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raptorrage/r/MensRights02/11/13 03:12 AM
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Depends on how much the hospital charges for it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:07 PM
1

Because the bill for the DNA test is gonna be attached to mom's hospital bills lol. If my insurance covered a DNA test, I'd get one done. But no fucking way would I want to pay for one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:06 AM
6

I mean, you can go online and calculate what a child support payment would be in a lot of states. With alimony, if a woman maintains her career, there's not going to be a lot of alimony if there's not a massive income discrepancy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:02 AM
1

You know that people still die in childbirth, right?
/r/MensRights21/03/22 03:11 AM
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Fuck that, if I carry a baby for nine months, I'm not cutting anything off them. I had to work to make that! Also, babies are humans and shouldn't have irreversible changes made to their body, unless it's life, death, or comfort
/r/MensRights08/10/21 09:04 PM
1

I use both Cerave products you do, and Retin-A. They'll pry my foaming cleanser out of my cold, dead hands
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:48 AM
5

Bingo. Not being a dick to people is the key. The heart wants what the heart wants, but you don't need to be derogatory towards people for not meeting specific standards you have for dating. You also need to evaluate whether or not your standards are obtainable, the odds of you meeting a partner that fits them all, and the work you may need to put in to land said dream partner. If it's plausible, keep looking. If it's unlikely, either try to improve yourself or make yourself ok with not settling…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:25 AM
1

Ok, but see how "no fatties" is negative, and "I love a girl who is fit, athletic and as into the gym as I am" is a statement of preference that doesn't demean people that don't fit your preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 02:59 AM
10

I just think that everyone has the right to want what they want, as long as they don't put other people down, and are ok with being alone or not punishing their partner if their standards don't pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 02:54 AM
6

Regardless, we are where we are. If someone isn't into you, why waste time and energy on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 02:47 AM
14

Who gives a fuck if you can change it or not? If someone isn't into you, keep your head up and keep it moving. No one can negotiate someone's attraction, they are or they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 02:43 AM
9

Jews and I believe Muslims practice circumcision. Why are so many Christians circumcising their boys when it's not a religious tradition?
/r/MensRights21/08/19 11:57 AM
9

Dude, I really try not to go all in on this, because a lot of men are circumcised, and I dont want to body shame. But Jesus Christ, they take a newborn and cut off a piece of their perfectly healthy genitals, no anaesthesia for ~aesthetics ~
/r/MensRights21/08/19 11:28 AM
3

Interesting. My father signed the consent form for my brother's, my mother flat out refused to. Then again, this was 30 years ago, but I thought that any parent could sign for their child
/r/MensRights21/08/19 11:24 AM
2

I have a strong preference for +/- 2 inches of my height. It's possible for me to be attracted outside of that range, but much less likely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:53 AM
6

Just like if my husband stepped out of the work force to raise our kids, i should compensate him and make him whole for the hit to his career and earning potential and retirement. If you support your partner's career, you slash your chances of paying alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 03:40 PM
2

Charlie Sheen's lifestyle is very different from the average American's, and thus his obligations are different. In the 2010 Census, the most recent source I could find, the average child support payment was $430. With my parent's incomes in my state, if my siblings and I were under 18, if my dad had his 3 kids for 33% of the time, he would pay $200. ​ That's not even daycare. If the number was pegged to the actual cost of raising a child, it would be a lot worse for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:43 PM
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Apparently my pussy is supposed to be UNICEF? I feel terrible for rape victims and domestic violence victims, and I know that Male victims arent adequately supported or believed. I think homelessness is awful. These are completely separate feelings from wanting to date someone. Feeling bad for someone doesn't get a mentally healthy person into the mindset of wanting to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:49 AM
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And when a guy paper aborts, who do you think will end up picking up the tab?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 01:36 PM
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Nah man, I'm a feminist. You stab someone, you should go to jail. This sentence is absolutely wild and I dont understand whining about your life being fucked up because you're facing consequences your actions
/r/MensRights14/10/18 03:05 PM
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Are they in long term, committed relationships, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 02:07 AM
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Like how is it not policy to have both parties come in and sign?
/r/MensRights24/09/18 08:21 PM
2

That's brutal, man. Do you think a vasectomy would give you any comfort?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 11:32 AM
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Am feminist. Am not scared of sex dolls. I actually feel bad for guys because their sex toys arent as lit as the ones for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 11:25 AM
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Lol, tbh, if you asked me, I'd let you skip.
/r/MensRights16/09/18 09:28 PM
8

Lol, the more comfortable I've gotten with my partner, the freakier shit has gotten
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 06:19 PM
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No, it's not pedophilia. It's still disgusting and criminal, though.
/r/MensRights11/09/18 02:00 PM
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I was saying that men are told that they should man up and do hard jobs, or ones they arent suited to, like women are told to get back in the kitchen by patriarchy. Its damaging for both sides, and it's insane.
/r/MensRights16/08/18 02:39 AM
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I'm a feminist. I am disgusted and horrified by the injustice in the justice system. If I, as a white woman, commit a crime, I am way less likely to go to jail than a black woman or a man in general. Taxes are based on income, so I really have nothing there. We need more teachers and role models in elementary education especially. But it's difficult to convince young men to go into teaching, with low pay and the attitude that theres something wrong with a man who wants to teach. The draft is mor…
/r/MensRights16/08/18 02:35 AM
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Narrow gender roles hurt everyone, yeah, I'm serious
/r/MensRights16/08/18 01:26 AM
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Teachers should make bank. I would flip a desk if I taught kids
/r/MensRights16/08/18 12:21 AM
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Cuz toxic femininity is too damn hard to say. It's damaging to women too, to grow up believing that their gender must define their role in society. Masculinity is beautiful. But teaching people that there's only one, narrow way to be a man is damaging
/r/MensRights16/08/18 12:20 AM
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That's not feminism, that's patriarchy. A real man should be out there in business or coal mines and theres something wrong with a guy that wants to nurture. This is how patriarchy hurts men and women
/r/MensRights16/08/18 12:17 AM
1

They stayed together. I dont really know the nitty gritty, but my mom was upset by that
/r/MensRights28/07/18 01:16 PM
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I understand. You run the same risk calling yourself an MRA
/r/MensRights28/07/18 01:21 AM
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I do call myself a feminist. I'm strongly invested in the rights of women, and I'm cognizant of women's history. I just believe that equality is good for everyone. When men are more free to be who they are, women benefit and vice versa
/r/MensRights28/07/18 01:11 AM
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Lol, hello! I believe that by eradicating the idea that women cant be leaders and men cant be nurturers, we're all going to be happier. We're getting to the point where a woman can be a CEO and most people will respect that, but if a guy wants to be a kindergarten teacher, lots of people think he's a molester
/r/MensRights28/07/18 12:47 AM
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Yeah, my mom is a nurse and refused to sign the paperwork to circumcise my brother because she knew what the procedure was. My dad did
/r/MensRights22/07/18 01:58 PM
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Ok, but biology doesn't care about equality. Women get the opt out of abortion because it's their body that will have to go through pregnancy, labor and delivery. A woman that births a baby should be able to adopt it out and not pay, because the adoptive parents have assumed responsibility, or give custody to the father of he wants and pay child support. If she doesn't, shes a deadbeat
/r/MensRights17/06/18 09:30 PM
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See, it should be both or neither. I dont think the draft should exist, but if it does, men and would should both be eligible.
/r/MensRights21/04/18 01:47 AM
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Or learning to love the body you're in. It's the only one you're ever gonna get, and when you love your body and accept it, you make healthier choices.
/r/MensRights14/04/18 01:17 AM
1

Well, yeah. It stems from the idea that all men want sex all the time, so there's something wrong with men that dont desire you. It also objectifies people because their thoughts and feelings don't matter to you, they're a means to an end
/r/MensRights14/04/18 01:16 AM
1

Because I personally disagree with statistics, I will completely falsify them to suit my own purposes. Let me do the same thing: how many men do you think would suddenly be pro choice when it impacts them?
/r/MensRights09/04/18 02:32 AM
1

Right? I'll be damned if I give up my right to bodily autonomy for someone's convenience and money.
/r/MensRights09/04/18 02:26 AM
4

Would you want someone to take a picture of your junk while you're at work and post it on the internet?
/r/MensRights12/02/18 04:49 AM
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Women have had to deal with being objectified for years, and that's not right. But objectifying men is equally as wrong. Why can't they just have pictures of them winning?
/r/MensRights11/02/18 09:02 PM
1

Just because women aren't making the first move on you, doesn't mean they aren't at all. I saw my fiance on a dating website, messaged him first and asked him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 08:01 AM
1

There was a gigantic dude on a field hockey team I played against. Kilt and all
/r/MensRights18/10/17 03:53 PM
1

I have no idea how boy scouts is still around. Their popcorn is gross. But then again, I've just given a scout the money for it instead of taking it. That's probably their hustle
/r/MensRights18/10/17 03:52 PM
2

Or the highly educated people put off having a child for years, while uneducated people have a couple
/r/MensRights26/01/17 09:35 PM
4

Jail is just a room.
/r/MensRights26/01/17 07:42 PM
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Do you know how fucked up it is to have your assault, something that completely changed your ability to love, trust and form healthy adult relationships, called "hot" or "lucky"? It's fucking dehumanizing
/r/MensRights26/01/17 06:05 PM
4

Like, was Elizabeth smart and the dude that kidnapped her a "blossoming romance"?
/r/MensRights26/01/17 06:04 PM
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Yeah, she's hot af. But there's no way that relationship could be healthy, or non manipulative. Think about how easily you could manipulate a kid
/r/MensRights26/01/17 06:00 PM
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Almost as if he'd been groomed by an adult in a position of power over him.
/r/MensRights26/01/17 05:59 PM
9

Homosexual doesn't hurt anyone. With how many goddamned people there are in the world, we need people to stop reproducing. Gay people can have healthy, loving, supportive relationships. An adult and a child is only ever abuse and coercion
/r/MensRights26/01/17 05:58 PM
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Hurr durr, boner means he wants it! All of my rage. This kid got sexually assaulted
/r/MensRights26/01/17 05:56 PM
10

Yeah, I mean, this kid is only gonna feel complicit in his victimization, nbd
/r/MensRights26/01/17 05:54 PM
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You really don't see anything wrong with an adult fucking a child?
/r/MensRights26/01/17 04:57 PM
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A child cannot consent to sex with an adult. A child especially cannot consent to sex with an adult in a position of power over them. This makes it rape. She knew the law and chose to be a predator. Let her rot.
/r/MensRights26/01/17 04:56 PM
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The fetus could become viable. It could not. But it's not an unborn child, it's a fetus or blastocyst
/r/MensRights21/01/17 08:46 PM
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What would be a legitimate reason to force someone to carry a pregnancy against their will?
/r/MensRights21/01/17 08:38 PM
5

It's her body.
/r/MensRights21/01/17 08:36 PM
0

Because people like you call it killing s child, and flip out if they think you're "too flippant" about it
/r/MensRights21/01/17 08:33 PM
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Because she told you, she's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 02:59 AM
0

Would you date someone equally as overweight as you? Doesn't matter what she calls it, you probably wouldn't be interested
/r/MGTOW21/08/16 04:17 PM
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Feminism can't really shout them down internally because they're like our version of abortion clinic bombers. they're fucking lunatics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 10:50 PM
3

Well, there are food stamps recipients who vote straight republican, so who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 03:52 AM
3

So you don't think that's sketchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 12:05 AM
1

Spin plates!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:56 PM
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Totally alpha. You tell 'em
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 04:52 AM
3

Any partner who purposely remains unemployed/doesn't contribute while the family is struggling is a shitbird.
/r/MensRights04/07/16 09:51 PM
0

Who is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:16 PM
3

What do you think "legal" means?
/r/MensRights29/03/16 06:30 AM
12

Because the teacher is in a position of power over him. He can't freely consent
/r/MensRights29/03/16 03:01 AM
1

What about first nations if you don't know the tribe?
/r/MensRights28/03/16 11:02 AM
9

It's dangerous for any partner that earns substantially more and/or has a partner out of the work force to their benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 11:37 PM
1

That's still way too little :( poor kid
/r/MensRights19/02/16 01:12 PM
4

Right? Like, I can get being freaked out your kid is sexually active, or worry about them getting hurt, but to shoot a kid for consensual sex? It smacks of a husband finding out his wife's cheating and snapping
/r/MensRights15/02/16 04:54 AM
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It's still creepy as fuck
/r/MensRights15/02/16 04:53 AM
4

It doesn't make you an asshole, unless you start denying it happened or insist they're broken forever or somehow complicit in their rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 07:12 PM
1

Well, yeah. They don't want their profession demeaned and care about kids. It is hilarious to watch super patient, nice people just Lord of the Flies someone
/r/MensRights08/01/16 08:11 PM
3

Guarantee this woman's coworkers all want her ass fired
/r/MensRights08/01/16 08:04 PM
4

But his son is a minor with developmental issues. Couldn't you argue he was recording on his sons behalf? Either way, they've got her on tape abusing a child. Chrissakes, fire her.
/r/MensRights08/01/16 07:57 PM
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How many dudes do you know gloss over the fact that their girls hit them? Do you think they'd immediately jump to calling it domestic violence? I think it helps to outline the behavior and then tell people it's domestic violence
/r/MensRights08/01/16 07:39 PM
2

Yep. We desperately need to reach out to gay men about domestic violence
/r/MensRights08/01/16 07:24 PM
2

Kinda hope it's some cash strapped non profit trying to cover all their bases for as cheap as possible haha
/r/MensRights08/01/16 07:05 PM
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I had that happen to me. Call 911 every single time your partner threatens suicide, then drop it. If they're doing it to manipulate you, it doesn't give them any emotional benefit. If they really are gonna do it, hopefully they get the help they need.
/r/MensRights08/01/16 07:02 PM
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I think it's helpful, and easier to admit, though. It's a big step to admit you're terrified of your girlfriend's abuse, and think it'll escalate with a breakup.
/r/MensRights08/01/16 07:01 PM
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Wouldn't they be covered if they had a "I'm scared of him" poster? I think lgbt relationships really suffer with recognizing abuse because a lot of the abuse models are a man beating up a woman. Really, anyone can be the victim or perpetrator :/
/r/MensRights08/01/16 06:52 PM
4

...seems like no one ever has wanted to pay alimony.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 11:49 AM
3

Because men will chase to get laid. People are as lazy as they an get away with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 02:45 AM
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So work on your openings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:30 PM
2

Okay, perhaps I'm not seeing the full flavor. But any time I've looked around in red pill, I've seen virgin shaming, misogyny, misandry. In blue pill, I've seen posts about racism, homophobia, transphobia, rape and domestic abuse. It's terrible. No, seeing someone as a jerk isn't seeing them as a monster. It's seeing them as a human who could do better, but chooses to wallow in their self pity, bigotry and bullshit. Red pillers aren't irredeemable monsters. They're misguided and immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:27 PM
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I don't really see much of red pill that isn't hateful and pathetic. I don't think you guys are monsters. I think red pillers are just emotionally crippled jerks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:14 PM
3

Dress in clean clothes that fit and flatter you, smell good, exercise, find out what you bring to the table and capitalize on it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 02:01 PM
5

Do you give people of similar attraction levels a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 01:55 PM
1

You can't leave that out here, because there's a massive range of beliefs here haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 01:53 PM
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Fb likes aren't true validation and I don't get this thread's obsession with them haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 01:51 PM
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And how do y'all speak about women? You're getting judged for being an asshole, you judge me for having a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 01:51 PM
3

But the prostitutes doesn't desire you or even necessarily like you. She's just willing to fuck you for money. I can see how you. an get validation from sex, but struggle to understand how paying someone to have sex with you provides validation. Would you say it's equal to, greater than, or less than sex with a non prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 01:47 PM
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I've had gay men think it was ok to grab my tits because they're not attracted to women. For some reason, boundaries get real fuzzy in the gay community. It's fucked up you have random girls groping on you. You're obviously not there for that and they didn't ask. Sorry man :/
/r/MensRights01/11/15 05:11 AM
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Yep. Every gay bar I've gone to has had a clot of straight girls that are dancing and getting wasted. I have had guys at gay bars grope my chest or grind on me. Some people are slobs, and usually get shamed out of there.
/r/MensRights01/11/15 05:08 AM
3

...is it for arson?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 06:55 AM
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Interesting. I'm blue pill, but I think you're entitled to want whatever you want. If you can't date who you'd like, lower your standards, improve, or give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 06:55 AM
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Yeah, I'm sure that's the vast majority of alimony cases.
/r/MensRights23/10/15 02:25 PM
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Not really. I accept if guys don't want to date legbeards, because I expect them to accept my choice of not dating neckbeards.
/r/MensRights23/10/15 01:21 AM
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Nah, I'll demand they call me Mr. When I get my bachelor's degree.
/r/MensRights23/10/15 01:20 AM
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Eh. I don't think anyone should need alimony when they have a well paying job and the marriage was 20 months. Now if he quit tennis for her, yeah, she should pay. She probably will end up settling to make him go away
/r/MensRights23/10/15 01:19 AM
-1

But you make those choices in the framework of the relationship. If I took my boyfriend out of the job market, and then we broke up, I'd try to spot him until he got on his feet
/r/MensRights23/10/15 01:18 AM
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It's a little childish, buddy
/r/MensRights23/10/15 01:16 AM
1

You have the right to make whatever boundaries you want in who you date, and the women you want to date are free to do the same.
/r/MensRights23/10/15 01:14 AM
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Mwobuddy. Such maturity. Brings a tear to my eye with the majesty of it. Mwobuddy
/r/MensRights23/10/15 01:12 AM
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There was one guy who said that Reddit posts are activism lol. Every once in a while I cruise through and see if anyone is doing anything constructive, then cruise out when they aren't. I was excited to see the link for donations for the trafficking center
/r/MensRights23/10/15 01:10 AM
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I will look into it, but I'm busy right now.
/r/MensRights23/10/15 12:04 AM
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What about it?
/r/MensRights22/10/15 09:03 PM
-2

Lol, no, you don't get it. The amount of research I would need to do to see if this is accurate is unreal. You may as well post an article about BatBoy
/r/MensRights22/10/15 09:03 PM
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A voice for men is absolutely not an unbiased source.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 07:36 PM
1

You wouldn't know an improvement if it bit you, as you've never worked for one. Come on, prove me wrong and do something.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 07:00 PM
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Like, why the fuck did they need to be naked. the heart picture would be adorable if the boys were wearing clothes
/r/MensRights22/10/15 04:11 PM
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I don't think it can all be summed up as attraction. I think a lot of it is definitely that women give birth and men do not. I also think people are still caught in the idea that a guy can just get a job and support his family... But we don't have factory or steel mills anymore.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 04:09 PM
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I wouldn't want non sexual nude photos of myself posted, so I don't get why people do it to kids. It's an invasion of their privacy. Also, the definition of a pedophile is someone who is able to sexualize someone that shouldn't be, so who knows what they'll be sexualizing? I don't understand the need to be posting pictures of your child naked.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:47 PM
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I don't think so. I'd argue that boys are uniquely disadvantaged by school. They've shown it's harder for boys to sit still and hold pencils than it is for girls of the same age. I think our current school system sets boys up to hate school and it all snowballs. So you're rowdy and have a hard time focusing. Your teacher is constantly on you to pay attention. School isn't fun, you get punished all the time. When you hit 5th/6th grade, and start to have the power to ditch school, wouldn't you be …
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:44 PM
2

I've seen it swing totally the other way. The most involved dad I know didn't have a dad growing up. He was determined to break that cycle
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:40 PM
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I think it's reasonable in cases where one partner gave up their career for the other. I knew a guy who quit his job to be a military spouse, and his wife got moved a ton so he never really had a solid, long term job. When they split up, she paid him off because he would have had a job if it wasn't for following her career around.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:31 PM
-1

I'd hope that a gender reversed version of this would get laughed out of court.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:29 PM
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You should not ask a child in your care to take their clothes off unless you're cleaning them or are concerned about their health. You don't just strip kids naked for no fucking reason.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:27 PM
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Unfortunately, child abuse imagery (in America) must be sexualized in order to count as that. It makes me deeply uncomfortable to see naked butt baby pictures, but they aren't illegal. This is really sick and an invasion of privacy, but she'll probably get away with the "it's art" excuse because they're not doing anything explicit. She needs to lose her job, never be around kids and be in jail.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:25 PM
2

So start up a fatherhood group. A place near me has one, and it's amazing! Dads helping dads and talking about what it means to be a father and how to put a successful plan in place. We get them sometimes for ged tutoring
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:22 PM
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Women that have low self esteem and low confidence can attract partners, but usually not quality partners. They're more likely to be involved with an abuser, and it's the same for men. Dating doesn't usually fix their issues, it exacerbates them.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:20 PM
1

What do you think is wrong with football? The risk of injury, or is it a moral thing?
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:15 PM
0

So talk to hr and ask for some men's health programming!
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:13 PM
3

Exactly. You have to nag and beg people to get them. Mammograms suck, but it's not having a camera shoved up for rumpus or having a piece of your cervix snipped off
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:01 PM
0

How can you tell?
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:00 PM
3

Please find an example of someone who got life long alimony after a 20 month marriage. That seems super strange. Also, no one cares how you think she looks.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 02:33 PM
3

No, there have been people that beat prenups. But yeah, she's probably going to end up paying, and that's why you shouldn't marry a stranger. However, she should only pay a minimal amount and only for a short time
/r/MensRights22/10/15 02:30 PM
2

Try fucking colonoscopies and pap smears. ugh.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 02:21 PM
0

Yeah. GIST isn't sexy and isn't all that common. But it's important to me!
/r/MensRights22/10/15 02:20 PM
0

And men can totally push for it to be trendy for prostate cancers!
/r/MensRights22/10/15 02:11 PM
1

Honestly, usually I get fed up by mouthy keyboard warriors like you, and wander off to fun subs
/r/MensRights22/10/15 06:09 AM
0

Hey, no shit. Maybe letters to both?
/r/MensRights22/10/15 05:13 AM
1

I have discussed men's rights, women's rights. Reddit is just fun. I work to change stuff in my day to day, actual life.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 05:08 AM
-1

Stupid question, but is the nfl really active in September? Mlb might be more visible because it's close to the world series. Want to start a petition to them?
/r/MensRights22/10/15 05:05 AM
1

