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I feel you. I am allergic to cats and rabbits although i really would want a rabbit. Also i have pollen allergies starting in February and ending in November (and December and january i am usually sick lol) and i have to calculate when it will be worst to only use them then or to use only low amounts. This bitch has no idea!
/r/MensRights13/12/18 01:03 PM
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Ok first: CONDOMS ARE ONE OF THE LEAST EFFECTIVE BC METHODS! If her bf doesnt want a child it is 110% understandable that he doesnt want to rely on them. Second: if he doesnt like them but you do you might want to have a discussion about this and find a way where everyone is listened to. Just bitching about it wont do shit. Communicate that you want condoms - SIMPLE AS THAT. Third: allergy pills should NEVER be used over a long time period. They screw up the immune system and can have severe sid…
/r/MensRights13/12/18 01:00 PM
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Oh as someone who has lots of allergies i can tell you that allergy pills arent easy either. They make me seriously tired most of the time and they obviously mess with the immune system so they are not a magical thing to make allergies disappear. Besides - you shouldnt take them for more than 1 or 2 months. Their impact is too big and some of them mess with your stomach after some time as well. Allergy pills are a gift from god sometimes bc they make you function while BC pills for women are the…
/r/MensRights13/12/18 12:44 PM
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How adults solve problems: "sorry, your arm is a bit in my way could you please move a little?" How feminists solve problems: "I AM TOO AFRAID TO USE MY MOUTH I AM OPPRESSED! THIS SHOULD BE ILLEGAL!"
/r/MensRights12/12/18 11:34 AM
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Now i am interested
/r/MensRights10/12/18 09:56 PM
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I only watch small youtubers, if at all, and barely know her. Could someone please enlighten me what this is about?
/r/MensRights10/12/18 06:35 PM
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r/lostredditors
/r/MensRights04/12/18 05:37 PM
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Exactly!! Human rights also include women and people like her are especially human right defenders. I dont care how she calls herself but this is how i see her, not more and not less!
/r/MensRights04/12/18 05:36 PM
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Well you shouldnt lie, there are significant differences between men and women such as biological or physical. But also statistically there are different tendencies for men and women who cant be explained through general, non individual forces in society such as a tendency for women to search meaning in their job and for men to search for a high importance of reasoning, rationality and complexity in their job. Also men and women develop differently, womens brains mature faster which means a diff…
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/18 02:10 PM
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I honestly think whether nudity is acceptable or not depends on the cultural background. In my country its not only not forbidden, you can technically lay in a park naked, or on a lake and noone cares. A few years back people used to do it a lot, it seems to be less of a trend now. I see that there are cultures where this is a no go. And in this case it either needs to change really slowly or not at all. Its a different mindset and it needs to be respected.
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/18 01:57 PM
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Because they barely fight for women as individuals. Its their biggest issue - they see women as a group and generalize... While being against generalisation. I would say mental issues affect ones life differently on average depending on your gender. Men are more likely to commit suicide because they tend to deal with their issues 'privately' while women are more outgoing and search for help. Therefore women are more often diagnosed, so the overall number increases while men arent which raises su…
/r/AntiFeminists25/09/18 10:50 PM
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I was talking about the statistics OP mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 08:20 PM
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Yes, because they dont care. Nobody pays attention or searches for statistics if they arent interested
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 01:27 PM
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Yep. I doubt they care about a few statistics if they really want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 12:29 PM
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Because every man kills, starts a war or builds an empire or is a powerful CEO... This is highly misandrist! Anyways, there are men who do that, but there also are women who betray, who are seeking revenge for tiniest things and are full of wrath. I dont know what makes you feel most people are like that and who you've met in life but most people try to life their life peacefully. Its small minorities that fuck up everything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 01:00 AM
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As a lesbian i can confirm - we do exist and picking up women feels awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 06:56 AM
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Well i can only speak for myself then. But still, women make a large portion of porn viewers and although they again just dont admit it, they certainly dont need the honesty. A slave can play anything, so it would be less spreading legs and more pretending to like them for the slave yes. But women are so good in guilt tripping men to say they like them physically instead of just following what men like, i think with a slave they would perfectly embrace that and love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:43 AM
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Naaah married is not my type... So is straight lol XD still takes chianti bc theres no way to say no to that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:30 AM
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I see, explains the choice XD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:22 AM
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Interesting choice of a husband but each to their own...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:20 AM
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Im pretty sure women wouldnt say no to sex slaves either. Honestly, im pretty sure people wouldnt say no to any kind of slave. People are lazy and like power, slaves are perfect for that. Women are just not honest enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:18 AM
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As long as its connected to "independance from men" you cant be happy overall. Only when you disconnect from others and purely search for what you want you can find happiness. That however is sth both men and women fail at
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:49 AM
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I am ugly, i get turned down all the time and im NEVER approached either. Pretty normal to me honestly...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 06:56 PM
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No. Most prostitutes said many men who visit them often only need a shoulder to lean on and finally someone who will listen. Men show their feelings completely different than females do, and one way men try to do it seems to be through sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 09:56 AM
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It highly depends. If someone asked me if im a prostitute on the street i would probably be offended (not too much though, id probably just ask why they came to that conclusion) since they normally arent really looking too attractive. They need money quickly and need it so bad that they would do a lot of things for it. So all of them is made to tell: you can fuck me, just pay for it. I would rather be offended bc that person probably saw nothing than someone they can fuck and didnt even bother t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 09:53 AM
