ranvier303 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	December 15 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread You say she was an hb9, and yeah that's cool, but what did she do for you to improve your life? Was she just nice to look at and have around or did she actually leave a meaningful impression on you? Women should not only be valued based upon their looks. If the first thing you think about is her looks, then she wasn't that valuable of a mate.	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/17 03:33 PM
5	December 08 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread In review: It's been several weeks since I posted int he progress thread. My last update had me moving forward in my relationship with my side girl, and leaving my ltr because I wanted something different. I was still working on my house and hardly lifting with no strict adherence to my diet. Progress: After some critical introspection with some friends I discovered some things about my past ltr that were major red flags and indicators that may have subconsciously kick-started my need to remove …	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/17 04:26 PM
8	DON'T IMPLY EXCLUSIVITY OR OUTRIGHTLY DECLARE IT Two major points that I see in this post that I wanted to dig out. You're correct in that you shouldn't imply monogamy, nor should you explicitly declare it unless you're honest about your intentions, but you also shouldn't declare that your intentions are to seek poon from another girl at the same time unless she asks. Dread game goes a long way. Let her hamster wheel. Tell her you'll let her know if you sleep with someone else, or just tell her you'll wear a condom. Second point. You lied. You…	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/17 04:01 PM
1	How do you prevent seizing up during dates? Uh, control the close. If you're interested, escalate. If she's been returning your IOIs then segue to isolating; either to your place, her place, or somewhere you're both more comfortable. Alternatively, apply the same tactics you do during text to real life. Don't reply right away. Go silent. If you need time to think, take a long slow drink. Stare her right in her eyes and just wait for her to say something. It's a good way to escalate dialogue to something more sensual.	/r/askTRP	06/12/17 11:01 PM
8	How to Understand Female Nature (And Still Like Them) You won't be able to find a relationship with someone you admire, unless she is looking for someone she can dominate. Most women want someone that can lead them, tell them what they want, stand strong and not be controlled by emotions. The moment you show her any bit of anger, frustration, sadness, or uncertainty you will no longer be the strong rock that she believes you to be and she will begin to separate herself from you because what all women ultimately want is a strong rock to lean against…	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/17 10:24 PM
3	You will get burned. There's a few points that I disagree with here. I think that as a man, it is your fault and your fault alone that you get burned. 1) You shouldn't be the one initiating any sort of relationship. You're negotiating your time, friendship, and sex. If you give her that and she wants more from you, i.e. commitment, she will ask. Don't volunteer it. If you're not ready for that when the question comes up or you don't think she's worthy, let her go. Be true to your intentions. Don't be devious. 2) Sca…	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/17 10:10 PM
2	November 17 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread Progress: I don't know if it's considered progress to be moving forward with ending things with the LTR, but it feels like it. The progress comes from being more honest with myself and maintaining my integrity. I've maintained a 5-day a week gym schedule for the last two weeks. The previous side girl even drug me to the gym at 5 p.m. on Saturday. Green flag. Progress on the home renovation is continuing. Almost to the point where the master bathroom is usable. This week we were able to finish ti…	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/17 03:58 PM
5	Women and Jealousy You don't even need an attractive woman. I was on the phone the other night with the girl I'm currently diggin out, and when the conversation lulled I checked my snapchat and was responding to someone. She heard the tapping on my phone or something and she went nuts and tried to hang up on me because I was "texting another girl" which I never admitted to. But I was lol.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/17 03:54 PM
1	Law 38 explains why a lot of you here are actually struggling. I don't interpret the intentions of the law to indicate that you have to "relate" to other people in society, or actually care about their acceptance. Just to be accepted. The acceptance and ensuing validation is a tool that will aid you in accomplishing your end goal. To desire to separate yourself from society can make you appear as if you are being ruled by your fear of rejection, and takes a valuable tool off the shelf. Use it for what you need, put it back when you're done.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/17 03:30 PM
3	November 03 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread Reflection: Last week I was struggling between letting my LTR go, struggling with an insecure side chick that for some fucking reason I like, and struggling with the stress and anxiety of an extensive home remodel and not having a perfectly comfortable place to stay. Progress: Made the decision to let the LTR go. I stood my ground; I wasn't forceful but I did clearly articulate what I wanted (to be alone) and didn't allow her feelings and emotions to sway me into trying to regain it for a period…	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/17 03:29 PM
1	October 27 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread Positive improvements: Recently bought my first house and started completely renovating the bathrooms. I finished one bathroom enough for me to start moving in. Still have some ways to go. Accomplished a lot at work this week. CEO, VP, and my personal mentor are all very impressed with what I've been able to accomplish in the time I've accomplished it. Side girl tried to leave me because she thought I wouldn't be able to give her what she wants. Managed to turn that around and we went back to he…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/17 01:42 PM
1	October 20 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread The good: Side girl tried to ditch me because she doesn't think I can give her what she wants. Managed to turn that around and went back to her place that night, and she introduced me to her friends that own a local brew house. Told me I'm the best dick she's ever had, and that's an ego pump coming from a slut. Accomplished a lot at work this week. CEO and VP know my name, and mentor is highly impressed with the progress I've made on my project. Today sucked though because I was at girls house u…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/17 01:18 AM