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Coulda, woulda, shoulda
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:28 PM
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Cuz it is barely dancing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:25 PM
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This is his first marriage, his parents are the twice divorced people. Read better. Also, I'd agree. Seems obvious, but tons of people will jump down your throat when I say you should judge a woman on her past. She says she wasn't a stripper, I guess burlesque or something. Goes on and on about how twerking and pole dancing is great exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:25 PM
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fem dude
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:22 PM
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I have an acquaintance who is going through some marital problems. His wife is a former "dancer" and he was more financially successful when they met (still is). He's not rich, but in our upper middle class circle. Dudes warned him not to marry her because they knew her background. "She's not that person anymore" he'd say, "people change", "she had already stopped by the time we met". She told him she wouldn't "dance" anymore. They got married and 3-4 years in, now she wants to do it again. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:56 PM
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Can't argue if it is consistent for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:54 AM
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Condoms fail too. A woman could lie about being on BC, so now he needs to be responsible for her fraud? I agree that a man should take it into his own hands as well. But we are obviously talking about the exceptions, not the norm. At the end of the day, consent to sex doesn't mean consent to having a baby. You wouldn't say to a woman, "you're gonna be denied an abortion because you chose not to use BC or it failed".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:13 AM
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People ARE working on artificial wombs, so yes there are people trying to "fix" it. People have been working to make childbirth safer. Would you rather give birth with modern medicine or with some random primitive tribe? And all of this is done even though men aren't the ones who made it unfair for you. Nature/God did - if you want someone to blame, it isn't men. In contrast, it is directly a woman who is saying they get to choose whether men get to have a baby or not. Finally, women aren't forc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:58 PM
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Yea, but things that are unfair to women are huge problems society has to fix. Meanwhile, things that are unfair to men are just for the "greater good". Funny that. Good. Once the actions are put where the mouth is maybe we'll get somewhere. To me, that just sets up a scenario reminiscent of Idiocracy where smart and responsible people will have abortions and cut their numbers down while the irresponsible will just keep outbreeding. That doesn't sound good for society to me. The fact of the matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:39 PM
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This is just a "THINK OF THE CHILDREN" argument. Is it fair for children to be brought up by a single mother? So should they be allowed to divorce, or should single mothers be banned from sperm banks too? It seems like when looking out for the interest of the child, it only really matters if it can come at the expense of men. It is just a guilt trip manipulation tactic. I don't believe in cherry picking on what gets to be fair or not, since invariably women want to cherry pick the things that di…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:07 PM
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Absolutely, I don't agree with post-birth abortions. I think a fair compromise is giving both people the same time frame to ask for an abortion. Where it gets tricky is the financial equivalent of adoption. Like a mom can just abandon her kid at the firehouse or church steps. Not sure what that would be for men, something I would have to think about. Maybe it would just be where men decide to skip out on child support now. I guess my argument would be either to punish women as much for abandonin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:57 PM
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Yeah, leaving height out of the strict body standards women have for men is a pretty glaring flaw in the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:23 PM
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That is why we have society and civilization. Before we had our current society, and in many parts of the world still, a man could control whether a woman had a child or not... an abortion or not. In some ways, a man had more control of that than a woman. I don't need to say how. We changed that for a reason. But part of that was making reasonable compromises. If you just go "ah well, nature blahblahblah" then all you're doing is going back to how it was and disregarding all the compromises and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:08 PM
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I don't know why my post got removed when you were the one being uncivil, but here is my condensed response for other people who may have had trouble with a pretty simply concept. All those jobs are things anybody could do, including fat men. The point is that a fat man at least has advantages over others including fat women and skinny men. Sure, fat women in manual labor exist but is there really much they can do that fat men can't? I'm sure you'll come up with some cherry picking examples. Any…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:58 PM
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Surely if a man doesn’t want be financially responsible for a child he doesn’t want, he should also take it upon himself to be careful about who he sleeps with, aka, “choose better”. Consent to sex doesn't mean consent to having a baby. If it does, then you've just blown your own abortion argument apart. That is why I say either both financial/medical abortions should be allowed or neither should be. Then what you say can actually happen where both men and women could be told to pick better - an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:17 PM
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No. That is just some No True Scotsman bs. I was specific in my search term. He's a fat guy, end of. Well, this place isn't exactly Top Minds of Reddit is it? The ones confused by it seem to be exclusively of one demographic so far. Which isn't surprising, but is hilarious. It is a pretty intuitive concept. I don't know if I agree with the word harsh, especially when it comes to the point of this sub which is a debate on sexual strategy. Like I said, the "double standard" is justified, but in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:11 AM
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I have explained it plenty already. You just can't/don't seem to get it. Copy pasted from another one of my comments: Anyway, the point is that a fat man at least has advantages over others including fat women and skinny men. Sure, fat women in manual labor exist but is there really much they can do that fat men can't? I'm sure you'll come up with some cherry picking examples. Anything a fat woman can do, a fat man can do and more. The fat guy has some added value. There's stuff a fat man can do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:04 AM
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I literally found the image I linked by typing in fat construction worker. You're just splitting hairs at this point. OP is the one who set the parameters for overweight, take it up with her. What about your guy? I'd still take him over a fat girl his size any day of the week. And it is hilarious you'd need to pick a man who literally makes the news due to his weight as a counterexample to try and make your point. This is the female equivalent for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:22 AM
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The first video in your link is just the fat lady just walking around and talking and doing zero work. I'm not going any further. But great example of making my point of useless fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:46 AM
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Seethe. I was civil, you're just wasting time, I'd prefer to go back to not even knowing you existed before you posted this gish gallop to waste time. So what was the point of you linking me that video? Because that was the point of the video. It’s pretty immature to assume that if a woman is leaning over she’s trying to get the attention of random men driving in cars who could easily rape or kidnap her. And where exactly did I say this? What I said was "all it is is a woman literally leaning ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:43 AM
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So irrelevant to the discussion. Great work. She's clearly a prop for an ad about GRRL POWER. Like it is so out of the ordinary, they had to make a point that she exists. You know what the funny part is, the only manual labor I actually saw being done in the video itself was by a guy at :09. "fat female construction worker at 4:00" - goes to 4:00 - huur duur gOoD tHinG tHerE iS AlSo 6:12. Yeah let me go waste more of my time on your bs because this is the best you can do. Nah. EDIT: I cannot res…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:39 AM
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That's all very relative. A lot of guys working looked like this. I do not think most people would say he looks fit and muscular. Put him in casuals and he is just another fatty. But plenty of guys looking like him moved some weight. Reaching how? The OP never put these parameters, so the assumptions are on you. That doesn't hold water. There's a user here who openly talks about liking what many would deem morbidly fat women. What someone finds sexy is way too subjective to have any bearing here…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:36 AM
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No to your gish gallop. I'm not going to continually go over your shit links that are easily blown out. That last comment ruined the good faith. If you have a description of the video that is actually pertinent, I will go to a timestamp. Otherwise, I'm not wasting time on shit I have already found to be of poor quality. On good faith, I took a look at the second video at random, and all it is is a woman literally leaning over the truck with her ass on display - which is pretty typical and makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:27 AM
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1) She's fat? Her face looks pretty skinny. 2) LMFAO great example, what exactly did she do in that video? Walk around all day? Yeah, she's exactly who you would call in if you need some shit moved. Contrary to popular Redtard opinion, shit is still moved by human hands in many places of construction and requires strength. 3) She literally admits she wouldn't last a day on site.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:20 AM
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I see it as natural selection. Feminism is a maladaptive trait that SHOULD be bred out. The birth rate should fall and immigrants should come in to replace those in our population who prop this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:17 AM
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Since I need to spell it out for you, that statement was more along the lines of "what advantage does a fat woman have that a not fat woman doesn't also offer"? In contrast, if you need some weight moved, are you gonna pick a fat guy or a skinny guy? If you need a defensive line for the NFL, are you gonna pick a fat guy or a skinny guy? Fat guys still have their uses others don't. There's no added benefit to a fat woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:07 AM
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Reading comprehension is hard, I get it, keep trying. Those are jobs anybody could do, including fat men. So that's a wash. How many fat women do you see working jobs like construction? I saw 0. Not only are they physically weak due to their gender, but they also struggle due to their "health conditions". Meanwhile, you could reasonably expect a fat guy to be relatively strong. If you had a skinny guy and a fat guy and you needed someone to move some weight, who are you gonna choose? If you had …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:03 AM
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A fat guy is still useful. When I worked construction, fat dudes were putting in work. What good is a fat woman? This goes double since men are more judged for what they can do. Even if you were right (which you're not), the "double standard" is justified. At some level, women who have sense realize this and that is why they don't talk about fat men. Because they know they would get wrecked in the argument. Women are notoriously bitchy to men and even each other. I've met plenty of women being m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:41 AM
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How many different women do you have to sleep with to be considered above average these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:32 PM
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They ain't listening ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:55 AM
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Just curious, you give women that same advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:08 AM
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Yea, I put a filter to remove moms from my OLD. I wonder how it would go if I let them into my pool. I think when I get to the point where I can't meet women my age unless they have children will be my sign that I need to settle down. But I'll still aim for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:14 AM
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It wasn't just once... and who said there was no spark? We're seeing each other again. I'm just seeing others too since she never said we were exclusive. I've also been going on fun dates with 2 of them, with 2 more planned with new girls. How do you know I won't marry one of them. And considering I am in medical school, with a high income potential, I probably shouldn't be rushing towards marriage anyway. The doc I precepted didn't marry til 36 and he has a banging wife 10+ years younger and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:36 AM
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I'm near the finish line for my 20s. The start of this summer has been pretty good. I already bonked one chick this week, another hit me up to come over next week, tonight 2 girls on OLD agreed to a date this weekend and next week (both sent the first message, and one explicitly stated she likes splitting the bill) so hopefully I can get that going, and another at the gym started a convo and gave some signals that I should probably pursue in the future. Things haven't been this easy since colleg…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:06 AM
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Straight up, women need to be humbled isn't a bad take. This shit is getting ridiculous. That is the value I see in people like Andrew Tate and others like him, even though I don't use/watch their material or really follow them aside from laughing at the tantrums women have about them. A tool to reach that end. Sometimes I'm not even sure if those dudes really believe what they are saying, but are simply playing a role to get the more malleable to finally see that point. Same with how the GOP is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:39 PM
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Women, especially here, love to redirect to pedophilia. Their version of "BUT THINK OF THE CHILDREN" histrionics. They are obsessed with it. Same thing when it comes to age gap relationships. I'm in my 20s so an age gap relationship isn't really a concern for me, but I see it happen here all the time. They use the slippery slope argument to basically call men in them pedos. In real life, you see Karens do it when it comes to the trans thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:36 PM
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What will/should change is the proportion, as well as how they are treated. I don't think that stays constant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:33 PM
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I don't know if it is a English reading comprehension issue, but none of what you said was said by that second point. It didn't say ALL non-Western women are traditional, but a good bet would be a higher proportion are. No one said anything about a "hive mind" aside from the histrionic response. There's more to the non-Western world than Eastern Europe that directly neighbors it, y'know? Read another way, it could also say that the traditional non-Western women make for better partners than trad…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:29 PM
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Famous last words
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:44 PM
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Don't fall for and commit to these women that other men are also pumping and dumping, just pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:34 PM
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So while this is true, I once went out with a couple of unattractive women from apps as my own experiment. While they do have a ton of options, most of the women in question aren't worth more than a pump and dump. So if you get them interested in a date, they go after you rather hard (which they are also doing with other guys). I met an LTR girl in the midst of it so I didn't do it myself, but the girls made it pretty clear I could have. That's what probably gave me the confidence boost to get w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:28 PM
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I was just watching an episode of the Office with the deleted scenes left in, and they referred to Canada as the "gayest country on Earth" in the mid 2000s. Was Canada known as effeminate and gay in the mainstream for a long time? I thought it came to a fore with the "Because it is [current year]" meme. But I gotta admit, I don't really pay attention to Canada other than knowing their society is amongst the most cucked even for the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:07 PM
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This. While appeal to extremes DOES occur here from both sides, bad advice is also given. It isn't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:50 PM
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I mean you haven't really offered any "proof" yourself and you're the one making the assertion first, so... You can just reveddit the thread here: https://www.reveddit.com/v/PurplePillDebate/comments/12dqjch/daily_community_chat_megathread/jf9ut8t/?ps_after=1680889303. But I knew this would happen, you would just pick at minutiae instead of looking at the main point. Like I said, it was an example of reductio ad absurdum that occurs on this sub from all sides, which is basically what your post i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:41 PM
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It has been said to me or I have seen it myself in various forms throughout my years here. The tides ebb and flow on this sub as new mods and the population changes. There was a lady here who once claimed that voting pro-life was a form of rape: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12dqjch/daily_community_chat_megathread/jf9ut8t/. I wish it wasn't deleted because it was a great example. From what I recall, her being banned wasn't even because of that argument but because she starte…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:34 PM
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Your point basically amounts to that reductio ad absurdum or the logical fallacy of appeal to the extremes occurs here. Which would be hard to refute in a sub of 100k amateur (at best) debaters on an emotionally charged topic where bad faith debaters on both sides dominate. The only point that could change your view here is that it doesn't just happen on one side and so isn't specific to your topic. It is a problem that affects all sides here, due to the reason described above. I have seen it my…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:19 PM
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But women have inherently got more value than men and everyone knows this, if you don’t believe this to be true then mgtwo This is so laughably untrue. If women inherently had more value, they would not have been second class citizens everywhere that mattered for most of human history, and still most places in the modern day. Women only "have more value" because the West simps for them. You don't even have to "mgtow" to see how stupid this point is. I've been dating women since college and am in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:45 AM
