date unless he is above average in another category (height, looks, etc)” That’s just you whining And usually you’ll decide not to comment to alot of people who genuinely debate so you can just vent and be anecdotal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:13 PM
3

lol Half of your comments are whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:58 PM
4

Damn didn’t know you were a licensed psychologist or psychiatrist
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:45 AM
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Men should up their standards for casual sex then. I know this might sound strange but I don’t really want to fuck every guy, so why would I fuck the maladjusted guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:49 AM
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That’s just bullshit. Plenty of ugly people have friends. You just don’t want to put any effort into improving your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:36 PM
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It isn’t a random assumption. Also that’s just bullshit plenty of guys have friends that are women. And I also saw you have problems finding guy friends. So how can it all be looks? Ugly people have friends too, that has very little to do with appearance and much more to do with personality. It really seems you’ve decided your problems are just something you can’t change so that you don’t have to take any action in your life. Also that cry baby mentality doesn’t help anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:32 PM
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Dude you have a bad personality, nobody with a good personality writes like you do, There’s zero question about it. Are you around any women irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:23 PM
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So you’re claiming you only have a bad personality on Reddit? So are you just venting to random women on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:22 PM
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If you’re told irl that you have a bad personality over and over it’s most likely got some truth to it. Spoiler alert, most people with a bad personality don’t think they have a bad personality themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:20 PM
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After reading some of your comments in this thread it’s clear that looks aren’t the main problem and you aren’t being gaslit when people say your personality sucks. Even your comments on posts online make you seem like you have a bad personality and if people tell you irl you have a bad personality you do. If you get told you have a bad personality by people irl it’s most likely true and a bad personality can fuck you up way more than looks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:18 PM
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Your source isn’t even a dictionary lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:44 PM
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Dating app is just a word. Tinder is meant for you to on first dates and thats about it. And even tho it’s called a dating app many people just use it to fuck. It’s almost as if just because something calls itself something doesn’t mean it is that. Tinder is an app to find dates. How can that concept be so difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:38 PM
10

Did you even read my comment? Being on a date and dating are 2 different things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:25 PM
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Having gone on a date doesn’t mean you’re dating. If you’ve asked someone out and you go to dinner together as a first date you aren’t dating before at soonest the second date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:19 PM
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First kiss: 19. First relationship: 21, never done casual sex. How many partners: 1. Longest I’ve been single and sexless: the first 20 years of my life. I think sex and relationships are important but the best experiences in my life have been outside both of those
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:16 PM
3

Paying for a wife really isn’t a new concept at all they’ve just gotten a new name and different strategies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:23 PM
1

But in most real relationships you don’t have effective communication all the time. I know if I’m stressed I shut down and take a bit more of an aggressive tone. But that’s not being abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:29 PM
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So basically any problems your partner has that effects you negatively is abuse? Really grouping people who cant communicate effectively with people who beat their girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:24 PM
3

Idk I can defend mine pretty easily
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:23 AM
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Why would you mention it. I really can’t think of a scenario where it would come up without you actively trying to put it in a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:58 AM
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So people who want children are brainwashed by society? What an insanely ignorant take
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:53 AM
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Because children can be a blessing and can come with alot of good things in life. So yeah childbirth sucks but still worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:48 AM
2

You basically assumed that about me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:13 AM
4

I haven’t really answered anything only my dry streak.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:10 AM
2

What would be fine for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:07 AM
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I’m neither so I probably wouldn’t care what some shitty guy thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:04 AM
1

A few years probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:01 AM
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Wanting that lifestyle you’ve eliminated most horny girls. Live your life but you need to choose what kind of women you want you can’t has everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:01 PM
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So then you think it’s the man’s job to make All the money in the household right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:43 PM
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As Long as i dont have to engage in it, it isn’t an obsession and it isn’t all of your personality then I think I’m okey with any hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:05 AM
4

Is it worth it being in a relationship only for sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:08 AM
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Does he have women friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:33 AM
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That wasn’t a real response but okey I guess Would you mind answering some of the other questions I’ve asked or are you just doing a pick and choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:26 AM
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He keeps on calling women nazis but he’s the one trying to punish a group of people based on his perceived view of them all being a problem in society. Kind of sounds like a certain ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:22 AM
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He keeps on calling women nazis but he’s the one trying to punish a group of people based on his perceived view of them all being a problem in society. Kind of sounds like a certain ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:14 AM
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I asked how you are trying to change laws. Not if other ways have worked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:57 PM
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Which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:56 PM
2

