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| 2 | Why don’t people view forced conscription/Mandatory Drafting as systemic misandry?Everyone will shrug off the draft until there's a draft. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/26 03:25 PM |
| 31 | How do you manage not to become misanthropic?People glued to these concepts have lost their minds. They've gone so far down the rabbit hole they can't even see their own hypocrisy anymore. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/26 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Why is SA and rape not so traumatizing for men as it is women?Because I was raised not to complain, suck it up, push it down, don't be a whiner, etc. I'm 45. You learn to brush everything off in an environment that promises you nobody cares about your "problems". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/05/26 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Stop saying "by other men!"I'll just leave this here: https://www.thecut.com/2016/01/european-queens-waged-more-wars-than-kings.html Women throughout history in positions of power and leadership were found to be just as or more likely to engage in conflict than men. This is only one study. Also, anyone who is married (raises hand) will tell you that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/05/26 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Does the left not understand they're inadvertently validating what the manosphere has been saying about them when they make insults regarding men's bodies?It's just incredibly hypocritical when roughly the same collection of voices supposedly are against body shaming. You're only just seeing the hypocrisy? There's just as much racism, sexism, and homophobia on the left, it's just masked by virtue signaling policies. Look what happens when a minority leaves the left? Joe Biden: "If you don't vote for me, you ain't black". We can all agree that these things are bad. But we should all be able to call out that political parties are pandering and not a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/04/26 01:25 PM |
| 2 | How might you respond to a post from a friend who said "we need to teach boys not to rape?" SeriousTechnically, I was raped my first time at 17 by a 21 year old girl at a party. I was so wasted and it was dark, I thought it was a girl I'd been after for months. I even called out her name and she didn't stop... Afterwards I realized who it was and my stomach fell. Everyone laughed about it. Why don't we teach women not to rape? Also, as a father of boys, SA in general has become this wildly weird spectrum of definition in 2026. It's like you need to bring a lawyer and a consent form first befo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/04/26 12:56 PM |
| 6 | There is a highly used argument - "men do not deserve empathy unconditionally because they are the cause of all violent crimes, slavery, terrorism, genocides, wars, destruction etc.... they are mostly selfish, greedy", also - being less co-operative, empathetic......Is a man, undeserving of empathy if he does not goes out of his way to prove that he is not like what they think? I find most of the people who say these types of things are incapable of empathy anyways. The only "empathy" they possess is a facade they wear as a mask that aligns with how they want to be perceived by the world. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/01/26 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Has misandry ruined the left?Let me tell you that it's completely thrown me away from left leaning political parties. I've been a Libertarian for the better part of 2 decades, but I always considered myself socially left. I'll vote left because I personally believe social aspects of a government are more important than the fiscal ones. I can't bring myself to do that anymore. And yes I'm going to get downvoted heavily, but I simply don't vote anymore. I can't support what conservatism has become or what liberalism has becom… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/01/26 02:31 PM |
| 63 | Gender Bias in AI ResponsesAI is dependent on the data it's given. If the data is given in a way that skews towards women, that's how it will be presented. It shouldn't surprise anyone since the data given and that is training LLM's is based on health associations around the world that now have become corrupted by corporate funding interests and political ideologies. You can't even get a paper properly peer reviewed if it doesn't contain the current agreed upon bias due to cancel culture. It would be career damaging to go… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/09/25 12:04 PM |
| 8 | Men, share your experience with misandry and help other men recognize it and speak up!Lost my virginity wasted out of my mind over a heap of clothes to an older girl. Didn't realize who it was, thought it was my crush and was told I must have wanted it by people for years. Even had people laugh at the story. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/25 03:42 PM |
| 9 | Why do rich men want other men to think our masculinity is under threat?It's under threat literally from them. Men are not monoliths. I happen to be traditionally masculine but my sons aren't. I meet many men who are "effeminate" by societies standards and even androgynous. They're still males. They're under attack by this idea we all need to act like cheesy 1980's action heroes. Inconvenient truth: At 45 I've helped way more people in my life with compassion and empathy than my fists. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/25 12:47 PM |
| 16 | Why Gay men and Trans women get all the hate?do you think this is valid and do you think there are other reasons for conservatives to have this selective hate towards penises? Why do you think it's only conservatives? There's many liberals like this as well. Especially liberal women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/06/25 10:31 AM |
| 5 | They are not our alliesMen are more expendable to the state I think that just deflated about 95% of feminist arguments in her own single sentence. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/05/25 10:48 AM |