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I did that once. The project was supposed to be worked on for half the semester. Embarrassed myself in front of the class but still got a B- because the teacher felt bad for me and it was her first year at the school. Fortunately it wasn't part of my major and it was second semester senior year so I was good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:34 AM
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Good. There needs to be a thot reckoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:04 AM
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The worst of both worlds is when they go from one to the other. The former uglies try to make up for lost time so they overcompensate with their bitchiness, and the former non-uglies are bitter that they lost what they once had. Obviously the latter is worse because then you end up with a current ugly, but still only marginally. An always ugly has a chance of being nice because she might have come to terms with it. An always good looking has a chance of being nice because she is ignorant to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:56 PM
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I think it is the opposite. Men in general out in the real world have very low standards. Reddit, and this sub, attracts typically upper middle class and educated men. The latter have higher standards, which is why you get women saying their standards are too high. The issue is the former outnumbers the latter by a huge margin. They act as "scabs" to the union for an analogy. So now the high standards appear to be even higher in comparison. That fucks up the whole market. I have what women here …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:53 PM
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Most of human history has been men absolutely dominating women in the "gender war" and then letting the women win at the end like you would with your little cousin in a basketball game because you feel bad for the tyke.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:11 PM
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No, Western society considers putting any sort of expectations on women as sexism and misogyny now. You are a bigot for doing so. Meanwhile, men have to hold to some traditional expectations as well as new modern ones that could change in the future. Having said that, who's really to blame here? I would say Western men. Women act as they are allowed to. If Western men decide women can just do whatever they want, then that is what they will do. I don't see any push by Western women saying men can…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:56 PM
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That thang was kinda thanging
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:59 PM
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Bastards stole my millions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:58 PM
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Damn hoewear here is 5 years behind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:58 PM
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I mean specifically made to be see through for maximum hoetitude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:58 PM
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On todays episode of hoewear at the gym, today I witnessed the next evolution of leggings. This girl next to me is wearing these shear type white leggings that are kind of opaque but when she sweats, which she is doing from her butt, you can see right through and see buttcheecks and everythang. And before all the harpies get on me about “huur duur you should be looking down at your shoes at the gym and shouldnt see what anyone else is wearing”. First of all, Im not criticizing it. Second, I didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:38 PM
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By the by, I've noticed something about the OP's demo. The country is split half Muslim/half Christian. IME, the Christians of the country tend to be amongst the simpiest of simps. While the Muslims don't. Then the Christians try to claim they have TRP rhetoric based on the reputation of the Muslims in the country. I guess that is what comes from adopting the religion of colonial masters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:03 AM
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Saw a FB post about Hakimi making the rounds. Wish I could post it, but it would probably get removed. Anyway, here's some of the text: Hiba Abouk, wife of Achraf Hakimi is a professional Spanish actress. She is not broke and definitely not a gold digger as many of you claim. She has her own money hence she never cared about Achraf sending all his money to his mother while she uses hers to run the home. In fact, in 2020, sportsmob called Hiba one of the RICHEST Spanish actresses. Hiba is one of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:59 AM
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Pretty soon 100% of men will be below average according to women.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 10:56 AM
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But not every community does behave like them... IMO they seem more unique rather than the prototype of everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:53 PM
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Oh shut up. It was hardly "biphobia". I just said the context makes it make sense. You and women do it all the time. Weren't you the guy who was painting straight men with a big brush in your little "Tinder profile post". Do as I say, not as I do attitude I see. Keep whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:37 PM
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For those wondering which kind of men she actually did date, apparently it was this dude. He had 3 kids (apparently not hers) and died at 26 of homicide. Truly the shining example of relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:58 AM
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Dude, she picked the best possible pic of her - probably touched up. This is another pic of her, as she appears in real life. Her Wikipedia pic. She does not fit the "beauty standard", or even primal attractiveness IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:54 AM
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I would know because I actually AM a young women Your entire CMV is invalid because you are apparently a dumb child according to yourself without the necessary experience to speak on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:11 AM
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They'd literally rather have the human race go extinct. And the more I hear from them, I'm starting to think they might be on to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:09 AM
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Typically follows a pattern too. "Bi". Yeah, I'm so surprised they like having a dick in their mouth. So sad women don't have one to put one in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:58 AM
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Seriously. It is the usual suspects. I already knew who it would be before I clicked the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:53 AM
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Says you. At best, women are so adept at they even fool themselves of the things they lie about. If you don't believe manipulation exists outside of romantic relationships, you are beyond reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:51 AM
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And they have increased chances of dying just for conceiving at a later age. Kids with genetic defects have increased chances of dying. They can pay for their own safe space with people who are trained. They aren't entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:00 AM
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And there's less of a chance of women in their 20s dying over childbirth than women in their 30s and 40s. Therefore, women having children in their 30s and 40s are in the wrong. Your lack of thinking is showing. "BoOhOo MuHsOgGyKnEe!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:22 AM
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If women really would stop having sex over this, Chad would be on the front lines of this issue. But he's not. The proof is in the pudding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:10 AM
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Nah, I've got plenty of power due to a rich dad and good career prospects that make my life easy. But I can totally see why others would do it. My feelings are closer to this: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12dr0zq/why_are_so_many_men_against_abortion_given_that/jf8swpw/. More of an indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:48 AM
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I found a really good example of this recently. Apparently https://www.instagram.com/mary_bellavita/ has gone Christian within the last few months (at the age of 34, hello wall). You can still find her OnlyFans stuff floating around lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:07 PM
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Go get a DIY abortion at home if you want one so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:21 PM
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I was thinking about it the other day on why men would even really care about the abortion issue. Then I floated a thought. Maybe because it feels like the only way to legally actually voice displeasure with women and how the West treats gender relations. I mean, you can tell women give a lot of shits about it obviously and when it doesn't go their way they act all hurt by it. So maybe for some men it feels like the only recourse left of the table. Maybe they don't actually care about abortion, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:12 PM
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You don't have to be dating someone for them to lie and manipulate you. Are you new... to this planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:03 PM
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So shame em, women do plenty of that anyway. If you're gonna try and claim women don't shame men, you're out of your mind. If you're trying to say men should shame men on behalf of women, that is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:50 PM
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Life is hard. Get over it. You think guys don't deal with difficulty when it comes to relationships and dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:45 PM
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Yes, she could have picked a different guy. There are tons of guys I know who had kids in their 20s, and I think every single one has a younger partner. So kids in the 20s is perfectly achievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:42 PM
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In my experience, women are far more likely to lie and manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:41 PM
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She wasted her own time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:38 PM
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No they aren't. At best, they consistently misconstrue events to serve their own preconceived notions. I've seen that with my own eyes, dad did fine - and was a bit more fun tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:22 PM
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Has nothing to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:20 PM
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Does anyone know what the real accounts of the alt mod accounts on PPD are? I get a feeling sublimemongrel is one, I've seen her breaking rule 1 multiple times, report it, and nothing happens. I mean the mods could just be biased too.
/r/AllPillDebate06/04/23 05:19 AM
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Being able to unilaterally renege on an agreement, then get support payments down the road for doing that sounds like a reward to me. Just gotta prolong the breakdown with "trying" and "counseling" to get that benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:20 AM
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You were obviously supposed to read her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:13 AM
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Exhibit 1,000,001 on why women initiate divorce more and why lesbians have higher divorce rates But maybe men are too nice to their wives when they make a choice to become SAHM. They should kick em to the curb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:53 AM
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The partner would have to agree to it. You're going to make that trade off anyway, whether you do it as a single mother or not. Men are not obligated to share it. What's that thing women like to say when men have problems? Oh yeah! "Life isn't fair".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:28 AM
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As if women don't want children too. They are making a choice, they feel like having children is worth the lower earning potential. It is like saying getting married is a sacrifice because you can't sleep with a lot of other people anymore. You made the choice because you felt like it was worth the trade off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:22 AM
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Sounds like a good idea, but what happens if someone changes their mind? Instadivorce? That happens the other way too, where a woman will say she will work too and will contribute to the finances. But then changes her mind and decides she wants to be a housewife. But then in that case the guy might end up owing alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:20 AM
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So you just want your kid to be like every other kid. What culture do you suppose I am from that I am not a part of Western culture myself? It is too bad you live in an area with such little diversity where not celebrating Easter would be such a big deal for your "kid". Do you look down on kids who don't and therefore don't "fit in" with your exclusive peer group? Honestly, it sounds like if your husband won out it would be better. A self-tell there. No, doesn't sound like I am. But you can pret…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:13 AM
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I mean all it could be is a brunch with mimosas that was ostensibly planned to be for setting up play dates and boom - now it counts as child care for "planning for children" and "travel related to helping children".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:36 AM
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It isn't in the links above, what study/survey did you see? I mean I could totally see someone claiming something is one category when it really belongs in leisure. Self-reported I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:21 AM
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I wouldn't be surprised if they double dipped on their leisure time to call it work. Like claim their brunch with their wino mom group is "emotional labor" time or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:16 AM
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You just defeated your own point there. Tons of kids don't celebrate Christmas or Easter. OH THE HUMANITY!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:11 AM
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I mean if he married you knowing that would be the deal, I'd say he deserves to live like that. Maybe he wants the things more money will buy after dinner is made.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:15 PM
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Possibly. But I would say it is more of the other thing, where you put in more on the front end in getting a degree or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:12 PM
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Why is that? Maybe he put more work in on the front end of his career to get to that point. Could just be more efficient in those 4 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:09 PM
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That's what women assume or rationalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:06 PM
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Goes to ASK women over 30 - doesn't ask a question. Woman moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:09 AM
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I've noticed this too. It is like women can't be happy unless they have something to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:06 AM
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That doesn't even sound bad, mine was around that. What would you consider not a rip off? Plus, high condo costs keep the riff raff out of the building.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:00 AM
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Men didn't make you weaker. Go cry to God or Nature about it. Not men's fault. Who gives a fuck about your opinion on other people's opinion? It is horseshit. Don't give a fuck what you think tbh. Don't want to be forced to have a child? Don't slut around. Easy pz.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:30 AM
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That's right, according to women all problems would be solved if you just showered and did better. So maybe women should take their own advice. Women tell men all the time that if you don't want to risk child then don't have sex. Funny how telling women that if they don't want to deal with the consequences of sex they should keep their legs closed is a crime against humanity. Hypocrites. Who cares about your dumb theoretical? I'm talking about real life. And tbh in your theoretical universe, wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:28 AM
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If men don't get fucky sucky why are women worried about abortions? No sex means no abortions. Problem solved unless you're a slut. Don't give me "boohoo rape". Most abortion isn't from rape, it is consensual sex. In fact I'll throw you the bone that only rape should allow abortions. But women still won't be happy with that, which proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:20 AM
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Maybe women should shower and do better then. Checkmate. Abortions are hardly restricted to raped women. Most are a conscious choice for consensual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:19 AM
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Women literally hook up with criminals/abusers/killers. I doubt they really care about "tolerable" men as much they claim. Unless she's prepared to call those women misandrists too, it is just another double standard women hold for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:17 AM
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Boohoo dAe wOmEn aRe sO aHhprEssEd?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:11 AM
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Short answer is yes. But I'll say something I haven't seen on the thread yet. Sometimes it changes with the same woman. I have an ex who I would say yes for the start, but as time went on and I got to know her better it became a hard no. I'm not gonna pull the feminine "hOw wOuLD I hAvE bEeN aBlE tO kNoW". I should have vetted better. I shouldn't have made her my gf without that. But to make an excuse, I was young and full of cum in a city where it wasn't exactly easy for a guy of my ethnic back…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:10 AM
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Are you lost?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:59 AM
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Who said I wouldn't hold those men accountable too? Simps are bad, m'kay. Gloating is gloating, why does she have to be raping someone for it to be cringe?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:58 AM
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Mostly right, but there are other reasons. Part of it is the stereotype threat. Women blame modern men for the sins of older men, or stereotype men as evil - so can you really blame modern men for going "fine, then I'll be the villain you claim me to be". I mean, if you're gonna be treated that way and vilified for it anyway, why not actually do what you're being accused of? Modern men are being guilt tripped with "wOmEn CoUlDn'T eVeN gEt CrEdIt CaRdS decades ago", what does that have to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:06 AM
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Don't care why you imagine it was created, the point is that the West is what inflicted it on the world - made your bed, now lie in it.