Well I guess no reply changes factual information. So I guess not You could however agree that I don’t push for them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:55 PM
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How exactly are you trying to change the laws?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:53 PM
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I don’t think you know what Nazi means
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:52 PM
3

lol seems you just don’t know how to reply. But you still don’t think I don’t push for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:50 PM
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I think his definition of Nazi is just anyone who doesn’t suck his dick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:47 PM
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I don’t make laws… mostly men make laws And I’m not influential enough to make entire societies change But thank you for thinking I was powerful enough to make laws and influence an entire society to change single-handedly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:40 PM
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He can talk to me, I don’t push for them. Next time you try to make half the population your evidence maybe make sure they agree, just some free advise
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:32 PM
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I literally don’t know what you’re trying to say. And It doesn’t seem you’re interested in reformulating what you said. So okey, just live in your world where you’re right all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:20 AM
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What? learn to formulate yourself so that others can understand what you’re saying instead of just attacking people for not understanding you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:17 AM
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It’s not. I’m not even her and I don’t get what you’re trying to say either, the text makes zero sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:15 AM
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You’re making so many assumptions about her. For example That she didn’t know anyone there and that she thought you were low value. Can I ask how you know both of these are true cuz it sort of feels like it’s just assumptions, you’ve made
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:07 AM
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“Went to a party with a friend” “Everybody in the group was a stranger” Literally already a contradiction in your post and comments suggesting your version of the story is altered from reality. But you have other problems than her being rude (which you have given no example of her being) if you think of social rejection the second you speak to a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:00 AM
5

I’m sorry but how was she rude? She didn’t call you low value your friend did All she did was decide she didn’t want to chat with a stranger (you)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:48 AM
6

What went prior to that? Did you go around and talked to other people first? Did you talk to a lot of women you didn’t know? Most likely she just prefers to walk with people she knows. I know for me it’s when walking in public I prefer to be next to people i feel safe with, and then I’m usually more approachable when we are at the party location
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:40 AM
5

You really need to clarify how the interaction went. Your friend said it was due to low value. But it can be you had a bad interaction with her or she’d rather just talk to her friends and a bunch of other reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:21 AM
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This really just screams a lack of real life experience then. You’re limited by what you see, so all your evidence becomes totally anecdotal. Whereas I as a woman often see the opposite of what you’re seeing. so who is right? I know I come in plenty of different envirements so for me its not just a friend group that are my anecdotes here, are you able to say the same? Most people are pretty average and most people are with a partner whos equally average. Most couples I see are uni students who b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:07 PM
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Women being in relationships with guys equal to them happens all the time, and you’d see that if you weren’t chronically online. I know so many people where they in a couple are equal and also some where they aren’t but the idea that the chads are the only ones getting women is just false
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:56 PM
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You do know a lot of people without autism feels the exact same about that. It’s not like anyone just talks about what interests them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:14 PM
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It seems what fucks you up in dating isn’t being autistic it’s that incel rhetoric you’re using. If I heard a guy I was dating saying “most women choose to be superficial” that date would be over so quickly. And whilst you might not say that infront of a woman that view of women does impact your interactions with them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:54 PM
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It’s nice to have some variety in friends. I think it becomes boring when I’m only around people who are the same with only small personality deviations. So I love to hang out with people of the other gender, other lifestyles and such
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:30 AM
3

The Cambridge dictionary, that’s who informed me about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:04 AM
4

Did they start this week? Wdym? There’s a reason martial arts is usually set in weight classes Are you offering anything else besides protection?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:59 AM
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Just saying cooking is a chore. Which it is, it’s quite literally impossible to argue against that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:54 AM
4

I’ve in my 21 years of existence never needed someone to protect me. And guns are illegal where I live so gun training wouldn’t do you any good. And I’ve seen dudes who were into martial arts and stuff get absolutely annihilated by guys bigger than them. So in conclusion all you’re offering is something I don’t need because I live in a safe place. So why would I cook in exchange for nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:53 AM
6

