rane420 Archive

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1	Does anyone run into the issue of your friends starting to use you solely to meet girls?		rane420	/r/seduction	14/08/17 05:46 AM

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2	What % of girls are you interested in? If you were really into her with time invested, and she friend zoned you, I totally get your frustration. But I usually know if I'm being friend zoned way before I invest anything significant. With that said, wouldn't you be down if she invited you to parties and shit? You could meet her social circle. If she's hot, she most likely has hot friends. When her friends start chatting you up, watch that girl change her mind about you in a heartbeat. It's called "FOMO" - fear of missing out. Fortunate…	/r/seduction	04/09/17 10:18 PM
2	What % of girls are you interested in? This is a very good response. The first interaction can be very deceiving. She's just getting to know you so she still has her guard up more or less. This goes for people in general. Some dudes who were really quiet in class, turned out to have really awesome personalities and became friends you'd hang out with once you've taken the time to get to know them. I also like how you mentioned taking responsibility for the interaction. The girl doesn't owe me anything just because I spit some game at …	/r/seduction	04/09/17 08:54 PM
–	Guys who became good at daygame, what your advice for beginners starting their first year of game? I like to make quick observations about her or the environment that we're in to get things rolling. It keeps both you and the girl present to the moment which I personally find very important. Simple generic things have worked for me such as "I like your backpack, looks like there's a lot inside, psychology major? I would assume an impressive course as an indirect compliment to her. Then we usually end up talking about interests and hobbies, I like to get her on a passionate topic and ask her qu…	/r/seduction	04/09/17 04:22 PM
–	Harsh rejections really fuck up my nights. Yes you can, and I am speaking from personal experience. I was never a heavy drinker but I quit alcohol anyways just to get that much more of an edge over my life in general. And I know that alcohol makes my emotions more easily manipulated. Whenever I hit the clubs with my squad, I stick to caffeine to party and game. If the girl is drunk and acts like that German girl did, I already know it's not worth my time. If she's coherent and attempts to tool me because she's a bored individual (and it'…	/r/seduction	03/09/17 08:36 PM
1	Harsh rejections really fuck up my nights. That's very true brother. You definitely have the right mindset already and you're right, to ignore it is a lot easier said then done. From my own experience, it only takes one successful pull to forget a night full of rejections. I have a feeling you're at a point where your game is going to skyrocket to new levels, keep pushing!	/r/seduction	03/09/17 07:54 PM
0	Harsh rejections really fuck up my nights. I agree, there could be many reasons. Maybe she was having a bad day. Maybe her friends pissed her off. And this all happened right before you approached her. Whatever the reason is it doesn't matter, don't take it personal. She doesn't know anything about you, so how could she hate you as a person. By not taking it personal, rejection becomes a lot easier to ignore.	/r/seduction	03/09/17 07:43 PM
–	Harsh rejections really fuck up my nights. Don't ever live your life to accommodate the people who don't like or care about you. Live your life to find the women that do and trust me, they are out there looking to meet a guy just like you. Don't let that broad or any broad stop you from finding those girls that will vibe with you. The negative people like the German girl who shoved you will win if they get a reaction out of you. They don't want to see you win. The best response is to ignore it like she doesn't exist. To any bystander wat…	/r/seduction	03/09/17 07:34 PM
1	Thought I finally got a date, but she won't even see my messages... These guys summed up the best answers. Tackle flaking by having abundance. Flip the script and have them chasing you. Sometimes it's just a numbers game, especially at 18.	/r/seduction	03/09/17 06:14 PM
2	Why can I never escalate? Great advice here with tangible moves you can use! To add to this, remember you are in a college environment meeting girls at big parties. There is so much stimulus going on in these environments that compete for the girl's attention (music, alcohol, her friends, other guys, etc.) Therefore, picking up on IOI's quickly and escalating whenever you get the chance are very important to keep that girl on you. In other environments, taking your time might be the better move but if you're at a college…	/r/seduction	03/09/17 05:48 PM