/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 09:28 AM
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Must not have been to Latin America. And I bet African girls would too, it just so happens a lot of Western men aren't attracted to them. When they are, they prob have an easier time than in SEA.
/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 09:27 AM
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It isn't the lowest competitive, but it is among the lowest. Family and peds are prob the lowest, so not saying much there. Internists can do fellowships to increase salary by a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:25 AM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:22 AM
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Well, your non-Islamic society is the one who created feminists isn't it? So why don't you stfu about it. You made your bed, now lie in it.
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 03:21 AM
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Ah yes, ugly unemployed men are the true players. Amazing the shit women here will say just to pretend they are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:36 AM
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Depends on your definition of good. In terms of relatively easy lifestyle, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:12 AM
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Man those videos are too real. I remember having a multiday discussion with a long term female dummy on here about this. She honestly thought that men shouldn't be able to notice what kind of clothes women wear to the gym. That we should all be looking down at our shoes or literally acting like how the men in the videos do. I mean she was probably a middle aged fat housewife who never saw the inside of a gym so had no idea what she was talking about, but still it is amazing how many women here c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:34 AM
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I'd also like to point out that psychiatry is one of the lower competitive specialties. Most other docs make fun of it for not even being "real medicine". So while the psych probably is more successful than 90% of people, he's still less successful than his peers that he spends hours upon hours with. Probably does something to the old self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:05 AM
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Are you gonna share your profile so we can see how great it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:05 AM
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What does have to do with anything? I've never listened to Alex Jones either, but I know he's shit. Yeah and Andrew Tate just talks about "being a good man". Gimme a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:04 AM
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Ok then, "exclusive podcast segments", same shit. I doubt the podcast would go on for very much longer if the creators felt they couldn't make money from it anymore. The guys paying Andrew Tate and the TRP gurus are just supporting creators too. It doesn't matter anyway since their first "fundraising goal" that promises more stuff has actually been going backwards. I remember looking at it once and thinking "wow, they make over 5000 for this", now it is at like 4500, meaning people are unsubscri…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:45 PM
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Because all you're paying for is a podcast (that could be free like many others) just to hear women validate other women about hating men. You could say "you're just buying content". Yeah, sure, and so are the men paying Andrew Tate and TRP gurus. It all comes back to bilking money out of you by telling you what you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:18 PM
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They're often scams. FDS is a scam with a Patreon bringing in almost 5k per month (although it has been going down recently), I'm sure they have other methods to bring in their money. Whatever happened to that "Pink Pill Reddit" that the Pink Pill person here was making lmao. A fool and their money are easily parted. It is just part of the idiot tax. And before the women go "huur duur whatabout the men". Yeah yeah, I think they're dumb too. I've never spent a penny on any of this shit. The sad p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:45 PM
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Ok, and do yours, iT's nOt ThAt DeeP, you could have been silent just now. That's your opinion. Others may say being silent when women call men who want low n count women to be pedos is tacit approval for that idea and women will go on to say crazier and crazier stuff with no pushback. Probably how we got here in the first place. Some may say that's the cowards way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:23 PM
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You seem to be unable to understand I am not speaking about myself, but explaining why people here do it. Literally my first sentence: I think men don't have to justify why they don't want sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:09 PM
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Why do people do anything here? Why do people bitch about stuff on the Internet? Why are you here right now? I mean you could have been silent just now. I'm just pointing out why it happens in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:58 PM
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Everything here is pointless. But people still like arguing, so IRL most people don't have to rationalize it. I'm just pointing out why it is happening here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:56 PM
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Yeah, then the wife will say he is ignoring her for his job as he brings home most of the money. She'll cheat and/or divorce with half. Now you gotta do it all over again in an even worse position. Also gen surg makes half a mil? Thought they were in the 300 range. It isn't even that competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:56 AM
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And the women probably STILL think they're better than their men and are out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:54 AM
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A misandrist sect of feminism clearly exists, just like a TERF sect of feminism does. Some feminists claim they are the minority. I am agnostic on whether they are. But I do believe they are growing in number.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:15 AM
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Bullshit, I don't need to accommodate your struggle. A person could have mistakenly inferred I was talking about animals or something. Do I need to accommodate everyone's dumb inferences? If I wanted to say every woman, I would have. your comment still goes on to say that of course you weren’t talking about the minority in your op so… did i not infer correctly? Dafuq? I don't think you know what you are trying to say. Where did I even say anything like that? I didn't say anything about minority …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:22 AM
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No, that is what you mistakenly inferred, not what I implied. Learn the difference. LMAO, yea when have the minority ever been able to meet their objectives. That's why the 1% are losing so heavily and don't get what they want lmao. mY gUy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:28 AM
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I was thinking about this in terms of the patriarchy earlier. Feminists like to demonize the patriarchy and seem to like to pretend that their alternative is so much better. But it really isn't. I hope they are smart to realize that everything has pros and cons, the patriarchy and feminist society included. I mean I hope they are smart enough to realize feminist society would have cons, but possibly not - they sometimes do seem to think feminism would create an utopia. More and more, I am starti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:18 AM
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No way in fuck am I going to read all of that, but your title alone is impossible because the feminist movement is adversarial. They make men the enemy. They blame men for oppression, and by necessity make men the villains and women the heroes. Even if a man doesn't do anything wrong, he is still responsible for the actions of other men, has to deal with the consequences women claim are due to those men, and is expected to hold them accountable. Men are said to benefit from the "patriarchy" and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:34 AM
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Where did I use the word "every"? Imagine having that poor reading comprehension lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:23 AM
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Imagine thinking women can't want things or have feminist aims without having secret meetings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:18 AM
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That is not logical even a little bit. Do you know what the word "logic" means? I can tell English isn't your first language. There is scientific evidence of the physical strength difference. There is no scientific evidence for what you said. Nobody claimed it was a fact, calm down little buddy, what's your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:52 AM
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We don't "know" anything about it. But that's what even the feminists say and it was probably the most likely cause just due to simple logic. Can't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:45 AM
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The initial so called "subjugation" of women was due to the physical strength difference between men and women. The advantages of today that women complain about are mostly due to that first mover advantage. "Blessed are you, Nature, who has not made me a woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:36 AM
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🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:30 AM
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If nature made men weaker than women, that probably would happen. For all the complaints women have, they were still treated better as the physically weaker sex than if the situations had been reversed. I'm not Jewish, but I totally understand the Hebrew prayer of "Blessed are you, LORD our God, Ruler of the Universe, who has not made me a woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:53 PM
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What? It's the opposite, he's saying he doesn't care if she sleeps with more women. If a guy wanted to fuck a bunch of gay guys, he could probably do it as easily as a woman fucking a bunch of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:44 PM
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Women wanted equality. This was always a lie. Women wanted supremacy and revenge. To meet their aims, they lied about wanting equality. It is on men for falling for it too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:39 PM
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It is telling that a go to insult for women is saying men don't have sex. So in terms of genders who shame people on sex, it seems men are better here. Women shame men who don't have enough sex as "dry dicks" and too much sex as "fuck boys", so there is a very fine line to walk. Men only insult "sluts", and even compliment women who don't have too much sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:37 PM
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At one time, Western men knew they had much to learn from Islam in terms of gender relations: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reception_of_Islam_in_Early_Modern_Europe#Views_on_Muslim_women. Then the cuckening happened. Or rather they just got super supremacist and didn't think they could learn anything from anyone else and did everything better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:10 PM
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Islam is right about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:08 PM
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Learn better English, that will help you in understanding things in a debate. How are you so "sure" of that. You barely know anything more of the Mosuo than a cursory understanding. Did you know about the nobility thing before I told you? You are overestimating how much you know about them. Also, the reason it could not be fruitful is because you could not or would not address any of the points I made clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:01 PM
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I'm not anti-porn by any means. But ypipo and cucks come up with some of the weirdest things. I recently heard of a porn genre called "Watching My Mom Go Black". It is literally about a roleplay of a yt dude sitting on a couch watching his mom get fucked multiple black men. There's hundreds of the scenes. I could barely watch one. The dude was sitting there playing with his dick while his "mommy" was getting fucked right in front of him. And they would keep to the porn plot the whole time. The g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:51 PM
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Weird, considering how much time you spend thinking about bestiality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:16 PM
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The issue is that you are mistaking where the desirability comes from. If they are desirable at all, it is because they are easy. Let's use an analogy. McDonald's is popular because it is cheap and easy. But would you claim that it is desirable like fine dining is? Of course not. Would you say that people consider McDonald's to be valuable? You are not seeing the nuance here. Sluts are desired for fucking, the equivalent of eating junk food, they are not desired for LTRs, the equivalent of fine …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:10 PM
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I don't know enough about bestiality to comment, why don't you tell us?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:00 PM
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Dude, those women are literally called "easy". Not just by inexperienced guys, but "experienced" men as well. You simply don't know what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:56 PM
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If that isn't the pot calling the kettle black. That has absolutely nothing to do with what I said. I am sorry that English is not your native language, but if you are going to try to communicate in it the least you could do is improve reading comprehension so you can understand what is being written in English. You seem to have an inability to understand how the Mosuo society even came to be. As for African Americans, most know that Christianity was imposed upon them. However, they also know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:55 PM
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You know, I often hear by feminists "throughout history, men didn't listen to what women had to say". After seeing some of the threads and comments made by women trying to lay out their ideas, I think it was perfectly reasonable to not have taken what women had to say seriously throughout history. I mean the amount of sheer stupidity can drive you nuts. And it isn't even worth trying to make logical arguments because women think they are always right and are so pigheaded about their opinions. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:48 PM
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Nope, it means "easier". That's literally the word for promiscuous women, "easy". You have no idea how men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:42 PM
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Do you understand why your example is irrelevant? You are trying to use the Mosuo as an example for why it doesn't fit, without understand the reason why they exist as that outlier example in the first place. THEY WERE FORCED TO ACT THAT WAY BY NOBILITY. Why is that hard for you to understand? They did not naturally behave that way, they were forced to be that way to keep their society WEAK. At best, you are advocating for society to be weak. I'm seriously suspecting reading comprehension issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:37 PM
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I would say that most men desire promiscuous women. LMFAO The only thing I can agree with here is that if you commit to a promiscuous woman, there is a high probability of ending up with a negative outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:28 PM
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It would not be found in that culture if the nobility didn't force them to not do so, how is that hard to understand? It wasn't a natural occurrence, it was something forced upon them by more powerful people to keep their men weak. If anything, it just proves the opposite of what you are saying because if it truly was spontaneous, there would be no need for the nobility to force it upon them in the first place. Also, have you ever heard the term "exception to the rule". Do you really think an ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:20 PM
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There's a matriarchal culture called the Mosuo where women are expected to be promiscuous and there's no shame for it. Oh my god, I am so sick of this example. It came from some dumb lady anthropologist or something that didn't even know the whole story, and now every once in a while some dumbass wants to use it as an example of matriarchies succeeding. Oh yes, some backwater tribe in rural China that most people have never heard of is such a successful civilization! We should all strive to be l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:13 PM
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She let her number slip (which was already slightly high even without using the multiply by 3 rule for girl lies) and told some public sex story. I stayed long enough to have public sex with her. If I'm gonna have the indignity of being in a STR with a slut, I should be able to get mine, nomsayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:58 PM
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A good thing about "slut empowerment" is that sluts are more likely to be upfront about being sluts and not lie like in the past. That's how it should be, I never understood lying sluts - why would you want to be in a relationship that wouldn't exist if the real you was known? Anyway, my story that comes to mind is I once had a relationship a while ago with someone who let their mild slutdom slip in a conversation. She must have thought I would be cool with it or whatever. It was at that exact m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:37 PM
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I think men don't have to justify why they don't want sluts, but I think you are misunderstanding why it happens in the first place. Men do that because women are the ones who come up with all these assumptions and rationalizations for why men don't want sluts. I mean there's a top post on TwoX about it right now: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/11v28ht/men_who_want_a_woman_with_a_low_body_count_or/. Women want to demonize men who have this preference as misogynists, insecure l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:27 PM
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Most women aren't funny anyway, so that's fine. Maybe they're funny to each other, but girls giggle at the stupidest shit or nothing at all, so it is hard to tell. More than half the time I notice girls laughing it isn't even at something truly "funny", they're just laughing at someone else's expense. Timid is mostly fine too, since by and large women are pretty passive when it comes to dating. Might even be preferable. Loud, combative, bossy women aren't exactly great. Boring is the only thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:18 AM
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Ever heard this old song? Or the succinct phrase, "for every hot girl, there's 10 guys tired of fucking her"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:00 AM
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What a stupid sarcastic point. There are PLENTY of women against abortion and they did get their way. Just because there are women who don't think like you do doesn't mean women don't have a say on abortion. Take it up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:48 AM
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Not only that it is a hypocritical on a basic level because women get the "ick" for the most banal of things. If men get the "ick" from sluts, that's too bad so sad. As for the shaming, there's plenty of shaming for things women get the "ick" from. It is hypocrisy all the way down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:06 AM
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You were the one who didn't get the point of the story, I was the one who spelled it out for you. All you did was restate what I spelled out without explaining how it applies to the comment you responded to. Where does he say anything about not getting the women he wants? Where does he say he doesn't want sluts [for sex]? I think this is basic reading comprehension problems. Aside from the OP, there's plenty of guys here saying they'd fuck the women who are promiscuous. Whether they fuck the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:00 AM
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That's not what the sour grapes idiom even refers to. Sour grapes means "oh I can't have it, I didn't want it anyway". What are you presuming is not wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:50 PM
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I'd even say the women here who are giving advise and suggestions are pretty atypical and don't speak for typical women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:46 PM
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Ok, so if a man goes for a woman in her league what is the problem? I'm sure you'd agree that there are women who overestimate their league and want to flatter themselves so they think there is a mismatch when there isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:38 PM
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Down to earth, 13%. Aren't a lot of women in like the 3-4%? Anyway, this is well known. Men are more willing to put up with deficient women because expecting better from women is "oppressing them".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:24 PM
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So your point is that people should only try to "get" people less attractive than them? So it isn't even that people should go for people in their own league, they should go for people below their league because approaching others is apparently an inconvenience. To not be a hypocrite, I would assume you hold this standard for women as well. But I'm sure to keep things a bit tilted towards women, you're not opposed to the cultural tradition of men typically being the ones who ask out the woman? O…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:08 PM
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I think you are confused. Women naturally have smaller builds than men due to thinner bones and such (by the way, thinner builds usually correspond to lower bone density). I think what you are trying to say is that women naturally have a higher body fat percentage. But people already make an allowance for that as seen in this image here. The average guy's match at 20% is 30% for women. However, in comparison to other women she is slim just like he is slim compared to other men. It isn't comparin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:45 PM
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Have you considered you are inferring something that isn't implied? Can I see some examples? I see you have now changed it from "fat men" to "ugly men" in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:31 PM
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I personally don't hear stuff like that. Does it happen here? Can I get some examples? The only time I've heard anything close to what you are saying is when women go "6'+ only" and they get made fun of for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:03 PM
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The being expected to being open to unattractive people happens to both sexes as well. If men don't find a woman attractive, he's too shallow, or has standards that are too high, or blahblahblah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:54 PM
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He misstated it, I think when it is usually stated it is along the lines of lesbian women experience higher rates of intimate violence. That goes for hetero relationships as well, can't really assume it was all physical violence instead of "too much texting". We don't know what proportion of lesbian women experienced "too many text messages" compared to actual physical violence like that one pro female soccer player. I think too many people are prone to thinking women just commit "lesser abuse",…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:27 PM
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Ugh pretty much what I expected. Isn't she the one who claimed to be former military? The only workout she looks like she ever got was some cockpushups and flesh shakeweights.