Then don't complain when nothing changes.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 04:57 AM
1

I understand about depletion, and being exhausted from being around people, and working all the time and being broke as fuck. I choose to work a little harder in order to make a better world. You prefer to rip people apart for it. You do you, but I don't respect it.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 04:46 AM
2

Dude, try tinder, after you break up with your girl. Your needs aren't getting met and it doesn't seem like a good fit. You should also avoid sleeping with iv drug users, that shit is extremely dangerous. We all have emotional and physical needs. Are you still with your girlfriend?
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:59 AM
10

I mean, he did sign a prenuptial. But Damn, they're broken a lot. I don't think anyone should get alimony if they didn't quit their job to stay home with children, or for the benefit of their spouse. I think Halle Berry's husband stayed at home with the kids, so she needs to pay him off. But a 20 month marriage doesn't really require an extensive payday, though it'll probably cost her. This is why we date for more than six months.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:54 AM
1

I work two jobs and go to school full time. I definitely get being tired. But some things are worth fighting for.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:49 AM
6

Idk, they're pretty disgraceful about how they treat concussions. I don't think they really care about their players. A child is a way more sympathetic character than an old guy.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:46 AM
2

So plan something next September! It's hard to get stuff off the ground, but if you need help writing a proposal, please pm me!
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:45 AM
0

Yeah, but when you have a massively popular charity like komen, and then one that piggybacks off it like the Breast Cancer Foundation, it's a no brainer. We need to have a big push towards cancers of all kinds, and promote awareness. Maybe write the MLB and ask them to wear light blue ribbons in September?
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:43 AM
0

Yeah, but it may explain why they didn't jump to fine the first guy. Still, you can't selectively enforce policies.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:40 AM
0

What are three tangible outcomes from your Reddit posting? Go to a health coalition meeting. Write a guide to men's health and how to stay healthy. The organization I volunteer with has a fatherhood group, and they always need mentors. You can tutor men that need help getting their geds.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 03:35 AM
0

Or that the girl was currently battling cancer and the father had died? Or maybe that he was selling them? It's fucked up to fine one but not the other, but I don't envy their position.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 02:55 AM
0

That's a really good excuse to sit your ass on the couch and not do anything.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 02:54 AM
0

So start a grassroots prostate cancer charity! That's what the Koman foundation started off as. I'm looking at putting on a run for GIST, my pet issue, in my community.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 02:53 AM
2

Go to a therapist, instead of punishing half the world because of your abuse. It's not good for you to carry anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 01:28 AM
2

Do you really thing it's long term healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 11:30 PM
2

Your real world experiences don't count, obviously. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:19 PM
7

That's like saying if I leave my boyfriend, he'll rape and torture me and kill me. Some people do that, but they're in the vast minority
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 02:49 PM
10

Well, if someone is facilitating me building a career by staying at home with our child, I should make up for the monetary disadvantage
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 07:09 PM
2

Kinda lame. Hold the door for everyone, don't be a dick. If you treat everyone well, I'll respect you more. When it comes to chivalry, I believe in the strong helping the weak. today I loaded 10 60# bags of concrete for an older man, because I was better suited for it. That makes sense, instead of him refusing to let me help him because I'm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 03:06 AM
4

If they're creepy and feel entitled to a dude for just hanging around, mock away. Mocking behavior is always ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 03:00 AM
8

You're honestly difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 04:20 PM
6

Your grammar is mortifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 04:06 PM
2

People who are capable of work should work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 10:16 PM
2

That's not how it works for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 09:46 PM
3

Or getting a goddamn job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 06:54 PM
3

Attractive isn't going to put diapers on her kid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 05:55 PM
4

Oh man, you should hear me rip on my cousin. Way to get pregnant when you live with mommy and daddy and work less than eight hours a week. Really bang up job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 04:16 PM
9

But I also don't think anyone should be taking care of grown ass women, either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 03:13 PM
2

I'm 5'4", and have dated two men shorter than me. I like the proportions more, I thinj
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 10:21 PM
1

I would tell her that falsely accusing someone of rape is a monstrous thing. She can easily smear him for being a cheater. If she went through with it, I'd kick her out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 02:48 PM
7

For real. That's not a natural reaction. She's either crazy, or he's a pig. My cousin has to post fb shoutouts to get her husband to change the kid's diapers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 05:41 PM
-2

If they beat the shit out of someone, yea.
/r/MensRights04/05/15 08:53 PM
-9

I think any violent offender should have to register.
/r/MensRights04/05/15 07:17 PM
3

Because of the awful shit they say, which is what people are mocking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/15 04:01 PM
3

/r/niceguys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/15 03:44 PM
10

Or, I'd like to be able to pay the mortgage if something happened to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 05:59 AM
3

I'm 5'4", and have dated two men shorter than me. I tend to like shorter dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/15 04:38 PM
24

Oh come on. How about talking to the manager first?
/r/MensRights01/04/15 03:18 PM
5

I don't get this love the skin you're in being an excuse to be wildly unhealthy. Loving your body is treating it well
/r/MensRights01/04/15 12:23 AM
3

I think it's common for lazy, complacent fucks of both genders to let themselves go. I think people are more forgiving of beer guts
/r/MensRights01/04/15 12:22 AM
5

It would be a great idea, if it was saying that you can try to eat healthy and exercise and take care of your body at any weight. But slobs use it as an excuse to be 600 pounds and insist that people can't criticize their health choices AND have to find them attractive
/r/MensRights01/04/15 12:05 AM
2

If your husband gets super fat and tells you he'll divorce you if you won't fuck him, let his pork ass go.
/r/MensRights31/03/15 11:59 PM
7

Are you kidding me? You took for funsies viagra and didn't jerk off? I'd be all over that
/r/MensRights31/03/15 11:51 PM
13

Viagra only works if you're aroused. She's not gonna be happy when even meds don't work
/r/MensRights31/03/15 11:50 PM
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Plenty of women are told to suck dick to keep their man happy or just take one for the team and fuck him. But that's wrong too. If you turn into a fat fuck, you need to understand if your SO doesn't want to fuck
/r/MensRights31/03/15 11:49 PM
4

Dude, my record is a ten pound swing.
/r/MensRights31/03/15 11:47 PM
1

Good God. I went through the same rejection you did and it didn't make me a crybaby.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 11:01 AM
1

Is it your dream?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 02:40 AM
4

You're still upset over high school girls not wanting to have sex with you? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 02:34 AM
2

Are you attractive/groomed? It's great you want to express yourself, but looking like a hobo usually isn't a turn on. You need to decide whether dating or self expression is a bigger priority. Try harder to go places metal heads congregate. Go to raves and festivals and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 09:34 PM
-4

Better call a bitch for getting fucked over by the law!
/r/MensRights26/11/14 02:21 AM
5

Not her fault. Agitate for change, but don't revel in other people's misfortune. Your parents should have taught you better
/r/MensRights26/11/14 02:11 AM
9

Has she ever taken a shit load of child support from someone? It's obnoxious to gloat like that
/r/MensRights26/11/14 12:37 AM
4

Should try it. Boyfriend and I adore it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 05:45 PM
1

Jack Black is one of my biggest celebrity crushes. My boyfriend is soft, fuzzy, and warm. It's awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 11:29 PM
0

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 09:40 PM
1

My boyfriend is 200 pounds heavier than me. I'm attracted to and in love with him. I have a skinny dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 05:06 PM
1

Holy shit, I have sex because I like it, I like making him feel good, I like feeling good, it's affectionate and there's bonding. I would hate sex to pay for a commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/14 08:11 PM
1

My parents too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/14 08:09 PM
0

Did she ask you to marry her? What my boyfriend values is probably different from what you value, but it's more important for me to please him than you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/14 08:09 PM
5

Isn't the 50% divorce stat driven up by multiple divorcees?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/14 12:44 PM
6

It's unrealistic to have a high partner count and expect a mate with a low partner count is what I should have said. Same goes for fat to fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/14 12:10 PM
2

I still think it's an issue when people bring racist elements into attraction. If I want someone to be my big black stud, or my Asian waifu, or my little slavegirl, THAT's where it gets really, really fucked up. Using stereotypes instead of looking at the person is annoying. I've had my race fetishized, though it's more rare, and it grosses me out. If you want to date me because I'm white, not because I'm me, that's an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/14 11:37 PM
1

That's fair. I think that I'm better off having sex with very few people, because of how I see sex. That's what I've chosen to do. However,some people have a ton of partners and seem OK. I think it depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/14 11:04 PM
6

But then that also means that a male who behaves the same way would be a bad bet for a relationship, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/14 10:09 PM
5

See, my issue with the preference for Asians is WHY they prefer them. If you like their hair, eyes, skin, things that are typically phenotypes of Asians, great. If you attribute certain personality traits to them, universally, that's where it gets weird. I also think that if you want someone for a low partner count, you should also keep your partner count low.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/14 10:07 PM
1

Eh, I definitely chose to take them out. But yeah, I'm in quite a bit of debt. Oh well, I'll pay it back
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/14 09:53 PM
5

Love, affection, companionship, my eternal loyalty, the ability to have children, and being truly committed to each other, and building a life together. Marriage is a promise for forever, while dating is a promise for the here and now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/14 09:42 PM
4

Oh my God, my boyfriend made noises about wanting to propose, so I was going to sit him down with my financial picture. I want to pay down my student loans, at least somewhat, before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/14 09:39 PM
2

/r/mensrights
/r/MensRights06/04/14 12:26 AM
4

Yeah, it's interesting. However, this subreddit can fuck right off. After dealing with them posting the article encouraging women to thank men for street harassment, and then the guy who backhandedly made fun of me for being molested by my sister, I'm about done with this sub.
/r/MensRights05/04/14 11:35 PM
1

Rephrase that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/14 08:18 PM
1

You don't have to follow the fad. If you want someone with a low partner count, have a low partner count.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/14 11:41 PM
1

I disagree. I have a low partner count, and would not be interested in someone who has been promiscuous. We would probably have very different values/ideas about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/14 11:32 PM
3

If you see higher value in people that aren't promiscuous to the point that you wouldn't marry a non-virgin, why didn't you keep that value for your spouse? It goes against the golden rule. Is it fair to be a crackhead who wants a drug free partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/14 10:44 PM
1

/u/EatsTinyBaldBabies has accused a couple people of being SRStrolls before. I think he means has some SRS ideals, not actually posts there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/14 10:43 PM
2

So why would a girl with a low body count want you? I think that someone who chose to sleep with a limited number of people would be turned off by someone who was very promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/14 10:42 PM
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Why? It's not like they can change their number. There's nothing wrong with someone who decides that they would personally be uncomfortable with someone with a high partner count. It can certainly disqualify you as a romantic partner for some people. But if you decide that someone's count, high or low, allows you to degrade them as a person, fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/14 10:38 PM
4

Sweet personal attack. It's really classy and furthers the debate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/14 08:05 PM
1

Yeah, making it so that men have absolutely no consequences for irresponsibility? That's bullshit. Condoms are pretty damn good. You can use a condom and pull out for extra safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 09:46 PM
1

100% in control of the shitty choices she has to make.if you don't want to be along for the ride, work out a birth control plan with your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 09:33 PM
1

Spermicidal condoms are pretty damn good, if you use them right. If both parties use protection and it fails, why is it only on the woman's head?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 09:29 PM
1

It's not right to force someone to undergo a medical procedure to convenience you. Keep your seed out of other people to prevent it being an issue. What kimd of protection do you use?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 09:09 PM
1

I don't think that people having one night stands excuses them from responsibility if they make a child. It's not cool to 100% put it on the woman, when it was a 50/50 decision to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 06:07 PM
1

See I think it should be assumed until he opts out, before a pregnancy happens. If I thought he would ditch me with a baby, why would I fuck him? Tons of girls are having sex with dudes that would fuck off into the night if they got pregnant because the guys aren't being upfront. If you don't sit your partner down and discuss it, you deserve the consequences from your lack of foresight
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 10:24 AM
2

Ok, how could I prove it, if lps was legal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 10:17 AM
2

And I shouldn't have to do something I consider horrifying for your financial fragility. What about my boyfriend and I? Should he get to opt out and run, though he chose to have sex with me, knowing the risk of fatherhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 09:51 AM
1

Really fucked up. My sister gave my nephew up for adoption. It hurt me and it wasn't even my baby. Not an option for me, and neither is abortion, but my partner knows
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 09:26 AM
0

And an abortion would irreparably harm me, and a lot of women I know. Some women feel relieved after, some are numb, and some regret them forever. You trying to scare and bully someone into making a decision that they might regret forever, by using the fact that they're scared and upset is disgusting and manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 09:01 AM
1

So if it's someone you had talked to about abortion/adoption, and you knew they wouldn't give the kid up/abort, would you still feel like you should financially abort? Humor mr here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 08:22 AM
1

Would you be pissed at yourself for getting yourself in that situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 08:12 AM
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Ok, and if she doesn't abort, there would br no consequences for the man, right? He could live his life as usual as she supports his kid. Wouldn't you be ashamed if you did that to someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 07:34 AM
2

And what consequence would the man have, as the woman had to struggle to support a kid? Do you think men should pay for half of an abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 06:29 AM
3

I have no problem paying for people that can't support their kids. Paying for people who won't would gall me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 06:28 AM
2

I don't see the logic in foisting all the responsibility on a guy who was just trying to get laid and randomly got hit with something largely out of his control. I don't see the logic in foisting all the responsibility on me as a taxpayer. Why should I pay for babies I didn't fuck for because their daddies ignored the fact that sex makes babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 05:47 AM
2

And what consequences eill the male have for making the same decision to fuck out of wedlock?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/14 05:44 AM
1

Yep
/r/MensRights07/02/14 02:11 AM
1

Broken link, for me on mobile anyways
/r/MensRights07/02/14 12:54 AM
-2

So write the UN and its ambassadors and ask for a men's mutilation day.
/r/MensRights07/02/14 12:53 AM
9

Go for it. Want to quote ROK articles and shitty Jezebel at each other all day or admit that sometimes, people can be shitty regardless of gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/14 09:39 PM
14

Can you show me the "10 reasons to date a guy with an eating disorder" article on Jezebel? Of course there are going to be people that criticize the other gender on both sides. I don't support anyone who claims that a gender only has value because of their genitals, or that 50% of the world is incapable of logic or thought. It is insulting to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/14 09:32 PM
5

Holy shit. Is it bad that I was hoping that something was really wrong with him? I can't imagine being sane in a mental hospital. It's weird that the hospital isn't advocating for him, but the court dropped the ball so hard. Shame on them.
/r/MensRights23/01/14 05:20 PM
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We need to be passionate and angry about issues, but refrain from name calling. Calling someone a cunt is useless. Telling someone about their willingness to quietly go along with the status quo, despite it being wrong, and telling them they really need to think about it may help.
/r/MensRights23/01/14 05:17 PM
2

Philadelphia is kinda a mess when it comes to law enforcement. They recently got in trouble for nickel rides because some white guy died.
/r/MensRights23/01/14 01:38 PM
0

Or like, real courtroom justice. She needs to go to jail, if the news report was accurate.
/r/MensRights23/01/14 01:36 PM
0

I'm making fun of you because you used fempire, and were serious. So you think that it's wrong to make fun of people that think that everytime a woman cuts her hair short, it's a middle finger to all men, and bloodstained cargo shorts are sexy?
/r/MensRights22/01/14 12:19 AM
1

Eh. I haven't ever really heard of a good quality one. Real dolls are probably a bit better, but more of a pia. Pocket pussies are cool, and some of them have different texture sleeves
/r/MensRights22/01/14 12:10 AM
1

So how do you feel about red pill? They're in the manosphere
/r/MensRights22/01/14 12:02 AM
0

That's bluepill, which makes fun of neckbeards that think they have to be monsters to get laid
/r/MensRights21/01/14 11:41 PM
1

No, you guys should get something nicer and easier to clean. Male sex toys are way behind female's
/r/MensRights21/01/14 10:23 PM
5

Dude, you can't trust your partner to not have an aneurysm or get hit by a car or die suddenly. Shit happens, and being a mom means you need to be able to support your kids just in case.
/r/MensRights21/01/14 10:12 PM
1

Dude, I'm an egalitarian, so I identify with both. If this is what truly, deeply makes you happy, you need to figure out a way to pursue it. Both movements should be all about options, and childrearing should go to the partner that's best/most excited to do it.
/r/MensRights21/01/14 10:11 PM
2

I've told my boyfriend that he could only have sex with me if he requested I ride his "bologna pony" (pronounced baloney pony, it rhymes). There's a ton of silliness in English too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/14 05:52 PM
2

Devil's advocate: Is it right to chemically castrate a chronic sex offender so that they can't offend anymore?
/r/MensRights14/01/14 10:27 AM
1

Many of them don't falsely accuse people of crimes. There are a few that do, but they're rare.
/r/MensRights10/01/14 07:58 AM
1

But seriously, no student, besides a complete whackjob would threaten her academic standing and connections by falsely accusing a guy of rape for funsies. False rape accusations aren't exceptionally common.
/r/MensRights10/01/14 06:49 AM
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He wants the government to pay for him to go clubbing.
/r/MensRights10/01/14 06:39 AM
1

This looks like an infomercial for divorce. I would not advise anyone to use the strategies in a random book if using an actual lawyer is an option.
/r/MensRights10/01/14 06:36 AM
0

Maybe just reserve judgement until we have all the facts, hmm? You have no goddamn clue went on behind closed doors in their relationship. Maybe he was abusive. Maybe she was. The issue is that it looked like her ex contacted her, and since she had a restraining order, she reported it. A restraining order doesn't mean that you can just email your ex, or google plus your ex. She wasn't supposed to be contacted by him at all. I'm sure you can voluntarily send out evites to stuff. I'm not saying ra…
/r/MensRights10/01/14 05:51 AM
1

Well, he was not supposed to contact her at all. It's not her problem to figure it out. She probably isn't a heavy google plus user, because no one is. She didn't abuse him. She held him to the terms of the restraining order.
/r/MensRights10/01/14 01:29 AM
1

It looked like her ex was contacting her and disobeying the restraining order. She didn't whoop on him or anything. Jesus.
/r/MensRights10/01/14 12:00 AM
5

Where did it say she was abusive? She certainly wasn't a class act here, but I didn't see anything about abuse.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 08:12 PM
3

They were right next to each other. There's been a lot of Facebook posts on here too.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 11:18 AM
1

Which one?
/r/MensRights09/01/14 09:01 AM
4

This isn't attacking feminism. It's bitching about Facebook posts.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 08:38 AM
7

It sure is depressing. It's fucking tragic. But as a movement, we need to make sure that rape victims that need help get it. That should be a higher priority than spite peeing.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 08:32 AM
1

Well, she was contacted via his account, while she had a no contact order. The judge should drop this once he figures out how it happened, but he should have unfriended her on google +, just because he had a restraining order against him.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 08:25 AM
8

As a movement, are we seriously getting butthurt about shit on facebook? It doesn't do any good. Either try to change the views of the person that posted it, or try to change the laws that make it easier for men to be kept from their kids.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 08:22 AM
-3

And on here, a post about being raped by an ex has 67 upvotes, while one about peeing standing up because feminists ask you to sit has 217.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 08:05 AM
2

So the only thing that keeps you from raping everyone you see is it being illegal? Bullshit. Immoral is immoral, and it is wrong to falsely accuse someone of rape.
/r/MensRights02/01/14 02:17 AM
-3

A lot of MRA think that all women are a heartbeat away from a false rape accusation
/r/MensRights01/01/14 11:04 PM
0

Trolling or crackpot?
/r/MensRights01/01/14 10:54 PM
2

I think that people who are determined to be a princess would find any justification for it. If you want your marriage to be a Disney movie, you're too immature to marry.
/r/MensRights01/01/14 10:53 PM
18

Wait a minute, he's trying to get his wages garnished and they won't do it? Wtf? He's trying to give his kid money and they aren't letting him. This is ridiculous
/r/MensRights31/12/13 10:00 PM
1

Men are brutal on other men.
/r/MensRights29/12/13 02:53 PM
3

Honestly, it's like they wanted to get caught. I feel bad for laughing while reading this article, because the guy was in danger, but these people are dipshits
/r/MensRights29/12/13 02:49 PM
2

Right? There's no reason it needs to be all about women, guys get plenty of shade for lookimg/not lookimg a certain way
/r/MensRights29/12/13 02:39 PM
7

expecting a suckerpunch Heh heh heh. But yeah, either you hit someone because you're so goddamn pissed that you're ok with the consequence of probably getting hit back, or you hit them because you don't think they'll defend themselves and you're a goddamn bully.
/r/MensRights29/12/13 02:36 PM
81

Dude, my boyfriend was accidentally classically conditioned (? I am not a psych student), and now pops a half chub when I sit on his bed and tie my hair up. Boners are sometimes completely random, and even if you're PHYSICALLY aroused, it doesn't mean you're emotionally/mentally aroused and want to have sex.
/r/MensRights29/12/13 02:33 PM
1

Yep. I don't want the pendulum to swing back to fucking women over like it did to fucking men over. We need a happy medium
/r/MensRights29/12/13 02:31 PM
2

Yep, I don't agree with them. But that's like saying since I'm Catholic, I must agree with abortion clinic bombers. Extremists are always an embarrassment
/r/MensRights29/12/13 02:25 PM
0

Nick012000 . Literally just said it, I was talking directly to him
/r/MensRights29/12/13 02:23 PM
0

Yep. People get shrieky about egalitarians, though. My pet issues are men's education and health, and for women, the expectation to hold down a full time job, be a mom and do a ton of household chores, street harassment, and sexism in everyday life.
/r/MensRights29/12/13 01:24 PM
8

Dude, if someone doesn't respect your right to wear a condom and protect yourself, DON'T FUCK THEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/13 01:01 PM
-6

I do think that rigid gender roles are fucked up for both genders, and for the most part cause issues. I don't think you can say any one gender is always a victim. But there are people like you that don't think women should have the right to vote, so I think female rights are important.
/r/MensRights29/12/13 12:55 PM
-12