People in retail get taught how to properly fold clothes, so by your definition it must be a skill too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:47 AM
7

What are a man’s gender roles if a woman’s is to cook and clean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:20 AM
5

I really don’t see a post where most blue pill women admit personality doesn’t matter. And I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman in real life who actually thinks personality doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:17 AM
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I’d like some receipts on that. I’ve never met a person or seen a blue pill woman on here say personality doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:08 AM
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And that’s also assuming she doesn’t have a family that would find him and beat him to a pulp after she’s told them he raped her. I know not everyone’s family is gonna be like that but if you do it to let’s say 10 girls then there’s a surprisingly high chance that one father or brother will find the rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:41 PM
11

Sureee I’m just gonna hope this is trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:33 PM
11

You only addressed one of 5 points. Sounds like you know your hypothetical isn’t a realistic solution Also why don’t you just become a sperm donor? You need to be really good looking to get girls lithe way you want anyway,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:28 PM
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This all relies on that atleast all the following points: She fucks you, She doesn’t ask you to wear a condom, She isn’t on birth control, She doesn’t get an abortion, and She doesn’t get child support So the only real way your idea works is if you’re a rapist in a state where abortion is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:19 PM
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I think it’s the insulting people, and comparing clean water to having sex as a need that give the extra backlash Edit: you should find proof of both in the comment section
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:35 AM
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You don’t die ever from lack of sex. A lot of things make for bad mental environments yet most don’t consider those needs, so why is sex different? Mental health is usually not described an actual need since people survive with bad mental health. Sure life sucks but you don’t need good mental health to sustain living, ergo not an absolute need.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:56 AM
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Clean water is an actual need to survive. Employment gives you money so you can buy food, food is a need employment is only a need in the case of letting you buy things such as food. And education is a need because it ensures employment in first world countries. However you don’t die if you don’t have sex. You do die if you don’t have the ones you’ve mentioned If sex was a need prostitution would be legal in every country
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:43 AM
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I benefit from having a job that makes me money. But I wouldn’t feel I’d benefit 5 times as much if I had 5 jobs. Most people who want children are satisfied with around 2 children. More isn’t always better Also majority doesn’t mean everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:11 AM
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The birth rate would be dropping even if every woman had 2 children. The majority of women can want children whilst there still exists dropping birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:07 AM
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There aren’t really any “correct” stats in order for them to be correct they’d have to have asked everyone which they have not. I don’t doubt more men are single but every time people use stats to show it, they more or less have a major amount of problems when it comes to its validity to show what the real world is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:33 PM
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Huge difference between having had a bad experience and having been with a terrible man. A bad experience can be something as small as having had a bad date where the two parties were just totally incompatible. But that doesn’t mean one of them has to be a bad person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:20 PM
4

Girl you’re a cuck by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:39 PM
0

That’s just objectively false
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:27 AM
2

I don’t think anyone should be with a cheater no matter the gender. If they’ve done it once it definitely increases the chances of them doing it again and if we’ve said we’re exclusive we should be exclusive. Cheating isn’t just having sex with another person, it’s also lying and I don’t want to be with a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:21 AM
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I totally agree that social events is often where it’s at when approaching. Because then it doesn’t seem like you’re approaching just because of looks but then there seems to be a common interest. But I do think social events can be a hard place to find people too since quite a few social events tilt to one gender. I remember a museum anniversary in the area where I live which was mainly girls at the event, so it would have been a fantastic place for guys to approach, but sadly it seems going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:56 PM
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Idk if I get approached on the regular but I do get approached sometimes. And no I don’t think I’ve ever wanted to go on a date with someone who just randomly approached me. They’re approaching me exclusively for looks which I don’t think is a nice basis for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:47 PM
4

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:37 AM
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I am both Scandinavian and in the bdsm environment and what you’ve said about both of them is false
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:30 PM
5

They have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:45 PM
3

You still need an egg donor and to pay for using the artificial wombs. And based on what I see they transferred a fetus into an artificial womb, but without a woman you can’t even get the fetus to start with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:31 AM
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Atleast people with this ideology won’t be able to procreate so it will end eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:22 AM
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Hate breeds hate. Next up water is wet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:08 PM
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I am very introverted. And the main thing I’ll get out of a relationship is getting to go to couples events. But that doesn’t outweigh the cons
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:02 AM
5