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 06:29 AM
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Does he know she was a stripper?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:21 AM
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Some women. Others are insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:12 AM
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I don't think that is saying what you think it is. That is saying those women ONLY had male violent partners. So it would be an even higher percentage who had experienced both male and female violent partners. The CDC also stated that 43.8% of lesbian women reported experiencing physical violence, stalking, or rape by their partners. The study notes that, out of those 43.8%, two thirds (67.4%) reported exclusively female perpetrators. The other third reported at least one perpetrator being male,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:35 AM
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Look at the profile pictures of the comments. Kind of explains it.
/r/AllPillDebate28/02/23 10:16 PM
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Russia: this is just gatekeeping on who is "Western". They are white, Christian, Europeans. C'mon they are pretty much Western. I'd also venture that the high cheating figure isn't as much from women as they are from men. Romania: very similar to Russia above. Japan: US vassal state. It is routinely used as a prototype example of how future Western society will look even on PPD forums. Similar to more men cheating to women here, I would assume. Thailand: this is the closest I'll give you to a co…
/r/AllPillDebate28/02/23 09:31 PM
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The first one is a SURVEY conducted by a [French] cheating dating app. You know, like AshleyMadison that was found to be making shit up and more than half the people on it aren't even real. That's who is your authoritative source? The second I can't even read because it is behind a paywall, but the abstract did not say anything close to what you are claiming. A Google search on the article says "26% of married Chinese". Bruh, that's pretty much where Western society is at, if not lower. A quick …
/r/AllPillDebate28/02/23 04:34 PM
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Why are you assuming that women in general all deserve attractive men? Why should an ugly woman get an attractive man, aside from being easy pussy?
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 10:27 PM
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Ah yes, random Indian/Chinese man - surely the source of truth. Yes, Western society is the one doing well in terms of female cheating. Good show.
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 09:53 PM
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Yes, I agree that Western hegemony is spreading across the world like the Borg. Westerners are seeking to export feminism all across the world so this problem will affect everyone in the future if they get their way and there will be no respite from it.
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 07:11 PM
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Not in modern Western society, no. Monogamy still clearly works in many places in the world. Western men created this problem, the chickens have come home to roost.
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 07:06 PM
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That would explain why women then go on to say this shit: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11d5bn4/daily_community_chat_megathread/ja8p0t0/. The mods ban men who can actually make a point so they are left with mouthbreathers, and then the women go "huh where are all the men who can argue well"? Classic. No, an animal on ice.
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 06:34 PM
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The only argument I have heard that even nearly makes sense is that the alternative would be Chads becoming warlords and all of us would be even more under their boot. So basically a protection racket. But if we look back towards history is it really true that Chads were the ones winning? Was Genghis Khan a Chad? And if he was, why do women complain so much that he was a "rapist"? Why would Chad need to rape his harem?
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 05:43 PM
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The PPD sub is so fucked in terms of mods. A longtime female user instigates and starts an argument. Then she or another woman reports comments so the mods get involved. They remove comments after her initial one so it looks like the guy was the instigator, then they only ban the guy. If you "appeal" the mod, they have a phony vote by mods who are overwhelmingly biased towards woman with a token TRP mod who will obviously get outvoted even if online for the vote. It'd be funny if it wasn't so sa…
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 05:37 PM
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How do you know men don't help men? I'm a man and the most helpful people in my life have been other men. Women have been more likely to try to keep me down or jealously downplay my success. Men helping men will be decried as more work of the "patriarchy" and men receiving favorable treatment that feminism needs to fix. Even the "manosphere" helped me gain confidence and understand why the shit that didn't make sense make sense. Women like you want to shut it down or deplatform it. Why do you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:39 PM
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That's what you inferred, not what I implied. Not buying in to the women are wonderful effect en masse would be a good baby step, but we're not even getting there so bigger expectations are irrelevant at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 09:21 PM
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All a lack of boundaries by the West has done is expose how women really are. Im sure women would have no issues saying there should be limits on male behavior. But say that about women and it is a crime against humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 06:57 PM
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Interacting with women makes men stupid. I haven't read the study or the article since I came across this bit of info years ago, but it rung so true that I took the headline at face value. I always felt like I had to walk on a tightrope when talking to women, they get the "ick" so easily and read into things that you pretty much have to walk on eggshells. And they say they are "scared of confrontation" so they'll pretend that everything is going well even if they aren't, so you can't even really…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:35 AM
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People being so poor that they have to steal $10 shirts that some kid made for 10 cents overseas. MURICA
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:40 AM
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How can women not understand that if they insist on 50/50 (which they don't, they want more women in college) for college admissions, then the seats they take up means more men will not be able to get degrees. The other option would be to expand seats and devalue degrees even more. JFC I wish women had any capability to think about the consequences of their wants and decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:36 AM
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Who said I was? Also, shouldn't mid guys be able to recognize other mid girls so they can stay in their own league? What are you trying to argue here? Who made you the arbiter on people's looks, how many women have you dated? Of course she would look the best and she could and touched up in what is used for a news article LMFAO. Oh jeez, the intellectual giants that inhabit this sub. Mid doesn't just refer to appearance. He said mid girl, not mid looking girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:31 AM
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She's really not, maybe a hair above at best. Her job is an "executive assistant" and if you look at her other videos shit is filtered and make up'd to hell. At the very least, she is mid for being a Cali girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:23 AM
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Any simp who puts up with that gets what he deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:13 AM
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Have you listened to what they have to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:41 AM
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Sex tourism by women in general is very mainstream. There's reality TV shows for it like Love in the Caribbean or some shit. Don't see too many feminists complaining about that, unless it is about the Jamaican man, funny that...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:31 AM
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I'd like to see them. I think legitimate relationships in general are rarer than ever, no? I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:30 AM
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unless they’re being brainwashed by post-wall women on TikTok This. Women love to go on and on about how older men "brainwash" younger women into liking them. But I see much more of older women and feminists pressuring, shaming, and brainwashing younger women into behaving how those women want them to behave - especially online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:21 AM
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You're getting usernames mixed up, I'm not the one who said that. Having said that, your comment still brings no value because if they were the age gap relationships wouldn't be happening with teenage girls. You'll say "oh some are some aren't", which again is completely useless information because you could say that about literally anything. You're making the mistake of taking what teenage girls SAY seriously and at face value, which again is beyond stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:10 AM
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Why would it matter if you're trying to date them when teenage girls call everything gross and also date old men anyway? If teenage girls didn't date older men, this wouldn't even be an issue. Anybody, man or woman, who takes a teenage girl's opinion seriously on anything is beyond stupid. All that proves even more is that their opinion is worthless. They'll "cancel" anything and anybody - who gives a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:03 AM
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Teenage girls call everything gross/disgusting, except maybe riding and sucking multiple dicks. Their opinion on pretty much anything means less than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:58 AM
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No, I find them abhorrent for being spiteful and vengeful for perceived oppression that was a) part of the natural order, b) not the fault of young men today, and c) not even experienced by most of the young women of today. I find them duplicitous where they pretend to be for equality but in reality seek advantages. They are completely convinced that they are always in the right and the world must bend to what they expect and want. They are only concerned with their own well being and are comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:44 AM
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Very true. Even on my last trip to SEA, I saw an older German frau with her Asian boytoy. Tons of them also go down to the Caribbean. You hear of a woman going to the Caribbean by herself or with the "girls", you usually know what's up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:44 PM
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Usually when I hear it, it is in this sense. Not necessarily physical attractive (which I still think ME and Latin women take the cake on), but rather on how willing they are to show their body that attracts you in a primitive sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:50 PM
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I see the existence of Western men going overseas to Asian and LatAm countries for sex tourism as akin to how Westerners ship their trash overseas because they don't want to deal with the real problem at home. The issue is Western society has created an abhorrent form of woman that are increasingly difficult to deal with. So the men go over to societies that didn't do that to exploit other societies correctly raising women. They'd rather have the women raised by the cultures of other men (making…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:31 PM
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Plus, in my experience, both bisexual men and women typically end up dating men anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:21 PM
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If they weren’t, feminists wouldn’t continue to complain about it. Have to stop you right there as that is grossly inaccurate. Just because feminists complain about something doesn't mean it is true. They complain about non-issues and made up/exaggerated issues all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:13 PM
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This line is as bullshit as that stat about how you only need 70k income to ever be happy. It basically lacks all nuance. I would love to see the actual study with all of the methodology, but all I ever get are some stuff Buzzfeed-esque articles. Here, I looked one up for you and it confirmed my suspicions. It talks about how the "source" you talked about excluded tipping and other sources of income on OnlyFans aside from monthly subscriptions. Oh you mean if you exclude multiple other forms of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:07 PM
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You gotta relax on that stuff man. People talk about AI like that because it is like science fiction to them, it isn't "real". It is still like interstellar travel that they watch on scifi shows or something. It is too new for the layman to know a lot about it, but it has been in scifi so long that they feel like they do just due to so much exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:56 AM
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Damn, you really are autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:41 AM
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https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/265/714/fd1.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:20 AM
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I mean I don't know how else to tell you what I said in other words. If it is happening over and over for you, look for the common denominators I guess. But that is a heuristic. I mean it should be more intuitive than that, and if you can't do it maybe you just don't have what it takes. I personally know women who are capable of doing this. I can do it from the other side. That's too bad. I mean not everyone is entitled to have a happy ending or get everything they want. You may have what it tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:15 AM
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Read his comment again. Who those men is very clear. Those men who are treating you badly. Good. There's no one size fits all, because not all women are good that deserve a good partner. Some women (I would personally say the plurality) legitimately are "bad" and for them what a well adjusted person might consider a bad partner is actually her match. And that goes for men too. Like the n count thing. There's plenty of men who like sluts and the slut lifestyle that they have to deal with. A slut …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:06 AM
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Well, if it is truly serious, I would look at what that poster is actually saying. He said "AGAIN AND AGAIN". So you'd have to put on your big girl pants and figure out what is causing you to choose those men. That requires a little introspection and self-consciousness. And if you can't do that, then maybe it would just be better if you didn't date - at least for a while. If you still choose to date knowing all of those issues, then maybe you are open for ridicule - which is the least of your wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:49 AM
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This is the major reason I'm even trying so hard at my job. I'm not a woman so I can't expect other people to just give me nice stuff. If I don't work hard, I'm not gonna have someone to bend over backwards to support me - I'll most likely end up on the street with people stepping over me. However, I do think this is also going away and we are heading towards taking more away from people who work hard just to hand it over to people who don't. Hopefully that tipping point happens after I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:20 AM
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She's just giving a long and verbose from of "I got pumped and dumped a lot when I was riding the cock carousel, now I am finding it slightly harder to find men who want to commit to high n count me teehee".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:04 AM
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I don't think good looking men are bad. There are nice good looking men for sure, many of whom I would guess grew up ugly and bloomed later in life. But when I make a point that you may take a reductionist take such as this one, it would be that women would rather chase a good looking asshole over a bad looking good guy if those were the two choices (and often women will fool themselves into thinking the good looking asshole is nice due to the halo effect), and in those cases I do think they des…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:55 AM
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Boohoo?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:27 AM
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I didn't miss it, I saw it for the reactionary response that it was. That's why had the tongue in cheek second paragraph. The difference is mine has some sort of truth behind it rather than just "no u". Then it isn't really our utopia is it? It is/was reality, our utopia is not what you described. Are you familiar with what the word utopia actually means? And even if I were to humor you and say it was our utopia - I think it says something that men would give up their utopia for the good of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:12 AM
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I'll believe it when I see it. 1) I saw no stats in that article saying what you said. The vast majority of the articles was just giving excuses as for why there were less men than women in college. One I did like was that financial strain stopped men from doing it. Men are still expected to provide, and in many ways college isn't worth it - at least not for everyone. Women can still go to college and get "Mrs." degrees. Better yet, they can go into debt, then get a guy who has been working hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:35 PM
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If men wanted that utopia, they would have built it for the thousands of years men were utterly dominating women instead of acquiescing to getting even further away from that so women could have "equality". That's just an angry feminist straw man you have built. Also, you forgot the older women who would be cleaning up after everyone that the feminist straw man concept includes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:27 PM