Ooo, that awkward moment when I'm a feminist, as well as a MRA. Way to go, champ.
/r/MensRights29/12/13 12:49 PM
2

science Get to citing, cowboy.
/r/MensRights29/12/13 10:23 AM
2

Ask her "Why?" Like a child. It works great for racist jokes, too. The point is to make them really examine the reason they're saying what they are, and not let them get away with it. When they sputter to a stop, say "I don't think that's clever/funny/fair" or put her on the spot and say, "do you think that way around me? You know I work hard at my job here and it hurts to hear you think that way about me"
/r/MensRights29/12/13 10:22 AM
1

I figured he was serious when he said Abercrombie was a shit company. Huh. Thanks, bud
/r/MensRights29/12/13 09:37 AM
1

Ah, another entry for my "There are crazy fucks of both genders" file.
/r/MensRights29/12/13 06:20 AM
1

Don't many MRAs accuse feminists of being too sensitive when they complain about stuff like this? It's a shirtless guy. Calm down. Advertisers are going to show skin on attractive people to draw attention, and as long as the models posing for it consent to it and aren't exploited, leave it alone.
/r/MensRights29/12/13 06:18 AM
-1

Oh wow, it's you again. I knew your username looked familiar. Has your crazy ex wife beaten the shit out of the kids you left unprotected yet? Would you even know?
/r/MensRights28/12/13 10:23 PM
-1

Hmm?
/r/MensRights28/12/13 10:09 PM
0

Exactly. If someonr struck me, I would push them down. If someone hits someone that can't defend themselves, I will fuck their shit up.
/r/MensRights28/12/13 07:40 PM
-1

Right? Get between your husband and sister and whoop her ass. You should always be able to defend yourself, but I'd rather go after a girl that hit my brother/boyfriend because I'll get in less trouble and it won't look as bad.
/r/MensRights28/12/13 06:47 PM
3

I'm talking about keeping your labia underwraps. It's not that hard. How can you not feel it all up in your bits?
/r/MensRights27/12/13 09:52 PM
7

Did he say why? Did he have a precedent?
/r/MensRights27/12/13 05:43 PM
3

Here we fucking go! Okay, that's a fair concern
/r/MensRights27/12/13 05:15 PM
2

Can I see the Johntheother explanation of why he lost his job?
/r/MensRights27/12/13 05:05 PM
1

stories
/r/MensRights27/12/13 05:00 PM
1

Yes, she got death threats. But that's one case. Is there any other data?
/r/MensRights27/12/13 04:41 PM
1

So you're going to gossip around instead of directly going to the person who's harassing you? What do you think you will get out of that?
/r/MensRights27/12/13 04:35 PM
2

Cite this?
/r/MensRights27/12/13 04:25 PM
-7

Because that happens to every single man ever.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 04:21 PM
1

Junkies rarely permanently clean up. What are the odds that he's going to turn into daddy wonderful, instead of bursting in and out of the kid's life and disrupting it?
/r/MensRights27/12/13 04:15 PM
1

Um, yes, addicts don't deserve to be parents, male or female. Are you fucking kidding me? Addicts are not good parents. My junkie sister knew she couldn't be a good parent, so she gave her son up for adoption. 18-16 isn't usually prosecuted as rape. I'm talking about forceful rape, and you know it. What good would come of telling an abusive man he's going to have a child? Do you think he'll suddenly stop being abusive?
/r/MensRights27/12/13 11:20 AM
11

Fuck outta here. I'm not ok with dating a dad at this point in my life. I'm 21, no kids, and want to enjoy my youth. I certainly don't want to be shackled to a kid that isn't even mine. I see a lot of shade thrown at terpers for not wanting to date single moms, but it's a stance I agree on. Being a parent is the most important role a person can have. The child MUST take precedence over a boyfriend/girlfriend. If you're not comfortable with that, you need to not date a parent. I'm selfish. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/13 06:02 AM
3

Dude, cameltoe is fucking gross. I do not want to see a stranger's labia outlines. Keep your shit handled.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 03:36 AM
1

Yeah, I know some dudes that have a fucking jungle down there, but expect a girl to wax for them. Fuck that.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 01:25 AM
1

Andrea Yates was legit fucknuts. But to murder your baby, don't you kinda have to be? It's no excuse. That bitch should have gotten the chair.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 01:12 AM
1

Ok, Andrea Yates was bipolar. She was mentally ill AND evil. She didn't get the help she needed, and she murdered her babies. I'm sick of mentally ill people getting a free pass for their shitty behavior.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 01:11 AM
1

If you won't go down on a girl with a bush, don't expect a girl to want to go down on you when you have a bush.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 01:08 AM
1

My boyfriend's underwear has holes in it and it drives me up a goddamn wall. I try to look nice for him, he should so the same for me
/r/MensRights27/12/13 01:07 AM
0

90% of girls have period underwear. By all means, wear your sloppy shit when no one's going to see it, but put some effort into looking good for your partner
/r/MensRights27/12/13 01:04 AM
2

Dude, my boyfriend has a pair that his testicles pop out of. I got him underwear for Christmas, but I'm making him throw out his ratty pairs. Apparently they aren't more comfortable too
/r/MensRights27/12/13 01:00 AM
2

I have to leash my boobs back, I don't want to hear it.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 12:58 AM
1

I'm probably ok to have kids, but I do want to adopt. They make it difficult and expensive though. I know sometimes it's hard to get kids to adopt. Would you be resentful of someone who could do it naturally, but chose to adopt?
/r/MensRights27/12/13 12:55 AM
1

It's always assumed in this subreddit that all men are good guys. There are abusive men, junkies, and rapists too. If the father poses a real threat to the woman and the baby, he shouldn't be told. If it's just your ex boyfriend that you broke up with, you need to put on your big girl pants and tell him that you two conceived a child.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 12:51 AM
3

Haven't you ever seen "I didn't know I was pregnant"? Checkmate! /s
/r/MensRights27/12/13 12:45 AM
0

I'm a feminist, but I can't speak for everyone.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 12:43 AM
2

I think fraud is better, because it's tricking someone into having sex with you. But yeah, I'd accept it as fraud/nonconsenting sex if they lied to you.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 12:36 AM
1

If I have sex with you and claim to be on the pill, and that's false, did you truly consent to sex with me? She wouldn't have had sex with him if he didn't offer to get married.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 12:10 AM
-1

Ok, so you don't want a partner with a lot of previous partners. Do you think that someone who thinks sex is important is going to want to settle down with you if you fuck a ton of girls?
/r/MensRights27/12/13 12:03 AM
1

My mother didn't sign the consent for my brother's. She didn't want him to be circumcised. My dad did it.
/r/MensRights26/12/13 11:59 PM
1

Hahaha, I'm 21. I'm not getting shit for social security and I know it
/r/MensRights26/12/13 01:24 AM
1

Underwire bras are not comfortable
/r/MensRights26/12/13 01:21 AM
1

There s light material though. Some guy was talking about how he likes bike shorts, so you never know till you try it on
/r/MensRights25/12/13 06:47 PM
1

Jeans, no yoga pants or leggings, no shorts more than three inches above your knee, no tank tops, no cleavage baring shirts, nothing skin tight. Business casual would be preferable, but I could understand if parents don't want to pay for that.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 04:26 PM
1

I'm female, so my jammies wouldn't be a matter of debate.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 04:24 PM
3

Well, I enjoy it. Sometimes I'll throw on jeans and a t shirt and bun my hair up, and my boyfriend still tells me I'm pretty. Sometimes I like to dress up and do my makeup and stuff like that. Could it be a sign of sexism against men that there's less opportunity to express yourself with clothing and hairstyle/makeup choices? Are men being conditioned to fit in amd look a certain way, or be punished? If I don't wear makeup, someone may call me frumpy behind my back. But if a man wears makeup, he…
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:37 PM
2

Neither am I. Skirt over jeans is hella 1990. Leggings, tights, or bare legs. All joking aside, if it's gang related and banned for men, it should be gang related and banned for women. There are affiliated females
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:34 PM
2

Well, if women wear pjs with no problem, and it's only a problem when a man wears them, that's not fair. Who knows what else that mentality of "it's ok for women, but not men" impacts? If I punched a guy in high school, I would get in less trouble than a guy that hit me, and that's not right
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:33 PM
4

I learned a ton and they let me get 12 college credits in high school.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:28 PM
1

I think it's dumb, personally. I don't get why you would want to look that bad. But I do hate double standards
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:25 PM
1

Men should have the right to wear any clothing that's ok for women in the handbook. Summer blouses and skirts cover the body and present a polished appearance. Go for it. A couple guys may wear them to stir up controversy, but when everyone ignores it, that'll settle down, and the only males that will wear them will be transgender
/r/MensRights25/12/13 02:50 PM
1

I think schools should tell women they look ridiculous and need to change out of their pjs! If I was walking around with spinach in my teeth, looking dreadful, I'd want someone tl tell me
/r/MensRights25/12/13 02:48 PM
1

Are they comfortable?
/r/MensRights25/12/13 02:45 PM
1

For like, the billionth time, I'm female.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 02:45 PM
1

VP is bullshit. If it's ok for women, it should be ok for men.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 02:44 PM
3

Yeah. Gender blind dress code should be used
/r/MensRights25/12/13 02:41 PM
6

My boyfriend's a giant. He tries to make himself as small as possible when we have to travel anywhere (thankfully no planes yet), and I try to sit next to him so his massive shoulders infringe on me.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 12:53 PM
1

You should sleep with people you're attracted to. It's wrong to sleep with someone to get some kind of political advantage down the road, and being mixed often isn't easy. My nephew is biracial and it's not always easy for him, unfortunately.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 12:47 PM
1

Not pajamas? I'm not pushing for tuxes, but you shouldn't be showing too much skin, and should be wearing real pants
/r/MensRights25/12/13 12:42 PM
1

Sears!
/r/MensRights25/12/13 12:39 PM
2

They shouldn't be able to either. They aren't school appropriate
/r/MensRights25/12/13 12:38 PM
5

Yes, alongside your female peers that have put on their big girl pants.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 05:39 AM
-5

I am currently wearinf pink cheetah ones with bedazzled toes, tail, and hood. I love pajamas. But they aren't public attire
/r/MensRights25/12/13 05:36 AM
-13

I think that it's not that big of an imposition to give up your right to dress like an asshole for 8 hours a day while you enjoy a public education supported by people's hard earned tax dollars.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:34 AM
10

Dude, it's sloppy and annoying and I hate the way it looks. But if women are allowed to do it, men should be allowed to do it. I support a school wide, gender blind dress code. Man wants to wear a skirt? Sure! But it jolly well better be no more than three inches above the knee.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:29 AM
-11

Oh come on, it's not that bad. You need at least a high school diploma in this day and age. Being a high school dropout is rarely a good career move. Learn as much as you can, play your cards right and get them to pay for some of your college if you want to go. I never said the human body is grotesque or anything like that. You just need to dress appropriately for the situation. Pjs are for sleeping in.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:24 AM
1

It's distracting and allows peoplr to get into the habit of presenting themselves sloppily. I know adults that don't know how to clean up and look presentable. To pay for your free education, work hard, respect it, and put on some real pants.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:10 AM
0

Usually cartoon character/plaid pj bottoms and t shirts. It looks like you rolled out of bed
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:08 AM
1

Well, you can get yoga pants with the crotch liner so you don't get camel toe. They may need to figure out male modesty ones haha. My boyfriend is 6'2", 330, and is convinced that he's never going to find a pair of yoga pants that fits and would be comfortable, so he does it in boxers. It's hysterical.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:07 AM
-16

Would you show up to work in jammies? School is your job in high school. Treat the fact that you have access to free education with respect, and put on a gosh darned pair of jeans
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:05 AM
-3

It's crazy that you can fuck someone up for life and go to jail for six months. It's horrible that he hit her and it's wrong to be violent with anyone, but I'm kinda impressed, just at the strength it would take to hit someone that hard. This whole case is a clusterfuck
/r/MensRights25/12/13 03:00 AM
0

Seriously? He's been in and out of jail since he was 14, and that hasn't worked to curb his behavior. I think the sentence is a little degrading, but so is having your hair shaved so they can put a plate in because this ape broke your skull in 3 places. It is silly that it's "boys don't hit girls". It would have been better to make him write "I need to keep my hands to myself if I want to stay out of jail", or an apology letter to the victim. This dude needs some kind of therapy too
/r/MensRights25/12/13 02:58 AM
1

Well... I have pink cheetah footie pjs that have bedazzled claws, a tail, and a hood. I also have batman footies with a cape and cowl. They're pjs, but costumes as well, haha. Still inappropriate for school.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 02:53 AM
8

Seriously. Men should wear yoga pants. They're comfy as hell, don't look especially sloppy, and booty flattering.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 02:51 AM
-6

What bothers me is that I can't tell whether you're wearing last night's pjs, or you woke up and put on a fresh pair. One is dirty, the other is ridiculous. We're so lucky to have access to free, public education. Put some real pants on for it.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 02:50 AM
1

So she's a rapey, manipulative, violent drunk. You need to work on yourself. Please go to therapy to unpack the reason you stayed with someone like this, and the reason you allow other people's comfort to come above your own.
/r/MensRights24/12/13 11:46 PM
5

Yeah, but if I punched my boyfriend so damn hard he had to have a plate, I should get that special punishment too. If you really fuck someone up, male or female, you should be punished more harshly, but equally along gender lines
/r/MensRights24/12/13 11:30 PM
142

Christ, that's sloppy. No pajamas should be acceptable at school, male or female.
/r/MensRights24/12/13 11:28 PM
1

Yep. I like short dudes and smaller than average dicks. But just saying that someone isn't your type isn't oppressive and hurtful. People should be upfront with what they like.
/r/MensRights24/12/13 07:50 PM
5

If neither of them have depression or any kind of valid issue to keep them from doing this stuff, yes, they're lazy shits and willing to put their comfort over their partner's needs consistently. Shit's gross.
/r/MensRights24/12/13 03:12 PM
2

Does op know that the father is ok with the custody arrangement?
/r/MensRights24/12/13 02:14 PM
1

Holy shit, the stairs at Vet's Stadium were a death trap. My dad saw a beer vendor trip down them and his dad shoved the guy so he didn't go over the railing. The fact that the husband doesn't want to press charges makes me think it was a joke or an accident, but if there's any evidence of her being abusive, her ass should go to jail.
/r/MensRights24/12/13 02:10 PM
3

If you can't be bothered to get off your duff to go to a goddamn movie with your partner, you're a lazy shit or have some kind of issue going on. She can't get him to run errands with her, which is part of being an adult, and he won't do anything with her. It sounds like some kind of anxiety or depression.
/r/MensRights24/12/13 02:06 PM
1

Personally, I think you should be able to say that you don't find fat people attractive or that they gross you out without it being "shaming". Is the idea of not being someone's physical ideal really that bad?
/r/MensRights24/12/13 02:01 PM
1

Yep! Gouverneur Morris was Sarah Gouverneur's son, and since we're apparently related to Gouverneur but not Lewis, we may be Gouverneurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/13 02:14 AM
1

That's hella constructive. I'm awed by your analysis. Want to explain what you take exception to?
/r/MensRights24/12/13 12:04 AM
0

I think that if you want to call someome fat, you should have a picture of yourself in a bikini next to your byline. I don't think telling someone their body isn't perfect should be shaming. I wouldn't run up to someone on the street and call them ugly, but if someone asks me if I find certain traits or them attractive, I shouldn't feel pressured to lie. Men do kill themselves, and it's a tragedy. Men have a worse time getting mental help, it's a mess. Bullying is also extremely wrong, and if th…
/r/MensRights23/12/13 11:05 PM
0

I did like the bold haha. I've had people tell me they thi k it's gross that you can see my veins through my skin. I kinda shrugged and moved on. It means they're not in my dating pool because they aren't attracted to me. Hate can be a strong word, but when it's used like, "I hate brunettes", I take it to mean "I don't find brunettes attractive/ wouldn't fuck one". It's a bit more frivolous, I think.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 10:57 PM
0

If someone constantly goes on about how much they hate aspects of someone's body, it should give you the idea that they might be too judgemental for you. There's nothing wrong with having a small dick, but if they jusge you for it, you can judge them for their judgement. (Yo dawg, I heard you like judgement)
/r/MensRights23/12/13 10:52 PM
-4

No, it's saying they hate small dicks. You can hate small tits or big tits, and it doesn't mean you hate the person that has them. It means you don't like them and find them ugly
/r/MensRights23/12/13 10:43 PM
-6

Should we really protect people from the idea that not everyone will think they're hot? I'm not pretty, I'm very average looking. The idea that you MUST be attractive and even if you're ugly, everyone must still call you beautiful is ridiculous! Not everyone is beautiful, and that's okay! Most pots find a lid
/r/MensRights23/12/13 10:36 PM
-6

The pictures talked about how they don't like short dicks. Some guys talk about how they hate small tits, some talk about how they hate big tits. Stop complaining and crying that it's shaming when people say they don't like aspects about bodies.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 10:23 PM
-3

So saying that short dicks are unattractive and my friends and I don't like them is shaming, while saying someone is fat, and my friends and I don't like them isnt shaming?
/r/MensRights23/12/13 10:17 PM
-5

I don't think so. I think if you want to say in general, "fat people aren't attractive, and none of my friends think fat people are hot", that's just expressing a general preference and should be fine
/r/MensRights23/12/13 10:13 PM
3

No, but realize that it's something you should let go and ignore rather than rail about it. People are always going to judge people.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 10:11 PM
-8

I'd only watch that show if they smoked them up, then arrested them. Better reactions.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 10:10 PM
1

Well, I've had the guy that works at 7/11 rush to cash me out, tell me I look pretty and request me on Facebook when he found out my name via my license. That's over the line. Shit like this does happen, and it sucks.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 10:01 PM
-1

It was still really gross.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 09:57 PM
-13

Well, it's illegal. If they did the same thing with people that are buying pot, would it be "shaming" them?
/r/MensRights23/12/13 09:56 PM
-18

And men don't talk shit on girls with loose pussies, big vag lips, or hairy ones? I've had someone insult my junk on this sub. Honestly, you need to let this kind of thing go because it says more about them than you.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 09:51 PM
0

Holy shit, and people say feminists have no sense of humor. Vote with your dollars. Write a letter why you're switching doctors, but that's an insane overreaction.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 09:43 PM
-1

All men are dirty pig rapists. What, it's just a joke?
/r/MensRights23/12/13 06:01 PM
1

Oh gross, I'm related to him, and I've made out with someone in a confessional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/13 02:10 PM
10

Well. He's certainly weird, but if he isn't abusive, keeps the kid safe and can be trusted to obey a visitation order, there's no reason he shouldn't see his kid.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 03:45 AM
1

Not really. Many of the reviews I've seen have been pretty generous and fair. However, I pretty much have it to look up friends who ask me what theirs says
/r/MensRights23/12/13 02:31 AM
4

Dude, wtf?
/r/MensRights23/12/13 02:24 AM
8

These ads are attacking people when they know nothing about the custody arrangements that were reached. Kate Winslet and Halle Berry have amicable arrangements. Winslet's babydaddy was upset that his family was featured in the ads. I think it's a stupid move to highlight these women and accuse them of being babystealing harpies, rather than showcasing actual fathers who have issues with seeing their children. Celebrities are going to sue them, and most people assume celebrities parents hand thei…
/r/MensRights23/12/13 02:18 AM
3

Which is unfair, because most mras don't like RoK
/r/MensRights22/12/13 08:09 PM
1

Well, plenty of women are dating these guys anyways. Maybe the ratings are skewed on okcupid because they're pictures of people you don't know. It's hard to be attracted to a stranger for some people.
/r/MensRights22/12/13 08:50 AM
1

I've actually discussed this a ton. Trades are not a consolation prize, they're a legitimate, honorable job that we need people to do.
/r/MensRights22/12/13 08:47 AM
1

This article is blah blah blah I WENT TO HARVARS
/r/MensRights21/12/13 08:21 PM
1

No but there are a bunch of people phoning it in
/r/MensRights21/12/13 08:05 PM
1

It needs more people that are good at their jobs. I think it's important everyone feel welcome, but not having diversity for its own sake.
/r/MensRights21/12/13 06:48 PM
-7

Or having their rapist arrested so they can't atrack anyone else. If someone tried to kill you, wouldnt you feel better with them in jail ?
/r/MensRights21/12/13 06:07 PM
1

It doesn't feel empowering, it feels invasive and rude
/r/MensRights21/12/13 05:49 PM
-1

The issue with fleshlights is cleaning it. But as long as you keep your sex toys clean, party on
/r/MensRights21/12/13 05:48 PM
1

Wow, that's rough. Do you end relationships after 6 months?
/r/MensRights21/12/13 05:45 PM
1

Or it means that you have high standards, but are able to be attracted to someone for personality.
/r/MensRights21/12/13 05:44 PM
1

It's so annoying when you all jerk about STEM
/r/MensRights21/12/13 05:29 PM
1

So? You can be attracted ro anyone you like
/r/MensRights21/12/13 05:28 PM
-16

Le stem master race circle jerk!
/r/MensRights20/12/13 08:11 PM
2

And modern, western men don't feel entitled? I've seen unattractive, unhygienic men get furious that the beautiful object od their affections didn't like that.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 08:09 PM
0

That's a wild spread, yeah. There should definitely be penalties for falsely accusing, but to act like every woman is a breath away from lying like that is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 08:03 PM
1

I've had people in this subreddit get pissed because I am more of a feminist than an MRA, though I advocate for both. People just get butthurt in general
/r/MensRights20/12/13 07:58 PM
2

And that's shitty. Don't lead someone on and let them believe you'll be together forever if you're not willing to give that. Both parties should state what they want and what they are willimg to give
/r/MensRights20/12/13 12:27 PM
3

Gay marriage is important, but the crazy high rates of homelessness, drug use and suicide by LGBT teens is more important to work on
/r/MensRights20/12/13 12:23 PM
1

Yep, fuck NAMBLA
/r/MensRights20/12/13 12:19 PM
3

Yeah, I've been isolated and had people call me a slut and a whore, but I've also gotten punched and choked. I've been bullied by males and females. The females are worse. Alpha bitch is certainly seen as more of a woman. These girls usually hold power because they're attractive or personable enough to attract a following.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 03:17 AM
1

Exactly! If both parties are ok with what they're getting, and representing themselves honestly, party on
/r/MensRights20/12/13 02:46 AM
1

