rapunzelly Archive

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6	No, it's not morally justified for Mackenzie Bezos to receive half the wealth in the divorce. They made recent improvements to the pay structure, but still have sweatshop conditions where hand motions are monitored for maximum efficiency and people are afraid to use the bathroom. Saying "oh they agreed to it" is hand waving away obstacles like lack of other jobs in the area, costs of moving to a different area, the fact that Amazon is responsible for millions of "other jobs" being lost, etc. Also, is it OK for him to have branch swung?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/19 10:40 PM
4	No, it's not morally justified for Mackenzie Bezos to receive half the wealth in the divorce. A. Neither of them should be so rich, they should actually pay their workers fairly. B. The law is the law and he knowingly chose to cheat C. So when men branch swing it's OK? Where's that righteous indignation about cheating and cucking? Why aren't TRPers angry on behalf of MacKenzie, someone who acted EXACTLY the way they say women should.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/19 05:45 PM
1	Why is TRP gaming tactics so strict? My(20F) experience/opinions Something about your post reminds me of me... it's possible you're not as submissive as you think. I thought I was until a while into the relationship with my now husband when he said something casually about me being naturally dominant. I did a double take, he was surprised that I was surprised, and then shortly I realized he was totally correct. We both are very strong willed, so neither of us is really ruling the other, but my personality traits definitely fall on the side of gentle femdom. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/19 05:56 PM
2	Bipolar/BPD males Bipolar does not equal BPD (borderline personality disorder). This question does not compute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/18 04:40 AM
2	CMV: I feel like my personality is fundamentally unattractive to the archetypal female model of attraction and I essentially have to "fake" parts of my interactions with women I'm interested in to generate attraction Not just manage it to avoid being needy, but also so you are happier, for your own sake :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/18 11:46 PM
1	CMV: I feel like my personality is fundamentally unattractive to the archetypal female model of attraction and I essentially have to "fake" parts of my interactions with women I'm interested in to generate attraction It just takes time and practice to get better about that balance and about learning how to read the signals of the person you are talking to :) It sounds like you are very aware of the need for taking care of yourself emotionally and of acknowledging bad feelings openly, which is really good. I used to try to fight the depression or anger or whatever "bad" feelings I was feeling and that just ended up with me super stuck and lying to myself. If you are open with yourself about your feelings and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/18 07:39 PM
1	CMV: I feel like my personality is fundamentally unattractive to the archetypal female model of attraction and I essentially have to "fake" parts of my interactions with women I'm interested in to generate attraction When people say things like, "I'm too nice" or "I'm overly empathetic" it makes me nervous. I don't know you in real life so I can't really speak to who you actually are, but my guess is you've got some emotional hunger and some arrogance going on. Probably not to an awful degree, but maybe just enough to scare off the healthy people you want. Also it sounds like you may be doing the stereotypical nerd thing of wanting to tell the person everything about you up front, thinking that that is hones…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/18 05:39 PM
1	Do exclusively (100%) heterosexual women even exist? I think I'm one... never quite sure about it as I think I may be demisexual, so maybe I just haven't met a woman who makes me want to kiss her? I've had very deep friendships with women, though, and so far I've never wanted to sleep with another woman or do anything like that. It does seem rare, though. shrug.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/18 08:16 PM
1	Do you think there are "invisible women" the same way it can be argued "invisible men" exists? [AskTrp] Antisocial personality disorder is very different from the colloquial usage of "antisocial," FYI.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/17 05:30 AM
2	Q4Men: If you were a woman, how would you vet for a legitimately nice or good guy? I think by "good guy" you may be meaning more "healthy guy who can sustain a loving relationship that makes my life better, not worse," in which case what i did was: Learn that like attracts like and if I want a healthy person then I need to work on my own issues as much as possible. So I did. I put in a lot of hard work there. Read a lot of articles like this: http://heartless-bitches.com/rants/manipulator/redflaglist.shtml to weed out bad signs early. Watched to see how he reacted in arguments…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/17 06:50 PM
2	Is Donald Trump supposed to be sexually attractive according to TRP? Still fucking her? lol yeah right, not if you read their body language.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/17 03:59 AM
2	Q4W: If you had the chance, would you lose your virginity to president John F. Kennedy? Ew, no. And no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/17 08:58 PM