That sounds insanely porn brained
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:35 AM
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Honestly I just like having my alone time which is easiest by just having friends and no partner. I’ve also found out I don’t really gain anything from a relationship so I don’t really see a need for one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:36 PM
4

Men are stronger than women. And if you’re looking back before the police had all sorts of tools being good at brute force was very important
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:38 AM
5

No, try again. It’s really scary if you don’t know what the main reason would be to have a male police officer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:20 AM
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You do know why men have historically been police officers right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:12 AM
4

And it was not about labor being better than staying at home it was about having any power. Women back then had no say in anything which was the oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:08 AM
5

It’s about choice, don’t you understand? You can still stay at home with your children but you can CHOOSE not to and do something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:07 AM
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You think that’s some sort of got ya? Men were oppressed too back then. They did however get sufficiently more out of the deal than the woman did since they had more choices still
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:58 AM
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Freedom. People want freedom. Now women have the choice to either have a job or give birth. They have a choice to leave a man if he is abusive. They have the choice to do what they want without a mans permission
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:56 AM
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High heels were originally made for men. Makeup was originally used by both genders back in the day in certain cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:54 AM
4

“Leading societies was always exclusively masculine” if it was then there would never have been a queen regint that’s just a fact. There are plenty of other cases. If anything what you’re seeing now is what women actually want to be without oppression. Back in the days of old women weren’t allowed to express themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:50 AM
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How is that your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:47 AM
7

Guess the Danish queen from 1375 didn’t exist. There have been plenty of women rulers even before Christianity hit the west. It’s just historical ignorance to say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:42 AM
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Our family has pretty well documented thoughts of the women for atleast 4 generations and none wanted to be a housewife. And before the Christianification of Europe some countries would have women fulfill roles that are now considered men’s. Reality is those in power choose the life of others and people just go along with what those in power say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:41 AM
13

Women loved not voting and not being heard did they?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:29 AM
6

What is masculine and what is feminine is constantly changing. Some things that used to be super masculine are now considered feminine for example
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:23 AM
0

You can think something is wrong without thinking it having to be restricted. I think it’s wrong but in the end it’s the couples choice and they can do what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:47 PM
1

Life experience and emotional maturity don’t necessarily have anything to do with how your life turned out compared to what you planed (often times if you behave like an adult those two things should only be on a higher age level if you have difficulties) . So your only really attacking one of the point and fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:28 PM
2

Honestly if you’re a 24 year old who matches the life experience, how far along they are in life and the emotionally maturity of an 18 year old they really need to reevaluate their life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:21 PM
4

Maybe don’t ask like that. Just ask “have you had any plastic surgery or Botox done”. It feels way less attacky if you say it like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:53 PM
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Yeah as a woman I apparently know less about women’s standards than you based on tik tok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:31 AM
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You’re living in an Ecco chamber Most people upvote that stuff ironically (the whole slay queen thing and such are ironic) Go meet some women irl and don’t rely on the internet. I’ve seen a reel with over 100k likes about that 3*3 is actually 300 does that mean that’s what all those people thought
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:23 AM
69

You mean the social media with highly adaptable algorithms that match what you want to see. In order for your to gather any kind of idea of the standards you need to be in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:19 AM
95

What kind of women have you talked to to gather that those are the standards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:12 AM
40

There’s been a million posts like this it’s probably easier for you to just search after them on the subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:24 PM
3

Most likely not enough to not find a red-piller or some guy who’ll take offense tho.. sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:36 PM
4

It’s clear you’re just looking to be offended. But the reason most don’t want one is because it seems like an accusation. So if you’re public about it, it would seem like you’re accusing me of cheating and I don’t want that. Why is it important it’s public?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:34 PM
3

No… we can always do a test there’s just no need to tell others about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:30 PM
4

Most of the people i know are in the same boat as me. He however can’t tell anyone we’re getting a test since it would insinuate to other people that i might have cheated and I don’t want that reputation (and it shouldn’t be a problem for him to not tell anyone)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:24 PM
7