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Women are given artificial advantages to correct past injustices. There are quotas for women and they get preferential treatment. Of course the gender that gets preferential treatment is going to outnumber the group that doesn't. I've written about this in the past, but I'll do an abbreviated version here. I'm in med school, where women outnumber men. If you look at the AAMC stats, at least for the year and past years of when I was admitted, men had higher MCAT scores and science GPA (women had …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:20 PM
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The older generation has fucked up shit so bad, and continue to actively do so by the way, that it isn't going to be fixed by people who just got out of high school in a matter of a few years. People of your generation has been pulling this shit for DECADES. Now you want to go "huur duur why don't you just clean this mess up lickety split whippersnapper"? Can you imagine anything more stupid? But I guess I can't really expect more considering the history. I don't think we can even start on makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:08 PM
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Here come some platitudes instead of actually discussing the topic at hand. Of course change happens. That isn't the point. The point is that old men, who benefited from the sexism women are blaming young men for, are now pulling up the ladder behind them. They are 1) tilting the game in women's favor in an attempt to correct the mistakes young men had no part in making and did not benefit from, 2) making things harder on young men, blaming them, and then going "pull yourself up by your bootstra…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:55 PM
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They didn't have the best role models on how to parent, did they?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:43 PM
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From what I can tell, a woman's utopia is for there to be a small population of hot guys who do their bidding (that they can outnumber for "democracy" to keep up a facade of virtue), and then a larger group of an underclass of men who are out of their sight and don't interact with them doing manual labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:41 PM
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Yeah, maybe those kids' parents should have raised them better. Wonder who raised them? Uh huh, suuuuure. Tell us more about how you walked uphill both ways gramps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:35 PM
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Here comes the vanguard of the geezer crew. Boomers are the generation of taking and leaving less for the rest, not only in gender relations but economically as well. Much has been written about it, I won't waste time repeating it all just because you want to stick your fingers in your ears. "Worry about being the sole provider" - conveniently ignoring that it was actually easier back in the day to be the sole provider and there was more reward for it. "Huur duur I could pay for college in my da…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:06 PM
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The West has failed men. Old fucks created this mess, while getting the advantages of the "patriarchy" back in their day, and have the young men take the fall for the sexism old men benefited from. Now they act all holier than thou, artificially advantage women, and tell young men to do better so all the shit runs downhill. And the best part is they don't have to deal with the shitty society they are creating - they'll just fuck off and die.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:43 PM
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This is something I noticed a decade ago back in college and the mindset has only gotten stronger. The feminist/liberal zeitgeist seems to be that these are the possible options for the problems in gender relations: Men do something wrong Both men and women do something wrong Women do something wrong <--- this is not an acceptable answer So women will sometimes say that women do something wrong, but only if they can then turn around and say "well, men do it too or are worse about it". The only e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:13 AM
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Glad to hear that. I wish more feminists/women thought that way. Well, I mean the advantages you mentioned yourself for one. Others like always 100% knowing that the child they gave birth to is theirs (no "maternity fraud"), and of course the dating advantages that are the whole reason behind this sub in the first place. Because of what I stated. They weren't always rights like some things were, they were due to technological advantages or consensus. I think that is a reductionist way to look at…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:13 AM
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So that sounds like a yes? What about the biological advantages that haven't been corrected, should be done as well correct? Ok, so do you think the advantages women have should be compensated for as well? Or do you accept that men have their advantages, women have theirs, and we deal with what we have? As for the fact that men were stronger back then, feminists seem upset about that as that gave men "first mover advantage". The stronger ones set up the system according to them, so men being str…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:55 AM
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Ok, but the question is "would feminists be happy with just the "socially constructed" advantages being removed, or do they expect the biological advantages men have to be compensated for as well? Are men allowed to be advantaged at all, or is the very concept of men being advantaged wrong and something that needs to be fixed/compensated for by feminism?" True, technological advancement is a good argument for it. I guess I was just looking at it from the perspective of people picking and choosin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:39 AM
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I know what systematically means, that wasn't the question. This is the kind of mindset I was talking about in q4. Those aren't the same as they are manmade things. No race is biologically dominant over another so we shouldn't pretend any are. Some of it was chance, some of it was bad decisions by ancestors - but randomize a shuffle and there's no reason to believe the same races would meet the same fate. Homosexuality isn't unnatural even outside humanity, so it is acceptable in humanity. As fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:34 AM
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Can these feminists of this subreddit answer a few questions I have been ruminating on recently? I saw someone here say that their definition of feminism is something to the effect of "men are systematically advantaged, and that should not be the case". Male advantages are not only socially constructed, but are natural as well. It wasn't patriarchs from 5000 years ago who made us bigger and stronger or so we don't have to physically give birth, blame nature or God, if anybody. So the question is…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:26 AM
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Firstly, sorry to hear that. I've had similar experiences of women acting entitled like that in a very similar situation. Their bathrooms are always a shitshow so you always have women trying to come in to the men's one. But if a man needed to pee really badly, no woman would be willing to let him have use of their bathroom. They even did nasty shit like talking about dick sizes in the bathroom and acting like they were going to sneak peaks. I remember one time a woman even started yelling at a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:39 AM
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Where's the stats though? Show me em. And if you're talking about America, by aggregate they will be higher because even today the black population is 10x the Asian American population - and it was even more lopsided in the past. The reason white men enslaved African women is because they were weaker, not more sexually desirable. Had they the choice, they would have taken Asian women as sex slaves instead. I mean they did try to colonize Asia too, they just couldn't do it to the extent they did …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:27 AM
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Young women do it too. I studied abroad during college in one of the regions mentioned by OP. Most of the girls hooking up were hooking up with local guys (a few of the girls were plain ugly). The guys who were hooking up were hooking up with other foreigners, whether they be European or American.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:17 AM
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black women and white men used to be the most common interracial pairing and black women You're talking about when white men enslaved black women as their sex slaves? LMFAO. men aren't influenced by media or that standards of beauty or culture were always the same You see here comes the reading comprehension issues and why it is impossible to have a good faith discussion with you. I never said that. If anything, I only said that men are LESS influenced than women. Less does not equal zero. Do yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:41 AM
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You seem to think men can't think for themselves and rely on media like women do. Men and women are not the same. Just because women are overly influenced by media saying what is attractive is not the same for men. How would you know? Maybe they're going for white women because they think they're easier and they know the competition for Asian women is higher. Exactly, Asians have lower divorce rates. Who has lower divorce rates Asian man/white women or Asian man/Asian women? How about white man/…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:05 PM
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They are though. There are plenty of men going abroad to South America, the ME, and India as well to find brides - not as much as SE/E Asia, but plenty. African women don't receive the same attention due to physical looks, attitude, and the deepest poverty. They are more of an outlier than anything. If you are referring to Muslim women in India and the ME, it is because their men keep them for their own. Some white guy isn't just going to be able to waltz in, Muslims are the only ones who defy W…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:53 PM
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The oldest I'll seriously consider is 31, I'm 30. Maybe 32 if she's banging. 33 is the limit. But the preference is usually for 23-26, which has been working out just fine for me. Freeze your eggs, but I hear even that isn't having great success with all the fail articles I've been reading about it lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:42 PM
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The best way to get a good man is to be a good woman yourself. I know women want to pretend that they're all angels and if men just acted better we would live in an utopia, but that just isn't true. Like tends to attract like. A lot of the hand wringing women could do if they took less time asking "how do I find a good man" and ask "how do I become a good woman". The fact of the matter is that a lot of women out there don't even deserve good men because they would make them miserable. Most of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:39 PM
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Why would they be? They aren't as desirable either. An American black woman isn't any more desirable than an American white woman because they both have the same shitty attitudes. There are men who go abroad for darker skinned women though who aren't Asian. But I already explained to you why Asian men are having trouble, because their in group preference has massive competition. No other group deals with that. Sure, they could go for black women but black women also have an in group preference a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:33 PM
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No they aren't. I think you're referring to porn, which isn't relationship focused. It is sex focused. And even then they aren't "pushed". It is just another genre. Most pornstars are white women. Asian pornstars don't get paid more or anything. White women are the beauty standard, I never said a fetish is the same thing. There are severe reading comprehension issues here, I suspect (especially due to your grammatical mistakes) because you aren't a native English speaker. That makes getting the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:09 AM
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Do you even know what the term "beauty standard" even means? Asian women are not forced down as a fetish object, it is the contrary where men are berated for fetishizing any woman who isn't white. They are naturally fetishized because they are so desirable. You are getting cause and effect mixed up. The media is trying to push against that natural attraction that men have for more desirable women and realign it to what they think should happen. So anecdotal with absolutely no proof whatsoever? T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:44 AM
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Wait, you were assigned male at birth? That explains a bit...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:00 AM
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Female "loyalty" has always been an illusion. They are mostly duplicitous by nature. All the patriarchy did was domesticate them and influence them to act differently. Now that patriarchal influence is waning, we see the nature come back. Feminists routinely complain about the patriarchy socializing them to be nice, amiable, "loyal", etc. Even they know if it wasn't for the socialization, they wouldn't be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:53 AM
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The only overweight women not getting any are those that refuse to date black or hispanic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:48 AM
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I've observed noticeably worse personalities amongst sluts, so just having them around makes things more unpleasant. They somehow tend to be attention seeking and man hatey at the same time. But it is just also a psychological thing, if no one is getting laid then there isn't as much FOMO. Plus there are sociological considerations too, like I would assume single motherhood would decrease.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:39 AM
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Not as much as women though, white women are still the beauty standard. So men have long been going against it according to you. You know the other thing I realized? You kept mentioning Asian men being undesirable, I assume from that OkCupid study, but you know what? That same study said that Asian women were the most desirable, so why ignore that when you believe it for men? I'd like to see any proof for that claim about Hollywood making men go for Asian women instead of African women, unless y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:36 AM
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That's sad that women can't seem to think for themselves. I mean the stereotype is that white women are the most desirable due to the beauty standard right? And that still doesn't seem to matter to men who think Asian women are better. Women can seemingly only think what they are told. Are you really going to deny there's less white men going for Asian women than Asian men going for African women? There's stats like Sweden having large increases in Asian women coming to marry. Even your Wiki sou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:06 PM
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I mean if white women will go for men who consider them second class citizens, why wouldn't they eventually go for Asian men? That's a step up at least. That's why I don't believe they are so desirable, they seem to be fine settling for men who don't think much of them. Some do, but not as much as white men who go to Asia. I didn't say they don't go at all, but compared to white men going to Asia it isn't the same proportion. You have a very all or nothing view. Also that is a story of FATHERLES…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:56 PM
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I didn't say most do... I said Western men are more complimentary of women from the East than Eastern men are of Western women. Because Eastern women have better attitudes so everyone wants them. While Western women are difficult to be with so even many of their own men would prefer an Eastern woman rather than taking the in group preference advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:46 PM
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But the in group preference doesn't hold for when white men marry Asian women somehow? Ok, so those people break the in group preference. So then why don't Asian men break the in group preference at the same rate. Why don't Asian men go to Africa as much as white men go to Asia to get women based off their own wealth? The reason is because Asian men still prefer Asian women. Who are the least desirable women? If Asian men are so undesirable why aren't the going after those undesirable women? I'd…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:44 PM
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But if they're so undesirable, why would Asian women still be marrying them in larger amounts rather than white men? Asian men are only unpopular among white and black Western women - again, due to the same attitude and behavior problems I mentioned before where they think they're better than someone of their own tiers or demand to be treated in feminist ways that advantage themselves. Who said they weren't greencard chasing? The point is that a white guy would rather marry a greencard chaser th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:27 PM
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But why only Asian when my initial point was non-Western? I've already mentioned that they do that for visas or money. Immigrants being the key feature there. How many African and Middle Eastern men do you hear going "man I sure love how Western women behave"? If they liked Western behavior so much, why wouldn't they force their own women to act that way when they dominate women at home? But they have neotenous features and look more youthful, which is attractive. Western women tend to have more…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:14 PM
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What are you talking about? How are Korean men the only ones who are popular? Non-Western doesn't just mean Asian. African and Middle Eastern men are non-Western. Plenty of African and Middle Eastern men are popular. The other thing you are missing is that you don't have to be from a specific country to be a high tier man. Every country has high tier men. Like a high tier man could be from China. It doesn't make any sense to he can't be high tier because China is poorer per capita than Korea - i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:48 PM