Yeesh. It sucks, but some kids are going to be targets. I'm from a family that runs to the small side. My kids are probably going to be petite. I want to teach my kids to defend themselves and tell them that if someone hits them, hit them back and I'll sort out the administrative shit. I refuse to let my kids be picked on like I was.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 01:47 AM
1

And women are told to not make a fuss, don't be a bitch, stop whining, you're crazy. Society needs to stop expecting people to shut up and deal with being fucked over
/r/MensRights20/12/13 01:43 AM
2

Even if the abuser is being victimized at home or whatever, you always have the opportunity to break the cycle. I got molested as a kid, and have managed to not molest anyone. Go me?
/r/MensRights20/12/13 01:42 AM
2

Are you serious? Girls get bullied too. It's a system wide failing that kids are being told to rely on telling teachers that do nothing to protect kids or punish aggressive behavior
/r/MensRights20/12/13 01:40 AM
2

Yeah, but we should be trying to overhaul the entire system so that no one is bullied.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 01:38 AM
3

I assumed anyone that has revenge fantasies like that is too dumb to spell.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 01:37 AM
2

Oh come on, if you're going to call someone a bitch, spell it out. Movies are entertainment, nothing more. You can make movies about whatever you likr
/r/MensRights20/12/13 12:01 AM
3

I've been bullied and I'm female. It's not a gendered issue, so much as kids will be kids
/r/MensRights19/12/13 10:40 PM
1

There's a tv show Wives with Knives all about women who kill their husbands. The image of a pedophile that kidnaps your kids from a mall and molests them is kinda uncommon. You need to look out for family friends and teachers and people that are in a place of authority and access to your kids.
/r/MensRights19/12/13 02:23 PM
1

It seems a bit political for /r/sex. They tend to be more focused on the mechanics and stuff, from what I've seen. I kinda get the second article being on there, because it's from a sex educator. But a lot of people on that sub don't really give a shit about campus politics
/r/MensRights19/12/13 04:34 AM
4

I went on a date with a man that I found out was born female midway through. He was fuckin hot. I don't really get how this is men's rights relevant, though. Are you worried that trans* people are being used as political capital or something?
/r/MensRights19/12/13 04:32 AM
8

Lol, yup. They could have used this campaign to highlight someone who is having actual, legitimate issues getting access to their kids, and instead chose to pick some random celeb that is going to sue their assholes off them. Smooth move.
/r/MensRights19/12/13 03:44 AM
2

Some of them I feel bad for, but then they start reading the transcripts and then it's hilarious again
/r/MensRights19/12/13 02:37 AM
8

And here we learn about the value of not getting all up in someone's Kool Aid when you don't even know the flavor. They don't know the arrangement reached between the parents, one of the dads is obviously cool with it, because he said the statements were defamatory, and they could have used a real life example of someone who got their kids taken away from them. Most people assume celebrities are shitty parents anywau
/r/MensRights19/12/13 01:51 AM
0

Are we seriously concerned that a TV show is catching the wrong gender of kiddy fiddlers? It's for entertainment.
/r/MensRights19/12/13 01:34 AM
1

I didn't delete anything and your comment is showing up for me. Get a divorce before you end up in jail. Men need to live life alone and hire strippers. It's cheaper in the long run. You have no idea what freedom is till you rid yourselves of these crazy bitches. There's two kind of women, the kind that are crazy and the kind not crazy yet. Don't believe me ? Watch the Tom Leykis or the manwomanmyth channel. He's going through a rough time already. Offer constructive advice or don't talk. You ju…
/r/MensRights19/12/13 12:38 AM
13

Yeah, it's victim blaming and that's shitty and all. But it's victim blaming of a CHILD that an adult preyed on. How do people look at this and not see how gross it is?
/r/MensRights19/12/13 12:00 AM
2

Wow, I assumed it was a hospital waiting room. That's good though, they're encouraging dads instead of making it a mommy and me room
/r/MensRights18/12/13 11:57 PM
1

Secure your documents and any prized sentimental possessions in preparation to leave. You're military, do you have a trusted friend that could hold your birth certificate, family pictures, passport, etc? If you don't have kids, it'll be simpler. Go up your chain of command, someone will be able to point you in the right direction. Record any physical injuries. Start socking away money to get away. Get all your ducks in a row before telling her you're leaving, and do it with a trusted friend ther…
/r/MensRights18/12/13 10:32 PM
1

Dude, not helpful advice at all. This guy's wife is beating on him, get off your soapbox
/r/MensRights18/12/13 10:27 PM
2

Ever bee to Philly International? There's a marsh right around there that they used to find bodies in. Checkmate, conservitard. (I'm kidding)
/r/MensRights18/12/13 10:22 PM
2

Right? Why can't we just go with the fact that it's nasty and spitting is assault? Though, my mom is a nurse. She had a dirty needle stick while she was pregnant, and they couldn't force the person who the stick came from to give up a blood sample to test. She had to go on prophylactic antitransmission drugs. That shit sucks.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 10:20 PM
5

That makes sense. He's the one that offended multiple times, and the mothers only have the charges from their children. Still, fucking disgusting.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 10:12 PM
2

Well, I'd think that the dads would either be in the delivery room or have a specific place to go so the doctor can find them. Family waiting room sounds like pretty much anyone.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 10:09 PM
9

Shouldn't she be anonymous until she's declared guilty? Usually this sub roots for pretrial anonymity, which makes sense
/r/MensRights18/12/13 10:04 PM
4

And I told you I would do it for my SO. Other people's relationships are their business. If I knew my boyfriend really wanted to be proposed to, I would do it first.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 10:01 AM
0

She should be. Two of my female friends have proposed to their fiances after they were proposed to. My mom went to my dad's mom and got her blessing to come into the family after my dad proposed to her. I want to do that for my boyfriend one day
/r/MensRights18/12/13 09:59 AM
-2

So? He may one day ask her to bear his child or shave her legs or do any number of things he wouldn't reciprocate. If you don't want to propose, that's fine. But don't expect to marry.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 09:56 AM
1

Ok, he's not obligated to ask is a flowy romantic manner, but she's not obligated to accept either. If I never did anything to maintaom my relationship with my boyfriend and belittled his thoughts, feelimgs, and desires, it would not be fair for me to expect a happy relationship from him.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 09:48 AM
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You don't toss someone a bag and ask them if they'll be with you forever. It's not slander. He didn't take any of OPs feelings into account. If a woman did that to a man, it would be bad too.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 09:46 AM
0

He sprung it on her. They didn't have a mature, adult discussion about getting married. If he isn't willing to ask his partner to marry him in the way he knows she would like, why should she be expected to be over the moon and excited to marry him? Would you be equally thrilled with a date to McDonald's, that you've told your partner you don't like, as a date to your favorite place ever? Gay couples get engaged too. Lesbian couples tend to use engagement rings.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 09:44 AM
0

Not a big flashy proposal. But I'd want to talk finances, disclose how much debt I'm in, decide about big things in our future like kids and where to live instead of having him toss a bag at me. Some people like traditions. My boyfriend does. This means that I go along with stuff to make him happy. I think he would be really upset if he didn't get to propose to me. You're getting yourself worked up about this for nothing. The op of the post you linked is having doubts because her boyfriend knew …
/r/MensRights18/12/13 09:19 AM
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Nope. That would have been a really loving proposal with a cheap ring. This is just really cold. I wouldn't do this with a Christmas present, let alone asking someone to be my partner for life
/r/MensRights18/12/13 08:53 AM
0

I'm just gonna surprise my boyfriend with a wedding so that neither of us has to ask the other one.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 08:38 AM
0

Look, this subreddit has a ton of off topic posts, and rabid feminist hate. The off topic posts are frequently from the Daily Mail, which is some of the worst tabloid crap I've ever seen. It definitely undermines our credibility as a movement. It would be better to have tags for specific issues and ask that any article that's fact based is from a reputable source The feminism hate alienates people who do believe in men's rights, but don't identify as MRA. If people are going to advocate for men'…
/r/MensRights18/12/13 08:31 AM
8

I was molested by a female, and some feminists don't want to admit that a female can be an abuser. I have consensual sex with someone I adore that respects my boundaries, is careful not to hurt me, and loves me, and that's rape to her? I feel sorry for her. That's a horrible view.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 08:08 AM
1

I don't even want an engagement ring, but I would be quite unamused and hurt if my SO proposed to me this way. You don't just toss a ring at someone and ask them to marry you. This is your partner, who should know you better than anyone else. Op is sappy, her boyfriend should know that. My boyfriend is sappy. If he proposed to me, I'd do it back. Take him somewhere really pretty and tell him that I absolutely adore him and want to spend my life with him. If your partner spent $10 on your wedding…
/r/MensRights18/12/13 07:58 AM
1

tremendously butthurt that someone would dare use "cisgender" to describe being born the gender they wish to be uses the phrase "full retard" It's got lovely hints of too easily offended and hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 06:32 AM
9

Any zealot has it.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 05:55 AM
2

Yeah, what selfish women. God forbid they advocate for the NFL to make things safer for future players on behalf of their husbands who have been racked physically. This would be a better time to bring up men working unsafe jobs.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 05:54 AM
3

Is this seriously a men's rights issue? He's being a dick on Facebook. Who cares?
/r/MensRights18/12/13 05:49 AM
1

Yeah, the only reason either partner should get full custody is if the other one is abusive. You both made the child, it's on both of you to raise and support it
/r/MensRights16/12/13 06:39 PM
-2

Seriously? This may be why feminists don't care about men's issues. This does nothing to bridge the gap between feminists and MRAs, which should be our ultimate goal to achieve egalitarianism
/r/MensRights16/12/13 11:29 AM
0

No, it makes him worthless as an adult. My mom chose to be a nurse for the money and to support her family. I respect that. I can't respect someone, male or female, that wants to have kids, yet refuses to put themselves in a position to support them. You do need to suck it up, and do something with your life if you want to be an adult. Pay your bills, work your job and look for a way out if you don't like it.
/r/MensRights15/12/13 11:45 PM
1

Don't you need to pass a test for that?
/r/MensRights15/12/13 06:52 AM
2

Yeah, and I pay $200 for birth control. It's all over the place
/r/MensRights14/12/13 01:44 PM
-1

Oh, I've never had sex without a condom. I'm not about that mom life right now. But it's depressing that some guys assume birth control 100% the woman's problem
/r/MensRights14/12/13 11:34 AM
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Yeah, but I know a couple guys that refuse to wear condoms. One of them knocked his girlfriend up, and blamed the girl
/r/MensRights14/12/13 10:32 AM
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Women's birth control is pretty much throwing it our laps and going, "bitch, it's your problem now."
/r/MensRights14/12/13 03:36 AM
3

Yeah, and I take more birth control pills the more frequently I have sex with someone, and I make everyone pay for my pills! Republican birth control for the win!
/r/MensRights14/12/13 03:22 AM
1

This is a mental illness issue. That's not the act of a normal, rational person. But seriously, just get a divorce instead of killing the poor dude
/r/MensRights14/12/13 03:14 AM
2

You can't consent to bdsm in some states, though. So even if you want to be whipped/beaten/what have you, technically they could file charges. There is a precedent for saying people can't consent to some things
/r/MensRights14/12/13 02:20 AM
3

The dmv issued me a driver's permit that listed me as male. I'm female. I have a female name, I look female, it was just a clusterfuck. Drove on it for a year rather than wait in line again
/r/MensRights14/12/13 02:16 AM
4

I'm jealous as fuck that it's non hormonal for men, and probably won't have the side effects. However, I'm glad because I don't want other people to have to deal with them. It also means that if there's a time that my boyfriend and I aren't vigorously doing everything we can to not get pregnant, I get to go off my pill first, because mine would mess me up more
/r/MensRights14/12/13 02:14 AM
2

I stack birth control right now, pill and condoms. I cant wait for it to be my pill, his pill and condoms. I think a lot of people need a set and forget method of birth control, and it's looking like it would be easier on men's bodies to prevent pregnancy
/r/MensRights14/12/13 02:10 AM
1

Planned Parenthood supposedly does vasectomies on a sliding scale. If you're over 25, it should be easy for you to get one
/r/MensRights14/12/13 02:06 AM
3

Expecting a woman to take 100% responsibility for not getting a couple pregnant would be more misogynistic, wouldn't it?
/r/MensRights14/12/13 02:03 AM
6

Haha, this is what's so awesome about it to me. Used with other methods, what are the odds that three methods are going to fail? If condoms, my pill and his pill can't stop us from getting pregnant, maybe it's meant to br
/r/MensRights14/12/13 01:39 AM
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Abused people get in a fucked up, terrified cycle. A lot of people think it'll never stop, and their abuser will come after them if they leave. I can see taking advantage of someone sleeping to kill them, because you know they're going to wake up and beat the hell out of you again. But this should apply to men and women. If my boyfriend started abusing me, I could go after him and try to defend myself without fearing that I would go to jail. People would believe me if I was a victim of dv. It wo…
/r/MensRights14/12/13 01:37 AM
6

If someone was beating on me, I'd try to record it in case I ever decided to leave. If you're being abused by your partner, take pictures of your injuries or go to a doctor
/r/MensRights14/12/13 01:32 AM
1

No, it's not about that. It undermines everything MR works for because people can use specific instances to dismiss the entire movement as woman hating neckbeards.
/r/MensRights14/12/13 01:30 AM
1

Mine's kinda intellectual too. It's raising a generation of men that think they're not worthy of being held ans loved
/r/MensRights14/12/13 01:28 AM
1

I'm joking, dude.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 11:31 PM
1

A lot of people do. This guy decided he wants to marry.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 11:31 PM
-3

No, but I have seen some outrageous shit here.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 03:23 PM
-1

Oh you wouldn't know nice tits if they slapped you in the face, ya neckbeard virgin
/r/MensRights13/12/13 03:22 PM
3

Also, pastor doesn't really know what's going on behind closed doors. The only reason I would divorce is for infidelity or abuse, and I think q lot of people feel that way.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 11:33 AM
1

I have a massive Eve rib, so I'm gonna go with it happened.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 11:29 AM
1

Was she asleep? I punched my boyfriend in the chest really hard one time in a dead sleep. It sucks
/r/MensRights13/12/13 11:26 AM
1

Stop going outside, man.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 11:24 AM
-12

Yeah, and then some posters complain that women aren't MR allies. Um, you call my entire gender shrieking hypergamous rape faking harpies who should say thank you when a dude on the street tells me I have nice tits. Wonder why there are less women than you'd think?
/r/MensRights13/12/13 11:20 AM
0

Yeah, he was also fucking lazy. I'm not getting any federal money. Phlebotomy would have given him a steady job that would have put him in a better situation. Don't bitch to me about retail. I've done retail. I've also vacuumed up pieces of dead people. You do what you need to, and don't whine or shirk it.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 11:11 AM
-1

Shamed and shaming. Where's the extra m coming from?
/r/MensRights13/12/13 03:58 AM
3

I have waist length, thick, curly hair, and I spend about $30 bucks on hair stuff besides shampoo/conditioner, and I use mane and tail
/r/MensRights13/12/13 03:42 AM
1

Shit yes. My boyfriend looks like a goddamn bear, I'm going to make him talk to everyone and see if we ger a price cut
/r/MensRights13/12/13 03:34 AM
1

God forbid people be happy.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 03:33 AM
0

Yeah, the first one sucks, especially when I'm dressed really modestly and am not looking for that shit, but I can deal. The other one is complete bullshit. Unfortunately, they both happened to me. I go to school in a shit neighborhood.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 07:52 PM
1

Wow, forgot that my vagina makes me rob proof.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 07:51 PM
0

I had a 40 year old dude ask me if he could come into (what he thought was) my house, after he yelled that I had nice legs. Being hit on annoys me, but I'll get over it. Worrying about my safety is a whole different ballgame. I was walking down the street two years ago, and some dude started following me, and telling me I was sexy and shit like that. I laughed it off and told him I had a boyfriend. He then kept following me and started screaming that I was a slut, a whore, a bitch. I ended up go…
/r/MensRights12/12/13 06:36 PM
1

Yeah, there was a driveby on my campus. I hate this shithole. Pulling out your phone is a great way to get it jacked
/r/MensRights12/12/13 06:31 PM
0

In college and unfortunately dorming. I can't have either. I'm a decent enough shot, but I can barely remember my house keys, let alone a gun
/r/MensRights12/12/13 06:19 PM
0

Yeah, mine was yesterday. This subreddit seems to think that you should just ignore it and it'll go away. What's your stance on that?
/r/MensRights12/12/13 06:07 PM
1

And when's the last time you were street harrassed?
/r/MensRights12/12/13 06:00 PM
1

Fuck that. It's your wedding too, you shouldn't be a wallet with legs in the process
/r/MensRights12/12/13 05:43 PM
1

Or people literally being really mean to your face.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 05:42 PM
0

I don't discuss male/male friendships like I'm an expert because I don't have experience with it. Guys shouldn't discuss street harrassment like they're experts if they don't have experience with it
/r/MensRights12/12/13 05:00 PM
-1

So I can disregard anything men say about street harassment?
/r/MensRights12/12/13 03:51 PM
2

Man, now I'm depressed you didn't have a fair for your wedding. "Yeah, we're getting married at the dunk tank and going directly to the funnel cake stand to deep fry the cake!"
/r/MensRights12/12/13 02:49 PM
6

Dream on, I could drop $10, 000 in one massive binge at home depot. Really, I can't, but I would like to. A wedding is once. I get disrespected over and over
/r/MensRights12/12/13 02:47 PM
2

...that would be pretty cool.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 02:42 PM
8

It's even better because my boyfriend doesn't realize it's happening.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 11:17 AM
1

Haha, in my experience, rude boys tend to be sweethearts, but skanking is kinda flail-y by nature
/r/MensRights12/12/13 09:49 AM
1

Haha, my boyfriend loves being little spoon. It's fun to blow raspberries on the back of the little spoon's neck
/r/MensRights12/12/13 09:44 AM
2

I have curly hair, which always made me hesitant to go to a barber.. is yours straight?
/r/MensRights12/12/13 09:40 AM
1

Yo, I get my hair cut for $12, and I'm female. Go to greatclips or a chain
/r/MensRights12/12/13 09:39 AM
1

It's not, but if you can do anything to lessen your risk of being accused of rape, that's grand
/r/MensRights12/12/13 09:38 AM
1

And, I for one, encourage this stereotype.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 08:19 AM
1

I love how the Screammolester is a direct stab at BOTDF hahaha
/r/MensRights12/12/13 08:17 AM
7

A feminist turned me into a newt!
/r/MensRights12/12/13 08:13 AM
3

Straight, white, first world, usually upper middle class feminists who think that a man should buy them dinner, and they should get a leg up when applying to med school, but are horrified when men want to talk about the disproportionate number of male on the job deaths. There's a song by Andrew Jackson Jihad that has a lyric, "I'm a straight, white male in America, I have all the luck I need." Sometimes I think it's way better to be a straight, white female in America
/r/MensRights12/12/13 08:12 AM
6

Jesus Christ. That's a slap in the face to anyone that was raped, doesn't do anything to make rape accusations more credible, and RUINS SOME POOR DUDE'S LIFE. This is a trifecta of fail.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 08:09 AM
5

Rude boys have inadvertently punched/kicked me way more times than any MRA. Basement ska shows are terrifying haha
/r/MensRights12/12/13 08:08 AM
3

I don't know, that guy looks like a total skank to me. At least I think I'm funny.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 08:07 AM
25

Exactly. Why would I give you my money if you disrespect me? It's funny when my boyfriend and I go out to dinner, and the waitress is a little flirty to him, and blows me off a bit. I love taking the check and watching the "Oh shit." face.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 08:03 AM
14

Don't give them a cent of your money if they can't respect you. YOU are a customer. Make eye contact and tell them that you and your fiancee are partners and both excited to be planning your wedding. If they don't want to listen to that, walk. There have to be a bazillion vendors. Someone will treat you as an equal to her.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 08:01 AM
7

Yep. It sucks, but you need to demand attention.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 07:40 AM
19

And I get the same shit when I go to Home Depot.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 07:15 AM
2

If you're a stay at home parent, and you have full time babysitting and don't cook dinner, what the fuck DO you do?
/r/MensRights11/12/13 01:08 PM
1

Why do you post the stupidest stuff? This has nothing to do with men's rights.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 12:15 PM
3

It's not across the board unattractive, and his mom respects what his dad does for their family. Edit: The first part of what I said was out of line and I apologize.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 12:12 PM
4

Education is getting shittier and shittier. Are we seriously having 13 year olds writing papers about cleaning their room? This is degrading. No wonder the kid didn't want to write about that.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 09:35 AM
2

Yeah, but there should be a way for prostitutes to background check people and see if they've been charged with assault or anything. Kinda like backpage, but for clients, and kept more confidential
/r/MensRights11/12/13 08:19 AM
1

Well, there should be a way of blacklisting clients that get violent or whatever, but for the most part, it should be legal
/r/MensRights11/12/13 08:06 AM
2

I am. It makes sense to legalize prostitution, and make it safer for customer and worker.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 07:27 AM
2

Holy shit. If someone refuses to contribute to your household, and has no good reason not to, they're a fucking loser.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 07:26 AM
6

I have Batman footies. Cape AND cowl. I don't fuck around when it comes to comfy sleeping
/r/MensRights11/12/13 07:11 AM
1

Iunno, I think short men are hotter but no one asked me
/r/MensRights11/12/13 07:10 AM
1

Um. Is she looking for a job or anything?
/r/MensRights11/12/13 06:51 AM
1

So legalize and have safeguards in place against human trafficking. If the traffickers need to compete against legal brothels, demand for trafficked girls should fall, right? (This is an actual question. It SEEMS logical, but I am certainly not an economist)
/r/MensRights11/12/13 06:48 AM
4

Interesting that when US feminists talk about how hard it is for women, most of the issues are overseas.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 06:39 AM
3

My boyfriend's dad is a house husband. He and his wife are adorable, they're crazy about each other.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 06:36 AM
2

I'm a 21 year old female and have been told to grow up or get over it. People are awful about mental health. Shit like this makes me sad, though. My boyfriend is 22, and before me, no one had ever held him. How fucked up is that? Men don't get nurtured enough
/r/MensRights11/12/13 06:33 AM
4

Yeah, I'm an American and have seen an obviously drugged out dude screaming, masturbating and running around and the transit cops were like, "umm, sir? Could you put your clothes back on?" It was a gentle request.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 06:26 AM
0