| 3 | Liberals only use feminine men as the poster child for non-conformity for men. Because they are afraid of true non-conformity for men.So If I Identified as feminine, that means she doesn't have take me seriously as a man. Because ironically this liberal feminist don't view feminine men as "real men". This has a simple answer. Gender neutrality is an enemy of feminism. If they can't force the idea of traditional gender roles, they can't properly identify who they are advocating for. Gender is binary to feminism. If it wasn't, they couldn't claim a base. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/04/25 01:52 PM |
| 6 | Misandrist feminism is a right-wing movement and it's time we stop treating these people as progressivesWhy all the labels? The form of feminism 99% of women say they prescribe to hasn't existed in decades. It's not about promoting equality for all and hasn't been for a long time. Try to talk about male issues with any feminist and it's the same dialogue. They will all shut you down with: "women have problems, men's problems are insignificant in comparison". In their defence, many male advocates do this as well; the point is egalitarianism does not and has never truly existed. People care about is… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/04/25 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Labor And Men, Whats So Leftist About Mens Issues Anyways?You cannot come at political dialogue with a business mindset. Globalization was never about money or trade. Politics is about people, business is about money. International trade is about strengthening ties and creating allies. Some win, some lose economically but in the end there is a stabilizing harmony between countries. As a Canadian, fuck the USA. I will never set foot in that country again. Even if the President apologies 500 times and agrees to complete across the board free trade, he at… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | "Not all men, but always a man"As someone who lost their virginity at 17 to a 19 year old girl at a party who was notorious for being guys firsts, I can say 1000% it is possible to be raped as a guy. I was completely wasted on top of a pile of laundry looking for the beer fridge and she was extremely hot. My 17 year old brain saw an amazing set of breasts and reacted. When I found out who it was and realized she'd been with dozens of guys I remember thinking back in 1998 that I had just got aids or got her pregnant somehow. M… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/03/25 04:31 PM |
| 8 | JD Vance: "Don't allow this broken culture to send you a message that you're a bad person because you're a man"There's an uncomfortable truth that is out there and why we scream for advocacy. The issue with his statement is we know what he believes a man is and it's only that archetype specific kind of male he is talking to. He's certainly not speaking up for men who don't follow the right's traditionalist models. His message is more "it's ok to be masculine". What does that mean for the rest of the men that don't fit into that structure? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/25 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Traditional masculinity shouldn’t be something men strive forThis is all pretty new. I'm mid 40s and never once considered if what I was doing was masculine or not. Sure we'd tell each other to man up when I was young or get teased for showing emotion, but I never really analyzed my behavior as male or female. I assumed if that's what I liked and did it was masculine because I'm a dude. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/01/25 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Here is a masterclass of how to completelly repell men from the leftwing☆☆☆ how can we reach FD and other creators in order to talk to them about this stuff? Does it really matter? There's a polarity that happens in the world and why discussion of what men are in an idealized environment becomes a dichotomy with the lived of experience of men. Example: The internet says men should freely express their emotions. Reality: most men have seen what happens when you express emotions in the world. It's never been a positive experience for me in any of the men or women I've… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/12/24 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Men “acting hard” instead of showing solidarityEssentially neoliberal and conservative men objectify both women and each other. So do liberal men and leftists. I'm not sure what this has to do with your point? The level of pandering that happens from some leftist men from a position of "compassionate optics" for their peer groups is exactly the same thing. Is it better to pretend you care about things to feel superior or be honest that you do not care about those things and be genuine? Many leftist men do this and it is also a barrier becaus… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/12/24 02:36 PM |
| 22 | What is your response to "abuse towards women was normal back then"?What are your guys response to this? In some ways yes and in some ways no. I think media and actual society deviated a lot on the reality of the world just like today. For example, media portrayed that men were allowed to be promiscuous and have multiple partners as though that was ok. We called them players. But in reality, the guys we knew that were like that were rarely praised for it. A lot of us actually would say things like "Why would you do that to Kelly?" for example because we'd seen t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/11/24 04:20 PM |
| 5 | Damn... you guys are alright.Unifying people under a cause always has this affect. Occupy Wallstreet brought the left and right together in such a strong way, the powers that be delved deeply into identity politics to create this kind of polarity that's designed so that will never happen again. We're all men regardless of our ideologies and identities. And in this society, we need to stick together. Governments have nothing to gain by a unified populace and everything to lose. France learned "the hard way". Remember that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/11/24 01:56 PM |