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Exactly, any source that claims more women than men are virgins outside of Islamic cultures are suspect. Islam is the only one that has been able to combat ho-dom to any meaningful degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:16 PM
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You're only looking at Korea, you're really going to tell me there aren't more white marrying Asian women in general than vice versa? That is demonstrably true. Look at that stat about Swedish men, there's tons more Asian women coming to Sweden to marry than the reverse. And they're the most progressive men on the planet. You seem to have a problem with understanding figures of speech, I don't literally mean 10x, that's just a way to say way more than the reverse. Again either you aren't an Engl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:14 PM
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That's one anecdotal dude. Like I said, for everyone of those examples, theres 10 of the reverse. So what? That doesn't change whether Asian men desire white women or not, and you don't hear Asian men talking about liking Western personalities and attitudes like you hear white men talking about liking non-Western attitudes and personalities. That's the point. I just looked at your source and it doesn't say what you said it does. In fact it makes my point for me. If you look at who Korean men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:15 PM
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I mean it shouldn't be that hard to find a source for that, would be much quicker than typing this reply you just made now. No they don't. Low tier guys can't even afford all that it takes to get Asian women. Low tier guys are stuck in the US being poor. Low tier white guys get low tier Asian women. Top tier white women sure, but they aren't falling over themselves for average/low white women unless it comes to money or visa like the Caribbean boytoys do - but at that point, they are in the exac…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:38 AM
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So you were making shit up, exactly what I thought. I think they are average tier or lower, but average and low tier white girls exist too. And given a choice, average or lower tier white guys would rather go for an Asian girl (even with all the hassle of going to a different country) than an average or lower tier white girl. If high tier Asian women were as available as high tier Western women, I'm sure they would get sought after too. But for a high tier guy, he might as well take the high tie…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:25 AM
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Western countries have hookers too. The difference is that it is a lot easier to find women who have sex for free in the West. You need to pay Asian women to act that way, which sounds pretty conservative to me. Also, the type of women who become hookers and those that are LTR material are different cross culturally - it isn't like people are going to LTR hookers. Those two populations aren't related to each other. Wait a minute, I'm pretty sure you made that stat up. Any proof of it? Are you ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:09 AM
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You know people like to say Japan is a cautionary tale or whatever, but seeing that Western men are having less and less sex, I think I'd prefer a Japan like situation instead. Being surrounded by a bunch of virgin women if you're not getting laid yourself sounds A LOT better than not getting laid and being surrounded by a bunch of sluts. Japan > West. Having said that I do suspect a good proportion of those women are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:51 AM
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Because those Western women are lower tier themselves. Unless you're saying lower tier Western women believe they deserve better for no reason at all - which I agree with, probably why men see them as not worth dealing with. It isn't like high tier non-Western men are going after low tier Western women. When you see low tier Western women looking abroad, they go for sex tourism in the Caribbean or Africa - they aren't going to rich countries. So an Asian woman from a conservative culture is easi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:34 AM
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Whoever said they were the top tier of men? Obviously the top tier white guys are gonna go for top tier white women. But lower tier white women exist too, and the fact that Western men would rather have someone from a completely different culture/country says it all, especially since white people are the beauty standard. Attractiveness isn't just physical. Obviously people would fuck Western women if they had the chance, I've never said otherwise. But the point is they wouldn't want marriage (as…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:16 AM
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Asian women are thought to be pretty though due to neotenous features and slimmer figures, especially by Western men. But there's plenty of Western men who say they prefer the attitudes and personalities of non-Western women, I've never heard non-Western men say that they prefer the personalities and attitudes of Western women. I mean the fat boomer isn't respectful of any culture besides his own, but that has nothing to do with him desiring the personality and attitude of a woman raised in anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:04 AM
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Their physical features, sure - possibly due to the overwhelming dominance of Western media and beauty standards. But they are desired for their looks, not their attitudes or behavior (aside from assumed promiscuity). While Western men may also be attracted to non-Western features, they also desire the attitudes and behavior of non-Western women - which is not reciprocated in the former situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:48 AM
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What were those BS things women used to say about prenups? They signify lack of trust in your future spouse? They make you feel like you're planning to fail? I'm sure all of that goes out the window when it benefits women and not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:07 AM
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Vast majority of Chinese men love white women. Most of them might not approach them directly, and there aren't many in the mainland, but boy, they love white girls. Love them for what though? Their values? Or their looks? What I have heard is that non-Western men might pursue Western women to get a visa or because they are thought to be easier to have sex with. I don't really hear that they have better attitudes or values like you hear Westerners talk about non-Western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:40 AM
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Western men often say "non-Western women are better", do non-Western men ever say "Western women are better"? Never heard it, has anyone here heard it (outside of a visa/easy sex/money situation)? The issue is that the West seems hellbent on exporting feminism and their cultural zeitgeist globally so that it lowers everything globally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:31 AM
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Obviously there aren't enough attractive women to go around, if the supply of attractive women were higher the demand would be lower. But what I would like to CMV is that Western men did this to themselves. They themselves are lowering the amount of their own desirable women and are now venturing out of the West to get other women because their own aren't that great anymore. Think about it, there's plenty of Western women who go "non-Western women are better". Are there non-Western men going "We…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:28 AM
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Lmao, amazing the things women can bitch about. Hey Tampax, at least we don't give women Toxic Shock Syndrome... as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:01 AM
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The thing about feminism is that affirmative action for women will basically always be needed, at least for the foreseeable future. There's no point where we can go, alright women are equal now. They'll always need a handicap because either a) they are biologically weaker, or b) men have won so much for so long that it'll take thousands of years to "make up" for that. Which is why associating feminism with other civil rights causes like racism is so stupid. At least with racism there can be a th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:59 AM
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men are so much more logical and less emotional than women”, “women are more neurotic and childish than men” “men are better leaders than women”. That programs in a woman’s brain that any male who is emotional, neurotic, non assertive is not a real male. Immediately I noticed you somehow think females being MORE emotional somehow means means men can't be emotional at all. Somehow less means none. But what else can you expect from female logic... Also, the reason men are told, often by females, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:53 AM
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Yeah yeah, I know someone would go "its your fault". Thing is, I've had plenty of women feel comfortable giving me clear direct answers and everything was respectful on both sides so I don't buy that it was me and not her. There's plenty of stuff I left out like her doing this after the date where I bought her dinner. Her lying about "not dating now" since I saw her active on Hinge with that green dot before the second reach out. She's just an asshole, asshole women DO exist contrary to popular …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:04 PM
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You would know better than I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:59 AM
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Get Tor
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:17 AM
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Yeah, that's why I don't buy all the bunk on that other thread of women complaining that most men are "garbage". I've done the experiment in two different states, I know what they're saying is just lies. The men seemed to be higher quality on average than the girls I see on OLD. I also talked to them to test the "oh they say stupid and non-sexual shit". Of the 50 or so guys I tested to see if they got to a "bad message" within 10 or so matches, the only one I remember getting sexual was some Isr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:36 AM
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They aren't... There's plenty of poor guys not getting laid. But they either don't have access to spaces you use so you don't notice them, are so busy working for sustenance that you don't see them, have too little intellect to even think about their situation in abstract terms, or think "the reason I'm not getting laid is because I'm poor, I'd totally get laid if I wasn't". The poor guy not getting laid thing was definitely a thing in my college which may be considered "high tier" and had a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:59 AM
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Depends on the context. If it is just a random guy off the street approaching that you've never met before? Make up something like "I'm working on myself so not trying to date". If you've gone on a date? "I had a good time but I don't think we're compatible personality wise". I'll tell you what not to do though. There was a girl who I went out with 5 times, then she goes "I need to work on myself and want to hit pause, I'd be interested in a few months". So I hit her up in a few months and she s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:36 PM
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Maybe lurking, but there's definitely a lotta pussies complaining about other pussies there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:58 AM
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Why do you say it is obvious it is addictive? Anything could be addictive. There's sex addicts out there. Gaming addicts, shopping addicts, etc. It may just seem more addictive because there's very few alternatives. Stats show men having sex is on the decline with a substantial portion having no or very little sex. So basically their only choice is porn. If all a person can eat is veggies, are they really a veggie addict or are they just using their only option?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:35 AM
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Try reading it again. Or perhaps get better reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:19 AM
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Bruh, I can't even take this "woe is me" post seriously because the solution to your problem IS SO SIMPLE. Literally just go for the hordes of single men that exist between 30-45 and you're fine. Yeah, you're not going to get as hot of a guy as you would have if you locked someone down 10 years ago. Coulda, woulda, shoulda. Men are down so much more in the current market. But let me guess, they're not good enough for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:07 AM
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I'm not fully red but lean that way. I like being able to point to lesbians and their dating issues to show that the problem isn't just that "tEh meNz sUcK" like women like to claim. Lesbians have higher domestic violence rates and higher divorce rates. I do get a bit of schadenfreude when going through /r/actuallesbians or something and talking about how shitty the dating process with women can be - often it is exactly what women claim "incels" say. Honestly, if that didn't exist I might actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:36 PM
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That sounds like pseudopsychology. Whoever said men aren't sad? At least for the women it is mostly self-inflicted and the solutions are very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:14 PM
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I didn't say it proved anything, all I said is that it was a funny coincidence. Calm yer tits lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:12 PM
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When I first came to PPD right before college I used to think that feminism was needed and I felt sorry for women for being "oppressed" for so long. After nearly a decade later, I now realize that the reason pretty much every single successful civilization throughout history "oppressed" (read: put limits on their BS) women is because we probably would not have survived as a species in the past if women just did whatever they wanted. Also, I used to believe that in an alternate history where wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:57 PM
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It is PPD, not that serious, calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:26 PM
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It is so funny that I had this tab open at the same time I saw this post on /r/all: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ygh0gr/dying_inside_i_cant_find_a_partner/ It is so perfect, I almost want to claim a troll job. IRL, the over 30 women who are single don't seem too happy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:26 PM
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So you claim. Varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:22 AM
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As a counterpoint, the middle of the road slut friend from my college who admitted to a number (was probably higher) said it was 60 by graduation. I'm betting on the accuracy because she shared it with her girlfriends, then one of the girlfriends leaked it to her boyfriend, then the whole friend crew found out, and there was some drama. So move it back up to +30 at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:59 AM
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That is BS. There are way more services for women. Inadequate women get way more support and suffer way less stigma. Inadequate men are villainized and are told they deserve what they get. You even hear that here - that men who are inadequate in whatever way deserve what they get and some even go so far as eugenics and say it is good for the species as a whole for those men to get weeded out. I don't know where you got your sources, but the very first Google search said that 70% of homeless are …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:35 AM
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Who cares? I'm still posting. Imagine caring about "winning"...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:27 AM
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My response
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:24 AM
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Why do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:21 AM
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Imagine being concerned with "comebacks"...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:16 AM
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liking our skin contrast Why is this bad? Two different exes have said that to me in the past and I need to know why I should be retroactively offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:10 AM
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Meme. Gender. But even if it is true, the most likely scenario is that the TwoX user is misrepresenting the situation for femrage bait. That happens a lot, where perfectly innocuous things are exaggerated for the hourly 2 minutes of man hate. The family member is probably living a better life than the poster is, so the bitter poster is misrepresenting it to make herself feel better and get validation of her fellow losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:02 AM
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I didn't. Just pointed out why you think like you do. Boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:51 AM
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I doubt she would change the rules for Tinder guys, in fact she would probably be less likely to split because she knows less about them and would need more time to suss them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:34 AM
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Women don't even deserve true nice guys CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:24 AM
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Tell OP, who seems to think a random Tinder date should be buying her dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:18 AM
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Sounds like you often guess wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:17 AM
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Inadequate women are helped by society as a whole. The only one with a cartoonish view is those imaging inadequate men are bumbling themselves into higher positions that society is holding their hands into. Society is cutthroat for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:17 AM
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None of this has anything to do with the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:15 AM