Fair. But lack of ambition plays into it as well. My ex was a 2004 (?) Grad. He worked part time stocking shelves, which is honest work. The reason that he's an ex is because he would constantly complain that he was smarter than everyone around him, and it was an outrage that he had to stock shelves. He also didn't want to work his scheduled hours, and thus always had trouble paying his bills. I offered to help him file his FAFSA, to see if he could get aid. He never took me up on it. I found a …
/r/MensRights11/12/13 06:14 AM
9

Oh shit, I'm in. Footie pjs, I was 9-11 when it happened. I wonder if they'll get pissed with me
/r/MensRights11/12/13 06:01 AM
11

My boyfriend was 6'2" at 15. If he started physically going after a transit cop, I don't think they would stop and ask how old he was, and rightfully so. If you go after someone and try to gouge their eyes out, your ass should get tased.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 05:40 AM
5

If someone is abusing you, and you know there's no way you'll be able to safely escape, or go to the authorities and have them believe you, you should be able to kill your abuser. Now, who is more likely to not be believed by the cops when it comes to being a victim of dv? How many shelters are there for battered men?
/r/MensRights11/12/13 05:36 AM
10

See, this is why it's interesting for me. I am female. I can bring up that I was molested and explain what happened. Someone once told me that my abuser should be castrated, and was horrified to find out that it was a female. But, according to some feminists, it wasn't sexual abuse when someone beat the shit out of me and took what I didn't want to give, but it's rape when my boyfriend that I love and I have sex. Because he has a penis
/r/MensRights11/12/13 05:32 AM
6

Because there are no female priests? It's technically true, there are no female priests, so there will be no female priests that are also sex offenders. But it's ridiculous to insinuate that women can't be child molesters
/r/MensRights11/12/13 05:28 AM
15

Wahh, I stole and there were consequences! Misogynistic pigs! If it was a dude, they would have gotten the shit tased out of them
/r/MensRights11/12/13 05:25 AM
2

Not really. There is a possibility, but none of us know. If it comes out that he was abused, that would explain a lot. But you can't just assume that everyone that kills themselves was abused
/r/MensRights11/12/13 02:06 AM
-1

They got in an argument. It didn't say anything about abuse
/r/MensRights11/12/13 02:05 AM
-7

No, I wouldn't assume it was a man's fault if a woman killed herself in this way. Everyone is assuming he was abused when there's no evidence of it
/r/MensRights10/12/13 10:11 PM
1

Honestly, this is just a weird situation and I want to know more before I pass judgement. It's odd to kill yourself over an argument about shoes. Something else was going on, and we don't know if it was mental illness or abuse
/r/MensRights10/12/13 10:10 PM
-8

You can't be so harsh with someone in an argument about shoes that they kill themself without there being an underlying issue.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 03:42 PM
8

Or the dude obviously had some mental health issues that weren't being addressed.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 03:26 PM
2

I was pissed they had a tall actor play wolverine. That's not how he's supposed to look
/r/MensRights10/12/13 03:01 PM
5

I wouldn't say I fetishize it, but I have a strong preference for shorter men. My current boyfriend is a complete outlier and it took me geting to know him to get over him being as tall as he is. My last two boyfriends were 5'3" and 5'6"
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:59 PM
3

Dude, I would so much rather go Dutch. I never want to feel beholden to someone because they bought me dinner
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:55 PM
1

I think that there should be mandatory service, like there is in Israel, though.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:51 PM
-2

Just seems like a sad, fucked up situation. But we shouldn't use this guy as a way to talk about domestic violence, because no one knows if he was abused or not. We should use actual victims to talk about dv
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:43 PM
3

You can argue without being abused.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:30 PM
0

I don't know about that. Just because someone kills themself doesn't mean they were being abused. We shouldn't assume that for men or women
/r/MensRights10/12/13 01:32 PM
1

If something hurts you, you can't keep doing it over and over. Cut this girl out of your life, man. She isn't good for you
/r/MensRights10/12/13 08:56 AM
2

Not everyone demands a man making a shit ton of money. I see plenty of relationships with broke college students.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 08:34 PM
3

My boyfriend got me a four foot long bear body pillow. It's awesome.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 08:30 PM
1

If you're nice but gross lookimg, you need to understand that about yourself and bat at your level. I'm not gorgeous, so I'm not going to get with Brad Pitt. It's also shitty when people put 0 effort into their appearance and then get upset when people don't find them attractive
/r/MensRights09/12/13 08:27 PM
12

I hate you so much. I'm now imagining how fantastic a massage would be. That's a shame that they harassed him. It's legal and he should be protected.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 02:12 PM
2

Oh believe me, I talk to my friends about this. But men seem to willingly do things for women and allow themselves to be led around, then complain it doesn't work out. Have some damn pride and backbone. If you aren't getting what you need from someone, move on. But don't mope around and expect people to find it sexy
/r/MensRights09/12/13 01:49 PM
1

Holy shit, how many times a week do you use the word cuckolding?
/r/MensRights09/12/13 01:32 PM
51

I'm not an expert, but $60 seems kinda cheap for an hour of time with a prostitute. It probably is just cuddling at those prices, but I wonder how many people go there thinking it's a brothel, and get pissed. Non-sexual, but comforting touch is really important. This shouldn't have such a stigma against it.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 01:31 PM
2

So I shouldn't blame people who aren't up front with their desires and prefer to whine about it behind my back, as long as they have penises? That's ridiculous. They're grown ass adults, and I refuse to coddle someone like that.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 01:28 PM
3

I could lie to my man about birth control Not trusting him with his birth control could be a sign of misandry.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 01:19 PM
1

Well, I'm female, and I don't take advantage of it. I am blunt, and direct, and still have people whining at me. It's bullshit.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 01:16 PM
3

Well, if someone isn't attracted to you, it doesn't matter how nice you are. They aren't going to fuck you. You can't demand that people you're attracted to want to fuck you. That's either going to happen, or it's not.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 12:42 PM
4

So don't let her confide in you about her dating life. You need to be more assertive. Next time she wants to talk to you about that, say: I'm not interested in hearing about this. Don't let someone take advantage of you like that.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 12:32 PM
1

Wow, getting someone drunk to take them home and fuck them is despicable. Sure, men do most of the asking. But I've been accused of "friendzoning" a guy when he never asked me out or expressed an interest. There's so much complaining around men CHOOSING to do stuff for a girl, never telling her there are strings attached, and then complaining that they don't get what they want. I've pursued women. I've never done that, because that's absolute bullshit.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 12:24 PM
2

I'm bisexual. I asked my boyfriend out. I've asked women out and been rejected. It's not a nice feeling, but what am I going to do about it? If they're not into me, they're not into me. If they're cool and respectful, I have no right to act like a baby and try to talk shit on them behind their back. I'm an adult. I've also been in the position of someone trying to give me shit to (court? I guess.) me. I made sure to shut that shit down because I wasn't into them. It sucks, but you can't just let…
/r/MensRights09/12/13 12:01 PM
3

That's what this subreddit seems to think. I've seen people get furious about gorgeous women marrying rich guys, and it's like, as long as both parties agree, it's none of your damn business. I'm smart, getting educated, loyal and loving. I've got something to offer my partner, and he's got stuff to offer me. I would hate for someone to look at our relationship and get nasty about it.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 11:53 AM
2

My dad got a vasectomy, and is notoriously bad about pain. He said it wasn't that bad. The issue is that it's a long term solution.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 11:50 AM
2

Jesus Christ. I would fall out of love eith someone who knocked me up, knowing I didn't want a child. Has it changed things between you two?
/r/MensRights09/12/13 10:15 AM
9

Why would anyone who got raped want one of these hearings? Pretty much all they can do is expel the rapist, right? If you get raped on campus, CALL THE REAL COPS.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 09:42 AM
2

Look, I know I'm unattractive and I'm cool with it. But dude, your kids aren't safe with their mother. You need to protect your boys. Keep trying to get custody, or at least visit them
/r/MensRights09/12/13 07:53 AM
1

The object of your affections isn't required to date you though. I've turned men down very politely and kept it between us, only to have them tell everyone what a heartless bitch I am. They seemed to feel that I had wronged them or something. I didn't deserve to be disrespected like that
/r/MensRights09/12/13 07:38 AM
1

So if I go for a bad boy, that's wrong, but if I go for a dude that has his shit together and a job, I'm hypergamous. Honestly, why do people care? If you're put together, you probably don't want to attract a woman that digs drug dealers
/r/MensRights09/12/13 07:33 AM
3

Right? I pay $200 + condoms half the time to not get us pregnant, and I still worry about getting pregnant. I'm gonna throw a party when this pill comes out
/r/MensRights09/12/13 07:20 AM
2

Well, I'm jealous of the lack of side effects, but it's awesome there are none. It makes it much more likely to be taken
/r/MensRights09/12/13 07:17 AM
6

If my boy went on BC, I wouldn't go off mine unless I was having side effects. This should be an additional layer of protection
/r/MensRights09/12/13 07:13 AM
2

The only thing I can see opposing is if there are health risks. What did the opposition say?
/r/MensRights09/12/13 07:11 AM
21

Dude, I don't get how guys have sex. I would be so paranoid if I didn't take birth control. I've offered to let my boyfriend supply condoms so he knows that at least one method is unfucked with. I take my BC every night at the same time, but I could be lying for all he knows. This pill is awesome
/r/MensRights09/12/13 07:10 AM
7

It's manly as fuck to get snipped to prevent accidental pregnancies. It's responsible and pretty kickass of you to do that after your wife gave you 3 kids. My dad did the same for my mom
/r/MensRights09/12/13 07:06 AM
2

My issue with enthusiastic consent is that it lessens the risk of someone regretting sex later and accusing you. Some girls have sex because they can't say no to anyone. Honestly, that's their fault and they need to grow a backbone. But those are the people that are going to be more likely to have sex they weren't 100% into, and say it was rape
/r/MensRights08/12/13 07:42 PM
1

No. Egalitarianism is less commonly known, so I end up having to explain it to people. Doesn't have the brand recognition feminism does. I believe in equality for everyone. That's why I'm here. I'm willing to give up my perks as a female. My boyfriend and I split the bill, I treat him sometimes, he treats me. I don't ever want to be a diversity hire. I should get maternity leave, but men should get paternity leave
/r/MensRights08/12/13 07:36 PM
2

I'm planning on working. I did grow up knowing both my parents, unlike your poor children.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 07:32 PM
1

I don't want to have to in-depth explain my leanings when feminist sums it up.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 10:50 AM
3

There are assholes in every movement. MRM has some as well. I've met some MRA that are seriously hateful toward women, and want to punish women instead of become equal. I'm a feminist, but also MRA. I probably fall closer to an egalitarian, but that's too picky for me.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 09:36 AM
7

Also that women can be rapists!
/r/MensRights08/12/13 09:22 AM
9

That opens you up to the risk of rape allegations later. All sex has that risk, but if they don't seem that into it, you need to consider the possibility that they don't want to have sex with you and are just not good at saying no.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 06:48 AM
3

The only thing that's bad about victim blaming is that sometimes, there's not a goddamn thing you can do to prevent it. But for the most part, being careful may not prevent rapes, but it may prevent YOU from being raped.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 05:41 AM
11

We definitely should teach everyone what enthusiastic consent is, but criminals commit crimes because they are shitty people. A poster can't fix that.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 05:38 AM
3

It's a really shit analogy. The feminism hate here is ridiculous
/r/MensRights08/12/13 05:27 AM
5

Yeah, but feminism hasn't started a holocaust yet.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 05:00 AM
4

I'm a feminist, and I know that even though it's not fair, certain behavior will put me in danger. We aren't all like that.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 04:36 AM
-2

Yeah, but somehow I wasn't dumb enough to breed with a complete fucking lunatic. You're a waste of humanity.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 01:42 AM
7

No. Not going to random people's houses when you're incapacitated in any way is basic common sense haha
/r/MensRights08/12/13 01:26 AM
1

*Your. The going got tough, and you got going. Your kids are defenseless against this woman, and she's crazy.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 01:25 AM
1

So your children aren't worth risking your career? What are the odds that she can hold someone at gunpoint and be a good mom? They aren't great. I hope nothing happens to them. They are innocent victims in this, and as their parent, it is YOUR job to protect them.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 01:17 AM
3

No, the children in this are your sons that you left with a woman you know to be batshit insane.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 01:14 AM
12

On one hand, it's awesomr that it's gender neutral. I'd love to see a campaign about strictly male victims too. On the other hand, have we seriously hit the point that we need to tell people not to go to a random stranger's house when they're fucked up? Dear lord.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 01:10 AM
1

Wow. That's a depressing outlook. Many people have happy marriages. Just be careful about who you marry and have kids with
/r/MensRights07/12/13 06:16 PM
1

I don't think so. If a girl wastes your time, or isn't considerate to your time, walk. If they don't want to commit and you want a committed relationship, walk. You're making a mountain out of a molehill
/r/MensRights07/12/13 10:59 AM
2

I'm shocked that two mature, responsible individuals like themselves couldnt break up without court intervention. I feel bad, they both seem mentally ill
/r/MensRights07/12/13 09:51 AM
2

Also, if I was getting divorced and knew my man eould pay my fees if I won, why wouldn't I hire the best lawyer in the world?
/r/MensRights07/12/13 09:50 AM
5

Can't wait until there are more stats on gay divorce. I wonder if the more feminine partner will get custody more
/r/MensRights07/12/13 09:49 AM
1

I don't get how this is a men's rights issue. My boyfriend can sometimes be insecure, so I'm careful to compliment him and be really affectionate when he's feeling down. That's what you do in relationships. For the other ones, if you're not getting what you want from someone in the early stages of dating, walk
/r/MensRights07/12/13 09:45 AM
2

Even if a child approaches you, as an adult, you need to shut that shit doen
/r/MensRights07/12/13 07:10 AM
2

Write everything down.
/r/MensRights07/12/13 06:57 AM
2

It's worth highlighting, but you can say something like, "Black males are disproportionately accused of rape, with __% of these reports found to be false."
/r/MensRights06/12/13 12:25 PM
5

Bro, your name is on it on the first slide. Not sure if you're cool with that or not. Take the N word out of the last slide. Men's Rights is traditionally seen as being a white man's thing, so that's a bad idea to have in there. You can talk about there being a racial bias, just don't use the slur
/r/MensRights06/12/13 09:57 AM
1

That's true. But if you're dating someone that is absolutely 100% determined to not get knocked up, it's usually understood. I get why he wants to make sure I took my pill. I don't want a baby either. Plus if I'm napping, wake my ass up.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 08:14 AM
0

If they can prove that it was malicious and planned, hell no. She should go to jail. But saying that rape isn't too bad cause at least you get to play the victim is disgusting.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 04:12 AM
1

No, like. Sometimes things are not the freshest down there. It happens to men and women. I personally don't mind sweaty. But if you're sick, and get that gross sweat, I'm not feeling good about going down on people. Male, female, keep it tidy down there and it's all good.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 03:58 AM
5

Yup. I'm happy and healthy, and my family has been really supportive. I'm also confusing as fuck to radfems because I'm a female that was abused by my sister. They want me to be a victim, but like to deny that women can be abusers
/r/MensRights06/12/13 03:43 AM
1

If it keeps happening over and over that people think you're up to something, maybe evaluate youself. This shit's weird.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 02:34 AM
1

Eh. I've always been upfront with everyone I've dated that abortion isn't something I believe in. My ex tried to fuck me while I was asleep, while I was still a virgin, because I was going away to college. There are crazies everywhere. Men and women should both be able to have a pill to protect themselves
/r/MensRights06/12/13 02:22 AM
1

Do you have some kind of sponsorship deal for every time you say cuckold? Get a paternity test if you're worried. But you supposedly ran off to China after getting someone pregnant, so what's it to you?
/r/MensRights06/12/13 02:20 AM
1

I'm kinda scatterbrained, but when it comes to not popping a child out of my vagina, I get my shit together. I feel like guys would be so excited to have an option for safer sex that they'd be all over that shit. Boyfriend is already used to me taking my pill at 830, we can take ours together haha
/r/MensRights06/12/13 02:18 AM
1

I'm fuckin pumped for it. Boyfriend and I are going to be using thr male and female pill and condoms. No babies!
/r/MensRights06/12/13 01:39 AM
3

I was molested, and there's nothing I could do to prove it. It happened when I was a kid. People get off because there's not enough evidence too
/r/MensRights06/12/13 01:38 AM
1

Wow. Rape isn't that chill and easy to get over, dude.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 01:36 AM
1

It can turn into a he said/she said thing. I was molested repeatedly by my sister. There's no way that I can prove it, it happened when I was a kid. But it did happen. However, I think that if a rape accusation can be proven to be false and malicious, the accuser should go to jail for as long as the accused would have, had they been convicted
/r/MensRights06/12/13 01:34 AM
1

I do have the app downloaded and can check for people if they want to know what theirs says
/r/MensRights06/12/13 01:29 AM
1

No, I want there to be a female lulu cause I'm nosy as shit and want to know what peopld say about me
/r/MensRights06/12/13 01:28 AM
4

Trans dinosaur for life.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 01:15 AM
1

Why Men Don't Do Those 10 Old Fashioned Things Anymore by eDgEIN708 1. Coming to the door to pick someone up. sure, you can treat someone you're dating like a buddy, bit don't expect them to see you as anything more than a buddy. Dating is about going out of your way for your partner to show that they're worth the effort 2. Trying to dress really nicely for a date. It matters. Would you go to a business meeting in a bathrobe? If it's a formal date, you need to dress appropriately for the situati…
/r/MensRights05/12/13 09:02 PM
2

There's a guy with his jaw dropped looking at her, so yes, but not explicitly.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 08:42 PM
2

Oh no, I wasn't scamming on you! I just realized that I don't know anyone that legit complains about small dicks in real life. However, unclean dicks are universally reviled
/r/MensRights05/12/13 06:58 PM
1

Wow, really? In a complimenting way? I also think it's funny when some women refuse to understand that there are big vaginas too
/r/MensRights05/12/13 06:25 PM
3

Ahh, I meant from getting kicked out of school, sorry I was unclear.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 10:56 AM
1

Yeah, I've been up all night and I'm hella nearsighted so I was worried I was going blind haha. He looks like such a sweet kid, and he was doing the right thing. The world needs more people like him.:(
/r/MensRights05/12/13 10:56 AM
9

I don't even know what that means. But my boyfriend and I decided on a mutually monogamous thing, and made sure we had a talk about what that's about. If you ask someone on a date, they should know it's a date. Never, ever surprise someone with that kind of thing. It's mortifying for both parties. Those are the only two with any real value. Both parties should do little gifts for each other. My boyfriend once brought me gummy worms when I was really drunk, it was awesome. Just be thoughtful and …
/r/MensRights05/12/13 10:36 AM
13

Wow. They hired a teacher that molested a kid under their watch, and now they want to kick him out. That's absolutely disgusting. Does he have any protection under UK law?
/r/MensRights05/12/13 10:32 AM
7

Where'd the article come from? It's unreadable. But it's tragic. False accusations should be prosecuted, and ones that cause someone to kill themselves should be considered manslaughter, or something.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 10:30 AM
1

Guys that are worried about their penis size are frequently the only ones that give a shit. Everyone needs to chill out and realize they are their own harshest critic.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 10:29 AM
3

There's a billboard near me for breast enhancements, and I've seen the same plastic surgeon put up a bunch. It's not as taboo as you think it is. Do you really think women are told they're perfect in every way? Bet you a dollar I spend more money on things to change/improve my appearance than you do.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 10:28 AM
2

And yet you're still here complaining. Talk to a mod about it, or come up with a solution to prevent the brigading. Don't just complain.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 10:26 AM
3

It's really shitty when men are hurting, and show no outward sign of it. I'll comfort an upset friend, but I need to know they're upset first.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 10:21 AM
1

Haha, dream on. I'm female and have had that screamed in my face. Never by my parents, though.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 10:19 AM
1

Or she sat to pee, looked over, didn't see the condom and started worrying about it being flushed
/r/MensRights04/12/13 09:12 PM
1

I'd be worried he was flushing them. Plumbers are expensive
/r/MensRights04/12/13 09:10 PM
1

There's a lot of good here and I do believe in men's rights. But some want to see women punished rather than get equal
/r/MensRights04/12/13 12:09 PM
2

If you think someone is that fucknuts, you shouldn't be sleeping around them, let alone sleeping with them. If you don't trust someone, don't fuck them
/r/MensRights04/12/13 10:42 AM
2

This sub gets so terrified about spermjacking, then says any woman that gets worried about strangers raping her is a heterophobic monster.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 10:41 AM
1

I understand that must be horrifying to walk in on. But there HAD to be some signs of crazy before this happened. Dudes need to really be careful to see red flags
/r/MensRights04/12/13 10:38 AM
2

You are literally too stupid to insult. Why would anyone shove sharp stuff up their vagina? Don't you think the dude would feel it? I'm more paranoid about our birth control than my partner, but I suppose if I really wanted to, I could use my fingernails to fuck up the condom as I opened it. If you think someone would do this to you, DON'T FUCK THEM.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 10:36 AM
0

Source your own shit, you're an adult. Go to the library and a librarian should be able to tell you what databases your school is subscribed to
/r/MensRights03/12/13 01:14 AM
1

Are you writing this for college?
/r/MensRights03/12/13 12:33 AM
1

Everything you post is from dailymail, or completely offtopic. Stahp.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 10:31 PM
7

Ah, that's fair. I think that this subreddit is big enough to withstand a lot of brigading, though
/r/MensRights02/12/13 10:19 PM
3

Yet this subreddit thinks that financial parental surrender is just the bee's knees. Those babies all have a father, where's he in all this? Why are their tax dollars going to support babies they never fucked for? I have hella baby rabies. I love children, and would love to be a mom. But I can't afford that shit, so I'm very, very careful to not put myself in that spot.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 10:18 PM
8

Yeah, I open all the ones below threshold though. I guess some people don't
/r/MensRights02/12/13 10:13 PM
1

What the fuck is wrong with these people? It should be between the two people that created the fetus
/r/MensRights02/12/13 10:13 PM
1

Haha, I made a lulu so that I could check to see what was said about another poster here. I don't know anyone that uses it.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 10:09 PM
1