3	CMV: The female equivalent of a male incel is a rape victim. wtf, are you actually pointing at someone with all kinds of mental disorders (the kind you're BORN WITH), someone who was full of hate and psychopathic revenge fantasies, and saying that men turn into THAT if they don't have sex? I think men are, on the whole, way way way better at being people than you seem to think they are. I have all kinds of sympathy for incels. I used to be one. I had to realize I was making a lot of mistakes, have a mental breakdown, and rebuild my entire life from the gr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/16 10:23 PM
15	Q4 women: when you give LMR, do you really mean it, or do you want him to push through and take you? What is going through your mind when you give LMR? I don't speak for other women, but please review what I said - I did this only when I was a virgin. I also would NOT have slept with him if he had tried to coerce me into it. The fact that he respected me and my nos is a huge part of what gave me enough confidence to overcome my own LMR. *Edit: Oh, and why is it the woman who is hyper-analyzing in this situation? Why is it not the guy being impulsive and going on his emotions and not using his brain, which the woman is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/16 07:30 PM
12	Q4 women: when you give LMR, do you really mean it, or do you want him to push through and take you? What is going through your mind when you give LMR? I don't do that. The only time I had last minute resistance was in my first relationship, when I was simultaneously very turned on and very nervous about having sex for the first time. There was a lot going through my mind - "If we do this, will he want to stick around and do it again? Is he going to abandon me or will this last? If we do this, how do I deal with certain people maybe finding out and thinking less of me? What is his STD testing status? Does he want to be exclusive? Does he unders…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/16 06:34 PM
2	Anyone actually had a good experience while losing their virginity? My first time was pretty amazing, as a guy I'd wanted really really bad had decided he like me enough to chase me, for months. I was extremely crazy about him but also terrified, so it took a long time to work my way into it. It was an intense emotional experience, only a bit of discomfort, and I felt energetic and glowing when we were done. We went at it again an hour later. I was already in love with him and was surprised that having sex didn't make me feel more in love, though it was extremel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/16 02:41 AM
1	Girls, I have some questions for you. Are you single? No. What do you look for in a man? Kind, character of integrity, not lazy, attractive to me, thinks I'm hot, wants to build a life with me. Do you think men should pay for the Check when out on a date with you? Not really, but he usually does and usually is the one to suggest going out. I like to cook and save money that way, he likes the experience of eating out. Do you like chivalrous men? Do you believe in chivalry? Would you like it if a man opened the door for you, lent you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/16 08:31 PM
1	CMV: women cannot be attracted to overweight men at all, no matter what Then why do I constantly start the sexy times with my clinically obese boyfriend?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/16 08:18 PM
1	Q4W: Women of PPD, how hard was it to get your current SO to commit to you? How long did you date before clarifying exclusive commitment? We both, but especially me, wanted to do "due diligence" first, so though we discussed it plenty before being official, it took 3 months or so. Did you have sex first? No, but it was not easy to wait. Was it you who pushed for commitment or was it him? Really both of us. He asked me first, I guess, but I was the one who brought it up later like, "Want to be official now?" Is he significantly more or less attractive than you, or approx…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/16 06:34 AM
9	if all men are potential rapists, why do you hang out with people you wouldn't consent to having sex with? I suspect OP is an alien, or one of the lizard people. "If you are forced to have sex, it will at least be with someone you like." WTF? If I think back to the high water mark of absolute most quivering lust I've ever experienced in my life, if that person at that moment had raped me, it would have left me devastated and sick to my core and completely miserable. Me liking them before would just make me feel guilty that I liked such a terrible person and didn't realize they were capable of that. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/16 04:42 AM
1	Q4All: What's your biggest flaw? (AKA, What's one reason that it sucks to date you?) I'm a weird combination of clingy and introverted and I tend to seem standoffish to people when I'm really as sweet as a puppy. I've worked on my many flaws very hard and continue to, though the biggest thing my partner would like to change about me at the moment is not a flaw, just a preference. I dislike pill terminology, but I'm definitely not RP. The boyfriend and I have some very mutually beneficial personality quirks, which is awesome - things that would annoy other people make us great fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/16 11:18 PM