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Well that's an incorrect interpretation. I'm not yelling at clouds. All I did was refute you pretending your opinion is fact. If anything, you're the one yelling at clouds trying to keep things the same as it ever was cause you are resistant to change. Look at the other guys here talking, am I the only one saying that a woman shouldn't expect to be paid for? This is not some fringe opinion, it is mainstream. As far as I can tell, the best argument you have is that "well, that's how it has always…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:23 PM
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Yes, that's the OFFER I was referring to. But a stranger expecting you to pay for his drink just because you started talking is rude. I can't even believe we are discussing something so simple. It isn't anxiety, it is just understanding basic decorum. I have enough money, but the money isn't the issue. Tons of dudes meet shitty women cause they can't vet. A woman like that is bad vetting. It has nothing to do with losing out on money. Men let women get away with way too much shitty behavior, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:13 PM
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Yes, I make this distinction too. A Tinder date is a STRANGER. A person you ask out in person you usually know beforehand and isn't a stranger. A Tinder first date isn't even really a first date, it is date 0. A Tinder second date is the actual first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:00 PM
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A friend already has a built in relationship. A person you are JUST meeting to get to know has no such relationship. Do you expect to pay for the drink of the person you strike up a conversation with at a bar? It is also a completely different scenario that you are trying to use. If a woman comes over to your house, obviously you wouldn't expect her to pay. If a stranger you met at the bar comes over to your house, obviously you don't expect that stranger to pay. You are changing scenarios to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:57 PM
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If you can't understand how being expected to be paid for is rude, then I can't help you. That's why I said if he offered, but if you can't understand that - then... too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:36 PM
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Honestly, with your attitude the guys are the ones giving you a chance. Then don't do it. I fully advocate for you to take yourself out of the dating pool. Damn, living in a broke city must suck. My city not only has free museums, but if you give a minimal effort of getting a library card (which seems like it might be another "ugh I have to do this" thing for you), you get free access to the aquarium and zoo too. Are you familiar with the term "park"? It is where humans go to walk around and enj…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:33 PM
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at all RUDE to not split the check It is definitely rude to expect to be paid for unless offered. If the guy offers, that's ok - he's a simp, but it is ok. If you expect the guy to pay that is definitely rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:30 PM
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... then go on non-dinner dates. Dinner dates are boring anyway. If you can't afford it, say "I'd rather go for a walk or something". Museums in my city are free. Every early dinner date (meaning between first and third date) was suggested by a woman, they're the ones gunning for dinner. That is what needs to change. Dates where they suggested museums or parks were way better. Why do I get the feeling your username is a giveaway for how you just want people to validate your foodie-run view? Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:23 PM
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I've never seen a polar bear up close either, but I'm not stupid enough to think just because I've never seen a polar bear that they don't exist. Are you aware you have not seen everything that exists in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:36 PM
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Any man who pays for a woman that ugly has it coming to him. I went on a date last week and the girl tried to get me to pay for the dinner. When the waiter came an asked if we were doing separate checks, I said yeah with 0 hesitation. She still came back to mine. If men stop enabling these trashy hoes, especially the ugly ones, it will stop being a problem. I'm doing my bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:03 AM
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And that dude just happened to be a 6'5'' white guy. But I'm sure she knows some short balding Asian dude that is a total poonhound. Fucking meme gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:54 AM
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Nope, I've personally heard plenty of women say that. And there should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:13 AM
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Yeah, I agree. Women bitching about men ruling OVER women need to STFU. As it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:05 AM
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Oh so in any gender war that's all we have to get rid of? Sounds easy enough. Exactly my point, women cannot RULE OVER men unless men allow it. So I don't even know what you tried to argue here unless you had a reading comprehension issue with my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:01 AM
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So if that's all it takes why aren't you guys ruling everything already? Or is this world what female rule looks like? Also, BC has existed in some from since at least ~2000 BC.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:49 AM
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If they had the capability to, then they would have. Their only chance is men willingly giving up power to them, and even with the world as shitty as it is I still haven't seen a compelling argument that should happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:34 AM
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There's a reason basically every single successful civilization operated under a patriarchy. I mean there was practically no deviation. Some backwater tribe living in the Amazon or rural China doesn't count for a successful matriarchal "civilization". Even now, many women claim we still live in a patriarchy. We are just relearning what our ancestors figured out long ago. Anyway, I've ruminated over a scenario where only rich families are allowed to have sons. They would have a better upbringing …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:31 AM
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Well, as long as they act right in public it doesn't make a practical difference to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:21 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:20 AM
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Don't like it? Then why don't you do a better job and get in med school yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:20 AM
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Most of the women in my life are significantly better than the women here and on places like TwoXChromosomes. Now, that is because I curate the type of women I spend time with. But even women who are just in my life due to school and work aren't as awful as the women on Reddit. I do come from a UMC background and was in high paying fields and am now in med school, so that also plays a part I'm sure. I also go out of my way to avoid a "certain demographic", and that for sure cuts down on the shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:19 AM
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Oh good, then all the old ladies can swarm in bitching about the "age gap"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:10 AM
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Team /u/FjbhBoy 💪 <sup>even</sup> <sup>though</sup> <sup>he</sup> <sup>likes</sup> <sup>chubsters</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:03 AM
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whoever founded PPD does anyone know who this was? Or is that just lost info?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:59 AM
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Yes, old women on the brink of dementia and cognitive decline are so smart - much smarter than the dumb 30 year old women who go after him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:57 AM
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There was a point in my life where I dated 3 women in a row who had these exact same traits: younger non-fraternal twin (sisters), white, Christian turned atheist, in therapy, social worker, glasses, dark blonde hair. I wasn't even specifically going after them either. Some of them I could tell beforehand like white and hair color, but I didn't find out about the twin or therapy thing like a month or two into hanging out. And the third situationship happened after I moved to a different state to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:53 AM
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Technically marrying any woman is pedophilia <sup>because</sup> <sup>women</sup> <sup>are</sup> <sup>like</sup> <sup>children.</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:41 AM
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jfc, was your mama fucking little boys too? Birds of a feather and all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:26 AM
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HR woman emoji
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:23 AM
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sparkle emoji
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:21 AM
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:D <sup>crying</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:17 AM
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That is not criticism except to the softest and most sensitive of people. So not only is reading comprehension a problem here, but immaturity as well. Also, what he said is a "more respectable past". Not that the slutty girls past is unrespectable, just less so to him. In fact, you were the only one to judge someone's past as not respectable. And he's allowed to make that determination for what fits his life. Oh my, did you just today figure out men and women aren't the same? You're allowed to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:16 AM
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You think an emoji is an emotional response? Like if a person really puts a crying emoji that person is actually feeling like crying? Is this autism? An emoji is just another form of written communication. A cry emoji shows as much emotion as the word "crying" written out. PS usually when people write out LOL, they aren't really laughing. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:12 AM
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What a masterbaiter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:04 AM
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Sure. Emojis have nothing to do with logic or emotion, seems pretty easy to me. ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:04 AM
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That's just being pedantic. Obviously the point is that you are allowed to have preferences for a partner that you yourself don't have, since a partner complements you. I didn't see him criticize anyone, all he said is that he knows he doesn't want to be with her. That isn't a criticism, so maybe you should work on your reading comprehension. He obviously didn't condemn promiscuity anywhere. But no promiscuous person is obligated to marry a promiscuous woman, just like no poor person is obligate…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:02 AM
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Obviously that is clearer since that is the clarification I pointed out. And I presumed the last line showed that I was being tongue in cheek too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:58 AM
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Why do women go to extremes so easily? Even when that topic comes up, the point is women are more emotional than men, not that men aren't emotional at all. But women immediately go to extremes "huur duur you mean men don't have emotions". I saw it on the n count thread at the front page today too. "I prefer non-slutty women" -> "have fun with your virgin women who can't even have sex". But I guess that is where the logic comes in. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:53 AM
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Exhibit A Yeah, that's why short girls shouldn't go for tall men without being tall themselves - hypocrites. Or poor people for non-poor people, hypocrites. Just admit it, you're butthurt because you want women to have preferences and standards but not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:51 AM
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It is amazing how bitter women get on this subject. They want to pretend they don't care, but look at all the butthurt responses. Man having preferences bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:30 AM
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Sorry not sorry, stay mad. So I should have had a LTR with her just because she was "mentally vulnerable"? Maybe she shouldn't be hooking up if she's "mentally vulnerable". She was an adult, it is amazing how women always try to infantalize women. I have no obligation to date a slut. I was not "using" her for sex anymore than she was using me. If anything, I was more honest about what I wanted than she was if she was trying to use sex to get me into a relationship. If you're FDS, then maybe your…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:51 PM
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My experience is that women have brought it up earlier than I have. It really isn't as unusual as the women here try to claim. I've even found out the numbers of women I haven't slept with but are in the same circle because women talk so much and can't keep their mouths shut. All it takes is for one girl to blab about her friend to her BF and the boys will soon find out. But yes, I have turned down girls for LTRs if their body count is too high. I usually make it clear I'm not more interested th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:52 PM
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All modern day Western society has shown is that you should be out for yourself. Shits "unfair" for women? Too fucking bad. Trying to cut yourself down to make things fair for them only screws you over twice because they're spending their time trying to cut you down to make things fair for them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:39 AM
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They say women are better at being single because they get their emotional needs met by their friends, which is why they don't need men. Women are the ones trying to claim that they don't need men and female friends are just as good. So it sounds like at worst, these women are getting the same emotional fulfillment they would get single. So unless being single is bad for their emotional fulfillment, the complaint is irrelevant. Honestly, it is probably more petty than that. They get more emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:32 AM
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Proving my point of you not knowing wtf youre talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:27 AM
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women are miserable when their emotional needs are not met. Women here constantly talk about how they don't need men or relationships as much as men because they can get their emotional needs met by their female friends. So go do that. Sounds like the only miserable women are those without friends, so the relationship isn't the main factor there. That doesn't work for men because female friends aren't willing to just fuck their male friends like vice versa. So women can fix their problems much e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:26 AM
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That's such a stupid false equivalency point, some people still have an easier time than others. Life is hard for everyone, but some people obviously have it easier than others. For the most part, women have it easier in relationships - or they would, if they were realistic. Realistic women do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:18 AM
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You don't know wtf you're talking about, there are sluts on this very sub who said they are in the triple digits. It was also obvious hyperbole for rhetoric effect. For an American, your English could use some work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:15 AM
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What problems? The self inflicted ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:13 AM
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I am American. If people didn't care, it wouldn't need concerted "stop slut shaming" initiatives and shit. That isn't from the 1800s, that happened in my life time. The only sluts people "don't care about" are those who lie about not being a slut, that's why a lot do lie about it. But once it is known, many non-cuck men care. Uh huh, so people don't care about you fucking 100 guys, but do it on film and those same guys who don't care all of a sudden do. Oh but fuck 100 guys and then show your bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:09 AM
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Nah. Read my original comment for my point. You're the one who veered into all this tangential shit. That is what I said. They can only get hot women who are sluts. They can't get hot non-slut women. Because hot non slut women are more desirable and way outside of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:01 AM
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OnlyFans has fucking on it. Porn is porn. A pornstar that fucks herself on camera is still a pornstar. I'm just saying the gap between a regular slut and a pornstar isn't that far apart. Believe it or not, not every guy wants a woman who needs that sort of validation. Would I fuckbuddy her? Sure. Sure can. Ever heard the saying, for every hot woman there's some guy sick of her shit? But the other aspect is that Jay Z can get other hot women. Do you see the guys I posted getting many hot women? G…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:56 AM
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Is there really big of a difference between a pornstar and a woman who fucks half the town and has an OnlyFans or has her ass all over IG for everyone to see? High n count women and pornstars aren't really that far apart these days. Even sugaring isn't seen as that abnormal anymore. Why wouldn't it be a desirability issue? Just because Beyonce looks good doesn't mean she has a good personality. For all you know, Jay Z just got sick of her shit. I could see that. Jay Z is also rich and famous as …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:48 AM
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Men also have it harder because women's absolute standards are higher. A guy would still consider a 5 (including all aspects of attractiveness), while a woman would consider men below an 8 as below her. Even if she gets with a man below an 8, she'd still think she did him a favor even if she was a 5 herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:42 AM