It sucks because so many people were fed this line about it being safer and healthier. i'd circumcise my son too, if I thought it would keep them from getting HIV, or lower their risk. Now that it's been proven that it's not the miracle fix people thought it would be, we need to stop cutting boys.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 10:05 PM
12

Remember that they're imaginary internet points and let it go.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 10:03 PM
2

So aren't you more careful when you go out at night? If you get assaulted, people feel sorry for you. If some dude screams gross stuff at you, people tell you to suck itt up
/r/MensRights02/12/13 06:44 PM
3

That guy that followed me was probably mentally ill. But frankly, I don't give a fuck. It scared the shit out of me
/r/MensRights02/12/13 02:37 PM
0

I've had that happen in this subreddit. Everytime this comes up, people try to make it the fault of the people that are creeped out, by saying it's because they're unattractive. Some women are emotional and whiny. Some men are too. Call a spade a spade, and if someone is creepy, you should be able to say that. If you're willing to call people cunts, bitches and whores, you can't get butthurt about being called creepy, and this subreddit is all about that double standard
/r/MensRights02/12/13 09:27 AM
2

Um. What exactly is this stretching? Is it painful? How do you do it?
/r/MensRights02/12/13 08:12 AM
2

Maybe off topic, but Kurt Cobain's diary has a blurb before it that says "don't read this even after I'm dead", and it was published anyways. Infuriating
/r/MensRights02/12/13 08:09 AM
2

I've never called a guy creepy for asking me out, as long as he leaves me alone when I say no. If you escalate, like showing up at my house when I don't tell you where I live, or keep bothering me, that's creepy. But I'm sick of being told that describing someone as creepy when they do shit like that is "creepshaming"
/r/MensRights02/12/13 08:07 AM
5

For me, it actually makes it so much worse. To be a parent, and murder your child for your love life is stomach churning.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 08:05 AM
2

Ok, but it's something. I was sexually abused as a child, and because I knew that a ton of people that were molested tend to victimize people, I was afraid that I was a fucking monster. Breaking the cycle is so important. Also, too many people believe that men can't be molested. It's important to stop that thought
/r/MensRights02/12/13 08:02 AM
0

Well, I've had a random dude try to follow me home, and he was screaming that I was a whore and a bitch because I told him I had a boyfriend. He was like a foot taller than me and 100 pounds heavier. It burns me up when people tell me that if someone hits on you, just tell them to go away. That doesn't always work, and it's why a lot of girls resort to calling people creepy.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 07:53 AM
1

It rarely happens to me, but when it has, the person has been absolutely fucking crazy, or a bad person. Creepy should be reserved for people that unsettle you, and you're not sure why. Everyone else should be described with why they're an asshole
/r/MensRights02/12/13 07:42 AM
-1

You've never met someone that looked normal, but made you feel unsettled as soon as you met them?
/r/MensRights02/12/13 05:22 AM
3

Dated a guy that was shorter than me, and I'm 5'4". Also about four inches of dick. Next boyfriend was 5'6", and kinda small too.
/r/MensRights01/12/13 12:02 AM
2

I've dated short guys with small dicks. Don't whine and feel sorry for yourself and you will find someone.
/r/MensRights30/11/13 10:21 PM
1

I think it's a really touchy thing when it's done for religion. People have also been fed a line of bullshit about circumcision being better for health and lowering HIV transmission rates.
/r/MensRights30/11/13 02:53 PM
1

Yea, but I don't know about that
/r/MensRights30/11/13 02:36 PM
1

There are women with very shallow vaginas that prefer smaller dicks. There's a lid for every pot
/r/MensRights30/11/13 09:54 AM
3

It's shitty when "WOMEN'S TOOLS" are sold, and it's a godawful hammer someone has spraypainted a garish pink. If they're a quality item, party on.
/r/MensRights30/11/13 05:56 AM
6

I'm a fairly unattractive girl. You do realize plastic surgery isn't free, right? I'm not going to spend a bunch of money I don't have to be hot. If you don't have looks, you can compensate with personality. The only person I know who has had plastic surgery got his perfectly fine nose fixed. Men can get every facial feature fixed and put on muscle with steroids, if they choose
/r/MensRights30/11/13 05:54 AM
1

Controlling men may have issues, and still be an asshole. This woman is crazy, but she's still an asshole. Someone buy her poor dude a pair of running sneakers and a taser
/r/MensRights30/11/13 05:50 AM
0

It depends. If you're not equipped to give someone stable, emotional support, it would be better to find people therapists on a sliding scale, or someone to talk to.
/r/MensRights30/11/13 05:44 AM
1

My critique was based on the lack of sources and the poor writing. That's not going to fly in college, which you should be preparing him for. You agree with the student's ideas, and want to give him an A for it. You should be more concerned with how she expresses them.
/r/MensRights30/11/13 05:22 AM
1

My college professors seem to grade me highly. If you were going to give that paper an a, I'm not concerned with your feedback. Now, I know you must be upset that your diabolical troll plot didn't work, but at this point, you should probably give up and delete your throwaway.
/r/MensRights30/11/13 05:10 AM
1

Exactly! I'm working on my flexibility, so I'm doing a lot of yoga and bodyweight shit. Why would I pay someone to help me do that when I can YouTube it?
/r/MensRights30/11/13 05:07 AM
1

I was mocking the part where your student wrote in nothing but fragments for a paragraph
/r/MensRights30/11/13 02:01 AM
10

I'm being a huge snob. But it's jerky, relies heavily on hyperbole, asserts bold claims and supplies no statistics, the paragraphs are oddly broken up, there's no transition between the paragraphs. The part about women lying about rape is all fragments. It's not high level writing
/r/MensRights29/11/13 11:14 PM
3

I'm a 2010 graduate. this is shit, and wouldn't have flown four years ago. You are a troll, but if that's your writing, you should feel shitty
/r/MensRights29/11/13 10:09 PM
7

When I was in 11th grade, I didn't write like this. And use periods like commas. And throw in sentence fragments. You're absolutely right. OP isn't a teacher, but if he was, he'd be letting students get away with piss poor work. A teacher's job is to rip these kinds of papers apart, and tell them they're poorly written, but with interesting ideas.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 08:23 PM
12

I would never hand this in. The writing is absolute shit, let alone the lack of facts.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 04:24 PM
6

Also, this kid keeps using periods as commas. This is not high school junior level writing, at least to me. This isn't math class, x+y=z is not an appropriate sentence
/r/MensRights29/11/13 04:21 PM
3

But countless women have lost their )ives!
/r/MensRights29/11/13 04:07 PM
6

I might be a snob, but is this high school junior level writing? The OP said that other peope quoted Wikipedia, so it was a take home paper, I'm assuming. If it was supposed to be formal, this kid has issues that need to be adressed. If it was a casual thing, then it's fine
/r/MensRights29/11/13 07:51 AM
66

What class is this for? They asserted some bold claims without citing a single statistic. Is this an opinion piece?
/r/MensRights29/11/13 07:00 AM
0

It's a mark of the covenant, and millennia of tradition. OP wants to do it to punish people.
/r/MensRights28/11/13 06:56 AM
2

It sucks, but when people endow a scholarship, they can give it to whoever they choose. Look for academic ones. I'm paying half price for my school. Also look at being an RA eventually
/r/MensRights28/11/13 06:31 AM
4

I'm female. If you pm me your name and tell me where ro install the app, I can do it. I don't know anyone that uses it though
/r/MensRights28/11/13 06:24 AM
1

Kids being impulsive is now a men's rights issue?
/r/MensRights28/11/13 06:22 AM
1

It's a common defense mechanism to reclaim power after a traumatic event like that. If they ignore the rape, and have sex with their rapist, it's like it never happened. If you stay with someone that beat you, does it mean you consented to the beating
/r/MensRights28/11/13 06:19 AM
1

Circumcision is traditionally done for religious or health reasons, though they're moving away from the health reasons. You have no right to attack an adult's genitals because of their opinions, you fucking psycho.
/r/MensRights28/11/13 06:16 AM
1

People use the phrase "irish twins" real casually
/r/MensRights27/11/13 05:14 PM
1

They would need to want change to have it stick. If I were a friend of theirs, I'd financially dominate them and pay for their therapy
/r/MensRights27/11/13 05:05 PM
3

Yeah, but I know the lifts I'm doing. You never bounce the bar against your chest, that's fucking retarded. Running/rowing ten miles three times a week isn't going to turn me into Arnold. If they were right instead of sprouting broscience, it would be another thing all together
/r/MensRights27/11/13 01:04 PM
4

Yeah, but you were struggling. Unless someone looks like they're about to injure themselves, I leave them the fuck alone.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 12:55 PM
0

I think that asking some questions like if they'd ever had sex before, or what the victim was wearing cloud people's minds. I'm not sure what the solution is, though.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 11:13 AM
-1

Yeah, and my friend that's workimg two jobs and doing household shit while her fiance is umemployed is being exploited. I know a few grown ass adults that shamelessly let their partner pay all their bills, and all the ones I personally know are males. It's shitty, but I like that they're being exploited in a way that is probably the safest for their kink. It's more transitory, and they can opt out.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 10:03 AM
2

If it's consensual, and informed consent is given, why is it our business? If that's what gets you off, go for it.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 09:45 AM
4

Fuckin daily mail. It's not a news source, it's a gossip rag. People need to stop treating it like it's gospel
/r/MensRights27/11/13 07:58 AM
3

Can't believe I forgot this. The thread about the kid that got raped by his teacher, and a couple people asked if it was "real" rape. I got asked if I was a NOW agent because I called peopld out on it
/r/MensRights27/11/13 07:04 AM
1

I'm trying to compile and word stuff right. I'm cross checking with academic papers and shit, it's taking forever. Probably going to do it over winter break
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:52 AM
3

My mom uses Woman Up, because she used Man Up with my brother. A woman does not manipulate, whine to get away with stuff or shirk her duties haha.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:50 AM
2

What the fuck! I thought you had to sign your parental rights away for the baby to be given up for adoption. That poor kid :(
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:48 AM
2

That was what I thought of first. Or if they were attracted to the rapist, what were they wearing, shit like that. It seems that asking if you've ever had rough sex or bdsm-ish sex is common in ex partner rapes
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:46 AM
3

False rape claims should be brought up, especially if they have been proven to be false. But just because you consent to sex with someone at one time, doesn't mean they can never rape you. Defense attorneys ask if the woman ever had sex with an exboyfriend that raped her after they broke up, and she has to say yes
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:44 AM
6

The attacks against feminists get a little personal, instead of focusing on the issues. You don't need to say, "feminists are always cunting on about ____". It's off putting. Also, the double standard of people in this sub being over the moon when a female gets accused of rape vs. The normal position of wanting to keep the accused's name confidential was a little ridiculous. A lot of people complain on this sub, but don't do anything about it. I like that bullshit quickly gets called out, and th…
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:41 AM
1

I'm a science major, and frequently have a difficult time simplifying/understanding what to include and leave out.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:29 AM
2

I have guys walk up to me at the gym and start telling me that if I run/row too much, my legs are going to get bulky, and suggest I bounce a dumbbell off my chest. I've never had a woman do it to me, do gymbros do it to guys too?
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:26 AM
6

Curves is a fucking shithole. No cardio machines, no weights, crazy low resistance on the weight machines. I can march in place at home. Seriously the lamest workout I've ever had and I've gone to the gym baked
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:24 AM
1

Go for it, but realize it's not economically feasible in most cases.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:18 AM
1

If someone wants to help me with this men's health guide I'm trying to write, I'd really appreciate it!
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:10 AM
8

Men get FUCKED in court. I saw two people with the same records (none) go to the same judge for the same offence (got busted underage drinking at the same party), and the woman got a lower dine and less community service
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:08 AM
15

People post sad stories about their little brother with cancer that aren't true for upvotes, let alone money.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:06 AM
4

It may not be gender or racially exclusive, but people definitely say sexist and racist shit that puts off potential allies. We should be careful about the face of the mrm
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:04 AM
4

I think feminism has a right to anger. I also think mrm has a right to anger. When you know you're getting fucked over, it's hard not to be angry. But it isn't productive at all, and spewing vitriol will make you look unbalanced and your cause look crazy.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 05:24 AM
1

Like people who have babies so someone loves them. Fuck that, get a puppy
/r/MensRights27/11/13 05:10 AM
1

They're not pedophiles, but it is exploitative and wrong. Someone who goes after a 14 year old is an ephebophile, but it's still exploitative and wrong
/r/MensRights26/11/13 11:37 PM
1

I have a boyfriend I adore
/r/MensRights26/11/13 05:41 AM
1

Yeah, I want kids. But I want them with someone I love, and that loves me and is willing to be my partner
/r/MensRights26/11/13 05:27 AM
3

So if I'm unattracted to someone because they're ugly, poor, crazy or ill, why isn't that "just a preference" that I should feel free to discuss? Why is it shaming when it applies to men, and preference when it applies to women?
/r/MensRights26/11/13 03:31 AM
1

Yep. I think there should be a separate certification for treating anal cancers that proctologists should get
/r/MensRights26/11/13 03:23 AM
4

Red Pill theory isn't that bad. No one should jump through hoops just for the opportunity to date someone, and if someone isn't as into you as you are to them, drop them. But when they post articles about why you should date a girl with an eating disorder, recommend snooping through Facebook and texts, and compare women to dogs, they make themselves look very bad.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 03:18 AM
1

Oh gross. I meant 5 years older, I should have noted that. Younger than 15 is where things get skeevy. There's so much different between a 13 and a 14 year old
/r/MensRights25/11/13 07:35 PM
-2

Nope, I see it with civilians. Bad people rip each other off and use each other
/r/MensRights25/11/13 02:37 PM
0

Nope. I know a girl whose 26 year old fiance has not worked in five years, and has no excuse for his unemployment. She works two jobs to pay their bills, and he still expects her to run household errands, because he doesn't have a license. If you are terminally jobless, and expect your partner to pick up the slack for you to watch netflix all day, you're a disgrace, male or female. Deadbeat girlfriend are a thing too. If you expect your boyfriend to pay all your bills, I don't respect you and wi…
/r/MensRights25/11/13 07:23 AM
1

At 15, anyone within 5 years should be ok
/r/MensRights25/11/13 07:15 AM
5

Yeah, but it's a husband that doesn't really love you, and I'd much rather work a job to make my own money than depend on a guy that I suckered into getting me pregnant. It's just not a good financial strategy, to say nothing of the morals
/r/MensRights25/11/13 04:59 AM
1

I'd love to see a random sampling, or an entire hospital sampled. I think most people are honest.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 03:41 AM
4

Military especially because of the rampant infidelity. But yeah, civilian would be good too. It's got to be a widespread thing.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 03:28 AM
3

I knew you had to get permission. I think it would be good if it was like a 2 week class, with guest speakers that got all their shit jacked and are paying through the nose. I also think that any military dependent's offspring should be paternity tested in the hospital. Don't soldiers have a DNA sample on record? I would get supremely butthurt if my boyfriend asked me for a paternity test, but if the hospital did it to everyone, I couldn't blame him.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 03:15 AM
2

Spermicide preferably. There a little metal boxes you can use to keep condoms in instead of wallets. They're better, because they protect the condoms better. They should all claim latex allergies and insist on providing the condoms to make sure they're untampered with. If someone tells you they're on birth control, act like they're not anyways. Better safe than sorry
/r/MensRights25/11/13 03:11 AM
5

Why would you want to get pregnant by someone who doesn't want a kid? I know you can get child support and all, but being a single mom to a kid is a pretty shitty way to make a living
/r/MensRights25/11/13 03:08 AM
3

They should seriously have a class you have to take before you get married in the military, going over signs of domestic abuse, couple's counseling, how much a person could gain from you if they leave you, and why you shouldn't marry someone you've "been with" (seen for two weeks total on your leave) for less than a year. If the person marry the military member has been married to another, that should be flagged, and discussed with the soldier. I think before marrying anyone who's divorced, you …
/r/MensRights25/11/13 03:07 AM
2

I feel like usually parents that are that shady have given off warning signs, like abuse, drug/alcohol addiction, neglect, and stuff like that. But you're right, there's no way an 18 year old isn't going to trust his mom, unless he's got a good reason to, and usually not even then
/r/MensRights25/11/13 03:03 AM
1

I think that happens a lot with date rape. Look at the guy that dated his rapist. If he chose to date her, and told himself he loved her, it would be a way of ignoring what happened to him, and acting like it wasn't that big of a deal.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 01:13 AM
1

If you lie about your age and get a dude in trouble, you should be charged. I think it was Akon that had sex with a girl he met at a 21 and over show, and she was underage. She tricked him into having sex with her. It should be illegal
/r/MensRights25/11/13 01:10 AM
3

If you wear heels, you know to head up the curb, and step over the smaller puddle there. She looks like a horse balkimg at a fence. Ridiculous
/r/MensRights25/11/13 01:08 AM
2

But if you condition your beard it makes it so much more pettable. I let my boyfriend use some of my expensive argan oil, and he couldn't keep his hands off it
/r/MensRights25/11/13 01:05 AM
4

If some dude is willing to ruin a jacket because that woman is too dumb to walk around a puddle, I weep for humanity.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 01:04 AM
6

My boyfriend paid on our first date, though i offered to pay my half. Since then, we split, pay for ourselves, or occasionally take turns paying the whole thing. He's my partner. I don't want to be financially beholden to him, nor do I want him to feel beholden to me.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 01:00 AM
-5

I've seen plenty of women get ripped off by dead beat boyfriends too. This is a good, unisex lesson about not mingling finances and love for a very long time
/r/MensRights25/11/13 12:55 AM
1

Relationships can be at least attempted. But never, ever, ever give someone besides your parents or someone you would trust with your life power of attorney.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 12:53 AM
2

Troll.
/r/MensRights24/11/13 01:19 AM
0

Wonder why everyone thinks MRAs hate women.
/r/MensRights24/11/13 01:14 AM
1

That's when you grab their shoulder, make them face you, and punch them. There's no excuse to suckerpunch someone from behind.
/r/MensRights24/11/13 01:13 AM
1

I would encourage some kind of con ed before treating these patients, thoygh
/r/MensRights24/11/13 12:32 AM
6

Yeah, and breast cancer is save the tatas. Who gives a shit about the person attached, just make sure those tits are ok!
/r/MensRights23/11/13 01:11 PM
1

I make sure it gently touches my chest, but he was trying to get me to bounce it. Weirdest form I've ever seen
/r/MensRights23/11/13 05:19 AM
2

You shouldn't, but make sure you've got somewhere to go before starting to talk about shit like this
/r/MensRights23/11/13 04:47 AM
1

Haha, you see what you want to see. Have you ever tried going around to other martial arts places and asking about classes? Some of them really don't advertise very well, but have them, or have a teacher that's qualified in them
/r/MensRights23/11/13 04:39 AM
0

It's not sexist, but it is a little silly. I've been freaked out by people looking at me while I'm working out, but the truth is 99% of people don't give a fuck what you're doing, and are focused on themselves
/r/MensRights23/11/13 04:37 AM
0

Some dudebro walked up to me while I was benchpressing, and touched my arm to get my attention. I jumped, and almost took a bar to the face. He then told me I should be letting the bar "tap" my chest for full range. What the fuck? It's annoying when someonr tries to give you advice and they don't know what they're talking about
/r/MensRights23/11/13 04:33 AM
0

Or the tank tops cut down to the waist. It's not that fucking hot, bro. If I can run a half in sweats and a t shirt, you can wear a full tank top. Everybody should put their nipples away at the gym
/r/MensRights23/11/13 04:26 AM
7

How the fuck are people even attracted to their students? You talk to them every day and know what little shitheads teenagers are. To take advantage of your position is disgusting.
/r/MensRights23/11/13 04:11 AM
2

Yeah, I had to pay out the nose for mine. The second course burned like hell too
/r/MensRights23/11/13 04:03 AM
42

Yesss. It's also a black guy, who is statistically more likely to die of prostate cancer
/r/MensRights23/11/13 03:59 AM
1

I would be so ashamed of my son if he got someone pregnant, and ran out. Thankfully, I have no children yet
/r/MensRights23/11/13 03:56 AM
1

The better birth control is practiced, the less this sticky situation will come up. This is why I'm rooting for a safe method of birth control for men, besides spermicide and condoms.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 09:43 PM
1

Not wanting to press charges could mean not wanting to rehash all this in public in front of an attorney that will rip apart every detail to try to make you look like a lying whore
/r/MensRights22/11/13 03:13 PM
6

I am both. An injustice was done to me. No child should be molested. However, I did move past it to become a functional adult. Shit, I'm even able to have empathy for my sister, when you can't have empathy for a confused child that was sexually assaulted. One of us is broken, and it's certainly not me
/r/MensRights22/11/13 03:08 PM
1

You do realize that abortion is a painful and often emotionally traumatic medical procedure, right? bearing a child the father doesn't want has never been the easy way out. There's a huge difference between taxing me so needy children can eat, and another so that men have the luxury of not paying for their mistakes at all. Fuck me getting bled dry for 18 years of every unwanted kid so the dad can step out. What about the man whores that will knock multiple girls up? What incentive will males hav…
/r/MensRights22/11/13 02:58 PM
2

In stem fields, they pay for your grad school, and you work as a ta or lab tech
/r/MensRights22/11/13 10:20 AM
1

Nope. I work at a home improvement store. I'm a college student. Believe me, if I got paid to post on reddit, I wouldn't be dicking around on /r/fatpeoplestories I believe in men's rights, and women's rights. I don't think anyone should have an unfair leg up. I don't always agree with posters here, but I'm working on my pet project of a men's health guide.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 07:55 AM
-1

Twox isn't feminist so much as female. Trollxchromosomes is hilarious too. Bluepill is making fun of the most ridiculous of the redpill people, who I think are misogynistic children. Do you really want to know who I work for?
/r/MensRights22/11/13 07:43 AM
3

Ahh, I see. I don't have an ulterior motive. I just think it's horrifying when people assume men can't be raped, or that if you were raped, you must have brought it upon yourself somehow. My generation is growing up with the idea that men always want it, so even if you force yourself on some passed out dude, it's cool. Shit like not believing victims compounds this
/r/MensRights22/11/13 07:33 AM
3

I kinda hate that I immediately saw free, and my cheapass got excited. The title is horrific, though. I kinda have a morbid curiosity to read it, because who would really publish a book about that?
/r/MensRights22/11/13 07:28 AM
2