1	Are women are sexually repulsed by autistic men? I definitely sympathize and wish you well in learning how to compensate. I like the Unfuck Your Habitat website for ways to accomplish things despite challenges. If you were a close friend of mine, I'd probably offer to help you try the GAPS diet (I've done so for several people, by making the meal plan and doing most of the cooking, and each time it's made a big difference in health and/or mood issues), but whatever steps you take to build a better life for yourself, try to incorporate gratitud…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/16 03:58 AM
1	Are women are sexually repulsed by autistic men? I don't mock people, but having a sample size of one, where my first "relationship" was with a guy with Asperger, I would say that no, I am not attracted by autistic guys. Maybe we just weren't genetically suited... but even at the time, when I was extremely low in self esteem and desperate for a relationship AND had a suspicion I was autistic (I wasn't, just badly socialized homeschooler), I could not help noticing how there never seemed to be any genuine feeling for me. Like, I was a cool new …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/16 03:11 AM
3	I have little sympathy for womens body image issues From a purely utilitarian standpoint, here's why guys might want to feel sympathy for women's body image insecurities: It ties us up in mental knots and prevents a great deal of potential sex from happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/16 02:08 PM
2	What's your favorite body type? G7, F4-8, E2-7, D4-8, C2-9, B2-9, and A2-9 are all body types that I could get with, assuming I liked their personalities and respected their characters AND that they smelled good to me. Sadly, when I was dating, a lot of guys covered up their natural smell so much that I couldn't tell if I wanted to kiss them or not. Super ripped guys are a bit off putting - I think my fave look is F6 or C4.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 09:25 PM
1	[Question for all pills] How would you feel is someone had a crush on you? I'm actually in this situation at the moment, having just found out that someone who is not my boyfriend has a pretty big crush on me. I'm flattered, but it makes me worry for his feelings. I'm not at all used to "knowing" that people like me (I used to be very dumb about noticing this stuff so thought I was super ugly and repulsive because guys weren't hitting me over the head with signs saying PLZ GO OUT WITH ME), so any person thinking I'm cute is flattering, except for bad people/dirty old m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/16 01:35 AM
1	[Question for Women] What advice would you give the man who is in this deadbedroom? I would say he needs to burn his life to the ground. Realize that literally nothing will change her and he is worth more than this cruel life and should seek it out. If he prepares carefully (reading divorce advice blogs and personal finance blogs like mr money mustache) and is willing to do whatever it takes, he can get out and still have food and shelter and medical care for himself and son. If he's scared of being poor, well, lots of studies show that starting to have good sex regularly is eq…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/16 09:46 PM
1	Question to all women: What does a guy with no standards need to do to be a worthy partner? Drugs. If he has access to marijuana or harder stuff some girl somewhere will want to be with him and will think he's at least somewhat attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/15 08:03 PM
4	Does a higher/adventurous sex drive in women usually correlate with promiscuity? I'm pretty sure I exist, and I'm not promiscuous at.all. 1-3 are very much me, 4 would be me if I weren't concerned about my reputation. Thing is, poor old redpillers like to rule out gals like me instantly, because a. I'm overweight b. I love animals and c. you can't find me on the party scene. Also, I ruled out redpiller types since I looked very carefully for men who were kind, and found me a nice, sweet, kinky SJW man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/15 02:47 AM
1	BluePillers: If not by pretending to be someone you're not (by living TRP) - how do you overcome neediness. This is where I think TRP could have been a good thing, had they not gotten so muddled and hateful... the stuff about raising your SMV is quite useful for developing confidence and some interesting stuff to talk about. Learn. Get more fit. Work hard on stuff. Repeat. Breaking things into incremental steps is how you learn any skill, and it works for dating too. It's OK to be lonely and long for a relationship, and having been a very very late bloomer I'll tell you it has been worth all the work …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/15 07:13 PM
2	Question for both BP and RP: What was your parent's relationship like and how did it influence you? My parents married as Christian virgins and have had an unhealthy relationship almost the whole time. I think my dad wishes he could have played the field and my mom struggled really hard with trying to be a submissive wife when she is naturally a good manager and leader. Also, trying to be the "captain" was way too much stress for my dad. My siblings and I have all begged them to divorce but they are just to codependent even though they argue constantly. they also have a major stumbling block t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/15 06:34 PM
