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I wouldn't do it. Her being unemployed will not work out in his favor. The job market is fubar to boot. Revenge is great, I love it. But only if it's at no charge to me.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 02:29 PM
4

I thought step 1 was buy a bed frame.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 01:15 PM
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There was about a 4 month period where my ex-wife had moved ahead of me to a different state about 7 hours away. I had stayed behind to make repairs on the house, sell some stuff, and prepare it as a rental. Just me, this empty house, and a shitty air mattress. I was driving to see her at minimum every other weekend, and I'd just dread it. Not the drive, but having to deal with her in person. She accused me for years of dragging my feet on closing that place up, and I swore up and down she was w…
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 02:26 AM
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Talk to your lawyer about if hiring a GAL would benefit you here. I can't imagine a reasonable GAL would find this relocation in the best interests of your children.
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 09:23 AM
6

For starters, I wouldn't cancel that motion for contempt this time. Good luck, friend. I'd be livid.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/25 10:23 PM
2

Chop some wood. It's getting cold out anyway
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/24 12:36 AM
5

I can confirm. Drank beer on the sofa for 3 years. No women to be found there lol
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/24 07:59 PM
6

I couldn't begin to imagine the suffering that is 44 and a new baby. Fuuuuuuck that
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/24 11:16 AM
10

Bro, you're raw as fuck right now and I get it. She cheated. You're not alone. Pick yourself up, dust off, and carry on my man. There's more to YOU than this relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 03:18 AM
2

Do you really think this is all about your drinking?
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/24 11:39 PM
2

Try insight timer or one of the meditation apps. If you have an open mind to that kind of thing anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 10:06 AM
2

Life's just too short to be having a week long fight over a missing lunch box lol
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 12:55 AM
2

3 years in, yes. She's got a whole new life now, and we don't give enough of a shit about each other to create drama over little bullshit. All of the conflict early on was emotionally amplified. I was just as guilty. Send the kids over without xyz and I was ready to throw the fuck down anytime and everytime. It's just the way it was meant to be.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 08:14 PM
1

Does she have a psychiatrist? Is she medicated?
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 09:05 AM
1

I get that bro. Glad you're back and coherent lol
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 12:21 AM
2

You really got a thing for commas. Is this some AI nonsense?
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 08:47 AM
5

We don't want your perspective. Bye
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 03:08 AM
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Im going to get smacked for this one... But what do you deserve spousal support for? What were your contributions? How did you support her business? You're sure not her accountant.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/24 11:15 PM
4

Go to r/divorce desperate wife
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 01:45 AM
8

She's a bitch and no.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 07:25 PM
7

Yes, and use the opportunity to extract their ideas. Where do you want your bed? What kind of desk do you want? Where do you want your Slipknot posters?
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 03:57 PM
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You'll adjust, and it'll get easier. They'll also get older, and it'll get increasingly easier. Mine are 10 and 13. I don't have 50/50 because I'm a loser who laid down with a bottle of vodka rather than fight for my rights to be a parent. I only mention that because if I did have 50/50, it would be no issue at all to run out to the gym with them in my custody. Hell, I could step out for the day if I needed to. I think it's just hard right now and overwhelming you. You won't get the genie back i…
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 04:17 AM
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I understand what you mean about the blacking out part, and I understand why you said it. But logic does not apply here. You didn't blackout, and she's reaching for anything to blame you about. But I'd really advise you never to say anything like that again to her. Next thing you know, you'll be this monster blacking out in a rage and beating her up. And she'll have you just about admitting it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 06:50 AM
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If you don't have kids, then at least it'll be over soon. Once the house is gone, she won't have the opportunity to lash out at you since there's nothing left to discuss.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 02:10 AM
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Bro, that video probably has 5 views. 4 are from her pig friends, and the other one is from you. Stop wanting that shit.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 04:14 PM
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Maybe I'm reaching here or interjecting too much of my own similar story. But.. The part where you make up and she's kind to you again. That's a very addictive feeling. She'll make you feel the worst you've ever felt and then make you feel the best you've ever felt. Sounds a bit like drugs, huh? You need to feel normal and stable, not high on her or in the bowels of depression. Either of which is completely up to how she's feeling that moment.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 02:23 PM
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Got burnt badly on this one.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/24 04:59 AM
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The fact your kid defended you and immediately came and told you about it is a silver lining.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/24 03:00 PM
3

