Agreed 100% When Jesus forgave the prostitute Mary Magdelin, he told her to go forth and sin no more. These Ladies always seem to forget the sin no more part.
Christian??? Great... Another born again virgin. When Jesus forgave the prostitute Mary Magdelin, he told her to go forth and sin no more. These ladies always seem to forget the sin no more part.
Let's see... 33, filters, kids, kids on the way, baby daddies, And to top it off... Having to listen to "You can't tell me what to do: your not my dad." Don't think so.
Just relax and remember to approach this not from anger but understanding. Anger will only make you bitter. Remember... Getting mad at a woman for acting on her nature is like getting mad at a compass for pointing north. I mean, it's what they do.
Make the decision to leave the relationship hers. Take some time off work but tell her you were fired. Complain about lack of money and that you are broke. Bet she leaves you in a week or less.
Speaking for the Caucasian contingent we respectfully comply with her wishes and let our fellow African American brothers to the front of the line as we continue down the road.
I find Korean woman to be like most Asian women. They are creatures of opposite ends with no in between. Hot as hell or homely as F. Smart as a whip or dumb as a stump. Sweet as can be or a total B.
They are lonely and bitter for the holidays. Actually had a early 40's woman at work break down in tears because she was alone for the holidays. Sad really.
Old guy here. Mines pretty weak as I have a 50% tear in my right rotator. About 10 dumbbell exercises with light weights and high reps. One set each with 30 reps and 15 LBs 3 x a week. The physical therapist developed it for me, but hey, keeps me out of the operating room. My cardio is walking the dogs.
There are a number of ways and some require very little upfront money. My best advice would be to search on you tube. There are some videos that offer a number of methods. Some good , some not so good. When I flip a property, often I hold a second mortgage. The purchaser gets a first that returns my investment and I get the rest in a 5-7 year second. Granted this is still real estate, but you are not stuck in collection mode.
Old guy here. Concentrate on getting the house paid off. That will be a huge boost to your income as you will keep more. Also concentrate on retirement funding and getting passive sources of income. Get involved in causes/charities that inspire you.. Travel some and enjoy the hell out of life. Try something you've always wanted to try. Lastly don't neglect your health. Work out responsibly.
Old guy here... Great post. Congrats to you. You are correct about not getting angry and bitter about woman. Hell... Getting mad at a woman for acting on her nature is like getting mad at a compass for pointing north. I mean it's what they do. Besides, hate and bitterness get you nowhere.
Old guy here. I am a facility manager for a high end retailer. This is so true. We have basically 3 types of customers. First and fewest... The truly wealthy. For the most part, they don't want you to know they have money and are very nice. Second and middle group... Post wall women who think they still got it if they buy the latest baubles, bangles and beads. Third and biggest group... The façade folks.. They buy crap they don't need with money they don't have to impress people they can't stand…
Old guy here... Of course we earn less. We don't have a size 18 waiting at home to gobble up our resources. It cost one of us about 1/3 less to live if not more. I don't need to work my ass off to keep a wifey happy. And the funny thing is that I always have more $ compared to my married friends who earn more than me, but keep less.
This affirms my experience with Asian women. They are women of opposite ends with no middle ground. Hot as hell or homely AF. Smart as a whip or dumb as a stump. Sweetest thing or a total B.
Old guy here. This is both funny and sad. I get a lot of these types just throwing themselves at me. Problem is I know they have been a P & D by half my friends.
Actually she is a mixed. I got her a DNA and she is 37% Bichon, 25% Maltese, 25% Shiatzu and 13% Lasa Apso (Hope I spelled them right) But she is 100% sweetie.
Like I'm going to take advice from a woman whos husband was found murdered in the gym of a posh Mexican resort. She grabbed the kids and flew home the very next day.
OLD GUY HERE. Do what feels best for you. MGTOW is a philosophy not a cult or movement. As for me I do see women. I just don't have LTR's or consider marriage. This is often called the free agent lifestyle. When I was younger like you, I often sought the physical companionship of women. I however, concentrated on cougars. Don't tell , don't swell and happy as hell. Also, no chance for an LTR. As for Patrice, he displayed the total power of IDGAF and abundance mentality. But in the end, your must…
The biggest thing is that everything is perfect. Drink milk out of the carton - perfect. Wear the same sweatpants and t shirt all weekend - perfect. Only clean up what little mess you make - perfect. Having a roll of toilet paper last a week or longer - perfect. Have your dogs flop on the couch with you while watching a game - perfect.
Check with local gun ranges. There are many offering classes on handgun use and safety that are quite reasonable in cost. I took one before I got my concealed carry permit. Was well worth the time and money.
I find it funny that when a women gets that "Maybe this thing of ours isn't going to work out" text. In seconds, you go from a master swordsman, dealing orgasms on demand., to a no dick MFer that couldn't satisfy a woman if your life depended on it.
Yeah but look at it this way. If you are on a diet you're trying to stick to... Just tape that image to your refrigerator. Diet maintained. No problem.