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Uhm... No. Sex leads to pregnancy and in an area without proper medicine, without insurances and without a stable state that actually cares for the people it was extremely dangerous both for the woman and the child, given it survived, to live without a father. It was even for the father since he needed to afford another child that wasnt likely to stay in his family. A family needed to survive on their own and since it was not as likely for a child to survive childhood families needed many childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 07:24 AM
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Yes! Schools are highly important. Mental issues arent only important for those who have them but also for those who dont have any and who need to understand why someone might act that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 11:27 AM
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Yes sure. Thats why i said it should be the same for everyone. There are also weak men who are not too useful in certain areas, there are just less. The only thing that should count is strength (plus all other things that are directly important obviously), and although gender correlates it shouldnt be what is considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 11:06 AM
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"Until even the least relevant woman had spoken" WHAT? Seriously? If someone wants to contribute to a conversation he first needs to take care he is heard - but by himself. Theres no exception to this for women. Why should anyone take care wether you said something or not? What if she agreed and had nothing to add? Seriously, thats ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 10:58 AM
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I am so sorry you had to go through this and that your family doesnt care for you. I hope you feel better now. I cant disagree that we might instinctively care more for women, but that doesnt mean it is right/rational, and at least i hope we can still be rational from time to time. We might have that attitude but we could still help men way way more if there were enough places for them to go. The charity you mentioned is interesting, thanks for mentioning this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 10:53 AM
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Draft is a difficult topic anyways, depending wether you are pro or con draft it will change your attitude wether men should not be drafted or women should be drafted as well. Edit: whats undebatable imo though is that it should be the same. Women are averagely weaker and both men and women in one group can cause issues yes, but that doesnt mean they cant be useful somewhere else in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 10:46 AM
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That is justified. Again, in a state of total war it is debatable. But if not the country needs to make sure to give those people who die and fight for them the best conditions and life, because this is what they offer in return. If the country is poor the benifits wont be as high, but they need to exist. And with the right benefits the people will come.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 07:19 AM
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My country is in the EU, we had a lot of shit happening the last years with other countries but not wars yes. But that doesnt matter. A draft violates human rights, and although it might sometimes be necessary it cant be the default. A country needs to make sure that those who join the military recieve certain benefits since they are willed to fight and die for this country. If the benefit is high enough people will come voluntarily. It would be a way to solve the tution issue fe in the US. Thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 07:10 AM
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Europe. Doesnt make drafts any better though. Are they justified when directly facing threat? Debatable. Are they justified generally in an area of peace? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 07:01 AM
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Idc about america, i am not american. There is no draft system like that in america in my country and we somehow survive as well. If a country is threatened there WILL BE people who go to the military and fight. In the end, its like a job the goverment provides, but they need to make sure it is worth it for people by giving advantages. Idc if its reality to assume we will not have a huge war that requires a draft eventually somewhen. I just dont see how it should justify the drafts NOW. Its a hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 06:51 AM
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I am highly against any kind of draft or forced military join. So my answer is no, but it is the same for men. Those who want to go to the military shouldnt be stopped however.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 06:38 AM
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I wouldnt let that count but you can surely get them through plastical surgery - might look ridiculous but whatever XD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 01:04 PM
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Yes but does penis still beat boobs? I wouldnt want to miss the simplistic joy of carrying them through my day and giving them a little hug from time to time. And i have TWO! XD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:40 PM
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I am talking about extremely painful periods not periods themselfs. That is an illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:38 PM
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Priorities XD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:37 PM
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Well its a problem if it is an illness and the regular or more intense pain killers doctors can give you dont work anymore, but lets be honest there are thousand other illnesses you could be born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:36 PM
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Depends. Since i can decide so much - can i also decide my sexuality? Or WHERE i am born? Although it sucks being born a woman in certain parts of the world, i already hit the tiny probability of being gay once, and i dont want to risk being a gay man in a country that would kill me for it... Lesbians mostly are better off so currently im just glad i am female (makes especially traveling with a gf easier bc most assume we are just best friends). Also, if i would be born in an area without modern…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:30 PM
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Yeah but its something additional on your body that gets in the way. Or lets say it that way - men i know complained about things being stuck or whatever maybe not frequent but often enough for me to think "thank god i can just binge pain killers and use tampons once a month but other than that - no issue"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:24 PM
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So what? Is his job harder? Is he less careful with housework? Has he more issues with doing it? The question is easy. Does it NEED to be done? Yes? Someone has to do it, if it cant be solved in a respectful way like "who has time/energy" - congrats, you live with an asshole or you are one yourself. If not, the question is "do you WANT it to be done, but your partner not?". If that is the case your partner can do you a favor but in the end it still is your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:00 PM
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Female but i devide housework by "it needs to be done, who has time/energy to do it?" i wont start calculating just to clean the floor once and i dont see why it should be necessary in a loving relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 08:48 AM
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I think valuing a job by hours is wrong. Ofc if someone works 16h a day it is a whole fucking lot no matter what they do, but still, someone who worked hard(physically or mentally) for 8h probably did more than someone who only had to do rather repetitive tasks for 10h.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 03:56 PM
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Exactly what i thought as well. I have a few OCD like traits (fe i cant stand anything being unclean WHILE i cook. I am always cooking and cleaning the same time, so usually either i cook alone or i dont participate XD) and things NEED to be done that way or i will intervene. So whenever someone tries to help i tell them the exact way i need it to be done and why they cant do it another way. But i know that this is my own problem and that others have completely different standards. A few years a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 03:53 PM