Well man, I hope your lawyer gets it sorted for you quickly. That's just insane
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 06:16 PM
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$27k is likely more than 100% of your net monthly income. This judgment makes zero sense. What did your attorney say?
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 06:09 PM
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I'd like to add one if I may. Stay the hell away from the booze! Weekend 6er? No problem. Pounding a 12 pack a night? You're on thin ice if not already broken through. It'll be vodka for breakfast before you know it. Signed: Guy who lost a few years to the bottle trying to "cope"
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 01:43 AM
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For real! And she'd have the audacity to complain the entire time about how much of a hassle it all was. 90% of her life's irritations we're self-imposed. Moron..
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/24 02:25 AM
4

You never forget your first cellie
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 10:09 PM
4

There's a lot of good advice in this thread. Working out is a great one and truly helped me a lot through the spot you're in now. But honestly, it sounds like you have too much weight on having a partner to make you happy. That's an observation from another guy who had too much need for being with someone to feel fulfilled. It defined my self-worth and had since I was a teen. No girlfriend? "You're a sad loser" was my thoughts.. I feel like getting past that need for validation balanced my life …
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/24 02:53 PM
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I often notice the glazed over eyes of men shopping with their spouses. Target is the worst.. The male misery in Target it palpable.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/24 02:20 AM
2

You should gtfo before that "nuke" goes off then.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 01:38 AM
3

Are you a drinker too? Are these clashes a result of both of you drinking? I really think that was a huge factor in my divorce. It was like either I was drinking, she was drinking, or we both were drinking. And in all three of those scenarios shit got ugly.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 07:04 PM
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When you're have a live in girlfriend who is staying in YOUR apartment, while you're deployed to a combat zone, and she makes an adultfriendfinder account, it's time to send her back to her mom. Not marry her... It is ill advised to believe the irrational excuses because you really wanted to believe those irrational excuses. To me, that is THE mistake that spawned all future mistakes. That was my opportunity to have a better life with a more committed and considerate partner. Someone who perhaps…
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 02:03 AM
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I really don't like that rule. I had no idea. I guess there's another reason to not get remarried. Every penny I have will go to my kids and no one else.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 12:29 AM
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This is another one of those "worry about what you can control" answers. Other than sinking that fuckers boat, not much that can be done.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 01:02 AM
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Bro, I'd have lost my fucking shit. I'm sorry you and the kid had to go through that.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 03:02 AM
2

Honestly, if you want to avoid being like me, that's the attitude to have.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 01:04 PM
8

I could have written this myself. It's been three years and I still feel it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 12:50 AM
8

Get out while you have nothing for her to take. Once she's gone go conquer the world brother.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 01:19 AM
3

So you're saying don't throw a chair at your ex and flip off the bailiff?
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 08:52 PM
2

Oh god, you work at the same school?! How are you going to handle that? Find a new job or stay there? I wouldn't be able to do it man.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 11:06 AM
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Damn, that's a lot of work. Wish I could just be pretty and sit on my ass all day.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 10:56 AM
3

I guess you have to, or it'll just keep happening.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 01:52 AM
1

Where did these numbers come from?
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/24 11:36 PM
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She doesn't get to "decide" if she claims child support. It's ordered by the court whether she wants it or not. You will pay regardless. I'd but a hundred bucks, there's an old fling back home she's got an eye on. Block this move however you can. She was dumb enough to give you forewarning about it. I had only days to try to prevent my kids from being relocated and was completely powerless to stop it. It took me over a year, thousands of dollars to move near them.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/24 01:50 PM
5

How specific was his threat to "get you"? Might be worth starting a paper trail on that one.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/24 03:05 PM
6

What were some of the dumbest questions? I'm just curious. I didn't have to deal with that shit personally.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/24 12:08 AM
4

I got other people's bills to pay. I dont get to go anywhere.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/24 01:25 AM
7

I say let her derail...
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/24 03:51 PM
6

I can't imagine any underwriter would touch this. Unless the premiums were huge.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/24 01:10 PM
5