Old guy here. Pretty accurate for the 30's. I'm in my 50's and I have 40's and 50's just throwing themselves at me. Their attitude radically changes after 40. They hate it that mine hasn't.
Agreed. I am amazed that when they get that "maybe this thing of ours isn't working." In seconds you go from a master swordsman dealing orgasms on demand, to a no dick MF that couldn't please a woman if his life depended on it.
This is hilarious. These women, whether in porn or with the Weinstein, had no problem draining D's when they were young and hot. It wasn't till they got supplanted by their younger and hotter replacements when it became a problem.
Your situation embodies the point of my favorite quote from Ben Franklin "Most people return small favors, acknowledge medium ones and repay greater ones - with ingratitude."
True that women do get screwed in divorce. But since a woman's hypergamous nature, more times than not the woman earns or has less. Also when it comes to child custody and other related issues, men are almost always on the short end of the stick. I mean just look at child custody rates.
True he got played but it could have been a lot worse. It's over and he doesn't have any future payments. He should count his blessings and learn from this.
The Problem is that it would have to be a systemic change at this point. MGTOW works for the man to an extent (General taxation supplies the trough) but only to not directly emptying your wallet. They only see what they want to see.
To paraphrase my favorite quote from Ben Franklin... "Small favors are are always repaid, medium ones acknowledged and large ones met with righteous indifference."
The current welfare system has (with emphasis on the man not being in the home) has done more to destroy nuclear family's than anything else. Go to any poor neighborhood and the single motherhood rate is astounding.
I normally don't butt in, however, You may want to see some professional help. It's nothing to be ashamed of. We are with you and behind you. We also want you to be happy. You are not weak. But there is only so many times you can get kicked in the balls. You have support from all of us. But we cannot give you the assistance you need. We want you to get past this and you will. Were with you my man.
I'm proud of our man here. He saw a baby rabies bait and switch and bolted. Dodged a whole volley of bullets'. Hell... 10 bucks says after the baby, that would be the end of the BJ's.
Your right. I love how he describes who will be taken out first after the revolution. He says the useful idiots must go first because they will be the most disillusioned. That they think it will be paradise but it won't. Like they think they will be in charge but they won't. I love his quote "I bet Jane Fonda even thinks we are going to let her keep her mansion."
My only concern is that AUDI's are status cars so their repair costs will be very high. (Parts etc.) Remember... Audi doesn't sell cars, they sell status. You can get a much newer "bread and butter" car for the same amount. As Dave Ramsey would say... Many folks buy stuff they don't need with money they don't have to impress folks they don't know or like.
Were proud of you my man. However, don't harbor anger. It/she isn't worth it. Understand and learn from it. You'll be a much better man. Remember, living well is the best revenge.
Reminds me of an old Johnny Carson episode on YouTube. Zsa Zsa Gabor had a cat on her lap and asked Johnny if he would like to pet her pussy... He said sure, get rid of the cat.
I have some rental properties and you would be amazed at the look on their faces when I mention a credit score. I also check the local courthouse for judgments/pending cases. One time I was at court on an unrelated matter and I saw somebody else's tenant get the eviction order in court. The next day, they answered an ad for one of my properties. You can't make this shit up.
To be honest, I never got the back story. However, when I took it to my sensei, he pointed out that the blade was shortened by several inches. Also he pointed out that the tip was shortened by modern machining. He told me this was due to the sword having to be shortened to regulation length. So apparently it was a family sword prior to WW2. I was going to have the handle pieces removed to check the maker's markings, but the cording on the handle was in really good shape, so I decided to leave a …
He was playing Opossum so I just picked him up and put him in a shoebox. In reality they are good to have around as they really devour the pests and their low body temperature assures they rarely carry rabies.
Exactly. I have a 15 minute dumbbell routine I do 3 times a week that a Physical Therapist developed for me and my torn shoulder. (Still haven't needed to have it operated on.) For cardio I take the doggos out for medium to long walks. I am in better shape than 95% of the guys my age.
Try bars in fancy restaurants and hotels. In my younger days I did nothing but hit on cougars. I take that back, they usually hit on me. Don't tell, don't swell and happy as hell.
Looks good. Just remember what Dave Ramsey says... Most people buy stuff they don't need, with money they don't have, to impress people they can't stand.
Destroying the family is a control tactic to make women reliant on the Govt. They are not well intentioned policies. Two quotes from LBJ when he signed the "New Deal". "If I sign this, those (N word) will be voting for us for the next 300 years." "Give em something. Just not enough to make a difference." All you need to know.
I hate to say it but the KKK in their wildest racist dreams couldn't do to the black nuclear family what the current welfare system has done to them. All sorts of programs are available as long as there is no father in the house.
Old guy here. Can confirm. Went to a 40th high school reunion a short time ago. Christ what a dumpster fire. Land whales who wouldn't give me the time of day back then were literally throwing themselves at me. Had to take a long shower afterwards.
I was at a rental house of mine and I overheard a tenants friend saying to her. "That asshole better get me my child support soon. Do you know how much these nails and a weave costs." All you need to know.