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Thats also one of the main reasons imo why men dont help as much with children. Women DONT TRUST enough to let the man raise them while they work. I see it EVERYWHERE - fe: "im gonna call my husband bc im sure he will not think of it but for me its highly important" or "if my husband would care for the house everything would just be a MESS" or "i have to think of X and Y and Z and i always remind him to do it he would be lost without me" - while all of those completely ignore that he probably di…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 03:41 PM
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Im sure we would highly miss something. Our libido controls a lot of things and i am sure we arent even aware of how much our libido affects us! If we could switch it off we probably would end up in a world of robots, yes, but in a bad way. In a way where we function for a society and not for ourselfs and what we love anymore. It honestly is no society i would want to live in, especially since controlling libido could also result in a penalty/threat system. Restricting sexuality is an effective …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 01:32 PM
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Well its the internet - rule 34 you know XD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:57 PM
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It is. But not exclusively bc thats just untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:25 PM
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Averagely it might be the case yes, but surely not without big exeptions. I think the majority of people does behave quite simmilar regardless of sex, and those who are high payed CEOs or who created huge companies are on the extreme side, just like women who either purely exist for working their social job or for physically pleasing a man are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:24 PM
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It was never my point that it is frequent, i just wanted to make clear that penetration doesnt necessarily mean submission, it rather correlates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:19 PM
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Exactly. That we want others to be impressed is human, not exclusive for males. Women just seem to do it differently, but not less intense. In the end we all just want a social reward for what we are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:18 PM
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It happens, although as you said, its rare. Want to be specific? My favourite are ballgags that have a dildo attached on the outside so someone who is gagged can be used for pleasure by the dom (kind of a varient of a strapon, but more bdsm-y) - obvsly with penetration. I dont often search for these things honestly but sometimes its quite a turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:13 PM
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Ah. I dont have a problem, im just saying that although something penetrates me i can still be a dom in the scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:00 PM
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Sorry i dont fully understand your last sentence, i think it misses a verb XD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:54 PM
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Might be rare idk, but im female and i sometimes tend to be a dom (i would consider myself a switch) but have no issue with penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:50 PM
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Im not talking about bdsm but generally submissive/dominant traits, and most people switch between it sometimes. The thing is though that most of the terminology comes from bdsm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 06:28 PM
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Also that depends. You could have multiple kinks, some submissive some dominant. Being a switch is a quite common thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 06:10 PM
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Yes but its still not vanilla, no matter how many are into it and i thought we are only talking about vanilla I wouldnt. I mean if you FEEL submissive yes, i would, but generally i wouldnt. Its just a different mentality behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:45 PM
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Rape fantasies are a whole different thing though. Thats even more than bdsm. Imagine that situation: she initiates first contact, physically escalates bc of her high sex drive (which is what most women dont seem to have) and penetrates herself with him while he is the one who lets things happen. I cant call this submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:38 PM
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That might be your opinion, but ive seen a lot of stuff where i would never call the man the dominant part regardless of penetration. And I am clearly not talking about bdsm either. If penetration = submission to you it doesnt mean it cant be different for others. Thats always a bit of a personal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:28 PM
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Highly depends. Submission can be mental and physical. I think its clear for mental, but physical is tricky. Being penetrated CAN be submissive, but it doesnt have to be. It depends on who has the control. Coming from a bdsm femdom point, men are seen as submissive as long as the woman is the one who physically forces the man into her. Id say as long as she doesnt lay on the bed and doesnt move but interacts and moves herself it isnt really submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:14 PM
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Why does ANYONE want to succeed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:07 PM
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Sorry if that was unclear, i meant both a source for testosterone increasing sex drive and a high sex drive is what makes men ambitious. If testosterone makes women ambitious it doesnt necessarily mean that their sex drive increases as well. I have no doubt that hormones control sex drive, but it probably highly depends on the person. I dont use hormonal BC so i have no experience myself but friends often tell me their libido either seems to be gone after taking it or it goes through the roof. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 04:26 PM
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Assuming the black and white assumptions are true - why? Why would it matter? I am lesbian, my physical sex drive is low but my fantasy isnt. I fantasize about various things probably half the day (i need to say that i am a hobby artist and character designer so most of my time is spend daydreaming which works but isnt particularily helpful at uni). I honestly DO know the feeling of looking at women and gazing at them involuntarily to fantasize even only for tiny moments throughout the day becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 04:21 PM
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Yes i know these things but does it increase sex drive? I highly doubt that it is so easy since a lot of scientists failed to make an actually reliable form of viagra for women. I might be wrong though, but still, a source for all the claims would be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 04:19 PM
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Yes, i would really like to see studies on this. Especially the testosterone thing and a proof that being ambitious is caused by high sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 04:10 PM
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I dont think my answer is particularily helpful since i am lesbian, but maybe you still are interested. I usually dont dress too sexy, i am more of a tshirt and jeans person than dresses, but sometimes i do. Its partly bc i love how i look myself which makes it a "self worship" thing, but i need to say i also like it if people think i am attractive (as someone with an ugly face it is not happening too often), especially if they are women. But idk if straight women really are into being called at…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:59 AM