Bears don't tell everyone your business, so I guess bear.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/24 12:15 PM
2

Yes, this is the fourth year I have. I refuse to do it myself, however. Either the kids participate or they know they'll have nothing to give mommy dearest.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 11:00 AM
3

Where are you located? Some states require a separation for x period of time. You might have to do it anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/24 02:09 PM
11

Are we talking about that bitch jenny?
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 09:10 PM
6

If nothing else, it sure sounds like you did everything you could to salvage things.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/24 07:54 PM
10

How dare you. You drove her to drink, obviously!
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 11:33 PM
1

That's probably a great place to get ideas. Those folks are professional ghosts
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 05:26 PM
5

I'm 42, self isolate, am divorced, and still alive. No divorce is going to kill you, friend. You stand the fuck up and power through it like I know you can.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 09:47 PM
8

Those are pretty critical ages, I would suggest you be there homie.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 01:03 AM
9

I honestly can not afford the risk of ending up with a repeat of the last one. It's just not worth the gamble.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 09:58 PM
4

I turned into one of those bicycle people. I've never been a cyclist, but now I have too many bicycles. Theres worse problems to have though.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 12:49 PM
7

If you think she has BPD, then you probably know enough about BPD to know it's just going to get worse.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/24 01:40 PM
6

The decree says sell the house, so not doing that could be considered contempt. If this is just a bluff to get her to play along, then I say go for it. Just don't actually refuse to sign or somehow interrupt the sale.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 01:55 AM
7

Does your divorce decree say you'll sell the house and divide the equity? If so, interrupting that process by not signing until your demands are met might end up used against you in court.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 01:45 AM
3

I take a bunch of pre workout, and then I don't have a choice but to burn it off. Maybe it's all in my head, but I'm going with it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/24 09:36 PM
8

I think he knows that man 😅
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 11:24 PM
18

I'd rather fuck an ant hill.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 12:06 PM
10

Has she found a new man yet? My ex chilled out a good bit once she found someone else to abuse. Shit deal for him but worked out great for me.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/24 12:48 PM
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How do you guys party, run through women, hold down a job, handle kids, AND process a divorce like this? Some of you dudes are super human. I barely left my bed for months 😅
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/24 03:05 AM
13

That's some ruthless bullshit right there.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/24 01:52 AM
2

It's a term for maintaining critical information and secrets. The military slogan "loose lips sink ships" speaks to maintaining good opsec.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 06:00 PM
1

I didn't have the will to fight it when it all went down. At this point, I just tell myself that at least my kids are well provided for.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 09:59 PM
3

I pay 40% as well. Only for ten years though. Sorry brother, that's rough.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 08:50 PM
6

Good lord! I'd love to smack your judge
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/24 11:36 PM
3

It's not too late to become super dad. Invest in your children while the rest of you recovers from your divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 04:06 PM
1

Oh OK, good luck 👍
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 05:39 PM
0

Why does your ex deserve no custody? Maybe I'm overlooking something egregious here.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 05:14 PM
3

Damn bro, that felt like a tough talk from my dad. Truth.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 01:50 AM
3

How'd she take it?
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 12:26 AM
15

She had "just a friend" once. Waved it in my face for months, almost inviting me to lose it. I bugged the bedroom and heard them being very good friends.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 12:25 AM
3

I'd fucking disappear off the map
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/24 09:28 PM
10

I remember the days when I couldn't buy an Xbox with my own money. Noooo thank you
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 10:14 PM
4

How long were you married? That seems a major factor aside from employment, which you've described. Her not being a stay at home mom sure helps your situation.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 01:43 PM
3

I hear ya man, it's been 2.5 years now, and I'm in limbo. I'm running out of things to try other than dating. But that doesn't seem a healthy solution, and I'd rather avoid the hassle anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 05:33 AM
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That's bait for something
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 07:24 PM
4

That's sure a lot of money for no kids.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 11:55 AM
4

The money you save not getting married can be used for some amazing end of life care. Go chill in a pimped out assisted living facility.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 11:52 PM
4

I might have overlooked this part, but did you two ever have the connection you're looking for?
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 10:06 AM
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