2	What would YOU do? Hmm, lots of flags of different colors in your post. I would say since you seem to like her to proceed but very slowly and with caution. Since she wants kids, if and when you decide you don't want them with her, then tell her asap so you don't steal years of her life. Otherwise, have fun and don't get your mind get clouded too much by the sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/15 08:44 PM
1	Q4BP Women: What ways have you ever wronged a partner and how did you make it up to them? Hmm.... a housekeeping issue? He was more conscientious about something than I was and it bothered him a lot. I made more of an effort and it's good now. We're pretty good to each other in general, though we've both worked very hard to learn how to relate healthily before even meeting each other, which helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/15 06:22 PM
3	Women: You are living in year 1800 in the US. There are no rules or customs preventing women from working or voting. 95% of the human population still working in the agriculture sector. What job will you pursue? Describe your life? Didn't say I was going to ride them. Also, if you looked hard enough back then you could find out how to limit your fertility. I can certainly breed and care for and do some training of horses while raising kids. In many ways it's a less labor- and attention-intensive occupation than a lot of the other occupations available then. *I do have lots of horse and livestock and some gardening experience and know what I'm talking about to a certain degree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/15 04:43 PM
3	Women: You are living in year 1800 in the US. There are no rules or customs preventing women from working or voting. 95% of the human population still working in the agriculture sector. What job will you pursue? Describe your life? In your scenario, I'd get married at the normal age to the guy I liked the best, have 2 or 3 kids, and breed horses as my main income while also raising other animals and crops for food.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/15 04:19 PM
4	BP: What's so wrong about masculinity? I'm perfectly ok with masculine traits and activities. Where I get grumpy is when guys feel pressured to be only macho, or start trying to control women because supposedly their man parts make them better, or when people associate masculinity with all kinds of negative things like wanton violence and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. I'm a girl and I enjoy a lot of stereotypically feminine things, including babies and cooking. As a feminist, I also enjoy the ambitious business things I do a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/15 03:46 PM
1	BPillers : Do you think TRPillers have the wrong idea about how your relationships are like? In my relationship, so far we have a consistent pattern of trying to defer to each other. He is naturally easy going but has firm principles and sticks to them and I am also principled, though maybe not easy going. I'm very ambitious so often get a bit stressed but don't tend to take it out on people. Anyway, we discuss things and in some things I "lead" by coming up with and carrying out ideas and in others he leads with his greater street smarts and determination. Trying to be exactly equal in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/15 05:31 AM
2	How different are we in real life? Do we live up to RP/BP stereotypes in hobbies, likes etc. ? I'm a girl. Stereotypically feminine facets: Cook healthy and rather nice tasting food all the time, including for my SO. Love babies. Long hair. Like frilly things and makeup. Very low partner count. Am generally a patient and relaxing person to be around, even according to people with serious anxiety disorders. No drugs or even alcohol. Like reading and being at home. When I'm lost or confused and ask for directions/help people tend to be very sweet and helpful and treat me like I'm younger th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/15 10:25 PM
1	Is it sexist or misogynist for a man to view himself as the prize in either short term or long term relationships? Having good self esteem and boundaries in a relationship is a great thing. You don't need all the other TRP stuff to get that, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/15 04:07 PM
5	Is it justifiable for someone to leave an otherwise good relationship because their sexual needs are not being met? Of course it's justified. And, you should do it before you get so bitter and resentful that it becomes a terrible ordeal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/15 05:36 PM
17	Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much? It is an unfortunately common insult in society. I don't think I've ever used it, and apologize for those in "my camp" who do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/15 05:35 PM
3	Blue Pill Women, would you identify as the exact opposite of AWALT, as defined by The Red Pill? I love questions like these, because I feel like my behavior my whole life has been pretty unicornish/RPW, but I strongly disagree with RP theories and am with a wonderfully KIND man. "-Would you stick it out with a guy regardless of his many flaws that show weakness, even if someone more attractive physicially and financially came along? Or would you trade up while rationalizing everything to be the man's fault? (AKA Hypergamy)" So far I've stayed with him! He ain't rich, he's not perfect, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/15 04:04 AM