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It can be. If the teasing is only towards one person. Most relationships include teasing from both parts to both parts - but not necessarily. If someone in the relationship is quite submissive teasing can show this, but it surely doesnt have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 03:03 PM
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I heard it once. It was on a party, everyone was drunk exept me and it was about soccer(or football idk what to use when) which isnt my particular interest, i am 1.5 meters high and dont use makeup so there always seems to be a certain type of men who are exactly into this, but they dont seem to be good with flirting. I dont like parties and im introverted so i always sat aside and talked about various things or just watched the rest. One came to me and stood there for a good second and then sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 07:56 AM
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Snape has both a lot of fans who love him as a character (me fe, imo he was extremely well written although he is a fucking asshole 99% of the time) but he has a lot of fangirls as well. That can be said about nearly every character in HP though - ok maybe not dumbbitch umbridge... I dont know how comparable fiction is to reality here. The "anti hero" is a huge fictional concept yes, but mostly because people like the thought of it but dont want it in RL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 10:39 PM
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There probably are many reasons. Maybe some of the ones i could think of make sense: The person is in prison, that means they can feel superior and more important since they are his "window to the outside world". It gives them power and control over the person who has hardly anything else to think about while being locked up. Its is a fetish. There are a lot of women with rape fantasies, why should it be only rape and not other crimes as well? It could turn them on knowing he broke the law and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 10:32 PM
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Im purple pill and more importantly - i am lesbian. Which means although i currently dont have a gf or live together with a woman someone of us will have to do all these things. There is no other way lol. I have always been more on the scientific side (i study maths) so i was always kind of interested in especially technical things. But there was a point when i was a teenager where i realized that telling my father "do this or that" will backfire bc i dont have a man who stereotypically can do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 11:13 AM
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Lmao XD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 10:04 PM
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I am very sex positive. Consent is consent, and i am in no position to question it. You can see casual sex as damaging and be sex positive as long as you see that although you think its damaging you can not judge people for doing so as it is their own choice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:33 PM
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Wait cutting inner vulva lips? That still is a thing?? No matter what it is, aesthetically wanting something for OTHERS never should matter.
/r/MensRights26/03/18 02:35 PM
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Wow really? Im gay so it never really accured to me that there might be a difference in feeling for women. But thats ridiculous. Dont tell me babies get their foreskin cut off bc some women like it better that way??
/r/MensRights26/03/18 11:43 AM
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True! I hear more from the feministic side and i was often mistaken to be male (bc im gay and when i mention my gf people obviously assume im male first) and i often had conversations that ended with "well you are probably male anyways so you cant know womens issues so get out" when i criticised something. It wasnt directed to you for maybe hating women, its just my experience in different areas :)
/r/MensRights25/03/18 06:12 PM
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Wow thats great, but im sure some feminists will whine how "women bleed every month so..." cant even come up with anything but im sure they can XD i just know that women complain how 13-15yo(!) girls get the advice to take the pill from their GYNO and "are too young to understand what it does and too dumb to read the side effects in the packaging themselfs or link side effects with the pill they take so its misogynist (sure...)" but a baby getting parts of his dick unrepearably cut off - pff no …
/r/MensRights25/03/18 10:23 AM
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I think its common sense that most men masturbate regularily. The "go girl" thing comes from some women being less confident about it since its not such a big topic like male masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 11:33 PM
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Why is it an acchievement to sleep with a lot of people? Its not a problem to me, but not and acchievement either. And why exactly would it matter what he is into? If he is into obesity or simply doesnt mind and sleeps with a lot of fat women it is not different to someone who is into thin women and sleeps with a lot of thin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 07:33 AM
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Well you are not wrong XD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 12:20 PM
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Its impossible for a whole society to demand no sex before marriage from every single individual, just like its impossible for one society to be rape free. I think you should look more into the details here. Sex outside of marriage is based on consent - the aspect of marriage is missing though. There is more possibility and it is no harm to anyone, unlike rape. Also, what is it that makes someone a rapist? Is it pure desire to have sex? Is it power? Is it a personality trait or even mental illne…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:56 AM
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Thats one reason why i dont value IQ. It simplifies intelligence to a solid number - i dont think that is suitable for such a complex topic. It may show the direction, but thats it imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 05:37 PM
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Yes i support it. 100%. For the reason you mentioned: consenting adults should be allowed to do so. Its the same with gay marriage. Just because its legal it doesnt mean everyone will be gay. I doubt most would like the thought of polygamy. Although i dont think we are made for monogamy with the same person our entire life we probably arent made to always share our lovers either. We are talking about a small percentage of the population here. Also, preventing poligamous relationships by banning …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 07:59 PM
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Well thats also betraying your partner, but in a different way so...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 06:01 PM
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No its not bad. Its bad to expect every woman to do that job or to force your partner to do it when she clearly is uncomfortabel with it. But if this is just the dynamic that happens to work in your relationship - sure, why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 01:21 PM
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Do you mean face, body or both? My body is quite nice (im too small though) but my face is disgusting. People always only commented on my body, never my face. The thing i sometimes got from girls was "how are you even that thin its unfair". Most men dont seem to be attracted that much, which is weird bc i thought the body is more important to men than women, but thats just my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 10:22 PM
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Thats true. If that is what she wants. Its no use fighting wether its equal or not here, its a case to case desicion how every relationship works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 10:10 PM
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Well if she wants more she needs to tell him i guess. Or what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 10:03 PM