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Yeah, I'm sure those three guys I posted above are sooo great that made up for their looks. One of them is so great that he even left his currently preggo wife. Cuz it can't possibly be that pornstars/high n count women are just less desirable and just get less desirable men. OnlyFans, TikTok, and Instagram basically make a large proportion of modern day women pornstars. What's posted on social media these days by these wannabe influencers would basically be considered softcore porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:39 AM
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Bet she's still taking the money that comes from him working 10 hours a day at his desk tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:31 AM
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Taller ugly or loser men will do everything in their power to keep the height discrimination alive, they will always be the first to try to shut down any discussion of it. And yes, they are generally less pleasant to be around. The reasoning is simple, without their height most would have nothing and they know it. Their height is their entire identity. Tall good looking guys don't even care about their height that much, it is just another advantage in a basket of advantages they have. Even if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:29 AM
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So who is marrying hot men, ugly women? And yet women here claim that sluts are marrying Chads. The best reasoning they could come up with so far is that since Chads are man sluts, sluts tend to date each other, so sluts get Chads. How that reconciles that even the ugliest woman could be a slut, I still don't know...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:25 AM
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What does this have anything to do with my point? Beyonce and Jay Z have the gasp aGe GaP problem that women here pearl-clutch about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:45 AM
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The slut apologists sure would have you think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:44 AM
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I'm just trying to find out who these slutty pornstars marrying Chads actually are. Like can I get a name? Most of the time pornstars end up becoming single mothers like many other sluts. Every time I see a pornstar with a husband, it is some dope who looks like he should be an incel if he didn't get with a slutty woman. I mean this is Leah Gotti's husband. These three pornstars are probably hotter than every single woman on this forum, and look at their husbands. And I'm supposed to believe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:49 AM
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Seriously. People try to bring up "huur duur pornstars get married all the time". Have you seen those husbands though? This is Dani Daniel's husband. This is Ariana Marie's husband. Do those look like winners to you? Who is the last pornstar to actually land a Chad? These are pornstars who actually make money from being a slut and don't do it to fulfill their daddy issues. "Sluts get Chads" my ass. I doubt these marriages actually last. In the same source I found the Ariana Marie picture, appare…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:38 AM
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Then why are you here spending time with losers instead of being Chad's sex object?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:54 AM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:53 AM
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Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:51 AM
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I see it in real life and other subs. Are you aware that life exists outside of your basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:50 AM
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So if women don't suffer repercussions why are they complaining about slut shaming, about when men do reject them for being sluts, and shit? But I guess it is just like a woman to complain about shit that doesn't matter...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:47 AM
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Sex workers are not the victims women try to pretend they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:00 AM
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This is obviously true. The funny thing is that bisexual women still fail because they have it so much easier dating men. They don't have to take the initiative, have to pay, or really do any of the hard work. Two women dating each other expect the other to do the "man's work", and neither wants to cuz they want to have the easy part. My ex told me about this all the time, she was "bisexual" but had only ever dated one woman. Her explanation being dating women being so hard. I've also noticed th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:51 AM
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Glad to see at least some deviation from the "women are wonderful" mods, but we'll see if he changes to fit the mold. I hope he is at least under 35. Most of the male mods are geezers. And I think the last demographic survey showed the male posters here were not mostly old men. There's young women on the mod team, it seems like only young men (non simp) were shut out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:06 AM
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Pretentious women. Acting like a princess. Being a know-it-all. This isn't true for many men, but is for many others, looking slutty (especially in the streets) gives the ick. Actually being slutty also gives many men the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:39 AM
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Men outnumber women on apps for sure, because obviously dating is harder for the average man. But part of it too is that women find partners on apps quicker, despite all their complaining about how shitty all the men are to 1) talk down on men, 2) put them in a "woe is woman" position. What happens is that they get on for a week or 2. Date a bunch, then meet a guy and then get off. So for women it is a rotating door and they are never on it for tool long. But greater than 26% of the female popul…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:34 PM
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Only if you twist it in a way that doesn't fit and refuse to consider other examples that are more relevant. I mean I could say the same about you. It isn't like you came up with some amazing treatise here. Just because you want it to be correct doesn't mean it is and no one has any obligation to pretend like it is. I've presented why your rationale doesn't work, while the response has been to say "nuh uh it does" while also refusing to listen to other rationales. Well, maybe other people are re…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:24 PM
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That is what they claim, and IME women like putting themselves in the victim position. So if they want to divorce and don't want to be "responsible" for it, they'll put the blame on the man. One stat I like is that lesbians divorce more than anyone else, and this happens cross-culturally. But I'm sure there's a man they will find a way to blame for that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:02 PM
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Women come here to be pissed off. Why else are they spending hours or even years here with people they 1) look down on, and 2) believe they say such "horrifying" things about them. IME it fits with the general attitude I see among women that they have a need to feel victimized or upset about something to keep themselves going.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:52 PM
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I did not. And why are only your examples relevant? The point I am making is that my example is more applicable because some random lady is more like a "person I don't care about" than your example of a colleague or schoolmate, because you share environments with those people and they have an influence on your life. What you are also missing is that a specific person is not a good metaphor for the discussion about men and women in general. A random person makes more sense. You tried to use a met…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:28 PM
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You think words exist in a vacuum and have no impact outside of words? Your own words in counterpoints contradict this point you’re trying to stick. Except I never said these words that you tried to put in my mouth. But surely you understand that words and actions are different and not the same as you tried to equate to being punched in the face. Words can lead to physical action, or they cannot. Neither necessarily happens. "Hearken" back to my example of some random lady on the street calling …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:17 PM
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Ah yes, because gay men typically act like straight men and are besties with them instead of women so are therefore a good proxy for straight men and not straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:56 AM
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Even in the short clips, it is clear she is getting off on the attention. Which is odd cuz none of the men involved are above a 4. It is funny how inconsequential the attention can be for the women to still be able to get off on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:52 AM
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I'm not, I understand your point. I just don't think it is correct. That is the point. This example is just a metaphor for larger gender dynamics between men and women correct? And men have much more power to reduce the quality of life of women than vice versa, correct? What is not clicking there? You're trying to stick to your "women don't care about men" point as hard as you can even as you contradict it with your own points. In a vacuum, where men and women do not interact, that may be true. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:40 AM
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I think that will also change as ThickFit and PEDs are more common. Like this woman: https://www.reddit.com/r/ThickFit/comments/xkxdoz/sweet_and_salty/. Now if you hid her face, you could totally think her arms and legs belong to a man crossdressing. She "looks like a dude", but she's obv proud of her body. I don't know if she's on PEDs, you could look like her natty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:21 AM
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That is what simping for someone who belongs on the streets gets you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:15 AM
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I didn't say anything about what should happen. All I am saying is that people, whether they be women or black people, are then clearly more pressed about the "other side", even if they want to play it cool and say they don't care about them as much as vice versa. Clearly that isn't the case. The word you used was "pressed". Clearly you are "pressed" because you feel they have some influence over your life, whether it be your livelihood or undermining your entire existence. But in totality, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:14 AM
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So much cringe. https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/xprlua/this_guy_quietly_freaking_out_and_having_his_own/ https://www.tiktok.com/@sanchezzzzzcx/video/7147774886319000874?_t=8W2noybEwzW&_r=1 That is what simping for someone who belongs on the streets gets you lmfao. Like damn, she's not even hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:54 AM
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Ok, and I understand that as your proposal. I am just saying I don't think it holds water. It isn't exactly new either (and before that turns into a debate, I'm not suggesting you think it is a new idea), even in my link about feminist critiques it essentially says the same thing. My point about these things women do in response to the words from people they don't care as much about (in comparison to men), is one of the reasons for why I don't think it holds water. I just don't know too many peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:50 AM
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A lot of women don't even know it has a mind of its own. Yea, sometimes it twitches involuntarily or gets hard involuntarily. But how could a grown woman not know what you're talking about. Even in freshman year of college I think girls expected my dick to be hard just from making out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:47 AM
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Women routinely revel in comparing themselves to men. "I can work as hard as any man" blahblahblah. Younger women also brag about acting like a man, especially when it comes to relationships and stuff. I hear "I'm like a dude because I don't want to commitment, I just want to fuck around" as a point of pride. What they get upset about is if you say they look like a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:42 AM
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That's one theory, but I don't think it holds water. I suppose then women are more pressed about what men say since we don't really hold "fuckboi walks" or reeeee when one of us gets called a "male". I didn't misconstrue anything though... I didn't deny women care less about men which seems to be your main point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:39 AM
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Well, I'm not white either... We all make mistakes, some more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:33 AM
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First, I think you need to learn the difference between inferred and implied. I believe you meant to say I implied, you would have to be the one who inferred. But I didn't imply that. worse end of curse words. And I have a feeling it wasn't men who decided on that placement That doesn't talk about origination of the word. It talks about the placement of cunt in America as the worse end of what to call someone. As for proof, I don't know how to prove "my feeling", but how is this for why my feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:28 AM
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Do you have etymology on first main use of the word? By gender? What? You mean roasties vs scrote? Women in AUS call people cunts too. But yeah, it is a "man" term, which is why I think women in the US have a problem with it. I've used that term in male company and no one gave a shit, but I know better than to say that in front of women because then she makes it a big deal. Not that I've never done it. If they care less about men, why do they care if men are the ones insulting them? Worry about …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:22 AM
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I agree, it is weird that cunt in particular is seen as something that is on the worse end of curse words. And I have a feeling it wasn't men who decided on that placement. I like how the Aussies are so open with calling people cunts. Do that in the US and a bunch of people have a problem with it. Your point is that people who are pressed about being called "females" care less? I don't think that is true. I wish it were true that women cared less about slurs that they had to take "slut walks" or…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:17 AM
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Because for the most part, women just aren't as creative as men in general. Often women just copy men. Even your example of "scrote" is evidence of that. It came up as a mirror term after 4chan or something came up with roasties. And even then scrote doesn't even make sense as an insult, men have scrotums... Not all women have roast beef curtains. I don't even see how "male" is offensive, I wouldn't think twice about it. I've only ever heard women get butthurt about being called "females". It do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:13 AM
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The area of the brain tied to toes is right next to genitals (sensory/cortical homunculus). So in that sense their fetish makes sense. But to me, it signals an abnormal brain wiring, which is what I thought of them before knowing this little tidbit anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:38 AM
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While your title is accurate, your post isn't completely accurate because it doesn't have all that much to do with physique, unless you're with a social media obsessed type of women (which to be fair is a sizable plurality of women below 50 these days IME). It has more to do with height. These days women are calling men who are 6' "too short". I regularly hear legit 5'10'' men being called "too short".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:34 AM
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You too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:36 AM
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Lmao "forced" to be poly. It is unbelievable how many women can't take responsibility for their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:58 PM
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Because it would create more diversity and reverse the cultural hegemony we are seeing now. Westerners are trying to impose the Western cultural zeitgeist worldwide, so having the reverse in the West itself would be a good reversal. It would also be obviously be beneficial in reversing the declining fertility rate. And my point is that the "blank slate" theory is dumb. You are being reductionist in assuming what the differences are. You are also assuming that Western women are superior. The only…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:59 PM
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Not if Western men don't make the same mistake twice. We see parallel societies being formed in Europe, who are more "Westernized". It isn't a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:47 PM
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No, that isn't what I implied. That is what you mistakenly inferred, so how about you take responsibility for that. Show me where I said any of that. I said that is what is going to happen as the trend continues. Everything else is something you made up in your head. And if you don't think non-Western women are culturally different, then you have no idea what you are talking about. We can currently see parallel societies being built where non-Western women do not necessarily act like Western wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:37 PM
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Well seeing as that's not what I said, maybe you could work on your reading comprehension?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:27 PM
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Import in non-Western women and replace the current batch. Sounds like a win honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:14 AM
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I'm seeing a lot more of these posts talking about how they are done interacting with men altogether: 1 2 Sex segregation, just another thing Islam had the jump on. Islam is right about women confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:04 AM
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