I doubt that very much. I just don’t blindly trust people so I wouldn’t expect other people to blindly trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:19 PM
9

Personally I don’t mind doing a paternity test as long as he pays for it (since it’s him who wants it)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:16 PM
4

I’m from Copenhagen and I’m 20 so it’s not like anyone has a lot of money since we’re in uni I’m not calling the average girl a golddigger since if you’ve established a relationships it’s fair that you buy each other birthday gifts and such
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:57 AM
9

Idk if I’m from a country or at an age where that isn’t a thing. But isn’t a movie date pretty dumb since you can’t talk in the cinema? And dinner dates are way too intense and person for the first time and doesn’t show off personality to the other. I’ve by far enjoyed museum dates or dates were it’s just been park walks or such
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:28 AM
13

Idk if it’s just been my experience but a first date being a dinner date is usually something gold diggers want. So there’s usually a lot of work beforehand in order to get that dinner so it would be less work to just work your job and buy it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:18 AM
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Probably depends on the person but to me I prefer taller men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:27 AM
4

Have you been in a relationship that incorporates a lot of kink? Then you’d know that far far far most are only kinky during sessions and aren’t submissive outside of that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:02 AM
8

Being physical weaker doesn’t really matter in 2025 in most cases And how does how we procreate have anything to do with submission? I’d like some proof that shows that women are inherently submissive. And ofc this should have nothing to do with culture so in order for you to be right you’d need some neuropsychology studies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:00 AM
4

Why is it the woman’s role?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:55 AM
1

As long as he does it too I’ll do it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:06 PM
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They are where I’m from
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:19 PM
21

So we need to stop abortions? Just to get rid of women’s rights? At least all the Christian people who don’t want abortions do it because they believe it’s wrong but you just want to use an abortion ban as a stepping stone to give yourself more rights
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:21 AM
18

Men don’t have any political power? The vast majority of people in politics are male and the majority of voters are men. So how exactly don’t men have any political power
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:05 AM
5

Not only that they’re very selective about the statistics they use. They’re only selecting the ones that match their agenda. And some of their “research” is asking drunk girls things and accepting them as how she actually feels all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:23 AM
6

I’d say he should break up with her. They’re clearly not compatible and if he has to tell her she can’t hang out with her friends then he’s trying to control her life way too much So in conclusion they’re clearly not compatible so they shouldn’t be together
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:51 PM
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I commented on your statements regarding biology you just decided not to answer Also biology especially neurology is heavily influenced by your environment I’ve never stated men and women aren’t different And if life has taught me one thing is life experience doesn’t necessarily mean they know better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:17 PM
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It’s majority cultural which it seems like a lot of people don’t understand. Where I live sex for women is alot less taboo so it’s being had a lot more but in plenty of countries it is taboo But we rely much more on the skill of him whereas you don’t rely very heavily on a woman’s skill The relationships where I don’t see a lot of sex is relationships where he doesn’t do alot to please her sexually I also love how you’re calling it gaslighting when I’m saying that it’s not that simple. If anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:02 PM
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That’s not exactly how neuropsychology works since there’s a variety of factors not just one hormone Noraadrenaline and adrenaline have basically the same effects so studies done based on just one hormone give off a wrong impression And no I’m not trying to claim anything but it seems you trust biased studies blindly. There are multiple hormones that have to do with sex drive and isolating one gives a wrong impression like with anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:47 PM
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So you don’t care if you get to cum/orgasm when having sex if she’s just pretty enough? Ofc we want him to be handsome but that doesn’t matter if he doesn’t give us an orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:17 AM
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We’re just as horny as men the only difference is that it’s also about sensuality and it is harder to make us orgasm than make a man orgasm and there’s no real point in sex if I don’t get to orgasm. If you look at sex in general horny places you’ll realize that the gender ratio is pretty much 50/50 because men there also prioritize our orgasm. Personally I have a much higher sex drive than my partner so either I’m the exception (which I know I’m not) or most guys where you’re from aren’t good at…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:52 AM
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No I wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:10 PM
-7

Well your entire post doesn’t really have any arguments and is heavily exaggerated or you’ve not interpreted what was said right. No one supports that she should kill a man every day but I know people on here are prone to use women’s sarcasm as an argument to what women actually think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:54 PM
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Sounds like you’re chronically online more than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:48 PM
2