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Uh, you know as long as fathers arent actively incolved during birth they are visitors. You cant just demand to be next to the surgeon just because it is your daughter currently that has surgery either. You are a patient: you need to do what is necessary so the doctor can medically treat you and communicate what you want and where. You are a doctor: you need to respect the patients wish and opinion. You are a guest: you can stay as long as you are wanted and not in the way, otherwhise you will n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 10:01 PM
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Huh? I dont understand any of this halp please XD where is the oppression? (Or where is it obviously not bc of your /s)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 09:55 PM
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Sorry i dont understand your problem. Every patient can refuse to take guests and both nurses and security make sure that people who arent wanted/needed and disturb their work or the patients well being are being removed. How is anyone forced to take guests in the hospital and more importantly how is it a gender issue??? Again, EVERYONE can refuse to see someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 09:43 PM
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Ah i see. It might be different in my country (im not in the us). As far as i know here a doctor needed to know that patients might seek certain procedures when he decided to be a doctor, so it might be that the patients here have more power. But i am not a lawyer, i just thought it was that way. I think i have heard from it. I would not do it dont worry, i would surgically remove parts but not add things to my body that arent necessary. Too risky. I currently try to decide between a hysterectom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:37 PM
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I dont know the rights a patient has but as far as i know a doctor can refuse a patient if the procedure is against his morals. That means he could refuse to do it if it is against his believes, but not because 'i might regret it' - thats not a believe he has, that is my business. Sorry what is essure?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:07 PM
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"Voluntarily sterilize themselfs" yeah try to get that... I am trying to get sterilized for years now and doctors normally just laugh at me... Its the same for men though i think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:02 PM
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Denying one group of people a right for the sake of equality because another group of people cant have that right easily might make it equal, but it doesnt make it good. That is the flaw of 100% equality, it creates more issues sometimes than just trying to solve the issues directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 07:59 PM
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What do you mean "mothers not allowing fathers in the hospital"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 07:53 PM
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Im glad i dont have cousins, i am serious about not being able to stand them... So true. It doesnt make sense to me that so many people are so ignorant when it comes to different decisions. If someone mentiones they love kids i will tell them that i dont because thats just my opinion, but i wouldnt try to make them feel bad for wanting them or try to change their mind other than "are you really sure about that?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 01:46 AM
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Haha same XD i hate children, i cant really stand being closed to them or involved in anything related to children. I rather stay on my own and live my life in peace!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 01:05 AM
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Same. Fuck having children. I dont need to create humans to make me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:46 AM
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The important point is "majority". There are women who accept short term relationships or one night stands. But yes, if you want casual sex and you dont want to lie you have two options: 1) dont have it and decide against the stress besides your wish or 2) be honest from the start because its not your fault if she doesnt believe you. To be honest i would choose 2. I never had the impression that a stable relationship is (purely) based on good sex. If you search for a long term commitment through…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 04:31 PM
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If that is the case they can feel used as much as they want, they werent. Someone just made the same point in another comment btw. In this situation its the woman who lies, so the man should feel betrayed or used not vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 04:19 PM
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I see. That might be another possibility yes. Although they claim so, they werent used then however. Actually in this case its not the man who lies, but its the woman while the man was betrayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 04:15 PM
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If the women know what the relationship is based on (aka being a test drive or being one of many women) it is fine of course. So are one night stands. If not it is a plain lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:59 PM
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Lets say you arent satisfied. It is your fault if you didnt tell your partner. It is your partners fault if you did tell him/her but he/she didnt care or changed their actions accordingly. Additionally you could add that it is also your fault if you are unsatisfied but your wish was impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:51 PM
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Sorry but quoting my comments doesnt make your point clear to me. Please elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:40 PM
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I cant really answer your questions directly because i already disagree with the way this whole discussion is set up. The situation is: some women want casual sex, some women despise it. Some man want casual sex, some men despise it (although i would assume more women are against casual sex than men). Some women now seem to see the different needs as threat (especially if they despise casual sex), and when they meet men who think differently they feel betrayed. Men who dont like casual sex someh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:36 PM
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No, it depends. The one who failed one of his responsibilities is responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:13 PM
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Female, but im lesbian Everyone is both responsible for communicating what they want and reacting to their partners wishes. If one part fails there is no satisfaction(may be orgasm, can be something else) and the one who failed is responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:02 PM
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It highly depends on the culture. In my country men are shamed to be the one who have affairs while women who cheat arent taken as seriously. When men cheat it is often referred to them destroying their family and being ignorant assholes who are misogynist and stupid for being so "sex driven", but when women cheat it often is joked about. The joke mostly is about men coming home and beating the guy out, or women hiding the man in the closet or sth, while noone really cares how the man feels (act…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 05:36 PM
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Exactly. Sexuality NEEDS to be predatory - otherwhise most species would die out. Every society needs laws - otherwhise we would all kill, steal, rape, torture, etc. And that MEN who are hetero have a MALE view on sexuality is basic logic. Same for women. That doesnt exploit women, just like female sexuality doesnt exploit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 11:12 PM
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True honestly. Doesnt even need to be another man, sometimes women complain about it after being in a relationship for a long time and never think about maybe even just mentioning it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 03:31 AM
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I can only say what i already said: speak for yourself. If i call something good sex it includes an orgasm, and the definition of "good sex" is highly personal. If those women OP talks about include an orgasm for good sex they obviously will demand one for good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:25 AM