| 1 | So Men Are the Real Victims?On both sides of the fence you have anti-feminists and anti-MRA's. There's like a proxy war between them of "oneupmanship" which I would say is definitely a minority on the MRA side and a majority on the feminist side (just from personal perspective don't crucify me). Consistently I've found arguing a point is countered by "but women" instead of simply acknowledging men can be victims even if women are too. Not just on its face in this article but anything surrounding this seems to always be cla… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/24 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Democrats are repeating the mistake of 2016Great messaging. Tell us to act exactly how women have consistently told us is not manly, so we can be more manly. Then criticize the men who don't do those things as guys who criticize, belittle and control women. Who try to keep them from power? I'm married to the most conservative woman in Canada. She's a housewife and literally controls my entire world. What world are these people living on? The wife is the boss and she's submissive, and she's feminine and I'm a guy who likes guy things like… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/11/24 06:43 PM |
| 10 | An admission that feminism is not for everyoneYikes. This is why I steer way clear of self proclaimed "feminists". This woman gave us a boatload of her baggage to unpack. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/10/24 02:04 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else feel conflicted about voting left due to how dismissive and condescending the discourse on men has become? Men are unfairly reduced to violent, unemotional providers, with no space to address their issues. While I oppose conservative policies, this still frustrates me.It doesn't make a difference who you vote for. I'm 44. Can't wait for the youth to finally figure that out so we can stop watching the geriatric olympics. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/10/24 01:54 PM |
| 6 | Most men are unattractive , majority of comment's experiences seems to agree ... What can be doneNot necessarily even hotter. She's posting in the over 30's, and while appearance is important, guys looking for women in that age category are prioritizing a lot more than simple physical appearance. It sounds like she's not having issues with hookups or finding dates necessarily, but has issues with men she's attracted to being willing to settle down with her. However, I think she'd find that the majority of guys she's passing on may not want to settle with her either but she's only noticing t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/24 06:45 PM |
| 0 | This sub being perceived as anti feminist isn't necessarily the real issue people have with this sub. I think the issue here is that we are ironically "too feminist" lol.Is it possible that feminism is at its core good; rather the practitioners use it like a jihadist holding a Quran? I get that's an exaggeration but as this post states, fundamental feminist viewpoints I basically agree with. It's self professed feminists I disagree with almost entirely. The patriarchy "I win button" catch-all for their arguments conveniently leaves out that men also suffer from the patriarchy, but they seem to like the parts that capture us (perhaps not in direct speech but cert… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/24 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't there more bisexual men?There were many historical societies, like Ancient Greece or feudal Japan, which had societally accepted (expected, even) bisexuality between men. they were not screened for their sexual preference, it was just automatically assumed that if you were an adult man, you were down for getting it on with other dudes. In my perception this could be like how homosexual men have sex with women to appear heteronormative. How do we know these men were genuinely bi-sexual and not simply acting out of what … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/09/24 01:11 PM |
| 26 | The fact that this sub is considered misogynistic or hostile towards women. Just brings more validity to the claim that a lot of women prefer benevolent sexism over equality.I find feminists constantly compare themselves to men and I believe this is where the issues of this sub where we do the same. MRA's will say men are violent and are killing other men... But, we're not allowed, for example, to compare ourselves to women and do a deep dive on the statistics stating that it's social suicide for a male to report SA and abusive relationships with women and that's heavily skewed the figures. Feminists want MRA's to call out men behaving badly but rarely do the same i… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/09/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | The phase "men are killed by other men" and the phase "men are afraid of other men" contradict each other.Snitches get stitches. And why would I snitch on that? He fully deserved it and fell in line afterwards. I'm not protecting a domestic abuser of any gender. The courts do nothing and it's only a matter of time before he "accidently" kills someone because he "didn't mean" to hit her that hard. I believed your question was rhetorical in relation to the penalties not being harsh enough. You'd genuinely take the side of a domestic abuser in that scenario? As a survivor myself from my own childhood h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/09/24 04:10 PM |
| 1 | The phase "men are killed by other men" and the phase "men are afraid of other men" contradict each other.So you would agree to harsher penalties for men (and women) who are abusers which aligns with my statement that the systems currently allow abusers to propagate harm. This literally is my point. It's a slap on the wrist which ends up with vigilante justice (which we can all agree is deeply flawed). There's also a big difference between those who enjoy fist fighting their problems and those who are engaging in an non-consensual fight scenario. You cannot consent to bodily harm and the laws writte… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/09/24 12:10 PM |