Doing something you like with health benefits and heat/ AC
/r/MensRights22/11/13 07:26 AM
12

Didn't you hear? The "stop whining and get over it" school of resolving childhood sexual trauma is sweeping the nation!
/r/MensRights22/11/13 07:23 AM
2

No, this guy was blackout drunk and a girl that was sober enough to remember everything raped him. It's disgusting.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 07:19 AM
8

I did overcome it. This happened when I was a child, which really fucked up my development. Today, I'm happy, healthy, have a boyfriend I think I want to settle down with, and my parents know what happened, and have been loving and supportive.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 07:18 AM
3

Because a defense attorney will rip your life and soul into tiny little pieces to get his client off, and you get to relive the most painful, embarrassing, shameful experience of your life in public. Rape trials aren't easy.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 07:01 AM
15

Ok, I was molested by my sister. The fallout from the physically unpainful abuse included: years of being nauseous whenever people touched me, issues forming and maintaining relationships, self-injury, questioning my gender and sexuality, and a rollicking case of bulimia. But whew, thank god no one put a penis in me. That would have REALLY fucked me up.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 06:57 AM
6

Oh, he got drunk? Everyody on board the rape train! It's disgusting, and I guarantee you almost everyone in this thread has gotten too drunk for their own good at least once.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 05:27 AM
2

I don't know, you were the one that had to bring up how she looked. I was being sarcastic about being a child molester. It's like magic to low folks
/r/MensRights22/11/13 04:39 AM
1

I have waist length dark brown hair. Guess I can be a kiddy fiddler now.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 04:24 AM
5

Why mention she's attractive? She's still a predator and a fucking child rapist
/r/MensRights22/11/13 03:26 AM
3

Well, you know, every 16 year old wants to fuck everybody, no exceptions. We all know men are just sex, sex, sex with anyone that'll say yes, or at least not shriek no. A grown adult fucking q CHILD? Totes cool, cause boys can't be raped. /s This is such bullshit that every time one of these cases comes up, some mouthbreather talks about how they wished it happened to them. Fucking disgusting
/r/MensRights22/11/13 03:25 AM
2

She already lost custody of one kid, which should hopefully completely screw her
/r/MensRights22/11/13 02:41 AM
2

Holy shit. All this, plus the fact she never filed her moving paperwork might help. Do you have a lawyer?
/r/MensRights22/11/13 02:30 AM
2

There's no way to even it out, though. Sexuality is inherently unequal. I'm unattractive. I don't get to demand that people that aren't into me sleep with me or date me, because that's not right. I'm not sure what else can be done besides legalizing prostitution, which I do agree with.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 02:19 AM
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When's your court date? Can you go to your daughter's doctor and dentist and ask them to write you a not about how you've brought her for all her medical stuff? Bring up all the visits the mom missed. Look up crime stats for your neighborhood vs. Her neighborhood. Get a background check done on the boyfriend. Roll deep to this court hearing, it's better to have it and not need it than to want it and not have it. Good luck!
/r/MensRights22/11/13 02:03 AM
2

There's being asked for $500, and then there's being asked to not be a huge dick for no reason to half the world for no reason.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 01:55 AM
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If you 100% opt out and go your own way, that's cool. If you bitterly tell anyonr that'll listen that you won't touch a woman because they're all worthless, whorish children, you have issues
/r/MensRights22/11/13 01:53 AM
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I've seen some shit here too that's inexcusable, but 6/10, it gets called out.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 01:46 AM
3

Take pictures of where she hit you, any bruising, cuts. Timestamp it in some way.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 01:43 AM
12

Everyone wonders why male rape isn't seen as a problem, and then this thread blows up with a bunch of people who weren't there andd don't know what happened discussing if he was "really" raped. What the fuck?
/r/MensRights22/11/13 01:37 AM
0

I'm confused. Is this government gets gfs: handicapped edition? You are not guaranteed love or affection, nor can you demand it from people. Yes, prostitution should be legal. But I also know handicapped men who have gotten married before, and after their accidents. It's not hopeless
/r/MensRights22/11/13 01:29 AM
1

My mom cried until she threw up when she had a miscarriage in the first trimester. 20 years later, she still thinks about the baby she lost sometimes. Now add the guilt of aborting, and it not being 100% your decision, you have to choose this because you can't afford the baby, and the guy who has an equal part in it got to skip away with no consequences
/r/MensRights22/11/13 01:17 AM
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Abortions aren't a snap of the fingers and the baby's gone. It's a painful, expensive procedure that can really fuck you up emotionally and physically. A lot of women are really depressed after them, and feel like murderers. It's not an easy decision, and to force someone to make it because you don't want to take responsibility for your actions is fucked up
/r/MensRights22/11/13 01:13 AM
0

So why do I have to play daddy to everyone who decided they don't want to pay's baby? I'm sexually responsible so I don't have to pay for a baby. Don't make me pay for every dipshit that can't wrap it.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 01:08 AM
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Someone fixed it in the first comment. Share away.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 01:06 AM
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Holy fucking shit, dude. He's a 16 year old child, she's an adult in a position of power over him. This is unbelievably wrong. If he didn't want to become involved with her, or wanted to stop his involvement, she could completely screw him over. If he reports it, no one will believe him or really care because of people like you that think it's "hot".
/r/MensRights22/11/13 01:01 AM
1

Honestly, I think it used to be like that, but now everyone is using both forms. Women fight and are catty, men fight and are catty.
/r/MensRights21/11/13 10:32 PM
1

Our relationship would never have any bearing on his relationship with a potential child. provided he isn't abusive, and I very much doubt he would be, if he's the father, I owe him whatever relationship with his kid he wants
/r/MensRights20/11/13 06:06 PM
1

That's very true. If every man donated 20 hours a year to male related health organizations, the world would be a better place
/r/MensRights20/11/13 12:51 PM
1

Ah, I wish I'd seen this before I typed my big long reply. Argh! But yeah, I give him the information he needs to make informed consent. I went off my birth control for a doctor recommended reset this summer, and told him I went off, even though we were long distance and not having sex.
/r/MensRights20/11/13 12:38 PM
1

I would argue that he's opted in, by consenting to sex with me, knowing I wouldn't abort, and telling me that if the shit hit the fan, we'd deal with it together. He made an informed decision, weighing the risk, and the likelihood that both our methods of birth control would fail. He also doesn't have a problem with me supplying the condoms he uses, even after we talked about me understanding if he would prefer to provide his own to make 100% sure they're untampered with.
/r/MensRights20/11/13 12:34 PM
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So in case of accidental pregnancy, the woman MUST abort, or be punished? An abortion is a medical procedure involving pain and sometimes anaesthesia. It's also a heart wrenching decision for a lot of women, and something they feel deep pain, regret, and depression after. It's not as easy as a lot of people think
/r/MensRights20/11/13 12:30 PM
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You added to your original comment, so here's my reply. I take birth control, he uses condoms, and no problems so far. If my boyfriend didn't want to potentially handle a child with me, he could stop sleeping with me. I told him upfront that abortion is not personally on the table for me. He agreed, and told me that if something happened, we would handle it together. I fail to see how I'm irresponsible. I use two methods of birth control, and had an open discussion with my boyfriend about my mor…
/r/MensRights20/11/13 09:11 AM
1

None. But what kid's siblings would do it is another question.
/r/MensRights20/11/13 06:28 AM
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Lol, k. We use condoms and I take my pill daily at the same time. I'm upfront and don't mislead him. You're ridiculous
/r/MensRights20/11/13 05:54 AM
1

Someone raised a good point. Are they 100% sure it was the parents? My siblings and I did crazy shit all the time as kids. But even if it was the kids, Jesus, look after your children better
/r/MensRights20/11/13 05:35 AM
2

Someone has to write articles about how sloppy women who are 300 pounds should be seen as sexy as Keira knightley!
/r/MensRights20/11/13 05:27 AM
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I have a question about my life. I don't believe in abortion, and giving a child away would break my heart. My boyfriend knows my stance, so we're careful to use condoms and birth control. Now, if I got pregnant, and he suddenly decided that I should get an abortion, should he be allowed to opt out of fatherhood, even though I gave him fair warning about my refusal to abort?
/r/MensRights20/11/13 05:25 AM
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Dude, there's no reason someone old enough to be a sophomore in college should be fucking an eighth grader. I understand that you're upset that females tend to get off of charges on this sort of thing, but stop defending child fuckers
/r/MensRights20/11/13 05:07 AM
2

Adorable. Have fun with your little one, and take care of yourself
/r/MensRights20/11/13 01:49 AM
2

Everyone does seem to want to make excuses. It's always, oh she had postpartum, oh she was depressed, he abused her. Insanity is seen as something to get a lighter sentence. Let's spin this another way. Is Charles Manson crazy? Hell yes! Does he deserve a lighter sentence because he's crazy? Hell no! Andrea Yates should and is going to rot in prison. She killed her babies.
/r/MensRights20/11/13 01:47 AM
2

Aww! Can I ask what you named him?
/r/MensRights20/11/13 01:42 AM
2

I did look at that, but it was dead. :/
/r/MensRights20/11/13 01:42 AM
2

It makes sense that women kill spouses more often than strangers. If you're with someone constantly, you're more likely to kill them than just an acquaintance. It bothers me that a lot of people jump and assume the woman must have been abused, while the male doesn't get that courtesy
/r/MensRights20/11/13 01:40 AM
1

I would try anyways. There's not much to lose, and you can gain a lot from this. Realize that A probably hasn't changed much, so who knows what he's seen her get up to?
/r/MensRights20/11/13 01:37 AM
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He got fucked because they weren't married. If the were married, he would have been stuck paying support but probably would have gotten visitation.
/r/MensRights20/11/13 01:36 AM
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Go Grandma!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/13 11:55 PM
1

They're not scamming people. People choose to go above and beyond for them because they're pretty. Who cares?
/r/MensRights19/11/13 07:02 PM
1

I know men that buy makeup too.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 04:13 AM
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No Shave November is definitely more common than Movember where I'm at. I'm currently trying to write a layman's guide to men's health. I guess I'm transphobic for mentioning that prostatitis is a thing. The PSA definitely can have false positives, and that's problematic. But the doctor that gave you the test will be able to discuss that with you. Men should get it annually after the age of 40, and Movember is the perfect time to discuss it with a guy you love. It appears that Medicare does cove…
/r/MensRights19/11/13 03:36 AM
0

So should attractive people wear ugly masks and hair sweaters? You can't help being attractive, or unattractive. If people allow themselves to be manipulated by a pretty face, that's their fault.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 02:41 AM
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If you were led to believe the child was yours, then you find out it isn't, you didn't choose to be a father knowing all the facts and giving informed consent.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 12:56 AM
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It seriously depends on who you are. Some people have easy childbirth, some people have difficult childbirth. My family tends to have it easy. My mom described it as easier than a gallbladder attack.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 12:53 AM
1

I browse /r/thebluepill, which makes fun of /r/theredpill. There was a post that literally called women warm holes to jerk off in. There's a lot of hatred on there
/r/MensRights19/11/13 12:50 AM
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Also, what the fuck is up with women reading that shit in public, or posting about it on Facebook? I don't care what you do to get your tingles, but have a little discretion
/r/MensRights19/11/13 12:46 AM
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As a bio major, I'm kinda impressed she got pregnant from sperm that either sat in her mouth, r in the air. I'm assuming she had to go somewhere to get them inside her, so say a minute exposed to the elements, then swim all the way up. This guy should get a paternity test, and she should go to jail for rape, theft, and extortion.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 12:41 AM
3

Why would you want to have sex with someone who cheated on you? You should talk to a lawyer and a therapist to sort stuff out.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 12:38 AM
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Fucking really? This "for the children! " shit has gone too far. I assume they had optional filters that households with children could use. If the parents are too lazy to do it, that's on them There's no way a grown adult should be shamed for watching porn, unless it's snuff or kiddy porn.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 12:36 AM
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It's wrong to hit a dude because he can't hit you back, or will be unfairly judged if he does. More male/male, or female/female fights. I was addicted to Jerry when I was younger, we'd always watch it in my study hall. It really freaked me out when people would lean over their partner while they're sitting and scream in their face. If I wasn't sure it's staged, I'd worry about what goes on at home
/r/MensRights18/11/13 11:33 PM
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Well, if the economy meant that women could stay home with their kids, and support a household on one income, there would be more stay at home moms. Feminism kinda fucked a lot of women, because now they're supposed to have a job, do a lot of the child rearing and housework, and still be sexy. It's great that it gave us choices, but now almost everyone is forced into the career track
/r/MensRights18/11/13 11:30 PM
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It's weird that the sentences overlap like that. 10 and life are way different, at least to me. But holy shit, how do you purposely get pregnant so that your boyfriend has someone to molest? This whole thing is disgusting, and I hope they both rot in jail. This poor kid :(
/r/MensRights18/11/13 11:27 PM
1

Feel free. I'm not, but whatever makes you comfortable.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 11:22 PM
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This is my only account, though there's no way I can prove that. You can feel free to make alts and downvote me if you want. It's internet points, you don't get to turn them in for anything Yes, I've met women that need jail. The 42 year old that went after the 12 year old should have gotten a shit ton of jail. She's a pedophile. It's a disgrace that she got nothing.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 11:20 PM
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I think you're referring to a recent post I made in /r/relationships. If your spouse hasn't worked for longer than six months in ten years, and refuses to contribute in any way to your household, and doesn't have a good reason for it, leave their ass, male or female.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 11:14 PM
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I conside assault something violent. Putting your hand in front of a camera lens isn't violent. If she never touched him, it's not assault. Was there something I'm missing?
/r/MensRights18/11/13 11:12 PM
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YES! that's what seemed so annoying to me. He seemed like he was gloating when he said he was going to get her name off the police report and tried to get the cop involved.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 04:20 PM
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If the assault was her putting her hand in front of the lens, I don't feel bad for him. If there was some kind of physical altercation, that's another thing.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 04:19 PM
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Yeah, I'm talking about keeping the peace on the small stuff. I'm willing to do stuff a certain way because it drives my boyfriend bugshit if I don't, and he extends me the same courtesy
/r/MensRights18/11/13 04:05 PM
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Not even that, though it's bad enough. Someone posted an article here the other day about a 42 year old trying to give a 12 year old oral sex, and some jackasses were saying shit like, "Lucky! I wouldn't mind that" and "Where were these women when I was 12?" I think that prison rape doesn't get a lot of sympathy, because if the man's in prison, he must have done something wrong. It took a long time for me to realize that people in prison are either there falsely, did something illegal, or did so…
/r/MensRights18/11/13 12:24 PM
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I'm sure smearing shit all over like a damn chimp is the way to make people really think about putting change tables in the men's room. Jesus, try talking to the manager
/r/MensRights18/11/13 11:14 AM
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Yeah, but I know what I'm going to do with the footage. The dude filming seemed like a self satisfied douchebag.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 09:03 AM
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Nobody I know is doing it. I asked one of my friends who's on our school council to bring up making it a bigger thing on campus, and he forgot.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 08:24 AM
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He's got every right to film. But I know that if my friend was getting arrested, I wouldn't want film of it to go God knows where, and would certainly ask him to stop filming. I don't think that anyone is going to get arrested for putting their hand in front of a camera, or calling someone a creep. That's something you CAN get arrested for, but rarely happens.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 08:09 AM
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This is preaching to the choir. We know about the need for men's healthcare. OP should start a movement at work or school and get people talking about men's healthcare. I do understand. If only 90 year olds died of heart attacks, I would say that healthcare dollars could be more wisely spent elsewhere. Prostate cancer is still seen as an old man's disease. It's up to us to tell people that's not so, and encourage funding.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 08:06 AM
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This isn't creepshaming. This is a woman trying to make sure her friend getting DUI tested isn't on film. The guy also sounds like a huge dick. He's going to pull the police report for a random DUI to find out their names, because someone didn't want to be filmed? It's definitely weird.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 07:01 AM
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It's seriously fucked up. Women also get so vicious about men being little spoon too. Imagine if you had to hide all your emotions, and no one ever affectionately touched you. It would break me. I hold my boyfriend, give backrubs and beard scratches, and hugs. My best friend is male. When we're both single, we cuddle, hold hands, and hug. It's also fucked up that that's seen as sexual, and we refrain from doing it when one of us is in a relationship.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 06:53 AM
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Men need to agitate for better healthcare funding. Spread awareness, have your own fundraiser, donate to male health specific charities. But don't sit back and complain that you're not getting the funding that people set up events for, have corporate sponsorships for, and have races for.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 06:44 AM
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No one, or at least very few, people like poop. But would I prefer to change a kid's shitty diaper than have it sit and be uncomfortable? yep.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 06:41 AM
2

My boyfriend can do a serviceable braid and ponytail, and we don't even have kids. It's brushing hair, not rocket science.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 06:40 AM
1

For someone who doesn't want all men to be painted with the "creep" brush, you're cool with doing it to a religion that has billions of diverse people. The fuck, man?
/r/MensRights18/11/13 01:38 AM
1

Because all men want sex all the time with anyone they can get their hands on? Come on.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 01:33 AM
1

In relationships, the partner that cares more, wins. My boyfriend folds shirts different than me. If I have a couple of shirts that are his in my laundry, I fold them his way. The couple of times my dad vacuumed, he would only do the center of the room, and not the corners. That's not finishing the job, or doing it correctly. It's one thing if they use a different method, as long as it all gets clean. But you wouldn't eat a half baked cake, would you?
/r/MensRights18/11/13 12:47 AM
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Well, I use it correctly and encourage my friends to as well. I think it should remain a word with stigma, and applied equally to male and female creeps
/r/MensRights17/11/13 07:08 PM
1

Let's see. His mom is a fourth grade teacher, and his dad is disabled. They got the land with the forge for $200, because the county auctioned it off. His family is by no means rich, and neither is mine. I don't want to depend on either of them. We're both in college right now. I know that if I marry him, I take on his student loan debt, and I'm ok with that. I also don't want to get engaged until I can financially swing it if he's out of work for a few months. Love doesn't pay the bills, and I'…
/r/MensRights17/11/13 06:16 PM
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Well, for years my mom worked more than my dad, and was the breadwinner. She also did all the laundry, all the housework, all the grocery shopping, and probably 70% of the child rearing. He took naps, watched tv, played Madden, and showed up to our swim meets. If you and you partner work equal amounts at equally stressful jobs, things should be divided in half. I would lose attraction to a partner that expected me to cook and clean for them, and made no contribution.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 05:07 PM
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Still works against women as well. Clawing at the eyes, headbutting the face, kneeing the groin are universal. Women are more vulnerable to a punch in the chest
/r/MensRights17/11/13 05:02 PM
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Nope. It's getting s smidge ridiculous
/r/MensRights17/11/13 04:33 PM
3

Brain tumor.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 07:41 AM
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He keeps telling people to read the article, and glosses over the most obnoxious part. Interesting.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 07:32 AM
4

I think we're supposed to heap pussy on him in return for being such a "nice guy"
/r/MensRights17/11/13 07:27 AM
4

You're saying we all have part in this dynamic. I don't. I'm not trying to pick up or get picked up, I just want to be left the fuck alonr
/r/MensRights17/11/13 07:24 AM
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Or realize that if they keep buying condoms and always make sure to stick some in their purse before we go out, they're probably using them
/r/MensRights17/11/13 07:10 AM
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Haha, because I'm a good friend and make sure to talk to my friends about birth control.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 07:05 AM
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Haha, I fell for my boyfriend because of his personality. Dude's fantastic. But most of the women that marry rich dudes put a shitton of effort into their looks, so they both kinda win. If you want Prince Charming, you better look like Cinderella.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 06:11 AM
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I told him he was pretentious and that might be putting girls off. He proceeded to lash out at everyone who gave him honest advice and talking about how girls just want to be bent over and fucked against their wishes
/r/MensRights17/11/13 05:59 AM
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He deleted them because people called him out, he tried to run here, and most of the other people weren't having it either. He entirely misrepresented himself here, and I brought that up to show that he wasn't a helpless victim and some people did try to help him before he lashed out at them.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 05:46 AM
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Yep, some prattle about how if I put on makeup, I must want a man to look, and I can only be offended by a guy catcalling if his skin is brown or he doesn't make a ton of money to keep up with my $400/year makeup habit. Also, because women tend to prefer men to ask them out on dates, I, a happily monogamous person, am supposed to be over the moon when some douchebag yells that I have nice tits.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 05:43 AM
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And is that a good thing? I'm talking about people that show up at your house when you never told them where you live, text you 10 times with no response and get angry when you don't text them back immediately, and make the majority of people feel profoundly unsettled.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 05:38 AM
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Seriously? Most of the promiscuous people I know are careful as fuck because they don't want to get an std or have a baby and ruin their fun.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 05:35 AM
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If you're going to talk about that thread, link it. I was certainly not the only one that laid into that guy.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 04:11 AM
14

You're not bothering other people. You can sleep with 300 people, and as long as you're careful about protection, won't hurt anyone
/r/MensRights17/11/13 03:53 AM
1

Of couse some dude from Delco is supporting someone who tried to blow a 15 year old
/r/MensRights17/11/13 03:45 AM
2

You brought up children starving, then seemed to dance away from that point. If you put down all your fun money to help starving kids, I will happily throw in the $32.50 I've spent on makeup this year to feed kids. I sometimes do makeup at 3 am when I'm bored or stressed. I do it so that I feel confident. Go spend some time in /r/makeupaddiction and you'll see it's not all to attract guys
/r/MensRights17/11/13 03:36 AM
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I do believe in divorce in the case of abuse, or breaking of your vows, but I think it's shameful how many people divorce over a lack of butterflies. Also, if you have a kid, grow up and take responsibility
/r/MensRights17/11/13 03:10 AM
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And then there's all the people that are saying financial abortions should be a thing. Either a child should have two parents, or it shouldn't. If you use intense birth control and are careful not to contract/spread anything, it's none of my business. Sex means the risk of a baby, not a baby
/r/MensRights17/11/13 02:11 AM
1