6	If you had the ability to censor and delete TRP from Reddit, would you? No. Freedom of speech is important as is having the ability to debate different ideas. I realize that Reddit is not government-sanctioned and can thus censor as much as it wants, but for now I think it's healthier to have other people interacting with TRPers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/15 03:26 AM
1	The Pillosphere's Sexual Dilemma Heh, you sure that's "the reason?" I would have thought there were plenty of other possible reasons for the disparity, like tribal warfare and injuries incurred in hunting. I know of several tribes that were very very ancestral hunter-gatherer types less than 100 years ago and there was a LOT of killing going on. A large part of that was because of superstitions related to why bad things happened, that they were always caused by someone laying a curse, and that you had to fix the curse by killin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/15 02:35 AM
10	The Pillosphere's Sexual Dilemma Aw, ignore Plain Jane? Bummer, story of my life! LOL, but really, this brings up one of my quibbles with RP dogma. If (pretty) women (ugly ones are invisible and do not exist) are shallow animals who are ruining things by using their limitless options unwisely, why don't guys all just decide to go for the ignored women and deny the spoiled pretty women any attention? Why are women the only ones who can save us from inevitable doom by going against their biotroofs and imperatives? I mean, men are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/15 04:59 AM
7	The Pillosphere's Sexual Dilemma Please note, in that oft-cited link you posted the women SAID most men were not attractive but still went out with them, whereas men had a more even bell curve but only wanted to date the top third, which led to OKCupid creating a tiered system to even things out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/15 04:53 AM
3	SERIOUS REPLIES ONLY Things you've learned from PurplePillDebate Not sure I've learned anything exclusively from this sub, but I have become more aware of just how many lonely, frustrated, and insecure guys are out there. It makes me want to give out a bunch of hugs. It also makes me a little annoyed at myself taking so long to figure out dating when there were a lot of guys who would have been happy to go out with me - I went through a lot of unnecessary loneliness and self-hatred and I do think that sometimes men are unwittingly causing their own obstacles …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/15 12:26 AM
2	Could I get PPD's thoughts on a recent occurence in my personal life? Or maybe she likes you but is super shy? I always came off as an ice queen at that age due to simple, but strong, fear. Don't worry about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/15 05:49 AM
2	Empathy and the Red Pill [X-post from askTRP] It sounds like you have a good understanding that there is a problem - By the way, I totally agree with what you said here: "I think romantic relationships bring out the hidden fucked up shit all people have though..." It's so true! I would recommend you check out Natalie Lue's blog. She speaks to women, but the advice is pretty equally applicable to guys as well, as she does a lot of thoughtful posts inviting you to think, and allow yourself to feel emotions, and basically models healthy behavi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/15 05:12 AM
5	The Red Pill doesn't advertise. What's your screening strategy? I'm empowered and sex positive, but I don't have one-night stands. I don't sleep with a guy until I've known him for months, I've seen recent STD test results, and I think we have long-term potential. If I did want to sleep around, I can think of ways to screen against jerks in general, TRPers included, but not going to reveal them - duh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/15 12:04 AM
1	Blue pillers, can you write a few paragraphs giving a brief overlay of red pill theory such that I would believe that a red piller wrote it? Hmmm.... "Red Pill is a response to a current state of affairs in much of the world where women have a majority of the power when it comes to sex and relationships, such that guys are more lonely and more frustrated than they were in previous times. Many guys can't get sex at all, and the ones who can are often still more miserable in their relationships than happy. The reasons for this have a lot to do with feminism, which started out as a logical attempt to make life better for women, but as a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/15 05:34 AM
0	Men are romantics pretending to be realists; women are realists pretending to be romantics Your title is actually something I agree with, with a minor quibble that I don't think it's so much pretending as believing/masquerading as... It really surprised me when I discovered how much more guys want to be able to do romantic gestures than I thought they did, and how easy it is to manipulate guys with the promise of emotional things, like on a meta level all the young guys over millennia who have charged off to battle in search of fame and glory or on a personal level how, as someone who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/15 05:46 PM