That’s not a truth…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:03 PM
7

If you message a random girl she knows that 99% of people who do that are doing it because they’re horny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:47 AM
1

To me a relationship with those kinds of qualities sound worse than having no bf/gf but if you’re satisfied with what it can give you you can buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:46 AM
3

He mentioned the majority of men in the post but it’s not the majority of men who have no options
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:41 AM
3

After you’ve updated your question I’d like to say I know plenty of guys like that who are in a relationship and some are shorter and overweight yet get a girlfriend it’s usually a personality thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:39 AM
2

That’s a way too big topic to go into. There’s plenty of average men in relationships with average women tho so usually if someone can’t get a partner it’s most likely something to do with them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:37 AM
3

So you just want to tell it your emotions and then it says “yes those are feelings” If someone doesn’t have emotions they won’t be able to react to emotions properly All I’m saying is that the AI girlfriend will have serious drawbacks so guys looking for relationships won’t want one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:30 AM
2

A machine doesn’t have emotions and doesn’t have romantic feelings and only has empty intellectual stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:26 AM
2

I’m now comparing it with a real gf Like you don’t get anything there you couldn’t get with an escort and the escort and robot won’t give you anything besides sex and as you mentioned maybe cooking and cleaning But if that’s what you want out of a partner then I don’t think a human gf is a thing you’d like anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:24 AM
2

So a house slave basically? So you’re fine with it giving you no emotional, romantic or intellectual stimulation You might as well just buy a fleshlight and hire a cleaning lady at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:21 AM
2

It’ll still be a really lonely relationship living with a moving fleshlight that has general replies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:16 AM
1

But isn’t the only difference between that and an escort that it’s cheaper?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:10 AM
11

Factually in America they’re not forced to give abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:12 PM
10

Probably an element that got lost in translation atleast where I’m from : a psychologist is the same as a therapist I believe Psychiatrists are the one prescribing drugs tho I’m pretty sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:44 PM
7

That’s just what the person who wrote the article said. But therapy is hot idc what you say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:39 PM
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The article largely ends up talking about that many men write on their profile that they’re in therapy and that sometimes they may be lying to make women see them as more of a green flag. So in the article it literally says being in therapy is a green flag. But it also mentions that guys may use it as a way of gaslighting in an abusive relationship. To everyone I know it’s seen as a huge green flag if he’s seeing a psychologist. And I personally have never heard of any woman with class who didn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:29 PM
7

To me how well he dresses day to day doesn’t matter as long as it’s clean (one of my best relationships was with a guy who basically wore the same thing everyday for work). However if we’re going out or there’s some event I’d really hate for him to go in sweatpants and a sweatshirt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:18 PM
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What? If you like tight pussies then go for it. I’m not gonna discriminate or kink shame. But who tells you that they like it? Is it a partner who’s said to you she’s a size queen? And I think you’re confusing preferences with needs in a relationship. Just because someone is a size queen doesn’t mean they won’t date a guy with a normal sized penis
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:01 PM
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Size queening is a kink and has nothing to do with the size of a vagina lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:54 PM
1

He’s been trash meowing you behind your back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:59 PM
14

If I said no it’s because it’s a no. And quite frankly if after I said no he kept on trying it would be kind of uncomfortable and I’d probably leave wherever it was taking place
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:40 PM
4

Option 1
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:15 AM
4

Maturing is so much more than just that tho Maturing is part of life and if you don’t mature throughout your life it meant that you haven’t done anything that needs maturing I have total respect for people who work because of their home situation but that’s not the only element in maturity there’s also emotional maturity and ideological maturity and philosophical maturity. People who think they’ve not matured in life are in denial or haven’t changed all their life and if you haven’t changed in y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:08 PM
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People who claim to always have been mature aren’t mature enough to have grown I used to think I was super mature which I was… for my age It’s hard to be super mature with very little life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:53 PM
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You cant tell me coding is harder than having a successful relationship when you can’t have a successful relationship or maybe you’re bad at coding and then I guess you can be right Also coding is so wildly different to relationships so why even mention those together? Also you sound super arrogant and like you have a superiority complex which normally is a huge turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:39 PM
8