2	Why can I never escalate? Precisely	/r/seduction	03/09/17 04:40 PM
8	Why can I never escalate? Well it appears that you are doing a great job in creating attraction, and building rapport by using playful banter. Are you physically escalating as well? (Ex. light touch on her shoulder when you both laugh at something funny to build comfort and familiarity with touch and feel from the get go). At some point, you are going to have to take the girl's hints at face value, assume attraction and make the move. You will feel it when it's time to escalate, there will be a brief narrow window of opp…	/r/seduction	03/09/17 04:39 PM
1	How do I react to this? I agree, definitely have a timeframe and take enough action within that to get a result or an answer. Interest can fade faster than when it was made.	/r/seduction	03/09/17 04:08 PM
–	Do women enjoy sex more than men? Haha on second thought, nah	/r/seduction	03/09/17 04:05 PM
25	Do women enjoy sex more than men? Hahaha this dude knows what's up	/r/seduction	03/09/17 04:00 PM
–	Do women enjoy sex more than men? Women definitely get more pleasure from good sex and an actual orgasm. It's harder for a woman to achieve an orgasm compared to a guy, but when they do it's a lot more powerful. Just imagine what's going through her mind when she's doing all of the things you mentioned. Women tend to be much more connected with their emotions (as well as present to the moment) therefore an orgasm to her is stronger than that of a guy because everything from her mind to her whole body is reacting in a more pronou…	/r/seduction	03/09/17 03:57 PM
8	How do I react to this? Most girls these days especially high school/college/uni type (whichever one you are a part of) do prefer to communicate through snapchat over everything else, that's where most of their attention is going to be found. I do agree that she went out of her way to add you on snapchat most likely because she's showing some interest in you that a number won't suffice. The fact that she provided an excuse for doing it is an interesting point. However, there are also girls who use snapchat to turn guys…	/r/seduction	03/09/17 03:22 PM
1	How I started getting girls, Seddit totally changed my life, thank you guys so much! Great post and great points! It's funny how some of us start off by taking drastic measures of self-improvement solely to meet women. Once we start getting the results we wanted, it goes from some needy objective to a second nature skill. A skill that compliments the rest of your lifestyle. The girls are icing on the cake to a guy who's achieved something bigger due to self-improvement. I'm happy for you dude! You put the work in, you earned it	/r/seduction	03/09/17 02:59 PM
1	Does anyone run into the issue of your friends starting to use you solely to meet girls? Hahaha I swear most of the guys I'm dealing with right now do fit this description perfectly.	/r/seduction	03/09/17 02:39 PM
1	Does anyone run into the issue of your friends starting to use you solely to meet girls? You brought up a great perspective to consider. I am quick to cut friends off if they have a track record of pulling out sneaky moves or bad habits on me in certain situations. However, for the few that are decent friends but have no social awareness, I could be a bit more patient and flip what they are doing to make it win win for both of us. There is a line that's crossed though with friends who aren't going to change. They will just drain us mentally and our time is worth more than enough to …	/r/seduction	03/09/17 02:36 PM
1	Does anyone run into the issue of your friends starting to use you solely to meet girls? Very accurate response here, I totally agree. Some of the guys are just not worth the time and need to be dropped, unless they grow out of that mentality they'll just keep taking if you let them. For those guys who are decent friends with productive lives but have no social awareness that they were pulling scumbag moves because they are lacking in just that one sector of their lives (meeting women), I can pull out your concept to make it win win. Thank you for the advice, I linked an article in …	/r/seduction	03/09/17 02:24 PM
1	Does anyone run into the issue of your friends starting to use you solely to meet girls? Great concept! I found an article recently that relates to what you mentioned regarding social exchange. The leachers will definitely learn a lesson or two. Thank you for the advice!	/r/seduction	03/09/17 02:08 PM
1	Does anyone run into the issue of your friends starting to use you solely to meet girls? Hahaha great move. Karma is a bitch, hopefully your friend can step his game up on his own like you did and one day y'all can wingman eachother at the clubs.	/r/seduction	03/09/17 02:02 PM