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I agree. I agree. Just because its harder it doesnt mean the personal definition of "good sex" cant include an orgasm. I doubt men and women would rate sex the same. And just knowing what men sometimes jerk off to i dont think its hard to assume women simply have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:16 AM
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The question isnt if it is sex, the question is if it is GOOD sex. For me, without an orgasm, i dont think so! (As i said, unless its a fetish only session but then i often cant call it sex in the first place)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:09 AM
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"Because thats life" exactly! Some women dont communicate and demand perfect sex from the beginning, if it isnt they wont help their partner to learn. Maybe they dont know what they do wrong? Maybe what they do worked for another girl? Maybe what YOU did kind of is a turn off but they also dont really communicate, so maybe its possible BOTH failed somewhere? Maybe they thought you were generally not interested but not against sex as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:06 AM
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The only way i would accept sex without an orgasm to be good sex is if it is related to my fetishes. I have quite a few, and i can see sessions where i wont come - but then it often is the question if i would even call it sex anymore. There might be women who dont need an orgasm to have great sex, but it surely isnt for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:00 AM
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Most of what i heard this issue is either bad communication or subburn attempts to change your partner to the perfect fantasy - for both men and women btw. And despite all those things i always keep wondering why these people continue to have sex if it is really THAT BAD. Seriously if my girlfriend (im lesbian btw) was so bad and "just came after a few minutes and immediatly fell asleep while i didnt even start yet" (just to stick to to biggest stereotype) why would i even bother? I would tell h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:56 AM
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Same, my depression gets worse every winter. Im just not made for the lack of warmth and sun - although i am already in -2 from may till end of september ... xD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:45 AM
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Gender: female, but i have gender dysphoria Age: 21 Rel.status: single Orientation: i dont like to sort myself in, there are good and bad things on both sides and sometimes i 100% agree with posts/comments from TBP and sometimes with posts/comments from TRP. I rather tend to red though, but maybe just a bit Happiness: between 2 and 6, i have depression and anxiety (and gender dysphoria as i said before). Despite my mental instability my life is quite sorted however. I have success at uni and i s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:41 AM
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I was - but i am a fetishist so idk if it counts as an answer here. I drew people in bondage when i still was in elementary school (i still hope noone ever found it). I still remember the moment when i realized that tying hands behind your back and not in front is way more efficient, my mind was blown. I probably was 7-8y old. There was never really a moment when i was told i needed to like it, or when my feelings towards things changed. Sexuality can hardly be influenced, and if it surely is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 05:42 AM
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Many people stick to what they learn and they strive for the perfect relationship. Most of these are still shaped by history, where women werent independent and where being alone especially in the dark meant threat. Although society changed and women are equal to men now these old habbits dont die. That means men often are supposed to make the first step, men are supposed to pick up their gf at home, men are supposed to bring flowers and shit like that etc. It is historically given, not because …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 02:10 PM
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Its what everyone probably wants so yes...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 10:52 PM
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Besides there being 1k assumptions and fallacies on women in general in your post (such as: womens bodies and minds are made for pregnancy as an argument against women in workforce. Obvsly if only women can get pregnant men arent made for it, mentally and physically. That however doesnt mean all women will only strive for pregnancy after they hit fertility - although there is a worryingly big number of women who do exactly that - or that every woman wants or needs children, just like not every m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 12:58 PM
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Really? I though thats paraphilia... But maybe these terms are just overlapping XD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 02:52 AM
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100% agree. Also, there probably are hardly any relationships with two people being into the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 01:05 AM
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Its a kink. Kinks and fetishes (can btw someone please try to explain the difference to me if there is one? My native language only has fetish and google is not helpful...) always existed and will forever exist - or at least as long as mankind exists. There are kinks that seem to be more common for men (anal in that case) and some that are more common for women (fe submission). Nothing new about it. And btw i agree to the comment about porn. Just like video games dont create mass shootings, porn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 01:02 AM
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That is more likely to be the reason why they stayed virgins in the first place. They lacked the confidence to communicate already when they were 16. Its not virginity itself that turns women off, it is lack of confidence that correlates with virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 12:13 AM
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And how exactly should womens preference change within 5 years that much? As long as you assume that men loose their virginity mainly to female virgins age doesnt matter. A 16yo virgin will lack confidence just like a 20 or 21yo one regarding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:54 PM
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Does it count if im gay? I like virgin women or women who are less experienced because i am quite dominant. Other than that, the virgin issue is a fallacy. If it would be such a turn off for women to sleep with a virgin there would only be male virgins. Every man is either a virgin or they lost it to (mostly) a woman, so a lot of women sleep with virgin men at least once in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:39 PM
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Exactly... Or that there is any rule to dating that can be assumed for one gender or any other subset of society
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:31 PM
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I wouldnt call OP out for being a misandrist, although it looks like it. There are both women and men who act like this and if OP only met this type of men their stance is explainable. However if not i need to agree and OPs post is highly discriminating against men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 07:07 PM
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It highly depends where you are from, but if you live conservative the mother in a family is more like a stage between child and adult (doesnt work, uses income of her husband but hast certain duties and rights mostly family/children related that depend on the culture). Id rather say in this case men want to treat women like children, not vice versa. If you life liberal it is a highly personal matter how the families roles are set up. What you refer to is oedipus. People who project their relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 07:03 PM
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That honestly just sounds like a fetish to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:57 PM