2	BP'ers, how do we know that most of your dislike of TRP isn't just some irrational emotional reaction? So? Red Pillers talk a lot about being Manly Men Who Get Stuff Done, unlike women, who just leach off Men. Red Pillers also talk about how sad it is that nobody cares enough to start shelters for men who need it, why do women get all the shelters? Meanwhile, I have been following Red Pill stuff for several years and I keep wondering more and more if Red Pillers actually care about male victims of violence at all. Seriously, there has got to be enough lawyers and doctors and psychiatrists among y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/15 09:17 PM
1	BP'ers, how do we know that most of your dislike of TRP isn't just some irrational emotional reaction? Tiny community... theredpill has over 100,000 subscribers, which I have seen bragged about frequently. There are thousands of people reading blogs and watching videos. I just spent a couple minutes googling - according to abbyshouse.org/shelter it takes about $160,000 a year to run their busy women's shelter. If each of the subscribers of just r/theredpill donated $1.60 per year you could have one shelter. Someone needs to be a leader and start one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/15 08:51 PM
3	BP'ers, how do we know that most of your dislike of TRP isn't just some irrational emotional reaction? re: one point, shelters for men - I would love it if people started some. I'm not in a position to, but would donate occasionally and be happy if one started up. After so many years of the manosphere complaining about this, why haven't y'all done a fundraiser and started one? Or several?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/15 08:33 PM
4	BP'ers, how do we know that most of your dislike of TRP isn't just some irrational emotional reaction? I think we're actually agreeing here... as a woman, and a very ambitious and strong-willed woman, it was extremely hard to grow up and constantly be trying to form myself into the mold of the submissive, sweet girl. I also saw that the women who were most in favor of that model actually tended to be covertly very abusive and controlling. Allowing myself to own my power and be a strong person with strong opinions has been far healthier for me and everyone close to me. ETA: Part of being empowered…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/15 06:52 PM
8	BP'ers, how do we know that most of your dislike of TRP isn't just some irrational emotional reaction? Of course some of the opposition is more emotional than intellectual argument. As to where my opposition comes from, it's strongly felt but based on having been raised Red Pill. Not even kidding. Strongly religious parents and environment, everyone trying to see who could be more conservative... and it didn't work to help anyone be happier or more successful. The rigid gender roles were extremely harmful, it was hard for people to empathize with each other through all the rules, and while marria…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/15 04:36 PM
8	Feminists and Bluepillers need to stop hanging their hat on this notion of "sexual objectification" I'm not sure exactly what you're trying to say here... is it that objectification is okay because the whole and entire point of a romantic relationship is the sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/15 04:41 AM
2	Question for BP women: You see a guy in class you are REALLY attracted to but too scared to approach. After class, you walk back to your dorm. Suddenly, a masked man comes out of nowhere and rapes you. Cops later catch the man and it turns out to be the guy in class you liked. Do you press charges? I guess I fit into the BP side of things... I would absolutely press charges. I have lost longstanding crushes simply on learning that the guy had a bad character trait, was now in a relationship, or had some very different opinion than I did about something important to me, so why in hell would I feel like, "Oh yay, this guy I thought was cute had sex with me - without giving me a choice."? I'd be humiliated I ever liked anything about him and out for blood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/15 03:36 AM
3	How do you feel about Lena Dunham? Do you look up to her? I've never even seen a clip of the show, but my opinion of her before even the molestation scandal has always been that she is a narcissist and all around terrible person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/15 09:30 PM
3	How is men who disagree with feminists being labelled "virgins, neckbeards, woman-haters/misogynists, etc" different from feminists being "fatties, butch lesbians or women who don't shave their legs for years, etc"? It's not different. They're both wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/15 05:38 AM
1	[CMV] BP obsesses over RP's N count view because they know they are damaged goods I dunno... I dislike the extreme focus on N, though I agree that promiscuous people of either gender are probably not ideal for long-term commitments. I'm kinda a unicorn with my number, though, being a lifetime total of 2 at 30+ years old, so I guess there wouldn't be much pressure on me to be insecure about it even if I were unfortunate enough to date a TRPer. I think I personally would feel lousy if I tried to have casual sex, so I've avoided it, but I don't assume that means everyone who has…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/15 04:12 AM
3	Are Asian/Indian men unwelcome at both TRP and TBP? I'm not sure why you think a girl complaining about her brother turning into an angry loser means that "Blue Pillers" as a whole dislike Asians/Indians. When I was single I went on dates with guys from quite a few ethnicities. Never had an Indian or Asian guy ask me out, but I have a fellow feminist friend who is very happy with a Laotian (I think) guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/15 12:17 AM