I honestly can’t tell if this comment is serious or sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:27 PM
1

I didn’t know any women wrote those kinds of novels without it being a fantasy novel. And honestly I don’t know any who do it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:03 PM
4

That’s not a compromise She wants it clean and he says then you can clean it yourself isn’t a compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:36 AM
2

Men had to report their own tasks too and even all the men in the statistics couldn’t name as many chores as the women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:35 AM
2

I know more happy women than men Which ones again statistics agree with me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:33 AM
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Even when working women do roughly 2 hours more a a day on childcare than men Also all of these are controlled via asking a group of men and women how much homework they do and after that looking at which chores they say they do and women do more chores but men also think they do atleast as much work
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:32 AM
3

Wait are you serious? I thought you were joking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:27 AM
6

You can always treat others like human it’s an active decision not to. I know no people no matter family relation, financial situation, or any other element that prevents them from treating others like human. You’ve made many statements earlier where you see women as being basically singular so you don’t see us as human On the contrary it fits your victim narrative to act like we’re the bad guys always
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:27 AM
4

Wdym? It depends on context and I have no idea what the context is in your statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:17 AM
1

Last time I checked most of the people in charge in the world are men so how are women gods of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:17 AM
14

If you started acted like women were human beings maybe we’d treat you like you were one too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:15 AM
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You can go on and on all you will it doesn’t change the fact that women do more house work Those statistics aren’t based around time they’re based around the amount of chores
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:11 AM
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A big part of it is that women often want their house or apartment to be cleaner than men do It’s not like women are inferior to men and just can’t handle domestic duties
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:04 AM
1

You had me at the first part
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:00 AM
7

It seems like he’s trolling tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:51 PM
4

Yeah I very much doubt that. As someone who’s taking entire classes in surveys and their evidenced reliability I know those surveys are way too biased to be considered actually proof First of all surveys can’t be used as proof unless they’re done by a huge amount of people which those types never are and then there’s the element of how the questions are defined and what answers there are and also in which area they are done Way too many variables in what you said to even remotely consider it pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:44 PM
6

What’s the statistics on that? Like what percentage says that it’s a core element of them when dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:37 PM
2

Honestly that’s only a problem depending on the kind of women you decide to date and it seems like you just have bad taste (which is a problem for both genders) and because of that you’ll get a wrong impression of women as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:36 PM
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You’re confusing preferences with needs Men would prefer a woman with a nice butt who does whatever they want in the bedroom but that doesn’t mean they need it and ergo they may settle You still didn’t give any non anecdotal proof
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:34 PM
5

Non anecdotal proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:32 PM
8

A lot of men don’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:28 PM
45

I live in Denmark but I know here there’s statistics for those sorts of things and those are all done by danmarksstatistik They showed that women in relationships on average do more housework than men no matter their income
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:13 PM
4

It’s just weird that you decide it’s okey to do something just because others supposedly are doing. Whilst most of your text about women is straight up wrong I don’t care as much about that as I care about justice and fairness and it’s not fair to call out one group without calling the other who does the exact same when you know they do the exact same I’d say it’s you whom try to be the victim here since you only said how men are the victims when that had nothing to do with the original context …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:06 PM
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“Endless female dehumanization of men” And then you continued to dehumanize women and lie about what we want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:54 PM
2

I’ve never heard of anyone in my country idolize Americans. I get why some countries would buy a lot of countries in atleast Scandinavia doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:28 PM
4

I think it really depends on the country. In some countries they get more attention and in some they get less
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:13 PM
11

lol if you think American men are racist you’ve not been to a lot of other countries
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:10 PM
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Then all you men are the same too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:59 PM
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If it’s a fact I’m sure you can prove it. So I’d like to see the research on that if you wouldn’t mind sharing it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:49 PM
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Why is it so bad to not be complexly honest. You mentioned earlier that small lies weren’t something you’d break up over so why is this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:03 PM
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Well you said no matter how small so it can’t be fine according to you. Also why is one person more or less in your body count such a big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:54 PM
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So it’s just based on personal experience? Most women I know have atleast told a small lie to their partner. Like having said they enjoy their cooking even tho they didn’t. Having said that sex with them is the best ever. Small lies are okey and are often times a good thing in relationships. Like saying his cooking is good for his self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:50 PM
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Well you said no matter how small so you’d ghost her too if it was 7 instead of 6
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:45 PM
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Women feel sexual unges too… trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:49 AM
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Isn’t it insulting to men to basically say that you can’t stand up for yourselves. Because if you could why would women have to do it for you? So please encourage men (who are just as capable as women) to do it themselves instead of playing the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:30 AM
3