Men insult each other all the time and most of the time we don't mean it. women compliment each other all the time and most of the time they don't mean it.
I wont tell you to grow a pair and get on with your life. You will do that soon enough. One piece of advice. Get rid of "things" that remind you of her. Also, avoid places you guys used to go. If a routine involved her, change it. Lastly, go to the gym more.
To be honest, she might be telling the truth. I have found East European and Asian women be women of opposites with no in between. Hot as hell, or homely as F. Smart as a whip or dumb as a stump. Sweet as can be or a total B. So it could be true.
Reminds me of what I told my Mother once. She asked me one day why I don't treat women better. I told her because my success with women went up exponentially when I stopped treating women the way my Dad treated you and started treating them like the druggie you left him for did. She never brought it up again.
Awesome book. My fav quote... "You seem to forget that I am married, and the one charm of marriage is that it makes a life of deception absolutely necessary for both parties."
I wouldn't worry about her tits. A fat girl bragging about having big tits is like you telling me you have a fast car as it is falling off the cliff you just drove it over.
Old guy here. First let me congratulate you. You have more awareness than 99% of the guys your age. I'm sure you have noted from this group and others is that most "women" your age are hooking up with guys older than you. Resources being the major attraction. Your time will come. Once you get into collage and are concentrating on your future, (Don't forget your physical health) I would not worry much about "girlfriends". I myself concentrated on cougars in college. As they say - don't tell, don'…
Old guy here. Actually went out with a woman just like her. (Picked her up in a 2009 Convertible in mint condition I got at an estate sale for $2,400.00) She told me she usually doesn't date guys who drive older cars. I told her I understood as I usually go out with much younger women.
Old guy here, 2 things. 1... When you look at women (or anyone for that matter) through rose colored glasses, red flags look just like flags. 2nd... Getting mad at women for acting on thier nature is as fruitful as getting mad at a compass for pointing north.
If you can, make an appointment with a physical therapist. I have a 40% tear in my right rotator cuff. My insurance required I see a Physical therapist for 20 visits prior to surgery. Long story short... Didn't need surgery. He set me up in a great dumbbell routine. While weights are light the results have been very good.
I swear with these women the jokes write themselves. Oh and thank you KabyBlue. I was feeling a little down being cooped up but now I feel like I totally have my shit together.
Old guy here. Warren Buffet once said. " If everybody's greedy: it's time to be a little scared. When everybody's a little scared: it's time to be a little greedy." Also read up on Dave Ramsey (Personal finances) and Robert Kiyosaki (Business finances). Dave's advice is best for your personal finances and Robert's for a Business.
Don't let it bother you man. Just adopt the Coach Greg Adams free agent lifestyle. Don't get depressed or mad. Heck... Getting mad a woman for acting on her nature is like getting mad at a compass for pointing north. I mean it's what they do.
I had a good friend of mine who wanted to dump his girlfriend and told her he lost his job (He took a week of PTO) She dumped him before the end of the week. Talk about genius.
The thing is that living below your means for a man is EASY! The ladies can't live below their means because they are too concerned about impressions. Most guys here don't care about keeping up with the Jones. Like many money gurus we have figured out that the Jones are broke.
Old guy here. Single moms are the worst. Especially older single moms. This is due to the fact that kids of single moms become single moms themselves. And when second generation single moms want to go to the bar for fresh D, who do they foist Pookie, Ray Ray and Aiden on? You got it. GRAMMA! Nothings worse than showing up on Saturday night only to find a couple of crumb crunchers waiting to go to Chucky Cheese.
This chick is chunking up fast. Check out the fingers and neck. Besides... A fat girl bragging to you about her tits is like you bragging you have a fast car as it is falling off the cliff you just drove it over.
How true. Reminds me of a Ben Franklin quote... " Most people return small favors, acknowledge medium ones and repay greater ones - with ingratitude. "
Old guy here... Young guys date cougars because there is nothing to it. They don't swell, don't tell and happy as hell to get any attention. When I was in college I would concentrate on cougars. Like shooting fish in a barrel.
I absolutely agree. Never get caught up in the trappings of wealth. I went to do some preventative maintenance on a rental house of mine. (I have several) The tenants who literally don't have a pot to piss in have a Porsche SUV. It's a little ragged. (rough and scratched paint and a tail light with that red repair tape ) They think others will think they have money. What they can't figure out is that anyone who can truly afford a Porsche wouldn't be caught dead driving it in that condition.
Typical shaming tactic. I also find it amazing that when they get that "I don't think this thing of ours is going to work out" text: you go from a master swordsman, dealing orgasms on demand to a no dick MFer that couldn't satify a woman if you had to in seconds flat.
Others here have mentioned the anger phase. You will go thru it. But then you get to the understanding phase. That's when things will really get good for you.
Old guy here. Your doing just fine RealBiggly. I have a torn shoulder myself and my dumbbell workout is about like yours. And for cardio I walk the dogs every day. You keep it up and you will be in better shape than 95% of the guys out there.