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Yes then you should speak up. Being confident about your point and accepting different opinions doesnt mean you cant fight for yourself and who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:44 PM
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While i agree that everything else your parents raised you with is extremely stupid and disgusting, there is one sentence that is actually important (not for women bc of a behaviour thing ofc, its important for everyone). It is to sometimes be quiet although you know you are right and others are wrong. My grandma always said "your thoughts are free" and my grandpa always said "as long as you need validation or as long as you need to tell others they are wrong you dont have the confidence to be r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 01:19 PM
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Long story short: society has a communication problem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 01:11 PM
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Dont know either - im lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 09:19 PM
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Women are honest. They tell you their own experience. But you know, just with anything else, one method might work for one woman, but not for others. How should anyone magically know what other people like? Its not possible. Also, the best way to approach people means nothing if it doesnt fit. The first weeks in a relationship and especially the first date/the first contact etc relies mostly on hormones and unconcious behaviour. If nature decides you dont fit you cant do anything about it. Also,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 04:01 PM
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Aah I see. I just wanted to clearify i did not fully blame feminism, just explained its role in the whole issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:36 AM
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Yes and OP compared it to female circumcision later, so i just assumed that "the way it should be" meant "the way female circumcision is handled". If it meant something else it wasnt clearified enough for me. Sorry - tongue in cheek? I think i know what it means but google is not helpful and a bit contradictory with this one :/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:30 AM
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You might read my comment again. I am not blaming feminism itself, especially not for circumcision EXISTING. Circumcision exists way longer than feminism anyways. I am blaming (especially) the media and those who make certain topics go viral for leaving other issues unnoticed. This will never be different, there are always those few topics that heat up every discussion and that are in the main focus in society, and currently the focus is feminism (you cant deny that), so mens issues are not adre…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:19 AM
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Sorry i dont really understand your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:04 AM
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Most people focus on the horror stories, and those are more drastic for female circumcision (obvsly, its a difference if a part of the skin is removed or if a large area with extremely high rate of nerves is scraped off centimeters deep). That does change the way we see these things, but of course not the fact that both are harmful and a violation of the body. I often see less outrage about issues for males because of various reasons: 1) feminism pushes the image of "women need to stick together…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:29 AM
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Feminism ruining acchievements they already made... Great. Im lesbian and although there arent many cases where women accused lesbians i am afraid it can happen one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 05:00 PM
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I know that people argue this, but im certain that most people if it comes to their dream occupation would not let a few comments and stereotypes restrict themselfs. Yes, there are expectations, but noone will be able to prevent anything. I am female, i currently study maths. There were several occasions where people were surprised and questioned my abilities (mostly women ... Weird but thats another topic). But the only thing i did was search my university and i started studying there. I am pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 04:39 PM
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You base your assumption on facts (which is good of course) but you only consider individual facts. Strenght is relative, and it is a constellation of the individual, the situation and the environment, as well as the physical and mental ability to use a certain advantage. You just stated facts about the individuals, but you forgot the context. 1) politically noone stops you from persuing your dream occupation as long as you make sure you are educated suitable for the job (amd since physical abil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 04:04 PM
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Crimes stem from a large amount of reasons in several possible subsets of society. Basing it purely on gender is black an white thinking in its finest way, and concluding it is because gender1 is opressing gender2 is dumb af. Lets assume it WAS true and men would not get raped (even that asumption truely shows that they are imbecile asses who only care for pushing their agenda), it would make women the victims of rape - but not of opression as long as rape was a crime and not tolerated in societ…
/r/MensRights21/12/17 12:25 PM
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I am 100% with you. Friends of my family adopted a girl from afghanistan during the war, and hearing stories about her and i know what life she had in first world but would have had in afghanistan or as a baby refugee so adoption became a beautiful thing to me, id say even a better option. I have a strong opinion and i always knew what i wanted from the very second. Took me 1 second to know that i didnt like my new school or my first university. No buts and "but why dont you try to get used to i…
/r/MensRights04/11/17 10:30 AM
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I have depression for many years now, im not really sure it could be possible for him. After all those years i honestly think that most things people say will help it (things you said like role model, finding a goal or a certain area that makes you fight for it etc) is not the process of healing, but the sign you are getting better ot you beat it. Healing is highly subjective, and often there is one single thing or a few things in life that need to be changed, otherwhise everything is only distr…
/r/MensRights04/11/17 02:54 AM
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Thank you for recommending, and thank you for leaving my post. I think it might not be what this sub is for, but it still is a human right to be loved, so i dont think its completely out of topic.
/r/MensRights04/11/17 12:43 AM
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I am really sorry to hear that, and it will be the same for him. He surely will have a lot of trust issues and issues regarding his capability to show love. His family turned against him, the only companion he probably has is a dog he (aka his young sister but shes too young to care) got a few weeks ago. The even dared to think about giving that dog away because "of all the recent stress". Thank goodness my mother could make them clear that this is the worst idea possible so they are not gonna d…
/r/MensRights04/11/17 12:41 AM
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I know. Im used to it. Thanks for your support :)
/r/MensRights03/11/17 09:25 PM
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I am 21, a legal adult and with university etc i HAVE to make daily decisions that are irreversible and going to influence my entire life. I dont want children and will not live my life based on "maybe ill regret it so im not doing it". Thats a bad idea. Live your life with concious decision, so if you regret it you can at least say "i decided to do it because of X, and i will stand for my decisions". Otherwhise you will live a life of fear and regret. And "your views will most most certainly ch…
/r/MensRights03/11/17 07:19 PM
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Oh thank you for the suggestions. I can crosspost it there.