| 20 | The phase "men are killed by other men" and the phase "men are afraid of other men" contradict each other.Back in 2001 when I was in the military, one of the guys we hung out with got drunk and beat his girl. She never said anything but we all knew her and saw the bruises. When we left port out at sea, they put a bag over his head and took him from his rack to the back of the ship and beat the shit out of him. Nobody said a word. They had no witnesses. Try and do that on the mainland. You'd end up in prison. Perhaps men do want to hold each other accountable but it's the systems themselves that allo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/09/24 03:51 PM |
| 24 | Never take some feminists seriously when they say men issues can be fixed if they didn't have toxic masculinity.I'm with you but the point about toxic masculinity I think needs to read as feminists don't care how it affects men so long as the misogynistic parts are removed... I believe that's your point and probably the primary crux of the entire issue. Based on your post, they are arguing "Don't be a misogynist but be a bully to other men who show emotion or aren't traditionally masculine; we don't like those ones..." It's rare to find a real feminist by definition in my experience. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/08/24 04:23 PM |
| 6 | Where do men find community/ belonging?I frequent the same gym and have for almost 15 years. I've met a lot of people there from all sorts of spheres. Some of them were overweight and are now in shape, some are business owners, some are LGBT, various races, backgrounds, cultures, etc., but we're all brought together under the same roof with a common goal of getting and maintaining physique. I get a lot of people go to the gym to simply work out. And trust me, there's many days I'll swamp the surrounding area with Breaking Benjamin fl… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/24 01:48 PM |
| 7 | Newcomer here. Im not exactly sure what means "leftwing" in the name of the sub.I don't think it's purely political. I'm a libertarian. I think socialism puts too much power into people who will simply abuse it but I can understand how capitalism can do the same thing with potentially less accountability. What does that make me then? I find this place is a lot like that. I see this sub as a place of looking outside the traditional idea of gender roles to show how men are actually treated within traditional gender roles despite the messaging of the status quo. I believe that… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/24 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity and violenceI think it's a biproduct of the state of society. When the world is at war, breeding ideologies that would align with toxic masculinity benefit greatly since independent separation of emotional values and the shunning of unwelcome and inconvenient trauma induced behaviors would benefit that state of the world. Being at peace means we don't need the emotional and desire-based autonomy required in times of hardship. Yes tough times breed "tough" men but that seems to be historically more out of ne… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/06/24 07:33 PM |
| 13 | What do we do when the inevitable male far right backlash comes?As someone who is a bit more of a moderate in this sub, I can take value from both sides of the aisle. The far right, as explained in practical terms of white supremacist, nazi's, is surely a highly vocal and visible minority of men due to the optics and shock value of their beliefs. They don't exist in numbers most people believe and if you think conservatives are actually far right, you need to get off the internet and talk to real people more. I think it comes down to crossing the aisle which… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/06/24 02:29 PM |
| 6 | Men thinking they are tough or brave isn't viewed as toxic masculinity by most of society for the most part. But it should be viewed as toxic masculinity though.I forget the exact statistic but If you even have a basic level of understanding in self defence you're already ahead of 80% of men. This behavior isn't necessarily "alpha male" as men live with the constant threat of violence against them from other men. You be respectful and you don't square up to another man unless you want to get smacked in the mouth. It's a coin toss. Having a passive attitude in a scenario where another man is assaulting you serves no purpose. If you're attacked, you blood… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/06/24 03:50 PM |
| 8 | This chart written on by a feminist activist on male domestic violence is about what I have come to expectI'll give my own personal experience on this: I think many women don't understand the stigma attached to men "abusing" their partners. Thought process: I'm not an abusive man. Therefore, I'll allow women to beat on me and simply restrain them was my common go to in my second relationship which was like living in hell for 2 years. Fat lips, claw marks, scratches and bruises were pretty common but I was too afraid to admit that I was being assaulted by my tiny girlfriend who would also use the phr… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/05/24 03:11 PM |
| 3 | The wonderful people on blatantmisogyny are calling one of your threads "misogyny"What women are you meeting that don't feel safe around men? These talking points are simply to gaslight. Arguing the semantics of gender vs race instead of focusing on the point that their arguments are weak at best regarding the statistical danger of women around men. It doesn't make them invalid, but if it cannot stand up against any kind of scrutiny without ad-hominem attacks then it's simply ragebait conjecture. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/05/24 03:09 PM |
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