Seriously what’s up with these kinds of posts? I’ve seen 3 exactly like that just today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:57 PM
3

They punish in Scandinavia too. You make it sound like they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:29 AM
26

Tbf locking up their penis in a little cage and fuck other men seems like a very specific thing and not something most women want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:02 AM
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At that age there’s about an equal amount of men and women and women can date a little younger or older men too So there’s not a lack of options. Also less options don’t have to mean worse options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:40 AM
3

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:10 AM
13

I’d love to fulfill my career ambitions and create something I can be proud of. I’d also like to have a little family in the city with a husband and 2-3 children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:17 AM
0

That’s subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:18 AM
3

I thought women were allowed here too but apparently not according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:47 PM
3

Nice reply
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:45 PM
4

So a guy who’s fucked a girl knows female sexuality? So any mentally ill person is a psychologist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:45 PM
0

So what kind of formal education do you have involving female sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:43 PM
2

Such as
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:52 AM
2

You still didn’t answer her question How does that benefit women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:42 AM
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I speak danish and a reasonable amount of Swedish I’ve lived short term in Sweden and long term in Denmark The drinking culture is insane but that’s not necessarily due to depression it’s just a cultural thing you drink so much But still doesn’t change my point that if that’s the reason those countries are happy the other countries could just do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:40 AM
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Any country in particular you’re planing on going to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:36 AM
2

Having a work permit makes sense and you can get it reasonably if you’re somewhat educated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:34 AM
1

Then why don’t other western countries just do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:31 AM
2

That proved absolutely nothing tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:30 AM
2

Just because there isn’t Open borders doesn’t mean it isn’t easy. It really depends on who’s applying for the citizenship and ofc it’s not everyone who can just come and go but some can
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:29 AM
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I think you’re misinterpreting want for need Men and women alike would love to date a supermodel but both know it most likely won’t happen Ans the point has nothing to do with drafting as a concept it just means that women aren’t actually picking and choosing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:25 AM
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But a lot of Scandinavian women are happier than American women according to statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:17 AM
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So if I said the entire world and I really only meant my city it would also be rectangles and squares Because you basically just said here that you’re only talking about america which you haven’t done before
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:14 AM
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It’s easy to immigrate to Sweden and if you’re an educated american most of Northern Europe is pretty easy to get into
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:12 AM
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Scandinavian and Northern Europe isn’t the same just so we’re clear
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:07 AM
2

Men preferring it doesn’t change the culture How does it benefit them not to do it? Also why is it you think most women want a traditional man when I’ve not even heard of any women I know who want that? And equality in military is a good thing and the most people who don’t want drafting for women don’t want it in general
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:06 AM
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But when I say minority I mean based on all you said and most women as far as I’m concerned don’t want a traditional family
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:03 AM
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Most women are willing to spilt the check and most women don’t make the first move but that’s cultural
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:00 AM
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That’s a minority of women And it’s pretty much the same everywhere in the west Northern Europe isn’t different in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:58 AM
0

Not true but okey
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:27 AM
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I don’t think you’re gonna have any luck doing it that way but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:48 PM
1

You don’t really get to know a girl before going on a date when you’re using your tactics Join a bookclub or another type of club and talk to some people there and you’re more likely to find a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:39 PM
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You have no idea what the girls are into you chose them entirely based on looks so I think I’ve been quite kind in my conversation rates and I should probably have been more harsh and say 1 in 20 and 1 in 4
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:34 PM
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Okey let’s say it’s 1% then maybe 1 in 10 goes past first date and half of those go to an actual relationship you’d still have to ask 1k women out to get a gf isn’t that a bit too much work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:26 PM
2

Haha I don’t think that’s quite true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:23 PM
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If you want a paternity test it’s because you don’t trust your partner and if you want to know their sexual history I can’t see how that has something to do with trust
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:13 PM
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