And in another thread, I'm getting told to stop being narcissistic and deal with guys yelling at me on the street. We need a manifesto with specific points spelled out. Mrm is all over the place
/r/MensRights17/11/13 02:07 AM
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It's none of your business what people spend their money on, unless they owe you money or you live in their household. You said earlier that men don't get to complain about words destroying their lives and making them uncomfortable. What words are those?
/r/MensRights17/11/13 01:27 AM
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I don't have any part in the pickup dynamic right now. I haven't for the past four years, I've either been dating someone or unavailable. Have you ever seen particularly raunchy cat calling work? Some guy goes, "hey bitch, nice tits", the girl jumps in the car, and they live happily ever after? I don't know anyone who has met a significant other or one night stand via catcalling. It's probably got a crazy low success rate. People do it to embarrass other people.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 01:22 AM
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None of my friends catcall. I've talked to them about how to approach someone they like in a way that's respectful and most likely to work. I don't spend $400 a year on makeup, so I can't speak for people that do. But if you earn your money, you get to spend it how you see fit. I imagine that every cent of yours that you don't spend on rent and groceries goes straight to starving kids, right?
/r/MensRights17/11/13 01:15 AM
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What, did we all meet up and vote or something? 9/10 catcalling is used to humiliate, not pick up a partner
/r/MensRights17/11/13 01:00 AM
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I don't think promiscuous behavior should be stigmatized. It's not for me, but as long as you're safe, you're not hurting anyone. The word creep should only be used to define people that are crazy inappropriate. Men suck it up and deal too often. Everyone should know that male or female, if you act a certain way, people are going to call you a creep. Creep needs to be so strictly used that it's an immediate sign to steer clear of someone.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 12:59 AM
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It's not being told you look nice. If a guy tells me I look nice, I can accept the compliment and move on. It's having a dude that I don't know scream gross shit at me that I don't like.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 12:52 AM
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There's a huge difference between asking people to shut up on their phones, and asking them not to yell rude shit to you on the street. They aren't directly dragging you into it and mortifying you. You know they aren't even close to being the same. I do censor myself in public. I understand that many people are uncomfortable with someone swearing around them, so I pipe down my language until I get home or in private. I strongly avoid swearing in front of old people or kids. The k thing is random…
/r/MensRights17/11/13 12:49 AM
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I don't enjoy being yelled at on the street. It shuts down any chance a guy had with me. If you want to initiate, do it in a polite manner. I've politely told a guy I'm not interested and had him follow me toward what he thought was my home, screaming that I was a stuck up bitch and a fucking whore. I really can't get mouthy with random assholes on the street and still feel safe. I was the one that went after my boyfriend and asked him out. It can be difficult, but I managed to do it without scr…
/r/MensRights17/11/13 12:41 AM
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Is there anything redeeming about being a creep? I mean a legitimate one, someone who makes people uncomfortable and doesn't give a shit about it. I think you guys would be better off referring to women that show up at your house uninvited, text you 30 times with no response, and try to hit on you when you've turned them down as creeps. Let the word creep only be used for people that do crazy shit
/r/MensRights17/11/13 12:36 AM
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I got screamed down for "creepshaming" because I described a dude that followed me to what he thought was my home as a creep. I do talk to my friends about how a guy that asks you out and leaves you alone if you say no isn't a creep. I don't mind if people tell me I look nice. I do mind when I politely brush it off and they aggressively scream at me. I don't call dudes out for looking. I get mad when they're saying disgusting stuff to purposely make me uncomfortable. No guy thinks screaming, "he…
/r/MensRights17/11/13 12:15 AM
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At the end, he said women are supposed to thank the guys that yell they have nice tits. That's what I meant by crude.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 12:10 AM
1

I don't know, that was an actual question. I don't care what job my future husband has, but if he isn't motivated, or is lazy, that would be a turn off.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 11:39 PM
11

I didn't say the government should fix it, or it should be illegal. Every dude should just shut the fuck up, and not hoot and holler at random women. If you're interested, talk to them, and leave them alone if they aren't interested. It's not rocket science, and I'm not asking for the moon and stars. Just don't be a dick
/r/MensRights16/11/13 08:14 PM
1

So if both parties are getting what they want (male wants an attractive mate, female wants to marry up), why is it so looked down upon?
/r/MensRights16/11/13 08:12 PM
12

But we're taught from what, kindergarten, that it's rude to comment on someone's body. Do you catcall women?
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:59 PM
11

Fair. A better example would be loudly calling you a creep for no reason.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:48 PM
1

Believe me, I laugh at out of shape girls who want to marry Channing Tatum too. I think that if it's 100% laid out as a contract marriage, and both parties know what they're getting, sure. To trick someone into believing you love them is cruel
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:47 PM
1

Well, men are choosing to marry down. It seems like a lot of people here think it's ok to marry down, but if a woman marries up, she's a heartless skank. I do think at fault divorces should be a thing. If one party breaks the covenant of your marriage, they should be held responsible for the break up of the marriage. Sharia law, I don't know enough on to have a stance.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:44 PM
-1

No, I do think people should be practical, though. If you're a 2, and want to marry a 9, realize she may be attracted to you for money, and not love. I think people delude themselves too often
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:41 PM
9

Nor did I say any of that stuff happened. It's just annoying. If I walked up to you and slapped a drink out of your hand, it wouldn't kill you, but it wouldn't make you happy either
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:37 PM
1

What do you mean traditional fidelity laws?
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:31 PM
0

Sorry, but what sane 80 year old thinks a 23 year old is in love with him? I do think that gold diggers should be up front, but if the guy is still ok with it, fine
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:30 PM
-1

Bullshit they did. To subjugate a person is immoral. They may have appeared moral, but they were still shitty people
/r/MensRights16/11/13 06:55 PM
6

It's annoying. I'm trying to go to class or go grocery shopping and I have a grown man that's old enough to be my father hooting at me. It's degrading. I had a guy tell me I had big tits at my job. I ignored him, assuming he must be talking to someone else, so he repeated it. I was at work, and dressed conservatively. It made me uncomfortable as fuck. It can feel threatening. I was walking home one time, and this guy yelled "hey baby" across the street. I kept going, and he jogged to catch up to…
/r/MensRights16/11/13 06:52 PM
0

So males are perpetuating hypergamy?
/r/MensRights16/11/13 06:42 PM
5

In a relationship, you make compromises. No one is holding a gun to your head. If you don't like it, talk to your partner or leave.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 06:41 PM
3

What motivation would men have to be careful about birth control in this system? I can see more men getting careless, because if they knock the girl up, it's 100% her problem.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 06:37 PM
17

This is pretty crude. I'm not saying that men shouldn't approach women, but there's a difference between politely introducing yourself and shrieking lewd shit at a stranger. I've been catcalled in fucking sweatpants
/r/MensRights16/11/13 06:36 PM
1

To be fair, how many men that hold degrees dream of marrying someone who works fast food?
/r/MensRights16/11/13 06:22 PM
0

Fair. Gold digging isn't immoral, provided both parties know what they're getting themselves into. If two consenting adults want to marry, it's none of your business.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 04:01 PM
1

I don't want an engagement ring, and it's not my life goal to marry a rich dude. It may impact some people, but not everyone. There's no way extreme hypergamy can become the norm. Most people I know are marrying within the same economic bracket
/r/MensRights16/11/13 03:44 PM
3

Sure, I should have worded that better. No consenting adult's partner should be judged, provided it's with another consenting adult. It's not anyone's business
/r/MensRights16/11/13 03:32 PM
0

Gold digging is legal. Dating a young teenager isn't. I think it's completely wrong when grown women date young teens too.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 03:21 PM
2

So why not start a Go Red for Men event?
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:55 AM
2

Your healthcare is fucked up too. A lot of guys I know haven't been taught to examine their testicles or what to do about prostate health or heart disease
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:53 AM
3

You're paranoid. I believe in men's rights, but won't hesitate to talk about stuff I disagree with. That doesn't make me a brigader
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:50 AM
-3

You can't help what you're attracted to, but you shouldn't act on your preference because of the inequality of the relationship, unless you're 14 as well. I just don't get why so many people on here get so viciously butthurt when a consenting adult with a lot of money chooses to marry a consenting adult with less money.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 07:27 AM
0

And that is? If the people involved are ok with it, I'm not gonna judge
/r/MensRights16/11/13 06:10 AM
2

I choose thick knits, and slightly baggy jeans.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 04:35 AM
1

My goodness, how can I expect a man to contain himself whrn he can see my hands and face?
/r/MensRights16/11/13 04:29 AM
1

Ok, if you send out pictures of a male to shame and humiliate him, you should be punished as well. Did she attach his name?
/r/MensRights16/11/13 03:23 AM
-6

I don't understand this. If the guy involved has no problem that the woman is marrying him for his money, why do other people care?
/r/MensRights15/11/13 10:30 PM
0

I don't think this has any place in a sexual relationship. When it comes to sleeping with someone, if you aren't attracted to them, don't be with them. No one should be shamed for their preferences.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 10:19 PM
2

Ok, so if I'm wearing jeans, a sweater, and boots, and some guy catcalls me, what's my recourse?
/r/MensRights15/11/13 10:13 PM
2

But that doesn't really cover the crux of the matter. If you share a picture that you know was meant to be private to hurt or humiliate someone, there should be a punishment for that.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 09:18 PM
1

But do I have the right to not get objectified or stared at when I'm dressed conservatively?
/r/MensRights15/11/13 09:12 PM
6

This stuff kinda all makes sense. You don't have the right to make someone uncomfortable, so if you realize you are, leave them alone. If someone isn't into you, leave them alone.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 09:11 PM
1

Why?
/r/MensRights15/11/13 09:07 PM
1

Jesus Christ how are people 6'2" at 13? A lot of my friends started programming through video games, so he might like that
/r/MensRights15/11/13 09:07 PM
2

But what about getting stared at when you're dressed appropriately? That makes me feel worse when someone does that to me
/r/MensRights15/11/13 08:59 PM
4

Don't say that, I'm having flashbacks. My mom always told me "woman up" as a kid. She taught me that being a woman is being a grown adult, and I don't get to whine or be manipulative to get my own way haha
/r/MensRights15/11/13 08:51 PM
9

My marriage is not going to be about sticking it to the man, or equality. It'll be who I love, and can see a partnership with. To marry someone for their money (their excess or lack of it) is deeply insulting. I do think I currently make more money than my boyfriend, though.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 08:48 PM
3

You're well within your rights to break up with someone if they aren't willing to satisfy you. Put the relationship out of its misery and move on
/r/MensRights15/11/13 08:43 PM
2

Do you have a link to the news story? I know it's uncomfortable, but she should pump and let the dad feed her
/r/MensRights15/11/13 08:42 PM
1

Run along. Let the adults talk.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 06:03 AM
2

I think you're acting very paternalistic. You're not my mother, dear. I know my stance on things, I talk to people who are being unnecessarily hateful, and I've seen other people do it too. Do you have a point you'd like to make?
/r/MensRights15/11/13 02:53 AM
1

My dipshit friends in high school had something they called a "Roofie Race", where they all tried a half dose (I believe) of a roofie, and tried to walk across town. Not too smart, but now I associate roofies with that as well
/r/MensRights15/11/13 02:17 AM
1

I do think it's more important to have every OPTION open to everyone. I want my boyfriend to be able to be a stay at home date, and I want the option to be a coal miner, haha. I don't describe myself as an egalitarian, because I agree that forcing people into positions isn't going to work. My issue is that having a family is completely fucked in America. We should have more options open to working parents, and be more flexible with work schedules all over.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 02:15 AM
2

I want the men I love to have the same rights I do. Really, all men, but I definitely think about my boyfriend and my brother when I think about a lot of the issues that people talk about here. I don't always 100% agree with people here, but men's health needs more funding, and the child support/custody system is fucked. I deal with shit not being available in my size. I shut up and deal because it's not always a slap in the face, sometimes it's just economics.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 02:11 AM
2

You're an extremely transparent troll. You do know you're not helping feminism by acting unhinged, right?
/r/MensRights14/11/13 11:30 PM
2

You're the one being hateful all over here. You need to chill
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:57 PM
5

I believe they traced the ip address. He did this to be spiteful and punish her. His actions have consequences.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:50 PM
2

SHE'S the vindictive one? He put up nudes of her with her name and address. That's going to make finding a job a blast. You're trolling
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:49 PM
3

Those pictures will be out there in some form for the rest of her life. He chose to attach her name and address to them. He enabled strangers to see her naked and know where she lives. Hell yes that shit should be a felony
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:48 PM
1

I've had a cabby try to talk to me about his sex life, and how his wife doesn't put out any more. It made me uncomfortable as fuck. But it was just one cab driver out of the dozen or so I've taken.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:44 PM
1

You need to go to school and get your ged so you can get the fuck out of there. Talk to a career counselor at your school. The trades are huge right now, and emt school can be completed in a summer
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:40 PM
2

Do you really think a court is going to respond positively to a secret recording of sex?
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:34 PM
2

For real. This is not the best course of action, and I'd feel extremely violated if a dude filmed us having sex without my consent. It would probably actually make you look worse in court, because you could send the video out or put it up online to "punish" the girl if you get mad at her
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:34 PM
-1

Men need to form an aggressive campaign for men's health, year round. Women formed ones for themselves, now it's time for men to push to get the funding and attention they need
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:30 PM
1

My hands are exactly six inches, where it meets my wrist to my middle finger. I have tiny hands. I'm typing this off my galaxy s ii, that I selected because it was on sale, and it fit my hands. Christ, I even otterboxed it without an issue. My boyfriend has huge hands and sausage fingers. His giant fingers frequently hit two keys at once. It's stupid to act like you're being oppressed when a company is going to make their phones to fit the median demand.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:22 PM
2

Because there are no calendars or tumblrs of scantily clad women? what's the issue?
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:17 PM
3

Dude, was that Akon it happened to? That dude got fucking railroaded. If you meet someone in a 21 and over bar, you assume they're 21
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:15 PM
3

So start a charity that aggressively supports men's health. Call the hospital and ask them about a mailing for men's health. Don't sit home and whine that nothing is changing when you're not doing anything
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:11 PM
3

Dude. I know how you feel. It's ok to want women to not face sexual harassment in the workplace AND not want men to get fucked over in family court. There are definitely extremists on both sides. Your friends seem like assholes. Be careful that they don't gang up on you one day. egalitarianism seems like it's what you're looking for.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:08 PM
8

She's an admitted female supremacist, not a feminist.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:01 PM
15

Who the fuck abuses some kid they don't even know? I can't decide whether that's worse than a parent abusing their kid or not.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 02:19 AM
2

A guy says someone friendzoned him, and everyone leaps to calling her a selfish bitch. It may just be someone who politely told him she wasn't interested.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 05:36 PM
1

Yes, but it should be limited to strictly mean people that are using your affection to manipulate you into doing things. It shouldn't be applied to someone who just doesn't reciprocate your feelings
/r/MensRights13/11/13 05:18 PM
2

Yep! If you have a crush on someone, and they're taking advantage of your feelings, get out of that situation! If I know a guy has feelings for me, I casually remind him I'm seeing someone, don't ask him for favors I would normally ask a friend, make sure I pay for all my own shit, and make sure I'm not leading him on.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:31 PM
2

And unrequited feelings I have sympathy for. But when people moan about being "friendzoned", I have no patience with it. People don't owe you anything because you're nice to them. Friendzoning seems to be a way for people to guilt the object of their affections for not reciprocating
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:04 PM
3

Or if someone put gum in my hair. My hair is going to beautiful lengths to make wigs for kids with cancer. I have not dyed my hair or cut my hair in five years
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:38 PM
3

Dude, people are just getting fucking massive.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:37 PM
1

Ahh, I have two really reckless siblings, so I'm very cautious
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:34 PM
3

You can definitely be lonely, and that sucks. But you don't have a right to a partner
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:34 PM
2

I don't think it should be such a struggle for you to not refer to humans as semen receptacles. It's dehumanizing and obnoxious. You don't need to agree with their choices to call them people
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:54 AM
5

Hi everyone! This October, remember that not wearing a bra for a day, or cryptically telling everyone on Facebook what color your panties are will not help a single of the 39,620 women who die of breast cancer each year. Realize that pink-washing is a marketing tactic to use people's good nature to get you to buy something. Think about the fact that Susan G. Komen has trademarked "for the cure", and the color pink, and has sued smaller charities for using their trademarked phrases, while only pu…
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:26 AM
3

Oh believe me, that campaign infuriates me.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:21 AM
3

Oh, it's certainly not a fair rule. But it is a rule. When I was 17, and looking at colleges, I made sure to figure out the cost, my scholarships, my loans, and which was the most bang for my buck. I also made sure to know what could get federal aid yanked (not that I got a cent of that). You can be young and still look ahead.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:21 AM
3

Yeah, it's a "young" cancer
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:18 AM
1

I'm actually not sure. The purpose of the heat is to get the skin of the scrotum to relax
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:10 AM
1

Ok! If you feel a ropey bit, that's normal. Do it after a hot bath
/r/MensRights13/11/13 03:59 AM
0

Waaaaah, the object of my affections doesn't like me back! Is not a men's rights issue.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 03:49 AM
9

I knew that you could get prosecuted for adultery and sodomy, and I'm a civilian. No excuse. If you sign up for the military, do your research first.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 03:48 AM
2

And everyone needs to go to the dentist, because preventive care is so much less expensive than crowns and root canals and shit
/r/MensRights13/11/13 03:44 AM
-14

See, I think mistake shouldnt be used that way. There's making a mistake on a math test, and then cheating on someone you pledged to spend the rest of your life with. He's trying to minimize his actions. Saying "I made a mistake" is easier to say than "I betrayed my wife".
/r/MensRights13/11/13 03:38 AM
1

More likely the 16 year old girl would be ostracized from her peers, and no teacher would be willing to mentor them for fear of being accused. Where did you get the idea that it's all sunshine and puppies?
/r/MensRights13/11/13 03:32 AM
4

There's a huge gap of maturity and life experience between 16 and 21. I dated a man that was 23 when I was 17. I'm now 21, and can't understand looking at someone that young in a sexual way. I'm about to graduate college and have a career. They're thinking about prom. It's a really unbalanced relationship that lends itself to being fucked up and abusive
/r/MensRights13/11/13 03:31 AM
15

The military, which he signed up for voluntarily, can prosecute his for adultery. He knew this going into it and did it anyways. He's not a martyr, and certainly deserves to get charged for the adultery. The rape is another matter all together, and he shouldn't go down for that
/r/MensRights13/11/13 03:27 AM
1

Right? I'm a sociology minor because I'm lazy, and the citations are so chill. They may as well ask you to check a yes/no box to "do you think someone may have thought this at one time?"
/r/MensRights13/11/13 03:06 AM
3

Can we please stop treating actors like doctors? Jenny McCarthy isn't an expert on autism, and he isn't an expert on HPV. it's interesting that he smokes, but won't take any responsibility for that impacting his health.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 03:03 AM
5

He also talks about how "wimpy" men are because they don't talk to women at bars, then tells the women that real men are out there, "come find us". This article is a clusterfuck
/r/MensRights13/11/13 03:00 AM
2

Oh, there's that ropey bit on them too, that's normal.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:55 AM
1

I will never understand this mentality. You don't have a friend you could ask to knock you up or something?
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:52 AM
5

I had someone tell me that my sister couldn't have sexually abused me because a) she's my sister b) she's 18 months older than me and c) we're both female. It makes me furious when people think that women can't be abusers. We need to publicise this more
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:51 AM
4

Also, a lot of hospitals have gotten rid of orderlies, which is how a bunch of big football players got their first jobs. It's bullshit that they got rid of them at my mom's hospital while patients are exploding in size. My mom is an rn, and loves the male nurses who shadow her
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:44 AM
13

If a male sabotages a female's birth control, it should be rape and assault. Rape because she only consented to protected sex, and assault because she'll have to either abort or give birth If a female sabotages a male's birth control, it should be rape, theft, and extortion. Rape because he consented to protected sex only, theft because she stole his sperm, and extortion if she tries to use the baby for leverage for money or a relationship. This shit is not cute or funny and needs to stop.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:40 AM
3

Make sure to hold the rim of the condom while you pull out too.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:37 AM
5

Yeah, instead of long romantic date nights, in depth conversations about our future and what we both need, and the freedom to give each other space, I think something that cries and shits constantly is the best bet for our relationship. Babies are a trial by fire for a relationship. Christ.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:34 AM
1

Don't have irresponsible sex. If you're in a relationship, sprinkle condoms like they're fucking fairy dust between your place and your partner's place. Do things to minimize the risk, but understand that there's always risk
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:31 AM
1

But seriously, if you do not want children, make sure to wear a spermicidal condom that fits and you bought yourself so it can't be tampered with. I don't understand how some men can bear to leave the birth control all up to their partner, I would be panicked
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:29 AM
8

Huh. Weird. I thought I was the one that pursued my boyfriend, but I guess somehow it must have been reversed because I am so helpless when it comes to the strong menfolk. There are predatory females and males, and passive females and males. It's almost like individuals are different!
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:16 AM
11

Wow. I have waist length hair, and I would be livid if someone cut it. However, I'd be livid at whoever did it, not their whole race/gender
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:15 AM
-5

A mistake is if she tripped and fell on his dick. Because he chose to sleep with her, it can only be a decision he regrets. Mistakes have the connotation of innocence
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:07 AM
10

Damn straight! Men over 18 should be doing testicle checks
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:05 AM
1

How about you gentleman up, understand that he's being brave by talking about this and shut your goddamn trap if you can't be supportive or helpful?
/r/MensRights13/11/13 01:58 AM
5

Whenever I see data, I think about other ways it could be interpreted. My first though is that some dudes take TERRIBLE pictures. Women tend to know how to take pictures that make themselves look better than they are. I've seen some skinny male friends of mine have pictures with double chins that they do NOT have irl. I am female, but I tend to date people my friends don't think are attractive. I don't think I'm unrealistic. I'm a 4 or 5 looks wise, and date around there.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 01:47 AM
1

The tl; dr of that seems to be "if you murder someone, we'll charge you with murder". Says nothing about accessories Edit: I'm illiterate. I wonder if that's an after the fact or during, with conspiracy to commit
/r/MensRights12/11/13 11:18 PM
8

Fuck you for redditing during class and whining that you got caught. Grow up and pay attention
/r/MensRights12/11/13 08:19 PM
1

if you stay quiet, you're an accessory, after the fact. If you admit it, you turn stat'es evidence and get off
/r/MensRights12/11/13 07:56 PM
1

Sure, if you want the baby, we'll just put it in your uterus to carry to term.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 05:06 PM
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