1	PPD advice I used to talk the ears off my friends and family about it. Journaling also helps. Make sure you're putting in your best effort and continously improving at what you know to improve on, but learn to show yourself the same kindness you would to a buddy who was having trouble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/15 12:00 AM
3	Blue Pillers, how do you ensure you're not cheated on in an LTR? I originally heard of RP stuff years back when I realized my social deficiencies were keeping me single. I'm a woman, btw. I went looking for pretty much everything I could find on the internet related to romantic relationships and all the ins and outs, from catching someone's eye onward. (I was raised by parents who are not neurotypical, and isolated by religious and other factors, so had to catch up on a lot of basic stuff). All that to say, I have a LOT of sympathy for so-called average chump…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/15 11:52 PM
2	"There's no such thing as a self-made woman." Exactly what I came here to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/15 07:20 PM
1	Question for all Pills: Jealousy and Sexuality I haven't had either happen to me, so this is somewhat theoretical, but I believe I would dump someone immediately for either one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/15 04:13 PM
0	BPW/RPW: Why don't women like being put on a pedestal by men? As a man, I'd LOVE to be admired and worshiped by girls, so why don't women like being put on a pedestal? I think there are a lot of reasons for this phenomenon. I agree that it does exist, also, but disagree with red pillers on the reasons why and on the idea that it's mostly women who refuse people for that reason. It starts with attachment theory. Please look it up, but basically there is secure attachment style/ability and insecure attachment, which is divided into anxious/preoccupied and avoidant attachment style. About 60% of the population is secure and the rest are insecure. The sad thing is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/14 11:38 PM
2	Do you believe sluts and alpha males' resistance to mate with neckbeard incels and fatties, respectively, is evolution's way of weeding out the obesity gene? I really really doubt there is an obesity gene, or several. If you look up the Human Gut project and the Minnesota Starvation Experiment you'll learn a lot about the actual reasons for why so many people are so fat nowadays AND why it is so difficult to change.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/14 01:43 AM
4	What are your parents like? I'm kind of a mix of pills myself. I acknowledge some truth in certain observations on RP but lean more blue... My parents are extremely religious - like, very very dedicated. Me and my siblings were raised in the quiverfull homeschool movement, which is a movement that red pillers would like a lot. Except, it sucks for everyone involved in it, and that includes the men. I grew up watching my parents try to force themselves into gender roles they didn't fit, trying to suppress all kinds of parts…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/14 07:11 AM
0	Straight women with less than 3 partners, how much do you care about your man's sexual partner count? Another thing which makes all those "biotruths" iffy is the number of cultures which were matrilineal. Many tribes and cultures have had different family forms than we do now - it was common for children's male figure to be their mother's brother, and he was responsible for teaching them manly stuff. In those cultures there might be loose arranged marriage (i.e., practice of marrying second cousin, for exampled) but there would be festivals when everyone would wife swap for a few days, or people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/14 04:53 PM
5	Straight women with less than 3 partners, how much do you care about your man's sexual partner count? Some. I care about quite a few factors, like how long he dated them, if he was careless and ended up with an accidental kid, if he has any STDs, etc. I would not knowingly date someone who had a lot of one night stands or extremely short relationships even if he had also been in one or more LTRs. Fortunately I like nerdy guys who think about things a lot before doing them, and before sleeping with each of the two guys I've been with I asked them to get tested (second one I got tested also) to ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/14 04:18 AM
1	What are your personal criteria for a potenrial partner in an LTR? I have to respect him. If I don’t think he’s a good person, I lose any attraction for him. (Aside: I have odd taste in men – meatheads do very little for me, my first love was 5’5” and slightly pudgy and I was crazy about his looks, my current and hopefully forever love is slightly taller than me and powerfully built but not in a chiseled way. I may be demisexual, as just about every time I’ve had a crush on a celebrity it only really developed after I read an interview and thought the guy seeme…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/14 03:06 AM
6	Question for BP: Have you witnessed first-hand in real life, examples of the Red Pill appearing to have truth behind it? If so, what makes you stick with being BP/anti-Red Pill, despite witnessing Red Pill behavior from men/women in real life? Props to you for being cool about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/14 06:07 AM