/r/MensRights03/11/17 06:52 PM
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As i said i didnt know where to post it. Many parenting subs do think that way themselfs, you can forget any feminism related sub and anyone in the teen subs would probably try to kill me for daring to insult feminism (just like most in childfree). I havent really found a sub for general anti feminism, plus sometimes i go through whats posted here, so i thought why not give it a try. And to the shit situation, its sadly a shit situation for many boys. It has not much to do with the actual law th…
/r/MensRights03/11/17 06:47 PM
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3 MONATE?? was zum teufel ist bei der denn los? Selbst wenn sie dir vielleicht einfach eins rein würgen wollte, wer bitte hält das denn durch? (Btw wenn man den schnaps weglässt dann wäre doch die party perfekt gewesen - falls es symphonic metal war nicht töten bitte - vielleicht wollte sie einfach nur mit? Jk) Im salty erst mal verschwinden bin ich aber auch gut... meistens aber nur wenn meine Depressionen schlimmer werden oder meine panische Prüfungsangst sich meldet, dann weiß ich aber ich br…
/r/MensRights11/09/17 09:32 PM
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3 MONATE?? was zum teufel ist bei der denn los? Selbst wenn sie dir vielleicht einfach eins rein würgen wollte, wer bitte hält das denn durch? (Btw wenn man den schnaps weglässt dann wäre doch die party perfekt gewesen - falls es symphonic metal war nicht töten bitte - vielleicht wollte sie einfach nur mit? Jk) Im salty erst mal verschwinden bin ich aber auch gut... meistens aber nur wenn meine Depressionen schlimmer werden oder meine panische Prüfungsangst sich meldet, dann weiß ich aber ich br…
/r/MensRights11/09/17 09:32 PM
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Achso ja klar diese rollenbilder sollte man dann auch nicht wirklich bekämpfen. Wozu auch, wem schaden sie denn man kanns ja selber anders machen. Die Provokationen finde ih trotzdem nicht lustig. In der Hinsicht spielt er ein wenig mit dem feuer. Aber ich beurteile da eher irrational wegen Befangenheit XD Ich muss ehrlich sagen dass ich immer besser mit männern klar gekommen bin. Mein gesamter freundeskreis (bis auf 2 kindheitsfreundinnen) ist männlich. Ich hab keine ahnung woran genau das lieg…
/r/MensRights11/09/17 09:57 AM
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Eerr not quite sorry :D You have good english = Du hast gutes Englisch | was this the right way = War das richtig?
/r/MensRights09/09/17 10:30 PM
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"Gender studie" bleib mir blos weg xD also 24/7 lebisch bin ich glaub auch aber so ein drama is mir dann docv zu blöd. Scheint aber eine Eigenschaft von Frauen zu sein gerne anderen eins rein zu würgen sooo not surprised. Naja was heißt rollenbilder denn überhaupt. Es gibt immer Rollenbilder in die man passt und nicht passt. Beispiel: ich bin lesbisch und meine haare könnten nich kürzer sein, aber trotzdem bin ich weiblich, hab als Kind aber nie auch nur ein Spielzeug besitzt das in die "pinke K…
/r/MensRights09/09/17 10:26 PM
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I think i know what you wanted to say so ... thank you XD
/r/MensRights09/09/17 10:08 PM
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"Richtig ärger gehabt" kann man so sagen XD Was Lesben mit dem Feminismus am Hut haben weiß ich auch nicht. Eine hat mir mal erzählt dass sie das Patriarchat verabscheut und sich immer dagegen wehrt. Du bist lesbisch Mädel weißt du was "Patriarchat" bedeutet?? Ich studiere Mathe an einer FH und meine Realität is nun mal die dass Männer sich immer mit mir freuen können oder sagen "meins wärs nich" und gut is, während Frauen ein riesen Ding drauß machen (im sinne von "als Frau? Sowas gibts doch ni…
/r/MensRights09/09/17 10:44 AM
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True. I understand where its coming from - but humanity is not fighting for pure survival anymore. When one generation gets almost whiped out its logical to rescue females first to keep the population going. However why tf would we need that today? We have enough humans. Its time to stop this seperation and equally let men and women in the helicopter (i btw always try to imagine why tf a women would leave without her husband... its not like anyone whould tie her up and carry her into the helicop…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 07:27 AM
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"Notice that i didnt say that" i did thats why i asked Yes but honestly name me a case where a women had the balls to safe someones ass. Its pretty much not existent so there cant be an outrage about it. They prefer whining aside waiting for the miracle to happen.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 07:01 AM
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So you would have wanted to see a 10yo or a pregnant women go back in? Again im not saying it would have been different otherwhise however here its just reasonable Btw did you expect me to know her or is it just a random video you posted to show your point? She is very reasonable though
/r/MensRights16/06/17 06:31 AM
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Not saying that it would have been different otherwhise but the younger daughter was only 10 so she coudnt safe anyone obvlsy and his wife was pregnant and choosing between one man who is physically completely "healthy" (idk a better word for it) and a pregnant women (which makes 2 lives) normally results in choosing the man.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 01:42 AM
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